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Originally posted by St Everild:
Four bags of clothes to Oxfam this afternoon...and there is more to go lurking at the bottom of the ironing pile.

Much of my current ironing pile consists of clothes that need to be ironed before donating to the local charity shops.

I hate ironing and normally only do it 'on demand', Atm I can't see 'taking it to the charity shop' ever being sufficiently urgent for me to get the ironing board out. [Roll Eyes]

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Originally posted by Boogie:
Mrs S - have you finished your curtain twitching? [Biased]

Ah, but they weren't net curtains, which they should have been for proper curtain-twitching (and the thought of IMproper curtain-twitching makes me feel quite faint!)

But no - they are now lying on the spare bed like an unwelcome guest while I await Further Instructions [Confused]

Mrs. S, pretending to be at W*rk


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The Intrepid Mrs S
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quote:
Originally posted by Roseofsharon:
quote:
Originally posted by St Everild:
Four bags of clothes to Oxfam this afternoon...and there is more to go lurking at the bottom of the ironing pile.

Much of my current ironing pile consists of clothes that need to be ironed before donating to the local charity shops.

I hate ironing and normally only do it 'on demand', Atm I can't see 'taking it to the charity shop' ever being sufficiently urgent for me to get the ironing board out. [Roll Eyes]

I have promised Mr. S - who now does the lion's share of the ironing - a new ironing boards for our 40th wedding anniversary. He says, no need - the current one has lasted us for 38 years... we probably won't get the wear out of a new one [Roll Eyes]

Mrs. S, fed up with gaffer-taping the feet back on the ironing board!

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I have promised myself to do the (many boxes of) photos once the whole house is de-cluttered. Will that EVER happen? I hope so - I love going through photos :-)

I have a suitcase full of photos going back to childhood. Including my wedding photos. Most of them I don't want to keep.

Several months ago I bought some albums with the idea of picking out the keepers and ditching the rest. Still waiting to do this.

Did get the clothes waiting to be binned in the bin though. Can't change my mind now.

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I brought stacks of photos over from UK with the intention of scanning the lot - I did two packs the first night and since then...

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The thing about photos is that when when I took them I thought I wanted them as a reference/souvenir/memory - whatever. But I never look at them!

Now I have a digital camera and I still enjoy taking them and they don't seem quite so much like clutter in the computer. I do look at the digital ones more frequently I think.

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quote:
Originally posted by Roseofsharon:
quote:
Originally posted by St Everild:
Four bags of clothes to Oxfam this afternoon...and there is more to go lurking at the bottom of the ironing pile.

Much of my current ironing pile consists of clothes that need to be ironed before donating to the local charity shops.

I hate ironing and normally only do it 'on demand', Atm I can't see 'taking it to the charity shop' ever being sufficiently urgent for me to get the ironing board out. [Roll Eyes]

Mine too...that's why the stuff lurking can go, because I haven't worn it since forever and I cant be bothered to iron it!
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We spent three days at the end of last week clearing my mum's house, which has renewed my resolve to declutter my own. Just the perennial problem of Where To Start. [Help] I took a bagful of books to the charity shop yesterday, as a signal of my intent. So I guess I have started. [Smile]

Nen - determined not to bequeath a load of clutter to the Nenlets.

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It turns out my parents in law have kept practically every toy that Mr Ferijen (31) and his brother (36) ever owned. Including a house move about 25 years ago (ie when baby stuff was out of the question). In contrast, my parents have moved twice since I left home and there is nothing that ever was mine at their house (and toys were regularly purged anyway).

This means that I have become determined not to become somebody for which every belonging acquires a sentimental value which far outweighs its actual value or usefulness. Applying this logic means that I have emptier bookshelves, kitchen cupboards and other cupboards. I'm by nature a hoarder, but in asking "would I value the space more than the item" has helped me focus my mind.

This means I have two new problems...

1. Ferijenlet will, in time, be given his Dad's old toys, and whilst I'll give long term house room to some things (for example Lego), I'm not going to give space to 30 year old plastic tat once my kids have grown out of it. Quite how this goes down with the inlaws we'll have to see (and yes, it's really Mr Ferijen's battle...). Meanwhile I have, er, gently encouraged them to get rid of their cot and pram...

2. I'm working hard to de-stuff my house; it's not large, and I am making choices about things I already have a relationship with (where the sentimental value is worth it, I'll keep something...). But I have a very generous family where the "what do you want for Christmas" conversation starts in September, where the desire to give "something to open on Christmas day" far outweighs my enthusiasm to receive it. How do I effectively communicate that I am perfectly happy with nothing without seeming churlish, or that one small present (I don't know, some perfume I want or something) is so much better than a bag of stuff I have no space for, and don't want. And I know this sounds ungrateful, but honestly, having to appear grateful for the electric soap dispenser or earrings for my non pierced ears is rather stressful.

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"Edibles or plants"

That usually deflects the tat

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When anyone in my family asks what to get my boys I always say 'pyjamas' - a child can't have too many of those and it also doesn't matter how awful the design is as nobody else will see them. I'm lucky in that I have such a huge extended family (I have 7 siblings) that we long ago decided only to buy presents for each other's children and not the adults.
I also suggest practical things for myself from the in laws, specific items for the kitchen, patterned wool or cotton socks, books etc.I recycle unwanted pressies to the charity shop in January.
Paper clutter is a major issue here as my other half insists on sorting it and he won't throw anything away.

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Originally posted by Heavenly Anarchist:
When anyone in my family asks what to get my boys I always say 'pyjamas' - a child can't have too many of those and it also doesn't matter how awful the design is as nobody else will see them.

Sometimes it does matter.

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[Big Grin]

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quote:
Originally posted by Nenya:
We spent three days at the end of last week clearing my mum's house, which has renewed my resolve to declutter my own. Just the perennial problem of Where To Start. [Help] I took a bagful of books to the charity shop yesterday, as a signal of my intent. So I guess I have started. [Smile]

Nen - determined not to bequeath a load of clutter to the Nenlets.

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You are so right! And just remember, the longest journey starts with but a single step.

My other hint would be, company is great for this. Sitting by yourself while you struggle with decisions about 'shall I keep this?' is soul-destroying, or at least that's how I feel. Ideally you want a friend, who loves you but doesn't give a stuff about all your possessions and can give you an unbiased opinion on how attractive/useful/becoming something is.

And Ferijen - I find the answer is what the WI is crying out against, the Christmas list. Make one of your own and tell people what's on it! Not foolproof I grant you, fools are so ingenious, but at least then when someone asks what you want you have some ideas to give them. (Miss S. is the Guardian of my Christmas List, and manages it with her usual aplomb to avoid duplication!)

Mrs. S, full of good advice today (forgive me!) Is there a smug smily?

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Not foolproof I grant you, fools are so ingenious ....

[Killing me]

I think maybe I'm one of them! These days I give only consumables and cushions (nobody can have too many cushions - yes?)

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Ooh, that's an idea, I can make dh's Nan a cushion. Last year we made a sausage dog draught excluder and she seems to have adopted as a pet.

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quote:
Originally posted by Roseofsharon:
Much of my current ironing pile consists of clothes that need to be ironed before donating to the local charity shops.

I hate ironing and normally only do it 'on demand', Atm I can't see 'taking it to the charity shop' ever being sufficiently urgent for me to get the ironing board out. [Roll Eyes]

We run a charity shop at my church and in all honesty, I wouldn't bother ironing stuff you are donating. We steam everything as a matter of course, no matter what it looks like because it freshens everything up. Also, not everything will get put out straight away, chances are it will be stored somewhere first to be sorted and will get creased and will need ironing / steaming again anyway so you're giving yourself a thankless task. Just chuck it in a bag, donate it and get on with your life! Don't worry about what the clothes look like, trust me, your charity shop will have seen a lot worse than your un-ironed clothes! You wouldn't believe the things some people donate! Some of it i'd be embarassed to put in the bin!

A note for anyone donating to charity shops... If you have clothes that are too tatty to be donated, put them in a black bin bag and mark it "rags". Some charity shops will still take this (worth asking yours if they would) and it saves them having to sort that stuff and they get around £3 per bag from rag merchants (and trust me, every charity shop uses one) even for your old tat! The rag people will take clothes, fabric, old curtains and duvet covers, even old stuffed toys, pretty much any fabric - if it can't be used by someone it will be sold on to be broken down and the fibres recycled.

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Tidied up the kitchen this morning after our second dinner party, a fireworks party last night. For the first time ever I felt that my kitchen was in a comfortable state, despite the stacks of dinner plates. It would be nice if the paperwork wasn't all over the sideboard but I now feel that I could randomly invite a mum in after the morning school run and not feel embarrassed. I've never invited anyone in before.

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Originally posted by Heavenly Anarchist:
Tidied up the kitchen this morning after our second dinner party, a fireworks party last night. For the first time ever I felt that my kitchen was in a comfortable state, despite the stacks of dinner plates. It would be nice if the paperwork wasn't all over the sideboard but I now feel that I could randomly invite a mum in after the morning school run and not feel embarrassed. I've never invited anyone in before.

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Fantastic!

Mrs. S, truly full of admiration

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Thank you [Hot and Hormonal]
It is an odd thing to say, after having spent my 20s in a constant stream of socialising, but it seems like I've been under a cloud since having my children, especially the second. I had children within weeks over moving in our current house (we lived in a house borrowed from the inlaws after our marriage which never entirely ours) and never seemed to get round to making this house special either.

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Congratulations Heavenly Anarchist.

I decluttered two bedroom drawers. Full of odds and sods, unidentifiable electronic leads for equipment long since gone to its rest, odd shoelaces for shoes I no longer own...you know.

Unfortunately I realised today that a pile of stuff in a corner in a spare bedroom is not just being stored it has turned into a HEAP. [Eek!]

So that is the next task.

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Doing some time-sensitive decluttering, so a repairman can come in and assess something.
[Paranoid]

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I have a full height, narrow cupboard which is supposed to house the vacuum cleaner. As Mr RoS hates throwing anything away the only way I can get him to part him from his raggiest clothes is to agree that they will do as cleaning cloths, so over the years they have been added to the pile at the bottom of this cupboard, and the vacuum cleaner has been ousted.

Needing to return the cupboard to its 'proper' use I cleared out all the rags last week. Naturally there had at some time been a visit from a little furry rodent or two, but strangely only one cloth had been shredded - maybe Mr RoS had used it and put it back in the cupboard unwashed ( [Mad] )and impregnated with some particularly tasty polish.

Anyway, the whole lot smelled mousey, so I had to wash it all. There was one full load of yellow dusters, one of dark rags, and two of white(ish) rags. They have now all been sorted, torn into duster-sized pieces, the useable ones folded and bagged and the rest are in the recycling bin.
And the vacuum cleaner is back in the cupboard.

There is a shelf in this cupboard, above the vac, on which various polishes, cleaning accessories and detergenty chemicals live - mine and the ones that Mr RoS has 'acquired' over the years. Can't face tackling that at the moment, as I have no idea how to dispose of them safely (I have a similar problem with garden chemicals out in the shed)

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quote:
Originally posted by Roseofsharon:

There is a shelf in this cupboard, above the vac, on which various polishes, cleaning accessories and detergenty chemicals live - mine and the ones that Mr RoS has 'acquired' over the years. Can't face tackling that at the moment, as I have no idea how to dispose of them safely (I have a similar problem with garden chemicals out in the shed)

Your local council tip will have an area for hazardous chemicals and batteries, you just put them in the fenced off area and they deal with them.

It's great reclaiming space a bit at a time isn't it?

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I moved in June, and that meant lots of organising and a fair bit of letting go.
Then I unpacked.
But now, life is normal again, and I have begun, one drawer or shelf at a time, to really tidy up, sort, and so on.
I keep a box in the laundry now...and in it goes stuff for the charity shop, and I am regularly emptying it.
As I tidy up each space, bit by bit, I find special things, and I also assign permanent spaces for important things, and things just keep getting better and decluttered!

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I bought a hanging cloth shoe rack from IKEA on Saturday for about £4, hung it in my wardrobe and within 2 minutes all my handbags and excess shoes were neatly stored. (I threw out about 20 empty hangers that had been taking up that space Just In Case I Ever Needed Them, so that was a double benefit).

Sadly the over-the-door set of hooks I got at the same time is too big, so it tips and I can't shut the spare bedroom door - but I am sure that Something Can Be Done with that...

Mrs. S, frittering away her pocket money [Big Grin]

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quote:
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Sadly the over-the-door set of hooks I got at the same time is too big, so it tips and I can't shut the spare bedroom door - but I am sure that Something Can Be Done with that...

I don't know whose doors they design those things for -- they're always too wide, too narrow, or so thick that the door won't close.
[Mad]

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My daughter used those hooks on the wardrobe in her student bedroom - to hang up towels and dressing gowns. She also had one over the door to hang up a string bag of fruit and veg.

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My daughter used those hooks on the wardrobe in her student bedroom - to hang up towels and dressing gowns. She also had one over the door to hang up a string bag of fruit and veg.

Miss S. also has them, and if I could get the thickness issue sorted, I'm sure these would be just what I need. [Yipee] I may have to resort to double-sided carpet tape or something [Confused]

Mrs. S, racking her brain (cell!)

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If you unfold the top bit, you can just nail the hooks to the inside of the door or wall. Makes a bit of a mess but if you aren't moving, why worry? You can also sometimes bend them with pliers to make them fit better.

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For anyone who likes flylady but would prefer something less saccharine, there's Unf!ck Your Habitat

Warning! There's a lot of swearing!

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I haven't been coming here- I've felt pretty hopeless- but anyone who checks in, please spare a prayer or two that I keep my momentum going and finish a quick and rough clean-up for when the maintenance guy comes by tomorrow.

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The Intrepid Mrs S
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Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
"I'm Lyda*Rose, and I may be reasonably un-hoarded and only semi-messy by the morning. Does that make me half a day clean?" [Hot and Hormonal]

"Hi, Lyda*Rose."

[Killing me]

If you have to sign up to believing in a Higher Power to enter into the '12 steps to Uncluttered-ness' programme - remember the Great Entropy Monster, who hides behing bedroom doors and mysteriously un-pairs your socks, moves the Important Pieces of Paper You Know You Put In A Safe Place, and hides the corkscrew on a Friday night!

Like Telepath's Finance Monster, and Malik's Melanoma (well, all right, not much like Malik's melanoma) - Great Entropy Monster Begone!

Mrs. S, rambling [Hot and Hormonal]

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Boogie

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quote:
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For anyone who likes flylady but would prefer something less saccharine, there's Unf!ck Your Habitat

Thanks ecumaniac [Big Grin]

But the first link I clicked on was 'Make your bed' - wash your mouth out! I have never made my bed since I left home and I don't intend to start now!

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Lyda*Rose

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Yep, I have an Entropy Monster the size of an 800 lb Gorilla that slouches around all day with his bud, Procrastination. And they lean over my shoulders saying, "Just another half an hour. Then you'll start to work on it". Repeat ad nauseam. [Frown]

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Golden Key
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quote:
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Doing some time-sensitive decluttering, so a repairman can come in and assess something.
[Paranoid]

Made it through! [Yipee]

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Lyda*Rose

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quote:
Originally posted by Golden Key:
quote:
Originally posted by Golden Key:
Doing some time-sensitive decluttering, so a repairman can come in and assess something.
[Paranoid]

Made it through! [Yipee]
Yay!

Hopefully that's me in the morning.

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"Dear God, whose name I do not know - thank you for my life. I forgot how BIG... thank you. Thank you for my life." ~from Joe Vs the Volcano

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Lyda*Rose

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I did it! Kitchen, living room, and bathroom all appear reasonable. Maintenance people could get to things to be maintained, and I think no nasty rumors will be made to the management.

All around a fine day. [Cool]

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"Dear God, whose name I do not know - thank you for my life. I forgot how BIG... thank you. Thank you for my life." ~from Joe Vs the Volcano

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quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
I did it! Kitchen, living room, and bathroom all appear reasonable. Maintenance people could get to things to be maintained, and I think no nasty rumors will be made to the management.

All around a fine day. [Cool]

[Overused] Fantastic news! Well done! Doesn't that feel GOOD? [Yipee]

Mrs. S, evangelist of encouragement

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Prayer should be our first recourse, not our last resort
'Lord, please give us patience. NOW!'

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Congratulations Lyda*Rose

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I'm so glad this thread is still running. Sometime soon (I hope) I'm going to be downsizing from a 3-bedroom house to a 2-bedroom flat.

Pray for my eternal soul ...

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Well done Lyda Rose!

Adeodatus, I feel for you. Do you have a plan of action?

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quote:
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Adeodatus, I feel for you. Do you have a plan of action?

Mostly the plan consists of panic and denial.

Actually, I plan to get rid of a handful of pieces of furniture through eBay. I need to lose about 5-6 feet of bookshelf space, and most of those books will be going to Oxfam. (There's an excellent Oxfam bookshop near where I live.) And my house moving timetable allows for hiring a small skip if I really can't get rid of things any other way.

The worst thing will be that I simply haven't room for a number of mementos of my parents. I plan to keep as much as I can, and try and dispose of the rest to good homes.

As soon as the house move becomes definite, I'm going to use an online room planner to see what I have room for, and what needs to go.

I also plan getting rid of some old stuff and acquiring some new. Does anyone know the best thing to do with elderly duvets?

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Lyda*Rose

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Thanks, all, for your good wishes! Now let's see if I can do the bedroom without the adrenaline of possible eviction running through my veins...

And good luck, Adeodatus. It sounds like you've got a start on plans. I really feel for you on the momento problem. [Frown] [Votive]

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Adeodatus - I believe animal charities wlecome old duvets as bedding - worth checking them out. Re having to shed mementoes - have you considered photographing them before disposal?

(If only I could practice what I preach!)

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Adeodatus - I believe animal charities welcome old duvets as bedding - worth checking them out.

Not just animal charities but people charities too - if you have no bedding at all then even an elderly duvet is welcome as we get into wintry weather. Homeless charities or those helping people with a roof over their heads but not much else, frinstance.

Mrs. S - Entropy Monster Begone!

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'Lord, please give us patience. NOW!'

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Firenze

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Just spent a dusty morning tackling my computer room. It's a tiny room made tinier by a built-in wardrobe and walls lined with bookshelves. The desk was slotted into this arrangement, side-on to the window - so in winter, my righthand side would get numbed with cold.

I've manoeurvered the desk to sit across the window (cold knees instead!).

It's not so much a de-clutter as a dust and rearrange the clutter, but at least I'm not actively depressed by going in there.

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Firenze:
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I've manoeurvered the desk to sit across the window (cold knees instead!).
Perhaps you could use Adeodatus's duvet as a lap robe? [Biased]

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Boogie

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The huge book sort out is over! The 'keepers' are confined to one bookcase per room. The 'goers' have been sold on-line or sent to book fairs.

[Yipee]

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quote:
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The huge book sort out is over! The 'keepers' are confined to one bookcase per room. The 'goers' have been sold on-line or sent to book fairs.

[Yipee]

Well done. [Overused] When we were sorting out my mum's house the worst thing was the books. Some we kept, some went to charity. Some went to the tip. It was awful. [Waterworks]

But it has made me determined to sort out my own and I'm trying to take a few to the charity shop every time I go that way. I'm also trying to sort out a little area of the house every day and throw at least something away. I'm doing well at present as I have a few days off work; not sure how it will go once I'm back into Busy Routine.

Nen - determined to declutter, bit by bit. [Smile]

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