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Posted by S. Bacchus (# 17778) on
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On a previous thread, I somewhat naughtily said the following:
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
but my impression has always been that 'Pioneer Ministry' is (to paraphrase a Fry and Laurie sketch about the SAS) less of a reality on the ground and more of masturbatory aid for aging archdeacons and balding bishops who want to prove they're 'still with it'. The same is broadly true, although perhaps to a lesser extent, of 'Fresh Expressions' (which is conclusively and damning discussed by the Rev'd Prof. Alison Millbank, a brilliant theologian who also happens to be a woman and ordained).
I say 'somewhat naughtily' because my phrasing was, if I'm honest, meant in part to shock and also because I have absolutely no experience of 'Fresh Expressions'. There are certainly none where I live.
Frankly, I have little idea about what's meant by the term. From an (breathlessly adulatory) Mystery Worshiper, it looks like a pretty standard CofE liturgy plus a bit of technology, some rather middle class attempts at being multicultural (which definitely sound open to accusations of cultural appropriation). I can't help but feel it's just window dressing aimed at a very specific demographic (evidently middle class, white baby boomers). I seem to remember the correspondent for the Church Times was unimpressed.
Now, fine, if people want to do that sort of thing, then I'm sure it's the sort of thing they'll want to do. But it doesn't seem likely that it's going to set the church ablaze.
The Church of England is liturgically very broad. I myself find a wide range of liturgical styles very helpful and moving, from the traditional Anglo-Catholic Pontifical High Mass down to a BCP said service in tippet and surplice (by way of such variations as the modern Catholic concelabrated mass, the MOTR Cathedral Eucharist, and even the much-derrided 'folk mass'). I also adore choral mattins and like a nice hymn sandwich from time to time. I short, there's not much liturgical variety in the Church of England of which I have not taken part. I've been to services in London where a (predominately Jamaican congregation) sang the ordinary of the mass accompanied by steel drums, and I've been to 'jazz Evensong'. I've even sung one or two worship choruses ( I may even have enjoyed them ).
Given this huge variety, I'm not sure what Fresh Expressions is meant to add that isn't there already. I suppose that's not too much of a problem, but I do have two further concerns:
1. Fresh Expressions seems fetishized at the expense of the ministry of normal 'parochial' and chaplaincy clergy, who after all do the overwhelming majority of ministry in the Church of England. of the
2. I feel that Fresh Expressions is meant to engage the young. It doesn't. They're not interested in it. I'm in my twenties myself, and I feel reasonably confident in saying that young people either go to church or don't,* and that those that do overwhelmingly go to 'normal' parish churches (often higher than average, in fact). I know far more ordinands than can possibly be healthy (seriously, is everyone being ordained these days?) and none of them are training for 'Pioneer Ministry' (does this really exist, I've seen zero evidence for it).
Am I missing some Damascene insight on this issue?
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*There is an additional category of young people who have some connection Christianity but don't go to church. In my experience, though, they're not likely to be good candidates for Fresh Expressions given that the churches with which they identify (but to which they do not go), are in more or less descending order, the Roman Catholic Church, MOTR to highish Anglicanism, the Eastern Orthodox Church, and Welsh Chapel/Northern English Non-conformism.
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Posted by Vade Mecum (# 17688) on
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It's right-on masturbatory aid for certain clergymen. It's good for nothing but destroying or denigrating the parish ministry.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Meanwhile, a FE church has managed to keep me, Mrs Backslider and the kids within the church when we'd nearly given up.
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
Posted by pererin (# 16956) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Meanwhile, a FE church has managed to keep me, Mrs Backslider and the kids within the church when we'd nearly given up.
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
So why don't you explain what it is about FE that engages you and your wife and your children?
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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I will, when I've calmed down a bit after Vade's insulting shite.
Posted by Zappa (# 8433) on
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Calming down would be a good idea all round. Discuss the matter in hand or call elsewhere. Engagement with the topic would be a fine idea ... or I shall say some most unecclesiastinculated things.
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In the meantime I shall try to sort my way through the UBB of the OP
And, no, I'm not speaking in a foreign tongue.
Posted by Zappa (# 8433) on
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Nope. Sorry. That UBB cocktail is beyond me. Perhaps the OP can PM me if he has any indication where his "somewhat naughty" quote appears. Or doesn't.
Posted by ptarmigan (# 138) on
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"Fresh Expressions" probably manifests differently in different dioceses, but it seems to me to be a desparate attempt by bishops who see falling congregations to deploy clergy to something novel and different and off the wall and totally unproven with no track record in the desparate hope it may prove popular. So parishes are being starved of clergy and meanwhile a whacky young clergyperson can set up some nonsensical and improbably non-parish-based ministry, with no accountability to a PCC, no parish duties such as weddings an dfunerals and nursing homes an dschools, and become the bishop's blue-eyed boy (or girl) based purely in hype and self report of "innovation" and "rechaing the unreached".
Posted by ptarmigan (# 138) on
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"Fresh Expressions" probably manifests differently in different dioceses, but it seems to me to be a desparate attempt by bishops who see falling congregations to deploy clergy to something novel and different and off the wall and totally unproven with no track record in the desparate hope it may prove popular. So parishes are being starved of clergy and meanwhile a whacky young clergyperson can set up some nonsensical and improbably non-parish-based ministry, with no accountability to a PCC, no parish duties such as weddings an dfunerals and nursing homes an dschools, and become the bishop's blue-eyed boy (or girl) based purely in hype and self report of "innovation" and "rechaing the unreached".
Posted by Garasu (# 17152) on
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Originally posted by Zappa:
Nope. Sorry. That UBB cocktail is beyond me. Perhaps the OP can PM me if he has any indication where his "somewhat naughty" quote appears. Or doesn't.
I think he's referring to this
Posted by Vade Mecum (# 17688) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Meanwhile, a FE church has managed to keep me, Mrs Backslider and the kids within the church when we'd nearly given up.
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
If it had actually contributed to your progress in the Church, we might expect less doubt about the virgin birth, the resurrection of Christ, and the Real Presence... As it is, I can only imagine it's stroking your spiritual ego, or equivalent.
This is one of the problems with FE: it's usually (not often, but too frequently to be an accident) devoid of any sense of theology or ecclesiology, and very light on doctrine or catechesis. What began as a (slightly sad and retrograde) attempt to return people (quite rightly) to the Church became instead the fatuous "new way of being Church" (a phrase to loath for its grammar if nothing else), to the detriment of Parish life and an ordered understanding of the Church.
Much of which is admirably counter-attacked in Andrew Davison and Alison Milbank, "For the Parish: A Critique of Fresh Expressions"
Posted by Garasu (# 17152) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
If it had actually contributed to your progress in the Church, we might expect less doubt about the virgin birth, the resurrection of Christ, and the Real Presence... As it is, I can only imagine it's stroking your spiritual ego, or equivalent.
Good to know that participation in the "mainstream" church contributes so obviously to the development of humility, charity and generosity of spirit...
Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Meanwhile, a FE church has managed to keep me, Mrs Backslider and the kids within the church when we'd nearly given up.
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
If it had actually contributed to your progress in the Church, we might expect less doubt about the virgin birth, the resurrection of Christ, and the Real Presence... As it is, I can only imagine it's stroking your spiritual ego, or equivalent.
This is one of the problems with FE: it's usually (not often, but too frequently to be an accident) devoid of any sense of theology or ecclesiology, and very light on doctrine or catechesis. What began as a (slightly sad and retrograde) attempt to return people (quite rightly) to the Church became instead the fatuous "new way of being Church" (a phrase to loath for its grammar if nothing else), to the detriment of Parish life and an ordered understanding of the Church.
Much of which is admirably counter-attacked in Andrew Davison and Alison Milbank, "For the Parish: A Critique of Fresh Expressions"
Not really. New ways of being church isn't just an Anglican thing, other denominations are doing it too. FE was never intended to be a replacement for traditional church, more of a supplement to it - for those who wanted / needed something different to mainstream church. When you've stopped sneering, it's worth bearing in mind that many of the people who attend FE type things wouldn't be in church otherwise. As long as God is worshipped in spirit and truth, does it matter how?!
Tubbs
Posted by Thurible (# 3206) on
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Tubbs, I think that your "in spirit and truth" are precisely where VM's objections come from here.
Thurible
Posted by Rev per Minute (# 69) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Meanwhile, a FE church has managed to keep me, Mrs Backslider and the kids within the church when we'd nearly given up.
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
If it had actually contributed to your progress in the Church, we might expect less doubt about the virgin birth, the resurrection of Christ, and the Real Presence... As it is, I can only imagine it's stroking your spiritual ego, or equivalent.
This is one of the problems with FE: it's usually (not often, but too frequently to be an accident) devoid of any sense of theology or ecclesiology, and very light on doctrine or catechesis. What began as a (slightly sad and retrograde) attempt to return people (quite rightly) to the Church became instead the fatuous "new way of being Church" (a phrase to loath for its grammar if nothing else), to the detriment of Parish life and an ordered understanding of the Church.
Much of which is admirably counter-attacked in Andrew Davison and Alison Milbank, "For the Parish: A Critique of Fresh Expressions"
Are we trying to bring people to Christ, or to theology? If people don't come to traditional services, why not try new types of services? The resources may or may not be excessive, but I doubt that redirecting the various Fresh Expressions clergy to parishes would solve the crisis of parish and rural ministry.
Posted by Bostonman (# 17108) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
This is one of the problems with FE: it's usually (not often, but too frequently to be an accident) devoid of any sense of theology or ecclesiology, and very light on doctrine or catechesis. What began as a (slightly sad and retrograde) attempt to return people (quite rightly) to the Church became instead the fatuous "new way of being Church" (a phrase to loath for its grammar if nothing else), to the detriment of Parish life and an ordered understanding of the Church.
You're presenting a ridiculous false zero-sum fight between Fresh Expressions and True Parish Church, in which Fresh Expressions is stealing away members from TPC. Karl is suggesting that, for some people, it's really between Fresh Expressions and No Church; True Parish Church won't happen for them. Some might at least hope that there's an eventual FE -> TPC move, in a way that there won't really be a No Church -> TPC move for most people.
Others would say that Christian worship is Christian worship, and that it's better than no worship at all, no matter what its precise form.
Posted by dj_ordinaire (# 4643) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Meanwhile, a FE church has managed to keep me, Mrs Backslider and the kids within the church when we'd nearly given up.
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
If it had actually contributed to your progress in the Church, we might expect less doubt about the virgin birth, the resurrection of Christ, and the Real Presence... As it is, I can only imagine it's stroking your spiritual ego, or equivalent.
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Woah, woah, woah.
Vade Mecum, you have just been told by my co-Host Zappa to restrict yourself to debating the matter at hand. This attack on another poster's faith is completely inappropriate for Ecclesiantics.
When you signed up for the Ship, you agreed to abide by the Ten Commandments - I suggest you take a read of them, with particular reference to numbers 3, 5 and 6.
The rest of you - please keep the personal attacks for Hell and kindly refrain from being tempted to 'junior host'.
Any further mud-flinging will be brought before Adminly attention.
Now, if it is possible, perhaps we can return to a civil discussion to the place of 'Fresh Expressions' in the worship of the Church.
Thank you.
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Posted by Jengie Jon (# 273) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Meanwhile, a FE church has managed to keep me, Mrs Backslider and the kids within the church when we'd nearly given up.
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
If it had actually contributed to your progress in the Church, we might expect less doubt about the virgin birth, the resurrection of Christ, and the Real Presence... As it is, I can only imagine it's stroking your spiritual ego, or equivalent.
Sorry do not buy. There are more liturgically traditionalist Catholic Anglicans who are liberal way beyond that theologically and not into Fresh Expressions as there are people in Fresh Expression.
Indeed I am beginning to wonder if we have
conservative theology= inculturated worship
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liberal theology= traditional worship
Jengie
Posted by Vade Mecum (# 17688) on
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Originally posted by Bostonman:
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
This is one of the problems with FE: it's usually (not often, but too frequently to be an accident) devoid of any sense of theology or ecclesiology, and very light on doctrine or catechesis. What began as a (slightly sad and retrograde) attempt to return people (quite rightly) to the Church became instead the fatuous "new way of being Church" (a phrase to loath for its grammar if nothing else), to the detriment of Parish life and an ordered understanding of the Church.
You're presenting a ridiculous false zero-sum fight between Fresh Expressions and True Parish Church, in which Fresh Expressions is stealing away members from TPC. Karl is suggesting that, for some people, it's really between Fresh Expressions and No Church; True Parish Church won't happen for them. Some might at least hope that there's an eventual FE -> TPC move, in a way that there won't really be a No Church -> TPC move for most people.
Others would say that Christian worship is Christian worship, and that it's better than no worship at all, no matter what its precise form.
I don't contend for one moment that FE steals people (clerical or lay) away from Parish ministry (though it may very well do): rather that it saps energy, imagination and intellectual manpower, draining it away from revitalisation of the liturgy, of parochial ministry, of the clerical calling, and drains it into a great sink-hole which, to mix metaphors, is indeed a blind alley leading nowhere.
And this is, as Thurible discerns so succinctly, the problem I have (I am far from alone, it seems): what began as Fresh Expression of Church is now usually just Fresh Expressions - a linguistic mirror of the emptiness of so many of these benighted enterprises, too often novel for the sake of novelty.
Were we not so fixated on these bright and eminently sell-able baubles, we might stand a chance of renewal, rather than further the idea that the Anglican Church (I confess I now absolutely nothing of other FE expressions in other communions) doesn't really believe in anything, or matter much, or is capable of shaking anything out of its complacency. Which is frustrating.
Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on
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Originally posted by Thurible:
Tubbs, I think that your "in spirit and truth" are precisely where VM's objections come from here.
Thurible
But where would you draw that particular line?! It has to be based on something more meaningful than worship I like is whilst worship I don't isn't.
Tubbs
Posted by Vade Mecum (# 17688) on
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dj_ordinaire: right you are. Ceasing and desisting.
Unreserved apologies to KLB for that paragraph. It really was too much.
Posted by Curiosity killed ... (# 11770) on
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I suspect it does rather depend on what you are calling Fresh Expressions. I was surprised to hear a number of long running outreach initiatives described as Fresh Expressions by someone on placement whilst exploring their vocation. He included
- the pram service - which deliberately fed into the church services;
- the monthly support group for bereaved following funerals;
- youth work in the community (I really questioned this one)
He missed seeing the Beer and Bible bible reading group that's based in a pub - a monthly group who choose to meet in a pub. I *think*, but am not sure, that they meet in an upstairs room, not in the bar.
I do wonder about some Fresh Expressions. I went to Applecart when it ran regularly in a pub. My impression of those attending was that they, like me, had attended church in the morning and it wasn't reaching unchurched people it was hoping to.
Posted by gog (# 15615) on
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Can I just put in a reminder that Fresh Expressions (FE) under it's formal banner extends beyond the CofE, and that for others involved with FE (as for some within the CofE), there is not a do trad or FE it is more often do both.
Also I think that FE is a label that has brought together a lot of things that might have been happening otherwise, such as those that Curiosity killed ... lists. What I think the label allows is some working together on things.
Also going back to the OP, I don't think there is a Damascus road thing here. And for some it is the latest fashion accessory that is the must have. However for some idea about what it is http://www.freshexpressions.org.uk/ might be a source.
[ 10. September 2013, 21:31: Message edited by: gog ]
Posted by South Coast Kevin (# 16130) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
...the fatuous "new way of being Church" (a phrase to loath for its grammar if nothing else), to the detriment of Parish life and an ordered understanding of the Church...
As I take part in discussions here and as I work through the theology course I'm doing, it seems ever clearer to me that ecclesiology is at the root of many, many disagreements. In contrast to Vade Mecum, I love the phrase 'new way of being church'; for me it perfectly encapsulates how 'church' is something we are, not something we do.
A church is a group of people, so a 'fresh expression' of church is simply a group of people being church together in a non-traditional way. And as others have said already, that's exactly what some people need in order for them to get involved in a church. So Fresh Expressions is IMO something to celebrate (along with other endeavours that look similar but don't come under the F.E. banner).
Posted by NatDogg (# 14347) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
So you know what you can do with your ignorant and judgemental bullshit, don't you? Fuck off.
Well, there is a "fresh expression" for you.
Posted by S. Bacchus (# 17778) on
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Originally posted by Curiosity killed ...:
He included
- the pram service - which deliberately fed into the church services;
- the monthly support group for bereaved following funerals;
- youth work in the community (I really questioned this one)
He missed seeing the Beer and Bible bible reading group that's based in a pub - a monthly group who choose to meet in a pub. I *think*, but am not sure, that they meet in an upstairs room, not in the bar.
Well, those all sound like good things. I share your confusion about what exactly makes them special as 'Fresh Expressions', though.
And I have to say that I agree with Vade Mecum and disagree with SCK: the construction 'being Church' drives me mad. It seems like an attention seeking disregard for normal English usage, and I can't imagine it ever sounding natural coming from anybody.
Posted by SvitlanaV2 (# 16967) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
I don't contend for one moment that FE steals people (clerical or lay) away from Parish ministry (though it may very well do): rather that it saps energy, imagination and intellectual manpower, draining it away from revitalisation of the liturgy, of parochial ministry, of the clerical calling, and drains it into a great sink-hole which, to mix metaphors, is indeed a blind alley leading nowhere.
And this is, as Thurible discerns so succinctly, the problem I have (I am far from alone, it seems): what began as Fresh Expression of Church is now usually just Fresh Expressions - a linguistic mirror of the emptiness of so many of these benighted enterprises, too often novel for the sake of novelty.
I'm a firm believer in having diverse forms of church, because we need to have many different ways to help people to learn about Jesus and to start to worship him. I'd love to find a suitable FE that I could commit to.
However, I agree that there are issues regarding resources and manpower. FEs are usually started and funded by individual congregations, which means that only very well-heeled congregations in nice areas will do so, because only they can afford to divert manpower and funds for this purpose. This isn't always true, but it seems relatively common from what I've seen and heard. Yet poorer areas often have a greater need. I'd prefer individual congregations to be encouraged to invest in their own transformation, because this would be more generally affordable. Harder to do, though.
I don't know to what extent FEs suffer from an evacuation of Christian spiritual content. It seems harsh accuse them of this without proof! My impression is that some of them intend to function as independent congregations on a permanent basis, whereas others are set up with the hope of eventually channelling people towards more traditional worship. The latter probably have somewhat less Christian content. I think the former is a more authentic FE approach.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Right. Calmed down. Sorry Zappa, Vade. Ironically, our church exists on Bookface as a significant part of its community activity, and this very morning as is our Community Development Worker writes:
"When somebody's actions or attitude frustrates or grates on you and the anger rises, do not respond in kind. Instead, consider the exacerbation you would cause, the division you would create.
In all things let Christ be known and let him be seen."
So much for feeding my ego.
So let me tell you a story. Some background information might be useful; from a charismatic evangelical start I'd migrated up the candle and across the theological spectrum to liberal Anglo-Catholic, and for my part was quite comfortable there, and by happy coincidence that was the position of the parish church. It was a bit awkward socially; at 35 (at the time we started there) I was the second youngest there by about twenty years; Mrs Backslider was the youngest, but church isn't a social club, we said, so that shouldn't matter that much. Nevertheless, I never quite felt part of the community; I put that down to me being me and, if not actually on the Austistic Spectrum, at least shall we say "differently wired", and Mrs Backslider being from a free church background and never really feeling properly Anglican.
Then we bred.
Naturally enough, church with a baby is, well, church with a baby. Let it not be said that the congregation were in any way negative about this. And the babies became children, and they were fractious in services, and there was no Sunday School.
Not to worry; we formed one, with some people from another church in the Benefice. It was only twice a month, and we had to run it one of those Sundays, but it did mean that at least sometimes we had the opportunity to concentrate on the service.
In order to "fill in the gaps" in the month, as it were, on an experimental basis we started an all-age service on the First Sunday, where we replaced the sermon with a more interactive approach with stories and quizzes and so on and pared the wordy liturgy to the minimum the rubrics allowed. This worked quite well; it wasn't "dumbed down" for the adults, but some of the barriers for children were lowered.
Then the Rector retired. During the interegnum the pattern was suspended and there were no all-age services, although the Sunday School carried on. However, this ran into difficulties - we discovered that our children behaved perfectly for the other team running their work, but played up for us. After trying various strategies, we were then told by one of the other team (each team had only two people in it) that she had had enough (as a schoolteacher I think it was just too much to do it on a Sunday as well) which left us with a gap. And around the same time we also concluded that we couldn't carry on running sessions as a couple because the dynamic with the group largely being our children (there were our three and one from each of the other two leaders) wasn't working.
Around this time the new Rector started. He didn't immediately restart the all-age worship. He understood the problems the Sunday School were having, and proposed a re-launch as a Junior Church with a bit more formality. However, there was a snag.
No-one came forward to lead it. We needed one person to make up the four so that we could split along different lines and continue to run the work. But there was no fourth person.
Then we turned up one Sunday when we were under the impression someone had been found to do the Junior Church, to learn that no-one had, and it had been cancelled. Ended. No more. Even though I was on the PCC I knew nothing of this. But there it was.
The church in the neighbouring parish does have a running Sunday School, but has its own problems - a wide age range from 3 to 13 (only about half a dozen actual children) all in one group, with activities geared to the youngest. With our older children rapidly learning to loathe church we needed something more engaging for them. I know lots of people find their children actually prefer the main service to Sunday School/Junior Church anyway, and sit through it and engage with it and participate and yadda yadda, but ours Didn't with a capital "D". They were bored; bored beyond description. In February of last year Mrs Backslider had basically said that either the church experience has to change, or we'd have to find a new church. Now our hand was forced. This was difficult to me, because I like liturgy (yes, really) and get on badly with hymn prayer sandwiches and even worse with 'hands in the air let's just sing that a thirtieth time because some people aren't dancing yet'. Besides, the main concern was whether it would even more estrange the children from church than we'd already managed.
We knew of the FE church in town, which I'm not going to name although two minutes on Google and the SoF search function could find it. We gave it a try. Ironically there is no separate children's work. However, since the actual liturgy only takes about 30 minutes, that hasn't been a problem. Oldest child has gone from being nearly dragged kicking and screaming out on a Sunday morning through sitting there with his fingers in his ears to actively listening and taking part in the service. We don't get desperate pleas not to go like we used to. We actually feel part of the church community in a way we haven't in the past; perhaps it's because there are a larger contingent of people our own age, some of whom make super-annuated poster boy for Too old to rock and roll, too young to die here look positively normal; we have actually made friends, but whatever the reason it has actually made all of us see church with something other than dread - the children simple dread of boredom, us dread of having to somehow get through a church service with three bored children.
Given that whatever some people may think of my faith, it has actually given it a new lease of life and some actual enthusiasm, you might understand my initial anger at having it written off in such offensive terms, not to mention one of the hardest working ministers I know written off as engaging in "right on masturbation".
Open invitation to come along and actually find out what it's about if you're willing to be open-minded. Stay away if you're not.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by gog:
Can I just put in a reminder that Fresh Expressions (FE) under it's formal banner extends beyond the CofE, and that for others involved with FE (as for some within the CofE), there is not a do trad or FE it is more often do both.
Also I think that FE is a label that has brought together a lot of things that might have been happening otherwise, such as those that Curiosity killed ... lists. What I think the label allows is some working together on things.
Also going back to the OP, I don't think there is a Damascus road thing here. And for some it is the latest fashion accessory that is the must have. However for some idea about what it is http://www.freshexpressions.org.uk/ might be a source.
Indeed; perusal of that site would show that the things in that list are probably not what would be considered FE by the actual FE programme. I sometimes wonder if people hear the expression, don't realise it refers to a specific programme, and assume they can plonk it on anything a bit different. Not that these initiatives aren't necessarily worthwhile, but FE as understood by the above website and the official programme they are not. The church in the pub might be
Svit - I'm not aware that our FE was set up by an existing congregation, well-heeled or otherwise - in fact, I'm pretty sure it was cut out of whole cloth.
Posted by South Coast Kevin (# 16130) on
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Nice one, Karl: Liberal Backslider, and respect to you for such a measured and thoughtful post. I'd pop by to one of your meetings if I lived round your way.
Posted by SvitlanaV2 (# 16967) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Svit - I'm not aware that our FE was set up by an existing congregation, well-heeled or otherwise - in fact, I'm pretty sure it was cut out of whole cloth.
So would you describe it more as a church plant, then? My impression, garnered admittedly from the Methodist experience, was that FEs usually grew out of the vision of a particular congregation, and therefore had to be funded by them. Maybe the vision normally develops at a higher structural level in the CofE.
It would be interesting to see some research on the funding and resourcing of FEs. To me as a former church steward who's been through a church closure, this is a big issue. But on a purely spiritual level I do appreciate what alternative forms church can do for individuals and for families.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
Posted by SvitlanaV2 (# 16967) on
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Yes, I gathered that. But I'm wondering how it was set up. Sorry if it's a rather boring question, but I tend to think that foundational matters can be quite instructive to the church at large. (I'm quite interested in congregational histories in general, not just in FE.)
Posted by S. Bacchus (# 17778) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
How would its leadership respond to the sort of criticisms made in 'For the Parish'? The fact that it's 'outside the parish system' would seem to mean that it's precisely the sort of arrangement which most concerns the Rev'd Drs and Milband and Davison.
Posted by *Leon* (# 3377) on
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My understanding of the history of the term 'fresh expression' is that it started as a means of classifying things that were viewed as non-traditional. It's a concept that exists to help the church hierarchy classify things. As such, there isn't a coherent 'fresh expression movement' that can defend its actions. (There are several such movements representing some subsets of fresh expressions)
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
How would its leadership respond to the sort of criticisms made in 'For the Parish'? The fact that it's 'outside the parish system' would seem to mean that it's precisely the sort of arrangement which most concerns the Rev'd Drs and Milband and Davison.
My view is that no-one would object to living in a world where society is sufficiently homogeneous that the parish can put on one set of services that everyone is happy with, but the people who are founding fresh expressions have found that isn't their reality. The options that exist are to pretend it is the reality, and bemoan the fact that churches are empty and people like Karl don't go to church for 'inexplicable reasons' or accept that there needs to be a range of different styles of church, and provide a framework for keeping track of them.
Posted by *Leon* (# 3377) on
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Sorry for the double post. I have a question:
What exactly (in practice) is a pioneer minister?
How does their training differ to that of an ordinary ordinand (now that there are pioneer ministry paths at some colleges)? How many actually exist, what do they typically do and how many of those have stipends?
Posted by pererin (# 16956) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
So a proprietary chapel under another name?
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by pererin:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
So a proprietary chapel under another name?
Wikipedia says that "A proprietary chapel is a chapel that originally belonged to a private person." - if that is so, then no, it isn't.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
How would its leadership respond to the sort of criticisms made in 'For the Parish'? The fact that it's 'outside the parish system' would seem to mean that it's precisely the sort of arrangement which most concerns the Rev'd Drs and Milband and Davison.
I used to be very in favour of the parish system. However, my experience is that in the real world it doesn't work. It hardly even exists in practice - at many parish churches you'll find a significant, if variable, proportion of the congregation who live outside the parish. And you'll find that there are churchgoers who do live in the parish but attend a church in another parish, usually for reasons of demography, subculture or churchmanship.
And what *Leon* said. Would you be so kind to read my long post again where I explain in some detail how the parish system didn't work for us?
Posted by Sergius-Melli (# 17462) on
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
How would its leadership respond to the sort of criticisms made in 'For the Parish'? The fact that it's 'outside the parish system' would seem to mean that it's precisely the sort of arrangement which most concerns the Rev'd Drs and Milband and Davison.
The 'outside the Parish system' issue has existed for many years, I remember it being raised in one of those oft written, rarely acted upon, reports for the CofE back in the 2000's and continues to be an issue up to this day, even of those FE initiatives which began within the Parish system...
In the parish I am in, we have just implemented new structures and oversight of what was a 'fresh expression' endeavour which had started out under Parish oversight (many moons ago now) but had drifted away into a separate body altogether without Episcopal or Parish oversight and monitoring, yet still claiming its links to the Parish (to continue to use our resources etc.) It had become a 'denomination' of sorts in its own right, with an ethos at odds with the rest of the Parish and with decisions and control being exercised without the Parish leadership playing any role, as a result it became stagnant and inward looking rather than outward looking and missionary as was its original intentions...
What was my point again...
Oh yes...
This issue with 'Fresh Expressions' in Parish organised Churches is long in existence and probably merits a lot more research into the long-term health of the FE groups and the health of the Parish/Deanery in which they exist.
As for Pioneer Ministry/Ministers, that has also been raised, the CinW sent one person for training last year...
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by *Leon*:
Sorry for the double post. I have a question:
What exactly (in practice) is a pioneer minister?
How does their training differ to that of an ordinary ordinand (now that there are pioneer ministry paths at some colleges)? How many actually exist, what do they typically do and how many of those have stipends?
You'd probably be best addressing those questions to +Graham Cray's office. He's the head honcho for FE in the CofE.
Posted by Chorister (# 473) on
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The people who most seem to value the idea of 'their' parish are the very ones who don't go to church each week. Particularly in rural areas. The parish church means a lot for funerals and weddings, especially for those families with a long history in the area.
I'm all for Fresh Expressions when they are in addition to what already works in a particular church - if the new initiative works out then you have added to the number affiliated with the church; if it doesn't, you haven't needlessly destroyed what already works for the vain possibility of something even better. But of course this always supposes enough staff or willing volunteers to adequately resource extra initiatives - something which is often in short supply these days, particularly in rural areas.
Posted by S. Bacchus (# 17778) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Would you be so kind to read my long post again where I explain in some detail how the parish system didn't work for us?
I did actually. It seems to me that your complaint was essentially that the parish churches in your area didn't have particularly good programs for children. I must admit that such programs have never been high on my own list for a church (even when I was a child, I much preferred 'grown up' church), but I can see why it would be for some people. However, it seems to be at most a critique of parish churches in your area, rather than evidence that the parochial system has failed per se.
Posted by *Leon* (# 3377) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by *Leon*:
Sorry for the double post. I have a question:
What exactly (in practice) is a pioneer minister?
How does their training differ to that of an ordinary ordinand (now that there are pioneer ministry paths at some colleges)? How many actually exist, what do they typically do and how many of those have stipends?
You'd probably be best addressing those questions to +Graham Cray's office. He's the head honcho for FE in the CofE.
Does that answer imply that a pioneer minister is exactly the same as someone who does fresh expressions? I was wondering whether, since they aren't called 'fresh expression ministers', the definition of pioneer ministry might be subtly different from 'fresh expressions'
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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We seem to be confused as to what an FE is.
From the horse's mouth: http://www.freshexpressions.org.uk/guide/about/whatis
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Would you be so kind to read my long post again where I explain in some detail how the parish system didn't work for us?
I did actually. It seems to me that your complaint was essentially that the parish churches in your area didn't have particularly good programs for children. I must admit that such programs have never been high on my own list for a church (even when I was a child, I much preferred 'grown up' church), but I can see why it would be for some people. However, it seems to be at most a critique of parish churches in your area, rather than evidence that the parochial system has failed per se.
The children issue was the crunch point, sure. But if the parish system has failed around here (and I don't buy that North East Derbyshire has a particular issue and it's rosy everywhere else) then it has still failed, and there's therefore still room - nay, need - for alternatives.
Can I spell this out clearly: If the FE church we now attend had not been in existence, we'd very likely no longer be attending church AT ALL
Would you rather that?
Posted by pererin (# 16956) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by pererin:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
So a proprietary chapel under another name?
Wikipedia says that "A proprietary chapel is a chapel that originally belonged to a private person." - if that is so, then no, it isn't.
That's a bit narrow on the legal definition of a person. To pick a particularly (in)famous example, take a look at what Emmanuel Church, Wimbledon, have to say about themselves:
"It is fully self-supporting in funding Emmanuel staff and ministry, and appoints its own clergy under the guidance of an appointed group of patrons. It has always owned and funded its own buildings."
Is that the basic reality of the FE set up?
Posted by Baptist Trainfan (# 15128) on
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
I don't contend for one moment that FE steals people (clerical or lay) away from Parish ministry (though it may very well do): rather that it saps energy, imagination and intellectual manpower, draining it away from revitalisation of the liturgy, of parochial ministry, of the clerical calling, and drains it into a great sink-hole which, to mix metaphors, is indeed a blind alley leading nowhere.
I don't agree with the general tenor of this post, nor with Davidson and Milbank's critique which seems to present a ridiculously rosy-hued picture of what the Parish Church can do, without recognising the cultural complexity of the present day.
Nevertheless, it is certainly the case in some denominations that money and people are being placed into FE rather than resourcing "old expressions". There is nothing wrong with new initiatives but we mustn't neglect traditional Church either ... especially as (in my opinion) it is often they who end up resourcing FE which rarely seem to be able to support themselves. There's a balance to be had here, but I'm not quite sure where it is.
BTW, am I right in thinking that the most "proper" FEs are considered to be those which stand alone, rather than those which are new ministries of already-established (small "e"!) congregations?
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by pererin:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by pererin:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
It's a new congregation outside of the parish system.
So a proprietary chapel under another name?
Wikipedia says that "A proprietary chapel is a chapel that originally belonged to a private person." - if that is so, then no, it isn't.
That's a bit narrow on the legal definition of a person. To pick a particularly (in)famous example, take a look at what Emmanuel Church, Wimbledon, have to say about themselves:
"It is fully self-supporting in funding Emmanuel staff and ministry, and appoints its own clergy under the guidance of an appointed group of patrons. It has always owned and funded its own buildings."
Is that the basic reality of the FE set up?
TBH I neither know nor much care. I'd like to know where you're going with this. You seem to want me to say "yes, it's basically that" and I want to know why you want me to say that, frankly.
Posted by Emma Louise (# 3571) on
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I only pop onto the ship occasionally, but it seems (yet again?) our experience is mirroring Karls.
We were on the verge of giving up on church for a whole host of reasons (I've worked for a church and I have an Oxford theology degree - I'm not uneducated theologically!)The final straw was having bred, we had small people to entertain/keep quiet and was a period in our life when we began to question the point of going to church if it was just an excruciatingly painful time of Trying To Control Children.
We attend a CofE Fresh Expressions church, it is outside of the parish system and has a C of E minister. I'm not 100% sure how it is funded, I very much doubt our small group raises enough for the stipend. It has a lot of community involvement and community initiatives though, despite its small size.
It suits us for now. My children happily join in when church has its meeting in a cafe. Once a month there is a more church-like service, but it is made accesible for children. The very first time we went we had pass-the-parcel prayer and a gruffalo story. Once a month people meet up in each others homes or go elsewhere....
It's quite low key but with an emphasis on community, and a rule of life is adopted by regulars.
I like it. I know it would get up the wick of tonnes of people here but its better than us not being in church, and far more valid for us at the moemnt.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Baptist Trainfan:
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
I don't contend for one moment that FE steals people (clerical or lay) away from Parish ministry (though it may very well do): rather that it saps energy, imagination and intellectual manpower, draining it away from revitalisation of the liturgy, of parochial ministry, of the clerical calling, and drains it into a great sink-hole which, to mix metaphors, is indeed a blind alley leading nowhere.
I don't agree with the general tenor of this post, nor with Davidson and Milbank's critique which seems to present a ridiculously rosy-hued picture of what the Parish Church can do, without recognising the cultural complexity of the present day.
Nevertheless, it is certainly the case in some denominations that money and people are being placed into FE rather than resourcing "old expressions". There is nothing wrong with new initiatives but we mustn't neglect traditional Church either ... especially as (in my opinion) it is often they who end up resourcing FE which rarely seem to be able to support themselves. There's a balance to be had here, but I'm not quite sure where it is.
BTW, am I right in thinking that the most "proper" FEs are considered to be those which stand alone, rather than those which are new ministries of already-established (small "e"!) congregations?
An established parish starting a new initiative designed to appeal to a new congregation would be a FE. A new service for the existing congregation probably not, as I understand it.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Baptist Trainfan:
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Originally posted by Vade Mecum:
I don't contend for one moment that FE steals people (clerical or lay) away from Parish ministry (though it may very well do): rather that it saps energy, imagination and intellectual manpower, draining it away from revitalisation of the liturgy, of parochial ministry, of the clerical calling, and drains it into a great sink-hole which, to mix metaphors, is indeed a blind alley leading nowhere.
I don't agree with the general tenor of this post, nor with Davidson and Milbank's critique which seems to present a ridiculously rosy-hued picture of what the Parish Church can do, without recognising the cultural complexity of the present day.
Nevertheless, it is certainly the case in some denominations that money and people are being placed into FE rather than resourcing "old expressions". There is nothing wrong with new initiatives but we mustn't neglect traditional Church either ... especially as (in my opinion) it is often they who end up resourcing FE which rarely seem to be able to support themselves. There's a balance to be had here, but I'm not quite sure where it is.
BTW, am I right in thinking that the most "proper" FEs are considered to be those which stand alone, rather than those which are new ministries of already-established (small "e"!) congregations?
An established parish starting a new initiative designed to appeal to a new congregation would be a FE. A new service for the existing congregation probably not, as I understand it.
Posted by *Leon* (# 3377) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
An established parish starting a new initiative designed to appeal to a new congregation would be a FE. A new service for the existing congregation probably not, as I understand it.
How long can a fresh expression run for before it ceases to be fresh and becomes established?
Posted by Baptist Trainfan (# 15128) on
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From the FE website (I hope this isn't too much to quote for copyright reasons):
"The important thing is intention ... If it is to work towards establishing a new community or congregation especially for those who have never been involved in church (un-churched) or once were ... then it is a fresh expression of church in the making.
"If, though, the intention is to do mission better or more imaginatively in order to attract people to an existing church, it isn't a fresh expression ... The aim of a fresh expression is not to provide a stepping stone into existing church, but to form a new church in its own right".
[ 11. September 2013, 13:42: Message edited by: Baptist Trainfan ]
Posted by pererin (# 16956) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
TBH I neither know nor much care. I'd like to know where you're going with this. You seem to want me to say "yes, it's basically that" and I want to know why you want me to say that, frankly.
TBH, I'm just trying to work out what it is, as it seems a little strange to me (although not in a bad way).
Posted by South Coast Kevin (# 16130) on
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Originally posted by Baptist Trainfan:
"...The aim of a fresh expression is not to provide a stepping stone into existing church, but to form a new church in its own right".
Ah, I never knew this was explicitly stated in the Fresh Expressions guidance. I think I'd been fooled by comments (maybe from some people here, not sure) to the effect of 'So when are the people in this new group going to start attending real church?'
Of course, I realise some people do think in those 'stepping stone' sort of terms, but it's a comfort to me that the official position is that FE groups are a fully valid and proper version of church.
Posted by Baptist Trainfan (# 15128) on
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Which then makes one ask the question, "What actually is a Church, and what differentiates it from a mere fellowship group or missional community?" For instance, does it have to have episcopally-ordained ministry? How much Christian teaching must it have? Can it be a church if it never celebrates Communion? How does it fit into the wider Christian community?
Clearly one can be "church" without organ music, stained glass, hymnbooks or buildings ... but is there a bare minimum without which we do not (yet) have Church?
Posted by S. Bacchus (# 17778) on
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Originally posted by Baptist Trainfan:
Clearly one can be "church" without organ music, stained glass, hymnbooks or buildings ... but is there a bare minimum without which we do not (yet) have Church?
For me (and for most others coming from an Anglican or RC background, I should think), what is important is that there be a community of people which meets regularly for the Eucharist and the Office.
Posted by Baptist Trainfan (# 15128) on
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Yet I, as a Baptist, would say that Eucharist is merely "highly desirable" and any specific form of Liturgy "very optional" (after all, we never use any particular Office).
That shows we're coming from very different traditions, which will affect our evaluation of FEs.
Posted by Chorister (# 473) on
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Originally posted by Emma Louise:
I like it. I know it would get up the wick of tonnes of people here but its better than us not being in church, and far more valid for us at the moemnt.
I think the key here is 'at the moment'. This may be a temporary stage, while the kids are young. Or it may become permanent. Whether it does or not doesn't matter - nobody can say for sure where their journey will take them in the future. But the reason I believe that Fresh Expressions are needed is that, at any one time, there will be several people in a particular area who are in need of something different than ordinary church services. And it is important to provide something for them.
What I'm not so sure about is whether every parish should so provide. Particularly in areas where there are lots of small churches, it would probably be better for the whole area to provide a collaborative initiative, so that funding and leadership can be adequately provided.
But the way also needs to be left open for people to go the other way, back to a more formal expression of worship, as needs change eg. kids growing up and leaving home, if that is what is needed at the time. The boundaries between formal church attendance and Fresh Expressions do need to be fluid, in both directions.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
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Originally posted by Baptist Trainfan:
Clearly one can be "church" without organ music, stained glass, hymnbooks or buildings ... but is there a bare minimum without which we do not (yet) have Church?
For me (and for most others coming from an Anglican or RC background, I should think), what is important is that there be a community of people which meets regularly for the Eucharist and the Office.
Ah. That'd be us then
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
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Originally posted by Baptist Trainfan:
Clearly one can be "church" without organ music, stained glass, hymnbooks or buildings ... but is there a bare minimum without which we do not (yet) have Church?
For me (and for most others coming from an Anglican or RC background, I should think), what is important is that there be a community of people which meets regularly for the Eucharist and the Office.
Ah. That'd be us then
Posted by leo (# 1458) on
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Originally posted by *Leon*:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
An established parish starting a new initiative designed to appeal to a new congregation would be a FE. A new service for the existing congregation probably not, as I understand it.
How long can a fresh expression run for before it ceases to be fresh and becomes established?
or 'stale'.
Posted by Poppy (# 2000) on
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
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Originally posted by Baptist Trainfan:
Clearly one can be "church" without organ music, stained glass, hymnbooks or buildings ... but is there a bare minimum without which we do not (yet) have Church?
For me (and for most others coming from an Anglican or RC background, I should think), what is important is that there be a community of people which meets regularly for the Eucharist and the Office.
The point of FX is that they are for people who have no background of church going - the unchurched not the dechurched.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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That was the idea. I think that it came as a surprise just how many dechurched folk there were amongst those assumed to be unchurched. I personally think this is an inevitable stage in the FE concept evolution.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by *Leon*:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
An established parish starting a new initiative designed to appeal to a new congregation would be a FE. A new service for the existing congregation probably not, as I understand it.
How long can a fresh expression run for before it ceases to be fresh and becomes established?
Who knows? Who cares? The important thing is whether real vibrant Christian communities are established and endure.
Posted by Jade Constable (# 17175) on
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As someone who is single, childfree (and intends to stay that way) and is very happy with traditional expressions of church, I am a big supporter of Fresh Expressions and Pioneer ministry. Just because I fit in well with 'normal' church doesn't mean everyone does, and in a post-Christian country there are going to be many people for whom church is just totally culturally alien. It's not even that they're really opposed to church, it's just not on the radar. Fresh Expressions is about taking church to people, rather than forcing people into a form of church that doesn't fit - after all, God doesn't need church, church is for us.
S.Bacchus - regarding Ordained Pioneer Ministry training, in the Anglican church it's currently only offered at some non-residential regional training centres and at some evangelical theological colleges - Cranmer, St Johns Nottingham, Oak Hill and Wycliffe. If your friends going for ordination are fellow Anglo-Catholics, that's probably why none are going for it (and also why you know lots of people going for ordination in the first place!). There are plenty of non-evangelical churches involved with Fresh Expressions though, particularly those exploring New Monasticism.
For me personally, I would love to see more Fresh Expressions in my town, and join in with them. I think FE tends to be concentrated either in cities or rural areas with mid-sized towns missing out, and while we have a few FE groups, they're all evangelical (I am not) and almost entirely aimed at families. I'd love to start some kind of evening cafe church in our (liberal A-C) group of churches, and/or an LGBT-friendly service.
Posted by Truman White (# 17290) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
We seem to be confused as to what an FE is.
From the horse's mouth: http://www.freshexpressions.org.uk/guide/about/whatis
Always good to have a natter to the horse. People who train FE leaders stress that it's 'Fresh Expression of church' - a combination of four words that's both pithy and carefully chosen. Dead right KLB that the heart of this is being clear who it's for - unchurched and/or de-churched being a priority.
As I remember it, an FE relates to a parish (if it's Anglican) like a mum to it's sprog until it can become financially independent .
Interestingly, FE was originally developed out of work with the Ground Level group of churches. And owes a lot to Rowan Williams who invested a lot of his personal credibility and C of E cash to get it up and running.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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A few months ago I knocked on the side door of a church running a Fresh Expressions scheme. There were people in the office inside. I made eye contact with them, and waited for them to answer it. They looked away. I knocked again. Nothing, and this time they withheld eye contact.
Another person walked into the room to talk to the people already there. She looked directly at me. I waved. She looked away and began a conversation. I knocked. Nothing. I walked off around the corner and pissed in their drain.
So yeah, they're of no use to me.
Posted by Jade Constable (# 17175) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
A few months ago I knocked on the side door of a church running a Fresh Expressions scheme. There were people in the office inside. I made eye contact with them, and waited for them to answer it. They looked away. I knocked again. Nothing, and this time they withheld eye contact.
Another person walked into the room to talk to the people already there. She looked directly at me. I waved. She looked away and began a conversation. I knocked. Nothing. I walked off around the corner and pissed in their drain.
So yeah, they're of no use to me.
I don't think that one experience really reflects the whole range of FE schemes!
Posted by Sergius-Melli (# 17462) on
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
A few months ago I knocked on the side door of a church running a Fresh Expressions scheme. There were people in the office inside. I made eye contact with them, and waited for them to answer it. They looked away. I knocked again. Nothing, and this time they withheld eye contact.
Another person walked into the room to talk to the people already there. She looked directly at me. I waved. She looked away and began a conversation. I knocked. Nothing. I walked off around the corner and pissed in their drain.
So yeah, they're of no use to me.
I don't think that one experience really reflects the whole range of FE schemes!
Except it does, especially to the un-churched and the de-churched who need a friendly, engaging group of people to get them back into some sort of communal relationship with God...
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
A few months ago I knocked on the side door of a church running a Fresh Expressions scheme. There were people in the office inside. I made eye contact with them, and waited for them to answer it. They looked away. I knocked again. Nothing, and this time they withheld eye contact.
Another person walked into the room to talk to the people already there. She looked directly at me. I waved. She looked away and began a conversation. I knocked. Nothing. I walked off around the corner and pissed in their drain.
So yeah, they're of no use to me.
I don't think that one experience really reflects the whole range of FE schemes!
I was kind of joking, but also serious. If you're doing something based on meeting people where they are, but you won't even put yourself to the trouble of opening a door, you lost me. I could have been unchurched, and that might have been the only time I stood within church grounds.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Sergius-Melli:
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
A few months ago I knocked on the side door of a church running a Fresh Expressions scheme. There were people in the office inside. I made eye contact with them, and waited for them to answer it. They looked away. I knocked again. Nothing, and this time they withheld eye contact.
Another person walked into the room to talk to the people already there. She looked directly at me. I waved. She looked away and began a conversation. I knocked. Nothing. I walked off around the corner and pissed in their drain.
So yeah, they're of no use to me.
I don't think that one experience really reflects the whole range of FE schemes!
Except it does, especially to the un-churched and the de-churched who need a friendly, engaging group of people to get them back into some sort of communal relationship with God...
You beat me to it!
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Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
A few months ago I knocked on the side door of a church running a Fresh Expressions scheme. There were people in the office inside. I made eye contact with them, and waited for them to answer it. They looked away. I knocked again. Nothing, and this time they withheld eye contact.
Another person walked into the room to talk to the people already there. She looked directly at me. I waved. She looked away and began a conversation. I knocked. Nothing. I walked off around the corner and pissed in their drain.
So yeah, they're of no use to me.
I don't think that one experience really reflects the whole range of FE schemes!
I was kind of joking, but also serious. If you're doing something based on meeting people where they are, but you won't even put yourself to the trouble of opening a door, you lost me. I could have been unchurched, and that might have been the only time I stood within church grounds.
And I would have to agree. But where do you want to go with it? Close down FE because one church side door had people on the other side of it being anti-social? Ye goddes and lyttle fyshes, we'd have closed down the mainstream church years ago on that basis.
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
I don't think that one experience really reflects the whole range of FE schemes!
I was kind of joking, but also serious. If you're doing something based on meeting people where they are, but you won't even put yourself to the trouble of opening a door, you lost me. I could have been unchurched, and that might have been the only time I stood within church grounds.
And I would have to agree. But where do you want to go with it? Close down FE because one church side door had people on the other side of it being anti-social? Ye goddes and lyttle fyshes, we'd have closed down the mainstream church years ago on that basis.
I don't want to go anywhere with it, I'm just saying they're no use to me. I've never been blanked in the mainstream church.
[ 12. September 2013, 09:42: Message edited by: Plique-à-jour ]
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Well, that particular one probably isn't. FE probably is of no use to you anyway, because you're neither unchurched nor dechurched. They're not for you. But even if they were, your logic still appears to be that if one X is Y, then all X are Y. Which is of course bollocks.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Well, that particular one probably isn't. FE probably is of no use to you anyway, because you're neither unchurched nor dechurched. They're not for you. But even if they were, your logic still appears to be that if one X is Y, then all X are Y. Which is of course bollocks.
You think they knew that? Of course not.
Oh I know, Karl. I know that FE people always revert to the haughtiness they accuse the mainstream church of whenever anyone even hints they should get adult.
I mean, think about it. That could have been their one chance. They don't know it wasn't.
[ 12. September 2013, 09:49: Message edited by: Plique-à-jour ]
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Well, that particular one probably isn't. FE probably is of no use to you anyway, because you're neither unchurched nor dechurched. They're not for you. But even if they were, your logic still appears to be that if one X is Y, then all X are Y. Which is of course bollocks.
You think they knew that? Of course not.
Oh I know, Karl. I know that FE people always revert to the haughtiness they accuse the mainstream church of whenever anyone even hints they should get adult.
I mean, think about it. That could have been their one chance. They don't know it wasn't.
I know they didn't know. All I am saying is that one experience of a FE setup that dropped the ball tells you nothing about whether it's generally a good thing and nothing about other FE setups. We all agree this particular incident as you describe it was a Bad Thing.
Hence what's your point? One particular FE setup mucked up on one particular occasion. Big deal. Why do you need to tar them all with the same brush?
Posted by The Great Gumby (# 10989) on
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A Christian was once very offhand and dismissive towards me.
I assume this means I can safely say Christians are rude arseholes who are no use to me? You see, I know how superior and holier-than-thou they all are at heart.
Posted by South Coast Kevin (# 16130) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
I know that FE people always revert to the haughtiness they accuse the mainstream church of whenever anyone even hints they should get adult.
What Karl and Gumby said, but also where have you got this idea about haughtiness from? Is it from comments on this thread or from previous things you've heard, read or whatever? I'm sorry if I've contributed to the haughtiness at all; I know I have an unhelpful tendency to turn my nose up at written liturgy and what I see as antiquated formality.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
I know they didn't know. All I am saying is that one experience of a FE setup that dropped the ball tells you nothing about whether it's generally a good thing and nothing about other FE setups. We all agree this particular incident as you describe it was a Bad Thing.
Hence what's your point? One particular FE setup mucked up on one particular occasion. Big deal. Why do you need to tar them all with the same brush?
Perhaps because they're a 'way of being church' which presents itself as being at its best when welcoming the stranger. That's their USP, it's the thing they're supposed to be better at than the mainstream church. I can walk into any parish church in the country and not get blanked by the people hoovering and arranging the flowers. If the FE brief is loose enough to admit that 'way of being church', why should I give it another chance? Would you expect an unchurched person who that had happened to to give it another chance?
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
I know they didn't know. All I am saying is that one experience of a FE setup that dropped the ball tells you nothing about whether it's generally a good thing and nothing about other FE setups. We all agree this particular incident as you describe it was a Bad Thing.
Hence what's your point? One particular FE setup mucked up on one particular occasion. Big deal. Why do you need to tar them all with the same brush?
Perhaps because they're a 'way of being church' which presents itself as being at its best when welcoming the stranger. That's their USP, it's the thing they're supposed to be better at than the mainstream church. I can walk into any parish church in the country and not get blanked by the people hoovering and arranging the flowers. If the FE brief is loose enough to admit that 'way of being church', why should I give it another chance? Would you expect an unchurched person who that had happened to to give it another chance?
How many times do you have to be told that what happened to you shouldn't, is most certainly not what FE is about, and is in no way representative of what FE wants to be? The FE brief is not "loose enough" to include what you report happening.
So again I ask, given that absolutely no-one is defending this particular incident at this particular FE, why do you persist in making out that it's somehow part of the FE brief?
Your persistent harping on about this one incident is starting to look like a determined effort on your part to hate FE for reasons of your own.
Posted by ExclamationMark (# 14715) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
[QUOTE]I don't want to go anywhere with it, I'm just saying they're no use to me. I've never been blanked in the mainstream church.
Well, aren't you the lucky one! I was blanked in a mainstream church once, where I was the visiting speaker!
[ 12. September 2013, 11:34: Message edited by: ExclamationMark ]
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by South Coast Kevin:
What Karl and Gumby said, but also where have you got this idea about haughtiness from? Is it from comments on this thread or from previous things you've heard, read or whatever? I'm sorry if I've contributed to the haughtiness at all; I know I have an unhelpful tendency to turn my nose up at written liturgy and what I see as antiquated formality.
Oh no, not at all! It's just RL experiences from being a high Anglican with friends who were/are into non-traditional worship. When the latter get wind of criticism, they tend to sound more like PCC members saying 'but they oughtn't feel alienated' than they seem to know.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
How many times do you have to be told that what happened to you shouldn't, is most certainly not what FE is about, and is in no way representative of what FE wants to be? The FE brief is not "loose enough" to include what you report happening.
So again I ask, given that absolutely no-one is defending this particular incident at this particular FE, why do you persist in making out that it's somehow part of the FE brief?
Your persistent harping on about this one incident is starting to look like a determined effort on your part to hate FE for reasons of your own.
I'm not harping on, I'm refusing to apologise for not blaming myself, just as you have and do. Only, on this occasion, you happen to be a member of the club being criticised. Why can't you deal with this?
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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If we can actually extract a useful point out of PaJ's train-wrecking of the thread, the point isn't about being blanked.
I'm also fortunate that I've never been blanked in a mainstream church. But on the other hand, I've never felt actually part of, accepted by, and valued by a church community in the way I have been lucky enough to in our FE setup. It's not been about active exclusion for me, so much as always feeling not really quite part of the church community, owing to not quite being subculturally like the rest of the congregation. Not an issue of fault; it just is.
Posted by S. Bacchus (# 17778) on
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There seems, Karl, to be a slight inconsistency in that you want your experience to demonstrate that the parochial church system has failed (or at least can fail), but are unwilling to allow that the experience of anyone else might demonstrate that Fresh Expressions might be liable to similar failure.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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I have friends who run a Fresh Expression, and I was interested in visiting it at one time. 'Those who criticise us must be bad people' is how cults think, Karl.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
How many times do you have to be told that what happened to you shouldn't, is most certainly not what FE is about, and is in no way representative of what FE wants to be? The FE brief is not "loose enough" to include what you report happening.
So again I ask, given that absolutely no-one is defending this particular incident at this particular FE, why do you persist in making out that it's somehow part of the FE brief?
Your persistent harping on about this one incident is starting to look like a determined effort on your part to hate FE for reasons of your own.
I'm not harping on, I'm refusing to apologise for not blaming myself, just as you have and do. Only, on this occasion, you happen to be a member of the club being criticised. Why can't you deal with this?
And who exactly do you think I'm blaming, and for what?
Your point is extremely obscure. I've agreed with your criticism of this particular incident. I do not expect you to blame yourself for being blanked. I do not understand why you insist on generalising it.
To put it another way, what the fuck are you going on about?
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
If we can actually extract a useful point out of PaJ's train-wrecking of the thread, the point isn't about being blanked.
I'm also fortunate that I've never been blanked in a mainstream church. But on the other hand, I've never felt actually part of, accepted by, and valued by a church community in the way I have been lucky enough to in our FE setup. It's not been about active exclusion for me, so much as always feeling not really quite part of the church community, owing to not quite being subculturally like the rest of the congregation. Not an issue of fault; it just is.
You're comfy, so I'm train-wrecking? No.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by S. Bacchus:
There seems, Karl, to be a slight inconsistency in that you want your experience to demonstrate that the parochial church system has failed (or at least can fail), but are unwilling to allow that the experience of anyone else might demonstrate that Fresh Expressions might be liable to similar failure.
And have I EVER said that FE's cannot fail, cannot go wrong?
I haven't. They're churches run by fallible people, just like mainstream churches.
Why do you and PaJ insist on ascribing attitudes, thoughts and opinions to me that I do not actually have?
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
I have friends who run a Fresh Expression, and I was interested in visiting it at one time. 'Those who criticise us must be bad people' is how cults think, Karl.
Good job I don't think like that then isn't it? I have quite a few reservations and criticisms of our setup. Don't we all, of our churches?
Posted by Jade Constable (# 17175) on
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PaJ, what happened to you was wrong and it shouldn't have happened. Sometimes, yes, FE schemes mess up and fail. But your experience does not reflect most FE schemes, just like unfriendly parish churches don't reflect most churches. It's not that parish churches totally fail, it's just that some people need a different kind of church. That's all.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
How many times do you have to be told that what happened to you shouldn't, is most certainly not what FE is about, and is in no way representative of what FE wants to be? The FE brief is not "loose enough" to include what you report happening.
So again I ask, given that absolutely no-one is defending this particular incident at this particular FE, why do you persist in making out that it's somehow part of the FE brief?
Your persistent harping on about this one incident is starting to look like a determined effort on your part to hate FE for reasons of your own.
I'm not harping on, I'm refusing to apologise for not blaming myself, just as you have and do. Only, on this occasion, you happen to be a member of the club being criticised. Why can't you deal with this?
And who exactly do you think I'm blaming, and for what?
Your point is extremely obscure. I've agreed with your criticism of this particular incident. I do not expect you to blame yourself for being blanked. I do not understand why you insist on generalising it.
To put it another way, what the fuck are you going on about?
In a phrase: by their fruits ye shall know them.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
If we can actually extract a useful point out of PaJ's train-wrecking of the thread, the point isn't about being blanked.
I'm also fortunate that I've never been blanked in a mainstream church. But on the other hand, I've never felt actually part of, accepted by, and valued by a church community in the way I have been lucky enough to in our FE setup. It's not been about active exclusion for me, so much as always feeling not really quite part of the church community, owing to not quite being subculturally like the rest of the congregation. Not an issue of fault; it just is.
You're comfy, so I'm train-wrecking? No.
Do you have some kind of algorithm on your computer that takes everything I post and runs through as many permutations and interpretations as it can until it finds the one that casts me most unfavourably? Because it's starting to look like it.
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Why do you and PaJ insist on ascribing attitudes, thoughts and opinions to me that I do not actually have?
Weren't you doing that to me, just now?
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
How many times do you have to be told that what happened to you shouldn't, is most certainly not what FE is about, and is in no way representative of what FE wants to be? The FE brief is not "loose enough" to include what you report happening.
So again I ask, given that absolutely no-one is defending this particular incident at this particular FE, why do you persist in making out that it's somehow part of the FE brief?
Your persistent harping on about this one incident is starting to look like a determined effort on your part to hate FE for reasons of your own.
I'm not harping on, I'm refusing to apologise for not blaming myself, just as you have and do. Only, on this occasion, you happen to be a member of the club being criticised. Why can't you deal with this?
And who exactly do you think I'm blaming, and for what?
Your point is extremely obscure. I've agreed with your criticism of this particular incident. I do not expect you to blame yourself for being blanked. I do not understand why you insist on generalising it.
To put it another way, what the fuck are you going on about?
In a phrase: by their fruits ye shall know them.
So you are saying that because you had one bad experience all FEs and the people in them are bad.
Which is unbelievably idiotic.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Why do you and PaJ insist on ascribing attitudes, thoughts and opinions to me that I do not actually have?
Weren't you doing that to me, just now?
Not intentionally, at any rate. Would you like to explain where you think I've done that?
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
So you are saying that because you had one bad experience all FEs and the people in them are bad.
Which is unbelievably idiotic.
No, I am not, I'm saying that if FEs don't give their occupants the discipline not to behave like that, they're no use to me. The people who smile at me when I enter a church never having met me are not my buddy, nor determined one way or another about me, they're just adults, doing their duties. I don't care how good a club feels, if it looks through strangers, it isn't being church, and my time is not for them to waste trying again and again to learn how to act.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
So you are saying that because you had one bad experience all FEs and the people in them are bad.
Which is unbelievably idiotic.
No, I am not, I'm saying that if FEs don't give their occupants the discipline not to behave like that, they're no use to me. The people who smile at me when I enter a church never having met me are not my buddy, nor determined one way or another about me, they're just adults, doing their duties. I don't care how good a club feels, if it looks through strangers, it isn't being church, and my time is not for them to waste trying again and again to learn how to act.
Well on that we agree. The point I'm trying to get across is that your experience does not mean it is representative of FEs in general. If you're not generalising that experience to all FEs, I don't see how how you get to your apparent blanket generalisation - i.e. where you say "if FEs don't..." - in the plural.
[ 12. September 2013, 12:05: Message edited by: Karl: Liberal Backslider ]
Posted by Plique-à-jour (# 17717) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
So you are saying that because you had one bad experience all FEs and the people in them are bad.
Which is unbelievably idiotic.
No, I am not, I'm saying that if FEs don't give their occupants the discipline not to behave like that, they're no use to me. The people who smile at me when I enter a church never having met me are not my buddy, nor determined one way or another about me, they're just adults, doing their duties. I don't care how good a club feels, if it looks through strangers, it isn't being church, and my time is not for them to waste trying again and again to learn how to act.
Well on that we agree. The point I'm trying to get across is that your experience does not mean it is representative of FEs in general. If you're not generalising that experience to all FEs, I don't see how how you get to your apparent blanket generalisation - i.e. where you say "if FEs don't..." - in the plural.
I know it isn't. The point is, unchurched people wouldn't care how nice the rest of them are. Especially the already vulnerable or marginalised. They'd think 'forget it' and walk away. You only have to make someone despair once for them to get the message and leave you alone. Dechurched people have had just the same reaction - most of them presumably haven't been to a statistically representative number of churches, but their disillusionment is based on a good enough working hypothesis for their purposes. They may be doing thousands of congregations an injustice. Too bad, they're hurt. And these people - those who have already generalised to save pain and wasted time - are who FEs are there for. It's not that I think my experience was representative of FEs, it's that FEs taken en masse aren't sufficiently representative of anything for me to put my trust in any one of them. In a time of real need, trying not to fall into the sin of despair, I could take the risk again. Or... I could attend Holy Communion. Lucky me, that I have that choice.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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FEs sometimes fail. This is because they're churches, and churches sometimes fail. We will never have a 100% record anywhere because we're human.
But as you say, lucky you, you have the choice of attending HC at a mainstream church. FEs are there for people who for whatever reason don't find that choice has meaning for them. Or works for them. FEs are not trying to be a panacaea for all that's wrong with the church, and inevitably because what's wrong with the church is what's wrong with people a lot of it will be wrong with FE churches as well.
You're probably right that FEs don't seem to be offering anything to you. I'd be surprised if they were, because, as you say, you have the option of mainstream Holy Communion, which clearly works for you.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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FEs sometimes fail. This is because they're churches, and churches sometimes fail. We will never have a 100% record anywhere because we're human.
But as you say, lucky you, you have the choice of attending HC at a mainstream church. FEs are there for people who for whatever reason don't find that choice has meaning for them. Or works for them. FEs are not trying to be a panacaea for all that's wrong with the church, and inevitably because what's wrong with the church is what's wrong with people a lot of it will be wrong with FE churches as well.
You're probably right that FEs don't seem to be offering anything to you. I'd be surprised if they were, because, as you say, you have the option of mainstream Holy Communion, which clearly works for you.
Posted by Jade Constable (# 17175) on
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Also, unchurched people are unlikely to think of one FE scheme as having any connection to another FE scheme, particularly as the schemes vary in how 'churchy' they look and how connected they are to local churches. PaJ, YOU know that Fresh Expressions as a whole is something that Anglican and Methodist churches are responsible for, unchurched people won't, at least not in the same way that they'll be put off all Anglican parish churches by one bad experience.
Posted by Pearl B4 Swine (# 11451) on
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I thought Fresh Expressions was a section of the grocery store displaying organic and harmless vegetables. Must be a Left-Side-of-the-Pond thing
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
Also, unchurched people are unlikely to think of one FE scheme as having any connection to another FE scheme, particularly as the schemes vary in how 'churchy' they look and how connected they are to local churches. PaJ, YOU know that Fresh Expressions as a whole is something that Anglican and Methodist churches are responsible for, unchurched people won't, at least not in the same way that they'll be put off all Anglican parish churches by one bad experience.
Indeed. It's not like we hang a sign outside saying "This is a Fresh Expressions Church". I had been at ours for a few months before I even knew it was FE
Posted by Truman White (# 17290) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
I have friends who run a Fresh Expression, and I was interested in visiting it at one time. 'Those who criticise us must be bad people' is how cults think, Karl.
Sometime you catch people at a bad moment or having a bad day.
Posted by Avila (# 15541) on
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Originally posted by Plique-à-jour:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
So you are saying that because you had one bad experience all FEs and the people in them are bad.
Which is unbelievably idiotic.
No, I am not, I'm saying that if FEs don't give their occupants the discipline not to behave like that, they're no use to me. The people who smile at me when I enter a church never having met me are not my buddy, nor determined one way or another about me, they're just adults, doing their duties. I don't care how good a club feels, if it looks through strangers, it isn't being church, and my time is not for them to waste trying again and again to learn how to act.
Pique a jour has a strong point about that place - that people will not what to try again. But mainstream churches are quite capable of the same kind of response (thinking of some experiences of my own) and with the same reaction against the whole species...
Posted by Jengie Jon (# 273) on
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Plique a Jour
If you do not believe mainstream places behave like that then go and look at the URC mystery worship reports. Nearly every single one of the comments on the welcome (I know of one that does not and I have read most as part of my thesis). This is not normally commented on in other reports.
Are URC congregations exceptionally welcoming? Not unusually so, in my opinion; we are not the warmest of traditions and rather introverted in an intellectual way. So it must be that other congregations are unwelcoming for this to be commented on.
Jengie
Posted by Jengie Jon (# 273) on
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Plique a Jour
If you do not believe mainstream places behave like that then go and look at the URC mystery worship reports. Nearly every single one of the comments on the welcome (I know of one that does not and I have read most as part of my thesis). This is not normally commented on in other reports.
Are URC congregations exceptionally welcoming? Not unusually so, in my opinion; we are not the warmest of traditions and rather introverted in an intellectual way. So it must be that other congregations are unwelcoming for this to be commented on.
Jengie
Posted by Baptist Trainfan (# 15128) on
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To be fair, Plique a Jour gave the impression that she knocked on the office door of a church at a time when it was not open for worship. So I don't think that the MW criteria apply. However, the way in which she remained unacknowledged was rude and unwelcoming and will certainly tarnish her memory of that church, at least.
After all, even if the Parish Staff were in some Amazingly Important Strategy Meeting (and it doesn't sound as if they were), someone could have at least met her eyes through the window, waved, or come to the door in greeting and dispensed information.
Posted by Jay-Emm (# 11411) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
FEs sometimes fail. This is because they're churches, and churches sometimes fail. We will never have a 100% record anywhere because we're human.
And to some extent the point of "Fresh Expressions" the movement is to take a gamble*.
*I really should qualify gamble. But it would be very long and state the obvious (and so I'd make a hash of it), so it's probably easier to wait to see if it's needed.
Posted by Truman White (# 17290) on
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Originally posted by Jay-Emm:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
FEs sometimes fail. This is because they're churches, and churches sometimes fail. We will never have a 100% record anywhere because we're human.
And to some extent the point of "Fresh Expressions" the movement is to take a gamble*.
*I really should qualify gamble. But it would be very long and state the obvious (and so I'd make a hash of it), so it's probably easier to wait to see if it's needed.
Sometimes we're a tad on the short-sighted side when it comes to 'failure.' Sure, if an FE disbands then it's failed one of its objectives. But if the people involved can take that experience and build on it, and if other people learn how not to make the same mistakes, then the experience is still valuable. Failure maybe the only way to learn some lessons.
Jay-Emm - spot on. To break new ground you've got to have enough courage to take a punt and be brave enough to treat success and failure as friends.
Posted by scuffleball (# 16480) on
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Here it goes, then.
I fear I am about to pose more questions than give answers, but perhaps my anecdote might prove a useful prompt. And I ask the questions not because I claim to have any answer, but because I am trying to work out whether we can reconcile FE, Bacchus' vision of the church, and things I have seen from time to time. And quite frankly I am not sure how to do it.
I suspect we are arguing a little over what the church is for exactly, and we can do worse than look at the five marks of mission -
- To proclaim the Good News of the Kingdom
- To teach, baptise and nurture new believers
- To respond to human need by loving service
- To seek to transform unjust structures of society, to challenge violence of every kind and to pursue peace and reconciliation
- To strive to safeguard the integrity of creation and sustain and renew the life of the earth
Imagine a town. It is a "new town" - a small village until after World War II when lots of modern housing estates were built around it. The town is a very transitory place; many of the people living here were not born here. There are many Nigerian, Chinese and Eastern European immigrants. There is also a University here. Likewise, many people living here live here only a short while before moving elsewhere. Almost all of the town's churches are Anglican or Roman Catholic; there is also a Redeemed Christian Church of God church. There were some non-Conformist churches which had very small congregations and have closed or are closing. The churches are disproportionally clustered in the oldest parts of the town; consequentially, some churches have very small congregations and others have a large "catchment area".
Many of the people who go to the local Anglican church grew up in that neighbourhood and have since moved elsewhere. In particular, the minister and lay reader do not live in this town but the neighbouring one. There are many multigenerational families there, and most of the people who go to that church have done so since their youth. People at this church who do jobs tend to do a lot of them, and a lot of people tend not to do any jobs. Nearly everyone at this church is white and born in Britain.
The main Sunday service at this church is a Eucharist. There is a "Messy Church" every week in term time too. Many families attend this "Messy Church" who have never been to church before - including the parents - and do not even have a mythological/cultural-narrative familiarity with Christianity. These families are mainly ladies with young children.
So here are the questions.
- If the Church, and especially the Church of England with its parish system, is the (only?) institution that exists for the benefit of its non-members, and the Christian faith is fundamentally incarnational, and thus grounded in the particular town, village or neighbourhood that it represents, how does that relate to the mission of the church? How should this affect regular systematic prayer - the Daily Office, if you want to call it that - and sacramental life manifest themselves? Does it lead to their abolition? Can the two sit alongside one another?
- How do we prevent an undue fixation with processes while maintaining regular systematic prayer and sacramental life? By analogy, here is a surely apocryphal story. A lady had the habit of cutting the ends off a roast and putting them on the top before cooking it. When asked why, she said - "well, my mother always did it thus." Upon further questioning it transpired that this was merely due to size constraints of her mother's oven. Also obsession with processes can suck the Christian Faith dry - I think of Terry Pratchett when he says "Around the Godde there forms a Shelle of prayers and Ceremonies and Buildings and Priestes and Authority, until at Last the Godde Dies. Ande this maye notte be noticed." Also "you have works, I have faith" is often inverted into "I have works, you have faith" - how do we maintain an atmosphere of "Ora et Labora," especially for people who are not ministers or lay readers or anything theological or pastoral?
- What relevance do denominations have to common Christian Life? Is it possible to have congregations where denomination is entirely transparent, whilst maintaining regular systematic prayer and sacramental life? Is it desirable? Attempts at this - Milton Keynes (although as Max points out, this manages to be pan-Protestant but the Roman Catholics are maybe a bit on the edge; tends to at least preserve some sort of Eucharist.); Taizé (Catholic and Protestant Eucharist de jure although you have to purposely look for the distinction to find it.) India; Bishop Newbigin. Liturgically we ware all closer together than we were before. Common Worship Daily Prayer is not unlike the Roman Catholic Daily Prayer. Methodists have given us all congregational hymn singing. The reformation has given us all use of the vernacular. And I have no romanticism about the 1662 Book of Common Prayer either; I cannot remember who it was who described it as not unlike cutting up a service book, jumbling the bits in a hat and pulling them out in random order. What is distinctively Anglican?
- How do we put structures in place to prevent churches being abusive or heterodox? (although we are probably all more heterodox than we are aware or care to admit - at least on the ship such things get ironed out. I am thinking of the peculiar mystery worshipper http://shipoffools.com/mystery/2012/2426.html )
Posted by frin (# 9) on
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I've had more experiences than I can count of being actively or passively ignored in traditional churches of many denominations. While each time annoying, I am glad that I have not written off either church as a whole or the human race because of these things. I'm sorry that Plique a Jour had to find out that sometimes the world overlooks you, even when you need it not to.
Fresh expressions can be used to describe one of these things:
(1) A description of a Christian community or church primarily working with people who are not part of any traditional church - unchurched or dechurched people.
(2) A distinct group (service, meeting, congregation) within an existing church who are trying to connect with a group that does not normally come to church
(3) A project (club, act of worship) that a traditional church is running in the hope that eventually the people connected to the project will start to come to the principal services of the traditional church.
I meet lots of instances of 3. It isn't what I would describe as a fresh expression, and I assume it leads to disappointment when the new group of people don't suddenly join the principal services.
2 can be a fresh expression in its own right. For that to happen, I would say that there needs to be conscious development of distinct leadership and pastoral care in the fresh expression - as though it is a church plant that will one day stand on its own feet. If it is going to remain forever a grouping within the older church then eventually there needs to be some way to ensure that it starts to be engaged with the leadership and stewardship of the whole.
1 is most purely a fresh expression. The challenge is to make sure that whatever is being built is being built on more than the force of personality of the first leaders, and that it is growing and developing people within it who will be able to hold the church and change it during and after the first leadership transition. There are now many examples of fresh expressions (or emerging churches) who have navigated this and are into a more sustained phase of being church.
'frin
Posted by South Coast Kevin (# 16130) on
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The main Sunday service at this church is a Eucharist. There is a "Messy Church" every week in term time too. Many families attend this "Messy Church" who have never been to church before - including the parents - and do not even have a mythological/cultural-narrative familiarity with Christianity.
For me, this is the key point regarding 'messy church' and other fresh / new / simple expressions of church; they seem to be relatively attractive to people with no prior church involvement.
The problem, IMO, comes when things like messy church are seen as a sort of bridge between unchurched people and real / proper church. Hence, I was glad to find out upthread that the UK Fresh Expressions initiative's official position is that FE congregations are 'real church', not a stepping stone on the way to 'real church'.
Having said this, I do realise that many people's view of what church is leads them to understand things like messy church as not being church in the fullest sense. So I understand why such people might well want people to 'progress' from messy church to what they might call real church.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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A FE church, as understood by the FE movement, is a church in its own right. I also would be very sceptical of the idea of Messy Church on its own being able to be that. As part of a programme of services, in the same way that the mainstream offers Morning Prayer, Holy Communion, Evensong, Compline, Complan (heh heh) etc. etc, then there's no reason it couldn't be part of an FE church's offering. It's not so much that the official position is that FE is "real church"; it's more that if what you're describing isn't a "real church" but a stepping stone to "real church", then it's not an FE
I've been loosely connected (briefly) to a "simple church" - it also didn't seem to be fully church; it was more like a bible study. I can relate a terrible story regarding a pub, a carton of grape juice, some bread rolls and a complete lack of clue if you like, but I'd rather not revisit the cringing horror.
Posted by ExclamationMark (# 14715) on
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Originally posted by South Coast Kevin:
[QUOTE] ..... that the UK Fresh Expressions initiative's official position is that FE congregations are 'real church', not a stepping stone on the way to 'real church'.
The Official position - yes. The unofficial - perhaps not so affirmative. There are "pressures" to link into existing forms of church from all sources - beginning with invites to denominational gatherings right through to ful blown concepts of moving on to "real" church. All must be resisted at all costs - FE is only FE if it is and is seen as, church in its own right without interference (and even leading) from outside.
Let it be organic and grow through its seeking.
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on
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Originally posted by ExclamationMark:
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Originally posted by South Coast Kevin:
[QUOTE] ..... that the UK Fresh Expressions initiative's official position is that FE congregations are 'real church', not a stepping stone on the way to 'real church'.
The Official position - yes. The unofficial - perhaps not so affirmative. There are "pressures" to link into existing forms of church from all sources - beginning with invites to denominational gatherings right through to ful blown concepts of moving on to "real" church. All must be resisted at all costs - FE is only FE if it is and is seen as, church in its own right without interference (and even leading) from outside.
Let it be organic and grow through its seeking.
"linking in" on an equal basis - Churches Together for example - is not inherently a problem, as long as the representatives of more mainstream congregations and those from FEs are able to regard each other with mutual respect. And indeed within the CofE a priest at an FE setup is just as likely to be called upon to fill in for absent clergy as anyone else - ours regularly does at a nearby very high AC place currently in interregnum. Similarly denominational gatherings need be no more a problem for an FE church than the presence of charismatic evangelicals and high churchmen within such a gathering (again I'm thinking within the CofE) is inherently a problem. It's actually quite important for FEs to remember that they are part of a larger church and to maintain links with the established communities and congregations within it.
It's important that we don't think we're doing it right and everyone else is doing it wrong. We try to do it right for the people who we're trying to reach.
Posted by ExclamationMark (# 14715) on
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
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Originally posted by ExclamationMark:
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Originally posted by South Coast Kevin:
[QUOTE] ..... that the UK Fresh Expressions initiative's official position is that FE congregations are 'real church', not a stepping stone on the way to 'real church'.
The Official position - yes. The unofficial - perhaps not so affirmative. There are "pressures" to link into existing forms of church from all sources - beginning with invites to denominational gatherings right through to ful blown concepts of moving on to "real" church. All must be resisted at all costs - FE is only FE if it is and is seen as, church in its own right without interference (and even leading) from outside.
Let it be organic and grow through its seeking.
"linking in" on an equal basis - Churches Together for example - is not inherently a problem, as long as the representatives of more mainstream congregations and those from FEs are able to regard each other with mutual respect. And indeed within the CofE a priest at an FE setup is just as likely to be called upon to fill in for absent clergy as anyone else - ours regularly does at a nearby very high AC place currently in interregnum. Similarly denominational gatherings need be no more a problem for an FE church than the presence of charismatic evangelicals and high churchmen within such a gathering (again I'm thinking within the CofE) is inherently a problem. It's actually quite important for FEs to remember that they are part of a larger church and to maintain links with the established communities and congregations within it.
It's important that we don't think we're doing it right and everyone else is doing it wrong. We try to do it right for the people who we're trying to reach.
Karl - that's great stuff. I'm with you on it all. I'm a long term fan of FE but just wish that both sides could be a bit more accommodating - it happens even with FE in non CofE settings (which I know most about). If we are reaching the people in whatever way/form it doesn't matter and no one should be arrogant about their own method or sniffy about others.'
Posted by SvitlanaV2 (# 16967) on
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I've started going to a Friday morning fellowship at a residential home for the elderly. It's been happening for far too long and is too low key to be a FE, but has some of the characteristics. Recently I've been wondering to what extent it's 'church'. To the elderly people present it's church. There's a word, there are prayers, hymns, Communion about once a month, and coffee and conversation afterwards. They raise money for charity. Since they live together they can support each other better than many people in a conventional church who only meet once a week.
People often ask me which church I go to - especially the various clergy who come to lead worship at the Friday fellowship. I usually have to bluster a bit, but perhaps I should just refer to the Friday fellowship. It's my most regular place of worship. But there's certainly a sense around that 'churchgoing' really means a fairly conventional commitment to a Sunday morning church.
Posted by South Coast Kevin (# 16130) on
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Good points, K:LB and EM. And on the 'what church are you part of' question: I've chatted with a couple of people recently whose answer to this is somewhat unconventional!
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Originally posted by SvitlanaV2:
I've started going to a Friday morning fellowship at a residential home for the elderly... People often ask me which church I go to - especially the various clergy who come to lead worship at the Friday fellowship. I usually have to bluster a bit, but perhaps I should just refer to the Friday fellowship.
FWIW and from what you've said here, I'd certainly describe this fellowship as my church, if I were in your situation. The main meeting doesn't happen on Sunday; oh well, never mind. Friday suits the members better.
If it feels like church to you then say it's your church! Leave others be with their own opinion as to whether it's 'real church', I'd say.
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