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Posted by Sarah Wickham (# 10760) on :
 
Not a great way to start my first message to ship of fools, but I wanted those who knew him to know that my brother, James Rawling (known to some of you as Gambit), collapsed and died last night in St Thomas' hospital, London.

James had been suffering ongoing heart trouble for the last 6 years or so, and had been taken into hospital on Friday 2nd December after the Kings College carol service. At the moment it is not clear what happened to James last night.

I spoke to him just last evening and he sounded cheerful if bored at the prospect of spending more time in hospital. As a family we are incredibly shocked - and so many apologies to those people hearing this news via the web (I couldn't think of any other way to reach James' friends from the Ship).

I will post any details of the funeral in due course, and in the meantime thank you for remembering James in your prayers.

With best wishes for Advent

Sarah

[ 11. May 2011, 16:12: Message edited by: Spike ]
 

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Posted by Gill H (# 68) on :
 

Thank you for letting us know, Sarah. My prayers are with you and your family.

Too shocked to post anything else right now.
 

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Posted by ferijen (# 4719) on :
 


Thank you for thinking to post here.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
I wanted to make a post myself, didn't know what to say.

Sarah, we've never met but I've heard a lot about you. I'm Abi.

Um. Yes. My brain isn't working.
 

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Posted by Adrienne (# 2334) on :
 

 

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Posted by Chorister (# 473) on :
 
Rest in peace, Gambit.
 

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Posted by Peronel (# 569) on :
 
That's awful news.


 

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Posted by Alaric the Goth (# 511) on :
 
May God be with you, Sarah, and your family, at this time.
 

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Posted by Ann (# 94) on :
 

 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
Thank you, Sarah, for posting.

We're praying for you and your family.


 

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Posted by Amazing Grace (# 95) on :
 


Deepest sympathies.

Charlotte
 

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Posted by Back-to-Front (# 5638) on :
 
Goodness! I'd only met him the once when he visited these parts for a shipmeet and came to my church on the Sunday. He seemed quiet but we'd PMd a few times. I can't believe it.

Many prayers for him, and for you and your family, Sarah.
 

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Posted by da_musicman (# 1018) on :
 
Speechless bar the odd expletive. My prayers go with him.
 

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Posted by Jillyb (# 4610) on :
 

 

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Posted by Annie P (# 3453) on :
 
Unexpected news.

Upmost sympathy for James's family. May God draw near to you at this time.

Annie P
 

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Posted by splosh (# 2743) on :
 
My prayers are with you at this time
 

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Posted by Amos (# 44) on :
 
Thank you, Sarah, for telling us. I can't believe it at the moment. And I can only imagine how you feel.


 

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Posted by Jenny Ann (# 3131) on :
 
Sarah, Thank you for telling us. I am so sorry to hear the news. Stoo and I send our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Eyeliner - take care of yourself sweetie, you know we are here for you.

May he Rest In Peace.

J
 

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Posted by Og: Thread Killer (# 3200) on :
 


But also: for his posts on here.
 

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Posted by Louise (# 30) on :
 


Really, really sorry to hear that.

Louise
 

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Posted by Alan Cresswell (# 31) on :
 
Sarah,

Thank you for sharing that very sad news with us, especially at a time when the last thing you probably want to be doing is sitting in front of a computer.

Our prayers are with you and the rest of James' family at this time. And also with all of those, both here on the Ship and in real life, who counted him as a friend.

 

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Posted by Scot (# 2095) on :
 
Thank you, Sarah. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Scot
 

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Posted by Padingtun Bear. (# 3935) on :
 


Thanks for letting us know.
 

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Posted by Yangtze (# 4965) on :
 
Oh my goodness. What a shock. Gambit was the instigator of 'a London shipmeet every month in 2005' and had organised and attended every one of them so far. I'm sure there will be a pint or two raised in his memory at the two meets planned for December.

Prayers for his family, and for eyeliner.

xxx
 

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Posted by Jonah the Whale (# 1244) on :
 
I don't know what to say. Prayers and sympathy to his family and friends. I only met him one weekend, at New Wine this last summer. I can't believe he is not here any more.

Jonah.
 

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Posted by Wairua (# 3912) on :
 
Sarah, prayers for you and your family at this difficult time.
 

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Posted by Tigglet (# 1368) on :
 
Sorry to hear the news. I've known Gambit as being an animated person from many a shipmeet. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Sarah and the rest of your family at the time.

[ 06. December 2005, 13:42: Message edited by: Tigglet ]
 

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Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on :
 
Sarah, this is dreadful news, but thank you for thinking of us shipmates. Prayers for you, your family, and James's friends.
 

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Posted by Scoby2 (# 9822) on :
 
I recently met James at a mutual friends flatwarming. We nipped outside for a cigarrete together, swapped brief life stories, and compared walking sticks! He struck me as a very warm and genuine guy.

Much love goes to all of his family and friends at this very sad time.

Assuring you of my ongoing prayers.

Scooby
 

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Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
No words.
 

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Posted by Late Quartet (# 1207) on :
 
Praying for all who know and love him.
 

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Posted by chive (# 208) on :
 

 

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Posted by TonyK (# 35) on :
 
Sarah, thanks for telling us - what an terrible shock it must have been for you all...

London shipmeets won't be the same ....

May he rest in peace and rise in glory

Prayers for Sarah and his family, and all who knew and loved him
 

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Posted by cocktailgirl (# 8684) on :
 
Knew James a while back at King's. Hadn't made the connection between him and Gambit.

Prayers for all who loved him. May he rest in peace.
 

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Posted by Gill H (# 68) on :
 

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I've bumped up the thread re tomorrow's 'Mark the Punk' meet. I can't make it, but I do hope it goes ahead. It would be a fitting remembrance, and would fulfil his 'shipmeet every month in 2005' ambition.

I'm sure we'll hear where to send donations at some point, but in the meantime I'm going to give some money to the Organ Fund in Gambit's memory. The Ship was such an important part of his life.
 

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Posted by Jack the Lass (# 3415) on :
 
I'm stunned at this news - my heart goes out to James's family and all who loved him.
 

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Posted by Heaven's ward (# 2922) on :
 
Sad news.
 

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Posted by Campbellite (# 1202) on :
 
May light perpetual shine upon him.


 

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Posted by W (# 14) on :
 
Really shocked to hear this news. Prayers for the family and all that were close to him.
 

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Posted by babybear (# 34) on :
 
I met him at Spike and Tina's wedding when his choir was singing.

May his soul find rest in Christ. May his friends and family find peace.
 

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Posted by sundog (# 8916) on :
 
So sorry for your troubles


And thank you for taking the time to let us know.
 

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Posted by Viola (# 20) on :
 
So sorry to hear this.

My thoughts are with you Sarah, and the rest of James' family & friends.

K.
 

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Posted by Ancient Mariner (# 4) on :
 
In the few short years we have been around he had become an institution.


 

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Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on :
 
Very sorry. Wow, what a shock.

Again, thanks for letting us know, Sarah.
 

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Posted by Lux Mundi (# 1981) on :
 
Rest eternal grant unto James (Gambit) and may light perpetual shine upon him. May he rest in peace, and rise in Glory.

For Sarah and all of James's family, friends and loved ones.
 

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Posted by nicolemrw (# 28) on :
 
so sorry to hear.


 

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Posted by welsh dragon (# 3249) on :
 
So sorry.
 

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Posted by Tom Day (# 3630) on :
 
My prayers and thoughts are with you and his family

Tom
 

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Posted by pete173 (# 4622) on :
 
I was really looking forward to meeting him at the Pimlico pub tomorrow. Now we shall have to make that an appropriate wake for him.

His blog spoke of his ill-health, but had no idea it was life-threatening. Prayers for Sarah and Eyeliner and all other friends and family.

May he know and experience the Advent hope of the Lord who is our future.
 

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Posted by basso (# 4228) on :
 
Prayers ascending, Sarah.

May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
 

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Posted by Spiffy da Wonder Sheep (# 5267) on :
 

 

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Posted by Fermat (# 4894) on :
 
many prayers
 

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Posted by Stoo (# 254) on :
 
Jenny phoned me this afternoon to let me know.

I met James a few times; he even stayed at my flat once, bringing with him a bottle of whisky as thanks for the room. He left in the morning having rolled off the sofa during the night. He had landed on his empty glass, breaking it. After his bus trip back to London, we got a text saying he'd checked himself into hospital after cracking/breaking a rib. Typically, it was announced with his incredibly dry humour.

I shall be having a whisky in his honour tonight.


 

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Posted by The Coot (# 220) on :
 
That is sad news. My thoughts with you and his other loved ones.
 

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Posted by Ags (# 204) on :
 
Dear Sarah

Thank you for thinking of the Ship and for posting to tell us the awful news.
Met James at a few Shipmeets and enjoyed his company and his dry wit very much.
Prayers for him, for you and your family and for his friends, esp Abi.

Love Ags.
 

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Posted by Paul W. (# 1450) on :
 
Met him several times, great guy. He'll be missed around here.

Prayers for family and friends at this time.



Paul W
 

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Posted by clare (# 17) on :
 
Shocking, sad news. Thoughts and prayers with those who loved him close.

I remember that whiskey drinking night in Stoos flat too, and Gambit's special affinity with Laphroaig. I shall raise a glass as well tonight, though probably not of appropriate quality.

Clare
 

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Posted by welsh dragon (# 3249) on :
 
I gave him a lift from Bournemouth to Winchester railway station about 2 weeks ago. He was full of ideas and plans for the future. As he had never seen Winchester cathedral we included a detour round the somewhat medieval-looking one way system and a discussion of local history / Arthurian legend as well as the details of various cathedral choir set ups.

We passed an optician's shop called Rawlings and discussed what a good sort of verb "Rawling" was.

James was en route between ship meets at the time and was happily contemplating a good evening of "Rawling"...
 

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Posted by Flausa (# 3466) on :
 
Sorrow at the loss of a life so short, but thankful for a life packed so full.
 

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Posted by Auntie Doris (# 9433) on :
 


I am so sorry to hear about James... having met him at Greenbelt and a few times since I am truly sad to hear this.

Auntie Doris
 

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Posted by rosamundi (# 2495) on :
 


So sorry to hear this I'd met him several times at Shipmeets and he was a lovely man.

Deborah
 

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Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
He'll be missed around here
 

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Posted by Grits (# 4169) on :
 
Thank you for letting us know, Sarah. I shall hug my brother a little tighter the next time I see him.

Every life is a loss, but to lose one so young is even more pronounced. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
 

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Posted by Macgyver's Apprentice (# 603) on :
 
Sarah,

I'm sorry to hear the news. James was always so full of life. He could be relied upon to liven up any occasion with with his dry wit and his observations about the world around him. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him.

My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

Ken
 

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Posted by iGeek. (# 777) on :
 
Wishing comfort and good memories to all those who loved and cared for James, especially his family.

I have some very treasured memories of James' special kindnesses to me. He was human of a loveable sort.

Rest in peace, mate. Keep a spot clear in the corner of heaven's best pub for us to gather with you when we can.


 

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Posted by holly (# 689) on :
 
Thoughts and prayers for James's family at this sad time

holly xxx
 

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Posted by madferret (# 3353) on :
 
I met him several times at Manchester and London meets.

Shocked.


 

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Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
What is there to say? Praying for his soul and his family and friends.

I'm listening to a recording of a Russian Vespers right now. I know that James loved that kind of singing.

"Hallelu, Hallelu, Halleluyah"
 

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Posted by chukovsky (# 116) on :
 
Oh my goodness. That's awful - thinking of you all.
 

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Posted by Tree Bee (# 4033) on :
 
I'm so sorry.
My love to you and your family, Sarah. Thanks for posting.

 

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Posted by TrudyTrudy (I say unto you) (# 5647) on :
 

 

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Posted by ezlxq (# 9265) on :
 


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(on behalf of the silent lurking majority)
 

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Posted by The Black Labrador (# 3098) on :
 


he was a great guy - always full of life at shipmeets
 

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Posted by Mousethief (# 953) on :
 
May his memory be eternal, may he rest in peace and rise in glory, and may God grant peace and solace to his family and loved ones.


 

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Posted by Dave the Bass (# 155) on :
 
Also shocked at how suddenly this happened, and saddened that James won't be around at any more shipmeets. Prayers for the repose of his soul, and for all those who loved him and will feel his absence most keenly.
 

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Posted by Vikki Pollard (# 5548) on :
 

 

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Posted by Ian Climacus (# 944) on :
 
I only "knew" him via his wonderful blog and postings here, which I greatly enjoyed.

Memory eternal

For you Sarah, and his family and friends: thank you for letting us know.
 

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Posted by Joyfulsoul (# 4652) on :
 


Peace be with him.
 

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Posted by Joyeux (# 3851) on :
 


prayers for you, Sarah, and the rest of your family.
 

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Posted by Schroedinger's cat (# 64) on :
 
Never met him, but "knew" his through the ship. he will be sadly missed.


 

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Posted by The Revd H P Stinker Pinker (# 10704) on :
 
Bless you James.

The last time I saw him was on friday, walking out of King's with a gang of former students, heading off to the Lyceum for a beer, having enjoyed the Advent carol service as he did most years (first singing in the choir and later as a member of the congregation).

He was one of our students in the 90s (who probably spent too much time in the chaplaincy arguing the finer points of theology), a member of our choir who loved singing and a friend. There are many memories buzzing around my head.

And coming back for Advent was always for James (and others) a special occasion which also involved remembering King's friends who had died this time of year. So now we have one more friend to remember...

Love to all who knew him and especially to his parents and Sarah - that they - and we - may know God's love and comfort now.

T
 

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Posted by Wood (# 7) on :
 
I'm so, so sorry to hear this news. I never met James, but from what little I saw of him on the wibsite and the Ship, I never had cuase to think of him as anything other than a diamond bloke.

I'll be praying for him, and for those he left behind.

[ 06. December 2005, 20:15: Message edited by: Wood ]
 

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Posted by i and i (# 2189) on :
 
goodbye, mate- sorry i didn't call you back last night... church won't be the same without you...
lots of great memories... i expect you and my dad will be singing together again... our loss...

 

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Posted by Spike (# 36) on :
 
I'm stunned. Really don't jnow what to say other than I've lost a good friend.


 

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Posted by soggy_amphibian (# 2487) on :
 
I keep typing stuff to put in this post, it ends up sounding lame. This is quite a shock!

I met Gambit at a few Shipmeets. He was quite a character, and I will miss him.

for Gambit, and for those who knew him better than I.
 

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Posted by Shoehorn with Teeth (# 2420) on :
 
Got the chance to meet Gambit at my First Shipmeet Ever, just a few weeks ago. Made me feel special, all the people who made it out for that--including Ship veterans I'd heard about/read for ages.

Not sure what to say. Saddened. [also still shocked and disbelieving]
 

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Posted by Chapelhead (# 21) on :
 


Our thoughts are with you, and all your family.
 

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Posted by anglicanrascal (# 3412) on :
 
May God bless and comfort all who are touched by this loss.


 

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Posted by The One and Only Nanny Ogg (# 1176) on :
 


The last time I saw James was at the shipmeet about 3 weeks ago when we were the only 2 who turned up. We ended up staying until well after closing time putting the world to rights over a few pints.

I shall miss him greatly - especially his sense of humour and understated intelligence.

My thoghts are with his family
 

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Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
with prayers for James, and all who knew and loved him, and love him still. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
 

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Posted by Maddie (# 11) on :
 
I'm completely shocked, Gambit has been one of the mainstays of London meets for so long.

Prayers are with all who love him.

Maddie
 

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Posted by Ginga (# 1899) on :
 
I never met him, but he was one of those people that really stood out and drew me in when I first found the Ship. He seemed like a genuinely lovely, funny bloke.

Adding my prayers.
 

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Posted by Cusanus (# 692) on :
 
Was very much looking forard to meeting him in London in January. I hope the Jan 21 meet will go ahead and we will lift a pint in his memory.
 

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Posted by wanderingstar (# 10444) on :
 
Whoah.

I was talking about James just a couple of hours ago, without realising he was Gambit.

Never met him IRL, but these pages are testimony to how many others he touched.

Thank you, Sarah. My deepest sympathies go to you and all who loved James.
 

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Posted by universalist (# 10318) on :
 
I did not know him, and yet am sad for you. A loss of any one of us is a loss for us all...
 

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Posted by Moo (# 107) on :
 
James
 

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Posted by EpiscoWhat (# 9660) on :
 
Sarah May God be your comfort and your strength. God be your hope and your support. God be your light and your way, and the blessing of God, Creator, Redeemer and Giver of life remain with you now and forever. Amen!

My prayers are with you and your family during this time!


 

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Posted by Joan Rasch (# 49) on :
 
I'm remembering Gambit's blog from the time he worked at Lambeth...

 

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Posted by Mamacita (# 3659) on :
 
May light perpetual shine upon him.
My deepest sympathies to you Sarah, and to the rest of his family, and to his friends, especially those here on the Ship.
 

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Posted by Living in Gin (# 2572) on :
 
I didn't really know him, but I'm so sorry to hear about this. Prayers ascending.
 

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Posted by Nunc Dimittis (# 848) on :
 


May he rest in peace, and rise with Christ in glory.
 

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Posted by Left at the Altar (# 5077) on :
 
I'm very sorry to hear this. I hope your family is coping as well as it can in the circumstances, Sarah.
 

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Posted by Hugal (# 2734) on :
 
Gambit was the life and soul of any ship meet. Words fail me at the loss. Meets will never be the same again.

 

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Posted by Gill H (# 68) on :
 
Former Shipmate 'Angel of the North' (aka Angelfish/Reepicheep) wanted me to pass on her love and prayers to those who are grieving.
 

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Posted by Simon (# 1) on :
 
I'm so shocked and sorry to hear about Gambit leaving us too soon. I enjoyed several glass-in-hand conversations with him at different meets, and really appreciated his wonderfully dry wit. Thanks for posting to let us know the sad news, Sarah. Thinking of you and your family, and those who knew James well.
 

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Posted by Callan (# 525) on :
 
Rest eternal grant unto him, O Lord and let light perpetual shine upon him.
 

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Posted by Sarkycow (# 1012) on :
 
I'm so sorry.

For James
For Sarah and his family
For eyeliner

Sarkycow
 

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Posted by Nightlamp (# 266) on :
 
I am sorry to hear about this.
I met a kid ( a long time ago) in the Black country called James Rawling I wonder if they are one the same I guess I'll never know.
 

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Posted by Twilight (# 2832) on :
 
As I never get to Meets, I never met James, but only Gambit of the Ship. That was more than enough to appreciate what a witty, intelligent and really fine person he was.
We were blessed to know him.

 

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Posted by ebeth (# 4474) on :
 


Our sympathies are with Gambit/James' family.

We met him at the London meet back in August--I recall a very enthusiastic handshake and a warm, genuine welcome.


 

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Posted by duchess (# 2764) on :
 
I never met him but I am truly saddened by his young passing. God receive his spirt. Also praying for eyeliner, Sarah and everyone else. God comfort them.
In Christ's Name I pray...AMEN. +
 

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Posted by Gordon Cheng (# 8895) on :
 
I'm sorry to hear of his passing.
 

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Posted by Moth (# 2589) on :
 
Gambit was the first shipmate I ever met in real life. He was such fun at shipmeets. I shall really miss him.

He also produced one of my favourite ship lines. Posting on a thread where an American visitor had said, "Disclaimer: I'm foreign and don't really know if this pub is any good", Gambit replied "Claimer: I'm English and know a good pub when I see one"! So true, and so like him. The last post I read of his was one scoping out a good pub for the meet of 21st January. I shall certainly try to go to it in his memory.
 

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Posted by Rev per Minute (# 69) on :
 
I was always thinking, "I'll have to get to a shipmeet of Gambit's when I'm overnight in London". I too remember his blog from the time at Lambeth, during the 'interregnum' between ++Carey and ++Rowan.

Requiescat in pace
 

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Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
He was only 27, wasn't he?
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Thank you to everyone who is offering love, support and prayers at this time. I think I speak for his family and close friends as well when I say that all the love and prayers are greatfully received and greatly appreciated.

Someone-probably Sarah but possibly myself or daisymay will keep you posted with details as to funerals, wakes et cetera.

I for one would be up for ensuring that there are monthly Shipmeets throughout 2006 as well, in memory and appreciation of him.
 

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Posted by Miffy (# 1438) on :
 

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He was only 27, wasn't he?

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Originally posted by Ham'n'Eggs:
James how can you conceivably piss off like this?I love you, you infuriating tosser.

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My sentiments entirely.
 

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Posted by Emma. (# 3571) on :
 
Still hasnt quite sunk in...

He was here only a few weeks ago, and I cant believe hes not going to be at future meets. Ive still got a ton of pms from him , full of his usual wit.

My love to all who were close to him,

Id be interested to hear when/ where the funeral will be.


 

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Posted by Ye Olde Motherboarde (# 54) on :
 
Happy Heavenly Homecoming to Gambit.

Our prayers to your family on earth who will miss you very much. We were proud to have such a gentleman on the ship.

Love and saintly hugs,
Mother and JB
 

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Posted by Dark Knight (# 9415) on :
 
Very sad to hear about this.
So sorry for you Sarah and all Gambit's friends IRL and on the Ship
 

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Posted by Golden Key (# 1468) on :
 
Fullness of joy to Gambit,

Comfort and peace to Sarah and all.


 

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Posted by JoyfulNoise & Parrot OKief (# 2049) on :
 
James
Sarah, Family and friends. God grant you strength in mourning and celebration of Gambit's life.
 

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Posted by Chap (# 4926) on :
 
I met Gambit at Spike's birthday party. Our converstations have been among the highlights of each my trips over to London.

Lord, comfort all those who mourn.


 

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Posted by seasick (# 48) on :
 
I met him a couple of times. A great guy.

May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Thank you everyone. I met Sarah and James's parents last night. Understandably, she hasn't been able to get on the Ship to see this thread or any PMs anyone may have sent her, but she was pleased to hear how many people have sent their love and prayers. They really do appreciate it.

If anyone has any questions-ANYTHING they want to know-PM me or speak to me on MSN (persephone297@hotmail.co.uk) and I will do my best to answer them. If I can't, I am in touch with Sarah and will get the answer to you somehow.
 

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Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
How awful.

Lord, now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace, according to thy word.
For mine eyes have seen thy salvation;
Which thou hast prepared before the face of all people;
To be a light to lighten the Gentiles and to be the glory of thy people Israel.


 

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Posted by Matrix (# 3452) on :
 
words fail me.

M
 

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Posted by Caz... (# 3026) on :
 
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May God be near you.


 

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Posted by Sir Kevin (# 3492) on :
 
We only knew Gambit as a loyal and thoughtful shipmate on the boards, but Zeke (my wife) and I shall miss him.

So untimely.

 

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Posted by Suze (# 5639) on :
 

 

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Posted by Gracious rebel (# 3523) on :
 
Somehow I managed not to notice this thread until today.

I am very sorry to hear this sad news. I met him once in August, little knowing that one so young and full of life would be taken so soon. Love and prayers for all his family and friends, may God uphold them at this time.
 

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Posted by Chorister (# 473) on :
 
The last few posts on this thread are rather poignant given the circumstances. For we are indeed having a Devon meet sometime in January, but one expected guest will be missing.
 

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Posted by ChastMastr (# 716) on :
 
More prayers ascending.
 

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Posted by norma (# 10769) on :
 
I'm one of James' many acquaintances from King's College London. Many of us saw him in his usual lively spirits on Friday evening, so it's particularly shocking to know that it suddenly all ended. He was a dear friend to many, and a man I once loved very much. James was first and foremost the life and soul of the party: witty, fun, intelligent and well-informed, he was always excellent company; but he was also gentle and tender. People often say that friends are the most important thing, and should take precedence over worldly concerns; I believe James may have grasped and lived this in a way very few ever do. He developed heart failure when he had just turned 21, and has lived with it for over 6 years; he bore the fear, pain and frustration with grace and quiet courage. It is devastating that something he lived with so well should claim him like this. He was much loved, and will be sorely missed.

O light that followest all my way,
I yield my flickering torch to thee;
My heart restores its borrowed ray,
That in thy sunshine’s blaze its day
May brighter, fairer be.

We seem to give them back to Thee, O God, who gavest them to us. Yet as Thou didst not lose them in giving, so we do not lose them by their return. Not as the world giveth, givest Thou, O Lover of souls. What Thou givest, Thou takest not away, for what is Thine is ours also if we are Thine.
And life is eternal and love is immortal, and death is only an horizon, and an horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.
Lift us up, strong Son of God, that we may see further; cleanse our eyes that we may see more clearly: draw us closer to Thyself that we may know ourselves to be nearer to our loved ones who are with Thee. And while Thou dost prepare a place for us, prepare us also for that happy place, that where Thou art we may be also for evermore.
Bishop Brent

God bless you, James.
 

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Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on :
 
That was lovely , Norma. Thank you for your thoughts and memories.

I actually did a search on his last posts, too,(as mentioned up the thread) and sure enough, pretty much all of them were located somewhere in All Saints in reference to a meet.

Often there crops up discussions as to whether Ship of Fools constitutes a community. Well, I would guess that in order for it to be a community, you have to make it a community. Gambit certainly seemed to be working at that. Bless him for it.
 

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Posted by Trisagion (# 5235) on :
 
Requiescat in Pace.
 

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Posted by Curious (# 93) on :
 

 

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Posted by Eanswyth (# 3363) on :
 
He was the first Brit Shippie I met. Hubby and I dropped in on a Croyden shipmeet but were the first there. After sitting there for a few minutes wondering if we were in the wrong place a charming young man with a fag and a pint leaned over and asked, "Did I hear you mention Ship of Fools? I'm Gambit." It was the start of a lovely evening.

Rest in peace.
 

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Posted by The Prophetess (# 1439) on :
 
May he rest in peace and rise in glory
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
"A charming young man with a fag and a pint"...yes, that's my James.

I have details of the funeral. The time hasn't yet been decided, but it will be on Monday the 19th December at St John's Hyde Park, which was the church he and I attended together for the majority of the time we were a couple. He loved it dearly, as do I.

I will post further details as and when I know them.

[ 12. December 2005, 14:50: Message edited by: Kelly Alves ]
 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
Here's our website:

St John's, Hyde Park Crescent.

Buses nearby are 6, 7, 15, 23, 36, 18, 16, 205, 414.

That other one is very interesting - recommending some very expensive venues...
 

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Posted by sophs (# 2296) on :
 
Can I just check when the funeral is?
I make it Wednesday 19th Jan, or Monday the 19th December - just wondered as I'd like to go.
 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
It's supposed to be in December...

We may hear in church tomorrow and if so I'll pass it on....
 

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Posted by kingsfold (# 1726) on :
 
I've only just caught up, and am lost for words.

Gambit.

May God be with you, and with those who mourn your passing.
 

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Posted by Rowen (# 1194) on :
 
God be with Gambit ... and his family.
 

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Posted by Androet (# 4133) on :
 
That's terrible. I remember how friendly he was to me when I came to my first shipmeet.

May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Thinking of you.
Androet
 

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Posted by Arrietty Clock (# 45) on :
 


A great Shipmate. And a great person.

RIP

and prayers for Sarah, eyeliner and all his family and friends.


 

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Posted by Puppycat (# 4941) on :
 
How desparately sad. For his family and friends.
 

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Posted by ChrisT (# 62) on :
 
My thoughts and prayers are with James' family and friends. He will be missed by many.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Sorry for date mess-up. Kelly Alves has now very kindly fixed it for me. At some point last Tuseday, my brain turned to mush and dribbled out of my ears.
 

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Posted by dolphy (# 862) on :
 
((((((eyeliner))))))


 

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Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
Only heard about this today via a mutual friend.

For James and all those who knew and loved him May the Lord bless you and keep you, May he lift his face to shine upon you and give you peace.

Tubbs
 

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Posted by welsh dragon (# 3249) on :
 
By the way, does anyone have the time of the service yet, or even whether it is morning or evening?
 

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Posted by rosamundi (# 2495) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by welsh dragon:
By the way, does anyone have the time of the service yet, or even whether it is morning or evening?

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I was speaking to Eyeliner last night on messenger, and she said she thought that it would be at 2pm, but I don't think that's definite.

Deborah
 

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Posted by Jester (# 10692) on :
 
I met Gambit at the Herts shipmeet. A really nice guy who brought so much fun to the meet.

May God be with his family and friends
 

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Posted by James Mc (# 3414) on :
 

 

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Posted by bopabeth (# 10787) on :
 
Hi Sarah,

I knew James from Kings and last saw him on Friday night at Advent Carols. I can't believe that he has gone- we will miss him. My thoughts are with you all at this time.

Bethan
xx
 

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Posted by Ultraspike (# 268) on :
 
Just reading about this now, and so saddened. I always admired his efforts to keep the London shipmeets going and enjoyed reading his posts about Lambeth.
 

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Posted by Dave the Bass (# 155) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by rosamundi:
I was speaking to Eyeliner last night on messenger, and she said she thought that it would be at 2pm, but I don't think that's definite.

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Is anyone in a position to confirm this yet?

And, assuming this is the right time, is anyone interested in meeting beforehand for lunch, or afterwards for tea (or something stronger)?
 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
I think that time may be the hope - but so far the time has not been able to be fixed. Sarah said that she would let us know and I've asked the church to let me know asap so that I can pass on the info.
 

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Posted by Dormouse (# 5954) on :
 
I didn't know James/Gambit, but reading all these messages I wish I had.

Prayers for all who loved him, Shipmates or IRL.

It seems like the world will be a poorer place without him.
 

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Posted by Emma. (# 3571) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by Dave the Bass:

quote:

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Originally posted by rosamundi:
I was speaking to Eyeliner last night on messenger, and she said she thought that it would be at 2pm, but I don't think that's definite.

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Is anyone in a position to confirm this yet?

And, assuming this is the right time, is anyone interested in meeting beforehand for lunch, or afterwards for tea (or something stronger)?

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yes.....
 

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Posted by rosamundi (# 2495) on :
 
Lunch would be good. I'm not sure about afterwards as it's work's Christmas party on the evening of the 19th, and I may have to disappear to get changed.

Deborah
 

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Posted by Sarah Wickham (# 10760) on :
 
Thank you for all your messages - your thoughts, prayers and support are very much appreciated.

I just wanted to confirm details for James' funeral/thanksgiving
Monday 19th December 2005
1pm at the West London Crematorium, Harrow Road, London NW10
2pm at St John's, Hyde Park Crescent, London W2

There will be refreshments after the service of thanksgiving at St John's, to which all are welcome.

Everyone is welcome at both or either service - but if you have to choose, please try to choose the thanksgiving service at St John's!

James would have preferred donations to be made in lieu of flowers - we suggest the British Heart Foundation would be an appropriate charity.

With all good wishes

Sarah
 

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Posted by TonyK (# 35) on :
 
Thank you Sarah. Prayers continue for you, the family, Eyeliner et al.

Plan to be at the 2:00pm service.

Will go along with any reasonable meeting of shipmates afterwards.

Donation to British Heart Foundation will follow.

[edited to add final point]

[ 14. December 2005, 22:15: Message edited by: TonyK ]
 

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Posted by ebeth (# 4474) on :
 
Would it be appropriate and not too complicated to set up a single donation to the British Heart Foundation that all shipmates could contribute to? Or is it better that we make individual contributions in James' memory?
 

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Posted by The Black Labrador (# 3098) on :
 
Sadly I can't make the funeral but .
 

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Posted by Emma. (# 3571) on :
 
im not going to be able to make it after all, ive got a medical appt i cant change :S doh.

My love and prayers to you all there though.

emma xxx
 

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Posted by Auntie Doris (# 9433) on :
 
I can't attend either as I will be back in Guernsey.

Love to everyone and

Auntie Doris x
 

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Posted by sophs (# 2296) on :
 
I can't make it either, but hope to get down to the memorial shipmeet in Jan. My thoughts and prayers will be with you on Monday.
 

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Posted by rosamundi (# 2495) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by ebeth:
Would it be appropriate and not too complicated to set up a single donation to the British Heart Foundation that all shipmates could contribute to? Or is it better that we make individual contributions in James' memory?

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Speaking as a (nearly) accountant, if we make individual donations, the charity can also collect the gift aid on the donations from UK people. I'm not sure how that would work for one large donation from everyone.

Deborah
 

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Posted by welsh dragon (# 3249) on :
 
We are planning to come to the Thanksgiving at 2pm. Does anyone want to meet up to catch a bite of lunch, and, if so, where would be the best place to go?
 

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Posted by The One and Only Nanny Ogg (# 1176) on :
 
Sadly I can't make it due to "all hands on deck" @ w*rk.

My manager does understand I would have liked to have gone so has given permission to have some quiet time at the time of the funeral/thanksgiving,

Will be praying for James's family and friends and praising for his life, gifts and the wonderful memories he leaves behind.

His body has died but his spirit is with us through eternity.
 

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Posted by TonyK (# 35) on :
 
I have checked the British Heart Foundation website - donations through the site are OK.

It is possible to make donations in memory of a specific individual. In this case the Foundation will write to the family advising the total donated and listing the people who donated - though not their individual donations.

To do this the Foundation will need to link the donations to a name and address. I have emailed Sarah asking if the family would like this, and if so what address to use.

Please watch this thread for further details - I will post again as soon as I know what we should do.

I feel that in this way we could show Gambit's family and friends just how much we appreciated his contribution to the life of the Ship.
 

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Posted by madferret (# 3353) on :
 
We're down in London next week, and will add the service to our itinerary.
 

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Posted by ebeth (# 4474) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by TonyK:
I have checked the British Heart Foundation website - donations through the site are OK.

It is possible to make donations in memory of a specific individual. In this case the Foundation will write to the family advising the total donated and listing the people who donated - though not their individual donations.

To do this the Foundation will need to link the donations to a name and address. I have emailed Sarah asking if the family would like this, and if so what address to use.

Please watch this thread for further details - I will post again as soon as I know what we should do.

I feel that in this way we could show Gambit's family and friends just how much we appreciated his contribution to the life of the Ship.

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quote:

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Originally posted by welsh dragon:
We are planning to come to the Thanksgiving at 2pm. Does anyone want to meet up to catch a bite of lunch, and, if so, where would be the best place to go?

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quote:

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Originally posted by daisymay:
What sort of a "bite" do you want?

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Of the ones you mentioned we'd normally go for:-
Curry houses, Chinese, Lebanese, falafel, Millenium cafe, pubs with food, pizzas...

In the circumstances, a pub with food might be apposite.
 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
The Monkey Puzzle is in Southwick Street, 2 minutes away from St John's and is a reasonable pub with food. We used to go there regularly after the evening service. If you click on the map bit, it shows the church in Hyde Park Crescent too, which may be useful. I could probably be there till 1.30 as I have to set up the after-service coffee table.

The Royal Exchange in Sale Place might be the ideal for after-Thanksgiving Service. That's also where we went for ages.
 

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Posted by Gill H (# 68) on :
 
Don't think I can make it, as I finish work the following day for Christmas, so will be very rushed. But I'll nip out to the nearest church at lunchtime to pray.
 

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Posted by Moth (# 2589) on :
 
I'm thinking of coming. I could meet for a bite beforehand, but will probably leave straight after the service so as not to leave my sons rampaging round the house for too long!
 

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Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
I'm going to be there as well.

Please remember James' collegues at Brixton library in your prayers as well.

Tubbs
 

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Posted by W (# 14) on :
 
I'm planning to be at the 2pm service. Hopefully could make it to a pub beforehand too.
 

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Posted by welsh dragon (# 3249) on :
 
We are coming from a little distance, so we are not sure exactly when we will arrive. Dave suggests an informal preservice meet from 12 noon onwards. For some reason my currently quite temperamental computer is not showing me the map, but if Daisymay thinks we should go for the Monkey puzzle, I'd happily go along with that.

Wdx
 

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Posted by iGeek. (# 777) on :
 
I'll be with you all in spirit. I'm actually in country but unable to change my tickets to stay an additional day for the service.

God bless you and comfort you all.

 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
Ok - I'll go to the Monkey Puzzle on the corner of Southwick Street and Sussex Gardens no later than 12 noon, probably earlier.
 

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Posted by welsh dragon (# 3249) on :
 
Just to say, re the "from 12 noon" - we probably will get there later than that! Perhaps 12.45. but Dave thought that having an earlier meeting time with an informal "turn up from..." would be more appropriate than having an exact time and get us out of the embarrassment of being late and having peeps waiting for us.

Hope that's ok daisymay.
 

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Posted by m.t_tomb (# 3012) on :
 
Didn't realise until now:
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Just been in to see his body. Am in a very strange state.

See you all on Monday.
 

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Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
Take it easy and do your best to take time out if you can - it's a very surreal experience
 

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Posted by TonyK (# 35) on :
 
Gambit's family have requested donations to the British Heart Foundation. These can be made through their website here - 'In Memoriam Donation'

Please make sure that you specify Gambit's name exactly as shown here-

James Rawling (Gambit - SoF)

with the necessary spaces etc. Entering this correctly links all our donations together and the BHF will advise Gambit's family who donated (though not how much) and the total received.

I am advised that you can leave the next of kin name and address etc fields blank - I have set up them up.

I suggest you put some brief message where indicated - if only your ship name!

If you are a UK tax payer and are happy for the BHF to reclaim the tax tick GA1. Otherwise, tick GA2.

Below the 'Proceed to Step 2' button are a couple of boxes to be ticked if you don't want the BHF or others to contact you.

Step 2 allows entry of Credit Card details.

Although the amount to be donated has to be specified in pounds sterling, I see no reason why credit cards in dollars or whatever should not work. I'm sure you can do the necessary sums yourselves!

If anything doesn't work, please contact me and I will try to sort it out.
 

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Posted by Spike (# 36) on :
 
I've rearranged my work schedule. I'd like to get to the Crem, but I'll definitely be at the 2 pm service.

Pub before/after the servoce sounds good to me
 

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Posted by Sarah Wickham (# 10760) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by Sarah Wickham:
I just wanted to confirm details for James' funeral/thanksgiving
Monday 19th December 2005
1pm at the West London Crematorium, Harrow Road, London NW10
2pm at St John's, Hyde Park Crescent, London W2

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For those planning to come to West London Crematorium, the Masons Arms (on Harrow Road, opposite Kensal Green station) will be open for us from 11.30am.

Thank you all again for your thoughts, prayers, and fond recollections of James online, at shipmeets and elsewhere.

Best wishes
 

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Posted by Papio. (# 4201) on :
 
I've only just found this thread, and I never met James, but always wanted to.

He was an integral part of the ship - an instituition and I am saddened by his untimely death.


 

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Posted by A. Smith (# 3299) on :
 
I am sorry, I cant make Monday (work and no annual leave)

Will be praying for all on Monday.
 

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Posted by Goodric (# 8001) on :
 
Just found this thread - very sorry for your sad news.
 

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Posted by Yangtze (# 4965) on :
 
I'm planning on going to the service. Will come find whoever's in the pub beforehand (probably around 12.30 ish)
 

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Posted by pete173 (# 4622) on :
 
Can't be there, I'm afraid. But prayers for all.
 

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Posted by Bishops Finger (# 5430) on :
 
So sorry to hear the news - I met Gambit once, and found him to be a most engaging fellow! May he rest in peace.

for him and for his family.

Ian J.

BTW, thanks, TonyK, for the link to BHF.
 

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Posted by ebeth (# 4474) on :
 
Tony wrote:

"I feel that in this way we could show Gambit's family and friends just how much we appreciated his contribution to the life of the Ship."

Thanks for setting up the link to the British Heart Foundation Tony.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Gambit's family and friends as they gather in his memory.
 

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Posted by Ham'n'Eggs (# 629) on :
 
I am very disappointed that I won't be able to make either service. My prayers are with his family and friends.

for the repose of our dear brother James.
 

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Posted by rosamundi (# 2495) on :
 
I'll be at the Monkey Puzzle from as soon after 12:30 as I can make it.

Deborah
 

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Posted by Lux Mundi (# 1981) on :
 
Unfortunately can't make the lunchtime gathering or the services. Gambit's family and Eyeliner are in the forefront of my thoughts/prayers today .

Matt

[ 19. December 2005, 12:39: Message edited by: Lux Mundi ]
 

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Posted by madferret (# 3353) on :
 
Chukovsky & I haven't got to the service but our thoughts & prayers are with everyone there.


 

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Posted by Nightlamp (# 266) on :
 
I am sorry about this my prayers are with his family
 

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Posted by madferret (# 3353) on :
 
Chukovsky & I haven't got to the service but our thoughts & prayers are with everyone there.


 

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Posted by Sioni Sais (# 5713) on :
 
With you all in spirit, especially this afternoon.
 

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Posted by madferret (# 3353) on :
 
Chukovsky & I haven't got to the service but our thoughts & prayers are with everyone there.


 

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Posted by Auntie Doris (# 9433) on :
 
Been walking across the beach this afternoon praying for everyone who went, and those who were unable to go.

Hope that it went OK.



Auntie Doris x
 

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Posted by Moth (# 2589) on :
 
The Service of Thanksgiving was really lovely. It was a beautiful sunny day here in London, and at the end of a service full of praise and affectionate remembrance, the sun was setting in the west and shining in through the porch. The music was wonderful, and the tributes were both moving and cheering. If I have half so many friends who love me half so well at the end of my life, I will count myself blessed!

There were a number of shipmates there; I recognised Spike, W, Welsh Dragon and Dave the Bass, Ken, Mrs Tubbs and Rosamundi. There were doubtless others I don't recognise on sight, and I didn't make it to the pub beforehand - trains were too slow!
 

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Posted by Spike (# 36) on :
 
Just got back. avery moving service indeed. Tears and laughter interspersed (sp?). Watch this space for MW report.

Lots of beer was consumed at the Rob Roy Public House afterwards, and glasses were raised several times to James, a true Gentleman.
 

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Posted by TonyK (# 35) on :
 
I agree with Spike and others who reported - a wonderful service. I knew Gambit had a full and interesting life - but didn't realise just how full until today. He packed more into his 27 years than many will in their three score and ten!

Couldn't stay for the Rob Roy afterwards, regretfully...
 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
Just got back from the Rob Roy, after clearing up and tidying the church kitchens - with loads of help from James's friends at St John's. It was actually relaxing to be able to meet with shipmates before the service at the Monkey Puzzle. I've just put my clothes in the wash after the Rob Roy - stinking of smoke.

Praying tonight for comfort for all of james's family.
 

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Posted by Ags (# 204) on :
 
Wasn't able to get away from work today, but went to the chapel just after 1pm and lit a candle in James' memory. Prayed for all of you who went to the services and those who wanted to be there but couldn't.

Love Ags
 

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Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by TonyK:
I agree with Spike and others who reported - a wonderful service. I knew Gambit had a full and interesting life - but didn't realise just how full until today. He packed more into his 27 years than many will in their three score and ten!

Couldn't stay for the Rob Roy afterwards, regretfully...

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What TonyK said ... It was a real testimony to Gambit that a midweek service just before Christmas was so packed with people who represented all aspects of his life who wanted to say goodbye.

Tubbs
 

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Posted by iGeek. (# 777) on :
 
Thanks TonyK for the details of how to contribute. Thanks all who attended for representing all of us here at the ship who couldn't attend but wanted to.

Blessings and love to all affected.

iGeek
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Other shipmates who made it-there was me (well, obviously), Joan Henrietta Newperson, and several people who are dear friend of his from King's who are or have been Shipmates, but I never did work out whose real name belonged to whose Ship name with that lot so I won't put my foot in it.

Would say something about the service but am still in too much of an odd place. Thank you to all who came.
 

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Posted by Michèle (# 1401) on :
 
very late to read this sad news, which have only learnt of by a fluke visit to the old café. I am utterly stunned.

Although I never met James in person, many of us had special daily contact with him in that old café - until Lambeth banned him! I will never forget the hilarious video clip he emailed of a CCTV in his office picking up a team of "rowers" - guys in shirts on swivel chairs, complete with "cox".. he often emailed me funny things even up until recently, and always took time to invite me to meets even though I just could never make them. We did exchange emails from time to time. Very weird thing, I have just crossed off his james.rawling@lampal etc address from my old notepad...

I thank Norma for her lovely description of him, and felt the same - he had a lovely personality.. very, very caring.

God bless James.

m
 

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Posted by Miffy (# 1438) on :
 
Michele - I thought that video clip wasn't a figment of my imagination. Spent ages last week looking for it, but sadly, it must have got deleted at some point.
 

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Posted by daisymay (# 1480) on :
 
I remember it too...

I wonder if anyone kept it instead of deleting it?

[ 21. December 2005, 21:47: Message edited by: daisymay ]
 

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Posted by Simon (# 1) on :
 
Spike's Mystery Worshipper report of the service of thanksgiving is now online here...

The sad loss of a shipmate, at St John's Hyde Park, London
 

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Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on :
 
Well done, Spike.
 

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Posted by Wesley J (# 6075) on :
 
Very, very moving and very appropriate. Thank you, Spike.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Thank you.

Oh-and thank you to everyone who fed me gin at the wake. It was much appreciated! Being poor sucks, especially when you need a drink as much as I did that day...
 

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Posted by Tree Bee (# 4033) on :
 
What a marvellous report of an appropriate send-off.
I'm sorry I wasn't there.
Blessings.
 

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Posted by Ags (# 204) on :
 
Thank you, Spike!
 

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Posted by Bishops Finger (# 5430) on :
 
Well done, Spike, and thanks for the excellent photo of The Man Himself!

Continuing for Gambit's family.

Ian J.
 

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Posted by Lux Mundi (# 1981) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by Bishops Finger:
Well done, Spike, and thanks for the excellent photo of The Man Himself!

Continuing for Gambit's family.

Ian J.

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Indeed . Have PM'd you separately about it .
 

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Posted by Spike (# 36) on :
 

quote:

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Originally posted by Bishops Finger:
thanks for the excellent photo of The Man Himself!

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Well, credit where credit's due. I found the pic on the Shipmeet Photos thread. I think it was taken by iGeek on Gambit's birthday.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Yes, it was-that was his Birthday meet. There are a few photos of the two of us being couply at that meet around somewhere, too.
 

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Posted by The Black Labrador (# 3098) on :
 
Spike

That was a wonderful report.
 

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Posted by iGeek. (# 777) on :
 
Thanks, Spike. A lovely report.

The pic was indeed taken at the Greencoat Boy on the occasion of James' birthday. I ran across an email from James when we were planning this:

quote:

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So, dude,

I'm looking to plan the 'Igeek's return to the UK and Gambit's Birthday Meet' in the Greencoat Boy during the week of 16-23rd May, when I know you're back. Friday nights/Saturday nights seem to provide enough time to get up to serious mischief so, with respect to your plans, what do you think? Friday 20th, 7.30pm for 8 or Saturday 21st, 7pm for 7.30?

Yours,

Gambit

James Rawling
Customer Services Assistant
(South Lambeth Library)
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We did get up to some serious mischief, as I recall.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
That was a great night
 

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Posted by Old Hundredth (# 112) on :
 
I have not spent much time on board lately what with Christmas, and only caught up with this very sad news via the MW.

God bless, Gambit - we'll miss you. And heartfelt condolences to eyeliner, Sarah and all your nearest and dearest.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Thank you too
Life is slowly getting back together again.
 

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Posted by Zappa (# 8433) on :
 
I also, to my shame, only caught up with this through the MW report. Please know my s are retrospective, as Gambit/James dwells in the eternities of God.
 

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Posted by The Revd H P Stinker Pinker (# 10704) on :
 
There will be a service of Choral Evensong in memory of James on Tuesday 21st February, starting at 5.30pm in the Chapel of King's, London.

James was part of the choir at King's when he was a student and the current choir will be singing at the service. There will be opportunities for reflection and prayer during the service.

Everyone is welcome to attend.
 

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Posted by The One and Only Nanny Ogg (# 1176) on :
 
Bumping this up so people see it...

or maybe it should be a new thread
 

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Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
Fine here I think.

I intend to go.
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
I shall of course be there, though I may as well point out now that I am unlikely to be with the Ship crowd-I suspect I will be with James's Kings friends.
 

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Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
I'm sure they will be allowed to talk to each other...
 

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Posted by eyeliner (# 4648) on :
 
Oh, you know what I mean. If there was, like, a meet before or something. Or during the actual service.

Stop being pedantic!
 

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Posted by Goar (# 3939) on :
 
oh, eyeliner, I am so sorry to learn of this tragedy. Please accept my belated condolences.

After Señor Frog joined our family back in August, my life has gotten quite small and I have not checked in to the Ship for many many months.

Last night I expected an easy lurk. The first thing I looked for was a Gambit monthly Shipmeet thread.

I look forward to joining a heavenly shipmeet one day. I am certain he is already organizing them up there on a regular basis.

Goar
 

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Posted by Dave the Bass (# 155) on :
 
I'm in London teaching next Tuesday, so I shall try to go, assuming I can get a late pass from WD. I'm teaching until 6pm, so I'll be late for the service, but it's only across the road, so I shall sneak in at the back somehow.
 

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Posted by Goar (# 3939) on :
 
i will be there too unless work sends me out of town unexpectedly
 

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Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 

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Originally posted by The Revd H P Stinker Pinker:
There will be a service of Choral Evensong in memory of James on Tuesday 21st February, starting at 5.30pm in the Chapel of King's, London.

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