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Posted by jedijudy (# 333) on
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...or laugh or yell at the screen/book/song.
I've been re-watching ST:TNG, and tonight one of the episodes was "The Offspring". That's the one where Data creates his daughter, Lal. (One of my favorites.) I know what's going to happen. Nothing is a surprise, but when Lal is frightened and then is dying, the tears just start running down my face. (I always laugh when she kisses Riker, too!)
What are the things that no matter how many times you experience them, you have an emotional reaction? Please tell me that I'm not the only one!
I'm sure there has to be another Shipmate or two who does the same thing. Tell us! But perhaps limiting ourselves to one experience per post would keep me out of hot water with my fellow Heavenly Hosts.
Posted by Pigwidgeon (# 10192) on
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I've always cried at the end of "Dead Poets Society" (which ends with a suicide). After Robin Williams' death, I doubt that I'll be able to watch it at all.
Posted by The5thMary (# 12953) on
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"Field of Dreams". Oh. My. God. That movie is an entire box of facial tissue for me. I cry and cry and cry at the part where Ray Kinsella (Kevin Costner) gets to play a game of catch with his father, back from the dead, only his father is a younger version of himself. Ray had fought with his father about baseball and said some really dumb, hurtful things and then his father had died before Ray got to take all of it back...
I guess it gets me because I lost both of my parents when I was very young and there are things I said to my mother than I wish like hell I could take back...anyway, that movie is healing but it sure clogs up my nose for awhile, if you know what I mean...sniff!
Posted by no prophet (# 15560) on
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The best episode of ST:TNG is in my opinion, The Inner Light, where Picard is immobilised by a probe and then lives an entire lifetime, marries, has children, grandchildren, and sees the eventual demise of the planet, before waking on the bridge. A flute that he learned to play while living this lifetime is left to him in his real life on the Enterprise. I hear the tune he learned in my head even as I write this, and mist up a little. I was as moved as is possible by a ST episode (and am when I see it), and my family generally calls me an old sap for it.
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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I don't want to spoil it, but the very, very end of Nights of Cabiria.
Posted by The5thMary (# 12953) on
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Originally posted by Pigwidgeon:
I've always cried at the end of "Dead Poets Society" (which ends with a suicide). After Robin Williams' death, I doubt that I'll be able to watch it at all.
I was thinking the very SAME thing the other day! I always cried at the end of that movie but now...I'm fairly certain I will never be able to watch that again...damn! Oh, Robin...
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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I just rewatched Good Will Hunting the other night.
"It's not your fault."
Posted by Welease Woderwick (# 10424) on
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Originally posted by The5thMary:
"Field of Dreams". Oh. My. God. That movie is an entire box of facial tissue for me. I cry and cry and cry at the part where Ray Kinsella (Kevin Costner) gets to play a game of catch with his father, back from the dead, only his father is a younger version of himself. Ray had fought with his father about baseball and said some really dumb, hurtful things and then his father had died before Ray got to take all of it back...
This.
And I seem to cry earlier each time because I know what is coming.
Looking along my DVD shelf there are plenty of others: La Boheme, Goodbye Mr Chips, Beaches, Driving Miss Daisy, Beautiful Thing, Steel Magnolias, etc.
Years ago a friend and I were sitting watching a movie, can't remember what now, and he turned to me, tears streaming down his face, and said "Why do feel-good movies always make me cry?"
Posted by Stetson (# 9597) on
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The last scene from Paths Of Glory
It's not directly connected to the rest of the stroy, except in a broad thematic way(it follows a scene of several soldiers being wrongfully executed). The men are supposed to be French soldiers, the woman a German POW.
Posted by Palimpsest (# 16772) on
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The Inner Light is a great ST-THNG episode.
I'm also fond of Deep Space Nine Far Beyond the Stars.
I am always moved to tears by the candlelight march in the documentary "The Life and Times of Harvey Milk".
Some others which put me close to tears; Edward Scissorhands and Annie Hall
Posted by Rosa Winkel (# 11424) on
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As a kid "It's not easy being green" sung by Kermit the Frog would have me crying my eyes out.
Posted by Oscar the Grouch (# 1916) on
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The very end of the last episode of Blackadder Goes Forth, when they go over the top...
There's a song by The Unthanks, called "The King of Rome". It's about a racing pigeon. EVERY time I hear it, I cry.
Ditto for Janis Ian's "At seventeen". (I was actually 17 when I first heard it and couldn't believe that someone could write a song that perfectly described the pain and despair I was feeling and which I had never told anyone).
Posted by ElaineC (# 12244) on
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Watched The Inner Light on Monday as it was in the top ten of viewers choices and I was welling up too.
Far Beyond the Stars is also one of my favorite DS9 episodes.
Happy endings against all odds have me crying. I have to watch what I read on the bus. Several times I've sat there with tears streaming down my face!
And yes even when I've read the book before and know what's going to happen I still cry.
Posted by Oscar the Grouch (# 1916) on
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Originally posted by Rosa Winkel:
As a kid "It's not easy being green" sung by Kermit the Frog would have me crying my eyes out.
Yes! You weren't the only one.
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Me, three.
The Eagles song " New Kid in Town" used to destroy me when I was a kid.
[ 27. August 2014, 07:25: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
Posted by PeteC (# 10422) on
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Goodbye, Mr Chips. The book.
Posted by la vie en rouge (# 10688) on
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The third LOTR movie gets me in Exactly. The. Same. Spot every time. It’s the soundtrack that does it.
It’s the thick of the battle, it’s going horribly, everybody’s going to die, and then out of nowhere the horns sound and the Riders of Rohan appear over the rise to ride to death or glory.
I always sob.
(In general heroism makes me squish more than the traditional pulling-at-the-emotions stuff.)
Posted by BessHiggs (# 15176) on
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Collin Raye's song If You Get There Before I Do is sure to reduce me to a sopping mess, as will Tim McGraw's Don't Take the Girl.
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on
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Les Miserables. In at least three different places.
Posted by Rosa Winkel (# 11424) on
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I haven't seen it for years, but the bit in "Shawshank Redemption" when Andy crawls out of the pipe from prison, stands in the ditch and raising his arms in the air in triumph. Feel all funny just writing that.
Posted by Earwig (# 12057) on
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The film of Watership Down. Pretty much all of it, especially the bit where the rabbits run up the Down itself, and Fiver exclaims "You can see the whole world!"
But this, this is the bit that has me howling, when Hazel-rah is trying to save the warren, and praying to Frith, the sun-god:
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Hazel: Lord Frith, I know you've looked after us well, and it's wrong to ask even more of you. But my people are in terrible danger, and so I would like to make a bargain with you. My life in return for theirs.
Frith: There is not a day or night that a doe offers her life for her kittens, or some honest captain of Owsla, his life for his chief. But there is no bargain: what is, is what must be.
Posted by Starbug (# 15917) on
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In The Tudors , Natalie Dormer recited the actual words of Anne Boleyn's execution speech on the scaffold. There was a lot of wrong and silly stuff in this TV series (for example, Katherine Howard practising laying her head on the block in the nude!), but every now and then, it produced something spectacular like this. Natalie's acting was excellent.
Here's the full text of the speech , as recorded by an eye-witness. The part that gets me very time is 'I pray God save the king and send him long to reign over you, for a gentler nor a more merciful prince was there never: and to me he was ever a good, a gentle and sovereign lord' - she had to avoid criticising Henry VIII for the sake her daughter, Elizabeth.
Posted by mark_in_manchester (# 15978) on
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As a kid "It's not easy being green" sung by Kermit the Frog would have me crying my eyes out.
Me four - and it still does. Little Mark, age 43 2/3.
There seems to be so much love in it. The Muppets is full of it, to me - full of a sense that someone put so much effort into creating great art, and then sat a wobbly puppet with a funny voice squeezing out corny lyrics over the top of the whole thing because that would make kids feel good. Listen again to the instrumental arrangement, and what the bass line is doing - it really is a loving pastiche of the best 70s MOR pop-jazz-orchestral-American music available. No corners were cut because it was 'just for kids'.
From a UK perspective, 'Ladybird' books sometimes do the same thing to me. They take kids seriously, and if you want to know about butterflies or read some interesting things to do with a battery and a light bulb, there's no better starting point. They don't lie, and they contain hope in a decent, structured, perhaps benignly-paternalistic society in some very prosaic places:
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If you have read this book you will now have a very good idea of how the telephone works...You may be satisfied with the information we have been able to give you in these few pages. On the other hand, you may...want to go into the subject in greater detail or even make the telephone service your career. In either event, the Post Office will be pleased to give you advice on the technical books available and the steps you can take to further your education.
The Telephone, Ladybird Books 1972
Bits of my childhood were not so happy, I guess, and this loving craft and measured stability - perhaps benign paternalism - hit me somewhere very deep.
For a more adult literary take on Truth which kicks one in the balls again and again, 'Gilead' by Marilynne Robinson still makes me cry on the third reading. Something deeply emotional about slow, measured goodness.
Posted by Surfing Madness (# 11087) on
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The Painted Veil makes me cry every time. I still love the film, i just have the tissues handy.
Posted by mark_in_manchester (# 15978) on
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Sorry to post again so quickly, but:
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The film of Watership Down.
Me too...but the same thing (animated disaster with cute protagonists) comes to its apotheosis in Briggs' 'When the wind blows'. Yes, think nuclear-apocalypse meets 'The Snowman' and you are totally there. There, perhaps I am not so weird after all.
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on
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On the one hand, it is of course ridiculous that we should get all emotional at movies, books and suchlike. The world is full of real-life things more worthy of our tears. Etc. Etc.
On the other hand, if anyone's ever stuck for something to buy me as a small gift: hankies. I am the world's worst cryer.
Only yesterday I shed tears on hearing the Adagio from Bruckner's 8th symphony. And there aren't even any words! It's the last 4 minutes or so, the coda - it gets me every single time. I think I once managed to explain it to someone as, "It sounds like loneliness," and it does. And I know from his life story that the composer had not a cynical bone in his body, so he's not pulling some cheap trick - whatever he's doing in that music comes straight from his heart.
(And if after this the tune becomes my earworm for the day, then goodness knows how I'm going to get through the afternoon!)
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Originally posted by mark_in_manchester:
Sorry to post again so quickly, but:
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The film of Watership Down.
Me too...but the same thing (animated disaster with cute protagonists) comes to its apotheosis in Briggs' 'When the wind blows'. Yes, think nuclear-apocalypse meets 'The Snowman' and you are totally there. There, perhaps I am not so weird after all.
Oh yes, that. Even the book has me blubbing.
Posted by Jante (# 9163) on
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Gone with the Wind ending, Sound of Music, when they sing Edelweiss at the concert, Les Mis- almost all of it! and Good Bye Mr Chips and probably loads more I can't think of at the moment
Posted by jedijudy (# 333) on
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Once upon a time, under a previous pastor, staff were all encouraged to take turns providing the devotion for staff meetings. When it was my turn, I chose to read the text of "And Can It Be that I Should Gain", which is my personal theology wrapped up in one hymn.
I was OK until I got to the last verse. With tears streaming down my face, it took a huge force of will to get past the huge lump in my throat to finish reading after a minute? two? (it felt like decades) when not a word could be said.
That was the first time I'd ever said the words out loud. Normally, I would be playing the hymn and absorbing the text then.
Posted by Starbug (# 15917) on
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Originally posted by Adeodatus:
Only yesterday I shed tears on hearing the Adagio from Bruckner's 8th symphony. And there aren't even any words! It's the last 4 minutes or so, the coda - it gets me every single time. I think I once managed to explain it to someone as, "It sounds like loneliness," and it does. And I know from his life story that the composer had not a cynical bone in his body, so he's not pulling some cheap trick - whatever he's doing in that music comes straight from his heart.
There's a piece of music on one of Amy Grant's Christmas albums called Gabriel's Oboe. I believe it comes from a film called The Mission, but I haven't seen it. The music is so mournful that I cry every time I hear it. Every December, I set my iPod to play Christmas music on shuffle while I'm driving; Gabriel's Oboe gets me every time.
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on
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The first five minutes or so of Up. I have it on DVD, but I daren't watch it again.
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on
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Originally posted by Starbug:
There's a piece of music on one of Amy Grant's Christmas albums called Gabriel's Oboe. I believe it comes from a film called The Mission, but I haven't seen it. The music is so mournful that I cry every time I hear it. Every December, I set my iPod to play Christmas music on shuffle while I'm driving; Gabriel's Oboe gets me every time.
Then don't listen to anything else from The Mission! - Ave Maria Guarani is a heartbreaker for me. Don't listen to anything else by Ennio Morricone, for that matter - I'm a sobbing wreck during the last scene of Cinema Paradiso, and it's mostly his music's fault!
Posted by North East Quine (# 13049) on
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I can't read Shirley Hughes' Dogger dry eyed.
I blubbed when reading the Little House on the Prairie books to my kids as bedtime stories. I loved them as a girl, but when I was reading them as an adult, they were completely different.
And I cried buckets when reading the ending of I am David, again a bedtime story for my kids which I'd first read as a girl.
I wonder what impact having your bedtime story read by a sobbing mother has long term?
[ 27. August 2014, 12:50: Message edited by: North East Quine ]
Posted by piglet (# 11803) on
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Jack Point's song at the end of The Yeomen of the Guard, the only one of the Gilbert & Sullivan Savoy operas with a sad ending.
Gets me every time.
Oh, and the theme from Love Story, obviously.
Posted by Siegfried (# 29) on
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- Meet Me in St. Louis : As soon as Judy comes in to her little's sister's room I start tearing up and am all out bawling at the end of the scene.
- West Side Story : The tears start as soon as Tony shows up at the playground and continue through the "one more bullet" speech
Posted by Lord Jestocost (# 12909) on
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The end of Toy Story 3 ...
Posted by jrw (# 18045) on
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Speaking of Toy Story - The song 'When somebody loved me' (written by Randy Newman) played when the doll is telling her tale of her owner growing older and losing interest in her and eventually getting rid of her (Toy Story 2).
[ 27. August 2014, 14:19: Message edited by: jrw ]
Posted by Earwig (# 12057) on
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Originally posted by mark_in_manchester:
Sorry to post again so quickly, but:
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The film of Watership Down.
Me too...but the same thing (animated disaster with cute protagonists) comes to its apotheosis in Briggs' 'When the wind blows'. Yes, think nuclear-apocalypse meets 'The Snowman' and you are totally there. There, perhaps I am not so weird after all.
I know my limits. I've never dared watch it. I think I'd cry so much that by the end I'd be a little wrinkled walnut.
Posted by HCH (# 14313) on
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There's a song called "Isle of Hope, Isle of Tears" that will normally bring tears to my eyes. (This is performed by Celtic Woman, Irish Tenors, etc.)
Posted by Oscar the Grouch (# 1916) on
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Originally posted by jrw:
Speaking of Toy Story - The song 'When somebody loved me' (written by Randy Newman) played when the doll is telling her tale of her owner growing older and losing interest in her and eventually getting rid of her (Toy Story 2).
Oh yes - gets me every time. It is a perfect weepy moment.
A film I haven't seen in decades - the original (1963) Incredible Journey. The moment where two of the animals make it home and - for a moment - you think that the third one hasn't made it. I know how the film ends but I'm already welling up just thinking about it.
Posted by JoannaP (# 4493) on
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If I can only mention one per post... then the most reliable I have found recently is near the end of Cars when the hero (sorry, I've forgotten the names ) gives up his chance of winning the race to make sure that the other car finishes.
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Originally posted by Siegfried:
- Meet Me in St. Louis : As soon as Judy comes in to her little's sister's room I start tearing up and am all out bawling at the end of the scene.
- West Side Story : The tears start as soon as Tony shows up at the playground and continue through the "one more bullet" speech
Check and check.
Posted by Galilit (# 16470) on
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Greyfriars Bobby
First film I ever saw (1962) and in a theatre with the curtain going up and the lights going down and all the performance
Can't even think of it withlout sniffling.
Like now.
The wee doggie, the old man, the street kids, all of it...
Posted by Cottontail (# 12234) on
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The film of The Railway Children, where the figure of a man emerges through the steam, and there is this perfectly-timed pause, and then Jenny Aguter cries out, "Daddy! O my Daddy!"
*howls*
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Apparently that was one of the (many) things that used to get Tony Benn blubbing in public, too. Indeed IIRC he said in his memoirs that 'Railway Children' had become a sort of family shorthand expression for 'dad's off again'.
Posted by moonlitdoor (# 11707) on
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Meryl Streep reading AE Housman's poem To an Athlete Died Young at Robert Redford's funeral in Out of Africa.
Silence sounds no worse than cheers, after earth has stopped the ears.
Posted by Graham J (# 505) on
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Yes. Cottontail. That's the moment for me too. Every time.
Posted by sophs (# 2296) on
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Originally posted by Cottontail:
The film of The Railway Children, where the figure of a man emerges through the steam, and there is this perfectly-timed pause, and then Jenny Aguter cries out, "Daddy! O my Daddy!"
*howls*
I watched this with a friend and her mum commented that C would never great her father like that. She died a few months ago and I cannot get the scene out of my head, with C running towards her Heavenly Father.
I feel quite silly even posting it
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on
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There's a moment in the Doctor Who story Vincent and the Doctor. The Doctor and Amy take the depressed and disillusioned Vincent van Gogh - who only ever sold one painting and who lived in poverty - to see an exhibition of his work in 21st century Paris. Vincent is overwhelmed to see his paintings in the Musée d'Orsay. But then the Doctor asks the museum guide to give his appraisal of van Gogh. Vincent overhears the guide talking about the artist who "transformed the pain of his tormented life into ecstatic beauty" - and I never really make it past that point, I'm afraid.
Posted by roybart (# 17357) on
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I agree with Oscar the Grouch about the last brief scene of the last episode of Blackadder Goes Forth. The surprise -- and the pathos -- are enhanced by a sudden, unexpected, and very beautiful change in visual style.
My first thought when I read the OP: The death of the little burro Platero at the end of Juan Ramon Jimenez's Platero y Yo. It's a sweet, gentle ending, and inevitable. But I never reread this book without hoping that things will end differently this time.
[ 27. August 2014, 21:00: Message edited by: roybart ]
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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loved what they did for Vincent.
On that note-- Idris's final speech.
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Oh, and I hate myself for admitting this, but you know that damn cat speech that got Shelley Long an Emmy on "Cheers" ? Poor dear departed Elizabeth Barrett Browning, who saved teenage Diane from self harm because she had to be there for Elizabeth? Makes me a wreck.
"I can't help thinking she was wondering where I was! "
Posted by Galloping Granny (# 13814) on
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The death of Falstaff: "'a babbled of green fields"
(reaches for hanky)
or Danny Boy well sung: "and I shall hear, though soft you tread above me"
((enough! enough!)
GG
Posted by Moo (# 107) on
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The Velveteen Rabbit does it for me.
Moo
Posted by Hedgehog (# 14125) on
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In the fifth season of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Buffy's mother (Joyce) dies. Unusually for the show, it is a natural death (aneurysm). The episode dealing with the immediate aftermath of Joyce's death (which was the cliffhanger from the previous episode) is "The Body."
It is simply amazing. The regulars all get a chance to react to the death in their own ways--both individually and as a group dynamic. The episode was done without background music to allow for silences (both comforting and awkward). There are a number of beautiful scenes and lines. Such as:
Buffy, trying to revive Joyce, telling the 911 operator "she's cold." The operator, shocked, asks "the body's cold?" "No," says Buffy, "My mom." She doesn't say it angry like she is offended but simply like the operator misunderstood what she said. The payoff is later when, in a panic, Buffy tells Giles "We aren't supposed to move the body!"--and the moment the words "the body" comes from her mouth--the first time she really accepts Joyce is dead--her face just crumples in grief.
Willow constantly changing her clothes because she doesn't know what to wear for this situation.
Xander punching the wall (and putting his fist through it) out of frustration.
But, perhaps, best of all, Buffy and Tara sitting alone. Tara is new to the group and not much is known about her. Buffy explains that the others (who have left to get food) don't understand because none of them have lost their mother. "I have" says Tara quietly. Buffy starts to apologize and Tara says "No, I know it is different for you. Because it is always different." So true, the death of our own parent is never the same to us as the death of anybody else.
And maybe that is part of why the episode is such an emotional trigger for me. It first aired just a few days after my own father died. I bawled through the entire episode when it first aired. Now I can get a good three or four minutes in before the tears start.
Posted by Pigwidgeon (# 10192) on
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Originally posted by Moo:
The Velveteen Rabbit does it for me.
Moo
Posted by Oscar P. (# 10412) on
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In the movie, It's A Wonderful Life, the last scene shows all of Jimmy Stewart's friends and neighbors coming to the house and bringing money to help save him and the Building and Loan. I get choked up when he first arrives back home and am full on sobbing by the end of the movie. Every. single. time.
Posted by jedijudy (# 333) on
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Every time I watch Edward ask Elinor to marry him I sob! Not little tiny sniffles. Huge shoulder shaking, tear flooding sobs!
For those who are puzzled, this is the 1995 version of "Sense and Sensibility". Yes, I cry when reading the book, too. Makes my pillow all wet.
Posted by AngloCatholicGirl (# 16435) on
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The end of the Futurama episode "Jurassic Bark". I start sniveling about 10 mins before the end because I know what's coming and by the end I'm bawling (reminds me too much of all the dogs that have been and gone in my life )
Posted by Palimpsest (# 16772) on
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Speaking of the Muppets and "It's not easy being Green" There was a documentary about Big Bird. I saw at the recent Film Festival I attended.
They included a shot from the Jim Henson Memorial service where Big Bird sings "It's not easy being green." There was not a dry eye in the packed house.
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Oh, the Muppets know where to get you. I saw what you are talking about.
Go to Youtube and see if you can find a clip of the Sesame Street episode where Big Bird comes to terms with the death of Mr. Hooper. ( the real life actor had died shortly before the episode was shot.) Big Bird acted out the point of view of a preschool child who didn't understand the concept of death. The other actors responded to his questions and sadness in character, but they allowed themselves to freely weep through the dialogue. It was one of the frankest, most respectful, most heartbreaking treatments of a character/ actor's demise I have ever seen.
[ 28. August 2014, 04:26: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Originally posted by jedijudy:
Every time I watch Edward ask Elinor to marry him I sob! Not little tiny sniffles. Huge shoulder shaking, tear flooding sobs!
For those who are puzzled, this is the 1995 version of "Sense and Sensibility". Yes, I cry when reading the book, too. Makes my pillow all wet.
Emma Thompson said she had to talk Hugh Grant into giving up the bulk of his big romantic speech to let long- suffering Elinor have her melt down. Elinor is probably the Jane Austin character I relate to most.
[ 28. August 2014, 04:29: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
Posted by betjemaniac (# 17618) on
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The end of the Railway Children obviously
some that haven't been mentioned:
- the scene where everyone's singing the Marsaillaise in Casablanca
- pretty well the whole last 20 minutes of A Canterbury Tale but especially the bit where Alison walks through the centre of a bombed out Canterbury (it's on youtube, have a look)
- the closing credits of Cry Freedom
- the last five minutes of Alec Guinness giving the performance of his life in Tunes of Glory
- concerto de aranjuez, juxtaposed with the colliery lighting and a very fiery meeting, Brassed Off
- the scene in Dunkirk when they're all kneeling for prayer on the beach and Bernard Lee gets shot
- the Life and Death of Colonel Blimp, Anton Walbrook's great soliloquy in the police station
books don't make me cry really, although the last chapter of the House at Pooh Corner gets me every time (seriously).
Music not so much either, although Sandy Denny can be relied on to make me get quite maudlin, much as I love her.
Posted by Starbug (# 15917) on
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The episode of Fame where they sang Starmaker as a farewell to Mr Crandall. What the audience didn't know at the time was that the actor who played Mr Crandall was dying of cancer and the rest of the cast were really saying goodbye to him.
Posted by la vie en rouge (# 10688) on
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Frances Hodgson Burnett’s Little Princess was the first book ever to make me cry, when I was (I guess) eight or nine years old.
Twenty-five years later when Sara has lost everything and has to climb up to the attic by herself it still gets me.
Posted by tessaB (# 8533) on
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"Daddy, Oh my daddy" Was what went through my mind when my father died. I couldn't possibly watch the film again.
The book (In this?) House of Brede by Rumor Godden, I cried through most of it although I'm not quite sure why.
The following films are now banned in our house because beloved husband cries too much at them - The Sound of Music, It's a Wonderful Life and Gone with the Wind. Also oddly, Prince Caspian
I start crying listening to the soundtrack of Les Mis at roughly the beginning and finish crying about ten minutes after the end. Not one to put on the CD player in the car.
Have had a few tears just reading through the posts here.
Posted by Pyx_e (# 57) on
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I am a renowned weeper. Most (if not all of the above) apply. My children AND grandchildren openly mock me.
Last year my 21 year old son and I went to Le Mis, in the last 20 minutes he gradually moved 5 seats away (one at a time) he was so embarrassed at the snot running down my face.
I broke down watching some shite on TV last week because the pretend priest was baptising the plastic baby in the incubator. My wife who made me watch it then added this to the list of great times "Pyx_e cries like a baby."
Happy days.
Posted by Dormouse (# 5954) on
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Originally posted by Oscar the Grouch:
There's a song by The Unthanks, called "The King of Rome". It's about a racing pigeon. EVERY time I hear it, I cry.
You and Mr D both! (and maybe me too on a "glum" day)
It is a lovely song though... The Testimony of Patience Kershaw by the same singers has a similar effect on MrD as well.
Posted by Earwig (# 12057) on
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Originally posted by Kelly Alves:
Go to Youtube and see if you can find a clip of the Sesame Street episode where Big Bird comes to terms with the death of Mr. Hooper. ( the real life actor had died shortly before the episode was shot.) Big Bird acted out the point of view of a preschool child who didn't understand the concept of death. The other actors responded to his questions and sadness in character, but they allowed themselves to freely weep through the dialogue. It was one of the frankest, most respectful, most heartbreaking treatments of a character/ actor's demise I have ever seen.
I watched that as a kid and it broke my heart even then.
Posted by Ferijen (# 4719) on
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Originally posted by tessaB:
"Daddy, Oh my daddy" Was what went through my mind when my father died.
I am not a big TV watcher, but a few years ago I watched the sunday night comfy serial 'Born and Bred' (mostly because it was filmed in an area I grew up in). One of the key character's deaths was 'announced' by a railway scene with echoes of 'daddy, oh my daddy' (so the opposite conclusion, but still...) There were no words, but gosh, that got me going.
I don't cry much even now, but I've found that having become a mum, the waterworks are easier to turn on...
Posted by Lord Jestocost (# 12909) on
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Originally posted by Hedgehog:
In the fifth season of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Buffy's mother (Joyce) dies. Unusually for the show, it is a natural death (aneurysm). The episode dealing with the immediate aftermath of Joyce's death (which was the cliffhanger from the previous episode) is "The Body."
Everything you said about this, plus Anya trying desperately to say something appropriate and blurting out, "I wish she hadn't died because she was nice." And you see how Buffy understands and respects the effort she made in saying it.
Posted by Pyx_e (# 57) on
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Originally posted by Kelly Alves:
Go to Youtube and see if you can find a clip of the Sesame Street episode where Big Bird comes to terms with the death of Mr. Hooper. ( the real life actor had died shortly before the episode was shot.) Big Bird acted out the point of view of a preschool child who didn't understand the concept of death. The other actors responded to his questions and sadness in character, but they allowed themselves to freely weep through the dialogue. It was one of the frankest, most respectful, most heartbreaking treatments of a character/ actor's demise I have ever seen.
God, now I have to go to bible study with red eyes and sniffling, again.
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Oh yes, and picking up betjemaniac's list, the opening of A Matter of Life and Death where David Niven in his burning bomber is speaking to the American girl in the ops room.
Posted by betjemaniac (# 17618) on
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Originally posted by Albertus:
Oh yes, and picking up betjemaniac's list, the opening of A Matter of Life and Death where David Niven in his burning bomber is speaking to the American girl in the ops room.
There was rather a lot of Powell and Pressburger in that list wasn't there? But then they were geniuses.
I didn't even mention I Know Where I'm Going! All time favourite film.
It's very difficult, given I'm in my early thirties, to persuade my friends of the awesomeness of P&P, or to give them a go.
My own nomination from AMOLAD (Stairway to Heaven for US shipmates) is the whole of Roger Livesey's courtroom speech.
Posted by jedijudy (# 333) on
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When Daughter-Unit was little, I read the Narnia books to her several times. The most difficult was the end of "The Last Battle". She would watch my face as I read the familiar words with tears streaming down. Even at that young age, she understood, I think.
Posted by Pyx_e (# 57) on
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she understood
what a wuss you are?
Posted by Pigwidgeon (# 10192) on
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The scene from an old episode of M*A*S*H (the television show, not the movie) when Radar announces that Col. Henry Blake's plane has been shot down on his way home to the U.S.
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Originally posted by betjemaniac:
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Originally posted by Albertus:
Oh yes, and picking up betjemaniac's list, the opening of A Matter of Life and Death where David Niven in his burning bomber is speaking to the American girl in the ops room.
There was rather a lot of Powell and Pressburger in that list wasn't there? But then they were geniuses.
I didn't even mention I Know Where I'm Going! All time favourite film.
It's very difficult, given I'm in my early thirties, to persuade my friends of the awesomeness of P&P, or to give them a go.
My own nomination from AMOLAD (Stairway to Heaven for US shipmates) is the whole of Roger Livesey's courtroom speech.
I'm about 15 years older than you are, then, and I think I got into P&P when I was an undergraduate. But we were a rather fogeyish generation. You're right, there are blub moments everywhere in their films. I share your view on the end of A Canterbury Tale, too- I grew up near Canterbury and there were plenty of people around who remembered the Baedeker raids of June '42 (when my school was blitzed), so it has a resonance for me.
Getting back to the OP, though, I'm reminded by the mention of my undergraduate days of the effect on a friend of mine of Ella Fitzgerald singing Every Time We Say Goodbye. We'd stick a 78 of it on at the end of the evening just to make him cry.
Posted by betjemaniac (# 17618) on
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On Leave from the new album by John Lees' Barclay James Harvest, North.
Posted by piglet (# 11803) on
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The end of Charlotte's Web. I must be world-class wuss - it's a bloody spider for heaven's sake - but I think it's more the little pig's reaction.
Bugger it - my computer's starting to rust now ...
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Originally posted by Lord Jestocost:
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Originally posted by Hedgehog:
In the fifth season of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Buffy's mother (Joyce) dies. Unusually for the show, it is a natural death (aneurysm). The episode dealing with the immediate aftermath of Joyce's death (which was the cliffhanger from the previous episode) is "The Body."
Everything you said about this, plus Anya trying desperately to say something appropriate and blurting out, "I wish she hadn't died because she was nice." And you see how Buffy understands and respects the effort she made in saying it.
Sorry to keep piggybacking on people, but my friend J. recently lost his sister to cancer and he said part of his grieving process was repeatedly watching this episode.
Regarding Narnia: I was babysitting a couple kids when I first saw the the BBC version of TLTWATW, and when Susan and Lucy were tending to Aslan's body, I sat there with tears running down my cheeks. The two little girls
I was watching kept boasting," I'm not crying."
Interesting how when we're kids, we pride ourselves on not crying and when we get older, we're relieved we still can.
ETA Oh, yes, Pigwidgeon.
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Posted by Hugal (# 2734) on
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Lots of my moments have been listed but in Lilo and Stitch (which is a different Disney film ) where Stitch leaves to wait for his family. Also Tony Jay singing about how the world will hate Quasimodo in The Hunchback of Notre Dame
Posted by Oscar the Grouch (# 1916) on
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Originally posted by Dormouse:
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Originally posted by Oscar the Grouch:
There's a song by The Unthanks, called "The King of Rome". It's about a racing pigeon. EVERY time I hear it, I cry.
You and Mr D both! (and maybe me too on a "glum" day)
It is a lovely song though... The Testimony of Patience Kershaw by the same singers has a similar effect on MrD as well.
O God, yes. It doesn't have exactly the same effect on me as King of Rome, but it's still moving.
(Here's the King of Rome!)
Posted by sharkshooter (# 1589) on
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White Christmas - pretty much all of it after Bob appears on the Ed Harrison Show.
Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on
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Originally posted by Surfing Madness:
The Painted Veil makes me cry every time. I still love the film, i just have the tissues handy.
Ach! I start misting up a little during the suicide through salad scene, pick it up when she goes to e clinic and sees how much the nuns revere him, full on start sobbing a bit later and keep it up to the end. Great movie!
Posted by Viola (# 20) on
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Sound of Music again.
Which can be embarrassing when you're playing in the pit orchestra for the theatre version in a week long run. There was a sweepstake going for where I'd lose it on each night. Got it down to just Edelweiss at the concert by the last night.
Mind you - since producing a sprog, I cry at absolutely anything, so I'm very selective about what I watch these days.
Posted by Palimpsest (# 16772) on
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For something more recent; The episode "Simon and Marcy" of the animated show Adventure Time in which a villain is shown to be a very caring guy who was driven insane.
Besides Dead Poets Society and Good Will Hunting, Awakenings moves me.
We've also barely touched musicals and operas. South Pacific, Camelot, Cabaret, A Little Night Music, Rosenkavalier, Madame Butterfly...
Posted by Eigon (# 4917) on
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I'm another one who wells up every time I hear the King of Rome - and the end of the Railway Children.
I also find it very difficult to watch Spartacus all in one go.
The absolute worst, though, was the last 200 pages of The Reckoning by Sharon K Penman, which is the last of her Welsh trilogy. I knew the history, you see, having guided tours around Caergwrle Castle in North Wales when a dig was going on there, and I knew it wasn't going to end well for the Welsh, so I sobbed myself right to the end, and I'm not sure when I'm going to have the courage to re-read it!
Posted by guinness girl (# 4391) on
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I am a cryer of some renown - I have even been known to cry at adverts! Lots of things already mentioned - Elinor's emotional outburst in Sense and Sensibility, the Van Gogh episode of Doctor Who. The song 'Vincent' by Don McLean has a similar effect... total dissolve.
The song 'Everybody's Changing' by Keane always sets me off, as it was released around the time I graduated and many of my uni friends and most of my housemates moved away, so lots of memories there.
More recently, the Song 'Do You Wanna Build a Snowman' from Frozen. So much pain and sadness wrapped up in such a pretty, lovely song. My three year old son must have watched that film twenty times now and it still gets me EVERY time.
Posted by Vulpior (# 12744) on
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Originally posted by la vie en rouge:
The third LOTR movie gets me in Exactly. The. Same. Spot every time. It’s the soundtrack that does it.
It’s the thick of the battle, it’s going horribly, everybody’s going to die, and then out of nowhere the horns sound and the Riders of Rohan appear over the rise to ride to death or glory.
I always sob.
(In general heroism makes me squish more than the traditional pulling-at-the-emotions stuff.)
Same film, different spot. When everyone kneels to acknowledge the hobbits. Tear up.
I also tear up at the end of Armageddon. The happy bits.
Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on
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Originally posted by jedijudy:
Every time I watch Edward ask Elinor to marry him I sob! Not little tiny sniffles. Huge shoulder shaking, tear flooding sobs!
I cry when Emma Thompson cries, period.
The S&S scene. The scene in Remains of the Day, when she's telling Anthony Hopkins she's marrying someone else and again at the end when she gets on the bus. I cry in Howards End, when she collapses in front of the mirror and later, when they have to break-up. Many other times.
Staying with Jane Austin, I always cry in Pride and Prejudice, when Mary's father shuts the piano on her. I feel my face turn red for her, too.
In Emma I cry during the "badly done," speech.
On a lighter note, I cry great sloppy happy tears at the end of Billy Elliot.
Posted by Starbug (# 15917) on
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Originally posted by Pigwidgeon:
The scene from an old episode of M*A*S*H (the television show, not the movie) when Radar announces that Col. Henry Blake's plane has been shot down on his way home to the U.S.
Oh, yes. and also the final episode when Hawkeye has a breakdown.
Posted by Stetson (# 9597) on
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Originally posted by Hugal:
Lots of my moments have been listed but in Lilo and Stitch (which is a different Disney film ) where Stitch leaves to wait for his family. Also Tony Jay singing about how the world will hate Quasimodo in The Hunchback of Notre Dame
As a kid, I got pretty choked up during the Charles Laughton film of Hunchback. Most memorably, when he gets humiliated as King Of The Fools, and at the end where he asks the gargoyle "Why was I not made of stone like thee?"
Posted by Stetson (# 9597) on
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"Yes, I can see now."
That one shot had me close to tears when I saw the film with a live orchestra providing the musical accompaniment. Otherwise not a huge fan of that guy(oops, I mean "that glorious treasure of cinematic history.")
Posted by Sioni Sais (# 5713) on
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That scene from M*A*S*H gets me too, but for music the song "Perhaps Love" by John Denver and sung by him and Placido Domingo gets me going.
Otherwise, and I may be very strange in this, I find the effort, tension and elation in track athletics can also bring me to tears.
Posted by cliffdweller (# 13338) on
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The scene in Saving Private Ryan when Mrs. Ryan is told her sons are dead.
What's amazing about the scene is that we don't hear any of the words that are spoken, or ever even see her face. The scene is shot from behind, and all the emotion is conveyed from her body movements. She's washing dishes in the sink, over her shoulder thru the kitchen window we see the cars with the little American flag drive up the long country driveway. We see the officers and a chaplain get out. Still from behind we watch her walk over to the front door, walk out on to the porch. We see the chaplain reach out to steady her as this strong woman finally stumbles in her grief...
heart-wrenching scene, beautifully shot.
Posted by jedijudy (# 333) on
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Originally posted by Pyx_e:
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she understood
what a wuss you are?
Yes.
I mean...maybe 'tenderhearted' is the word you were looking for?
Posted by Oscar the Grouch (# 1916) on
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June Tabor singing "The band played Waltzing Matilda"
So moving.
(And yet HER version of King of Rome is as tedious as hell...)
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Originally posted by Sioni Sais:
That scene from M*A*S*H gets me too, but for music the song "Perhaps Love" by John Denver and sung by him and Placido Domingo gets me going.
For some reason Denver's "Calypso" really gets to me. I am willing to bet I am alone in that.
The first time I heard Tom Waits's "Martha" I lost my shit by the end of the song. Now all I have to hear is the opening bars and I 'm off. When I am having one of those moments when I know I need to cry and the tears won't come, I throw that on.
I remember quiet evenings trembling close to you...
Posted by Smudgie (# 2716) on
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I'm hopeless at keeping the tears in too - luckily the Smudgelet's just as bad so we sit there hiding our tears together. I can feel myself welling up just at reading through the thread. Though as many here have said, I have learned to become selective in what I watch. Since going through my own tragedy, I now never deliberately watch a weepie.
My key triggers which I do love, though, have not been mentioned (apart from that opening sequence of "UP"). Firstly the scene in Ice Age when Manny sees the cave painting of the slaughter of the mammoth family - that has gradually become the moment when I need to go to the kitchen and put the kettle on very noisily!
And, the Abba song "Slipping through my fingers". I watched Mamma Mia shortly after losing my eldest son and the words combined with the tune and the whole theme of the song went incredibly deep. Strangely enough, that song often comes to mind and really makes me treasure every moment (yes, even the downright infuriating ones!) with the Smudgelet. But it's a proper weepie! Hand me the tissues, would you?
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on
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Originally posted by Smudgie:
My key triggers which I do love, though, have not been mentioned (apart from that opening sequence of "UP").
At last, reassurance that I am not alone!
Posted by pjl (# 16929) on
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Not normally bothered with fictional weepies, but non fictional can get me going a bit.
Many years ago whilst in Africa the family watched the classic original 1986 film 'Jock of the bushveld'.
Wow, I really teared up, still the only time I have seen my son well up.
Last weekend was my sons eldest kids birthday. At his request at the end of the party we played the film.
No dry eyes in the house at the end.
Believe the film did not go down well in the States because of the ending.
A great film for dog lovers.
Posted by Lord Jestocost (# 12909) on
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Piers Brosnan's singing can move me to tears but perhaps not for the same reasons as everything else on this thread.
On a completely different note, Flowers for Algernon. A shaft of ice goes through my heart when we read Charlie's first typo after coming off the meds. After that, downhill and hankies all the way ...
And, the fate of Lyra and Will in The Amber Spyglass.
Posted by EloiseA (# 18029) on
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Wiping my eyes just reading through this thread.
My mother took us children to see Walt Disney's Bambi and howled through it. We were terrified she would never stop crying. A few years after, my sister and I went to see Elsa the lioness in Born Free and we both cried our eyes out. I still can't watch anything with animals in [simulated] pain or dying, not even animated film scenes.
And the reading of Auden's poem Funeral Blues from Four Weddings and a Funeral always gets me.
He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.
The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the woods;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.
Funeral Blues
Posted by Welease Woderwick (# 10424) on
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Thank you EloiseA - just seeing that on the screen makes me tear up.
Posted by la vie en rouge (# 10688) on
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Originally posted by Eutychus:
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Originally posted by Smudgie:
My key triggers which I do love, though, have not been mentioned (apart from that opening sequence of "UP").
At last, reassurance that I am not alone!
I saw UP at the cinema just after my uncle died. (I was miserable and my best friend took me out for movie and dinner by way of consolation. UP was the only thing on that week that wasn’t morbidly depressing.)
I bawled. I haven’t watched it again since so I don’t know what it would do to me in different circumstances.
Posted by Eigon (# 4917) on
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Something else that occurs to me, thinking of poetry, is the Kipling poem about the Centurion who doesn't want to go back to Rome because he feels more at home in Britain - it's when he pleads with his commanding officer "Command me not to go!"
Posted by Amika (# 15785) on
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Flowers for Algernon...I can't even watch it or read the book again for the pain of it.
Many of the others mentioned above, especially parts of The Sound of Music; parts of The Mission, especially when Jeremy Irons is lying there injured watching the disaster come to a terrible end; the closing credits of Cry Freedom; 'I love you, Father' from Lal (aargh, just reading all these is making my eyes water); plus the moment in The Killing Fields when Sydney arrives in Thailand and finds Pran while 'Imagine' plays on the car radio.
Posted by Jay-Emm (# 11411) on
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Goodbye Lenin when brother asks sister what she said, the sandman scene and the final speech.
(I think it helps that the contradictions mush my brain, and I'm a sucker for elsewhere-patriotism, and it's very finely crafted).
When watched Carousel am a bit weepy at the bit where he fails to be relate to his daughter, but it's rather spoiled by the "If you're a victim of domestic violence, you're a slut" message immediately afterwards.
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Originally posted by Amika:
...the closing credits of Cry Freedom...
Forgot to agree with this one. I think the closing credits is also the reason I choke up when I hear Nkosi Sikelele Africa.
Posted by Kittyville (# 16106) on
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I'm a bit of a blubber, so when someone warned me about Up! I made sure I watched it from the safety of my sofa. Unfortunately, no one warned me about Frankenweenie and I was on a plane back from Perth when I watched that. Hardly embarrassing at all...
Posted by jedijudy (# 333) on
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Palm Sunday, about five or six years ago, I was one of the scripture readers. I was not assigned the triumphant entry scripture. No, I had the death of Jesus scripture.
I was fine while reading it in my head. Ten or twelve times I read it with no problem. When it was time to read it aloud in the service, though, I broke down.
The parishioners were very kind. They said it made the reading more 'real'. However, I wanted to drop into my imaginary trap door I keep at the organ console.
Posted by sharkshooter (# 1589) on
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There are many hymns I have trouble getting through these days; prime among them is "How Great Thou Art".
Posted by Celtic Knotweed (# 13008) on
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Two that get me every time.
First, the scene in The Darkest Road by Guy Gavriel Kay where Prince Diarmuid rides to fight Uathach. From there to the end of that chapter, I am reading through tears.
Second, the Fairport Convention song by Richard Thompson, Meet on the Ledge. Just for the lyrics ...and now I've got it as an earworm
Posted by Hilda of Whitby (# 7341) on
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Way too many to list, but here are a few:
Music:
Maddie Pryor and June Tabor singing "Gray Funnel Line". Unearthly; simply gorgeous.
The King's Singers version of "The Oak and the Ash". The whole thing is beautiful, but the very last words of the song ("How I wish/once again in the North/I could be") kills me.
"Land of Make Believe" by Chuck Mangione, with Esther Summerfield on vocals, backed with the Hamilton Philharmonic. My husband and I were in the car a couple of years ago, this came on the radio and from the moment Esther Summerfield started singing, I burst into tears. I had never heard the song before. Where the f*@k was I when this came out?!
Andre Heller's song "Du, du, du". Anyone who thinks German can't be beautiful needs to hear this song. The lyrics are just wonderful. It's a very special song to me.
I totally agree with the people who mentioned Randy Newman's "When somebody loved me" sung by Sarah McLachlan in Toy Story 2. I'm a wreck whenever I hear it. Another wonderful Randy Newman song is "That'll do" from Babe: Pig in the City, sung by Peter Gabriel. I totally lose it.
In books:
The part in Nabokov's "Pnin" where Pnin is thinking about a woman he once loved and her death in a Nazi camp. I burst into tears on the subway when I was reading it. Nabokov is not known for sentimentality, and this description was far for sentimental--it was sheer anguish, beautifully written and not overdone. I've never forgotten it.
Thomas Merton's description in "Conjectures of a guilty bystander" of his epiphany on a street corner in Louisville, Kentucky where he says" "There is no way of telling people that they are all walking around shining like the sun.” I burst into tears when I read it.
Pages 91 and 92 in Pema Chodron's "When things fall apart" where she is describing bodhichitta (compassion) and ends by saying "Right down there in the thick of things, we discover the love that will not die." I can't read it without breaking down.
The epilogue of Susan Kay's "Legacy", a terrific historical novel about Elizabeth I. It describes her death and what happens next. I won't say any more. It knocked me sideways.
In theatre:
The song "Sunday" at the end of the first act of "Sunday in the Park with George" where Seurat is painting "Sunday Afternoon on the Island of La Grande Jatte" and the actors are on stage singing and moving around, and then at the very end, in the production I saw, a transparent scrim came down, the lights went on it, and there it was--the picture. I burst out crying; it was gorgeous.
Tom Stoppard's "Arcadia"--the very end, in the production I saw, broke me up. It was just magic.
A little known musical called "Wings" about a woman, formerly a aviatrix, who has a stroke. I cried through the whole thing, because it made me think of my mother, who was also a prisoner in her own body with MS. In the last song, "Wings", the main character is dying, but as she leaves her body, she is more alive than she's ever been and is "going forth on wings". I can't even describe it.
Posted by Starbug (# 15917) on
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On YouTube, there's a beautiful rendition of Neil Sedaka's song Going Nowhere by Lena Zavaroni. The words are so poignant, especially as she was already suffering from anorexia. Here's a link if you've never seen it. just haunting.
Posted by Galilit (# 16470) on
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Originally posted by sharkshooter:
There are many hymns I have trouble getting through these days; prime among them is "How Great Thou Art".
I always break down there because it is such a kiwi
standard...and I am 10000 miles away from there. Happily 10000 miles away; just to make it even more complicated - hence more likely I'll cry
Posted by Meg the Red (# 11838) on
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Originally posted by Kelly Alves:
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Originally posted by Sioni Sais:
That scene from M*A*S*H gets me too, but for music the song "Perhaps Love" by John Denver and sung by him and Placido Domingo gets me going.
For some reason Denver's "Calypso" really gets to me. I am willing to bet I am alone in that.
You'd lose. And don't get me started on "Christmas for "Cowboys". . .
Posted by busyknitter (# 2501) on
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Is this where all we John Denver fans out ourselves.
And I can't even read about The Railway Children without welling up........
[ 01. September 2014, 05:52: Message edited by: busyknitter ]
Posted by Niminypiminy (# 15489) on
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So many children's books :
Dogger by Shirley Hughes ('then Bella did something very kind...')
Peepo by Janet and Allan Ahlberg
I am David ('my son David' ... can't see the keyboard for tears just thinking of this one)
The chapter of the Silver Sword by Ian Serralier where the dog dies so that Jan can escape
the ending of Children on the Oregon Trail
Obviously the ending of the Railway Children
Goodnight Mr Tom
The bit where the girls weep over dead Aslan
Basically I'm a hopeless crier. I haven't even scratched the surface here, not to mention films, music, adults books.
Posted by Lord Jestocost (# 12909) on
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Originally posted by Niminypiminy:
I am David ('my son David' ... can't see the keyboard for tears just thinking of this one)
Oh, golly, yes. I sometimes wonder what it was like for his mother, quietly getting on with her life with the ever-present heartache of a missing-presumed-dead son - who one day turns up on her doorstep. Stopping now because my eyes are tingling ...
Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on
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Almost any story from The Moth Radio Hour. (themoth.org)
These are ordinary people telling stories about themselves in their own shaky voices and whether they're meant to be funny or sad, they all make me mist up a little bit.
Posted by Eigon (# 4917) on
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I've even cried over Ivor the Engine! Ivor takes the choir to the seaside, and they all go off and enjoy themselves while he's left alone on the railway track - later, they build a special bit of track so he can go down onto the beach with them!
Posted by ChastMastr (# 716) on
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"Old and Wise" from Alan Parsons Project always does it for me.
Posted by Macrina (# 8807) on
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Originally posted by Adeodatus:
There's a moment in the Doctor Who story Vincent and the Doctor. The Doctor and Amy take the depressed and disillusioned Vincent van Gogh - who only ever sold one painting and who lived in poverty - to see an exhibition of his work in 21st century Paris. Vincent is overwhelmed to see his paintings in the Musée d'Orsay. But then the Doctor asks the museum guide to give his appraisal of van Gogh. Vincent overhears the guide talking about the artist who "transformed the pain of his tormented life into ecstatic beauty" - and I never really make it past that point, I'm afraid.
YES! I had, as a student nurse, very sadly experienced the first loss of a patient shortly before that episode aired and it hit me right in the guts. I sobbed and sobbed. My Mum thought I'd taken leave of my senses. I've got a lump in my throat even now thinking of that scene.
Posted by Macrina (# 8807) on
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And spamming the thread since I'm now weepy anyway...
I can't listen to 'Into the West' at the end of LOTR without bawling my eyes out. It makes me think about death and loss and in spite of all my struggles with faith to confront my small remaining hope that I might see them again.
I also cried when Harry sat in front of the mirror looking at his family, when Dumbledore died and when Harry was taking his last walk surrounded by his family. Oh and when I read PS I love you I sobbed through the whole book.
And I worry about being unemotional...
Posted by Pyx_e (# 57) on
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The final straw.
Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on
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In "Upstairs Downstairs," I not only cried when James killed himself, I felt a little depressed for days.
Posted by betjemaniac (# 17618) on
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Last night I deliberately went onto youtube and watched the scene from A Canterbury Tale I mentioned earlier just to be sure and, in about 3 seconds, was welling up.
Also, the soliloquy about what the war's done to her in A Portrait of Clare.
But, if you haven't seen it, I can't recommend A Canterbury Tale highly enough. It explains so much about who (many of us) English are, and why we're (often) like we are. And what our relations were fighting for, and what, in so many ways, we have so recently lost.
It's a wonderful, wonderful film, but God it makes me cry from beginning to end. And I'm a rugby loving ex-public schoolboy.
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Seconded, in all respects.In fact I think it is that sense of something which we have lost that makes me cry, as much as anything.
Posted by Trudy Scrumptious (# 5647) on
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I cry so easily that reading this thread, in which other people describe the things that make them cry, has made me cry.
Everytime we see Les Mis my daughter watches to see when I start crying. It's usually as soon as we get to Paris (nothing in the earlier part of the show oddly enough) and certainly by "Do You Hear the People Sing?" I'm a basket case.
The "Into the Forest" chapter of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, where the dead appear to Harry, gets me every time.
In one of my favourite novels, Dorothy Sayers' Gaudy Night, the line "All the kingdoms of the world and the glory of them," at a crucial moment in the story, makes me cry every time I read it.
There are no so many hymns that make me cry that church is an absolute minefield of bawling opportunities. And often for the oddest reasons. Some quite understandable (sung at the funeral of someone I loved, for example). Some a bit more obscure: "Does Jesus Care" used to make me cry because of the story, well known here in Newfoundland, of the men freezing to death out on the ice who sang that song in their dying moments. Then a few weeks ago we were singing it and I was sitting next to my dad who couldn't go on after the line "Does Jesus care when I've said goodbye to the dearest on earth to me" and we both started to cry thinking of my mom. And sometimes the reasons are completely odd, like "The Old Rugged Cross" which makes me cry not because of Jesus but of Doctor Who.
Posted by Earwig (# 12057) on
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Originally posted by Trudy Scrumptious:
The "Into the Forest" chapter of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, where the dead appear to Harry, gets me every time.
In one of my favourite novels, Dorothy Sayers' Gaudy Night, the line "All the kingdoms of the world and the glory of them," at a crucial moment in the story, makes me cry every time I read it.
Yes and yes! And the end of I Capture the Castle" by Dodie Smith: “Only the margin left to write on now. I love you, I love you, I love you.”
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Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Oh and of course in the right mood this and this will get my, and any English secret romantic's, tears flowing.
Posted by Welease Woderwick (# 10424) on
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...and the slow movement from the Schubert String Quintet - at his earlier request we played it at my dad's funeral which has made it even more difficult to listen to.
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on
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Originally posted by Albertus:
Oh and of course in the right mood this and this will get my, and any English secret romantic's, tears flowing.
tangent: I nearly jumped out of my chair with surprise when I saw one of the stations in the first clip you linked to - I live not five minutes' walk from where it was! The footpath that used to be the railway line runs along the back of my street.
Posted by Pine Marten (# 11068) on
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Oh God, I've just read through this thread
I would add Sarah McLachlan's 'In the arms of an angel', and Bif Naked's 'Tell on you'...
And what everyone's said about Vincent and the Doctor...
Posted by Pine Marten (# 11068) on
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...and to add, the death of Ginger in 'Black Beauty', which upset me so much when I read it as a child I haven't been able to read it since.
I can't bear the pain of animals, real or imagined, and I also wept seeing the stage version of 'War Horse'.
Posted by Brenda Clough (# 18061) on
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I saw WAR HORSE just last month -- it struck me as so clearly a Spielberg movie.
The third TOY STORY movie was terribly weepy for me, because my son had just driven off to college. And we have a white minivan. The idea that he was going off, and the boy would never come back again even if the man does...
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Originally posted by Pine Marten:
...and to add, the death of Ginger in 'Black Beauty', which upset me so much when I read it as a child I haven't been able to read it since'.
Ugh, was that the barn fire? That horrified me.
Posted by Pine Marten (# 11068) on
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No, she is worked to death as a cab horse... and now I'm snivelling again
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Oooh, yeah.
Posted by jedijudy (# 333) on
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...And Black Beauty wasn't certain it was Ginger, but he hoped that it was and she was out of her misery.
Posted by comet (# 10353) on
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Originally posted by Kelly Alves:
Go to Youtube and see if you can find a clip of the Sesame Street episode where Big Bird comes to terms with the death of Mr. Hooper. ( the real life actor had died shortly before the episode was shot.) Big Bird acted out the point of view of a preschool child who didn't understand the concept of death. The other actors responded to his questions and sadness in character, but they allowed themselves to freely weep through the dialogue. It was one of the frankest, most respectful, most heartbreaking treatments of a character/ actor's demise I have ever seen.
oh my god. I remember that well. I wasn't all that old myself. and it completely wrecked me. haven't seen it since but just thinking about it.
GAH!
others: Shylock's soliloquy. "if you prick us, do we not bleed?" gives me ferocious angry tears every time. even just reading the damn script.
"Christmas in the Trenches" by John McCutcheon.
the part in The Book Thief (book, haven't seen the movie) Where Death talks about all the dead that he gathered at the smoke stacks in the concentration camps, and how he tried to comfort them. I tried reading it out loud to my students last year to illustrate the power that simple writing can have, and was completely incapable. my throat just shuts down.
the end of Christopher Moore's Lamb. it's silly, really. it's not like we don't all know how it's going to end. but it just slays me.
the part in Cabaret where the young nazi is singing and everyone joins in. it's the creepiest foreshadowing scene ever. those are tears of dread and fear and a little bit of despair.
When Col. Blake died.
and finally - when I was in Agnes of God (the play) we ran for 3 weeks. I NEVER got through my final monologue without blubbering. it was so hard 'cause there I am on stage under a spot delivering a very impassioned closing speech to the audience and my throat tries to slam shut and my voice squeaks and the snot and tears start. I'm sure it looked like some kind of brilliant acting while it was just real response to the moment. EACH TIME. for NINE PERFORMANCES.
I feel pretty comfortable is saying there wasn't a dry eye. including my own.
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Posted by Huia (# 3473) on
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I can't listen to 'Into the West' at the end of LOTR without bawling my eyes out. It makes me think about death and loss and in spite of all my struggles with faith to confront my small remaining hope that I might see them again.
We played this at my mum's funeral as she was carried out and, as a result none of my brothers or my father would listen to it again because it made them cry. I play it and remember .. and cry.
Also from the Lord of the Rings (book)The bit where Sam thinks Frodo has died, and knows he has to go on and destroy the ring, even though it means leaving Frodo's body.
"Let the Celebrations Begin" a picture book based on a true story set in a Nazi concentration camp before and on the day of liberation. The women are using their clothes to make toys for the children who have never had them.
As mentioned above ... "Blackadder goes Forth." When I first saw it I sat there absolutely stunned.
Huia
Posted by Mamacita (# 3659) on
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I agree with so many of these, especially the scenes from Field of Dreams, 4 Weddings & A Funeral, and West Side Story.
I would add: the final speech given by The Little Prince before his death:
"In one of the stars I shall be living. In one of them I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing, when you look at the sky at night."
Posted by Welease Woderwick (# 10424) on
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Yes to The Little Prince - and I'll raise you The Velveteen Rabbit.
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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What about the end of Wilde's The Selfish Giant, where the small child is revealed as Christ and the giant dies peacefully?
Posted by Pine Marten (# 11068) on
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All of Oscar's fairy tales, really - especially in The Nightingale and the Rose where the Nightingale sacrifices herself for the Student, and ends up lying dead in the grass with a thorn in her heart...
Posted by Welease Woderwick (# 10424) on
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Talking of Wilde - how about The Ballad of Reading Gaol?
Posted by JFH (# 14794) on
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This film set to James Blake's music has me typing this through tears right now. Joni Mitchell's haunting melody, with James Blake's heartrending singing and arrangement, with that video so full of expressions and emotions, catching precisely a relationship that's just not quite right, in which there's plenty of joyful moments but where everything all of a sudden turns dark, before going back to regular... I couldn't describe it any better, sorry, but there you have it.
I agree totally with the first five minutes of Up! (basically a short film in itself), and the Goodbye Lenin scenes mentioned above, in particular the sandman scene.
I'll also mention Almost Famous. Plenty of scenes touch me very, very deeply, probably most of all the one where Will breaks down in tears in a hotel corridor. In part it's about being lost, far away from home, but it also illustrates so well the struggle to try to be cool and the terrible moment when you realize there's just no way it'll succeed.
Also: Bruce Springsteen's If I was the priest often moves me to tears. Not sure why, but it was song of tears for me even before it got attached to the loss of a childhood friend last autumn.
And, on the right day, Lamb Chopped's sig. (Not the bit about her book.)
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Originally posted by JFH:
Also: Bruce Springsteen's If I was the priest often moves me to tears. Not sure why, but it was song of tears for me even before it got attached to the loss of a childhood friend last autumn.
Ohh, why did I click that link?
Springsteen is another one who knows how to get you where you live.
Any James Taylor fans out there? "Close your eyes."
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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Criminy. I am watching Fanny and Alexander for the first time.
Posted by cliffdweller (# 13338) on
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Originally posted by Kelly Alves:
Any James Taylor fans out there? "Close your eyes."
For me it's Janis Ian-- especially
In the Winter
Posted by leo (# 1458) on
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Originally posted by Welease Woderwick:
Talking of Wilde - how about The Ballad of Reading Gaol?
It's moving in places but a nagging bitterness comes across.
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Yes, tho' he might well have thought that he had something to be bitter about.
Posted by deano (# 12063) on
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The West Wing, Series 1 "In Excelsis Deo". The final scenes when the homeless man is being buried with full military honours always gets me.
Brilliant.
Posted by Kitten (# 1179) on
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Many, many of the above, especially Vincent and The Doctor
I'd like to add Ed Sheeran singing Small Bump
The scene from carousel where Billy Bigelow watches his daughter graduate unseen
The book Love You Forever
[Links edited because you had "http://" in twice in the urls. - Ariel/Heaven Host]
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Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on
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"Love you forever" is one of my favorite books to read aloud. I read it at my Grandma's memorial service. It fit her perfectly.
Posted by Palimpsest (# 16772) on
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While we're on "The Doctor made me cry" I found "An Adventure in Space and Time" eye moistening as well.
Posted by Miss Madrigal (# 15528) on
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When I first watched "The Elephant Man" in the cinema I had to leave as I was crying so much after 20 minutes it was disturbing the other audience members.
The scene in Brassed Off where the band plays Londonderry Air to Danny as he lies in hospital, his wayward son struggling with his collapsing trombone.
Bring it back to the cast of ST:TNG, I'm catching up with Breaking Bad and in the last episode of series 2 there is a look that John de Lancie gives that just made me crumple. One look, perfectly acted.
Posted by leo (# 1458) on
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Originally posted by Miss Madrigal:
When I first watched "The Elephant Man"
I love that film.
Posted by Sir Kevin (# 3492) on
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Originally posted by Miss Madrigal:
The scene in Brassed Off where the band plays Londonderry Air to Danny as he lies in hospital, his wayward son struggling with his collapsing trombone.
Bring it back to the cast of ST:TNG...
I remember that film: we enjoyed it very much but it doesn't make me cry to think about it.
(By the way, Michael Dorn who played Warf, is an old school friend. I last spoke to him at a convention more than a decade ago. He commutes to speaking engagements in old fighter planes.)
Posted by ArachnidinElmet (# 17346) on
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Another vote for the Buffy the Vampire Slayer episode: 'The Body'. A stunning piece of tv, beautifully written, directed and acted. It captures perfectly that point of grief when it feels like everything is muffled and silent and no one knows what to say to anybody else.
The Dark Crystal. Oh Good Lord. Not just a bit misty-eyed, but great fountains of tears. Repeatedly. It matters not at all that all the characters are puppets. No-one creates a puppet like Jim Henson Creature Shop.
Which reminds me of numerous bits of Farscape but especially the very last 5 minutes (pre-Peacekeeper Wars). Vaporising main characters is a good way to get any audience blubbing, but at the end of the series, just having heard that there might not be any more episodes. Blimey.
Posted by Welease Woderwick (# 10424) on
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Billy Elliot - the movie, not the musical is a tearjerker in a few places but especially that final moment when he leaps on to the stage as an adult as the character from Swan Lake.
Posted by jacobsen (# 14998) on
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When ET seems to die. I broke up both times I watched the film.
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Posted by Pigwidgeon (# 10192) on
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Every Easter that we use the passage from John's Gospel. There's Mary Magdalene devastated by the death of Jesus, and she encounters the Gardener. He calls her "Mary!" and suddenly she realizes -- and I start crying.
The Christmas passage from Luke's Gospel often gets me too -- especially when told by Linus.
Posted by Welease Woderwick (# 10424) on
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Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows when Dobby is killed - I finished that book [again!] last night.
Posted by Leaf (# 14169) on
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I started reading this thread yesterday, and subsequently had to go to a meeting while looking like a pot of stewed tomatoes.
My father, a locally-known athlete and coach, died suddenly at 49. I had spent much of my childhood watching him being clapped and cheered. A month after his death, I sat in the front row in a university class. First poem: To an Athlete Dying Young.
That same year, Field of Dreams - dealing with baseball, fathers, death, forgiveness, and eternal life - came out. It took me years before I could bring myself to see it, and even then it had a hurricane-like effect. To top it off, my father had known the story's author from university.
Toy Story 3 and Up deserve honourable mention.
I always cry at The Field Behind the Plow because it reminds me of my grandfather. It seems to me to capture the reality of farming the vast, beautiful, harsh prairie, and both the grim endurance and the hopefulness of it ("Watch the field behind the plow/Turn to straight, dark rows/Put another season's promise in the ground.") Sorry, the video isn't very visually engaging, but just listen to it for some damn fine folk music.
Posted by georgiaboy (# 11294) on
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Lots of hymns (and I mean LOTS) have bits that will start a tear for me; sometimes the power of the words, sometimes a remembered association or occasion, but one that never fails is the final stanza of 'My Song Is Love Unknown' -- I think it's the combination of that text with John Ireland's perfectly matched tune.
We sing it every year as the final hymn during communion on Palm Sunday (admittedly an emotionally charged service) and I have to work very hard to keep my sobs from being audible. My fellow choristers know that I'm unreliable from about the middle of the 3rd stanza.
Posted by leo (# 1458) on
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Pity that hymn is so anti-semitic.
Posted by Albertus (# 13356) on
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Saw that one coming...
Posted by chive (# 208) on
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I cry every time at Apollo 13. That moment when there is silence and everyone is waiting to see if they managed to get back and it cuts to Tom Hank's son at school. He's away from his family and trying to be so brave and I just lose it.
Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on
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Tom Hank's son (the actor) in the "Fargo" TV series made me tear-up a couple of times. What a sweet sensitive face he has.
The Winona Ryder version of Little women has lots of sniffly moments. Of course when Beth dies but even earlier, after Amy has burned Jo's manuscript and puts her head around the door to whisper, "I'm sorry, Jo." You know it's her first real experience of remorse.
Posted by Scots lass (# 2699) on
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I know it's been mentioned several times, but UP. I cried the whole way through that - to the extent of having to leave the room to fetch tissues. Lots of my other guaranteed crying have been mentioned: Little Women, certain episodes of West Wing, The Railway Children.
L M Montgomery gets me badly twice, first in Anne of Green Gables when Matthew dies, and then Rilla of Ingleside when Jem Blythe comes home.
Posted by Trudy Scrumptious (# 5647) on
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L M Montgomery gets me badly twice, first in Anne of Green Gables when Matthew dies, and then Rilla of Ingleside when Jem Blythe comes home.
Not when Walter dies though? That gets me everytime. (And of course Jem's homecoming too ... in both cases mainly because of Dog Monday).
Posted by Starbug (# 15917) on
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Speaking of Little Women, Margaret O'Brien always makes me cry, regardless of which role she was in. They always seemed to give her tragic death scenes, which made it worse. At the age of side, she was said to have asked the director, 'When I cry, do you want the tears to run all the way or shall I stop halfway down?'
Posted by Cottontail (# 12234) on
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Originally posted by Trudy Scrumptious:
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Originally posted by Scots lass:
L M Montgomery gets me badly twice, first in Anne of Green Gables when Matthew dies, and then Rilla of Ingleside when Jem Blythe comes home.
Not when Walter dies though? That gets me everytime. (And of course Jem's homecoming too ... in both cases mainly because of Dog Monday).
I weep from the start to the finish of that whole bloody book. I've only read it twice because of this - the last time I exhausted myself so much with weeping that I had to take the next day off to recover. And the worst thing is that the book is trite and sentimental, with jingoistic patriotism on every other page, and I get so angry with myself for falling for it. But it also captures without flinching the noble and tragic sentiment of the time, and you really really care for the characters. And oh, that dog ...
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He flung himself against the tall soldier, with a bark that choked in his throat from sheer rapture. He flung himself on the ground and writhed in a frenzy of welcome. He tried to climb the soldier's khaki legs and slipped down and groveled in an ecstasy that seemed as if it must tear his little body in pieces. He licked his boots and when the lieutenant had, with laughter on his lips and tears in his eyes, succeeded in gathering the little creature up in his arms Dog Monday laid his head on the khaki shoulder and licked the sunburned neck, making queer sounds between barks and sobs.
The station agent had heard the story of Dog Monday. He knew now who the returned soldier was. Dog Monday's long vigil was ended. Jem Blythe had come home.
Posted by Scots lass (# 2699) on
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Originally posted by Trudy Scrumptious:
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Originally posted by Scots lass:
L M Montgomery gets me badly twice, first in Anne of Green Gables when Matthew dies, and then Rilla of Ingleside when Jem Blythe comes home.
Not when Walter dies though? That gets me everytime. (And of course Jem's homecoming too ... in both cases mainly because of Dog Monday).
Walter gets a sniffle, Jem and the dog get full on weeping - either I'm only susceptible to dogs or it's because you know Walter isn't coming back from Anne of Ingleside onwards. I'm pretending Cottontail hasn't posted that quote in order not to cry over my keyboard.
Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on
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Originally posted by Starbug:
Speaking of Little Women, Margaret O'Brien always makes me cry, regardless of which role she was in.
I think it was those earnest little eyebrows. They had several little actresses like that in the 1940's, the one who died in Mildred Pierce,and Eva Lee Kuney who died in Penny Serenade.
Her face could make me cry without doing anything but smile.
Posted by Jane R (# 331) on
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georgiaboy: quote:
Lots of hymns (and I mean LOTS) have bits that will start a tear for me; sometimes the power of the words, sometimes a remembered association or occasion...
Oh, I'm so glad I'm not the only one! You've no idea how embarrassing it is, being British and liable to burst into tears halfway through singing a hymn...
Our amateur opera group did 'Nabucco' last year and half the time I was in tears during the Chorus of the Hebrew Slaves, too. I got a little lecture from the music director about how it wasn't all about death so there was no reason to cry, too. Silly idiot. It's about being homesick, and it's not like I was crying on purpose.
But I do get annoyed with films where a major character apparently dies... then there's a pause so all the audience can dissolve in tears... then Presumed Dead pops up as good as new to general rejoicing and the end credits roll. Yes, Walt Disney, I'm looking at YOU. It happens so often it's predictable. I usually can't stop myself shedding at least one tear and it is REALLY ANNOYING having my emotions so obviously manipulated.
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I think 'When she Loved me' from Toy Story 2 and the first five minutes of Up are notorious.
'Be still my soul, the Lord is on thy side' to Finlandia. Or just Finlandia, if it makes me think of the hymn which is usually does.
Bright Eyes from Watership Down, the film.
There is a bit in Gravity, where Bullock's character is asking Clooney's character to pass on a message to her son. It made both me and my wife cry.
Posted by The5thMary (# 12953) on
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Starbug said: quote:
There's a piece of music on one of Amy Grant's Christmas albums called Gabriel's Oboe. I believe it comes from a film called The Mission, but I haven't seen it. The music is so mournful that I cry every time I hear it. Every December, I set my iPod to play Christmas music on shuffle while I'm driving; Gabriel's Oboe gets me every time.
Oh, my dear one, you haven't cried enough if you ever get to hear a chorus singing actual words to that tune! I'm not sure if the choral group I heard using words was the Los Angeles Gay Men's Chorus or the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus but one of them sang a version of "Gabriel's Oboe" with words and and an oboe player and I had to get up and leave the auditorium because I was sobbing so hard I couldn't breathe. I have wanted to find a copy of that performance but it was way back in 1992 and I'm not sure what chorus sang it...anyway, the words weren't in English and the power of the music and words...just thinking of how beautiful and sad it was makes me tear up...
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Shadowlands, that movie about C.S. Lewis and Joy Davidman. C.S. Lewis is played by Anthony Hopkins and Joy Gresham is played by Debra Winder. The scene in the hospital room when Joy is dying...dear God, I watched that at the Cinerama in downtown Seattle with a friend of mine and we were both sobbing our eyes out and trying to pretend we weren't. The scene were Joy's son, either Douglas or David (I don't think the movie acknowledged that she had two sons) is in the room with his dying mother and everyone is trying to be brave...aaaaaaa!
And let's not forget the dreadfully depressing death of Debra Winger in "Terms of Endearment". What a sob fest! Again, any movie with someone dying prematurely or without making up with someone they hurt or who was hurt by someone else is always guaranteed to make me cry buckets.
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Another piece of music which has me snivelling is Radiohead's 'Exit Music (for a film)', used in Baz Luhrmann's Romeo + Juliet
And recently our organist told us we were singing Tchaikovsky's carol 'Crown of Roses' during Advent ....beautiful!
I'll try and link it here
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Posted by Amorya (# 2652) on
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Originally posted by Jane R:
But I do get annoyed with films where a major character apparently dies... then there's a pause so all the audience can dissolve in tears... then Presumed Dead pops up as good as new to general rejoicing and the end credits roll. Yes, Walt Disney, I'm looking at YOU. It happens so often it's predictable.
TV Tropes have called it a Disney Death for that reason!
Posted by Peppone (# 3855) on
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The end of Monsters Inc, when Sully looks round the door and his face just lights up.
The part in Lilo and Stitch where Stitch says, of the family: 'Little, and broken... but still good.' (Tearing up as I type it.)
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Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on
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And let's not forget the dreadfully depressing death of Debra Winger in "Terms of Endearment".
Oh yeah. When she tells her little boy that she knows he's mad at her now and that he'll feel bad about that later, but don't feel bad, because she knows he really, really loves her. Not only sad but the perfect thing to say to him to save a lot of guilt later. Sigh. "Terms of Emdearments," is one of my favorite books and movies. Larry McMurtry understands women like few male writers do.
Posted by Peppone (# 3855) on
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The end of this haka, when they fall silent and the hearse drives on:
2nd 1st farewell their fallen comrades...
Posted by Pigwidgeon (# 10192) on
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Originally posted by Amorya:
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Originally posted by Jane R:
But I do get annoyed with films where a major character apparently dies... then there's a pause so all the audience can dissolve in tears... then Presumed Dead pops up as good as new to general rejoicing and the end credits roll. Yes, Walt Disney, I'm looking at YOU. It happens so often it's predictable.
TV Tropes have called it a Disney Death for that reason!
Shakespeare used it long before Disney --
Falstaff's "death" being one example.
Posted by Ariel (# 58) on
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Come, fill the Cup with the Brew that Cheers
And in the Fires of Autumn fling
The Garments of Unhappiness.
Let us be merry, dance and sing -
Can’t see that happening on this Thread
So – ‘tis Lock’t for now; alas, ‘tis Dead.
Ariel
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