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Posted by Ender's Shadow (# 2272) on :
 
On a previous thread someone raised the scenario of a lay person baptising an infant in an invitation only ceremony after their priest had refused to do so. I commented:
quote:

However the idea of a lay person doing a baptism against the explicit decision of the local priest needs to be commented on: this is a direct act of rebellion against church order, and the priest needs to get the bishop involved to tell her that it will result in their excommunication - or at least should, if the bishop has any understanding of their responsibility.

To which Greyface replied:
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I'm astonished you think priests should have this power given your position on Holy Tradition. On the precise question of Church order, I took no oaths to obey priests when I was confirmed nor did my parents and godparents take oaths on my behalf to do so when I was baptised. I am not in holy orders. It's vanishingly unlikely that I would ever be asked to baptise someone against the wishes of the parish priest, and it's even more unlikely that I would be unable to find a way out of the problem by spreading the net a little wider than one denomination and one parish, but if push came to shove I would act according to my conscience, not the orders of one priest.

Which didn't come as a surprise, but has made me think it through a bit further. The logic which I've found to underpin my initial intuition is as follows: the sacraments - baptism and communion - are the work of the church as a collective body, not the possession of an individual. To the extent that you are a member of a specific church, your doing the sacraments must be in accord with that church's understanding - the sacraments being what it is to be a church. Whilst it may be legitimate to do a hole in the wall baptism if your church has no view on the matter, once your church leader has spoken, then you are no longer free to do something which you are only doing in the name of the congregation of which you are a part. Therefore by carrying out the baptism, or actively participating in it, you are resigning from your congregation; the statement of 'excommunication' is merely a reflection of the reality of what you have done.

It's very striking how alien this logic is to our individualistic mindset. We emphasis the role of the individual and God, and tend to ignore the role of the church. That my logic seems so alien to us is a symptom of how we tend to think - but it doesn't make it right... It perhaps helps to consider whether you feel free to carry out a communion in your home without the presence of a priest. This should clarify it for some - though others don't see the problem here either [Help]
 
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on :
 
Indeed. How terrifying. People holding Eucharistic celebrations in their own houses. It'd be like the New Testament!
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
Firstly, there aren't being baptised into one specific community, but rather the church universal. But yes, on the other hand, the community they appear in for baptism usually has some significance for the people involved and so the community gets the chance to welcome the child and give them their support.

Technically speaking, anyone can baptise, and it's not just the role of a priest. So long as it's done with water and in the name of the Trinity. For instance, it may be necessary to baptise a child who is dying or has a shortened life expectancy that wouldn't allow enough time for a community to gather or for a priest to come and do it.

In cases where a cleric may refuse to perform a baptism (or a marriage or confirmation for that matter), I think it's the general rule among the members of the Anglican Communion to have right of appeal to the archdeacon and to (under his and the Bishops auspices) to 'employ' a priest to carry out the function in the church and before it's community.

It's extremely rare, as far as I know, for baptism to be refused. The only instance I can think of is when the parents and godparents have made it eminently clear that they despise the church, reject the Gospel and are only doing it for the party afterwards. I have to say I have never come across this personally, probably because people who hold the church and Gospel in contempt aren't likely to present their children for baptism.
 
Posted by Boogie (# 13538) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
It perhaps helps to consider whether you feel free to carry out a communion in your home without the presence of a priest. This should clarify it for some - though others don't see the problem here either [Help]

Free indeed - and have done so many times. Sharing bread and wine in remembrance of Jesus? Yes indeed.
 
Posted by balaam (# 4543) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Indeed. How terrifying. People holding Eucharistic celebrations in their own houses. It'd be like the New Testament!

Yes.

When I saw the title "A lay person baptising in defiance of their priest" I immediately thought of John the Baptist.
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Ender's Shadow:
quote:
It perhaps helps to consider whether you feel free to carry out a communion in your home without the presence of a priest. This should clarify it for some - though others don't see the problem here either
Well, yeah, if you were a memorialist, it wouldn't. But then an apostolic succession, Real Presence believer wouldn't think anything happened at such a communion but some nice words, a bite, and a sip.

A baptism is different. The person baptized is baptized even by a lay Christian and IMO even one who only trusts in Christ without a complete theological picture. So if the person baptized is a child, what are you going to do, cut that innocent from the life of the church by shunning the parent? Because that is what excommunication essentially is.
 
Posted by Bostonman (# 17108) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
Whilst it may be legitimate to do a hole in the wall baptism if your church has no view on the matter, once your church leader has spoken, then you are no longer free to do something which you are only doing in the name of the congregation of which you are a part.

(my emphasis)

Except that baptism is not something you are "only doing in the name of the congregation of which you are a part." It is quite explicitly something you are doing in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. I can't see how on earth it's impossible to claim that baptism is something you're only doing in the name of your local congregation, on either a literal or a theological level.

quote:
It perhaps helps to consider whether you feel free to carry out a communion in your home without the presence of a priest
Except that in virtually all denominations, laypeople are explicitly not allowed to preside at the Eucharist, while in virtually all denominations, laypeople are explicitly allowed to baptize. The validity of baptism as a sacrament is not believed to depend on the person baptizing being in valid orders. e.g., the Roman Catholic Church recognizes people baptized by someone who is not an RC priest as being baptized.
 
Posted by Schroedinger's cat (# 64) on :
 
There is an interesting challenge here, as to how wide a priests authority stretches. While they do have authority within their church community and activities, it does not extend to people outside the community. Probably.

So if a minister (irrespective of demonination) made it clear that they would not baptise a member of their church, for whatever reason, then it would be wrong for any other member to perform that baptism. That is a point where you have to choose between staying in the church and leaving, and if it is so important for you, I would say leaving is the only choice.

Where it is for someone outside the community of that church, for a member to baptise them when the minister has refused is, IMO, perfectly reasonable, assuming that the reasons are justified. The minister may have a reason for not baptising them within the context of their fellowship, while the member can baptise them into the wider community of Christ.

It is one of my bugbears that the Church likes to establish its authority. Baptism in about the Christian faith, not the Church community. It should be done as baptism into the faith, with other people of faith around. That does not mean into a specific Church Community.

Eucharist in your own house? I would always be for that. I realise that the CofE has a problem over this, but then I was never very good at obeying rules. At the end of the day, I believe that the expression of my faith is about ministering to other people, helping them to engage with God. Sometimes this happens within a church community, but I am finding more and more that it very often happens outside that.
 
Posted by Belle Ringer (# 13379) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
Ender's Shadow:
quote:
It perhaps helps to consider whether you feel free to carry out a communion in your home without the presence of a priest.
an apostolic succession, Real Presence believer wouldn't think anything happened at such a communion but some nice words, a bite, and a sip.
Disagree. Doing communion at home, no clergy anywhere in sight, is what turned me from memorialist to "there is something spiritual going on!" But the fact that the something spiritual goes on at my hand (and other lay hands) is proof enough that you don't have to be ordained to be effective. :-)

Of course, it also disproves the limited concept of apostolic succession endorsed by churches that use that term, or anyway disproves that only people in the "apostolic succession" line can be spiritually effective this way.

As to Real Presence, I prefer "something spiritual" to making a declaration that cannot be shown true or false as to exactly what the "something spiritual" is. Although I'm sure some will say "most be negative spirituality, God is not allowed to bless anything the church disapproves of." Such a limited God we have?

[ 10. December 2012, 14:00: Message edited by: Belle Ringer ]
 
Posted by Ricardus (# 8757) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
once your church leader has spoken, then you are no longer free to do something which you are only doing in the name of the congregation of which you are a part.

But is a priest even empowered to say "This child should not be baptised" (as opposed to "I don't intend to baptise this child")?

I hope not. It would seem to be passing the keys of the kingdom from St Peter to the local vicar. I didn't think even Popes claimed this sort of power ... [Ultra confused] [Ultra confused] [Ultra confused]
 
Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
As Lynda*Rose points out, this completely depends on what you believe about Communion and the kind of church you attend. For most churches outside the Anglican or Catholic traditions, a group of people sharing bread and wine at their home wouldn’t be a big deal. But most would expect the prayers to be said by “someone in good standing” within the congregation. But even for the churches where it would be, I’m not sure that one of the reasons that would spring to mind for not doing it would be the threat of excommunication. Sledge hammer and nut maybe?!

I’m not entirely convinced about the Baptism either. From the thread, it sounds like one Priest had refused to do it for reasons they considered valid and they were planning to ask another one. A DIY Baptism sounded like it was going to be the last resort.

It’s a difficult one to call – do you Baptise someone who doesn’t come regularly in the hope that it will draw them closer, or do you refuse on the basis that you need to be close in order to ask? I’m not sure, but in the equivalent situation that I have first hand experience of – a Baptist minister who refused to marry Christians to non-Christians – every couple who was refused left the church. Some went elsewhere and the non-Christian found faith elsewhere. Others ended up having to deal with a spouse who went from supportive to hostile on the basis that if the church doesn’t want to marry us, then screw them.

Tubbs
 
Posted by Ricardus (# 8757) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
It's extremely rare, as far as I know, for baptism to be refused.

I know of at least one case where a priest refused baptism because the parents were unmarried - this despite the fact that he regularly offers communion to two prominent members of the church choir who are not only unmarried but in a state of flagrant adultery.

The parents went to a different church which was quite happy to baptise them and are now active and regular members.
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
I suppose it's always possible to find a complete tit of a priest as an example. I think it's a pity though, if they don't make a formal complaint to the diocese and Bishop. This is not normal practice.
 
Posted by Crœsos (# 238) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ricardus:
But is a priest even empowered to say "This child should not be baptised" (as opposed to "I don't intend to baptise this child")?

I hope not. It would seem to be passing the keys of the kingdom from St Peter to the local vicar. I didn't think even Popes claimed this sort of power ... [Ultra confused] [Ultra confused] [Ultra confused]

At least one semi-famous historical example comes to mind where someone should've said "Hey, don't do this baptism!".
 
Posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider (# 76) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Belle Ringer:
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
Ender's Shadow:
quote:
It perhaps helps to consider whether you feel free to carry out a communion in your home without the presence of a priest.
an apostolic succession, Real Presence believer wouldn't think anything happened at such a communion but some nice words, a bite, and a sip.
Disagree. Doing communion at home, no clergy anywhere in sight, is what turned me from memorialist to "there is something spiritual going on!" But the fact that the something spiritual goes on at my hand (and other lay hands) is proof enough that you don't have to be ordained to be effective. :-)

Of course, it also disproves the limited concept of apostolic succession endorsed by churches that use that term, or anyway disproves that only people in the "apostolic succession" line can be spiritually effective this way.

As to Real Presence, I prefer "something spiritual" to making a declaration that cannot be shown true or false as to exactly what the "something spiritual" is. Although I'm sure some will say "most be negative spirituality, God is not allowed to bless anything the church disapproves of." Such a limited God we have?

Indeed. I'm quite content with congregations having their rules about who can officiate at a communion service held under the auspices of that denomination, but in the same way that I don't expect the CofE to come down on me like a ton of bricks if I receive communion at some house church somewhere at the hands of someone who makes no claim to be part of any apostolic succession (not that that's particularly likely), I would not expect that they should have a problem if it were to happen in my house, as long as I wasn't claiming it was an Anglican Eucharist service.

I probably would not officiate myself, as I want to consider myself an Anglican, but it's not to say that I consider there's anything inherently wrong with so doing; I recall Jesus saying "do this as often as you drink it", and "where two or more are gathered in my name", and so on, but never recall him saying anything about the magic words only working if a priest says them.
 
Posted by GreyFace (# 4682) on :
 
Let's be clear about this, ES. I'm not talking about random drive-by baptisms or acting on a whim. Say you encounter someone desperately wanting baptism, having been refused it by the local priest. No other avenues are open to you - perhaps this person is near death and there's no time to appeal to the hierarchy or quietly suggest that they might like to be a Methodist, or that Father Jack just across the parish boundary would be more amenable. You have the details and disagree with the priest's decision. What do you do?
 
Posted by Lamb Chopped (# 5528) on :
 
A priest is not the church. The people of God are the church, which is why my denom reserves excommunication to the whole assembly and not to a single person.

And in this case, what is contemplated is not excommunication, but something even worse-- the forcible withholding of the baptism of forgiveness and regeneration from a sinner. In this case, a helpless child. Call it refusal-of-communication-at-all. Not even St. Peter, or the very living and universal church of Christ in all ages, may forbid that. Who are we to refuse what the Lord has offered freely to all? There'll be a reckoning for those who slam the door of the kingdom in the faces of anyone trying to enter. God help them.
 
Posted by balaam (# 4543) on :
 
I have known baptism of a child to have been refused three times.

The first, a priest in an Anglo Catholic shack refused because both parents were staunch atheists doing it because of family pressure. I was on the PCC at that church. It got a brief mention in the national press, and more extensive coverage in the local rag. Twice. At the time, and again with headlines like "Vicar who refused baptism moves on," when he moved to another part of the country.

Another I attended a baptism in a Methodist chapel because the Anglican church had similarly refused
the baptism of the children of non believers.

The third was the adopted child of lesbians.

Try talking to parents who's child has been refused baptism about you faith and it becomes very clear how much damage has been done.
 
Posted by Bostonman (# 17108) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by balaam:
Try talking to parents who's child has been refused baptism about you faith and it becomes very clear how much damage has been done.

In case #3 (adopted child of lesbians), I can very much understand why this would turn people off and think it's abhorrent.

In the first two cases (non-believers), I'm not sure why the parents would be so turned off. Can you explain a bit more the ways in which they felt damaged?
 
Posted by The Silent Acolyte (# 1158) on :
 
Importing a question from an adjacent thread probably works best when enough of a context is either imported, too, or confected, providing some sort of case to work with.

Here, all we have is: The parish priest won't do it, with no accompanying detail. So, the answers can run across the map from:

1. the priest won't baptize the kidnapped child of Jewish parents to

2. the priest won't baptize the child because the parents are a same-sex couple.

I hardly need comment on the first, while I would personally baptize the second in a New York minute.
quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
Technically speaking, anyone can baptise, and it's not just the role of a priest. So long as it's done with water and in the name of the Trinity.

And, with the intent to do what the Church does, which in extremis, let's in baptism by non-Christians, Deo gratias.
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
The person baptized is baptized even by a lay Christian and IMO even one who only trusts in Christ without a complete theological picture.

I hope it won't be read as tedious nitpicking to opine that no one has a complete theological picture. This is as true of the holy mysteries of the eucharist as it is of holy baptism. I'll risk even further to say that, perhaps, trust in Christ is the complete theological picture.

Finally, I hope it's useful to point out the difference between East and West. In the West, typically, the form is, "Mortimer, I baptize you in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen." In the East it is "The servant of God, Mortimer, is baptized in the Name of the Father. Amen. And of the Son, Amen. And of the Holy Spirit. Amen."

The divine passive in the East points out exactly who the agent of baptism is; and, fer sure, it ain't us.

[ 10. December 2012, 14:35: Message edited by: The Silent Acolyte ]
 
Posted by Crœsos (# 238) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by The Silent Acolyte:
Importing a question from an adjacent thread probably works best when enough of a context is either imported, too, or confected, providing some sort of case to work with.

Here, all we have is: The parish priest won't do it, with no accompanying detail. So, the answers can run across the map from:

1. the priest won't baptize the kidnapped child of Jewish parents to

2. the priest won't baptize the child because the parents are a same-sex couple.

I hardly need comment on the first, while I would personally baptize the second in a New York minute.

You may hardly need to comment on the first, but it was quite the hot topic for a time. Pope Innocent III even had to go so far as to address the forced baptism of Jewish adults on four separate occasions.

[ 10. December 2012, 14:40: Message edited by: Crœsos ]
 
Posted by The Silent Acolyte (# 1158) on :
 
Take a deep breath, Crœsos. I chose your example precisely because I'm in your corner.
 
Posted by Belle Ringer (# 13379) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Bostonman:
In the first two cases (non-believers), I'm not sure why the parents would be so turned off. Can you explain a bit more the ways in which they felt damaged?

A lot of people seem to have, lurking under their atheism, some kind of spiritual longing. It's really an agnosticism. Some of my atheist friends were reared on a cold, cruel God looking for excuses to reject people and send them to hell. But they were also reared that babies have to be baptized -- not that long ago unbaptized babies in many denominations were considered "unsaved."

So they ask a church to baptize the baby, not because they believe but because they want to do the best for their baby and what if the things they were taught are true? But the church embodies the cruel rejecting God they were reared on, saying in effect "God rejects your baby." Now the cold cruel God is not just a memory from childhood, it's a present adult experience. God rejects me and mine, today.


Or it could just be that churches present themselves as being welcoming and accepting and the place to have your spiritual needs met, and so you go to have your baby baptized because you don't exactly believe except what if there really is a God and God wants babies baptized -- and the "welcome" "we represent God" place demonstrates itself to be so unwelcoming even an innocent baby is rejected. By those who say they represent God.

If God is so cold and unwelcoming and rejecting that his representatives want my baby to go to their hell, why should I respect anything they say, ever. The door to God, which had been open a tiny crack or they wouldn't be bringing the baby, is now firmly closed and locked.
 
Posted by Gramps49 (# 16378) on :
 
I cannot picture a priest refusing to baptize a child because the parents are unmarried. Why "punish" a child for the parents' decision.

I think there is one aspect to the OP scenario that hasn't been addressed is that this is a "by invitation only" event. Excuse me, but this is not a wedding ceremony. This is an event where an individual is being welcomed into the church--a body where it is the Spirit who does the inviting, not human beings.

I am thinking the priest would have problem with this because it is a community of faith ceremony, not a private affair. It should be done in the context of the congregation, where any member may attend if they so chose.
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Belle Ringer:
quote:
Of course, it also disproves the limited concept of apostolic succession endorsed by churches that use that term, or anyway disproves that only people in the "apostolic succession" line can be spiritually effective this way.
My phrase "apostolic successionist, Real Presence believer" was a bit of short hand for a very traditional, Catholic believer for whom the clear line of laying-on-of-hands is a very precise matter. Obviously there are folks such as yourself who by experience have found other definitions.
 
Posted by Robert Armin (# 182) on :
 
ES:
quote:
the priest needs to get the bishop involved to tell her [the person doing the baptising] that it will result in their excommunication
Isn't this a rather draconian response? When my sister was doing her nurse's training the entire class were taught how to baptise babies unlikely to live. The class included Christians, Sikhs, Hindus, Muslims and atheists.
 
Posted by Angloid (# 159) on :
 
I was about to comment on how, to my surprise, Ender's Shadow was expressing catholic theology. Then I re-read:
quote:
once your church leader has spoken, then you are no longer free to do something which you are only doing in the name of the congregation of which you are a part.
which puts a different slant on the matter.

The Church is not the local congregation. Traditional catholic theology would suggest that the diocese, and not the parish, is the local church. In any case, it needs to be established that the priest, in vetoing the baptism, is expressing the mind of the Church. Before any lay person ventured to take the matter into his/her own hands, it would be necessary to refer it to the Bishop. The Bishop would be perfectly justified in contradicting the priest's stance, and either compelling him/her to perform the baptism or allow another priest to do so.

Of course a lay person can baptise. But s/he only does so, as ES points out, on behalf of the Church and needs the authorisation of the Church. For a priest, that authorisation has already been given in ordination. For a lay person, baptising in an emergency, it might be assumed, and ratified afterwards when the registers are signed. It's hard to see when a lay person would need to perform a non-emergency baptism, at least in the normal circumstances of a Western parish.
 
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on :
 
I'm in agreement with several who've already posted here. Briefly, my position is this: if the priest has offended against Church order in denying baptism, then a lay baptism is not only permissible but quite possibly prophetic.
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Gramps49:
quote:
I am thinking the priest would have problem with this because it is a community of faith ceremony, not a private affair. It should be done in the context of the congregation, where any member may attend if they so chose.
This is a good point. But if both the priest and the parents took a "my way or the highway" attitude on a private baptism, I'd feel for the child. Essentially, the poor thing would wind up like the putative half a baby before Solomon in regards to its Christian journey. This is why I disagree with Ender's Shadow's excommunication. The baptismal water becomes bathwater flung away with the baby in the mix. (How's that for mixing baby metaphors? [Biased] )
 
Posted by roybart (# 17357) on :
 
Originally posted by Croesus:
quote:
At least one semi-famous historical example comes to mind where someone should've said "Hey, don't do this baptism!".
Thanks for that link. In response to world protest of the Church's actions in the case of Edgardo Levi Mortara, Pius IX said: "I could care less less what the world thinks." I can imagine the vicar mentioned in the OP sputtering exactly the same words, with great pride and with a firm conviction that he is defending Truth, while gleefully sticking it to "the world."

It's too bad that this thread is trying to deal with two examples that are not really all that comparable: baptism and the eucharist. The "baptism" scenario seems clearly to be a misuse of clerical power. The question of the eucharist has more serious theological implications. I'm appalled by the baptism decision, but actually (to my surprise) quite ambivalent about the case of home eucharists. (I assume that we are talking about bread and wine that has not been consecrated. Or are we?)

[ 10. December 2012, 15:29: Message edited by: roybart ]
 
Posted by deano (# 12063) on :
 
Our current Rector has said that he will baptise each and all who ask for it, on the basis that it isn’t up to him to refuse God’s Grace, which I find myself having to agree with.

The previous Rector, when parents whom he didn’t know asked for their child to be baptised, used to agree provided that they attended as a family for a couple of months so he could ensure they had some Christian teachings “under their belt” to be able to support the child as the Baptism vows request. Which I also agree with!

Both positions seem reasonable and at the same time mutually exclusive and that drives me insane!
 
Posted by Ender's Shadow (# 2272) on :
 
I established the new thread in order to avoid discussions about 'why' the priest refused; I'm interested in whether lay members of the parish have the right to ignore that refusal (and I'm assuming that it would be supported by the bishop, not that the priest is just being difficult). It's my argument that they don't. The original thread seems the place for the other arguments. And, of course the refusal implies that we aren't dealing with the 'emergency' scenario here, where all bets are off.
 
Posted by Belle Ringer (# 13379) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gramps49:
I think there is one aspect to the OP scenario that hasn't been addressed is that this is a "by invitation only" event. Excuse me, but this is not a wedding ceremony. This is an event where an individual is being welcomed into the church--a body where it is the Spirit who does the inviting, not human beings.

The original request was for a regular baptism as part of a regular church service open to all, as is normal. That was rejected.

Once a baptism is moved to a private house for lack of anywhere public to meet, it becomes "by invitation" only because there is room for only a few. No one is trying to separate the event from the congregation -- the congregation has been removed from the baptism by being denied the baptism taking place where the congregation can gather.

It would be an interesting theology -- this event is to be public, but we deny you any public space so you are forced against your own wishes to do it in private, but our rules say that means you can't do it at all even though you theoretically have the right from God to do it.

If weather cooperates, maybe it can be done in a public park. :-) But reserving a park for a non-civic purpose costs money for the permit.
 
Posted by Arch Anglo Catholic (# 15181) on :
 
The CofE position is/should be even clearer than the propositions above; it is not lawful for a minister of the Established Church to refuse or delay baptism of children properly brought for baptism, provided that the rules on notice and the number of godparents are complied with.

Canon B22 is tremendously clear, giving direct appeal to the Bishop if there is either refusal or delay.
In my own case, as a clerk in holy orders, I would never refuse/have never refused to baptise a child brought by his or her parents. The gift is of God freely given, my job is to serve.
 
Posted by GreyFace (# 4682) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
I established the new thread in order to avoid discussions about 'why' the priest refused; I'm interested in whether lay members of the parish have the right to ignore that refusal (and I'm assuming that it would be supported by the bishop, not that the priest is just being difficult). It's my argument that they don't.

I'm not sure that the two can be separated because the former will to a large extent determine the latter. If for example, the priest was a heretic who wouldn't baptise anyone who believed in the divinity of Christ, and the bishop happened to lack to spine to overrule him (I've already said I consider these kinds of circumstances extremely unlikely) then where do you stand?
 
Posted by GreyFace (# 4682) on :
 
Correction: the spine.

For the record I agree with the essence of ES's argument that it would be a serious matter. But I think we need to reserve the right to act according to conscience on this one.
 
Posted by Sober Preacher's Kid (# 12699) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
Firstly, there aren't being baptised into one specific community, but rather the church universal. But yes, on the other hand, the community they appear in for baptism usually has some significance for the people involved and so the community gets the chance to welcome the child and give them their support.

Technically speaking, anyone can baptise, and it's not just the role of a priest. So long as it's done with water and in the name of the Trinity. For instance, it may be necessary to baptise a child who is dying or has a shortened life expectancy that wouldn't allow enough time for a community to gather or for a priest to come and do it.

In cases where a cleric may refuse to perform a baptism (or a marriage or confirmation for that matter), I think it's the general rule among the members of the Anglican Communion to have right of appeal to the archdeacon and to (under his and the Bishops auspices) to 'employ' a priest to carry out the function in the church and before it's community.

Technically anyone? Looks like everyone is ignoring Reformed eccelisiology (again). In Reformed theology, Baptism in an act of the Church and cannot be done outside of the body of the Church. It must be recognized by the Session, employ the Trinitarian formula and be performed by a person authorized by the session to baptize, that is the Minister of Word & Sacrament (not Minister of Word & Holy Communion). No, laity may not in Reformed thought baptize. The example child's baptism could be and would be dismissed as outside the authority of the Session an in fact in blatant defiance of it, therefore the Nicene Creed's pronouncements do not come into effect.
 
Posted by Belle Ringer (# 13379) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
I established the new thread ... I'm interested in whether lay members of the parish have the right to ignore that refusal (and I'm assuming that it would be supported by the bishop, not that the priest is just being difficult). It's my argument that they don't.

I think a comment up-thread raises an issue directly related to what you are saying, and on which we all probably disagree (as usual).

"I probably would not [do X] as I want to consider myself an Anglican, but it's not to say that I consider there's anything inherently wrong with so doing."

The specific topic was Eucharist without the presence of a clergy, but it points to the question I was about to start a different thread on. What does church membership mean?

I am Episcopalian by upbringing and familiarity and socially fitting in, not by specific theology. (I totally disagree with the concept of a separate class of "priest" with spiritual powers not accessible by lay). But I was reared, and hear many today say, you don't have to believe any specific things to be Episcopalian.

In recent years I have discovered many people in any denomination disagree with and quietly ignore at least some of their church's teachings. They don't raise a public fuss about their disagreements, they just ignore whatever they disagree with.

My Catholic friends use contraception, my Baptist friends drink alcohol, in a local church that preaches "women should not hold jobs" all the staff (except the head preacher) are low-paid men whose wives' jobs provide most of the family income plus the medical insurance.

So church as a gathering that operates by rules as any gathering must to avoid chaos, makes sense, but church as a list of rules you follow even though you are nowhere near the official gathering, is puzzling to me.

To what extent does church membership include a requirement that you act -- outside official church gatherings -- accordingly with all the intricate details of behavior-limiting theologies you don't agree with?
 
Posted by Ender's Shadow (# 2272) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arch Anglo Catholic:
The CofE position is/should be even clearer than the propositions above; it is not lawful for a minister of the Established Church to refuse or delay baptism of children properly brought for baptism, provided that the rules on notice and the number of godparents are complied with.

Canon B22 is tremendously clear, giving direct appeal to the Bishop if there is either refusal or delay.
In my own case, as a clerk in holy orders, I would never refuse/have never refused to baptise a child brought by his or her parents. The gift is of God freely given, my job is to serve.

OK - if you persist in refusing to play the game, consider the scenario that neither of the parents are themselves baptised, but turn up demanding baptism for their baby. This is a requirement of the BCP service...
 
Posted by SyNoddy (# 17009) on :
 
I'd do it, if asked, regardless of the vicar or anyone else.
 
Posted by Fr Weber (# 13472) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Sober Preacher's Kid:
quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:


Technically speaking, anyone can baptise, and it's not just the role of a priest.

Technically anyone? Looks like everyone is ignoring Reformed eccelisiology (again).
This case seems pretty obviously to be Anglican. Though some Anglicans do affirm a Reformed heritage, I suspect that for most Reformed ecclesiology is as beside the point as Baptist ecclesiology.
 
Posted by Doublethink (# 1984) on :
 
What is the theological logic of not baptising a baby (if you believe in infant baptism) ?

Not doing it doesn't make the child more likely to access the Christian faith, and if you do do it there is a least a slight chance that someone in the family will think a little more about the possibility of the Christian faith. If they don't, what has been lost ?
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Doublethink:
What is the theological logic of not baptising a baby (if you believe in infant baptism) ?

Not doing it doesn't make the child more likely to access the Christian faith, and if you do do it there is a least a slight chance that someone in the family will think a little more about the possibility of the Christian faith. If they don't, what has been lost ?

The good will of the parents?
 
Posted by tclune (# 7959) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
quote:
Originally posted by Doublethink:
What is the theological logic of not baptising a baby (if you believe in infant baptism) ?

Not doing it doesn't make the child more likely to access the Christian faith, and if you do do it there is a least a slight chance that someone in the family will think a little more about the possibility of the Christian faith. If they don't, what has been lost ?

The good will of the parents?
In my church, there is another aspect of this -- the baptism includes a vow by the congregation to do all within its power to raise the child in the faith. The more conscientious in our congregation feel that they are taking an oath in vain when they promise to do that with a child that they have never seen before and presumably will never see again. FWIW

--Tom Clune
 
Posted by Higgs Bosun (# 16582) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gramps49:

I think there is one aspect to the OP scenario that hasn't been addressed is that this is a "by invitation only" event. Excuse me, but this is not a wedding ceremony. This is an event where an individual is being welcomed into the church--a body where it is the Spirit who does the inviting, not human beings.

<tangent> I believe in England that a wedding has to be open to anyone. Otherwise, someone who who knows "just cause or impediment why these two should not be joined in holy matrimony" could be excluded.</tangent>

[ 10. December 2012, 18:28: Message edited by: Higgs Bosun ]
 
Posted by Imersge Canfield (# 17431) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by tclune:
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
quote:
Originally posted by Doublethink:
What is the theological logic of not baptising a baby (if you believe in infant baptism) ?

Not doing it doesn't make the child more likely to access the Christian faith, and if you do do it there is a least a slight chance that someone in the family will think a little more about the possibility of the Christian faith. If they don't, what has been lost ?

The good will of the parents?
In my church, there is another aspect of this -- the baptism includes a vow by the congregation to do all within its power to raise the child in the faith. The more conscientious in our congregation feel that they are taking an oath in vain when they promise to do that with a child that they have never seen before and presumably will never see again. FWIW

--Tom Clune

My understanding from what has been written here, is that this child is in church at worship, every Sunday with their grandmother.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
As for the point made in the OP, I disagree. First, it is nothing less than a tragic case if a honest desire for such an essential good as baptism is due to rare circumstance somehow at odds with the good of the Church and the individual. In tragic circumstances one must always be careful to not make matters worse by harsh application of law. Second, excommunication is the harshest penalty at the Church's disposal and is reserved for the gravest offences against faith and morals. The only thing that could potentially grip here is "schism".

But simple disobedience is not schism. Or otherwise, quite frankly, the vast majority of Catholics would be actually schismatics. Schism used to be a fundamental and lasting disobedience to one's bishop. Today one might say it is a fundamental and lasting rupture with the hierarchy of one's church, and in the case of RCs, with the pope. At any rate, defying your priest by baptising your grandson is not typically the sort of action that is implied in schism. If you went around as a layperson baptising any infant you could get your hands on, after your bishop told you most clearly to stop doing that, then you are probably a schismatic. Then you are not just following an impulse to do something against the will of the clergy, where you think they have it wrong. Then you are systematically rebelling against and defying proper Church authority on important matters.

However, baptising someone when the clergy refused to do so (hopefully for good reason, see below) is merely a "regular" sin. It may be a mortal sin, and hence endanger the salvation of the perpetrator, though I would think that it could well be only a venial sin. For after all, this is a sin motivated by the good of faith, it is an ill-conceived attempt to be pleasing to God. This is not the typical sort of sin that seeks falsely a good for oneself, this sin has at least to recommend for itself that it seeks the good of another, and not merely a temporal good, but an eternal one. It shows perhaps a bit of pride (one thinks to know better than the priest), a lack of prudence, and perhaps a lack of patience and trust in God.

But it really is not an occasion for hammering the well-meaning but ill-advised with the largest club the Church can wield. In my opinion, IANACL.

For those interested: the general attitude of the RCC to the problem of people apart from the Church seeking her baptism is that if - yet only if - there is reasonable hope that the child will be raised in the faith, then it should be baptised:
quote:
Instruction on Infant Baptism. By the Sacred Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Approved by His Holiness Pope John Paul II October 20, 1980
Dialogue Between Pastors and Families With Little Faith or Non-Christian Families

30. It sometimes happens that pastors are approached by parents who have little faith and practice their religion only occasionally, or even by non-Christian parents who request Baptism for their children for reasons that deserve consideration. In this case the pastor will endeavor by means of a clear-sighted and understanding dialogue to arouse the parents' interest in the sacrament they are requesting and make them aware of the responsibility that they are assuming. In fact the Church can only accede to the desire of these parents if they give an assurance that, once the child is baptized, it will be given the benefit of the Christian upbringing required by the sacrament. The Church must have a well-founded hope that the Baptism will bear fruit.

If the assurances given — for example, the choice of godparents who will take sincere care of the child, or the support of the community of the faithful — are sufficient, the priest cannot refuse to celebrate the sacrament without delay, as in the case of children of Christian families. If on the other hand they are insufficient, it will be prudent to delay Baptism. However the pastors should keep in contact with the parents so as to secure, if possible, the conditions required on their part for the celebration of the sacrament. If even this solution fails, it can be suggested, as a last recourse, that the child be enrolled in a catechumenate to be given when the child reaches school age.

31. These rules have already been made, and are already in force, but they require some clarifications. In the first place it must be clear that the refusal of Baptism is not a means of exercising pressure. Nor can one speak of refusal, still less of discrimination, but rather of educational delay, according to individual cases, aimed at helping the family to grow in faith or to become more aware of its responsibilities. With regard to the assurances, any pledge giving a well-founded hope for the Christian upbringing of the children deserves to be considered as sufficient. ...

I think there is a good analogy here to citizenship. As a citizen of a nation one has many rights and privileges, like freedom of movement with the nation, being able to work or own a business, etc. But one also has duties and obligations, like paying taxes, serving in the army in the time of war, etc. We do not give someone citizenship just because they desire the rights and privileges thereof. We must also have reasonable hope that they will comply with their duties and obligations.

To become a son or daughter of God is the greatest of rights and privileges. But it is not a life free of duties and obligations. A Christian life does not consist merely in having been baptised once upon a time. It consist in living a life pleasing to God, or at least trying to do so. This is interpreted in different ways in different churches, but for example, if one never prays to God then how can one be deemed a Christian? Children born to citizens of our nations are given their citizenship on the expectation that the parents, as citizens, will bring up their children to become citizens. A like opportunity is extended to parents by the Church concerning their children becoming Christian, with like expectations.

Mindful of the necessity of baptism, the Church will take any reasonable hope that a child will grow up to become a Christian. But if there is none, then it would be improper to baptise. It does the child no good if it grows up theoretically baptised but not living a Christian life. Even if one assumes that the former child will not be condemned for failing in Christian duties as adult, due to ignorance, their baptism of the past is not sufficient for their salvation then, their already being baptised may actually hinder their search for salvation, and certainly this mess will be attributed at least in part to those who caused it - and nobody needs more millstones around their neck. Of course, if the child is in danger of death, then these considerations must be set aside - precisely because one does not expect such an un-Christian future. But becoming part of the household of faith is not quite a matter of handing out grace freebies to simply everyone that asks.
 
Posted by Alogon (# 5513) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Angloid:
the priest, in vetoing the baptism, is expressing the mind of the Church. Before any lay person ventured to take the matter into his/her own hands, it would be necessary to refer it to the Bishop.



The canons express the mind of the church. Can anyone show me a canon giving a priest the authority to forbid a parishioner to baptize? He's not a little dictator, able to give any commands he pleases. As for the threat of excommunication, I'd hope that the priest would need to make a very convincing case that the motive for the parishioner's act was somehow malicious and intended to stir up trouble for the community.
 
Posted by Doublethink (# 1984) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
quote:
Originally posted by Doublethink:
What is the theological logic of not baptising a baby (if you believe in infant baptism) ?

Not doing it doesn't make the child more likely to access the Christian faith, and if you do do it there is a least a slight chance that someone in the family will think a little more about the possibility of the Christian faith. If they don't, what has been lost ?

The good will of the parents?
I was assuming the good will of the parents - e.g. atheist parents requesting baptism for their child.
 
Posted by Percy B (# 17238) on :
 
A small contribution, if I may, is about the registration of a baptism. Later in life sometimes we need a baptism certificate.

If a lay person does a baptism in a garden or wherever there should be an effort made to register the baptism in the parish church registers. I know its an odd thing, but it could be very helpful for the person in the future.
 
Posted by Imersge Canfield (# 17431) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Percy B:
A small contribution, if I may, is about the registration of a baptism. Later in life sometimes we need a baptism certificate.

If a lay person does a baptism in a garden or wherever there should be an effort made to register the baptism in the parish church registers. I know its an odd thing, but it could be very helpful for the person in the future.

This is a useful point . A certificate may be bought from religious suppliers. Including an attractive ecumencial baptism certifcate.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Ecumenical-Certificate-of-Baptism/dp/0281046115

Or rather creatively, those concerned could make
and paint their own copy could be sent to local church if desired or where-ever. Could also be notifed in the local newspaper, and a cutting saved with all the child's other momentos and treasures.
 
Posted by Belle Ringer (# 13379) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Percy B:
Later in life sometimes we need a baptism certificate.

For what?

Genuine ignorance here. I have been asked (by a church when I moved to a new town) if I was ever baptized, no one has ever asked me to show a certificate.
 
Posted by Margaret (# 283) on :
 
You need a certificate of baptism (and a record of your confirmation) if you want to be ordained in the Church of England (and I'm sure in other churches too); our curate, who got ordained after she retired, had lost hers and had no idea where her parents had been attending church when she was baptised. Both had died, a surviving aunt couldn't remember a thing, and all she had to go on was that her parents had been living in Durham at the time. She finally tracked down the record of her baptism in the parish register of a church in Durham, but if she'd still had the certificate it would have saved a lot of worry and trouble.
 
Posted by St Deird (# 7631) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
]Well, yeah, if you were a memorialist, it wouldn't. But then an apostolic succession, Real Presence believer wouldn't think anything happened at such a communion but some nice words, a bite, and a sip.

Um...

Real presence believer, right here. Also part of the priesthood of all believers, and pretty sure that when two or three are gathered together, real sacraments are really real.

I'm aware that apostolic succession and real presence often go together. But try not to conflate the two, okay?
 
Posted by Alogon (# 5513) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by St Deird:
I'm pretty sure that when two or three are gathered together, real sacraments are really real.

I'm aware that apostolic succession and real presence often go together. But try not to conflate the two, okay?

You're just evading the issue by gainsaying a term and pretending that it means nothing. Did you notice that Lyda*Rose capitalized "Real Presence?" This refers to a belief in the objective efficacy of the Eucharistic elements when duly consecrated by a priest. It is a widespread doctrine with a fairly clear meaning, although deliberately vaguer than "Transubstantiation". Would you prefer that word?

[ 10. December 2012, 20:59: Message edited by: Alogon ]
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Alogon:
The canons express the mind of the church. Can anyone show me a canon giving a priest the authority to forbid a parishioner to baptize?

I do not share the opinion that all that is not forbidden by canon law is licit, but in the case at hand I can be at your service...
quote:

Can. 861 §1. The ordinary minister of baptism is a bishop, a presbyter, or a deacon, without prejudice to the prescript of ⇒ can. 530, n. 1.
§2. When an ordinary minister is absent or impeded, a catechist or another person designated for this function by the local ordinary, or in a case of necessity any person with the right intention, confers baptism licitly. Pastors of souls, especially the pastor of a parish, are to be concerned that the Christian faithful are taught the correct way to baptize.


 
Posted by St Deird (# 7631) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Alogon:
quote:
Originally posted by St Deird:
I'm pretty sure that when two or three are gathered together, real sacraments are really real.

I'm aware that apostolic succession and real presence often go together. But try not to conflate the two, okay?

You're just evading the issue by gainsaying a term and pretending that it means nothing. Did you notice that Lyda*Rose capitalized "Real Presence?" This refers to a belief in the objective efficacy of the Eucharistic elements when duly consecrated by a priest. It is a widespread doctrine with a fairly clear meaning, although deliberately vaguer than "Transubstantiation". Would you prefer that word?
My failure to capitalise is because I'm using my phone, and has nothing to do with a different definition of the term. I agree precisely with your definition above; I just think that "priest" applies to a wider subset of the population.
 
Posted by Angloid (# 159) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Alogon:
quote:
Originally posted by Angloid:
the priest, in vetoing the baptism, is expressing the mind of the Church. Before any lay person ventured to take the matter into his/her own hands, it would be necessary to refer it to the Bishop.



The canons express the mind of the church. Can anyone show me a canon giving a priest the authority to forbid a parishioner to baptize? He's not a little dictator, able to give any commands he pleases. As for the threat of excommunication, I'd hope that the priest would need to make a very convincing case that the motive for the parishioner's act was somehow malicious and intended to stir up trouble for the community.

My point exactly. You quoted me out of context. I said:
quote:
In any case, it needs to be established that the priest.....

 
Posted by Percy B (# 17238) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Belle Ringer:
quote:
Originally posted by Percy B:
Later in life sometimes we need a baptism certificate.

For what?

Genuine ignorance here. I have been asked (by a church when I moved to a new town) if I was ever baptized, no one has ever asked me to show a certificate.

In England for admission of a child to some schools - RC or c of e. sometimes, this not always.
 
Posted by Alogon (# 5513) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by St Deird:
My failure to capitalise is because I'm using my phone, and has nothing to do with a different definition of the term. I agree precisely with your definition above; I just think that "priest" applies to a wider subset of the population.

OK, sorry for misunderstanding you. It is a theoretically coherent idea that (1) the consecrated eucharistic elements have all the stature that tradition claims for them and that (2) any member of the church, presumably even a child, can invoke the blessing that makes them so. But I'm not aware of any well-developed school of thought that actually makes both of these claims. I once proposed to try it myself when I was about ten years old; but Dad objected that it would be sacrilegious, and I believed him. Silly me.

[ 10. December 2012, 23:25: Message edited by: Alogon ]
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by St Deird:
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
]Well, yeah, if you were a memorialist, it wouldn't. But then an apostolic succession, Real Presence believer wouldn't think anything happened at such a communion but some nice words, a bite, and a sip.

Um...

Real presence believer, right here. Also part of the priesthood of all believers, and pretty sure that when two or three are gathered together, real sacraments are really real.

I'm aware that apostolic succession and real presence often go together. But try not to conflate the two, okay?

Did you miss this?
quote:
My phrase "apostolic successionist, Real Presence believer" was a bit of short hand for a very traditional, Catholic believer for whom the clear line of laying-on-of-hands is a very precise matter. Obviously there are folks such as yourself [Belle Ringer] who by experience have found other definitions.

I guess you don't like my short hand. Fair enough.

However, I think I am allowed to refer to a specific sort of person who sees both these concepts in traditional black and white terms without writing a paragraph about it. Since I referred to a person who held both these beliefs, it obviously wasn't about someone like you.
 
Posted by St Deird (# 7631) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
Did you miss this?
quote:
My phrase "apostolic successionist, Real Presence believer" was a bit of short hand for a very traditional, Catholic believer for whom the clear line of laying-on-of-hands is a very precise matter. Obviously there are folks such as yourself [Belle Ringer] who by experience have found other definitions.

I guess you don't like my short hand. Fair enough.

I did miss it, yeah. Apologies.
 
Posted by Ender's Shadow (# 2272) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by Alogon:
The canons express the mind of the church. Can anyone show me a canon giving a priest the authority to forbid a parishioner to baptize?

I do not share the opinion that all that is not forbidden by canon law is licit, but in the case at hand I can be at your service...
quote:

Can. 861 §1. The ordinary minister of baptism is a bishop, a presbyter, or a deacon, without prejudice to the prescript of ⇒ can. 530, n. 1.
§2. When an ordinary minister is absent or impeded, a catechist or another person designated for this function by the local ordinary, or in a case of necessity any person with the right intention, confers baptism licitly. Pastors of souls, especially the pastor of a parish, are to be concerned that the Christian faithful are taught the correct way to baptize.


Thank you, IngoB for providing the reference in canon law; it helps me explain WHY it is a schismatic act, for which excommunication is the inevitable consequence.

Let's expand a bit: as the canon law says, the proper minister of baptism is someone under the authority of the church, acting with that authority. Therefore to reject that authority, other than in a case of 'necessity', is a fundamentally schismatic act. It is to claim to have the authority of the church for your act as an individual. This is BY DEFINITION to set yourself up as a church. You are therefore acting as a schismatic. Unfortunately 500 years of Protestantism has meant that we don't take this statement seriously - our overblown individualism means that we think we have the right to do whatever we think is right. But actually this is deeply unhealthy. There MAY be a justification for such an act - but the logic of it demands that you go the full hog and separate from your church if you seriously believe that action is the right thing to do. Sadly, because we don't take the 'Body of Christ' seriously, we allow the growth of a buffet approach to being a Christian, with no willingness to accept the theological logic of our actions.
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
Enders, I think you are right to an extent and it's interesting that the question of a 'valid' Eucharistic celebration has come up on this thread too. In places where Christianity has been under persecution the role of a priest and a 'valid' sacrament became quite important - not because they had such an elevated view of the 'powers' of a priest saying the right words, but simply because of the sense of being linked into the wider church, who was praying with them and for them. In their isolation, the importance of the body of Christ as opposed to their individual needs became very important.

I have a feeling I haven't expressed this terribly well....but not sure how else to phrase it.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
Let's expand a bit: as the canon law says, the proper minister of baptism is someone under the authority of the church, acting with that authority. Therefore to reject that authority, other than in a case of 'necessity', is a fundamentally schismatic act. It is to claim to have the authority of the church for your act as an individual. This is BY DEFINITION to set yourself up as a church. You are therefore acting as a schismatic. Unfortunately 500 years of Protestantism has meant that we don't take this statement seriously - our overblown individualism means that we think we have the right to do whatever we think is right.

I'm not a Protestant, but a Roman Catholic, and a fairly traditional minded one at that. I do not at all believe that I have the right to do whatever I please in matters of faith and morals. Nevertheless, I say you are wrong here. Again, it is not the case that every disobedience is a schism. It may well reveal schismatic tendencies and it may well develop into a schism. But schism is an explicit and lasting defiance of church authority, with the clear intent to separate oneself from that authority. It is not just any old disobedience, not even if this disobedience was in response to an explicit command by said authority. This does not mean that a more "ordinary" disobedience is OK, it typically is a sin, and possibly a mortal sin. Thus it requires repentance and reconciliation with God (and thus with Church authority). But Roman Catholicism has a sacrament for that. One does not have to excommunicate people in order for the sacrament of confession to work. Indeed, then its regular working is somewhat impeded (because higher authority than normal must be involved).

From a RC point of view, Eastern Orthodox are schismatics. Anglicans are schismatics. Protestants are schismatics. The SSPX were maybe schismatics. A granny baptising her grandchild after a priest has said not to do so is not schismatic, but disobedient. There is no intention there to generally reject the authority of the Church and to break communion with her hierarchy. There is no kind of systematic organisation of resistance to ecclesiastical governance. This is a singular instance of an ill-advised ignoring of some rules laid down for a specific case. I do not believe that Catholics who steadfastly ignore the rulings of the hierarchy on contraception are properly called "schismatics". But one could make a much better case for that than about a granny who wants to get her grandchild into heaven by this illicit means no matter what "silly priests" may say.
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
posted by Ingo:
quote:

I'm not a Protestant, but a Roman Catholic, and a fairly traditional minded one at that.

You know, I never had that impression of you until you said it. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Ender's Shadow (# 2272) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
posted by Ingo:
quote:

I'm not a Protestant, but a Roman Catholic, and a fairly traditional minded one at that.

You know, I never had that impression of you until you said it. [Big Grin]
Naw - he's a rabid liberal as I've just demonstrated... [Razz]
 
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on :
 
Ender's, can I ask you to focus for a moment on what I think are two important points here?

First, I don't think I've seen you acknowledge that in some circumstances it may be the priest, rather than the family, who has departed from Church practice by denying the baptism in the first place. What should the family do then? (And what should they do if the bishop refuses to discipline the priest?)

Secondly, if a "private" baptism takes place, and is a valid baptism, how should the priest work with the fact that s/he now has a newly-baptised infant in the parish?
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by St Deird:
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
Did you miss this?
quote:
My phrase "apostolic successionist, Real Presence believer" was a bit of short hand for a very traditional, Catholic believer for whom the clear line of laying-on-of-hands is a very precise matter. Obviously there are folks such as yourself [Belle Ringer] who by experience have found other definitions.

I guess you don't like my short hand. Fair enough.

I did miss it, yeah. Apologies.
Accepted.
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by balaam:
quote:
Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
Indeed. How terrifying. People holding Eucharistic celebrations in their own houses. It'd be like the New Testament!

Yes.

When I saw the title "A lay person baptising in defiance of their priest" I immediately thought of John the Baptist.

But was there an 'official' priestly baptism in the Jewish faith, at that time, which John was potentially undermining or copying? Baptism is the initiation rite of most of the Christian church and seen in that light is sacramentally vital. But I'm almost sure John's baptism was the kind of thing itinerant wildcards like him and Jesus did - not the religious institution.

Personally, I'm ambiguous about this. I'm sure that anyone baptized by anyone else is truly baptized. But - as usual - our institutional rules usually demand more in the way of conditional authority for organizational validity. Eg, if unsure of the validity of a confirmand's or an ordinand's baptism, they are 'done' by the Bish, just in case. So if we're attached to a particular institution, it's rational to follow the authority that exists there.

I recall that there's something in the old prayer-books about a baby who might've been baptized in an emergency; this colloquially being referred to as a 'half-baptism'. And for the baptism to be 'completed' more formally in church at a later date.
 
Posted by Ender's Shadow (# 2272) on :
 
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Originally posted by Adeodatus:
Ender's, can I ask you to focus for a moment on what I think are two important points here?

First, I don't think I've seen you acknowledge that in some circumstances it may be the priest, rather than the family, who has departed from Church practice by denying the baptism in the first place. What should the family do then? (And what should they do if the bishop refuses to discipline the priest?)

Secondly, if a "private" baptism takes place, and is a valid baptism, how should the priest work with the fact that s/he now has a newly-baptised infant in the parish?

1) I'm assuming that the policy of the church has been followed. It's therefore a question as to whether the person is willing to accept the logic of their position and leave their church - or persist in a state of unrepentant schism with respect to their congregation. Of course if the bishop supports the family, there's no issue. But if he doesn't, they've abrogated to themselves a role that should be exercised by their leader.

2) Assuming that the priest chooses to ignore the behaviour of the schismatic, then it should make zero difference in the treatment of the baby subsequently.

Let's be clear - I'm offering a very traditionalist perspective - but in fact I'm working it out for myself in the sense that I've never taken the logic this far before. I am strongly convinced that we need to take the corporate nature of the church more seriously - but as to HOW we do that, I really don't know. What I do feel I know is that this should be a big issue; that we aren't treating it as such reflects something very wrong about our understanding of the church.
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
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Originally posted by Percy B:
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Originally posted by Belle Ringer:
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Originally posted by Percy B:
Later in life sometimes we need a baptism certificate.

For what?

Genuine ignorance here. I have been asked (by a church when I moved to a new town) if I was ever baptized, no one has ever asked me to show a certificate.

In England for admission of a child to some schools - RC or c of e. sometimes, this not always.
Additionally, some priests won't sponsor a candidate for confirmation without a proper cert for baptism; in which case confirmation will follow the candidate's baptism. Here in the Rep. of Ireland we seem to have loads of baptism certs floating around when it comes to inter-church marriages, as the RC Church request these.

Also, if one is foolish enough to go forward for ordination, a full baptism cert is required. Or once again, no matter what Mum or Dad say, you get dunked again by the Bishop!
 
Posted by Belle Ringer (# 13379) on :
 
I'm intrigued by the comments about appealing up the chain to the bishop. Realistically, wouldn't that annoy the local clergy person you have to deal with weekly or daily, making church relationships on a local level stressed for potentially a long time?

No matter what the bishop says, going over someone's head is not viewed as a friendly act, in any environment.
 
Posted by Augustine the Aleut (# 1472) on :
 
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Originally posted by Belle Ringer:
I'm intrigued by the comments about appealing up the chain to the bishop. Realistically, wouldn't that annoy the local clergy person you have to deal with weekly or daily, making church relationships on a local level stressed for potentially a long time?

No matter what the bishop says, going over someone's head is not viewed as a friendly act, in any environment.

I fear that, from time to time, there are clergy with a rogue interpretation of basics, or whose behaviour verges on (actually, trespasses into) the surreal. The appeal to the bishop is then helpful to all. While some folk abuse it (there are even more nutty parishioners than there are nutty clerics and I have seen both at work), taking the next step up usually transpires when the pastoral relationship is already quite stressed and quite damanged.
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
Alternatively an Archdeacon or Bishop may not know that this is going on and the church and its surrounding community may have suffered in silence at the hands of a priest doing something they shouldn't be otherwise doing. How are they expected to know if nobody talks about it or complains to the archdeacon or Bishop?
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
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Originally posted by Belle Ringer:
I'm intrigued by the comments about appealing up the chain to the bishop. Realistically, wouldn't that annoy the local clergy person you have to deal with weekly or daily, making church relationships on a local level stressed for potentially a long time?

No matter what the bishop says, going over someone's head is not viewed as a friendly act, in any environment.

As the classic reason for a parish priest refusing to baptize a kid is because the parents don't attend church, or won't go through the church baptism course, it's unlikely those parents care that much about their 'church relationship'.

I've never come across anyone who's appealed a refusal for baptism. I've known of some parents angry enough to want to make a bit of trouble for the cleric that refused them by considering complaining to the bishop, along the lines of 'I'll tell your boss!' But I haven't personally met anyone who felt that was a worthwhile thing to do when the alternative is usually very easy. Maybe because the usual thing is to go to another church where the baptism policy is less restrictive.

I'm sure there are exceptions and some parents have a good case when appealing to the Bishop. And I can imagine a situation where perhaps a particular parish gets itself a 'bad' reputation in baptizing parishioners through an unfriendly or unusually difficult baptism policy needing to come to the ears of the bishop. But again I haven't seen this myself.
 
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on :
 
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Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
1) I'm assuming that the policy of the church has been followed. It's therefore a question as to whether the person is willing to accept the logic of their position and leave their church - or persist in a state of unrepentant schism with respect to their congregation. Of course if the bishop supports the family, there's no issue. But if he doesn't, they've abrogated to themselves a role that should be exercised by their leader.

Well in the CofE you'd have to be trying pretty hard not to follow the policy of the church (of England) anyway, since canon law can be interpreted to make baptism very open. I assume this is what you meant, and not the policy of the local church, which is irrelevant.

Even so, I'm with IngoB on this one - one act of disobedience does not a schism make. Therefore the child is baptised and is de facto a member of the Church.

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2) Assuming that the priest chooses to ignore the behaviour of the schismatic, then it should make zero difference in the treatment of the baby subsequently.
And this is precisely my position. The child is a member of the Church. Full stop.
 
Posted by Belle Ringer (# 13379) on :
 
I'm intrigued by the concept of "authority" in a church. Maybe because I've wandered through denominations over the decades and have learned to be self-protective rather than accept what someone says just because he/she is clergy (shepherding movement, anyone?), but "authority" has two very different meanings.

One is "someone with a lot of knowledge about the topic, you would be wise to pay attention and consider what they say, but you make your own decisions." We have authorities in mathematics and astronomy and interpretation of modern poetry, we hire authorities in medicine to help us with our health, but we have the right (even self-preservation duty sometimes) to reject what they tell us to do.

The other meaning is "someone who must be obeyed whether they are right or wrong, because if you annoy them they have the right to harm you." If police arrest you, you have to go with them to the jail even though you did nothing wrong. If your boss is displeased with you he can fire you, so you'd better do what he says even if it's foolish or morally wrong, or else prepared to leave the job. You have no right to make decisions that reject their advice, except by escaping the realm in which they have authority.

I *think* I am hearing that the RCC views church authority in the police sense, your job is to obey whether or not they are right, they make the decisions, you have no right to make your own. I *think* protestants, by their very history, view authority as "educated wisdom, but you have a right to disagree and a duty to God to act on your own beliefs instead of claiming "I'm not responsible, he is, he told me to do it."

Am I stating accurately or am I still confused?

(I admit plenty of Protestant churches try the "you are obligated to obey us whether you agree or not" stance, and plenty of Catholics ignore any teachings they don't like. I'm aiming at what the upper levels of hierarchy think.)
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
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Originally posted by Ender's Shadow:
Let's be clear - I'm offering a very traditionalist perspective - but in fact I'm working it out for myself in the sense that I've never taken the logic this far before.

And what tradition would that be then? I reckon you are projecting a fundamentalism on the canons here that neither is nor has been an actual tradition of dealing in canons (an actual corruption, perhaps). I swear that I did not look up what Aquinas had to say on the subject of schism prior to this post, but here's a bit of actual tradition then (slightly rearranged, to improve modern comprehension):
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Summa Theologiae IIa IIae q1
I answer that, As Isidore says (Etym. viii, 3), schism takes its name "from being a scission of minds," and scission is opposed to unity. Wherefore the sin of schism is one that is directly and essentially opposed to unity. For in the moral, as in the physical order, the species is not constituted by that which is accidental. Now, in the moral order, the essential is that which is intended, and that which results beside the intention, is, as it were, accidental. Hence the sin of schism is, properly speaking, a special sin, for the reason that the schismatic intends to sever himself from that unity which is the effect of charity: because charity unites not only one person to another with the bond of spiritual love, but also the whole Church in unity of spirit.

Accordingly schismatics properly so called are those who, wilfully and intentionally separate themselves from the unity of the Church; for this is the chief unity, and the particular unity of several individuals among themselves is subordinate to the unity of the Church, even as the mutual adaptation of each member of a natural body is subordinate to the unity of the whole body. Now the unity of the Church consists in two things; namely, in the mutual connection or communion of the members of the Church, and again in the subordination of all the members of the Church to the one head, according to Colossians 2:18-19: "Puffed up by the sense of his flesh, and not holding the Head, from which the whole body, by joints and bands, being supplied with nourishment and compacted, groweth unto the increase of God." Now this Head is Christ Himself, Whose viceregent in the Church is the Sovereign Pontiff. Wherefore schismatics are those who refuse to submit to the Sovereign Pontiff, and to hold communion with those members of the Church who acknowledge his supremacy.

Objection 2. Further, a man is apparently a schismatic if he disobeys the Church. But every sin makes a man disobey the commandments of the Church, because sin, according to Ambrose (De Parad. viii) "is disobedience against the heavenly commandments." Therefore every sin is a schism.

Reply to Objection 2. The essence of schism consists in rebelliously disobeying the commandments: and I say "rebelliously," since a schismatic both obstinately scorns the commandments of the Church, and refuses to submit to her judgment. But every sinner does not do this, wherefore not every sin is a schism.

So as it happens, what I've said previously was almost verbatim what Aquinas said here, and that without having looked at this previously. That is real tradition, the free alignment of minds across centuries. And does my Church stand in this very tradition? Sure does, in fact, if you have read the above you will recognize that the Church is basically quoting the Angelic Doctor
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Can. 751 Heresy is the obstinate denial or obstinate doubt after the reception of baptism of some truth which is to be believed by divine and Catholic faith; apostasy is the total repudiation of the Christian faith; schism is the refusal of submission to the Supreme Pontiff or of communion with the members of the Church subject to him.
Now, I repeat that I am not a canon lawyer, but a glance at the canons suggests to me that the following canons could speak to the case at hand:
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Can. 1365 A person guilty of prohibited participation in sacred rites (communicatio in sacris) is to be punished with a just penalty.

Can. 1366 Parents or those who take the place of parents who hand offer their children to be baptized or educated in a non Catholic religion are to be punished with a censure or other just penalty.

Can. 1371 The following are to be punished with a just penalty: ...
2/ a person who otherwise does not obey a legitimate precept or prohibition of the Apostolic See, an ordinary, or a superior and who persists in disobedience after a warning.

Can. 1379 In addition to the cases mentioned in ⇒ can. 1378, a person who simulates the administration of a sacrament is to be punished with a just penalty.

Can. 1381 §1. Whoever usurps an ecclesiastical office is to be punished with a just penalty.

Can. 1399 In addition to the cases established here or in other laws, the external violation of a divine or canonical law can be punished by a just penalty only when the special gravity of the violation demands punishment and there is an urgent need to prevent or repair scandals.

Now "just penalty" is precisely not code for "excommunication". Rather, if you click through the provided links, you will see that that punishment is explicitly listed where it is deemed to be a necessary consequence. Rather there is censure, interdict, etc., or frankly, a good talking to by the priest... A final canonical point, since you so like your canons. Here is the crucial
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Can. 18 Laws which establish a penalty, restrict the free exercise of rights, or contain an exception from the law are subject to strict interpretation.
Now, before you rejoice, understand what "strict" means here. It means less convictions, less penalties, less applications of the law. It does not mean that law is applied with particular strictness to the accused, it means law will come into force only if its norms are strictly fulfilled. That is what this canon means to canon law practice. If a law imposes penalties, then in case of doubt the perp walks scot free. That is proper canon law. Are you sure that on strict interpretation grandma sneaking in a baptism of her own is a proper schismatic? Well then, excommunicate her, it is right and just. Otherwise, deal with this differently. Please.

Now, I applaud your desire to rediscover the Church as an actual (not just theoretical) ecclesiastical body. You interest in canon law is also commendable. But there are Churches and traditions who have had almost two thousand years experience with this. And one just does not do canon law in the spirit of Dirty Harry, or things go seriously wrong. We have had quite enough of that throughout history, thanks ever so kindly. Canon law must not be allowed to fall into the hands of Puritans.
 


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