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Tortuf
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I don't know if y'all remember, but back in 2003 a young woman from the US decided to protest Israeli demolishing of Palestinian homes. Dressed in an orange vest and carrying a bull horn, she stood between a military bulldozer and a Palestinian home to stop the destruction of the home. She failed. Not only was the home destroyed; she was destroyed as well. The bulldozer simply ran her over.

Her parents sued in Israel. They lost. The judge ruled it was a regrettable accident.

I have no intention of getting into the rights, or wrongs, of destruction of Palestinian homes. That is a thread for Purgatory as far as I am concerned.

What chaps my ass is that any reasonable person could call this an "accident." Bull Shit.

There would have been more than one soldier there. They could have bodily lifted her out of the way. Instead, they chose to "accidentally" not see this undoubtedly loud and shouting through a bull horn person dressed in an orange vest and run her over.

The judge said any reasonable person would have left the scene. Maybe. But, this unreasonable person was trying to stop an act she saw as unreasonable.

Ask it another way. What reasonable person would believe running her over with a bulldozer would not kill her?

You can explain politics until you are blue in the face. This was not politics. This was a bunch of assholes who considered any Palestinian, and any Palestinian lover, to be worthless scum to be killed with impunity.

If you train, or allow, your soldiers to hate, they will only commit further atrocities and make the enemy hate them more. Surely someone in Israel has figured this out by now.

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Sometimes I think my government's support of the Israeli government has created a monster.

"My daddy can beat up your daddy, so I can get away with murder." In this case, literally.

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You do not train or allow soliders to hate so much as to obey and to kill. The only way a human being can do that is to distance themselves from truth.

I'm afraid that is the nature of war.......totally dehumanising.....

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It is easy to single out one incident and one person to make points. It could be asked, for instance, about drone bombers which kill civilians regularly and why might they not be sent. Maybe the woman was simply 'collateral damage' per the popular military euphemism. I've also watched tapes of military helicopter pilots shooting in error into groups of civilians, and then shooting again to complete the killing as the wounded struggle and wiggle after being shot. The error is usually in the title of the video.

It seems to me that war zones - and much of the middle east is indeed a war zone, particularly the area of this incident - are places where others desire to kill. I do not justify that this woman was killed nor the explanation. But this is what human beings do to each other when the evil within us is released.

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You may be right about war, Evensong. But when did Israel declare war on citizens of the U.S.?

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quote:
Originally posted by no prophet:
It is easy to single out one incident and one person to make points. It could be asked, for instance, about drone bombers which kill civilians regularly and why might they not be sent. Maybe the woman was simply 'collateral damage' per the popular military euphemism. I've also watched tapes of military helicopter pilots shooting in error into groups of civilians, and then shooting again to complete the killing as the wounded struggle and wiggle after being shot. The error is usually in the title of the video.

Driving over a civilian who simply wouldn't get out of the way when one could stop or have her removed bodily is in no way an accident or an error. It is a cold and calculated act.

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It seems to me that war zones - and much of the middle east is indeed a war zone, particularly the area of this incident - are places where others desire to kill. I do not justify that this woman was killed nor the explanation. But this is what human beings do to each other when the evil within us is released.

Even in war zones acts occur that are not acts of war. Maybe the woman was, according to the law that pertains, breaking a law. Where in the world does driving bulldozers over protestors form part of law enforcement (I mean, apart from China, c 1989).

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quote:
Originally posted by Sioni Sais:
Driving over a civilian who simply wouldn't get out of the way when one could stop or have her removed bodily is in no way an accident or an error. It is a cold and calculated act.


If the driver could see her. Which seems to have been the key point, with even the expert witness called by the Corrie family, AIUI, testifying that he may not have been able to see her.

Of course, if you were driving that vehicle and you knew that there *had* been a person there moments before, and you couldn't now see her, you would stop. And so would I.

Even so, I don't think I know enough to say that the driver calculated on causing her death.

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Originally posted by Sioni Sais:
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Driving over a civilian who simply wouldn't get out of the way when one could stop or have her removed bodily is in no way an accident or an error. It is a cold and calculated act.

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I agree. Many of the atrocities that are excused as acts of war are in fact violence visited on unarmed people, and even people who are not aware they're being targetted. No doubt the military can justify its actions via "rules of engagement".

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Even in war zones acts occur that are not acts of war. Maybe the woman was, according to the law that pertains, breaking a law. Where in the world does driving bulldozers over protestors form part of law enforcement (I mean, apart from China, c 1989).

Or Afghanistan, or Pakistan, or much of Latin America, many countries in Asia.

I find the idea of some things being 'not acts of war' as a weasily way for gov'ts and militaries to justify their actions. If a gov't decides running someone over is an act of war and thus okay, apparently they are willing to do it. I suspect they don't agree with the definition of the woman's actions as breaking a law.

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Some things that aren't acts of war are war crimes.

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And some things that are acts of war, are war crimes. And some terrorists are patriots or revolutionaries, and God is the devil as this reasoning goes.
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quote:
Originally posted by Sioni Sais:
Where in the world does driving bulldozers over protestors form part of law enforcement (I mean, apart from China, c 1989).

Even the Chinese laid on the brakes.
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Maybe some older shipmate--or one who studies modern histor--can help out here.
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But when did Israel declare war on citizens of the U.S.?

I believe that in the late 1960s Israeli jets bombed a U.S. Navy vessel, with loss of life.

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I love the presumption that the evidence that the driver didn't see her MUST have been wrong.

Because, you know, we all have such extensive experience of driving bulldozers and we all know from halfway around the world exactly what the driver's field of vision was like.

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Tortuf
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When our kids were younger and we had a really stupid dog, I had a simple test for when I could start backing the car out of the garage.

I waited until I had a visual on all three of them.

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Sioni Sais
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quote:
Originally posted by orfeo:
I love the presumption that the evidence that the driver didn't see her MUST have been wrong.

Because, you know, we all have such extensive experience of driving bulldozers and we all know from halfway around the world exactly what the driver's field of vision was like.

I cannot believe the driver of the 'dozer was alone. OThers would have been present who could either shifted the woman or alerted the driver. for one reason or another they did neither.

You don't need to be an eye-witness to work that out.

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quote:
Originally posted by Tortuf:
When our kids were younger and we had a really stupid dog, I had a simple test for when I could start backing the car out of the garage.

I waited until I had a visual on all three of them.

By that logic, the bulldozer had to wait until an official census of the town was done and a headcount completed.

Please note, I'm not positively asserting that the driver definitely didn't see her. I just object to the idea that people halfway around the world are somehow in a better position to assess the evidence than the witnesses in the case and the judge.

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I drove a bulldozer over a small pickup truck without noticing once. But then, I'm not very good at driving skid-steer.

None of this is an excuse.

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quote:
Originally posted by Tortuf:
When our kids were younger and we had a really stupid dog, I had a simple test for when I could start backing the car out of the garage.

I waited until I had a visual on all three of them.

How many did you get?

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quote:
Originally posted by orfeo:
quote:
Originally posted by Tortuf:
When our kids were younger and we had a really stupid dog, I had a simple test for when I could start backing the car out of the garage.

I waited until I had a visual on all three of them.

By that logic, the bulldozer had to wait until an official census of the town was done and a headcount completed.

Please note, I'm not positively asserting that the driver definitely didn't see her. I just object to the idea that people halfway around the world are somehow in a better position to assess the evidence than the witnesses in the case and the judge.

The event was filmed and shown in the UK a few years ago in a documentary on her death. Having seen the footage, I find the description of the her death as an accident extremely unconvincing.

Essentially, they had the option to arrest and physically move the protesters. They didn't.

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quote:
Originally posted by Doublethink:
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Originally posted by orfeo:
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Originally posted by Tortuf:
When our kids were younger and we had a really stupid dog, I had a simple test for when I could start backing the car out of the garage.

I waited until I had a visual on all three of them.

By that logic, the bulldozer had to wait until an official census of the town was done and a headcount completed.

Please note, I'm not positively asserting that the driver definitely didn't see her. I just object to the idea that people halfway around the world are somehow in a better position to assess the evidence than the witnesses in the case and the judge.

The event was filmed and shown in the UK a few years ago in a documentary on her death. Having seen the footage, I find the description of the her death as an accident extremely unconvincing.

Essentially, they had the option to arrest and physically move the protesters. They didn't.

Okay, I wasn't aware there was footage.

I have to ask though: what the blazes were (1) the other protesters and (2) the cameraman doing while all this was going on?

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Doublethink.
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You can probably find the film on youtube. You need to look for "An American Conscience". It also includes the deaths of various international civilian activists. Brian Avery who was shot in the face, Tom Cardell who was shot in the back of head, whilst a assisting a child to move out of the field of gun fire - the Israelis were firing at a crowd of civilians from a watchtower.

Rachel Corrie's death is far from an isolated incident, and the Israeli army is almost never prepared to take responsibility for its actions.

[ 31. August 2012, 07:16: Message edited by: Doublethink ]

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I'm certainly prepared to accept the notion of a pattern, but I'm also very aware of the dangers of pattern evidence: the Israeli army kills people, therefore the Israeli army killed this person.

(Well, actually, the killing isn't in question, the lawfulness of it is)

I'm no friend of the Israeli military, by the way. Or at least, Israeli military policy.

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Biased, but short, video.

The blade is not as tall as her.

I'd say that is Murder 1.

And, I am not depending on her friend's accounts. The operator could see her. If he, in fact, didn't see her it was because he lifted the blade so as not to see her.

The judge in the article I linked to in the OP expressed a version of events that cannot be true:
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In his ruling, Judge Gershon said the military’s mission that day “was not, in any way, to destroy homes,” but to clear brush and explosives “to prevent acts of hatred and terror.” He said the bulldozer was moving slowly, about 1 kilometer per hour, and that the driver could not have seen Ms. Corrie, finding “no base to the plaintiff’s claim that the bulldozer hit her on purpose.”
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Thankyou for the link.
Warcrime rather than accident springs to mind.
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i believe that the Israeli military is every bit as militant and ruthless as the suicide bombers (there's a MASS of horror stories that the western media conveniently ignore) like the bombing of a UN base for heaven's sake. Link here

Stupidly naive of the young woman in question to think that her US citizenship or her oh-so-so civilised and outdated mode of protest would make one jot of difference to the Israeli military-her death was imminently foreseeable what a stupid and pointless waste, just like those who blow themselves up in marketplaces.

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I was in Palestine shortly after Ms. Corrie's death, and I was impressed by how deeply the people there were moved by the sacrifice she made for them.

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The situation in regard to the Israeli government and those who work under its aegis against the Palestinians is rather a dark one. This incident cannot be isolated from others which do show a certain consistency of policy.

There are, indeed, brave Israelis who do speak out against this consistent policy but they don't seem to have much effect.

I dread what is going to happen in the next 20 years. If the balance of power in the Middle East continues to shift the way it appears to be doing and the USA follows a more even handed policy in the area there will be a Day of Reckoning and it will be a bloody one.

Sadly, it appears the Israeli government has no historical vision.

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This. ^
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Like to explicate further, passer?

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I think it's shorthand for agreeing with you. I'm pretty sure that passer can speak douchebag, so he can explain it further for you in terms you can understand if necessary.
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Maybe he/she knows how we feel about saying "Ditto".

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quote:
Originally posted by Sir Pellinore:
Sadly, it appears the Israeli government has no historical vision.

It does--but I suspect it boils down to "God gave us this land, and no one is going to hurt us ever again".

[Votive]

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Like to explicate further, passer?

Apologies, Sir P., I missed your post. It's what RooK said.

It's shorthand for "I completely agree with what you have written above". The circonflexe points upwards to your post.

We don't have a Like button, and as Grits points out, we don't especially like Ditto round these parts!

I obviously spend too much time on Facebook.

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Um, various Shipmates have been using "this" for a while.

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Um, various Shipmates have been using "this" for a while.

Um, yes I know. But Sir P. didn't, so an explanation was only reasonable.
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Um, IMSVHO & YMMV I find 'um' at the beginning of the post just a smidge passive aggressive but I wouldn't want you to feel uncomfortable about using it, just want to raise awareness that it can be a problem for some people, yeah ?

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Um, various Shipmates have been using "this" for a while.

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Doublethink.
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I have deja key ...

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Um, various Shipmates have been using "this" for a while.

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Doublethink.
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Thrice gilded ...

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no prophet's flag is set so...

Proceed to see sea
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Are some of you connecting the specifics of this incident with more general support for one of the sides: Palestinian - Israeli?

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DT--

Sorry, really bad connection.


passer--

Yes, I knew that you knew! [Smile] I was just surprised at some of the reactions to your original use of "this".

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Sorry passer and others.

Hadn't a clue hence the question.

Thank you.

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Apologies for any clumsiness on my part. I seem to be coming down with the flu, or some such, and may have misread.
[Hot and Hormonal]

Sir P, hope I didn't make you feel uncomfortable. My perception of Pete's "douchebag" comment and some comments by others led me to think that people were getting upset over the use of "this", and I didn't understand why.

DT, when I use "um", it's not meant to be passive-aggressive. Maybe that's a pond thing? IME, Americans use it at the beginning of a sentence when we're not sure how the listener will react, but we feel we need to say something and we want to try to defuse any negative reaction..

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quote:
Originally posted by Golden Key:

Yes, I knew that you knew! [Smile] I was just surprised at some of the reactions to your original use of "this".

Um, no prob [Biased] Not like me to overreact.....

I read too much of this sort of thing! (click on view previous comments for the full thread)

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quote:
Originally posted by passer:
quote:
Originally posted by Golden Key:

Yes, I knew that you knew! [Smile] I was just surprised at some of the reactions to your original use of "this".

Um, no prob [Biased] Not like me to overreact.....

I read too much of this sort of thing! (click on view previous comments for the full thread)

The British equivalent seems to be on the lines of:
"So, Judge Bowers thinks this burglar's brave does he?"

Commencing with "So" gives me the creeps. I really wouldn't want to meet them face-to-face. Then again, people who use "so" like that would behave differently in RL.

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quote:
Originally posted by Golden Key:


Sir P, hope I didn't make you feel uncomfortable. My perception of Pete's "douchebag" comment and some comments by others led me to think that people were getting upset over the use of "this", and I didn't understand why.


Um, (to me this means you fuckwit), if you knew how to attach avatars to quotes, you would not make such a gross misattribution. I deny I used the word douchebag.

Except now, when I see you post in Hell, I will think that.

I am in agreement with Doublethink so these "pond things" to which you refer are not.

[ 06. September 2012, 23:56: Message edited by: PeteC ]

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Lamb Chopped
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quote:
Originally posted by Golden Key:
DT, when I use "um", it's not meant to be passive-aggressive. Maybe that's a pond thing? IME, Americans use it at the beginning of a sentence when we're not sure how the listener will react, but we feel we need to say something and we want to try to defuse any negative reaction..

It's probably a regional thing, since I use (well, useD) it the same way until someone helpfully posted an explanation of how other people were taking it. I suspect I picked it up a generation down from a Michiganer, though it could be Tennessee or Iowa for all I know. But yes, I grew up with it being a polite noise made to try to defuse negative reactions (like a quick "excuse me" as you dart in for a moment)

Anyway, I'm working very hard on not "umming" people now that I know it has the opposite effect on so many of y'all!

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"Um" in real life when you have intonation is a totally different thing from "um" in text where you don't -- especially on the internet, where I believe it's long been established as a snarky thing to say.
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