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This is a spin off from this hell thread which started with challenging an assertion that it education policies were the fault of feminism.
Leorning Cniht said: quote: I think the character if what is expected of 5 and 6 year olds in UK schools has changed somewhat. Add to that the Early Years / Foundation Stage standards in the national curriculum, and you get the same picture - a tendency towards increased academicalization of small children, and the effective exclusion of open-ended, unstructured play.
It's the same in the US. There's a lot of talk in the US at the moment about providing state-funded preschool. Except that what all the talking heads mean is children sitting in rows filling out worksheets. The claim is that we have to prepare our young people for college success and a globalized world economy by drilling 4-year-olds on sight words.
It's daft, and it's just not supported by the evidence.
(There is actual evidence that says that "academic" programs show an advantage over nothing for children from very deprived backgrounds. My suspicion is that the cause of this effect isn't the early academics, but is the simple fact that these children spend some time away from a poor-quality home environment. Using this data to claim an advantage for early academics over play-based learning is, I think, drawing entirely the wrong conclusion.)
Oh, and it has nothing at all to do with feminism.
The discussion continued further to where Kelly got into a couple of posts on pre-school education policies here and here
I also work in education, with students who have fallen out of schools, trying to provide them with support and qualifications. The service I work for mainly works with boys and mainly older teenagers, all on high tier intervention programmes. Some are on the sex offenders register so cannot be put into school settings, some are in care, some have made sexual allegations, some are school refusers, but there's a whole raft of reasons and complications - so I'm permanently interested in this area.
When I looked for references there were a number of recent articles:
Yes we are failing boys, and it seems as if the same features that are driving the rape culture for women are causing the boys failures:
- a attitude that it's not cool or masculine to study - referenced in the Gender & Equality article.
- boys needing more support to deal with set backs (the finding of the article in the Independent) and a structure that provides that support helps boys succeed;
- that girls are being failed by an education system that concentrates on
quote: exam success [which] is not so good at developing the equally important skills of experimentation, challenge and risk-taking. It is hard to convey to those without children of exam age just how fact-choked and test-obsessed schools have become. For some boys, the resulting boredom and frustration provokes them to make the "wrong" sort of challenge to the school's authority. But many girls, faced with the same pressures, respond by becoming too compliant.
(sorry, forgot to attribute this to the Guardian article above)
How do we reverse this trend and help boys achieve to their potential? [ 08. June 2014, 12:31: Message edited by: Curiosity killed ... ]
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Thanks for bringing up the institutionalized compliance of girls, I kept hinting that early childhood practices hurt them, too, but wanted to focus in boys. While boys are punished for their failure to control impulses they aren't allowed to master, girls can" fake it" through inappropriate curricula by mimicking the teacher or simply quietly detaching. We reward girls for being quiet and uninvolved.
Girls with Aspergers, ADD, and other learning disabilities are sometimes diagnosed very late, because their symptoms are hose of withdrawal rather than acting out.
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And here's part of what I said on the referenced thread, just to get the ball rolling:
quote: And I still contend that this impacts boys specially-- when we deprive kids of that academic transitional period in which they learn to govern their own bodies and emotions and generally learn how to navigate the necessary but unnatural position we put them-- that of starting life in a large group of developmentally similar peers-- this has a unique impact on boys. it sucks for girls, too, but they can fake it-- boys in general have a harder time mastering impulse control in the early years, and this is what US (and UK! [Frown] so hoping it was different) curriculum exacerbates. Boys in state funded programs that force these inappropriate curricula are stocked with a significant number of boys who start life being told that they suck at pretty much everything-- academics (even though science has told us over and over again young children are not ready for it) and relationships (they are so occupied in being chased around by teachers trying to force then to do things they are not ready to do yet that they don't have time to learn how to relate to their peers in other than aggressive ways).
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It seems that stimulant medication prescriptions - Ritalin, Concerta, Pemoline - are given out rather freely here. The pattern seems to be that school tells parents to investigate ADHD and the parents go to their family physician who gives the medication as a trial often after no real assessment, merely parents' report of what school told them. The frequency of such medication is high.
I think philosophies of parenting that promote doing whatever a child wants are part of the problem. Such that child does something they shouldn't and the parent talks to them about their needs, de-emphasizing self control and internalization of regulation of behaviour.
All of this said, the range of girls' and boys' achievement overlap for almost all of the range. With the mean differences not that significant.
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The medicalisation of behaviour is 'nother whole can of worms. I worked with someone who felt that if we had to do that to get boys an education then so be it. Because the real solutions: parenting classes and support, early years teaching of play and socialisation, classrooms that allowed boys to be more active was too hard.
I read an article, Why French kids don't have ADHD (Psychology Today) saying that ADHD does not exist in France because those things are put in place rather than drugs.
Personally, I don't agree with this whole trend and I am the mother of a child who was diagnosed with ADHD (and dyspraxia and dyslexia). We worked very hard on parenting, allowing down time, diet and behaviour management rather than medicalisation. (Plus explicit teaching of coping mechanisms for the dyslexia from a tutor and so many gymnastics lessons I trained as an assistant coach)
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quote: Originally posted by no prophet: I think philosophies of parenting that promote doing whatever a child wants are part of the problem. Such that child does something they shouldn't and the parent talks to them about their needs, de-emphasizing self control and internalization of regulation of behaviour.
All of this said, the range of girls' and boys' achievement overlap for almost all of the range. With the mean differences not that significant.
You will never hear a developmentalist promoting that kind of talk. Appropriate challenges and expectations demonstrate respect for a child's capabilities. Connecting the dots between a child's personal needs and the similar needs of their peers is exactly the ideal goal of Early Childhood education. They need to just learn how to treat each other.
The key word is appropriate-- if you translate what you just said about "regulation of behavior" to sitting down at a table and plodding your way through an inappropriately academic project- wrong.
The two primary goals of ECE are 1. Socialization and 2. the kind of sensory- motor stimulation and general life-skill building that brain development is begging for at that age. From a brain development perspective, the way the US handles ECE is like putting pasta in cold water. We say, "Hey, we gotta get that pasta in as soon as possible, faster than anybody!" and neglect the fact that heating the water is necessary-- and takes time.
Our desire for quicker results are not going to trump the way the brain develops-- evolution has had 2 million+ years to perfect its progress. We need to work with the brain, not try to work around it. [ 08. June 2014, 17:43: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
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quote: Originally posted by Curiosity killed ...:
Personally, I don't agree with this whole trend and I am the mother of a child who was diagnosed with ADHD (and dyspraxia and dyslexia). We worked very hard on parenting, allowing down time, diet and behaviour management rather than medicalisation. (Plus explicit teaching of coping mechanisms for the dyslexia from a tutor and so many gymnastics lessons I trained as an assistant coach)
Neph was diagnised ASDD, and he was lucky enough to get a primary care doc who recommended behavior modification-- basically instead of madication him he gave the adults in his life a perscription for how to treat him appropriately.
When I looked at the list of suggestions Sis got for behavior mod-- he was diagnosed at age 8, I think-- I thought, holy crap, this kind of disciplinary technique is pretty much Standard Operating Procedure for preschool teachers-- giving directions one at a time instead of in a big lump, phrasing a direction toward a positive goal rather than just saying "don't do X..."
It's not the kids who need fixing. it's us.
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quote: Originally posted by no prophet: It seems that stimulant medication prescriptions - Ritalin, Concerta, Pemoline - are given out rather freely here. The pattern seems to be that school tells parents to investigate ADHD and the parents go to their family physician who gives the medication as a trial often after no real assessment, merely parents' report of what school told them. The frequency of such medication is high.
I think philosophies of parenting that promote doing whatever a child wants are part of the problem. Such that child does something they shouldn't and the parent talks to them about their needs, de-emphasizing self control and internalization of regulation of behaviour.
All of this said, the range of girls' and boys' achievement overlap for almost all of the range. With the mean differences not that significant.
Are you sure, no prophet? I'm not familiar with the Canadian situation, but thought the gap was a lot more significant than that. Certainly here in the UK it is much more than could be explained by statistical differences of overlapping means. I could probably dig out some figures, but I suspect existing contributors may have the stats more readily to hand.
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Heres a link: http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/81-004-x/200410/7423-eng.htm. It doesn't discount the issue, but I confess I overstated above.
Re meds: our local health authority informed on this morning news that we have 7 months wait for counselling services whilst family physician is quick. I think there is a core group who need medication but another group that doesn't get separated from that and also gets meds.
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In my own observation, the problem for boys shows up quite early: they don't develop some skills as fast as the girls.
The ability to sit and draw or colour or write for long (to them) periods of time. The toning-down of active movement of all sorts. Language skills. Mechanical coordination, such as holding a pencil
And their social development lags by a bout a year at school-entry time.
So they act out more than the (usually-female) teacher wants, so they are warned/silenced/punished more often.
Then they realise that the girls are ahead of them, and that the girls will be preferred by the teacher for that reason.
And, all too soon, they realise that the school system is set up against them, so: "Why bother?"
This gets added into the mix imposed by their older siblings or by the adults: "Boys will be boys" (not in the rape sense, just in the acting-out sense) "Boys don't need to read, they just DO stuff" All those stereotypes that people here will pooh-pooh because their little darlings were GOOD. But you aren't typical of the run of the mill.
Classic case in point: 8-y.o. boy gets in trouble in class, because he doesn't want to colour AGAIN. Parent talks to teacher. "But he won't sit still!" Parent: "Give him a chess set, then he and another boy won't bother you" T: "But he won't be doing what the others are doing!"
This was an intelligent, active boy, who could concentrate on something like chess. But he learned that the system would not tolerate his enthusiasm, and signed out mentally at about age 11. He did graduate, and had a successful military career as a sniper and officer, so he was clearly educable and responsible. But the school didn't want any part of it.
Similarly for the mechanically-minded. "no, we won't have "shop" classes. Everything is going to be done on computer" But who then will learn from the tradesmen around him and become the guy who fixes your things? We lost an entire generation of boys on that one, before some sense was put back into the system, and we still drive boys into boredom before we allow for mechanical aptitude at age 15.
Teachers are actively afraid of people who have mechanical aptitude, largely because so many teachers are mechanically incompetent themselves. (and don't get me started on the teachers who are math-phobic!)
Whatever. Rant over. Make what you will of it. I'm just working on 50 years of observation in schools.
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[Gross Generalisation Alert]
I did a degree in primary ed. My specialised subject was science. In an intake of about 100 of us, there were six science specialists. The vast majority were doing English as their specialism.
Primary Ed. attracts a particular type. I really, really struggled with the staffroom culture because I wasn't of this type. It's really hard to explain, but for me, as a sciency, techy, nerdy oddball, I found very little meeting of minds between me and existing and other prospective primary school teachers, especially those outside the science specialism. The same failure to connect that I felt as a child, to be honest. Everything was so painfully conventional. So nice. So about being a Good Little Boy/Girl. Caring more about how neat my writing wasn't (and still isn't) than how I was pouring out my knowledge of the Solar System.
I think that primary ed, especially, desperately needs to recruit teachers who themselves did not enjoy or "get" primary school as children. People who will understand why sitting still and writing stories is not an attractive proposition for a lot of children, quite probably especially boys. [ 12. June 2014, 11:02: Message edited by: Karl: Liberal Backslider ]
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Snap, and I get an extra point for being female and sciencey.
And Horseman Bree, can you go and contribute some of that on the touch typing thread? My feeling that it is wholly inappropriate for primary children seems to be falling on deaf ears ... or appropriate metaphor. [ 12. June 2014, 14:22: Message edited by: Penny S ]
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Karl and Bree-- wonderful.
Stories from the front:
1. Years ago I worked in a Head Start class (I am going to call them out as having the least appropriate classroom I have seen in the bay Area)and the teacher there decided to call the kids to circle-time by gender. The girls were called to the circle shapes carpet first, they sat sown on their taped mane tags and waited "criss -cross applesauce" ( ) The boys were called. They gamboled over, rolled onto the carpet, flung themselves on their little pieces of tape, but at the end of it each boy butt was on a piece of tape. I genuinely was impressed, so I enthused "Good job! You all are sitting down!"
The teacher snapped"GOOD JOB!? The did not walk NICELY!Did you see how nicely the girls walked??" She full=-on said that! And made all those reasonably obeying boys get up and come over to her and practice walking nicely.
Oh, by the way, this was a group of three year olds.
2. Almost a repeat of the above-- last week I worked in another Head Start classroom and the teacher was presenting an inappropriate flashcard activity. The class was mostly boys with about three girls. To me, the girls clearly hated the dumb, teacher directed activity as much as anyone, but they had learned to parrot back what she wanted so they could go do what they were really interested in.
After an attempt at group response to the dumb activity, the teacher dismissed the girls to go play, and sat the boys to repeat the activity because they "weren't listening" (all but three-- one boy who had actually been reciting the rote script the whole time the teacher had been yelling at the other boys-- I pointed this out to her-- and two boys with obvious LD who desperately needed a shadow and didn't have one, and who fled the dumb activity the minute they saw it. The teacher expected them to "sit nicely in the book area" during circle. These two boys rarely if ever participate in a corporate experience.
Oh and the girls were the oldest in the class- almost five. The rest of the boys who were being scolded for their lack of control were aged early 3- early 4 years old. They were LITTLE.
I identify with Karl about feeling out of step in most places-- not only am I a science nerd, I believe teaching is a science, and I approach it that way. I read up, I study brain development, and I develop curricula and classroom experience based on the best of what I know to be the way children learn.
Again I am going to call HS out as a place where teachers are not supported in acting like educational scientists-- while the needs and abilities of preschool children are demonstrably different than those of primary school kids, the pressure in America is fierce to make preschool conform to primary practices and standards.So preschool becomes a factory of educational product. Teachers in this position become less involved in the unique abilities and passions of their students, and become more focused on how they themselves are being evaluated, by the impossible standards.
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quote: Originally posted by Penny S: Snap, and I get an extra point for being female and sciencey.
And Horseman Bree, can you go and contribute some of that on the touch typing thread? My feeling that it is wholly inappropriate for primary children seems to be falling on deaf ears ... or appropriate metaphor.
? The hell?
Most primary kid fingers do not have the kind of reach they need to comfortably do home- row touch-typing.
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quote: Originally posted by Kelly Alves: quote: Originally posted by Penny S: Snap, and I get an extra point for being female and sciencey.
And Horseman Bree, can you go and contribute some of that on the touch typing thread? My feeling that it is wholly inappropriate for primary children seems to be falling on deaf ears ... or appropriate metaphor.
? The hell?
Most primary kid fingers do not have the kind of reach they need to comfortably do home- row touch-typing.
Go and read. Apparently by not teaching it I have been depriving them forever of an essential skill. (Not just the reach, the coordination.)
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Nonsense. Do we teach kids cursive the minute they pick up a pen? Allowing them to hunt and peck the keyboard for a good space of time allows them to get a good mental map of the keyboard itself, so that when touch typing comes, they have an idea of where the keys are.
But this will probably derail the thread, so I will copy this exchange there.
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quote: Originally posted by Horseman Bree: He did graduate, and had a successful military career as a sniper and officer, so he was clearly educable and responsible. But the school didn't want any part of it.
The school should so totally invite him back to speak to the boys about how they too can become snipers. They'll listen to that.
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And I've just read your description of the Govian idiocies in that class. These people should not be allowed near children ever! And as a spinster teacher, myself, especially that sort of spinster teacher, who doesn't like children, and doesn't remember what it is like to be a child.
I wish I could remember the whole of the story a good friend told me about the teacher he and his class met while moving around the school he had moved to. Her class all silent and nun-like, his full of enthusiasm and talk. And she told them off in front of him. Something along the lines of "Now we'll show Mr Hadley's class how classes walk around this school, won't we?" and the smug little dears smiling smugly. He could remember being a child.
I remember realising that some of my teachers at the tech had gone through this childhood eradication procedure at some point, and determined that I never would. And I didn't. But I never spotted the occasion when I had the choice to go the other way. (It might, I suppose, have been during my ghastly final teaching practice when I was, apparently, given some simple advice I refused to follow. But didn't actually notice being given.)
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I should add that I dropped out of gaining qts in my final year, such was the obvious disconnect. So the system as it exists (and I can only imagine it getting worse with more on the job initial teacher training) actively excludes anyone who isn't being created in the image of the existing.
Of course, I may just have been a crap potential teacher, so pinch of salt, natch.
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My college thought I was one of those. But they were wrong. Wrong, I tell you. Lovely young men come up and tell me I was the best teacher they ever had.... Which doesn't speak well of all the others. (And, of course, ignores all the others who don't do so. But they don't troll on Friendsreunited, either.)
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Penny S on touch typing: quote: My feeling that it is wholly inappropriate for primary children seems to be falling on deaf ears ... or appropriate metaphor.
Can't believe anyone actually does this... <checks out touch typing thread> Oh, right.
Doesn't make any sense to me. Touch-typing is a mechanical skill that you can learn at any age in a few months if you are determined enough. There are more important things to learn in primary school; if you're going to introduce yet another activity that involves sitting still at a desk for long periods of time, better make sure it's something really enjoyable. If the trend to use tablets and mobiles instead of desktop computers continues, knowing how to touch-type on a computer keyboard may soon be irrelevant anyway. I have yet to encounter a touch-screen that can keep up with my typing speed.
I never fitted into the primary staffroom culture either, and my degree was in linguistics, not science.
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quote: Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider: I think that primary ed, especially, desperately needs to recruit teachers who themselves did not enjoy or "get" primary school as children. People who will understand why sitting still and writing stories is not an attractive proposition for a lot of children, quite probably especially boys.
This was sent to me today. Which suggests that the nature of school itself is a part of the problem.
quote: more and more children are being coded as having attention issues and possibly ADHD. A local elementary teacher tells me that at least eight of her twenty-two students have trouble paying attention on a good day.... Children are going to class with bodies that are less prepared to learn than ever before. With sensory systems not quite working right, they are asked to sit and pay attention.... What happens when the children start fidgeting? We ask them to sit still and pay attention; therefore, their brain goes back to “sleep.”
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Yup. We are basically reaping the fruits of about 30 or so years of really inappropriate educational standards.
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Oh that article is so full of yes.
quote: Ironically, many children are walking around with an underdeveloped vestibular (balance) system today--due to restricted movement. In order to develop a strong balance system, children need to move their body in all directions, for hours at a time. Just like with exercising, they need to do this more than just once-a-week in order to reap the benefits. Therefore, having soccer practice once or twice a week is likely not enough movement for the child to develop a strong sensory system.
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quote: Originally posted by no prophet: quote: Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider: I think that primary ed, especially, desperately needs to recruit teachers who themselves did not enjoy or "get" primary school as children. People who will understand why sitting still and writing stories is not an attractive proposition for a lot of children, quite probably especially boys.
This was sent to me today. Which suggests that the nature of school itself is a part of the problem.
quote: more and more children are being coded as having attention issues and possibly ADHD. A local elementary teacher tells me that at least eight of her twenty-two students have trouble paying attention on a good day.... Children are going to class with bodies that are less prepared to learn than ever before. With sensory systems not quite working right, they are asked to sit and pay attention.... What happens when the children start fidgeting? We ask them to sit still and pay attention; therefore, their brain goes back to “sleep.”
Then why are the Persian, Indian, Pakistani, Chinese, Korean, Japanese etc kids in my Silicon Valley school immune? Kids here behave, are engaged and work hard from a young age. My husband and I are from families and communities where education is not valued (we are the first in our families to graduate college) and I look at my nieces and nephews and then my kids and their cohort and wonder how to change things.
ETA: I am talking about Public schools [ 12. June 2014, 16:24: Message edited by: art dunce ]
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I actually spoke to one of the teachers in that class I was describing while no one was there and mentioned some of the inappropriate expectations-- she was griping, I had an in-- and she sighed, "but the parents want to see them doing educational things!"
It is our job as teachers to educate the public about what constitutes adequate education. It is up to us to explain things like "the vestibular system" to parents and how that has an effect on how a kid can concentrate, on the difference between writing and pre-writing, on the necessity for language fluency before we graduate to text learning. My experience in several school tells me that either the teachers in the class are not educating themselves adequately enough to support such conversations, or the leadership at the school does not support the teachers in their attempts to have those conversations.
it's frustrating-- every ECE teacher in California takes the same courses I did to get their credential, we are all taught the same things about appropriate practice. We simply don't have enough people holding the line-- and it starts at the very top. Education leaders seemingly will listen to any congress critter with a school voucher agenda over what developmentalists have to say.
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quote: Originally posted by art dunce: Then why are the Persian, Indian, Pakistani, Chinese, Korean, Japanese etc kids in my Silicon Valley school immune? Kids here behave, are engaged and work hard from a young age. My husband and I are from families and communities where education is not valued (we are the first in our families to graduate college) and I look at my nieces and nephews and then my kids and their cohort and wonder how to change things.
ETA: I am talking about Public schools
In all of those countries, preschool is handled more or less appropriately. That's why they are immune, They were given time to practice working their vestibule system.
I had someone ask me a similar question about Japan's preschool system, and it lead me to some fascinating articles-- I can track them down when I have time, but basically it turns out that what Japanese schools call kindergarten is more like what American preschools are like-- they really do respect the early growth of the child, ease the child into academic experience gradually, and that does translate into later academic success. I can track down the articles later if you want, but that's what it boils down to- nations that give appropriate respect to the very special needs of early childhood turn out kids that excel in later academic experience. [ 12. June 2014, 16:33: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
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These kids are born and raised in the US although their parents were not. Most spent early childhood in places throughout the US from Georgia to Wisconsin to Utah or wherever grad schools and entry level jobs exist. Although they eventually made their way to SV many of these kids spent early childhood in university run grad student child care (we did this) and it is not exactly great but is cheap and convenient.
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Far too many teachers (and whole schools) do not respect kids in the first place. Kids are just the input to a production system, along the lines of Henry Ford style pug in the right part and eventually you get a middling product with no personality (while ignoring the growing junk pile out back)
Any trace of personality must be removed, surgically if necessary.
OTOH, I'm not sure that home-schooling is any better. The parents don't know enough to be able to teach, the books are mass-produced for the specific market (usually religious, and therefore incomplete) and the kids are driven frantic by having to deal with the same family all day every day. But then I am being biased by the news of this week, in which the shooter and his friend, the threaten-to-kill-police guy, were both home-schooled by strongly-religious parents and are puzzled that anyone might think them wrong or weird or whatever.
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Sorry I missed that you are talking about Silicon Valley. Preschools in that area tend to be privately run and therefore the teachers are free to create appropriate curriculum that is not constrained by Title 22 funding standards. They are some of the best schools, curriculum wise, in California. It's the subsidized childcare centers that got hit hardest with inappropriate curriculum requirements.
In fact, Palo Alto is one of the few public school districts in the nation that has a project-based approach ( basically emergent translated to primary school). this curriculum standard was supported and championed by educational pedagogues at nearby Stanford. SO basically, in affluent, education -rich areas the standards for all grades are going to be a lot more appropriate, and that is going to translate intl better classroom behavior.
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quote: Originally posted by art dunce: These kids are born and raised in the US although their parents were not. Most spent early childhood in places throughout the US from Georgia to Wisconsin to Utah or wherever grad schools and entry level jobs exist. Although they eventually made their way to SV many of these kids spent early childhood in university run grad student child care (we did this) and it is not exactly great but is cheap and convenient.
If Stanford CDC is an example, they are a state model for appropriate practice. They practice emergent based curriculum (Reggio Emilia version, I believe) and focus on total development. Stanford put a high premium on making the standards excellent because they have a reputational stake in the results. [ 12. June 2014, 16:57: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
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In fact, I will add that most of the preschools I have worked at that are run by universities or community colleges are absolutely kick-ass-- because they have the education department to oversee practices. when you put the actual experts in the driving seat, things work.
Also, a lot of them wind up being lab schools to train new teachers in practicum-- so they have to be on the top of their game. [ 12. June 2014, 17:04: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
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Sorry one more thing about Silicon Valley-- a lot of the tech businesses out there have onsite childcare offered at a reasonable rate to their employees. Google, for instance, has a fine CDC which was designed by a team of Reggio Emilia experts-- one of my former bosses was one of them. Geokids in Mountain View-- exact same story (they serve the California Geological Survey). Also, a lot of other tech compounds have onsite childcare provided by franchise companies like Bright Horizons or Children's Choice Learning Centers, both of which are emergent and socio-emotional development based. You will simply not find these kids being made to do things that kids in your average Head Start in Downtown SF are made to do. [ 12. June 2014, 17:17: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
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quote: Originally posted by art dunce: Then why are the Persian, Indian, Pakistani, Chinese, Korean, Japanese etc kids in my Silicon Valley school immune?
Er, because they hit them to make them behave. Or they guilt and shame them into towing the line. Or both!
Bonus the drilling of familial obligation, where the parents have sacrificed sooo much for the children they must therefore pay it back by studying what the parents want them to at uni, go into the sort of job that the parents approve of, marry the right sort of person and don't dare move away, because otherwise who else will look after them in their old age? Because after all that's the purpose of having children, right? To fulfil the parents' ambitions and keep them company when they are old?
So yeah, those cultures do value education, but they value a whole lot of other things too. It's a package deal.
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quote: Originally posted by Jane R: Penny S on touch typing: quote: My feeling that it is wholly inappropriate for primary children seems to be falling on deaf ears ... or appropriate metaphor.
Can't believe anyone actually does this... <checks out touch typing thread> Oh, right.
Doesn't make any sense to me. Touch-typing is a mechanical skill that you can learn at any age in a few months if you are determined enough. There are more important things to learn in primary school; if you're going to introduce yet another activity that involves sitting still at a desk for long periods of time, better make sure it's something really enjoyable. If the trend to use tablets and mobiles instead of desktop computers continues, knowing how to touch-type on a computer keyboard may soon be irrelevant anyway. I have yet to encounter a touch-screen that can keep up with my typing speed.
I never fitted into the primary staffroom culture either, and my degree was in linguistics, not science.
In offices, there'll still be keyboards - thin clients have those...
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quote: Originally posted by ecumaniac: quote: Originally posted by art dunce: Then why are the Persian, Indian, Pakistani, Chinese, Korean, Japanese etc kids in my Silicon Valley school immune?
Er, because they hit them to make them behave. Or they guilt and shame them into towing the line. Or both!
Bonus the drilling of familial obligation, where the parents have sacrificed sooo much for the children they must therefore pay it back by studying what the parents want them to at uni, go into the sort of job that the parents approve of, marry the right sort of person and don't dare move away, because otherwise who else will look after them in their old age? Because after all that's the purpose of having children, right? To fulfil the parents' ambitions and keep them company when they are old?
So yeah, those cultures do value education, but they value a whole lot of other things too. It's a package deal.
I don't think that is quite fair. I have worked in many, many SV preschools and have never got any strong feelng that any of the demographics mentioned are any more or less inclined to physical discipline than Anglo Americans.
To me, art dunce's question can be boiled down to "Why is it the kids in the most educationally* rich sector of the state perform so well?" and my answer is "The answer is contained in the question." See the posts above for my rationale.
* note I am saying "educationally rich," not "materially rich." Silicon Valley is just lucky enough to have a lot of actual scientists and education leaders on their school boards. [ 14. June 2014, 01:22: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
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quote: How do we reverse this trend and help boys achieve to their potential?
How about single sex education?
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quote: Originally posted by Evangeline: quote: How do we reverse this trend and help boys achieve to their potential?
How about single sex education?
That's an interesting point - IIRC, girls do better academically when educated in a single sex environment, while boys do better when mixed.
From my experience in a primary school, the monomaniacal emphasis on numeracy and literacy means that, while most lessons can be interesting, the cumulative effect of them is simply soul-crushing. And that's just from helping deliver the material. There's so very little time for the rest of the curriculum - sport, art, history, geography, science, IT, music, PHSE, languages - most pupils won't get even a regular hour of those a week, out of all the hours of teaching time.
If you are smart and can read, write and do sums, it's still tedious. If you find it difficult, it's hell. And a lot of it - the base stuff that you have to be able to do in order to do well at them - is sitting still and quiet for long periods of time and being coordinated enough to use a pen or pencil. You can teach that, but since state school starts when you're 4 (in Master Tor's case, only just 4), the teaching of everything else is going to be dependent on it.
The upshot is, you label the kids who can sit still and quiet and hold a pencil as intelligent and hardworking, no matter what. Those who can't are disruptive and slow to learn, and those labels stick. We value sitting still and being quiet and holding a pencil over and above everything else.
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Part of what's happening with the "feminisation of education" is that there simply are a lot more female teachers nowadays because a) the relative value of teachers' pay has fallen over the last quarter century or so and b) IMHO males are less inclined to put up with the kind of didactic crap that teachers are now subject to in terms of how/what to teach. Autonomy used to be one of the big attractions of teaching. No more.
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Yep. And the teachers are given soul crushing jobs ( as Doc Tor aptly describes) crap pay, and a lot of them invest only as much thought and study in educational theory as they need to pass their credentialing requirements. They therefore reward the kids that give them the least headache and suppress the ones that give them the most work. I said somewhere else, it's almost like we are training them to see women as the enemy.
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I've read this with interest and spoken to the sons about their experience of school - much more recent than mine! What they've highlighted is - 4 is far too young for most boys to start formal school
- female teachers at Reception/Year 1 stage tend to be younger and female and see normal boyish behaviour as 'bad' behaviour
- books in reading schemes are very dull and the requirement to keep re-reading turns them off (Oxford reading Tree anyone?)
- simple opportunities to apply learning weren't taken up - for example, playing shops to deal with adding and subtracting
- lessons of an hour are too long and should be broken up into smaller chunks
- for reception and Year 1 the school day needs to be better balanced with longer breaks and a later home time
- children are naturally competitive and weeding out the best runners in the class before sports day 'to give the others a chance' fuels resentment
- let little boys play football, don't expect them to be enthused in a bare playground where they aren't allowed to run
Granted, that is pretty subjective but I'm sure it will strike some chords.
After Year 2 we hauled them out of the state system and sent them to a small prep school where they thrived: the school day was much longer but with longer breaks, there was sport or PE every day, they were taught sport by a specialist teacher, there was a competitive house system, and the staff were 50-50 male/female.
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When I was in elementary school seventy years ago, our recesses were frequent enough that we could manage to sit reasonably still in the classroom.
School started at 9; morning recess was from 10:15 to 10:30. Lunch was from 12 to 1. (Most of us went home for lunch.) Afternoon recess was from 2:15 to 2:30. School ended at 3:30.
When I felt restless in the classroom, I would think about recess when I could run and scream if I wanted to. Physical education is good, but it's no substitute for whatever a child feels like doing at the moment.
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I mentioned on the Mass Murder and Guns thread that I was hoping to catch up on Mr Drew's School for Boys, a Channel 4 series showing a four week summer initiative working with 11 primary school boys from around the UK who were a risk of permanent exclusion. Cynically I suspect it was televised to fund it. The last programme is still available on 4OD. That had the boys and their parents on a weekend camp with canoeing, archery and a bonfire as one of the ways to show the families to interact together.
An article in the Guardian says: quote: [t]he driving force behind the series comes from government statistics revealing that boys aged 12 and under are almost six times more likely than girls to be excluded from school. <snip> ... While some blame the rise on cuts for early years support services, such as Sure Start, Drew points the finger at Ofsted and the Department for Education for promoting exclusion as a useful educational tool. "And the increasing pressure of league tables and Ofsted reports puts pressure on schools to kick more pupils out rather than work with them to improve their behaviour," he adds.
Most of the papers I want to read are behind pay walls, but there's an interesting suggestion from this review which suggests that a cause is quote: the processes affecting the social construction of femininity and masculinity. In relation to the social construction of femininity, she argues that many girls of middle school and secondary school age aim to construct feminine identities which emphasise the importance of maturity and a relatively quiet and orderly approach to school life. Girls certainly do take considerable interest in their appearance and may choose to rebel quietly by talking at the back of the class
and quote: Female relative educational improvement has been linked also with the development of a "moral panic" surrounding the alleged development of a so-called UK underclass . It is usual to distinguish between cultural and structural versions of the underclass theory. The cultural version is associated especially with the American New Right theorist Charles Murray who argues that excessive growth of welfare state spending has created a culture of dependency among a new underclass comprising especially single mothers and uneducated , unskilled, poorly paid and often unemployed young men for whom their culture of dependency upon the welfare state has destroyed their capacity to climb out of poverty through their own efforts. The solution, for Murray, is the restriction of welfare state benefits as a means of reactivating personal responsibility and initiative.
The other thing that article says is that the educational achievement of both girls and boys is more affected by class differences than by whether they are male or female.
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quote: Originally posted by Moo: When I was in elementary school seventy years ago, our recesses were frequent enough that we could manage to sit reasonably still in the classroom.
School started at 9; morning recess was from 10:15 to 10:30. Lunch was from 12 to 1. (Most of us went home for lunch.) Afternoon recess was from 2:15 to 2:30. School ended at 3:30.
When I felt restless in the classroom, I would think about recess when I could run and scream if I wanted to. Physical education is good, but it's no substitute for whatever a child feels like doing at the moment.
Moo
Weird thing I have noticed in subbing-- at schools that have little recess, when the kids are turned loose fir their 15 minute burst of outside time-- they don't actually play. They devote their time to just running and screaming. It's like the tension is pulled so tightly they can't even stop and think about what they want to do.
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The flips side of all this: it sucks for the girls, too.
While boys are discouraged by being held to inappropriate standards of classroom expectation as far as sitting still, being quiet, girls are rewarded for this behavior. The truth is, very young girls shouldn't' be sitting around holding their pencils carefully either--unless that is part of their personal nature, which is rarely is at that age. we reinforce them to be passive, to lack initiative, and to stand aside for others. To recap, we set boys up to hate women, we set girls up to be appropriate receptacles for marginalization.
I was thinking about this the other day, as I was helping a class with naptime. The teacher had spent the day scolding one of the older boys about his behavior, and further told me that the only way he could behave was when he stayed by her side and be her little buddy.
At naptime, the teacher had me, the other TA, and herself positioned by the rowdiest boys-- we had to rub their back sit by their side and make sure they went to sleep first. Which I don't mind doing at all. But across the room a little girl was smiling at me, clearly wanting a backrub herself, but by the time we got all the rowdy boys done, she had fallen asleep. Her aptitude in "resting quietly" meant she could be "left alone."
So, after half a day of hearing boy's names shouted across the room while her benign or even brilliant activities are ignored, she even has to see evidence that her golden behavior excludes her from basic affection. (I feel so crappy about this I will actually run over and give girls a quick backrub while they are sleeping. But if it's not my class, I have to do what I am told.)
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The higher levels of Oxford Reading Tree (the only ones I saw) had a lot of stories I felt were interesting enough for me - time travel to Ancient Rome for example. And I didn't have children rereading. I thought not rereading was the point of all those hundreds of books. If children have been made to feel bored by them, and they really were most imaginative in the later levels, that's down to the teachers, not the books.
Try Janet and John for boring.
I was a late reader. Miss Squires announced to the school on prize day that I wasn't getting a prize because I couldn't read. I went home, angry because I thought that it was her job to teach me (and she used my short name, which was for friends, not people who gave me nightmares). My mother was not happy. We had an expedition to Smiths for pre-readers and Beacon Readers, and in three weeks I was skipping through George MacDonald's Princess and the Goblin. (Mum was a teacher, brought up not to interfere with the schools' plans.)
Years later, required to listen to children struggle through telling John to look at Spot run, I realised I knew the text, I knew what was over the page. I had been reading when I was 7, just not aloud, because Janet and John were B O R I N G.
I was prepared to take Oxford Tree books off the shelf for a quick read! But they were the later ones.
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Originally posted by Doc Tor: quote: since state school starts when you're 4 (in Master Tor's case, only just 4),
My son started at 5 1/2, as did both nephews and one godson (Scottish system, boys with January or February birthdays). My son couldn't write his name till he was 6. Sending him to school at 4 would have been a living nightmare; I honestly don't think he had the fine motor skills to write any earlier than 6.
Originally posted by QLib:
quote: Part of what's happening with the "feminisation of education" is that there simply are a lot more female teachers nowadays because a) the relative value of teachers' pay has fallen over the last quarter century or so and b) IMHO males are less inclined to put up with the kind of didactic crap that teachers are now subject to in terms of how/what to teach. Autonomy used to be one of the big attractions of teaching. No more.
The "feminisation of the teaching profession" started 150 years ago and hasn't been a sudden thing; firstly there was the feminisation of early years (up to age 8) teaching, which was more or less complete by the 1870s, then the feminisation of later primary teaching, pretty much a fait accompli by 1900. Then the ratios stalled post world war one as teaching was seen as a good option for returning soldiers with minor injuries. The feminisation of secondary teaching of languages and social sciences came next, and now we have the feminisation of secondary teaching of the remaining subjects.
It's not been a "feminisation" IMO, though, so much as a "demasculination" as men retreat from teaching and women fill in the vacuum created. The process started with the expansion of the Victorian civil service, which offered jobs with better prospects of promotion to the men who would previously have become teachers.
None of this helps with the problem we have of under-achieving boys, but it's important to recognise that boys being taught by women is not some new phenomenon to be factored in.
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Since my son was born last December I've been thinking more about his future schooling, and I'm far from positive about this. I find this thread useful in addressing concrete areas, and appreciate that feminists are talking about boys' issues.
Just to contribute a bit:
quote: Originally posted by Kelly Alves: Oh that article is so full of yes.
quote: Ironically, many children are walking around with an underdeveloped vestibular (balance) system today--due to restricted movement. In order to develop a strong balance system, children need to move their body in all directions, for hours at a time. Just like with exercising, they need to do this more than just once-a-week in order to reap the benefits. Therefore, having soccer practice once or twice a week is likely not enough movement for the child to develop a strong sensory system.
The hip-doctor checked my boy out and said that she hadn't seen a boy with such developed hips for three months. She put this down to the fact that (a) our boy is often put in a baby sling or baby carrier (we don't have a car, so it's either that or the pram), and (b) other parents tend to have them in seats most of the time, therefore they are hardly moving. (I wonder how that is possible. Our boy would complain after too much sitting)
Coming back to the opening post, I got grades of C or higher in a total of three GCSE's (Welsh, computer studies and maths); I remember the whole issue of learning as being labelled as being "swotty". Leaving aside the political aspect of a sense of hopelessness in the 1980s, sex stuff was going on. It was the girls who tended to sit at the front, and us boys were at the back, tending to misbehave.
Most primary school teachers in my school were women. Perhaps our natural rebelling against our mothers (a very healthy thing) founds its outlet partly in seeing education as being a "mother" thing.
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Reading all this in black and white makes me wonder how any of us came out of the system sane.
I taught DT to Y6 for 5 years, minimal writing, maximum making, lots of noise and movement in the lesson, but with a purpose. I could have done so much more (in conjunction with the science teacher, who was brilliant). But I got one hour a week with each Y6 class, and no money for resources. In the end, I gave up.
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