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Official Announcement

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The initial response from Changing Attitudes

So, five men picked to advise the CofE on sexuality. Four of them Bishops, none of them known to be LGBTQ.

Shall we discuss?

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I admit that the list doesn't sound promising. On the other hand, I was at college with Keith Sinclair, many years ago, and remember him as a good chap then. Don't remember gay issues coming up then, and no idea what he has done since, so can't be sure what he is like now.

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Don't look now ...
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[Paranoid]

I may eventually come up with a more nuanced response, but this will do for now.....

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For me the most telling thing about this is that the CofE doesn't feel the need to hear from women about human sexuality.

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I had no idea that such a panel was in the offing, and haven't seen anything inviting submissions etc. Anyone would think the report had been written before the panel was appointed.....

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I am very, very pessimistic about this report.

One of the advisors is Professor Glynn Harrison - he is one of the few psychaitrists left who believes homosexuality to be a mental illness. He is a lay reader colleague at the parish next to mine - one of those evangelical power-houses that attract a congregation of 700, many of whom are aged under 30. He takes the view that we know more about bisexuality now - that leads him to argue that all people have a choice and, because 'the Bible says....' we should all be heterosexual 27/7.

He, and many others, argue that the previous report got it wrong when saying that lay people could, in conscience, enter into 'homophile' relationships if unable to change sexuality but that that clergy can't because they have to be role-models.

I think Colin Coward is hoping that this double standard will be removed - I believe he is right but not in the way he wants. Instead of allowing clergy to enter into gay relationships, I suspect the report will say that neither clergy NOR laity can.

If that happens, then it's about time that we had a Pink Sunday when all LGBTs and those of us in support should boycott church.

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Keith Sinclair, who I know well, spent many years as vicar of Aston in Brimingham, then was vicar of Holy Trinity, Coventry, a major parish, before being Bishop of Birkenhead.

He is conservative on sexuality - a trustee of the True Freedom Trust, which thinks that homosexuality is an orientation, but that the correct response for Christians is to resist a temptation to have any same sex expression, which they regard as sinful.

So he is a man with his mind made up. Not unsympathetic. But I think that for him, as for a number of other bishops, the thought of thinking differently about this is just too frightening to contemplate.

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Being straight isn't a problem in and of itself. The people who most helped me come to terms with my homosexuality were straight.

It's the existing attitude that determines whether there's a problem.

Of course, the irony is that anyone who actually said they were LGBT would be immediately perceived as 'biased'. [Roll Eyes]

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For me, the big mystery is indeed the absence of female voices (straight, bi, lesbian or trans etc). With the number of women serving in Priesthood in the CofE and the number of very capable existing female Advisers to the church, it seems very odd indeed that not one of them could be found to join this panel (or perhaps none were invited?). With the best will in the world, straight men are not going to have an full insight into someone like me.
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Course, getting female bishops for the panel might have been a problem ...

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Having no females reminds me of Lord Wolfenden, who was initially horrified that there would be women on his committee because he thought that there mere mention of homosexuality would upset them. To avoid upset, he called them 'Palmers' (after the biscuits).

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Surely Leo, Huntleys were homosexuals and Palmers were prostitutes?

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quote:
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Surely Leo, Huntleys were homosexuals and Palmers were prostitutes?

Yes, that's right. I got it the wrong way round.

Huntley sounds more macho than Palmer.

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quote:
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Course, getting female bishops for the panel might have been a problem ...

We could loan you a few. In fact one of our L.A. suffragans could cover two bases: Mary Douglas Glasspool is a lesbian. [Biased]

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quote:
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For me, the big mystery is indeed the absence of female voices (straight, bi, lesbian or trans etc). With the number of women serving in Priesthood in the CofE and the number of very capable existing female Advisers to the church, it seems very odd indeed that not one of them could be found to join this panel (or perhaps none were invited?). With the best will in the world, straight men are not going to have an full insight into someone like me.

Presumably the C of E still holds to Victorian values and doesn't acknowledge the existence of lesbians. Or any women for that matter, unless like children they are seen and not heard.

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I don't know much about any of this panel but it does look like the kind of selection which might have been criticised for being old-fashioned and unrepresentative in Geoffrey Fisher's day.

And anyway FFS what is this panel supposed to achieve? Are they hoping that if they keep setting up advisory panels and commissioning reports, sooner or later those pesky gays will get fed up and quietly disappear? What prospect is there that this will give any new insight that hasn't occurred to anyone in the last fifty years?

Ultimately, for all the messing about and fudging the issue, many (indeed I hope most) of us know that there are lots and lots of people out there- clergy and laity- who are gay and not celibate and are also good faithful Christians. By their fruits (no cheap joke intended) ye shall know them. End of.

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quote:
Originally posted by Albertus:
I don't know much about any of this panel but it does look like the kind of selection which might have been criticised for being old-fashioned and unrepresentative in Geoffrey Fisher's day.

It might have been criticised for being old-fashioned and unrepresentative in John Fisher's day!

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quote:
Originally posted by Albertus:
And anyway FFS what is this panel supposed to achieve? Are they hoping that if they keep setting up advisory panels and commissioning reports, sooner or later those pesky gays will get fed up and quietly disappear? What prospect is there that this will give any new insight that hasn't occurred to anyone in the last fifty years?

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In fact they'd have done the decent thing and shot themselves ! Those were the days, eh- you could leave a chap in a room with a Webley and a bottle of whisky and he'd know what was expected of him. Nowadays he'd just drink the whisky and get up to God knows what with the bottle- at least according to this website to which I keep finding myself being, um, unaccountably redirected...

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quote:
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Are they hoping that if they keep setting up advisory panels and commissioning reports, sooner or later those pesky gays will get fed up and quietly disappear?

They already are - one by one, making up a large number.

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quote:
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many (indeed I hope most) of us know that there are lots and lots of people out there- clergy and laity- who are gay and not celibate and are also good faithful Christians.

But, with official sanction, they are being persecuted, not by the enemies of Christianity but by those who reckon themselves to be pastors of the flock.

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Persecuted or 'tolerated' in a nauseatingly kid-gloves, aren't-we-broad-minded, don't-say-too-much sort of way.

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quote:
Originally posted by amber.:
Official Announcement

and

The initial response from Changing Attitudes

So, five men picked to advise the CofE on sexuality. Four of them Bishops, none of them known to be LGBTQ.

Shall we discuss?

What's there to discuss? The board is made up entirely of men and there are at least some known homophobes on the board (including one finding excuses to say "not yet"). As such it appears to me to be textbook bureaucratic cowardice - setting up a committee who you know won't say anything at the end of the day and until it says nothing you can say you have a committee looking into things.

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Justinian, I think that seems to be a fair assessment, from how it appears. I could of course be proven wrong.
We have 15 female Archdeacons, if memory serves. One could imagine that any of them would have been every bit as capable of a considered opinion on sexuality as the male Bishops, for example.

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quote:
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Persecuted or 'tolerated' in a nauseatingly kid-gloves, aren't-we-broad-minded, don't-say-too-much sort of way.

No, not tolerated, persecuted - some gays refused communion, some vicars living in fear of losing their jobs if discovered democratically elected churchwardens vetoed by their vicar, etc. etc.

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Not denying the persecution- just saying that (as a straight man) some of the 'toleration' seems pretty unhealthy to me too.

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Anything kind of "toleration" that means that people can't really be themselves, but have to be a kind of watered down version of themselves lest horses etc are frightened is just oppression by another name.

This "review" group will get us nowhere at all - perhaps that is why they have been chosen. Lord, have mercy.

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As Spike Milligan would have described the apparent thinking, 'Nothing can go wrong, because we haven't got a plan'

Toleration: The art of pretending people Aren't There, and politely ignoring them in every possible way. "A new command I give to you - tolerate one another, as I have tolerated you". Doesn't have quite the same emphasis of God's intention about it, no.

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Toleration: The art of pretending people Aren't There, and politely ignoring them in every possible way.

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Anything kind of "toleration" that means that people can't really be themselves, but have to be a kind of watered down version of themselves lest horses etc are frightened is just oppression by another name.

This "review" group will get us nowhere at all - perhaps that is why they have been chosen. Lord, have mercy.

The review need a few queers, dykes drag queans to get them on track and get them to unwind and enjoy the whole darn thing together ! (Mind u to be fair all will have had loads of experience in dressing up !)

Otherwise their report will have to go in the bathroom beside the loo as a bit of unintentionally hilarious bog-side reading

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The review need a few queers, dykes drag queans to get them on track and get them to unwind and enjoy the whole darn thing together ! (Mind u to be fair all will have had loads of experience in dressing up !)

They may have experience in dressing up - but they don't look GORGEOUS like we do, darling! Beards, unkempt eyebrows, tragic trousers and shirts, and the shoes, the shoes! The gay ones don't appear to be any better - I guess because if they dressed like gay men people might spot that they were?

It all went west once they stopped wearing gaiters and aprons.

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Dead right. A few years ago I organised a visit by all the Archdeacons of the Church in Wales to the National Assembly. You can imagine what a sight 17 (I think it was) Archdeacons would have presented say 60 years ago. But now- dull, dull, dull. Mostly rather forgettable suits*. Very disappointing.

*One- now a Bishop- was in a dinner jacket with stock and collar (it was a daytime visit). I still can't work out whether this was a fairly unworldly thing, with the DJ just being seen as a black suit, or whether he might have been going on somewhere afterwards and wouldn't have the opportunity to change.

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Now now Aelred, surely there are bearded homosexuals? It is just a pity that so few tend to be Anglican clerics.

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The review need a few queers, dykes drag queans to get them on track and get them to unwind and enjoy the whole darn thing together ! (Mind u to be fair all will have had loads of experience in dressing up !)

They may have experience in dressing up - but they don't look GORGEOUS like we do, darling! Beards, unkempt eyebrows, tragic trousers and shirts, and the shoes, the shoes! The gay ones don't appear to be any better - I guess because if they dressed like gay men people might spot that they were?

It all went west once they stopped wearing gaiters and aprons.

We do ! Don't we luv !!!!! [Smile]

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The review need a few queers, dykes drag queans to get them on track and get them to unwind and enjoy the whole darn thing together ! (Mind u to be fair all will have had loads of experience in dressing up !)

They may have experience in dressing up - but they don't look GORGEOUS like we do, darling! Beards, unkempt eyebrows, tragic trousers and shirts, and the shoes, the shoes! The gay ones don't appear to be any better - I guess because if they dressed like gay men people might spot that they were?

It all went west once they stopped wearing gaiters and aprons.

We do ! Don't we luv !!!!! [Smile]

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cyn (can I call you that? I can't spell the rest of it - and that with my Welsh blood too - I blush for shame) -

I can't be arsed with the Glory of Virginity thread. I think it is all a lot of nonsense. I reckon Mary was an ordinary young girl, with an extraordinary heart. What happened around the birth of Jesus goodness knows, but after that she settled down with Joseph and had a normal marriage and lots of kids by all accounts. I have a sincere devotion to Our Lady, but not as a perpetual virgin!

People who don't find themselves to be very sexual and those who want to give that side of themselves up for some reason are welcome to do so. But I think it is far more time that we had something on the Glory of Sexual Expression. Hinduism is much better on this kind of thing than we Christians are...

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Oh - I meant to say - why not use one of the female deans? There are at least four of them; Salisbury, Bury St Edmunds, Leicester and Birmingham. More senior than archdeacons.

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crynwrcymraeg - I apologise for being so lazy - I will learn how to spell your name

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crynwrcymraeg - I apologise for being so lazy - I will learn how to spell your name

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Cut and paste is your friend with long, difficult names [Smile]

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Originally posted by Aelred of Rievaulx:
Oh - I meant to say - why not use one of the female deans? There are at least four of them; Salisbury, Bury St Edmunds, Leicester and Birmingham. More senior than archdeacons.

And more experienced that a new bishop, i.e. Ebbsfleet - though he is probably more aware of gay men (of a certain type) because of his anglo-catholic background.

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Originally posted by Aelred of Rievaulx:
crynwrcymraeg - I apologise for being so lazy - I will learn how to spell your name

Aelred the Indolent

Cut and paste is your friend with long, difficult names [Smile]
I had no idea crynwrcymraeg was long and difficult ! It would have been crynwr cymraeg but the space wasn t allowed !

But yes, cutting and pasting has to be a way forward ! [Smile]

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cyn (can I call you that? I can't spell the rest of it - and that with my Welsh blood too - I blush for shame) -

I can't be arsed with the Glory of Virginity thread. I think it is all a lot of nonsense. I reckon Mary was an ordinary young girl, with an extraordinary heart. What happened around the birth of Jesus goodness knows, but after that she settled down with Joseph and had a normal marriage and lots of kids by all accounts. I have a sincere devotion to Our Lady, but not as a perpetual virgin!

People who don't find themselves to be very sexual and those who want to give that side of themselves up for some reason are welcome to do so. But I think it is far more time that we had something on the Glory of Sexual Expression. Hinduism is much better on this kind of thing than we Christians are...

Hear, hear ! I did find my time as a virgin made the sex great post eventu though !

So perhaps we need a new thread - maybe ?

HOW TO BECOME a VIRGIN


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btw any paticualr reason ? ! [Roll Eyes]

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Maybe they should study the Osborne Report which was suppressed 21 years ago for being too liberal and which has only just become available here.

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Thanks for the link to the Osbourne Report leo. I've read it through and in some ways I find it rather shocking, not for being 'too liberal' but for the insight it gives into how the Church behaves, or behaved at that time.

I found this (page 117) especially shocking:

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When such behaviour involves breaking the law, eg by sexual involvement with a minor (especially one in his pastoral care) and there is no reason to suspect that the case is known to any but the two of them, the person concerned is warned of the great danger that they and their ministry are in, be moved to penitence, and be advised to terminate the relationship gently but swiftly and to go on leave of absence prior to moving parishes. The provision of pastoral care for the minor is discussed. Immediate resignation may be required of such clergy
This is in a section dealing with what was current practice. Try substituting 'minor' with 'child'. It seems the main concern is to protect the Church and move the priest.

The age of consent to sexual activity for homosexual men was 18 at the time the report was published and perhaps the assumption was of a minor of 16 or 17, but it could be taken as applying to younger boys. There's no recognition of the practice of grooming a child for sex.

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Correction; the age of consent for homosexuals was 21 at the time of the report, so a homosexual adult could still be a 'minor'.
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Cover it up, move on. Gee whizz, no wonder they've only just dared publish it.
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I don't think so. That advice was standard practice at the time. Much has happened in child protectiion issues now that we know more about such behaviour.

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That advice was standard practice at the time.

In the late 1980s? Not in schools it wasn't.

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It wasn't advice that the report was giving, it was a summary of what the report group had been told by the bishops. It was how bishops dealt with such situations.

My initial shock was the impact of the word 'minor', which today in a sexual relationship would be someone under 16, or under 18 if it was a position of trust. I think by the late 80's the law banning homosexual activity for men under 21 was regarded as unenforceable and the police rarely took action with the 16-21 age group. Reducing the age limit to 18 was a compromise between those who wanted parity between heterosexuals and homosexuals and those who wanted the the age to stay at 21.

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