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Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
I understand that a number of men have been 'recognised' as apostles in Newfrontiers to their new apostolic spheres. I was wondering if anyone knew who these gentlemen are.

I was also wondering how they were 'recognised'. I'm assuming no lots were drawn, and if their names appeared after prayer and fasting, I wonder who was praying.

And what now is the position of other gentlemen in the movement who have planted and overseen churches and were performing the function of 'apostolic oversight.' Do we have some men in Newfrontiers who were once regarded as apostles and are now no longer so regarded?

Can anyone throw some light (as opposed to heat) on all this?

[ 01. December 2012, 10:50: Message edited by: Barnabas62 ]
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Interesting.

Eutychus will follow this with interest, I think.

I'd be interested too.

Although, without wanting to generate heat, I'd suggest that whoever these gentlemen are, they are simply 'bishops' just like those found anywhere else.

Ok, depending on one's view of Apostolic Succession one may or may not regard them as 'Bishops' with a Big B.

But whatever they are I suspect they are 'bishops' rather than 'apostles'. The 'apostles' thing is a red-herring.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
When NF began Terry Virgo had a team of 12 men around him who assumed the role and responsibility if Apostolic oversight of churches.

'Re-capturing' these roles and responsibilities was a key part of NF ecclesiology and I know Gamaliel has suggested that these men were Bishops but this could never have been so.


Originally the 12 men were good friends of TV who he saw having the correct 'gift mix' in order to take on these roles.

Most of these men are still working within these roles today but I guess some have taken a backseat and/or retired.

Of the next generation who have now taken up the baton and serve in these ways I believe Dave Stroud is one of the more well known individuals. He has been responsible for overseeing UK NF churches and the church plant in central London.

I guess some people here will level an 'old boys club' mentality to how NF appoint and anoint their leaders.

Without going into further issues ( e.g.; of not having women in governmental leadership and why leadership is very white) I would suggest as someone with 20 years in NF it is much less sinister. This is because in the early days when tensions concerning the movement wanting to gain legitimacy in the eyes of other church streams TV needed those around him who he could trust and rely on.

I would suggest NF have got stuck with the system they developed. There's no intentionality in wanting to broaden their understanding of leadership.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Why couldn't these men have been 'bishops' (small 'b') Polly. They exercised oversight over a number of churches. Isn't that what bishops are supposed to do?

They might want to call them 'apostles' because they think it's more biblical or because they don't like the term 'bishop' because it brings baggage with it, but that's effectively what these guys are and have been doing. They've been 'bishop-ing'. Ok, so they don't have pointy hats and a curly stick but they've been functioning in that role within their own particular sphere.

I really can't see what's contentious about that.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
Why couldn't these men have been 'bishops' (small 'b') Polly. They exercised oversight over a number of churches. Isn't that what bishops are supposed to do?

They might want to call them 'apostles' because they think it's more biblical or because they don't like the term 'bishop' because it brings baggage with it, but that's effectively what these guys are and have been doing. They've been 'bishop-ing'. Ok, so they don't have pointy hats and a curly stick but they've been functioning in that role within their own particular sphere.

I really can't see what's contentious about that.

I can easily agree with you. Both 'Apostle' and 'bishop' are valid Biblical roles.

NF wanted to re-capture what they thought (back in the 60/s and 70's) had been a neglected ministry in the form of Apostolic oversight. That was part of their ecclesiology and what was required with the new wine skins.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
I can easily agree with you. Both 'Apostle' and 'bishop' are valid Biblical roles.

Except that the use of 'apostle' confers a certain spiritual imprimatur that allows the NF to believe that its system is superior to one overseen by bishops ("we don't believe in unregenerate infants being baptised by unregenerate bishops").
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
I can easily agree with you. Both 'Apostle' and 'bishop' are valid Biblical roles.

Except that the use of 'apostle' confers a certain spiritual imprimatur that allows the NF to believe that its system is superior to one overseen by bishops ("we don't believe in unregenerate infants being baptised by unregenerate bishops").
The quote you used was my personal thoughts.

Your suggestion about NF can only be answered by NF. I admit it is possible they likely thought that in the early days, whether they do so now is another question. Change has happened in NF over the last 40 years.
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
I am somewhat less concerned about what titles people are given, and more interested in what they *do*. In particular, in the current context, how the current 'apostles' have been distinguished from a wider group given the same appellation.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
I am glad we have a new NewFrontiers thread, because I am interested in how they work. I know someone who is an "apostle" (or at least involved in the "apostolic sphere"). In fairness he doesn't claim that Terry Virgo's "apostles" have the same significance as Jesus' chosen Apostles.

I have problems with this concept, because I believe in Apostolic Succession - through the Bishops. I cannot see how someone (ie. Terry Virgo) can usurp Authority and appoint his own apostles, as Jesus did.

@Polly - It is good to have someone adding input here, who actually knows what they are talking about (which is more than can be said for me). I hope you, at least, still have some sympathies with them, as I do. When I heard the witnesses on Brighton Praise a week ago, I couldn't anathematize them completely, because they were so familiar, and true, delving into what it really means to be human, including their need of God for fulfillment.

"We don't believe in unregenerate infants being baptised by unregenerate bishops". Yes I know this mentality well, but I don't accept it, because Baptism IS the only sure sign we have of regeneration (to my mind).

[ 04. June 2012, 15:25: Message edited by: Mark Betts ]
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
@Mark Betts. Would your friend possibly be so kind as to reply to my questions - or at least as many of them as he is comfortable with?
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
I can easily agree with you. Both 'Apostle' and 'bishop' are valid Biblical roles.

Except that the use of 'apostle' confers a certain spiritual imprimatur that allows the NF to believe that its system is superior to one overseen by bishops ("we don't believe in unregenerate infants being baptised by unregenerate bishops").
The quote you used was my personal thoughts.

Yes, though the quote in brackets was from one of their recent magazines.

quote:

Your suggestion about NF can only be answered by NF. I admit it is possible they likely thought that in the early days, whether they do so now is another question. Change has happened in NF over the last 40 years.

I think the fact that they tend to stand apart from other churches in the area - even when they have similar beliefs - tends to speak for itself.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
@Mark Betts. Would your friend possibly be so kind as to reply to my questions - or at least as many of them as he is comfortable with?

Somehow I don't think he'd appreciate it. He'd welcome you to his church, with the intention of converting you, but these type of questions wouldn't be appropriate from someone who hasn't even set foot in the "true" church.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I don't think that NFI would claim to be the 'true' Church in the way that the Orthodox or the RCs would. Neither, as Mark has rightly reflected, would they claim that their 'apostles' were on a par with the original 12 'Big A' Apostles ...

I don't particularly have a problem with the use of the term 'apostle' to refer to living people - but I'd be very wary how I applied it.

As for what they do, well, I suspect some of these guys do actually 'bishop' (or even 'apostle') a lot better or more effectively than their counterparts in the historic Churches ...

But that's getting beyond the point of the OP, which is about how they operate in NFI terms.

I've been in a similar outfit to NFI and know that to all intents and purposes there was rather more weight put on the 'apostolic' role than was healthy. I can't compare them in that sense to Anglican Bishops nor RC Bishops or Orthodox ones as I've had less experience of those - although the ones I've met tend to be pretty decent sorts from what I've seen - although I have met a retired Anglican one I'd tend to give a wide berth ...
 
Posted by rhflan (# 17092) on :
 
But doesn't the word 'apostle' just mean 'sent one'? Like, isn't that the actual definition of it? And if so, then couldn't really *anyone* be an apostle?
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Yes, of course. But provided you understand what you mean by it and aren't making extravagant claims - such as restoring the Church above and beyond its apparent original 'purity and power' as we used to say back in my restorationist days ...

[Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by LutheranChik (# 9826) on :
 
I think the fantasy of there once having been a "pristine" early Christianity that we must return to falls into Bonhoeffer's category of dangerous wish-dreams that actively hurt the Church.

There was never, ever, EVER a "pure" Christianity. Ever. Read the Book of Acts and Paul's epistles, fer cripe's sake. These are, IMHO, less guidebooks for the church than histories of how earliest Christianity attempted to work out its self-identity and the various theological and social problems that "The Way" created for them in terms of belief and practice and engagement with the dominant culture. Other than a couple of Luke's rather rose-colored descriptions of community spirit (which he later contradicts as he records things like friction between Jewish and Gentile converts, who does what within the Christian community and so on), I don't see a lot of "pristine" anything. People are people.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Well yes ... which is why I am no longer a restorationist ...
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by rhflan:
But doesn't the word 'apostle' just mean 'sent one'? Like, isn't that the actual definition of it? And if so, then couldn't really *anyone* be an apostle?

New Frontiers have their own version of apostolic succession, where the only people that can be 'apostles' are appointed by current apostles. Of course, this is separate from historic apostolic succession. (Am I the only one who finds the numeric parallel between Christ and the 12 disciples, and TV and his 12 apostles to be a bit ominous?)

Also, the NF church I was a part of said that the apostle was more than a 'sent one' and was in fact the plumb-line mentioned in Amos 7:7 by which all of Israel would be measured. [Roll Eyes]

I don't know how wide-spread that belief is, but I'm pretty sure they learned it from one Dave Devinish, who is their apostolic over-watch.

Also, NF (at least the local branch) don't let just anyone into a position of leadership.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
(Am I the only one who finds the numeric parallel between Christ and the 12 disciples, and TV and his 12 apostles to be a bit ominous?)[/QB]
I don't know if I'd use the word "ominous", but it makes me wonder just who Terry Virgo thinks he is.
 
Posted by Fr Raphael (# 17131) on :
 
I live in a little world which until I read this knew nothing of Newfrontiers.

I looked them up on Wikipedia and also looked up Mr Virgo there too.

Is there much really to be worried about? They seem to be reaching out to where some other churches are not having success.

They are also larger than I expected.

I understand the comment about 12 apostles, however could it not be that Mr Virgo is following closely his Lord's model of having twelve chosen men.

I've not come across 'apostle' as a ministry name in a church, is it common in churches of this type. As a term it has a little more Biblical foundation than Bishop,, doesn't it?

Looking at one of the new frontiers congregations I was surprised at the venue they met in, which I happened to know. That venue could not really accommodate more than 60. Somehow I had the image in my mind of 100+ in their congregations.
 
Posted by Sioni Sais (# 5713) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
Well yes ... which is why I am no longer a restorationist ...

There's always the danger that you end up restoring the church at Corinth, Ephesus, or many of the other places to which Paul wrote epistles. They started well, then they got institutionalised, argued about footnotes etc and oh dearie me, you know the rest. Nothing much changes.

TV could have appointed just eleven, to avoid outsiders (and maybe insiders) wondering who plays Judas. To appoint twelve also smacks of numerology.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fr Raphael:
I live in a little world which until I read this knew nothing of Newfrontiers.

I looked them up on Wikipedia and also looked up Mr Virgo there too.

Is there much really to be worried about? They seem to be reaching out to where some other churches are not having success.

Don't worry, Terry Virgo isn't the Antichrist!

quote:
They are also larger than I expected.

I understand the comment about 12 apostles, however could it not be that Mr Virgo is following closely his Lord's model of having twelve chosen men.

I've not come across 'apostle' as a ministry name in a church, is it common in churches of this type. As a term it has a little more Biblical foundation than Bishop, doesn't it?

I was about to post that Apostles are sent forth by Christ himself, not Terry Virgo. However, I happened to look up "Apostle" in Wiki, and it said this:
quote:
Wiki article on "Apostle"
The word "apostle" has two meanings, the broader meaning of a messenger and the narrow meaning of an early apostle directly linked to Jesus Christ. The more general meaning of the word is translated into Latin as 'missio', and from this word we get 'missionary.'


So I guess, in this sense, maybe it isn't such blasphemy as we may think. I agree the number of 12 still raises eyebrows though.
quote:
Looking at one of the new frontiers congregations I was surprised at the venue they met in, which I happened to know. That venue could not really accommodate more than 60. Somehow I had the image in my mind of 100+ in their congregations.
The one I know is just a concrete unit in the middle of an industrial estate - it doesn't even look like a church! I understand it seems to have quite a large turnover - that is to say many people join (mostly young), but they often don't stay very long or are sometimes told to leave, to avoid any scandals. We're talking of things like divorce, adultery or fornication among the congregation. They also might be asked to leave if they are judged to be a "jezebel spirit" - that is, they talk in ways not in accordance with NewFrontiers orthodoxy (whatever that is).
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
The picture is mixed, of course, in many respects New Frontiers is more balanced than independent churches of that ilk. It's a mix of the good, the bad and the indifferent just like anything else ...
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
The picture is mixed, of course, in many respects New Frontiers is more balanced than independent churches of that ilk. It's a mix of the good, the bad and the indifferent just like anything else ...

I'd like to see them have a place for penance (or the evangelical equivalent if there is one) rather than just throwing people out for bad behaviour. I think that's a real problem for churches like this - not only NewFrontiers, of course.

There seems to be this mentality that if you are "born again", then sin grievously, there is no way back.
 
Posted by Waterchaser (# 11005) on :
 
Rhflan said
quote:
But doesn't the word 'apostle' just mean 'sent one'? Like, isn't that the actual definition of it? And if so, then couldn't really *anyone* be an apostle?
I've certainly heard teaching along this lines by people like Alan Hirsch who argue that the church needs to restore "apostles and prophets" to ministry rather than relying on just "teachers and pastors". However the apostles being talked about are definately small "a" ones - with the idea communicated that rather than designating authority apostleship is about ministy style - pioneer, missionary starting up new ministries/church planting etc.
The suggestion is that this ministry style/gifting might be quite common rather than something very rare.
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
On the o/p - I understand the UK apostolic 'sphere' leaders are David Devenish,, Dave Holden, Guy Miller, Mike Betts and Jeremy Simpkins. You can presumably find out more about them from the NF website.

How were they recognised? No idea. There may be some other people recognised as apostles - hopefully some other people can shed some light on this.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
On the o/p - I understand the UK apostolic 'sphere' leaders are David Devenish,, Dave Holden, Guy Miller, Mike Betts and Jeremy Simpkins. You can presumably find out more about them from the NF website.

How were they recognised? No idea. There may be some other people recognised as apostles - hopefully some other people can shed some light on this.

I think we may have nailed what "apostle" means in the NewFrontiers sense, but what is the "sphere" all about?
 
Posted by pete173 (# 4622) on :
 
Spheres are balls...
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
*sigh* If you want anything done do it yourself..

I've found something from our Terence:
quote:
from "Apostolic foundations"
The Philippians plainly felt they were in partnership with Paul. They sent finance to him. He brought them to birth, and he continued having a link with them. Paul developed this kind of relationship, even with some churches, like the Colossians, which he had never actually visited. Epaphras, who worked with Paul, had planted the Colossian church but it was evidently in ‘Paul’s sphere’.

While Paul was based in Ephesus, ‘All Asia’ heard the word (Acts 19:10) and some churches were planted which Paul didn’t actually visit because those working with him did the work. He was stabilising, bringing apostolic teaching, daily pumping out revelation at the school of Tyrannus in Ephesus (Acts 19:9), and his partners were going out starting churches within his apostolic sphere. So a sphere for Paul was an ongoing relationship with a number of churches, what the theologians call ‘the Pauline churches’.

So that’s a Bible concept. Paul was an apostle and churches that he related to were in fellowship with him in his ministry.

It is important we see that he said, ‘I have the care of all these churches.’ He often wrote that he was praying for them. So it’s an ongoing, affectionate link, not a ‘headquarters’ mentality. It’s not impersonal or static; it’s something very dynamic and life-imparting.

In 2 Corinthians 10:13, Paul argues about his sphere and says, ‘We will not boast beyond our measure but within the measure of the sphere which God appointed to us as a measure to reach even as far as you.’ Paul says that God has given him a sphere which did have some geographical aspect to it. ’You are within my God-given sphere. I have measured as far as you. I am not over-extending,’ he says (2 Cor. 10:14).



So there you go. [Smile]

I also found out that Paul was not one of the 12 Apostles, but the first of the "apostles" (broader sense) which NewFrontiers claim to be a continuation of.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
I understand that a number of men have been 'recognised' as apostles in Newfrontiers to their new apostolic spheres.

I'm away from home right now and not really in a position to take part in this thread at present, but I would simply like some clear evidence of this from a reliable source.

I'm not so much calling into question the idea that something like this has happened (for one thing, I've heard that from other well-placed sources too) as asking for evidence of anything clearer than a verbal announcement (if that).

If there isn't some sort of verifiable source, then I think this will mean whatever it needs to mean at the time, depending on who is concerned.
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
I also found out that Paul was not one of the 12 Apostles, but the first of the "apostles" (broader sense) which NewFrontiers claim to be a continuation of.

[Roll Eyes] [Roll Eyes]

Where's the continuous link? "Patterned after" might be a better term than "continuation of." Even that's being pretty generous IMO.

The rest of the material that you quoted resembles NF's SOP: decide what you want to see or do then try and proof-text it.

[ 05. June 2012, 19:45: Message edited by: irish_lord99 ]
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
I also found out that Paul was not one of the 12 Apostles, but the first of the "apostles" (broader sense) which NewFrontiers claim to be a continuation of.

[Roll Eyes] [Roll Eyes]

Where's the continuous link? "Patterned after" might be a better term than "continuation of." Even that's being pretty generous IMO.

The rest of the material that you quoted resembles NF's SOP: decide what you want to see or do then try and proof-text it.

...SOP...? In my world that stands for 'state of play' [Biased]
 
Posted by Auntie Doris (# 9433) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:

If there isn't some sort of verifiable source, then I think this will mean whatever it needs to mean at the time, depending on who is concerned.

I am not even sure what that sentence means!

Auntie Doris x
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
]...SOP...? In my world that stands for 'state of play' [Biased]

Standard Operating Procedure [Smile]
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
]...SOP...? In my world that stands for 'state of play' [Biased]

Standard Operating Procedure [Smile]
Cheers (!)
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
I also found out that Paul was not one of the 12 Apostles, but the first of the "apostles" (broader sense) which NewFrontiers claim to be a continuation of.

[Roll Eyes] [Roll Eyes]

Where's the continuous link? "Patterned after" might be a better term than "continuation of." Even that's being pretty generous IMO.

The rest of the material that you quoted resembles NF's SOP: decide what you want to see or do then try and proof-text it.

"Our Terence" is Terry Virgo, and it's all from his site. Here are some links:

What was the Apostolic task? (continued) - Here Terry tells us something about Apostolic Spheres.
Who is an apostle? - Here Terry defines the two types of Apostle.

Click around and you will find more.

I should have said "restoration of" rather than "continuation of", which sounds more catholic.

I don't know, Terry seems to be able to back up his claims...
 
Posted by Auntie Doris (# 9433) on :
 
Are these guys those who have been appointed as 'Apostles'?

I have a feeling they are - can't find much out about how it all happened though.

Auntie Doris x
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
@Mark Betts. Thanks for the quote about apostolic spheres. NF have played a lot on the relationship v organisation idea as a way of distinguishing themselves from more established churches. But I think what they're starting to discover is that 'relational organisarion' gets more more difficult when you grow. So developing apostolic spheres keeps the relational angle, but creates problems around the corporate activities of the movement - the youth conference Newday, and its church planting and social action activity, which has been resourced from central funds. Common activities need a common infrastructure to support them.

So when you have a total UK membership of the size of a West Bromich Albion home gate (c 30,000) and are held together by a dominant personality (the blessed Terry) a 'relational approach' to your set up is reasonably straightforward.

On the other hand, having an efficient bureaucracy doesn't mean your leadership thereby ceases to be relational, as I'm sure our resident Ship's bishop will confirm. Whether NF can make this transition is one of the questions it will have to address.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
I'm away from home right now and not really in a position to take part in this thread at present, but I would simply like some clear evidence of this from a reliable source.

It was summarised as such in one of the most recent NFI magazines.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
Take a look here:

http://newfrontierstogether.org/Groups/152963/Newfrontiers/Magazine/Current_Issue/Firstline/Firstline.aspx

"Other non-Biblical alternatives such as hierarchical ecclesiastical structures or church leadership by democratic process have been tried and found wanting."

"In this magazine I tell something of our story, introducing a number of friends who are already exercising apostolic responsibility within Newfrontiers."

"Although these brothers will gradually develop their own spheres of service we will maintain our common values and trust God to fulfil His promises to us as a family of churches that will have world-wide impact."
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Auntie Doris:
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:

If there isn't some sort of verifiable source, then I think this will mean whatever it needs to mean at the time, depending on who is concerned.

I am not even sure what that sentence means!
I think the links you and chris stiles have pointed to are the perfect example.

It's clear that these people are being announced as leaders (or at least "friends exercising apostolic responsibility" but it doesn't say how they were apopointed and equally significantly, they are only apostles by implication. Terry's article is a masterwork of how to imply things without actually being able to be held to account as having said them.

He writes
quote:
Who dare carelessly to claim to be an apostle knowing that one day he will face Jesus and give an account of his life? The thought has scared me for a long time.
He doesn't claim apostleship for himself but the implication is clearly there.

Of the new appointes, he writes
quote:
Some would be more comfortable than others to regard themselves as apostles.
thus leaving plenty of room for anybody to deny it or use the term to enforce their authority as they see fit.

He goes on to say
quote:
I commend them to you as men worthy of being followed. Paul did not nominate Timothy as an apostle but was happy to commend him and encourage the saints to receive him as they would Paul himself.
So he is simultaneously not recongising anybody as an apostle, comparing himself to the apostle Paul and suggesting that people should follow the new appointees as they follow him.

I also note that despite all that talk of stepping down, Terry signs the article
quote:
leader of Newfrontiers
In short, I find that all this supports what I've argued here before. Newfrontiers cultivates a culture that is modelled on an authoritarian view of apostleship that it enforces when it suits, but shrouds this in plausible deniability. Nobody can point to where Terry, or anyone else, has said they are an apostle, even if they are "moving" in these mysterious "apostolic spheres".
 
Posted by Auntie Doris (# 9433) on :
 
Ah OK, I get what you mean by that sentence and it makes perfect sense. For what it's worth I agree wit you. As ever, Newfrontiers has given itself lots of wriggle room!

Auntie Doris x
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
Take a look here:

http://newfrontierstogether.org/Groups/152963/Newfrontiers/Magazine/Current_Issue/Firstline/Firstline.aspx

"Other non-Biblical alternatives such as hierarchical ecclesiastical structures or church leadership by democratic process have been tried and found wanting."

"In this magazine I tell something of our story, introducing a number of friends who are already exercising apostolic responsibility within Newfrontiers."

"Although these brothers will gradually develop their own spheres of service we will maintain our common values and trust God to fulfil His promises to us as a family of churches that will have world-wide impact."

New Frontiers not 'hierarchical'?

Sorry Terry, but you are having a laugh.......
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
NewFrontiers do sound an awful lot like the original Reformers of the 16th C - eg. Luther. I often wonder how one disagreement turned into 96 theses - which amounts to rewriting the book completely from scratch. That's quite a leap don't you think?

What Authority did he have? About as much as the said Terry Virgo.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
NewFrontiers do sound an awful lot like the original Reformers of the 16th C - eg. Luther. I often wonder how one disagreement turned into 96 theses

Urm, have you actually ever read the 95 theses? They make sense in the context of Luther's argument even if you don't agree with them.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
...Urm, have you actually ever read the 95 theses? They make sense in the context of Luther's argument even if you don't agree with them.

That wasn't my question though - I asked how just one disagreement turned into 96 (or 95)?
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
OK - I just read them - but there is still that giant leap between seeking to reform this one problem from within and founding your own rival church.
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
OK - I just read them - but there is still that giant leap between seeking to reform this one problem from within and founding your own rival church.

I think there were a lot of small steps in between.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
I think there were a lot of small steps in between.

Does this mean that any Tom, Dick or Harry (Terry Virgo for example) can decide the churches have got it all wrong, and found their own "church"?

Obviously they can, but where is their Authority?
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
The acid test for NF structure is 'would I like these guys with this structure to run the country'. I would answer 'no' after 3 years at a NF church.

At no time was I given any say in the running of the church. Leaders were authoritarian and their decisions absolute. Our 'apostle' was 5,000 miles away. How many elders get appointed who disagree with tithing or their views on women in leadership ? None I would suggest. They seem to pick young males who are easily molded into their way of thinking. They also only sold their approved literature on the bookstall. This I find cult like and controlling.

On the surface its all friendly and best mates. When something goes wrong they pull rank.

To keep this going requires spiritual abuse. They use a lot of questionable theology to justify absolute control and dress it up in religion to get their own way. God said it, so you must submit. This means you should be giving 10% of your income to the church (kiss goodbye to leadership if you point out that tithing is complete legalistic rubbish and that no Christian practiced until the 9th century....). You need to be accountable to them, but they are only accountable to someone above them in the hierarchy who you have little or no access to. This is a structure ripe for abuse IMO.

Their fundamental mistake is not culturally contexting what is written in the Bible. The texts they use to try to justify this authoritarian structure were written about HOUSE churches of under 25 people. They were never a guide for running large organizations in this authoritarian way. If they want to bring back tithing how about bringing back the bit in the Mosaic law about priests not owning property - or paying themselves big salaries ? I suspect a resounding silence on that being discussed.

This spiritual abuse of Biblical texts allows NF to engage in a whole lot of double speak. 'We aren't real apostles but we are when it suits us to say so. We don't lord it over others, but do as we say. Pay your tithes to us, but we don't enforce tithing. We welcome all, but don't live up to our narrow remit of what is sin and fail to repent and we'll kick you out.

Its like the communist party for Christians. A whole lot of contradictory statements to get the theology to fit the warped reality of a structural hierarchy that can and does lord it over the flock. The morality is almost always based around sexual sin, the responsibilities of wider society and the rich are largely ignored. This narrow definition of sin is used as a means of control.

I'm glad I left. Intellectually it feels as if someone has their foot on your head the whole time you are there. Its abusive and dangerous particularly as you won't find the shortcomings until you've been there a while. Its a potential trap for younger Christians who don't know the theological flaws in the double speak.

I would not recommend them as a church to anyone.
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
I think there were a lot of small steps in between.

Does this mean that any Tom, Dick or Harry (Terry Virgo for example) can decide the churches have got it all wrong, and found their own "church"?

Obviously they can, but where is their Authority?

According to the local guys: "Our authority is made evident by the fact that people are following us."

Within the Protestant church, any Tom, Dick, or Harry can decide that the rest of the Church has got it wrong and found their own. And many do. Not many gather quite as much a following as NF. Whether that's proof of their legitimacy or not is up for debate.

Personally, I spent almost 2 years in a NF church as part of an agreement when I came to work at the nearby retreat center that the local NF pastor runs. I could have written Arminian's post, that was my experience almost exactly. The only thing that I'd add was that I also had to censure my views when not in church while talking to any church members, or be accused of 'sowing discord among the brethren.'
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
At least now I know what the elders mean when they talk of a "Jezebel spirit!"

Seriously though, why should you be given any leadership role if you are in disagreement with their principles?
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
At least now I know what the elders mean when they talk of a "Jezebel spirit!"

Seriously though, why should you be given any leadership role if you are in disagreement with their principles?

I was also accused of exactly that (if you want my story, well-known to older Shipmates, read this (you may need to wade through several layers of pages). While relationships with some of the individuals in question have, long after the events, been restored (with one person involved in particular at the sharp end recognising what a load of horse manure the Jezabel thing was), my criticism of the movement as a whole remains pretty much the same.

To answer your question, this is the whole problem with unwritten rules and having to constantly read between the lines. I thought I was following NF principles wholeheartedly, but unbeknown to me I somehow got on the wrong side of those principles, which is when what I had thought was a non-hierachical, informal network of relationships suddenly turned into a completely top-down, authoritarian organisation with me as the accused.

Another way of answering your question is for you to go and watch the film The Firm and ask yourself how Mitch, the character played by Tom Cruise ends up working there and almost dying there. I've heard some of the lines in that film word for word in NF circles.
 
Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
I think there were a lot of small steps in between.

Does this mean that any Tom, Dick or Harry (Terry Virgo for example) can decide the churches have got it all wrong, and found their own "church"?

Obviously they can, but where is their Authority?

It's a basic weakness (depending on one's POV of course) of Protestantism as a whole: the Reformers created the climate for further splits within Christendom. After all, if Luther (who was he after all?) could start his own church, why couldn’t anyone else? This is, of course, the fundamental weakness of Protestantism; that any old Tom, Dick or Harry (yes, it’s usually men who are the problem here) can set up shop on his own, attract a following and declare himself to be the sole repository of all truth.

Therefore Protestantism, taken to its logical conclusion, and despite its stated reliance on the Bible as the revealed Word of God, is nevertheless dependent ultimately on individual conscience and interpretation of that Word. Thus it is fair comment to say that the individual (and his/her relationship with God) is at the heart of the Protestant creeds.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
Mark Betts

There are (maybe still in print) some good books about the Theology and Practices of the Restoration Church movement. Andrew Walker has written a couple. Worth a bit of Googling, if you're interested.

I don't think New Frontiers theology and practice maps all that well onto Luther. Luther started off trying to reform from within. The Restoration Movement was far more pessimistic than that about the existing church denominations. Hence "New Church". There was a fair bit of pronouncing "Ichabod" over the existing churches. Not something it is ever wise to do.


They've moved on a bit since then, but ecumenism and NF theology still don't sit all that well together.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
I think there were a lot of small steps in between.

Does this mean that any Tom, Dick or Harry (Terry Virgo for example) can decide the churches have got it all wrong, and found their own "church"?

Obviously they can, but where is their Authority?

There's a huge difference between sola scripura and nuda scriptura. As Barnabas says above, I don't think your comparison of the NFI and Luther holds any water whatsoever.

I hesitate to say this, but it sounds like you are repeatedly reacting to various things without particularly knowing an awful lot about the subjects you are trying to link together.
 
Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
Agreed with what you say about Luther's intentions, but his career is also a demonstration of the law of unintended consequences!
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Matt Black:
Agreed with what you say about Luther's intentions, but his career is also a demonstration of the law of unintended consequences!

Very true. You might say the same about the New Church movement.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
There's a huge difference between sola scripura and nuda scriptura.

I had to google "nuda scriptura" because I've never heard of it before. However I couldn't help coming to the conclusion that "sola scriptura" will always degenerate into "nuda scriptura" precisely because of the confusion regarding Authority.

This means that, practically speaking there really isn't much difference between the two, except that no-one ever says they are "nuda scriptura" - it is a term of abuse.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
There's a huge difference between sola scripura and nuda scriptura.

I had to google "nuda scriptura" because I've never heard of it before. However I couldn't help coming to the conclusion that "sola scriptura" will always degenerate into "nuda scriptura" precisely because of the confusion regarding Authority.

In which case I'm surprised that you would object to NFI, as their model of Authority would be near identical to your own.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
...In which case I'm surprised that you would object to NFI, as their model of Authority would be near identical to your own.

I don't accept "sola scriptura" nor "nuda scriptura", so I'd love to know how you worked that out (no disrespect).
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
...In which case I'm surprised that you would object to NFI, as their model of Authority would be near identical to your own.

I don't accept "sola scriptura" nor "nuda scriptura", so I'd love to know how you worked that out (no disrespect).
Because the comparison between the Magisterial Reformation and the NFI is about as close as the comparison between Orthodoxy and the NFI.

After all; both are groups that but a lot of stock in having New Testament roots and being presided over by a number of specially anointed individuals.

You would presumably recognise the above as a parody even as it uses words that have a completely different meaning in the two contexts in which they are used.

So I don't think your comparison is particularly helpful in advancing this discussion which specifically about 'New Frontiers new apostolic spheres' - though you are welcome to start a thread on Luther and Terry Virgo if you so wish. It doesn't bode well that the first comparison you drew was to a text you hadn't read.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
In short, I find that all this supports what I've argued here before. Newfrontiers cultivates a culture that is modelled on an authoritarian view of apostleship that it enforces when it suits, but shrouds this in plausible deniability. Nobody can point to where Terry, or anyone else, has said they are an apostle, even if they are "moving" in these mysterious "apostolic spheres".

I came to some of the same conclusions you did when reading that article; it seemed to me that the possible break will come if and when one of the new 'people operating in an apostolic capacity' have some kind of strategic/doctrinal difference with the movement as a whole.

Additionally, it doesn't actually solve the succession problem that has been looming for a while. The best that can be hoped for is various groups who maintain friendly relationships with each other.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
Because the comparison between the Magisterial Reformation and the NFI is about as close as the comparison between Orthodoxy and the NFI.

After all; both are groups that but a lot of stock in having New Testament roots and being presided over by a number of specially anointed individuals.

You would presumably recognise the above as a parody even as it uses words that have a completely different meaning in the two contexts in which they are used.

Exactly!

quote:
So I don't think your comparison is particularly helpful in advancing this discussion which specifically about 'New Frontiers new apostolic spheres' - though you are welcome to start a thread on Luther and Terry Virgo if you so wish. It doesn't bode well that the first comparison you drew was to a text you hadn't read.
Sorry, but the problem is clearly that you have bought into "sola scriptura", but not the restorationist movement. A few years ago, I would have been offended for the same reasons as you, but people move on.

Please note that I did browse the 95 theses, as you suggested - you can't have a go at me for doing what you asked me!
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
I think it's time for one of my "L A Law" Hostly comments.

"Move along, Douglas".

An interesting diversion, but I wouldn't try too hard to unscramble the egg, whether you think it's on your face or someone else's. That way, madness lies.

In official terms, Purg guideline 3 says, "Stick to the Point". Not often invoked, but on this occasion I thought you might find it helpful.

B62, Purg Host
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
So just to round this off, is there anyone from Newfrontiers out there who can answer the OP?
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
So just to round this off, is there anyone from Newfrontiers out there who can answer the OP?

I had assumed that you *were* from new frontiers? In any case, the magazine article (which is actually expanded on in the entire issue) seems to be the only definitive communication on the matter according to people I know in NFI.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I think Ramarius's church was an NFI one but the situation is now ambivalent - or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
The following is an extract from Terry Virgo's'A People Prepared', published in 1996. I am unsure if this is still accepted as the norm within NF. I could search through their NF magazines during 2009/2010 when they wrote about their values but then again I'm watching the football!!

"We can distinguish three classes of apostle in the NT. First of all there is Jesus 'the Apostle and High Priest of our confession (Heb 3 v1 NASB). Next there are 'the twelve'. Some feel this is the end of story, and that Paul was raised up by God to replace Judas. It is argued that we never hear of the hastily appointed Matthias again; but actually we never hear of many of the twelve again, and the Bible nowhere states that Paul was one of the twelve. He clearly distinguishes himself from them in 1 Corinthians 15 v 5-8...." P157

"One of the distinctive features of the apostle is that he is a master builder and foundation layer (1 Cor 3 v10) Paul did not regard his apostleship as a position in the church hierarchy..." P159/160

"The fact remains that if we are to see the tide turn in the the nations, we need to plant a great number of new churches... Such new churches are being planted today, motivated and overseen by apostolic ministry..." P164/5

"The modern apostle will be regarded by some as a simply a brother or a preacher, while to others he functions as an apostle. That presents no problem; it is not unlike the attitude Christians might have towards local pastor/teachers from other churches in their area. The uninvited apostle cannot impose his authority in other churches ; nor should it be his desire to do so. He will, however, happily respond to requests from church elders who reach out for his help." P165

The link below is a more up to date reasoning behind NF understanding of 'Apostles'. There is a list of names down one side and I recognise many of these as being considered holding this role and responsibility within NF. Otherwise there does not seem to be an 'official' list. I could be wrong through!!

Future of New Frontiers - NFI Magazine article

[Fixed code as I was passing - T]

[ 11. June 2012, 11:45: Message edited by: Tubbs ]
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
Otherwise there does not seem to be an 'official' list. I could be wrong through!

I very much doubt you will find one because of the consistent ducking and weaving on this issue, as I explained above. Terry is at it again in the example you link to.

quote:
Jesus called apostles. They began to gather communities. They built them up in health and sufficiency in Christ, and then moved on (...) The church should be integrated with the apostolic gift in order to reach the world.
The implication that the current leaders are apostles and to be recognised as such is deafening, but Terry steps back from calling a spade a spade, resorting instead to talking about churches being "integrated with the apostolic gift" - about as vague a phrase as one could hope for.

The result is a whole raft of insecurity which, I believe, is ultimately used to better exercise control. Nobody quite knows whether they are an apostle or not, and nobody will dare ask either.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:

The result is a whole raft of insecurity which, I believe, is ultimately used to better exercise control. Nobody quite knows whether they are an apostle or not, and nobody will dare ask either.

I wonder how much of the insecurity goes in the opposite direction - after all, it would prove to be quite problematic to 'De-Apostle' someone after the fact.

In any case, I'm not sure that the Apostle system can last the upcoming generational shift.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
I don't think so either, especially given the lack of clarity surrounding the current handover.

That was the posit of my "NewFrontiers after Terry Virgo" thread.

In that case, though, I think many people will be happy to have all the charismatic/New Church bells and whistles without all the authoritarian overtones - something at least half-admitted by one NF leader I'm still close to.
 
Posted by Lev (# 50) on :
 
According to the book of Wikipedia, chapter 14:23-28

quote:
In April 2009, the Journal of Beliefs and Values published an article reporting on a 2007 study which "set out to examine the psychological type profile of Lead Elders within the Newfrontiers network of churches in the United Kingdom and to compare this profile with the established profile of clergymen in the Church of England". One of the conclusions is as follows:

"There is a toughness about this style of leadership that is unlikely to be distracted by opposition. The disadvantage is that this style of leadership can leave some individuals hurt and marginalised for what is seen by the leadership as the overall benefit to the organisation"

Wikipedia, chapter 14:23-28 Wikipedia, chapter 14:23-28
 
Posted by Lev (# 50) on :
 
Apologies for mucking up the link, but you get the idea.

I was a member of NFI for about 3-4 years and it really messed me up. I'm still an loyal Christian, but NFI doesn't do the reputation of the Church much good.

I would strongly advise against getting involved.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Eutychus Posted: I don't think so either, especially given the lack of clarity surrounding the current handover.
Possibly! This maybe simply to do with the matter that the majority of Christians at 'street level' do not see this as a priority. Not much has changed as far as they are concerned. My parents church are about to move into a newly developed warehouse after being in a town community hall for the last 40 years. What is going on at NF HQ is way down their priority list.

In addition I reckon big changes will only take place once TV is no longer able to be active within whatever role he still assumes. Whether this is to frailty of age or he's gone to the heavenly realms.


quote:
Originally posted by Lev:
Apologies for mucking up the link, but you get the idea.

I was a member of NFI for about 3-4 years and it really messed me up. I'm still an loyal Christian, but NFI doesn't do the reputation of the Church much good.

I would strongly advise against getting involved.

Lev - I'm sorry your time at NF was a bad one for you. There's others here on this forum that have similar experiences to you but there are others like myself who had a good positive time within NF.

The topic of the link you provided has been discussed in various threads previously though.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
In that case, though, I think many people will be happy to have all the charismatic/New Church bells and whistles without all the authoritarian overtones - something at least half-admitted by one NF leader I'm still close to.

Hmm. While that might be the ultimate result - I think that the mid-term future may be a lot more stormy. ISTM that a lot of fairly authoritarian setups tend towards being the most chaotic and stormy when they are in their death throes.

The case of the International Church of Christ (aka 'The Boston Movement') is an instructive one. Generally things don't change until the difference between doctrine and praxis is such that things change fairly violently.
 
Posted by Twangist (# 16208) on :
 
Why has no-one used the phrase "suck it and see" yet?
[Biased]
 
Posted by Moo (# 107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
Why has no-one used the phrase "suck it and see" yet?
[Biased]

[Confused] [Confused] [Confused]
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
This is one of NewFrontiers' in-house phrases, of which there are many.

I don't think they've woken up to its more sordid connotations.

[ 12. June 2012, 12:06: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
Why has no-one used the phrase "suck it and see" yet?
[Biased]

Would you by any chance know by what means the new apostles were recognised?
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
As explained above, I'll bet a pound to a penny that no apostles were recognised as such by anybody in this development.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
As explained above, I'll bet a pound to a penny that no apostles were recognised as such by anybody in this development.

I'm not happy about naming a group of people but I think there is a good amount of assumption by a) the individuals that they are fulfilling the role of Apostolic Oversight and b) people in churches that a specific person has this role.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
Perhaps, but the mechanism of how they got there is still about as obscure as Aaron's explanation of how the golden calf came into being. And why, if they are so hot on restoration, not call a spade a spade and an apostle an apostle?

The effect of having what are termed "flexible" or "fluid" teams and the occasional "rejig" keeps people in a perpetual state of insecurity about their position, and without a clear designation or recognition process, there is no proper way for people to be held to account. Meanwhile ex "apostolic oversighters" that have fallen from favour disappear down the memory hole as if they never existed.
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
As explained above, I'll bet a pound to a penny that no apostles were recognised as such by anybody in this development.

Well, earlier in the thread Ramarius said that David Devenish was one of new UK sphere leaders. I know that he's already revered as an Apostle by the local NF church, and I wonder how many of the new appointees were simply 'apostles' to begin with?

I don't know how he's viewed in the UK, but Devenish is the man as far as the local branch is concerned. They'd follow him to hell and back if he wished.

If the other appointees have similar followings, that would mean that they've already established a certain amount of authority within the organization and people would more naturally fall in line behind them, TV could slip away a bit more quietly with such well-know authority figures to take his place.

On the other hand, it almost feels as if the Emperor is not long for the throne and the generals are trying to figure out how to divide the kingdom amongst themselves.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
Nobody quite knows whether they are an apostle or not, and nobody will dare ask either.

I hope you'll excuse me for popping up from my hell thread (where I've been consigned to), but this reminds me of a conversation I once had with a Jehovahs Witness.

In this case, we were discussing their once yearly communion service, where only those that are counted amongst the 144 000 can drink from the cup. The same questions arose - how do they know who are of the 144 000? Who dares question it?
 
Posted by Twangist (# 16208) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
Why has no-one used the phrase "suck it and see" yet?
[Biased]

Would you by any chance know by what means the new apostles were recognised?
Hi Drew I only know what's in the mags etc - no insider knowledge I'm afraid.
Leaving aside tussles about the terminology etc it feels, from where I'm sitting, a bit like we have three big diocese(s?) in the UK with a number of suffregans on the ground with local churches (on the whole - I don't know about Ramaruius situ pace Gamaliel) carrying on as normal. I'm wondering whether an Archbishop will emerge or we will develop into seperate but relating juristicions.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
[You haven't been consigned or confined to Hell, Mark. You're free to post anywhere else, subject only to the Ship's 10 Commandments. B62, Purg Host]

So far as JWs are concerned, my understanding is that those who drink from the cup are assured by authority that they will join the 144,000 provided they keep their nose clean. It's a prophetic act.

How they know that the authority they believe in can be trusted? Ah, that's an important question for JWs and NF-ers alike. The theory is that you've got specially chosen and authoritative leaders, trustworthy interpreters of the infallible Word (or the respective infallible Words), especially when it comes to matters of authority. Something which is also believed on authority.

Reminds me of Boxer in Animal Farm.

"Ah, if Comrade Napoleon says so, then it must be so".

He ended up in the knackers yard, of course.

[ 13. June 2012, 08:08: Message edited by: Barnabas62 ]
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
Hi Drew I only know what's in the mags etc - no insider knowledge I'm afraid.
Leaving aside tussles about the terminology etc it feels, from where I'm sitting, a bit like we have three big diocese(s?) in the UK with a number of suffregans on the ground with local churches (on the whole - I don't know about Ramaruius situ pace Gamaliel) carrying on as normal. I'm wondering whether an Archbishop will emerge or we will develop into seperate but relating juristicions.

Hi Twangist,

It's good to have your input, because I see you're from NF. The rest of us are probably outsiders or ex-members, but it is good to hear from someone who is currently involved in the church. I know I'm sometimes critical, but other times I can at least empathise with where TV and NF are coming from.
 
Posted by Twangist (# 16208) on :
 
Hi Mark
Thanx
 
Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Matt Black:
Does this mean that any Tom, Dick or Harry (Terry Virgo for example) can decide the churches have got it all wrong, and found their own "church"?

Borderline irrelevant historical point, I don't think Terry Virgo did found his own church. He was invited to be a minister at an existing church under another chief pastor, and it evolved into what became Christ the King Church later.

Though maybe your scare quotes round "church" are meant to imply that you are not talking about his church at all - that is the assembly of Christians of which he is or was a minister - but a connexion of churches.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:
I don't know how he's viewed in the UK, but Devenish is the man as far as the local branch is concerned. They'd follow him to hell and back if he wished.

I'm sure that's true, but in my experience NF never actually applies the term "apostle" to its own.

The authority is definitely there, but I am convinced that their reluctance to use the term outright is a) a cloak of false humility which also serves to fend off any challenges: "well, we never actually claimed to be apostles, so..." b) a means of highlighting a culture of informality rather than the authoritarian principles on which it has been set up (since "apostle" in this world has a lot to do with apostolic authority over other people).

To pick up on ken's point, it's one of the more embarrassing holes in Terry Virgo's CV that he has never actually planted a church of his own - widely regarded as one of the defining characteristics of apostles.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ken:
quote:
Originally posted by Matt Black:
Does this mean that any Tom, Dick or Harry (Terry Virgo for example) can decide the churches have got it all wrong, and found their own "church"?

Borderline irrelevant historical point, I don't think Terry Virgo did found his own church. He was invited to be a minister at an existing church under another chief pastor, and it evolved into what became Christ the King Church later.

Though maybe your scare quotes round "church" are meant to imply that you are not talking about his church at all - that is the assembly of Christians of which he is or was a minister - but a connexion of churches.

Thanks for the info Ken. The quotes around "church" simply indicate that some would question whether such a church (the one which Tom, Dick or Harry built) is a real church. But, granted, maybe this isn't the case with Terry Virgo.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
In my experience, very few of the restorationist 'apostles' actually planted very many churches from scratch. Certainly not as many as they claimed.

There were instances of the decanting of people from one city to another and a church springing up around them, some of which have continued to this day. But in the early days, at least, it was more a case of accepting existing groups 'into relationship'.

NFI have probably been the most successful, numerically, in terms of church-planting but much of the growth has come from transfers or people moving house to be part of the new plant etc.

The same thing seems to be the case in any church plant within any tradition.

Of course, church plants are always a joint-effort and not generally the work of any one individual, but in the restorationist 'stream' I was involved with the church-planting aspect was pretty sporadic and patchy. Although some quite large churches did arise from these activities - at least for a time.
 
Posted by the long ranger (# 17109) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
The quotes around "church" simply indicate that some would question whether such a church (the one which Tom, Dick or Harry built) is a real church. But, granted, maybe this isn't the case with Terry Virgo.

Yes, but who gave you the power to decide who else can call themselves a church? The idea is ridiculous. The spiritualist church is a church - not one I have any sympathy for or agreement with whatsoever, but it is a church as defined in law nonetheless.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by the long ranger:
Yes, but who gave you the power to decide who else can call themselves a church? The idea is ridiculous. The spiritualist church is a church - not one I have any sympathy for or agreement with whatsoever, but it is a church as defined in law nonetheless.

I have no power whatsoever to decide what is a church and what isn't. I didn't even say that I didn't call it a church - just that some might question it. That isn't an opinion, it is just a fact.
 
Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
I would imagine that people who don't believe that Protestant churches are really churches already know that without help from punctuation marks.

[ 13. June 2012, 14:45: Message edited by: ken ]
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Irish_Lord99 posted: Well, earlier in the thread Ramarius said that David Devenish was one of new UK sphere leaders. I know that he's already revered as an Apostle by the local NF church, and I wonder how many of the new appointees were simply 'apostles' to begin with?
quote:
Eutychus posted: The authority is definitely there, but I am convinced that their reluctance to use the term outright is a) a cloak of false humility which also serves to fend off any challenges: "well, we never actually claimed to be apostles, so..." b) a means of highlighting a culture of informality rather than the authoritarian principles on which it has been set up (since "apostle" in this world has a lot to do with apostolic authority over other people).
Whatever the reason NF have for not publishing a list of 'Apostles' within their ranks I do not agree that it is to do with having a false humility or any other 'sinister' reasoning. With having family still in NF churches they are pretty clear who has specific apostle oversight in their different regions. There's no confusion at the local church level.

I would suggest that most people within the local church see their regional 'Apostle' as someone who supports and encourages the local leadership and not any kind of puppet master.

quote:
To pick up on ken's point, it's one of the more embarrassing holes in Terry Virgo's CV that he has never actually planted a church of his own - widely regarded as one of the defining characteristics of apostles.
That's not strictly correct. TV was instrumental in the planting of the first NF church outside of his role within Brighton. That church was my home church and in the village where I grew up and is where he first met Nigel Ring.

What followed was something along the lines that Gamaliel explains in his post.

I remember in the 90's that NF spent a lot of time planting small teams in places like Manchester that started life as a house church. These have grown into much bigger congregations that have planted other churches. Similar work was done in Bedford with Dave Devenish.

Not sure why it would be embarrassing on his CV. St Paul hardly did any baptisms and no-one is bothered by that.

quote:
Barnabas62 posted: that's an important question for JWs and NF-ers alike
Not a very fair comparison IMO. [Biased]
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
Polly, I think JWs are further down the "heterodox" road than NF (though I think TV is pretty heterodox about Eph 4 - at least as far as I understand him).

But my comment related more to ecclesiology than soundness of faith.

Wine and bottles?
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Barnabas62:
Polly, I think JWs are further down the "heterodox" road than NF (though I think TV is pretty heterodox about Eph 4 - at least as far as I understand him).

I hope I am not pushing things too far with what I'm about to say, but to the Orthodox, we'd normally talk of NF as being heterodox, whereas JWs would be heretical (to us) because they don't believe in the Holy Trinity.
 
Posted by the long ranger (# 17109) on :
 
For once I agree with Mark Betts. Finally a post of his worth reading.

Mentioning NF in the same breath as groups like the JWs is pretty offensive (to both, actually).
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
Fair enough by me, too.

[ 13. June 2012, 17:30: Message edited by: Barnabas62 ]
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by the long ranger:
For once I agree with Mark Betts. Finally a post of his worth reading.

Mentioning NF in the same breath as groups like the JWs is pretty offensive (to both, actually).

I had better just add that I don't hate Jehovah's witnesses - I just think they are very wrong in their theology.
 
Posted by Doc Tor (# 9748) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
Whatever the reason NF have for not publishing a list of 'Apostles' within their ranks I do not agree that it is to do with having a false humility or any other 'sinister' reasoning. With having family still in NF churches they are pretty clear who has specific apostle oversight in their different regions. There's no confusion at the local church level.

If I google "list of bishops in the church of england", or change the CofE for any other denomination, I can pretty much find exactly that: a list of names, and their geographical reach.

I'm struggling to find any good reason why NF don't publish a list of those who have responsibility for overseeing their churches. There might be no confusion at the local level, but the phrase 'plausible deniability' springs irresistibly to mind.

When the shit hits the fan (as it inevitably does from time to time), who is to held accountable and responsible? I know who I go to, and importantly, so does everyone else.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Doc Tor:
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
Whatever the reason NF have for not publishing a list of 'Apostles' within their ranks I do not agree that it is to do with having a false humility or any other 'sinister' reasoning. With having family still in NF churches they are pretty clear who has specific apostle oversight in their different regions. There's no confusion at the local church level.

If I google "list of bishops in the church of england", or change the CofE for any other denomination, I can pretty much find exactly that: a list of names, and their geographical reach.

I'm struggling to find any good reason why NF don't publish a list of those who have responsibility for overseeing their churches. There might be no confusion at the local level, but the phrase 'plausible deniability' springs irresistibly to mind.

When the shit hits the fan (as it inevitably does from time to time), who is to held accountable and responsible? I know who I go to, and importantly, so does everyone else.

The Trustees as they are legally resposible and are named.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
The Trustees as they are legally resposible and are named.

Yup, I think that's what Doc Tor meant by plausible deniability.

The people exercising "apostolic authority" have the power (for instance, to appoint elders who, in an ideal NF world, appoint the trustees) but on paper, absolutely none of the actual liability.
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
Why has no-one used the phrase "suck it and see" yet?
[Biased]

Would you by any chance know by what means the new apostles were recognised?
Hi Drew I only know what's in the mags etc - no insider knowledge I'm afraid.
Leaving aside tussles about the terminology etc it feels, from where I'm sitting, a bit like we have three big diocese(s?) in the UK with a number of suffregans on the ground with local churches (on the whole - I don't know about Ramaruius situ pace Gamaliel) carrying on as normal. I'm wondering whether an Archbishop will emerge or we will develop into seperate but relating juristicions.

Delightfully put. If you wanted to find out how the 'sphere leaders' were identified, how might this be done?
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
I'd just like to say that anyone making enquiries in this direction as a current member of NF should be aware that, in my opinion, asking this kind of question comes with a health warning attached.
 
Posted by FreeJack (# 10612) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
The Trustees as they are legally resposible and are named.

Yup, I think that's what Doc Tor meant by plausible deniability.

The people exercising "apostolic authority" have the power (for instance, to appoint elders who, in an ideal NF world, appoint the trustees) but on paper, absolutely none of the actual liability.

There is a shadow director / trustee problem. If there are people who hold trustee-like powers then they are legally liable as are the weak trustees that let them do it. The High Court and Charity Commission could hold them responsible, if they could find them!
 
Posted by FreeJack (# 10612) on :
 
The accounts list:

NON-EXECUTIVE DIRECTORS

Martin Eaton CMG
Charles Glass
Robert Gwynn
Peter Jarvis
Michael Kent
Geoff Knott

EXECUTIVE DIRECTORS

Ross Bull CA
David Devenish
David Stroud
Terry Virgo

APOSTOLIC CORE TEAMS
Executive directors together with

Colin Baron
Steven Blaber
David Holden
Andrew Martin
Guy Miller
Nigel Ring
Jeremy Simpkins
Steven Tibbert

Charity Commission NFI
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by the long ranger:
For once I agree with Mark Betts. Finally a post of his worth reading.

Mentioning NF in the same breath as groups like the JWs is pretty offensive (to both, actually).

I had better just add that I don't hate Jehovah's witnesses - I just think they are very wrong in their theology.
Faith communities with radically different theologies overall may nevertheless have similarities over the way they are governed. Of course governance is itself an issue of theology, but it is not the whole thing.

Here is a link to various different styles of ecclesiastical polity. And there is an interesting link to the JW structure.

I think the JW structure is clearly top-down theocratic, as is NF. In neither case do I believe that the application of the structure really helps foster servant leadership in practice. Servant leadership is IMO orthodox (whether practised within hierarchical networks or at congregational level.) For me the issue is always the way "top down" works. Controlling, or servant.

That's what I was trying to say; the shorthand was way too short and I apologise for causing confusion. If critiquing styles of governance and seeing similarities thereby is offensive, I plead guilty to being offensive. I don't like top-down non-servant leadership. I don't think Jesus did.

YMMV.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by FreeJack:
If there are people who hold trustee-like powers then they are legally liable as are the weak trustees that let them do it. The High Court and Charity Commission could hold them responsible, if they could find them!

I think it would be hard to prove.

NF would just say that the church is informally linked to them and that they serve the church on a consultancy basis. There would be nothing on paper anywhere to prove the contrary.
 
Posted by the long ranger (# 17109) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Barnabas62:

That's what I was trying to say; the shorthand was way too short and I apologise for causing confusion. If critiquing styles of governance and seeing similarities thereby is offensive, I plead guilty to being offensive. I don't like top-down non-servant leadership. I don't think Jesus did.

YMMV.

Mmm. I suspect that is really just a matter of perception, most churches are top-down in one way or another. Something being 'non-servant' depends on your understanding of the term servant and this whole 'Jesus wouldn't like this so nor do I' mode of discussion is belittling and silly.

And even where structures are not top down human nature wins out. Who was it that talked about replacing the Pope in Rome with one in every congregation?

I don't think there is so much unhealthy in the NF setup. That they're much too precious about it is certainly true, but at the end of the day it works, so stop knocking it.
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
Why has no-one used the phrase "suck it and see" yet?
[Biased]

Would you by any chance know by what means the new apostles were recognised?
Hi Drew I only know what's in the mags etc - no insider knowledge I'm afraid.
Leaving aside tussles about the terminology etc it feels, from where I'm sitting, a bit like we have three big diocese(s?) in the UK with a number of suffregans on the ground with local churches (on the whole - I don't know about Ramaruius situ pace Gamaliel) carrying on as normal. I'm wondering whether an Archbishop will emerge or we will develop into seperate but relating juristicions.

A fundamental difference between an NF 'sphere' and an Anglican or Catholic diosis is the number of churches in that geographical area. Nationally, the NF footprint is tiny. Outside of concentrations of churches in the South East, we have widely dispersed small churches, and a number of church plants, some of which haven't grown for four or more years. We should seriously think about closing some of these down and encouraging members to invest their energies in building the kingdom through other Christian communities who are reaching people with no faith.

Maybe it's time we applied the mantra "We can do more together than we can do apart" to the body of Christ more generally, rather than NF in particular.
 
Posted by Niteowl2 (# 15841) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by the long ranger:

I don't think there is so much unhealthy in the NF setup. That they're much too precious about it is certainly true, but at the end of the day it works, so stop knocking it.

Some of us have seen far too much damage done by churches/organizations that are run the NF is. There is far too much room for abuse and there have been other threads that have contained detailed layouts to go into those here.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
Eutychus will be along shortly, no doubt. There are two things that save top down processes from abuse.

a) leadership humility

b) obeying Jesus 'not so among you' instruction to his disciples re leaders lording it over the led.

That's what servant leadership is about, according to the Jesus of the gospels. I'm sure it's found at local congregational level in many JW and NF congregations. That's not my point.

Both groups have been criticised for 'heavy shepherding'. There are human casualties out there. I've met some of them. It's not silly to point to the example and teaching of the Jesus of the gospels and observe 'your structures could do with some overt checks and balances. Maybe also some moves by existing leaders to modify the prevailing ethos.'

But I guess I've been guilty of shorthand again. None of this is rocket science but the principles are important in any consideration of the way the 'apostolic' dimension works in practice. There is an accountability to the governed to be considered.

[ 14. June 2012, 08:43: Message edited by: Barnabas62 ]
 
Posted by Niteowl2 (# 15841) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Barnabas62:
Eutychus will be along shortly, no doubt. There are two things that save top down processes from abuse.

a) leadership humility

b) obeying Jesus 'not so among you' instruction to his disciples re leaders lording it over the led.

That's what servant leadership is about, according to the Jesus of the gospels. I'm sure it's found at local congregational level in many JW and NF congregations. That's not my point.

Both groups have been criticised for 'heavy shepherding'. There are human casualties out there. I've met some of them. It's not silly to point to the example and teaching of the Jesus of the gospels and observe 'your structures could do with some overt checks and balances. Maybe also some moves by existing leaders to modify the prevailing ethos.'

But I guess I've been guilty of shorthand again. None of this is rocket science but the principles are important in any consideration of the way the 'apostolic' dimension works in practice. There is an accountability to the governed to be considered.

The problems I've encountered have been in churches/organizations where top down leadership was started with the best of intentions, but without checks and balances human nature tends to override best intentions. In those cases the words sound right, but authority is used as bat on those who don't go along with the program. The institutions where I've seen checks and balances instituted top down leadership worked - but no one person was over all with unlimited authority and the people at the bottom were not shut out of decision making processes.

Coding

[ 14. June 2012, 09:04: Message edited by: Niteowl2 ]
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
@ the long ranger

There are certainly some here who for legit reasons are very against NF simply because they had a horrid time or have known someone close to them that got burnt from NF. I wouldn't want to devalue their opinions and experiences and would recognise many of the problems NF have and the concerns individuals have expressed about these.

But I do think NF have a lot going for them. I would reject any definitive labels of NF being 'cultish' and having a spirit of heavy shepherding. That simply was not my experience nor is it the experience of my friends and family who continue to worship in NF churches.

I would also add that I have a huge amount of respect for many of the leaders within NF. I have been in various circles with a number of them and see them as Godly people. They are human though and I have also seen how they have hurt some through their direct and indirect actions. They'll have to give account to their creator for this just like each of us will have to for our own actions.

Lastly the set of challenges and problems NF have about their leadership structure, those that will arise are no greater or no worse than the challenges any other church family face. Anglicans are always faced with having a split communion over the (what seems) same issues, Baptists face challenges of their own future and so on.

My thoughts on NF are that they are a growing church family and have been for the last 35 years. I can't see them splintering and then fading away. Too much has been invested to let that happen. Besides there are still a lot of good Godly people within that want to see God's church grow.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
Polly

What are the checks and balances in NF church polity?

Plus this from the (admittedly disputed) Wiki article.

quote:
Criticism

Some critics believe that Newfrontiers and other British restorationists are claiming too much when they speak of "restoring the church."

In 1986, sociologist and church historian Andrew Walker wrote of Newfrontiers that "churches are far more centralised and controlled than those of (...) mainline charismatic fellowships... The situation seems slightly analogous to Japanese business practices: they… export with great success, but import virtually nothing from anybody else".

In April 2009, the Journal of Beliefs and Values published an article reporting on a 2007 study which "set out to examine the psychological type profile of Lead Elders within the Newfrontiers network of churches in the United Kingdom and to compare this profile with the established profile of clergymen in the Church of England". One of the conclusions is as follows:

"There is a toughness about this style of leadership that is unlikely to be distracted by opposition. The disadvantage is that this style of leadership can leave some individuals hurt and marginalised for what is seen by the leadership as the overall benefit to the organisation"

These kinds of published criticism are more than just anecdotal observations.

As a matter of fact, I count myself fortunate to have as friends two folks in leadership within NF, both of whom I respect highly. Both congregations are doing well. I also suspect that both of them (and their wives) will prove to be good change agents within NF. I can, and do, talk to them about this stuff, but as a concerned friend, not as an adversarial critic.

It is possible to criticise structural weaknesses, and their potential dangers, without rancour and with some justification.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
@Barnabas62

I'd agree with your concerns. But the checks and balances are the same (or are assumed at NF ground level) as any other church family.The questions about if someone feels their Elder has wronged them and the regional .... (Apostle, Minister, Bishop etc) does neither see it or agrees with the individual occurs in any church family.

Other than that I couldn't say. We only have examples of when things go wrong and situations go horribly wrong and not when things have been resolved and some sort of reconciliation has been worked out.

The Walker article contains information I have read previously and yes it highlights concerns. In context NF had to learn to be robust because they go a lot of flack and had some nasty things said to them and about them from mainstream church whilst they tried to establish themselves as church. It doesn't excuse their bad behaviour but does give some insight to how internal problems arose.

I would say that NF have mellowed considerably since the 1980's but obviously the concerns expressed on this thread and others have not gone away.

The relationship you have with your NF friends is similar to the one I have with family and friends. It is one I think is more helpful to model rather than rejecting NF altogether. I continue to maintain that for all their faults and weaknesses that NF have a lot to offer and share with the wider church.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
I was thinking about PCCs, church meetings, Baptist and other nonconformist constitutions, synods with laity representation.

Of course, all of them have their faults, all of them can be subverted by the powerful. I just think they can all give pause for thought to those tempted to get too big for their boots.

Also, I heard some interesting teaching from Bill Hybels about Willow Creek a couple of years ago. In which he openly admitted that their model of governance had been far too top down, often ineffective as a result, because they had not thought sufficiently about feedback and listening, and the dangers of the star chamber.

As a result, they have introduced consultative processes. Visions are not just cast as words from on high. There is a recognition that the foot-soldiers may well have more to say than has been realised. Feedback may actually improve the outworking - or may even lead to the vision being shelved as requiring more discerning work. Bill observed that things may take longer that way, but that may be no bad thing.

That's leadership humility in practice. It doesn't show weakness and lack of conviction. It shows meekness and a greater conviction about folks hearing from God.

I thought it was pretty good stuff, well worth emulating. Once a leadership starts listening again, and models the value of listening again, there's no telling what suppressed truths they might hear. The mission and the pastoral always overlap.
 
Posted by Doc Tor (# 9748) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
They'll have to give account to their creator for this just like each of us will have to for our own actions.

Yes, yes they will.

However, in any secular or religious structure, "I answer only to God" (which is effectively what you've just said) is a tyrant's licence. They can use that licence for good or ill, and most likely both at the same time.

Leaders should be accountable to the people they lead, and able to be censured or removed by them.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Doc Tor:
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
They'll have to give account to their creator for this just like each of us will have to for our own actions.

Yes, yes they will.

However, in any secular or religious structure, "I answer only to God" (which is effectively what you've just said) is a tyrant's licence. They can use that licence for good or ill, and most likely both at the same time.

Leaders should be accountable to the people they lead, and able to be censured or removed by them.

Have no disagreement with what you say but you are reading into my statement something that is not there.

I was stating the obvious, acknowledging that we all have to give account. It's a frightening reality not an excuse to be accountable to others.

I see no consistent abuse within NF or systematic heavy shepherding. This doesn't mean that it has not happened or further cases will arise worrying as it is. I trust my experience within NF and I trust many friends and family who are still part of NF. Of course they have concerns but to suggest NF is a fundamentalist sect led by power mad individuals is far from actual reality despite what some may say on this forum.
 
Posted by Doc Tor (# 9748) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
I see no consistent abuse within NF or systematic heavy shepherding. This doesn't mean that it has not happened or further cases will arise worrying as it is. I trust my experience within NF and I trust many friends and family who are still part of NF. Of course they have concerns but to suggest NF is a fundamentalist sect led by power mad individuals is far from actual reality despite what some may say on this forum.

So, given that, what procedures are in place within NF to protect both the organisation and the individual congregations against the (inevitable, because we're human) abuse of power by a leader or leaders?
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Doc Tor:
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
I see no consistent abuse within NF or systematic heavy shepherding. This doesn't mean that it has not happened or further cases will arise worrying as it is. I trust my experience within NF and I trust many friends and family who are still part of NF. Of course they have concerns but to suggest NF is a fundamentalist sect led by power mad individuals is far from actual reality despite what some may say on this forum.

So, given that, what procedures are in place within NF to protect both the organisation and the individual congregations against the (inevitable, because we're human) abuse of power by a leader or leaders?
Other than what I have already stated (which I acknowledge is in very general terms) i would not know. As far as I know there is no secret agreement made between the 'select' few that "I'll cover your back and you cover mine".

One of the few times I have seen NF Apostles take disciplinary action is when my church went through a split. It was nasty and it affected everyone involved. I was working for my church at the time and the people causing the tensions left eventually. The 'Apostle' was David Holden and he acted with grace, humility and so much self control. A lesser being would have decked a few individuals!!
 
Posted by Doc Tor (# 9748) on :
 
I'm not particularly picking on NF. My former church (Anglican) had very similar problems since the vicar declared us "out of communion" with the diocesan. It meant (and still means) there is no one he answers to, except God, and effectively runs the church as I suspect an NF apostle would.

This is not to say that everything that happens there is bad. This isn't so by any stretch: but questioning the decisions (and hence the authority) of the vicar is a no-no. And it's one of the reasons we left.

Relying on ad-hoc unwritten rules for oversight and discipline is fine until it goes horribly wrong. No one would put up with a statement like "we don't allow child abuse in this church, so it's fine to leave your kids with us" - you need proper, written protocols as to what happens in the worst instance, and a Child Protection Officer in charge of the whole thing.

What it looks like NF have done is stick up a sign saying "we don't allow spiritual abuse in this church, so it's fine to be a member here". It's (and this is coming from an Anglican) just too woolly.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:

I see no consistent abuse within NF or systematic heavy shepherding. This doesn't mean that it has not happened or further cases will arise worrying as it is.

How consistent and systematic does it have to get before the structures and the rather easily manipulatable ecclesiology have to be looked at?

There's the case of Eutychus as well as the person he references, as well as a couple of more recent rumblings. What stops the same thing happening again? Nothing.

Institutionally they seem incapable of accepting their fallibility - even as individually it serves as an easy excuse.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:

I see no consistent abuse within NF or systematic heavy shepherding. This doesn't mean that it has not happened or further cases will arise worrying as it is.

How consistent and systematic does it have to get before the structures and the rather easily manipulatable ecclesiology have to be looked at?

There's the case of Eutychus as well as the person he references, as well as a couple of more recent rumblings. What stops the same thing happening again? Nothing.

Institutionally they seem incapable of accepting their fallibility - even as individually it serves as an easy excuse.

I know an equal amount of people who have left the Baptist Church for similar reasons to being mentioned on this thread. Does that mean the whole Baptist system is crooked?
The same goes for people I know who have left Anglican churches. Are they dodgy too?

There can't be one rule for one church family and another for others.
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
That may be Polly, but you have to wonder why every thread about NF always deteriorates into this exact same argument; where as threads about the Baptist or Anglican church and their leadership, etc. don't? How many threads have we had on the newest bishop for any given church that doesn't wind up like this one?

Pretty much every discussion I've seen of NF on various on-line boards ends up this way... except for NF boards of course. [Biased]

Despite your insistence, I'm convinced that NF is far more dysfunctional than most other denominations.

YMMV
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
The difference is that in the denominations you mention there are recognised procedures for dealiing with disputes and at the worst, you can complain that those procedures weren't observed.

I think NF is structured in a fundamentally dishonest way inasmuch as there is a complete disconnect between the way one assumes differences might be handled ("assumed" because you really don't have any idea apart from touchy-feely statements about "family", "not a denomination" and "all friends together") and the way they not infrequently actually turn out.

[ETA: the "appointment" of these "new apostolic spheres" is just another example of the way things are done with no clear procedures, leaving people fill in the blanks with their own assumptions, which may be completely erroneous]

[ 14. June 2012, 19:33: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
@Irish_Lord99

I realise that I'll never change minds like yours. That's ok and I don't try. I would say your response is flawed simply because if a ton of folk from from NF church suddenly appeared on this forum and posted on these thread their opinions would outweigh those negative opinions.

I post on these threads simply to say that there are voices that speak of a more positive experience of NF but can also acknowledge the problems within NF. I moved in similar circles and similar times to Euytchus (sorry to use you as example again [Smile] ) but had a good time in NF despite my church going through a split.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
The difference is that in the denominations you mention there are recognised procedures for dealiing with disputes and at the worst, you can complain that those procedures weren't observed.

I think NF is structured in a fundamentally dishonest way inasmuch as there is a complete disconnect between the way one assumes differences might be handled ("assumed" because you really don't have any idea apart from touchy-feely statements about "family", "not a denomination" and "all friends together") and the way they not infrequently actually turn out.

[ETA: the "appointment" of these "new apostolic spheres" is just another example of the way things are done with no clear procedures, leaving people fill in the blanks with their own assumptions, which may be completely erroneous]

With other denominations I agree they have a better theoretical and clearer procedure when things go wrong. In reality and practice this hugely differs depending on who you are dealing with. The examples I know where people have left due to similar things we have been discussing would testify to this.

i'd disagree with your comment "fundamentally flawed" but then again I think you know that.
[Big Grin]
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
I'm sorry, let me put that another way.

In NF one is systematically encouraged to trust leaders on the basis that they are godly men and that dissent and lack of respect for authority are cancers that will eat away at a restored church (this is why NF is supposed to be so much better than denominations).

Members basically waive any entitlement to disagree or due process and instead grant their unconditional trust to their leaders, on the assumption (fostered by lots and lots and lots of talk about relationships) that any differences will be ironed out in a godly and relational manner.

As Polly will no doubt be quick to point out, it may be that godlier leaders will honour this moral commitment.

But there's no avoiding the fact that if they choose not to, there is absolutely nothing to stand in their way, and no way to object. It's at that point that the "delegated authority" aspect of the teaching (whereby authority flows down from the apostlic top and not at all up from the base) suddenly takes on a more sinister aspect.

Of course you can up and leave, but doing so is much much more of a wrench than an outsider might imagine.

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[ 14. June 2012, 19:49: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
Let me try yet again and see if there are any more cross-posts...

I think the heart of what is wrong with NF is its view and practice of authority (and that the unanswered questions about how this new team got appointed are symptomatic of that).

Let me use a personal example, just scroll past if you're fed up with my war stories.

When, in an ambush, I got accused publicly by my two co-elders* of being Jezabellic (backed by the apostolic delegate), my immediate reaction was to ask the church to vote on my leadership. (NF we might have been, but we had kept our bylaws which I had always seen as a "break glass box" option if things went wrong, and recognising the pastor's mandate by a 2/3 vote was in them).

The two elders had already announced they were leaving if I did not step down, so I didn't feel this was forcing a split. I felt it was as neutral a way as could be imagined (in the circumstances) of allowing the church to have a say in who should be leading it. In other words, I was making myself accountable to the people I was serving.

It wasn't until after I had made this suggestion (which was never implemented, basically due to the other side resorting to spiritual blackmail along the lines of "it's worldly to vote") that I realised that while there was a procedure in place for the congregation to remove me as the pastor (put there by me in our pre-NF days!) there was no procedure in place to remove the other two elders (post-NF appointees). As long as they had the blessing of the "apostle" who was "over them", all they had to do was sit tight.

They clearly didn't feel accountable to the church in the way I did. This was proved beyond doubt when a few months after I had left, they left in turn following further fallings-out. They and their "apostle" basically trashed the church and then left it for dead.

I don't think that view of authority is very common in the other groups Polly mentions.

==
*In the interests of proper disclosure both of these elders have apologised to me, over seven years on, and acknowledged what they did was wrong. One of them is no longer an NF elder. Other more senior figures in NF also apologised, but Terry has yet to do so, despite being fully aware of the events at the time and the subsequent measure of resolution and despite being approached by one of his lieutenants for this purpose.
 
Posted by Polly (# 1107) on :
 
quote:
In NF one is systematically encouraged to trust leaders on the basis that they are godly men and that dissent and lack of respect for authority are cancers that will eat away at a restored church (this is why NF is supposed to be so much better than denominations).


That's no different from being in the Baptist Church where I am now. I think you are suggesting that in NF people are encouraged to do this almost blindly and no matter what but that was never my experience, nor my family who still worship within NF churches or many of my good friends.

NB I'd fully agree that they are being pedantic about insisting they are not a denomination. Of course they are!I use the phrase 'Church family' for any denomination because that's my preference.

quote:
Members basically waive any entitlement to disagree or due process and instead grant their unconditional trust to their leaders, on the assumption (fostered by lots and lots and lots of talk about relationships) that any differences will be ironed out in a godly and relational manner.
No they don't. I didn't do any "waiving" nor have my family and friends and none of these have been asked to give unconditional trust.

This doesn't mean that I never considered any of the NF leaders as someone I wouldn't want to cross. I was wary of a few but I found most NF leaders and Apostles what I expected them to be like Biblically speaking.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
I didn't do any "waiving" nor have my family and friends and none of these have been asked to give unconditional trust.

I'm not suggesting anybody asked them to do it or that anybody signed anything.

What I am arguing is that by accepting an absence of any due process, coupled with the subtle but real teaching on top-down authority (as played out in extreme fashion in my story), members are in effect granting their trust in this way.

If you doubt that, how do you account for one of the members of the current apostolic team complaining that if he asked Terry for explanations of NF finances, the latter's response was to act all hurt and say that the questioner didn't trust him? If you challenge those in control, you are accused of a lack of trust.

Of course there may be exceptions to this (I like to think I was one [Angel] ), but it's in the culture and as I think I have demonstrated, it goes all the way to the top. Which, until there is any clear evidence to the contrary, is still Terry, "leader of NewFrontiers".
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
I'm sorry, let me put that another way.

In NF one is systematically encouraged to trust leaders on the basis that they are godly men and that dissent and lack of respect for authority are cancers that will eat away at a restored church (this is why NF is supposed to be so much better than denominations).

Members basically waive any entitlement to disagree or due process and instead grant their unconditional trust to their leaders, on the assumption (fostered by lots and lots and lots of talk about relationships) that any differences will be ironed out in a godly and relational manner.
]

Which sums up the issue most succinctly. I have had three very specific conversations with three (quite senior) NF leaders about ungodly behaviour in one of their leaders. This behaviour is characterised by bullying, intimidation, and open unforgiveness. Despite agreeing with my assessment of the behaviour, I was advised that unless the relevant regional leader saw fit to act there was nothing to be done. The church, interestingly enough, took a similar view. Some went further and suggested that if the regional leader took no action, then surely nothing could be wrong. I somehow doubt the same view would be taken about managers in their workplaces.

Now Ramarius may tell us that these behaviours are more common in older leaders, and a more enlightened band, from a new generation, have a more sensible way of conducting themselves. But I wonder if the deeper underlying issue is that, having set itself up (over against other churches) as the true model of NT Christianity, NF finds it difficult to address poor behaviour in its leaders. Would this so undermine their credibility as to render the position of some of them untenable.
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
@Barnabas. Might I ask, when you discuss these matters with your NF friends, how do they respond? Do they give you some assurance that such matters are, however quitely, addressed, or leave you with the impression that nothing much can be done?
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
Sorry, but I don't feel free to say any more without presuming on friendships which matter to me.
 
Posted by Niteowl2 (# 15841) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Polly:
quote:
In NF one is systematically encouraged to trust leaders on the basis that they are godly men and that dissent and lack of respect for authority are cancers that will eat away at a restored church (this is why NF is supposed to be so much better than denominations).


That's no different from being in the Baptist Church where I am now. I think you are suggesting that in NF people are encouraged to do this almost blindly and no matter what but that was never my experience, nor my family who still worship within NF churches or many of my good friends.

NB I'd fully agree that they are being pedantic about insisting they are not a denomination. Of course they are!I use the phrase 'Church family' for any denomination because that's my preference.

But is there the equivalent of a board of elders that individual members can appeal to in the event there is abuse by local leaders or apostles? I've seen both sides of this and where there was a board of elders that members could appeal to the few bad apples were found out and given the opportunity of repentance or were stripped of their leadership. I saw a national leader stripped of his leadership when systematic abuse was proven after investigation. I've also seen what can happen when either there is no appeal for members outside the local leadership or decisions come down to just one person. The resulting damage to those who were a part of that ministry was phenomenal. The viewpoint that dissent from leadership is rebellion and sin can lead to abuse as human nature is prone that way - even when those people are good Christian folk.
 
Posted by Doc Tor (# 9748) on :
 
Also, from what I understand of Baptist governance (at least, my brother the Baptist minister was kvetching about it), the congregation hires and fires the staff, including the minister. All important decisions can be put to a vote of the membership. They can, and do, strike down things they don't like.

It means that things tend to take a long time to do, but as a check on the power of the leader, it's quite impressive.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Doc Tor:

It means that things tend to take a long time to do, but as a check on the power of the leader, it's quite impressive.

Yes, I was going to reply to the post by Polly pointing out that the vast majority of these Apostles probably never had to face a Business Meeting (in the Baptist sense)
 
Posted by quantpole (# 8401) on :
 
That's right DocTor. It doesn't mean you don't necessarily have power plays and the like but at least the basic principle is there. The difference with NF appears to be that they don't even have any principles of how to deal with issues, beyond the authority of the 'apostles'.

NF are not alone in these sort of issues. My in-laws go to an independent church where there is no accountability of the leadership to the congregation. All matters of spiritual direction, employment, remuneration etc are by the leadership. They don't disclose how much the ministers get paid. The senior pastor hired a new minister without consulting with anyone! This is probably worse than what happens in NF, and it all stinks....but....the church does really good work. I couldn't stand that sort of place, but the people going don't seem to care.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
I suppose life is so much more convenient when you don't have to bother about divergent views. Just posted something very like this in a thread in DH, and I've said it before, but folks tend to make compassionate allowance for the elderly repeating themselves. So here goes.

The Spirit of God is the author of conviction and correction; human beings tend to do rather less well. On this issue, as on many others, I'm reminded of a bit of wisdom from the late Frank Herbert in the "Dune" series.

"If you seek to put away from you those who wish to tell you the truth, those who remain will know what you want to hear. I can think of nothing more poisonous than to rot in the stink of your own reflections". Something like that anyway, can't find the source pro tem.

And that's a sword which cuts both ways. For both "governors" and the "governed".
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
quote:
Mmm. I suspect that is really just a matter of perception, most churches are top-down in one way or another. Something being 'non-servant' depends on your understanding of the term servant and this whole 'Jesus wouldn't like this so nor do I' mode of discussion is belittling and silly.

And even where structures are not top down human nature wins out. Who was it that talked about replacing the Pope in Rome with one in every congregation?

I don't think there is so much unhealthy in the NF setup. That they're much too precious about it is certainly true, but at the end of the day it works, so stop knocking it.

Well if following what Jesus said is silly we might as well all pack up and switch off the lights !

A few points [Smile]
1) Most church structures are 'wrong' in so much that they aren't what St Paul was talking about. He was talking to HOUSE churches of around 20 people. NF are NOT restoring the NT church - they are at best restoring elements of the 4th century church as are most denominations. The difference with NF is that the whole basis of Restorationalism is that they are the only correct God ordained way of doing things and that's why you can't criticize it. They are historically wrong in this belief but attempt to use scripture to justify authoritarianism. When scripture is put in its correct historical context of house churches, its clear that they have no justification for their hierarchy at all. When do we see one apostle put in charge of the church by Jesus - WE DON'T ! I wonder why !

2) They allow no other opinions other than the approved party line which is pretty tight. How about I come and preach a sermon on why tithing is legalistic rubbish. Anyone in NF want to invite me ? Are you free to do so or are you looking over your shoulder.

3)NF are anything but clear about their finances. How much does Terry Virgo earn ? I can look up the heads of other denominations. Why not NF ? I am not accusing him of anything other than nativity. I actually think he is a very nice chap. However history is full of nice sincere Christians who get it wrong and do damage inadvertently to others.

4)Jesus told his followers not to lord it over each other like the gentiles. How exactly isn't NF lording over the flock when they preach tithing, demand almost unquestioning allegiance to leaders, and have no formal system for holding leaders to account. This is lording it over the flock plain and simple. It is SPIRITUAL ABUSE and relies on a warped interpretation of scripture to maintain the hold they have over members. [Smile]

There are plenty of people hurt by this denomination some of whom are no longer Christians. NF should stop being in total denial of what abuse is going on. They should open themselves up to proper open debate instead of constant double speak and self denial to keep the hierarchy happy.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Opps I'm not accusing Terry Virgo of nativity. I'm sure he is a great guy but he's not that good !
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
Two things...
  1. quote:
    Originally posted by Arminian:
    When do we see one apostle put in charge of the church by Jesus - WE DON'T ! I wonder why !

    What about St Peter?
  2. quote:
    ...It is SPIRITUAL ABUSE and relies on a warped interpretation of scripture to maintain the hold they have over members. [Smile]
    Not being funny, but if it were true, why the smiley?

 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
On Niteowl's point about boards of elders. Yes, NF churches have them. In the case I mentioned above, some churches members approached the elders to query the leader's behaviour. They were told a) he's the church leader (as if that somehow self-authenticated his decisions) and b) they 'had to trust their leaders.'

This is, I think, precisely the sort of evidence that supports Eutychus's observations.

What we need to remember here is that the behaviours described by Eutychus, Irish Lord, Aminian and myself all took place in different NF churches in different parts of this country and other countries. This suggests to me the issue is more cultural than individual.

Having said that I must say with Polly and Barnabas that there are many fine believers in NF. It is very much to Twangist's credit, for example, that he participates in these discussions.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
It all depends on perspective and from wherever your viewpoint or standpoint happens to be. Seen from a vantage point among the evangelical Anglicans or the Baptists, NFI can be seen as something of a mixed blessing - and the sad thing is that SOME Anglicans and Baptists actually WANT something like NFI.

There's an element of NFI-envy around in some charismatic circles in the older churches and denominations just as there is (or used to be) and element of Vineyard-envy).

It looks good from the outside ...

Conversely, from the standpoint of some of the independent charismatic groups and particularly those with a word-faith or more US-influenced ethos, NFI looks like the very model of sanity and decorum. I've come across quite a few people from very, very dysfunctional charismatic backgrounds who found NFI as, quite literally, a godsend as their own outfits went belly-up ...

I'm ambivalent about NFI myself. I've got a lot of time for some of the individuals there but you'd have to drag me kicking and screaming to be involved with anything remotely like it these days.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Sorry about the smiley, got put in the wrong place ! Should have check the post better.

St Peter - was he really head of the church ? James made the decisions when the dispute with Paul took place. Paul and Peter had a row. I don't think it can be said that one was in overall charge in the way Terry Virgo is in charge of NF.

So how much does Terry Virgo earn ? Simple enough question for those who are in NF to answer. If its all friends together why the silence ?
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
So how much does Terry Virgo earn ? Simple enough question for those who are in NF to answer. If its all friends together why the silence ?

There is some (rather dated) digging here. This does not tell the whole story since it does not include ministry-related gifts, travel, hospitality and so on.

Like I say there, my main gripe about this is less the amount than the fact that (at least at that time, I haven't bothered to look since)
quote:
it would seem that a casual reading of NewFrontiers' accounts does not enable the reader to establish the level of earnings of its leader
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[ 15. June 2012, 19:48: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
St Peter - was he really head of the church?

There's a lot of talk about who's head of the Church, but ultimately this is Jesus. Nevertheless, Peter was given the keys to heaven. My understanding is that Peter is the first among equals (the Apostles) - because all eleven remaining disciples were charged with the Great Commission.
quote:
I don't think it can be said that one was in overall charge in the way Terry Virgo is in charge of NF.
But I'm sure Terry has never said he is head of the Church, just the founder of NF.

quote:
So how much does Terry Virgo earn?
How much do you earn? Why is it so important for us to know?
 
Posted by FreeJack (# 10612) on :
 
Because it is a requirement of company and charity law to disclose payments to trustees and directors.

CCK / NFI get round this because TV is officially a Director of NFI not CCK/Clarendon, and only an Elder/Leader and not a trustee of CCK/Clarendon, which is reimbursed for TV's salary and expenses by NFI. They deny that one body runs the other, or that TV is in effective control at CCK. Does anyone actually believe that?

One of these days I will ask the Charity Commission and ICAEW to investigate the auditor that signs that off! That's where the buck really lies imnsvho.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
But I'm sure Terry has never said he is head of the Church, just the founder of NF.

Terry presents himself as the leader of an apostlic movement dedicated to the restoration of New Testament christianity. As discussed ad nauseam here before, restorationist churches claim (or claimed) to be restoring a "definitive" christianity, not just creating another denomination.

They might not claim a monopoly, but they would certainly argue that their form of church government is inherently superior to any other.

Of course, when challenged they will put on another spin and claim to be just one among many different facets of the body of Christ, but I assure you this message outside the organisation is very different to the one inside.

With such serious claims should come equally serious accountabiltiy - but it doesn't.

Indeed, if lofty claims of this nature are no longer made, as argued on the 'Restorationism then and now' thread, NF and other restorationist outfits lose their entire raison d'être and their organisational rationale. Why go for all that heavy commitment when you can just nip down to New Wine every so often for a top-up of the Holy Spirit and then go back to the comfort of your MoR Anglican church?

quote:
How much do you earn? Why is it so important for us to know?
In addition to the excellent points made by FreeJack, I'd just like to say that throughout my tenure as a paid pastor, my payslips and expenses claims were available along with the rest of the accounts to any church member who asked to see them. I think this should be the rule, not the exception.

However, I can assure you that while this may be the case in individual NF churches, it is (or at least was) most certainly not the case if people ask to see the NF books, as related above.

To me this offers further demonstration of how NF leaders see accountability working - emphatically not towards the people they are supposed to be serving.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
You make NF sound like one of these Prosperity Gospel outfits, like Joyce Meyer - but I'm sure they're not like that. I think they just encourage tithing. If you object to that, why be a member?

As for their charitable status - it's really for the authorities to determine this isn't it?
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
There's an element of NFI-envy around in some charismatic circles in the older churches and denominations just as there is (or used to be) and element of Vineyard-envy).

It looks good from the outside ...

I think a lot of this is down to the perceived amount of energy in a lot of these churches - because they currently end up with a large number of young couples due to the way they are structured to evangelise.

I mean, at one point everyone wanted to be like Vineyard as you point out, and these days a lot of people in Vineyard want to be the NFI.

I suspect that like a lot of shorter lived movements, it'll turn out to be generational - especially as their current attendees think of church as cool.
 
Posted by Snags (# 15351) on :
 
Mark, it's not about the money, it's about transparency and accountability. That the leadership apparently obfuscate on matters that most other comparable organisations, secular or religious, do not is not generally a good indicator.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
You make NF sound like one of these Prosperity Gospel outfits, like Joyce Meyer - but I'm sure they're not like that. I think they just encourage tithing. If you object to that, why be a member?

They are not necessarily prosperity based, though some of those leaders tend that way. Like a lot of similar groups there is a lot of assumption of a certain set of middle class values.
 
Posted by Niteowl2 (# 15841) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
On Niteowl's point about boards of elders. Yes, NF churches have them. In the case I mentioned above, some churches members approached the elders to query the leader's behaviour. They were told a) he's the church leader (as if that somehow self-authenticated his decisions) and b) they 'had to trust their leaders.'

This is, I think, precisely the sort of evidence that supports Eutychus's observations.

What we need to remember here is that the behaviours described by Eutychus, Irish Lord, Aminian and myself all took place in different NF churches in different parts of this country and other countries. This suggests to me the issue is more cultural than individual.

Having said that I must say with Polly and Barnabas that there are many fine believers in NF. It is very much to Twangist's credit, for example, that he participates in these discussions.

I have no doubt that there are many fine leaders and individuals in the congregations of NF, but with the response you've said is given to those who appeal to the board of elders you have just the ripe conditions that have lead to abuse in every other ministry I've seen that takes that viewpoint. It is not good enough and does nothing to stem abuse in process.
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
Having said that I must say with Polly and Barnabas that there are many fine believers in NF. It is very much to Twangist's credit, for example, that he participates in these discussions.

I would agree with that as well, it's not as if i don't have good friends still attending NF or in leadership positions.

I suppose the reader can decide for him/herself if NF is more abusive than other denominations; I've no knowledge of statistics saying one way or the other (and even if I did, read my sig!).

The problem I see is that the potential for abuse is greater than in most denominations. Coming back around to the origins of this thread, it will be interesting to see if the new structure of NF will change this potential for abuse. So far, it doesn't feel like it's off to a good start to me; what with the incredible vagueness and opaqueness of the move etc.

It would be fairly simple for them to describe the establishment of the new 'spheres' and their leadership and give solid definitions of each of the leaders' roles (not to mention, name the leaders!): and yet they have chosen not to do that so far.

Maybe they're still getting organized?
 
Posted by Edward Green (# 46) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:

They might not claim a monopoly, but they would certainly argue that their form of church government is inherently superior to any other.

I suppose I could claim something similar for catholic order, however there is certainly room for questioning. How effectively does an Anglican Chapter work as a local gathering of Elders, what on earth have we done with the Diaconate, and how to Church Wardens & PCC's operate within this model as forms of lay eldership?

I would suggest that there is an apostolic model of Bishop's Priests and Deacons that is expressed imperfectly in a range of forms of Christianity, including RC, NF, CofE, Methodism, URC etc. However I work within Anglicanism because I see it as a valid and good expression of that ideal despite further work and renewal being needed.I am not sure NF would express it that way.

quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:


The problem I see is that the potential for abuse is greater than in most denominations.

There are two particular areas that can increase potential for abuse in NF. Strong Leadership and Charismatic Ministry. At times I exercise both, so it really is about the accountability structures that are in place and the culture of the community.

[ 16. June 2012, 10:27: Message edited by: Edward Green ]
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
quote:
How much do you earn? Why is it so important for us to know?

Er, because I'm not standing up the front of a church telling you to give me 10% of your income, and that people who refused to give in the bible came under a curse, and also refusing to disclose clearly what I pay myself.

Of course NF will never tell anyone that the tithe was only on food producers, wasn't 10% but nearer 23%, that Levites couldn't own property, that tithes were only paid in food contributions not money, and that two of the three tithes didn't go to the priests at all. They will just keep quoting the text from Malachi out of context to justify bringing a local tithe to them (the scripture really refers to the tithe given to the poor kept in local storehouses not the tithe given to Levites). Our local NF church got tithes of many people, but the food bank located in the church had to pay them rent. If they stuck to the OT biblical principle they should have paid the food bank not the other way round !

The early church put up no buildings, had no one leader, never claimed the right to a tithe, didn't have professional paid orators up the front, and met in each others houses in small groups. NF are not in anyway restoring the NT church - but they are using the claim that they are to justify what in my opinion is an abusive system with the potential to have cult like overtones. Trying to use God as a justification for your system that just happens to benefit your own wallet, when no such justification exists in the Bible is wrong. Its SIN!

If you think this doesn't matter consider the case of friend of my wife's in the early 80's who was so scared that she had 'robbed God' by not paying her tithe, she was actually having to go round to others houses to find food to eat because she couldn't afford to tithe and buy food when made redundant. Is this the sort of result you want by telling people not to question NF ? More ABUSE !

Why should I give money to a church who can't tell us how much its leader earns ? It looks sinister. It may not be, but it looks it.
 
Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Edward Green:
How effectively does an Anglican Chapter work as a local gathering of Elders, what on earth have we done with the Diaconate, and how to Church Wardens & PCC's operate within this model as forms of lay eldership?

Well, there is a rather Protestant view of Anglican polity that sees church wardens and PCC members as the local church eldership, something like New Testament presbyters; various lay church workers as mapping on to the Biblical structure as deacons; incumbents as equivalent to NT overseers or bishops (with ordained deacons as therefore a kind of assistant bishop - which is in fact what they seem to have been in the late first and second centuries); and our consecrated bishops as merely people appointed to some central bureaucratic or political job with no inherent distinction between their ordination and that of a parish priest. I think I have heard or read things like that argued (or at least hinted at) by some well-known charismatic-evangelical Anglicans. (As a mere Reader I couldn't possibly comment [Biased] )
 
Posted by Edward Green (# 46) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ken:
Well, there is a rather Protestant view of Anglican polity that sees church wardens and PCC members as the local church eldership, something like New Testament presbyters; various lay church workers as mapping on to the Biblical structure as deacons; incumbents as equivalent to NT overseers or bishops (with ordained deacons as therefore a kind of assistant bishop - which is in fact what they seem to have been in the late first and second centuries); and our consecrated bishops as merely people appointed to some central bureaucratic or political job with no inherent distinction between their ordination and that of a parish priest. I think I have heard or read things like that argued (or at least hinted at) by some well-known charismatic-evangelical Anglicans. (As a mere Reader I couldn't possibly comment [Biased] )

I can agree with an element of that, but would suggest a more fractal view. In that the Apostolic ministry of Bishops and Priests and Deacons is seen at a smaller scale in the Parish or Benefice. Our Church Wardens certainly act in an eldership capacity.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
The tithing thing isn't unique to NFI, of course, Arminian, it tends to be taught that way across a lot of independent charismatic evangelical fellowships ie. completely out of context ...

Andrew Walker drily observed in 'Restoring the Kingdom' that whilst a lot of the 'giving' stuff from 2 Corinthians was taught in the restorationist churches, he'd yet to hear any of the 'apostles' cite the apostle Paul's contention that although he might be entitled to financial support he was prepared to waive it and work in a 'secular' capacity instead in order not to be a burden on anyone ...

I'm sure there are plenty of tithe horror stories.

In our network, very similar in ethos to NFI, we also used to have a 'heap offering' at the annual Bible Weeks. I used to call them 'hype-offerings' as people were worked up in order to give large sums. One year a student friend put all his money into it and spent the rest of the year scrounging food off the rest of us in our shared student house ...

When I mentioned this to the 'apostles' (many years later) as indicative of a flawed system they shrugged it off and suggested that I was to blame for 'lack of faith' ... [Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
Ah yes, we had a young man here give his last 50cents in the offering basket. He had been unemployed and found a job the very next week, which of course was hailed as a triumph of faith as expressed through giving.

The inconvenient fact that his new employer worked him for three months without ever giving him a cent before he finally quit was quietly ignored.

Of course, shaky teaching concerning tithing has been around in Pentecostal circles for a long, long time; and are hardly unique to NF. In all fairness, I'd say that they actually buy into their own rhetoric concerning the whole matter: I don't think they preach this way just to get more cash in the offering plate.

The observed cognitive dissonance between expected and actual results might as well be added to the pile on top of prophetic words and certain beliefs about tongues.

It's foolishness, but within NF at least, I personally don't think it's malicious.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I'd second that. There's wishful thinking and naivety rather than maliciousness, I'd suggest.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I'd second that. There's wishful thinking and naivety rather than maliciousness, I'd suggest.

Up to a point. When I put these arguments against tithing to a pastor he couldn't refute them but carried on preaching it anyway. It does cause people to give out of guilt.

Anyone from NF want to invite speakers who will preach against tithing ?
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I'd second that. There's wishful thinking and naivety rather than maliciousness, I'd suggest.

Up to a point. When I put these arguments against tithing to a pastor he couldn't refute them but carried on preaching it anyway. It does cause people to give out of guilt.

Anyone from NF want to invite speakers who will preach against tithing ?

I agree with you, but you could say the same about almost anything they teach. I think it's fair to say that many NF branches can be bull-headed in the way they teach about tithing, but I don't think it's fair to say that they are doing so because they want to fleece the congregation like Benny Hinn or other prosperity kooks.
 
Posted by Twangist (# 16208) on :
 
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).

"Should you tithe net or gross? Well, do you want God to bless you net or gross?" or words to that effect from one of the NFI big wigs around these parts.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).

"Should you tithe net or gross? Well, do you want God to bless you net or gross?" or words to that effect from one of the NFI big wigs around these parts.
It's important to know exactly what he said. The quote makes him sound like some televangelist (such as Joyce Meyer), but then you add "...or words to that effect."
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).

I'm sure you didn't intend this, Twangist, but I think this epitomises the kind of cognitive dissonance so prevalent in NewFrontiers.

I have definitely heard tithing preached (and indeed I know one leader who would encourage people to give by standing order and quiz those who didn't to see whether they were tithing). On the other hand, it's remarkably difficult to find anything about it on NewFrontiers pages, and there's all that stuff about grace.

However, this page from GodFirst, P.J. Smythe's outfit in South Africa (part of NF) helps to show why: tithing is considered as not enough.

First, the "grace" part:

quote:
In the days before Christ came, God’s people related to God essentially by obeying laws to show their love and devotion to him. This included obeying laws related to giving such as tithes (giving 10% of gross income to the temple) and offerings (ad hoc gifts over and above the tithe).

But once Christ came, the law fell away and the New Testament thunders out that we now relate to God through his grace not our works – we no longer have to obey laws to please him because we have already been made 100% righteous by Jesus’ death.

It follows that:

quote:
grace raises the bar not lowers it: Grace, when understood, is way more powerful and effective in our lives than the law was
So here's the killer (my bold):

quote:
So, we see that giving less than 10% per month would be a declaration that the law is more powerful than grace – how tragic that would be!
And just in case you were in any doubt about the contemporary application of that;

quote:
we would like all members to be comfortable and consistent in the principle of the tithe - giving at least 10% of gross income to Godfirst
The really devilish thing is how a "grace" argument is used here to make people feel guilty if (as they believe) they are doing less than what the law requires.

[ 17. June 2012, 20:07: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
And before anyone protests that this is just some African thing, here's what the membership manual of ChristChurch London, described on the Wikipedia page on Newfrontiers as "one of the largest NewFrontiers churches in the UK" has to say on the topic (my bold):

quote:
In the Old Testament, Scripture speaks of giving the first tenth (or tithe) back to God, and the New Testament develops this with a generous attitude that assumes a tithe as a starting point for our giving.

At ChristChurch, our goal is to encourage everyone to give a tenth or more of our income to the work of God in the local church

Note also something that was general practice in NF in the UK at least during my time in the movement (churches got into trouble with the apostles if they weren't doing this):

quote:
In turn, ChristChurch gives a tithe of all our income to the work of Newfrontiers
One of my ongoing musings amid these "new apostolic spheres" is what is happening to that 10% now that NewFrontiers' operations (such as a central office) have been wound up, and who gets to decide that.
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).

So what * does* your church teach about giving? And when people ask the question 'should we tithe' what does the leadership of the church teach?
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Well I'm having a look through my NF Church Life course booklet. There are three pages on tithing. Makes a similar grace/law argument that Eutychus references.

Gives 6 reasons to tithe ! Here are some quotes (my counter arguments in brackets):


1) Tithing honors an old testament principle of how God provided for the ministers he called and the expenses of their ministry.

(Not applicable because they weren't ministers, and they couldn't earn a wage by owning property).

2) When we release a tenth of our income and give it over to the ministry and mission of Christ in the world, we honor the rights of Creator God who owns everything, including all our income.

(Sounds religious but Jesus said sell your possessions and give to the poor. St Paul supported himself through part time work ! He did not require a tithe to become the most active apostle in the early church !)

3) Giving away a tenth of our income to the mission and ministry of Christ is an antidote to covetousness.

(Where does it say this in the Bible ? I can't find it. The Pharisees gave a tenth, but were covetousness. Obviously it didn't work for them !)

4) The fourth reason for going to the tithe and beyond in our giving is that this is God's way of bringing about many good deeds for his glory. (Quotes Paul from 2 Cor 9, forgets to mention that Paul states in the passage giving shouldn't be under compulsion (which tithing is)! Fails to mention that the passage wasn't talking about giving to ministers, but poor believers.)

5) The fifth reason for giving the tithe and beyond is that it is God's way of providing you, the tither, sufficient money for your needs. (Goes on to Quote Malachi 3.10. Fails to mention that the tithe in Malachi is the tithe of food for the poor held in the local storehouse by food producers, hence the promise of rain to compensate them. It was not about tithing to Levites let alone ministers).

6)Finally in our giving we should press toward the tithe and beyond because it will prove and strengthen our faith in God promises. There is an absolute connection between faith in the promises of God and peace of mind in giving away what we may think we need but don't...

(Total rubbish. How many people got healed or helped by Jesus because they paid him ?)

... Malachi also sends a serious note concerning keeping back what is God's as he declares that this is in fact robbing God and may bring a curse upon the individual. (This is spiritual abuse in my book. Very dangerous stuff.)

... We must be very careful we do not turn our unconditional act of giving the first fruits which itself is an act of worship into an opportunity to donate money to our favorite causes.
(So again its the local church. No basis in scripture for this at all.)
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).

"Should you tithe net or gross? Well, do you want God to bless you net or gross?" or words to that effect from one of the NFI big wigs around these parts.
It's important to know exactly what he said. The quote makes him sound like some televangelist (such as Joyce Meyer), but then you add "...or words to that effect."
That is more or less what he said, the wording may have differed slightly but not a lot.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
Fails to mention that the passage wasn't talking about giving to ministers, but poor believers.

In fairness, as others have indicated, I don't think tithing in NF is particularly about the enrichment of ministers.

Of course, it depends what you think they should earn, if anything at all, but widespread practice in NF in my day was to peg full-time leaders' salaries to that of teachers in some way. I have stayed in Terry's former house in Hove and while it wasn't small, their lifestyle was not at all what I would call lavish.

I think "neo-tithing" of the kind described here is born more out of a conviction that christians should be giving a large part of their resources to the work of the restored church (ie NF) than something health-and-wealthy.

However, this (and the discouragement from giving to other recipients) illustrates their exclusivist message that NF is the church, not just one among many. And using a "grace" argument to coerce people into feeling obligated to give more than 10% (which may not be universal but of which evidence has been supplied above) is just insiduous.

<tangent/other thread topic>:

One of the enduring legacies of my departure from NF for me personally has been backing right off the whole "generous giving to my local church" argument. I don't take a salary from any form of ministry now and would hesistate to do so again, but trying to fund even basic operations of a church that doesn't have centuries' worth of assets without preaching some form of tithing is definitely a challenge.

</tangent>
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
I was going to tell my NF minister if he demanded a tithe he could have 10% of my vegetable plot but had to sell his house and car first.

I came to the conclusion I wasn't exactly eldership material in NF (probably not anywhere else to be fair !).

What I disliked was that you could never really discuss theology with them. If you didn't agree with the 'vision' (ie Terry Virgo's views on pretty much everything) you were 'not one of us' as far as leadership was concerned. However they'd never say it, just more unwritten rules.

NF seems to operate on two levels. The 'we're all happy and chummy mates' on the surface, and 'submit or leave' if you want influence or leadership positions. (Lead, follow or step aside as PJ Smythe puts it !).

Is this the Iron fist of Calvanism in a woolly glove of charismatic happy clappyness ?
 
Posted by Edward Green (# 46) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:

NF seems to operate on two levels. The 'we're all happy and chummy mates' on the surface, and 'submit or leave' if you want influence or leadership positions. (Lead, follow or step aside as PJ Smythe puts it !).

Is this the Iron fist of Calvanism in a woolly glove of charismatic happy clappyness ?

Neither. As a Priest I welcome disagreement and those who disagree onto our PCC's. I have heard other clergy say they have 'got rid of everyone who disagrees with them from the PCC' - even if said in jest it betrays an underlying attitude.

But then those second types of PCC's often seem to achieve more and sooner, rather than being bound up in debate and discussion, and that debate can in itself cause hurt and confusion. Which is the better path?
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Edward Green:
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:

NF seems to operate on two levels. The 'we're all happy and chummy mates' on the surface, and 'submit or leave' if you want influence or leadership positions. (Lead, follow or step aside as PJ Smythe puts it !).

Is this the Iron fist of Calvanism in a woolly glove of charismatic happy clappyness ?

Neither. As a Priest I welcome disagreement and those who disagree onto our PCC's. I have heard other clergy say they have 'got rid of everyone who disagrees with them from the PCC' - even if said in jest it betrays an underlying attitude.

But then those second types of PCC's often seem to achieve more and sooner, rather than being bound up in debate and discussion, and that debate can in itself cause hurt and confusion. Which is the better path?

I think there's a couple of dimensions to this. If leaders want to take decisions for which they are accountable, without taking account the views of others, that's fine as long as everyone knows the ground rules when you start. Churches are voluntary organisations and you can find out how things work before you join. If you don't like the leadership style, go somewhere else.

The problem is when leaders tell you decisions are made one way, when in fact they are made in another way.

The issue for me isn't so much whether leaders have the right to make decisions, as when they want to make decisions for which they are not accountable, exceed the bounds of their authority, or create a culture in which they themselves cannot be held to account for their behaviour.

The latter is my biggest concern about some NF churches. Ungodly behaviour doesn't become godly because you perpetrate it in your capacity as a leader.

Having said that I know of other NF churches where the leaders are almost paranoid about the need to avoid being controlling. They combine a clarity of leadership, with an openness to the Spirit, and strongly value their members. It's quite a feat if you can pull it off, but really this is the ideal we find in the New Testament.

I'm praying we see more of the latter in our churches and less of the former.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
[Overused]
 
Posted by Twangist (# 16208) on :
 
What R said
 
Posted by Twangist (# 16208) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).

So what * does* your church teach about giving? And when people ask the question 'should we tithe' what does the leadership of the church teach?
Church membership involves supporting the church with your prayers, your gifts (i.e. doing stuff, getting caught up in the rotas (old joke - "why is church like a helecopter? - becasue if you stand too close you get caught up in the rotas")) and your money.
Giving should involve faith, is connected to investing in the vision of the church and is part of your worship. (God owns everything anyway).
Joyless legalism (I've given my 10% cos that's want God wants) isn't encouraged!!
It's a 2 way thing as well - church funds have frequently been used to support members in financial need.
Our also church fincncialy supports local Xtian charities which aren't directly anything to with us or NF.
Our Lead Elder does ask people if they are regular givers if he is bringing them into some form of leadership (small groups, youth work etc) but he doesn't know the figures.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
I was part of a U.S. church that converted from non-denominational to NF. I think I can speak to the contrast between the two approaches.

It was not a decision that rose up from the people, it was something the pastor soft-sold as a new "circle of friends" approach (this "circle of friends" jargon became something of a mantra, people in the church were within months saying it almost by rote). Pastor sold it along the lines of the people somehow having more power as we took down our rigid denominationally-influenced mindsets and got back to the First Century basics; NF was "just this group seeking to restore the original", that would "help us with resources and prayer support". Not a denomination at all. We had no idea what was about to happen--and shamefully, we didn't do much research--until the conversion to NF was a fait accompli.

First thing pastor set up a small group of elders--not chosen by the congregation and supplanting any leadership that had gone before, there was simply an elder's meeting announced for the new team and any existing leaders were not invited. One fellow, 60 year old father of the church type, when he confronted pastor about what happened to his eldership, was only told "We're moving a new direction" and said something about the directive coming from regional NF headquarters. Many of the new elders were very young, 20-somethings, all married, some quite new believers, but they were balanced out by a few of the older set, 40-somethings, who we thought would temper youthful passions. But within months they were all to a man removed, so far as I know, just as with previous leadership, no one was ever given an explanation, just one day you weren't invited to the elder's meeting. I was one of those 40-somethings who was removed. At a number of elder's meetings I'd raised objections to the complete takeover of the church by the pastor and a shadowy group of people a continent away, I was confronted almost always as follows: "But don't you trust me?" I told pastor "I trust no man, not even myself". Not long after I was removed from leadership, if you could call it that.

So with checks and balances removed, pastor had a team of about half a dozen men with a median age of maybe 26, most new or newer Christians, eager "Yes men".

Pastor then took over finances. Very quietly removed a person who in his day job functioned as CEO of a large non-profit organization. Pastor had no financial training. I only found out about this changing of the guard when a very young elder, a few years out of his teens, let the scheme slip in a conversation. When I confronted pastor in private about it, he admitted that regional NF HQ told him all finances must be "laid at feet of the apostles" per Acts 4, that he alone would now make financial decisions and that, also per NF directive, he would henceforth start checking into donation rates of members, that he wouldn't consider as valid anyone's opinion or anyone for any form of leadership who didn't give at least 10% to the church. Much of the church funds--thousands--started going towards sponsoring the leadership team and their families, all expenses paid so far as I know, to the National Conferences in St. Louis, this happened twice in the short time (months) that I continued attending under NF leadership.

Pastor then asserted his power from the pulpit. Hebrews 13:17 and the twist NF gives it came up repeatedly in sermons. We were told from pulpit that not everyone's opinion is equally valid here, but that we needed to "come under authority"--another catch phrase, along with "circle of friends", that came up repeatedly. He exhorted the young men of the church to start "getting in the faces" of these strange people in their midst with their strange ideas that ran counter to this maxim (presumably those of us who'd raised questions before being removed from leadership or brought up issues with pastor in public or private). At times he seemed to be dancing around the sanctioning of violence, or at least white glove thuggery where you destroy one's reputation by innuendo, which repeatedly occurred from pulpit.

The contradictions from the pulpit became impossible to take after the NF transition. They'd say A one minute, then non-A the next, then back to A, then back to non-A, and so forth, the record by my reckoning was 6 or 7 back and forth doctrinal contradictions in the same sermon. Wife and I'd look around to see if anyone else had a furrowed brow at this, some of the middle aged set usually did, a few of the youngers, but most would look

One thing that seldom came from the pulpit once the NF transition was complete was the name "Jesus". Wife and I started keeping track, at one stretch I believe 5 weeks went by without a mention (save for in the NF praise songs, which generally are good).

People didn't leave easily, when one young friend tried, they ambushed him, pastor and the members of the elder's team, and threated, among other things, to tell the pastor at his new church what an unsubmissive and rebellious young man he was.

The halmarks of NF, as I saw it take over my church, were:

1). Trust your leaders, come under their authority, we are a Hebrews 13:17-only church!
2). ...But they're not really your leaders, even though they're telling you how you should worship, believe, what you should do with your money, and how you should live your personal life, they are but one among a benign circle of friends.
3). Don't mind my contradictions, don't mind the want of Jesus in the sermons, "Trust Me".
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
(old joke - "why is church like a helecopter? - because if you stand too close you get caught up in the rotas)

[Killing me] (a bit of light refreshment is much needed here!)
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
Welcome, CSL1. That all sounds sadly familiar and I think it shows what the likes of Ramarius and Twangist are up against.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
. I don't take a salary from any form of ministry now and would hesistate to do so again, but trying to fund even basic operations of a church that doesn't have centuries' worth of assets without preaching some form of tithing is definitely a challenge.

I appreciate that in many places even having a single building that is reasonably well looked after and one minister who is paid well enough that he can afford to raise a family can be a stretch - and a lot of the churches that are able to do this have had property handed down to them from a previous generation.

Part of the problem is that many NFI churches aspire to operate on a different scale all together. Taking their cue from the church growth movement, they see a large multi-purpose building, a calendar packed with programs and multiple staff working for the church as the only possible viable end goal.

So it's not surprising that the pressures to do this tends to dictate a lot of the praxis on tithing regardless of the actual teaching (which as you say manages to turn gospel into law). This happens even in the complete absence of any particular pastor trying to enrich themselves - which I'm guessing is very rare.
 
Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
. I don't take a salary from any form of ministry now and would hesistate to do so again, but trying to fund even basic operations of a church that doesn't have centuries' worth of assets without preaching some form of tithing is definitely a challenge.

I appreciate that in many places even having a single building that is reasonably well looked after and one minister who is paid well enough that he can afford to raise a family can be a stretch - and a lot of the churches that are able to do this have had property handed down to them from a previous generation.

Part of the problem is that many NFI churches aspire to operate on a different scale all together. Taking their cue from the church growth movement, they see a large multi-purpose building, a calendar packed with programs and multiple staff working for the church as the only possible viable end goal.

So it's not surprising that the pressures to do this tends to dictate a lot of the praxis on tithing regardless of the actual teaching (which as you say manages to turn gospel into law). This happens even in the complete absence of any particular pastor trying to enrich themselves - which I'm guessing is very rare.

Most church groups have a set rate depending on experience etc and how much wiggle room there is to pay anything over and above that will depend entirely on the church. Larger ones are going to have more wiggle room over pay than smaller ones who may rely on central funds to help pay the stipend. Pastors are in the same boat as everyone else – the wage for the job is the wage for the job. Whether they can afford to live on that is another question entirely!

Rev T’s close family all go to NFI churches in different parts of the country. Both congregations have recently taken on purpose built premises or are just about too. With the best will in the world, those buildings are going eat up resources and need supporting. We’re talking congregations in the larger hundreds in these two instances. Large buildings need staffing, equipping, heating and lighting etc – which isn’t cheap. The building will have to justify its existence and support itself with community based programmes and outreach.

Tubbs
 
Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
I would have thought, though, that given the typical numbers of an NFI congo, and their typical demographic (middle class upwards), that the funding of such buildings should not pose too much of an issue; I would have thought there would be fewer financial problems there than a struggling inner or outer city CofE gaffe trying to maintain a 19th century or older building with a couple of dozen or so active congregants.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Eutychus you are restoring the NT church far more by not preaching tithing and not taking a salary than most of NF put together !

CLS1 that's interesting and very sad stuff. Might back up some of the odd things I saw happening at my old NF church. Seems to back up other horror stories I've read. How common is this ? They seem very good at hijacking existing fellowships, and importing their own 'preferred' management. This I regard as sinister !

Our fellowship originally began as a house church type set up. NF got involved and it grew and obtained a building. We got given an 'apostle' thousands of miles away. No discussion. Decisions on spending money, employing staff, were never made by the congregation, nor were selecting elders for training - who also happened to be 20's married males. Older members who had helped run other churches (non NF) were ignored ! All of a sudden the pastor started going off on endless foreign trips to conferences. The apostle turned up and several sermons followed about giving.

Double speak was aplenty. Here are some classics I remember :
We are not a denomination but a loose affiliation of churches. (However we have an apostle who is choosing your leaders. We are giving 10% back to NF HQ).

We don't tithe as this is law. But grace means we should be giving even more to the local church.

We are on a mission together. I'm the leader I choose the projects now go and do them !

God might curse those who are rebellious and don't give. We believe in a God who is loving and forgiving. We need to submit to the vision sacrificially and financially. We welcome all newcomers to our church, you don't have to put anything in the plate !

Its wrong to lord it over others. We are servant leaders. Obey your leaders or it is rebellion which is as bad as witchcraft (on NF website article - I kid you not !)

I believe this sort of stuff is actually a form of brainwashing. You make contradictory statements and try to use the 'wrath of God' to induce guilt for those who don't fall into line. Cults do the same thing. They seem to use it to shift ground to deflect criticism. It always has the effect of making those who criticize them feel guilty and out of step with the Bible. You have to be a mature believer with a good knowledge of scripture to stand up to it and realize the constant theological and historical howlers they make.

I should say that its a real shame. I do like a lot about NF and the people. Its the structure and some bad apples that are the problem. If they don't reform it has the potential for even worse spiritual abuse.
 
Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Matt Black:
I would have thought, though, that given the typical numbers of an NFI congo, and their typical demographic (middle class upwards), that the funding of such buildings should not pose too much of an issue; I would have thought there would be fewer financial problems there than a struggling inner or outer city CofE gaffe trying to maintain a 19th century or older building with a couple of dozen or so active congregants.

It'll be interesting to see where some of them are in a generation or so's time.

Tubbs
 
Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
Well, indeed...

[ETA - I suppose to an extent it will depend on their success in keeping, catechising and training their children and young people.]

[ 19. June 2012, 15:56: Message edited by: Matt Black ]
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
quote:
Originally posted by Twangist:
I don't recognise this tangent at all - I've never ever heared tithing preached in a NF church.
We are a grace movement (in theory).

So what * does* your church teach about giving? And when people ask the question 'should we tithe' what does the leadership of the church teach?
Church membership involves supporting the church with your prayers, your gifts (i.e. doing stuff, getting caught up in the rotas (old joke - "why is church like a helecopter? - becasue if you stand too close you get caught up in the rotas")) and your money.
Giving should involve faith, is connected to investing in the vision of the church and is part of your worship. (God owns everything anyway).
Joyless legalism (I've given my 10% cos that's want God wants) isn't encouraged!!
It's a 2 way thing as well - church funds have frequently been used to support members in financial need.
Our also church fincncialy supports local Xtian charities which aren't directly anything to with us or NF.
Our Lead Elder does ask people if they are regular givers if he is bringing them into some form of leadership (small groups, youth work etc) but he doesn't know the figures.

Pleasd to hear it - especially that your leader doesn't know how much people give. I've met leaders who make a point of finding out.

One specific you missed - when people ask the question 'should I tithe' what do you say?

@CSL 1 - sadly I've seen all these behaviours - impressionable young leaders, character assassination, and the 'we'll make it hard for you to join another church.' The last one is nothing short of spite. I too know a leader who adopted this tactic every time anyone left his church in a manner he didn't approve of. None of the 'importing' leaders took the blindest bit if notice.

Amusingly, I was given that line when I left an NF church. Within a month I had direct or indirect contact from no less than four other NF church leaders asking if I'd like a chat about joining their set up.

The odd bad apple is one thing - but with similar expereinces being shared across three continents it's hard not to conclude there's a problem in the gene pool.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
Arminian -

Yes, exactly, you brought some memories back. About 90% of what you related is exactly what I experienced, including the visit by the distant "apostle" that was then followed by a series of sermons on tithing. I believe we had four straight. The whole line about tithing being unbiblical also, but yet we were expected to give exceedingly. I'd thought that thing about tithing being unbiblical was the pastor's personal rebellion against NFI, had no idea it was just part of the same old strategy.

And to think that they all seemed so nice at first. Young, energetic people, lots of fellowship meals, nice home study groups (though oddly, we virtually never cracked a Bible if at all, just typically discussed the pastor's take on things from the previous Sunday or confessed sins (which I found out later were occasionally used against the flock to keep them in line). The pastor was an externally self-effacing fellow, had an endearingly bumbling personality. But once NFI stepped in, some flaws of his must have been exploited, because thereafter in private, if ever challenged, he became what I can only refer to as an unreasoning, yelling brute. Night-day compared to public persona. I was not the only one who experienced this--I spoke with him in private only after a small group of young men, none of them members of the elder's team, approached me and asked if I, as an older member, might be able to reason with him. At first, I thought they were being unreasonable themselves and didn't believe their stories--was I naive!

NFI seems nice until there's the slightest bit of inquiry or disagreement over their exotic interpretations of scripture and idiosyncratic views on church culture and polity, at which point--so long as it's private and the leaders know they have no particular reason to be nice--the mask comes off. It was a shock.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
Some of this stuff makes the "apostolic spheres" sound like the Gustapo!

"Are you paying your tithes?" (slap!)
"Answer me!" (slap!)
"Resistance is useless!" (slap!)

[ 19. June 2012, 20:20: Message edited by: Mark Betts ]
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
Thank you for your informative contribution [Roll Eyes]

Although back in the day, I did at one point genuinely fear physical violence was imminent (see the sixth paragraph in this section of my story - this is the longer, older version, written not long after the events in question. But I still remember my feelings when I thought the guy was about to hit me).
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
Eutychus - Yes, the violence or veiled threats thereof... Once when engaging in small talk, no argument at all, with the pastor's right hand man on the elder's team ( a very stout, muscular fellow, I referred to him as the "enforcer"), we we laughing about pictures of ourselves back in high school, the long hair and all, and he said "You know, you have just the kind of face there that I used to like to smash in". Very odd comment, how do you take that?

Another bit of hinted violence occurred at a later date during my most contentious private meeting with pastor (who by the way, didn't technically refer to himself as "pastor", but "head elder", I don't know for sure if this is also a NF thing). When I questioned his belief that, per the NT and of course, NF, there must be a single head of the "local church" (evidently another favorite catch phrase), he first asked in a rather loud and angry voice whether I believed the Scriptures were authoritative, then he lunged across the table and grabbed me by the wrist, like he was ready to yank me out of my seat and have it out once-and-for-all, but he suddenly got a terrified look on his face (perhaps "What am I doing, what would be the consequences?") and let loose.

Those two incidents, coupled with his "Get in their faces" directive from the pulpit to the young men, made me very aware that violence might not have been out of the question if someone hung around long enough questioning their beliefs and refused to go quietly.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
I believe this sort of stuff is actually a form of brainwashing. You make contradictory statements and try to use the 'wrath of God' to induce guilt for those who don't fall into line. Cults do the same thing. They seem to use it to shift ground to deflect criticism.

That's my wife's theory, the brainwashing. It got hard to take, an exhausting Sunday listening to all the contradictions. The scripture twisting was actually easier to handle (you could that in a box and say "Well, he got that one wrong, that interpretation of Heb 13:17 turns Jesus' mandate in Matt 20 clean on its head" or the like), but the contradictions would really get you: "Didn't he just say the opposite?" You'd start questioning yourself, wondering if you were really hearing what thought you'd heard, your brain can go crazy trying to sort it out. You start questioning your sanity.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Thankfully I never saw any threats of violence. I find it very scary that this may have gone on.

I suppose we were warned by Jesus to watch out for 'wolves in sheep's clothing'. Every denomination has them. Structures that lack proper accountability are potentially more at risk.

Wolves are hierarchical, obsessed with leadership, and constantly fighting for position in the pack. They intend to devour the sheep. However they look exactly like sheep on the outside.

I believe one reason for the double speak is that the motives are mixed. They can't get scripture to fit their agenda, so they take it out of context to try to make it justify an authoritarian controlling structure. The conflict is caused by knowing inwardly that something is wrong, but thinking that everyone in your peer group around you disagrees with you. By putting together contradictory statements it causes mental conflict and confusion. By adding the 'I'm right 'cause God anointed me' mantra it heaps guilt on anyone that tries to resolve that conflict by attempting rational thought. NF never encouraged me to do my own thinking or come to my own conclusions. I had to submit to them !

It took me the best part of a year to get free of this stuff to the extent that I can look at NF theology and laugh at it.

It is very difficult to leave NF without leaving God. My wife left and wouldn't go near a church for 10 years. We know of marriages that have disintegrated, people who have left the Christian faith, simply because in the minds of many who leave, NF is THE church. It takes a lot of time to separate NF and their erroneous theology from what is actually in the Bible. Believers tend to end up only knowing other NF members because of the many meetings during the week. That makes it even more difficult to leave.

If anyone in NF leadership reads this thread I ask you to take seriously some of these criticisms. Playing the 'I'm God's anointed so I must be right card' won't work with God. When Jesus warned believers not to cause others to stumble and loose their faith he was talking about spiritual abuse - the kind individuals within NF have been guilty of. Don't make the mistake of burying this stuff and not dealing honestly with it. You have a problem - deal with it. You need a structure that allows wolves to be identified and removed, that gives genuine accountability of leaders to the congregation, and please stop the double speak. Its called lying!
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Edward Green:
As a Priest I welcome disagreement and those who disagree onto our PCC's. I have heard other clergy say they have 'got rid of everyone who disagrees with them from the PCC' - even if said in jest it betrays an underlying attitude.

But then those second types of PCC's often seem to achieve more and sooner, rather than being bound up in debate and discussion, and that debate can in itself cause hurt and confusion. Which is the better path?

The first type of PCC, for Frank Herbert's reason. Avoiding divergent views and opinions may make business easier, but those divergent views may well be saying something both truthful and uncomfortable.

[ 20. June 2012, 09:43: Message edited by: Barnabas62 ]
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
At the risk of upsetting people here, I would posit that the kind of attitudes and abuses outlined here are pretty much endemic to a greater or lesser extent within independent charismatic evangelicalism per se.

I would submit that there are many outfits that are a lot 'worse' than New Frontiers in this respect - and that the mileage varies within New Frontiers itself.

All that said, there are equal and opposite dangers in some of the traditional churches. It's just a case of exchanging one set of problems with another.

I'm still broadly evangelical in sympathy (but increasingly less so in terms of practice) ... and without being paranoid, I detect a certain amount of casuistry and double-talk in virtually every church set-up I'm aware of.

The intensity of it varies, but essentially it's there all over.

What makes it 'worse' in NFI's case is that they're fusing elements of charismania with a kind of unnuanced Calvimania - although the mileage on that varies. I've long thought that NFI's apparent Calvinism isn't very deep and is simply something they've latched onto in order to differentiate themselves from other charismatic groups and also to make their teaching and preaching appear 'deeper' than it actually is ...

But that might be unfair ...
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
It took me the best part of a year to get free of this stuff to the extent that I can look at NF theology and laugh at it.
I'm still not free of it in terms of anger, I am free from it in terms of theology because I never bought into anything said, always hoped it was a passing phase for the pastor. In retrospect, I think he was drawn to NFI and disingenuously introduced it into our fellowship because as a system it fed his compulsion to control and abuse. I've also come to believe that when people say odd things, particularly from the pulpit, it's typically a sign that something very ugly is going on inside and they're letting it slip out. I'm not going to gloss them over anymore, I now corner the pastor and ask them exactly what they mean by it, and don't let go until I hear them out. There are too many wolves out there, and of course as Paul said, they present themselves as angels of light because that's precisely how their father in Hades presents himself.

It is very difficult to leave NF without leaving God. My wife left and wouldn't go near a church for 10 years. We know of marriages that have disintegrated, people who have left the Christian faith, simply because in the minds of many who leave, NF is THE church. It takes a lot of time to separate NF and their erroneous theology from what is actually in the Bible. Believers tend to end up only knowing other NF members because of the many meetings during the week. That makes it even more difficult to leave.

If anyone in NF leadership reads this thread I ask you to take seriously some of these criticisms. Playing the 'I'm God's anointed so I must be right card' won't work with God. When Jesus warned believers not to cause others to stumble and loose their faith he was talking about spiritual abuse - the kind individuals within NF have been guilty of. Don't make the mistake of burying this stuff and not dealing honestly with it. You have a problem - deal with it. You need a structure that allows wolves to be identified and removed, that gives genuine accountability of leaders to the congregation, and please stop the double speak. Its called lying! [/QB][/QUOTE]

[B62: reference to named individual removed]

[ 21. June 2012, 15:10: Message edited by: Barnabas62 ]
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
It took me the best part of a year to get free of this stuff to the extent that I can look at NF theology and laugh at it.
I'm free of the theology because I never bought into it for a moment. It's why I was eventually removed from leadership and why I exited the ship a good 18 months before it sunk (the church was finally dissolved earlier this year after it shrunk down to the leader and his family, plus about half of the elders and their families, essentially a Bible study-sized fellowship).

However, I'm not free of the anger. People want a king, and often that's not King Jesus, they want a man who'll tell them how to believe because they just aren't interested in "working out their own salvation", that comes with more "fear and trembling" than they're willing to bear. So the Lord allows them their king, and he destroys them, taking their property and sending their children into harm's way, just as Saul did.

quote:
It is very difficult to leave NF without leaving God. My wife left and wouldn't go near a church for 10 years.
And I feel very bad for some of the young people who were cast out and the few who remain to this day, clinging to the leader who has no church. I hope they don't mistake this ugly man for Jesus and dump their faith on account of him.

quote:
We know of marriages that have disintegrated, people who have left the Christian faith, simply because in the minds of many who leave, NF is THE church.
This is because NF presents itself as THE church.

quote:
It takes a lot of time to separate NF and their erroneous theology from what is actually in the Bible.
This I did experience, I went through about a year of aversion to reading the Bible because there were so many bad memories of hearing it twisted.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I've never heard New Frontiers or any other restorationist group claim to be THE church - although back in the day I did hear it said (and I cringed whenever I heard it) that churches that didn't have 'apostles' weren't pukka, proper churches ...

[Roll Eyes]

But then, some of our more High Church brothers and sisters would say the same of churches that didn't have Bishops or Apostolic Succession or the three-fold ministries of Bishops, Priests and Deacons ...

All that said, I don't think NFI (or fellowships like it) are particularly healthy places to be - at least not for the longer term.

My own experiences of NFI have been uniformly positive, but I wouldn't want to get involved in a church like that ever again. I know lots of people who are very happy there, but those that are tend to have migrated there from churches that were more extreme in certain ways.

Like I say, it all depends on where you're coming from in the first place.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
There was undoubtedly an attitude expressed and implied at my NF church, by our regional "apostle", and by Terry Virgo himself that THEY were the true restorationists, setting all right, and that other churches, perhaps with the exceptions of the Sovereign Grace or Acts 29 crowd (mentioned below), were flawed. The whole point was to come under the authority of an apostle, this was a necessity, and they were more-or-less the proper ones. Para church ministries, such as those of Billy Graham, Youth for Christ, etc., were strongly discouraged because they did not come under the authority of the apostles.

Your friends may not have had any problems because they had some local leaders who clung to Matthew 20 and were servants, but they would have done so only by essentially disobeying their apostles.

I've been in one church that was worse than New Frontiers, that ended up being word faith, prosperity gospel on closer inspection, with vicious abuse common, e.g., the leaders would split couples when they thought one was on board with their mission, while the other wasn't. Happened often. When they denied the divinity of Jesus from the pulpit, that was the end of our attendance at that church.

New Frontiers was never quite that bad, and of course I can't speak for all New Frontiers churches. But I can say that my experiences perfectly mirror those of many others with NFI and line up closely with the experiences of many in the neo-Calvinist groups targeting young enthusiastic people in the U.S., such as Sovereign Grace and Acts 29. They all very strongly tend towards authoritarianism, they oft twist scriptures to fit some pragmatic purpose (typically church growth, which they usually define as The Mission), they will, when pressed, turn brutal.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
I'm afraid that all of my experience suggests that any NF churches that aren't prone, to some degree or another, to the type of bad stuff being related here are the ones that are not of strategic interest to those at the top.

And when you see the same sort of stories replicated across such a wide dispersal of places, you have to wonder where the modus operandi originates.

I'm sure there are other outfits that are similarly abusive but I'm not sure there are many (within the UK at least) that have such an air of respectability and clout in evangelical circles.

Again, it's the disconnect between the appearance and the reality of how the inner core works that I think is particularly insiduous.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
I agree. I just thought it was our old church, but it seems to be following a pattern replicated in other churches over several continents. If true that is sinister, and dishonest. They should be more open about what they stand for.

If you turn up to a small group of Christians, claim you are only there to 'help', but have a hidden strategy that imports your management, removes the original leaders, moves money away from the local group to a management hierarchy, and prevents any mechanism for accountability of the new leaders - that is pretty disgraceful.

Is there any way of proving if this is happening as official NF policy ? I suppose the only way to confirm this is to research what has happened at other fellowships (that are strategically important).
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
CSL1 - yes, I suspect you're right. I've heard horror stories about Sovereign Grace.

I was being 'relative' in my comments. I tend to think that the health-wealth/prosperity crowd are a lot worse than NFI - but pain is pain. It might be worse to be scratched or stabbed by a rusty blade rather than a cleanly polished one, but it still hurts and you could still end up bleeding to death.

It might be worse being shot by a home-made firearm than a highly-tooled expensive military one, but you still end up dead.

I tend to agree that a propensity to authoritarianism is built into the DNA and modus-operandi of all these outfits.

NFI do have some clout here on the wider evangelical scene and that's because they know how to speak the language. A few references to Calvinist shibboleths is enough to convince many that they're on the level.

It also looks nice and shiny from the outside.
 
Posted by The Great Gumby (# 10989) on :
 
I find the talk of cults, inconsistency and brainwashing interesting. The perception always seems to be that the people directly over you are doing this deliberately. That's understandable, because that's where the direct pressure is coming from, but I think this is wrong on two counts. I don't think it's deliberate, and in most cases, I think the direct leader is probably in a very similar position to you.

The tales of pastors/elders being angry and aggressive sound to me like they're consistent with a fundamentally good person who's under all sorts of strange pressures and doesn't know how to handle it. If you felt pressured and brainwashed, what if you were under pressure over the behaviour/performance of an entire church, and couldn't possibly just walk away because it's your job? It would definitely be difficult.

But I'm not sure that anyone does it deliberately. We're all capable of deceiving ourselves if it matters enough, or if there's enough pressure (see experiments where perception of simple facts could be changed by the views of others, or the 4/5 lights in Nineteen Eighty-Four), and some are much better at this self-deceit and also much better at convincing others of its truth (the name Blair springs irresistibly to mind at this point). There may be some conscious deceit at the very top, but I tend more to the cock-up line of thought, that as long as something gives the desired results, people will convince themselves that it's good.

I have limited experience of NFI (although what I have was enough to make me absolutely certain that I didn't feel comfortable there), so I can't say for certain that these observations are relevant, but I think it's important to recognise that situations can be a lot more complicated than what we see.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
[massive cross-post: I was answering Arminian]

You can be sure that if there's an "official" policy it won't be written down anywhere.

But I'm not sure it's like that.

I think the issue is a combination of a number of factors.

Firstly, there are NF's theological assumptions - specifically, about restoration, authority, and sin as it relates to the flesh. These make it very sure of its own soundness.

Secondly, its organisational structure means there is no effective mechanism of checks and balances and an aversion to written records and procedures. Combined with the first set of assumptions, this means the organisation is blind to its own mistakes.

The result of this is twofold:

Firstly, it enables NF to plough ahead, convinced that it has the right strategy, one that is inherently superior to everything else out there ("let's reach every nation before McDonald's", I once heard one of the current "apostolic team" say), and persuaded that any disasters are "collateral damage" in the great struggle to establish the Kingdom of God.

Secondly, it means that particularly abusive individuals can enter the leadership and get away with mayhem for quite some time before being detected or confronted. As long as they don't fall into sexual immorality (the sin of sins - and of course one that involves the flesh) they are probably quite safe.

Privately, many NF leaders may admit to some of these shortcomings, or at least express concern about them, but so long as the person at the very top of the organisation does not own to them and has not relinquished control, my opinion is that they will not be able to voice them in a public forum without falling out of favour in the organisation.

Going further is difficult, becuase they are trapped in the classic "equity pit" of a spiritual abuse system. They have put so much in that the thought of leaving is just too much to bear.

I only left when I realised that my marriage, my sanity and possibly my life (suicide, not murder!) was at stake. It cost me my livelihood, the church I'd worked to build up for 15 years, many of my friends, many of my theological assumptions, and an emotional impact on us all that has left indelible traces on the whole family.

It was a high price to pay. I don't regret it, but I'm not sure I would have been willing to pay had not the alternative been so stark, and I can understand why others who are not under such a direct and vital threat don't leave or speak out.

[ 21. June 2012, 09:27: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
I think that the Great Gumby speaks much truth!

I can see many of the abuses as being the result of three factors:

*A framework that allows for it
*A leader who's in over his (or her, well, not in NF's case!) head.
*Pressure from the top.

We have actually had a similar instance with our home organization (not NFI) where a new CEO stepped in and was quickly overwhelmed with his job, and instead of admitting to his own inadequacies (and just flat-out incompetence, frankly) he quickly took to bullying and behind-the-scenes politicking to get what he wanted.

One of the local NF pastors is like that to an extent. We still get along perfectly well as friends, but he's a very heavy-handed leader in the church: lots of people are placed 'under church discipline' and the congregation told 'not to communicate with them, or try to hear out there side of the story'. Sometimes it's probably justifiable, but often it's because someone was speaking ill of the leaders themselves.

I do think that much of this stems from a desire to build a large church, and thus please the 'Apostle' that's in charge. As far as they are concerned, pleasing him is paramount. They get all giddy whenever he's about to make a visit, they quote him frequently as a way of providing evidence for their weird theology, and most of the major with the church decisions are really his.

The first time I visited there, I remember one of the Turks asking me if I had read many of DD's books. My response was, "who's he?" The guy gave me an odd look and asked, "Are you even a Christian?" [Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by The Great Gumby (# 10989) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:
I think that the Great Gumby speaks much truth!

Careful! Say that too much and people really will be wondering whether you're a Christian. [Devil]
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:
The first time I visited there, I remember one of the Turks asking me if I had read many of DD's books. My response was, "who's he?" The guy gave me an odd look and asked, "Are you even a Christian?" [Roll Eyes]

That's funny - the person I know, who is an NF "Apostle", keeps posting these quotes on facebook (sometimes spoken, sometimes from books) all from people I've never heard of.

Don't get me wrong, you couldn't meet a nicer guy, but it's like a parallel universe! It's very difficult to get much information on NewFrontiers apart from that which is published or posted by NewFrontiers themselves.
 
Posted by irish_lord99 (# 16250) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by The Great Gumby:
quote:
Originally posted by irish_lord99:
I think that the Great Gumby speaks much truth!

Careful! Say that too much and people really will be wondering whether you're a Christian. [Devil]
[Big Grin]
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
It is a kind of parallel universe, Mark, but I've equally thought that Orthodoxy is like that too, at least to those of us looking into it from this side of the Bosphorus.

In some ways there are parallels between restorationist outfits like NFI and the ancient Historic Churches, but it's all on a very micro scale. They talk about 'binding and loosing' and so on and so forth in ways that remind me of how RCs sometimes speak about the Papacy.

Small wonder that some very conservative evangelicals believe that NFI is the thin end of a very large wedge that leads back to ... cue creepy music ... darn-NNARRN-NARRRNNN!!! - R-R-R-ROME!!

[Eek!]

So, on the one hand you've got some restorationists acting as if they are THE ChurchTM and on the other some conversative evangelicals acting as if the restorationists are THE Antichrist.

All very droll if it wasn't so sad ...
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
Small wonder that some very conservative evangelicals believe that NFI is the thin end of a very large wedge that leads back to ... cue creepy music ... darn-NNARRN-NARRRNNN!!! - R-R-R-ROME!!

I'm not saying this doesn't happen, I just haven't seen much evidence of it. Which doesn't mean that the perjorative comparison isn't made between restorationist outfits and the RCC ("Whats the difference between the average house church leader and the Pope ?").

A lot of the actual traffic across the Tiber seems to be very much an American phenomanea
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I was being 'relative' in my comments.

Gamaliel -

I understand your "relative" point fully, and I think you're right, having once upon a time spent one very unfortunate year in one of those prosperity shops myself.

NFI isn't overtly ugly and evil and there was genuine fellowship allowed; there were certainly bona fide christians at our NFI church, I'd say easily the majority of the people there were sincere in their faith (though in retrospect I have grave doubts about some of the leadership). And as bad as the NFI tilt to the Bible could be, by no means was everything spoken from the pulpit a lie, the gospel did work its way out. It was just in such a package that I could scarcely take it anymore, like a thick steak seasoned with rat poison.

And as has been pointed out by another here, that's part of the insidiousness, the external respectability. Draws a lot of christians, particularly young ones without much perspective or wisdom, and they make "good close" friends quickly, as typically happens in cultic groups, and then they get hooked and the prospect of leaving is too painful. NFI, Sovereign Grace, Acts 29, and word faith/prosperity outfits exploit this.

Part of the problem is the quick, microwave friendship attitude that prevails amongst younger people, they don't want to take time to get to know people through good and bad, which takes years. You simply cannot, apart from a direct revelation from the Almighty, judge whether someone is wolf or sheep quickly or easily. So they're invited by a nice, new acquaintance to a church that showers them with "love" from the outset, they see the great energy and passion, and they give themselves fully to it, thinking it all led by the Hand of God, but utterly ignoring that God's warnings in 2 Cor 11. And they get hooked and either in time become an abused or an abuser. Other than the transient types, who either leave when they see what's really happening or are shucked out when the leaders find they cannot force them to their knees in worship of their authority, those are the only two categories of people in such a church.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by The Great Gumby:
I don't think it's deliberate, and in most cases, I think the direct leader is probably in a very similar position to you.

It's likely. Extreme cognitive dissonance probably does make leaders and members very defensive. It's possible the anger I and several others experienced from some of the younger leaders in private was simply great pressure and insecurity.

[B62: Reference to named individual removed]

[ 21. June 2012, 15:07: Message edited by: Barnabas62 ]
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I think you're spot on in your analysis when it comes to the attractions of churches like that - I became involved with a similar/parallel network to NFI when I was 20. I was there for the next 18 years and stuck with it through thick and thin even though I had grave misgivings from the outset - which I overlooked in deference to the close fellowship/friendships and sense of purpose it offered.

I wouldn't make ad hominem remarks about who was or wasn't a 'sincere Christian' though. In NFI terms I've only heard of one leader whose behaviour was so outrageous that it made me go [Eek!] - but then, he wasn't up to anything that wouldn't or couldn't happen elsewhere.

I think you're right, though, that there's a patina of respectability that gives groups like NFI more clout and external respect than they would otherwise have.

It ain't just an NFI thing, but I have very grave doubts about the discernment ability of many prominent charismatic evangelical leaders across the board. There's an almost default acclamation of anything that looks large and lively. 'Never mind the quality, feel the width.'

But then, I'm only peripherally involved with charismatic evangelicalism per se these days.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
CSL1

These are public boards. See Commandment 7.

quote:
7. Don't post illegal material

Posting libellous material, copyright violations or links to sites advocating illegal activities puts us in legal hot water, which makes us very unhappy.

So as a precaution I've edited a couple of your posts.

SoF has no option but to be cautious. This is a shoestring operation. Defending against allegations of libel is not something we've got the money for.

Barnabas62
Purgatory Host

 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I wouldn't make ad hominem remarks about who was or wasn't a 'sincere Christian' though.

I don't know that it's technically ad hominem, though I understand what you're getting at, one can't always be sure who is and isn't a sincere christian--we are not God--but we are commanded to look for the fruits by which we'll know them. The problem is the fruits sometimes take years to reveal themselves, and not every public image of piety matches what's inside. I base my grave misgivings on the leader of my former NFI church being a christian not so much on his abusive nature, but upon his belief that true conversion, as he expressed to me, involved "a decision to stop thinking and doing what they did before, and start thinking and doing what Jesus tells them." When I asked him to explain this works-based salvation oddity, he only entrenched himself further in the position.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Barnabas62:
CSL1

These are public boards. See Commandment 7.

quote:
7. Don't post illegal material

Posting libellous material, copyright violations or links to sites advocating illegal activities puts us in legal hot water, which makes us very unhappy.

So as a precaution I've edited a couple of your posts.

SoF has no option but to be cautious. This is a shoestring operation. Defending against allegations of libel is not something we've got the money for.

Barnabas62
Purgatory Host

I accept your right to run your forum as you see fit. Realize, though, that: A). I posted first name only without reference to place, other than one of the 50 states of the United States, and B). Truth is an absolute defense to libel, in both the UK and the US, this I know inasmuch as I teach law at a public university here.

That said, from a legal risk management perspective, you're doing exactly what I'd have advised a client to do when I was practicing as an attorney, so fair enough.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
Points appreciated, CSL1 - and thanks for your understanding.
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
It would appear from the following that there is a measure of uncertainty, not to say confusion, around developments in New Frontiers.

As an aside, I found Mr Hosier's remarks about the relationship between the church and bishops somewhat amusing given the relationship between NF churches and Terry Virgo. But as with much of what I read from NF, the irony seems lost on the author.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Drewthealexander:
It would appear from the following that there is a measure of uncertainty, not to say confusion, around developments in New Frontiers.

As an aside, I found Mr Hosier's remarks about the relationship between the church and bishops somewhat amusing given the relationship between NF churches and Terry Virgo. But as with much of what I read from NF, the irony seems lost on the author.

Yes, and as honest as the author may be, he has unintentionally twisted history into propaganda. All rather pragmatic really.

As you say, he has also missed the unintentional irony - especially in the light of the NFIs talk of apostolic 'spheres' post TV.

Amusingly his parodies of the RCC and Orthodox come equally close to describing the NFI in many ways.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
As well as the irony, there are the inherent contradictions.

quote:
Genuine apostolic ministry (by which I mean those gifts that catalyse church planting and global mission) cannot be created by hierarchical authority structures. They need to be given space to appear.
In the typical NF failure I've drawn attention to before to call a spade a spade, Matt uses "apostolic ministry" rather than "apostle", yet his implication is inadvertently made clear by refering to this "genuine apostolic ministry" as "they".

Also, Terry has been
quote:
releasing authority to a new team (and teams)
If that isn't the embodiment of a "hierarchical authority structure" attemtpting to create "apostolic ministry", then I don't know what is. And note he is "releasing authority", which doesn't exactly suggest he is relinquishing any (and note that AFAIK, New Frontiers International Limited has not been disbanded).

quote:
Newfrontiers must die, in order that Newfrontiers might live
Used here, this pastiche of biblical phraseology is as fine an example of cognitive dissonance as one could wish for.
 
Posted by Saul the Apostle (# 13808) on :
 
Christianity in the UK is often unpopular and quite ''untrendy''. For example if you want to pin your support on any number of issues, Christian charities or Christian faith groups are NOT high on the list.

Even ''successful'' Christian bands and speakers are small fry in these islands.

Gamaliel said:

quote:
It ain't just an NFI thing, but I have very grave doubts about the discernment ability of many prominent charismatic evangelical leaders across the board. There's an almost default acclamation of anything that looks large and lively. 'Never mind the quality, feel the width.'
Many ministries are desperate; especially as the recession has hit faith groups hard. Outfits, like New Frontiers, are keen to exploit success. Even if it means making their buildings not much more than glorified praise parlours for their leaders, their leaders books, dvds, music and so on.

Much of the church abuse we see in say New Frontiers is NOT unique to that sphere - indeed it is common (fallen) human nature IMHO.

Like we've said many times though, there are a certain set of ingredients that make charismatic outfits very open to abuse; more so than traditional outfits. Not least is the ''wow'' factor (gold dust and angel feathers it may be or a popular Christian music song all can produce the ''wow'' factor , that is worship of a human being/s and a departure of critical faculties) .

So if enough people go ''wow'' and these gatherings are numerically popular it follows that ''God is in it''. This is a spurious argument.

Any organisation that doesn't disclose the salaries of it's leaders, is to my mind, not being open. I did some digging a while ago and the Brighton church of New frontiers does not disclose what it's leaders earn. Bad sign. May indicate further smoke and mirrors.

Saul
 
Posted by Edward Green (# 46) on :
 
Oh wow. I appreciate Matt's honesty - we depart from the rest of the Church at the Apostolic Fathers. I have wondered for some time how folks dealt with that tension.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
It's interesting, Edward, to see him even acknowledging Rome, Constantinople and Geneva, even if it is to dismiss them as options ...

There are other options for NFI, though, they could adopt a Baptist ecclesiology, for instance. But what room would there be for an 'apostolate' within a congregational framework?

There are Baptists, Nigel Wright and the various 'Mainstream' guys (is that still going?( included who would be open to the idea of 'apostles' or bishops in a Baptist context - if it could be achieved without the rather top-down authoritarian approach that NF (despite its protestations to the contrary) appears to adopt.

I wonder why Matt didn't include that option?

It may not be charitable of me, but I suspect he hasn't listed it because he knows darn well that it might actually prove an attractive option to various NF members and congregations and thereby do him, and people like him, out of a job ...

There are plenty of former NF people in Baptist churches (just as there are plenty of former Baptists in NF churches).

A serious suggestion might be the combination of the best features of the Baptist Union with the best features of NFI ... with the dodgy bits filtered out.

If he doesn't want to go to Rome, Constantinople or Geneva (hmmm ... Canterbury wasn't mentioned either) then perhaps a modified Baptist model would be a way forward.

As it is he's simply huffing and puffing as his house falls down ...
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
It may not be charitable of me, but I suspect he hasn't listed it because he knows darn well that it might actually prove an attractive option to various NF members and congregations and thereby do him, and people like him, out of a job ...

I'd take some issue with this, I think he just has a rather blinkered view of ecclesiology and his arguments all make sense within his own particular frame of reference.

CSL1 explains the dynamic for how young people get involved in such churches. There is a dynamic for those who stay involved at a leadership level, that involves dogma overlaying everything else - of course this is true of everyone to a certain extent, but I suspect statements like "Church meetings are sinful" have never been thought through completely.

Which is why I tend to be somewhat dismissive whenever the academic credentials of their theology circle is brought up. I suspect that whatever they learnt at Westminster West or Spurgeons was heavily influenced by the preconceptions they came in with.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Sure, I can see that, Chris Stiles. I'm not sure who is being most uncharitable now, you or me.

I think you're right though, on the 'church meeting' thing. Back in my restorationist days dodgy 'church meetings' in Baptist circles were often cited as the reason for the kind of top-down approach we adopted.

I'd certainly seen/heard of dodgy church meetings in Baptist circles in South Wales, but when I finally emerged from restorationism - via the Baptists as it happens - I found the whole 'church meeting' thing an incredible breath of fresh air.

It was like coming up from a long, dark mine.

People were expressing their views, feeling free to disagree ... what was going on? [Biased]

The reality, of course, is that NFI and similar outfits use a series of spectral stereotypes to dismiss the way that other churches do things ... and I'm sure we all do that to some extent. The way I've heard some Orthodox talk about what allegedly happens in the Church of England makes me wonder how I've failed to notice the horns coming out of clerical heads or the hoofs sticking out from under the cassocks ...

Equally, the way some Protestants caricature RCs is part and parcel of the same tendency ...

I think you're right that the blog-piece does make sense within a particular kind of ecclesiology - but surely it's a fairly warped kind of ecclesiology to kick off with?

[Confused]
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Sorry to double-post, but @Edward Green ... yes, I've not seen that thing about the Apostolic Fathers going astray in print before, but I have heard it several times when I've pressed restorationists on where the Church allegedly went 'wrong'.

I'm not sure whether this represents a trend and I'm not involved with anything remotely restorationist anymore but I have picked up on a view that things started to deteriorate almost from the end of Acts. I've certainly come across some lone-wolf former restorationists who say this quite openly. They appear to maintain aspects of the theology even though they're not involved with churches any more (but seem to be out to gather disaffected restorationists around them so they can continue to beef about it all) ...

There are a lot of restorationist 'ghosts' with no formal church affiliation and who can't settle anywhere but sit on the sidelines castigating all the churches for their failures and short-comings ...
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Edward Green:
Oh wow. I appreciate Matt's honesty - we depart from the rest of the Church at the Apostolic Fathers. I have wondered for some time how folks dealt with that tension.

I'm not entirely sure whether you are being sarcastic or not [Confused]
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I took it that Edward was being serious, rather than sarcastic. When I was involved in restorationist circles, this issue was skated around, rather - even if it were acknowledged as an issue.

The historic Churches were seen to have lost the plot at some point, but this point was never really identified or defined. Some suggested it was by the time Montanism emerged in the second century - and the nasty old established Church tried to stamp it out - but the precise 'falling away' point was never really defined that clearly.

I've been taken to task on these Boards before - by Johnny S if I remember rightly - for expressing how surprised I was to find the Sub-Apostolic Fathers so 'Catholic' in tone when I finally got around to reading them.

Johnny S pooh-poohed the very idea ...
 
Posted by Edward Green (# 46) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
quote:
Originally posted by Edward Green:
Oh wow. I appreciate Matt's honesty - we depart from the rest of the Church at the Apostolic Fathers. I have wondered for some time how folks dealt with that tension.

I'm not entirely sure whether you are being sarcastic or not [Confused]
Not at all. The frankness is refreshing.

One of the reasons I am not a restorationist is because the writings of those who knew the apostles are so 'Catholic'. I know some claim that this is a misreading of the Father's but it is something of a stretch. For Clement, Ignatius and the Didache it seems that Communion was an 'offering', the bread and wine were 'Christ's body and blood', and that baptism could be administered by the pouring of water on the head.

In my days in restorationist circles I would have assumed that these were somehow much later innovations of a corrupt church - post Constantine.

So for Matt to say that the early church got it wrong after the death of the Apostles is pretty big stuff.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
...Some suggested it was by the time Montanism emerged in the second century - and the nasty old established Church tried to stamp it out - but the precise 'falling away' point was never really defined that clearly.

I've just wiki'd Montanism, and yes, it seems to explain a lot. It looks like while the larger Church made it a herasy, the Restorationists think this type of prophesy is of God and needed to restore the Church (that is Restorationist churches) to its rightful calling. Am I right?
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Near enough, Mark.

The more nuanced among them would accept that the Montanists were off the wall with their dodgy prophecies but would argue that the wider Church over-reacted.

It's not just restorationists who would say that. I've come across charismatic Anglicans who have said the same sort of thing.

Essentially, it's an ecclesiology and spirituality that values the apparently spontaneous and pneumatic. So anything that looks as if it might be a kind of spiritual strait-jacket is suspicious, whether it be the Anglican liturgy, the Baptist church-meeting or the 'superstition' and 'legalism' (as they see it) of the Orthodox and Roman Catholic churches.

That's about the top and bottom of it. It's a form of independent Protestantism taken to its logical conclusion but with a chimerical attempt to 'restore' what is seen as NT practice and church government - apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, teachers etc ...
 
Posted by Edward Green (# 46) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:

That's about the top and bottom of it. It's a form of independent Protestantism taken to its logical conclusion but with a chimerical attempt to 'restore' what is seen as NT practice and church government - apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, teachers etc ...

Which is not that far from Catholic order anyway. The only issue is the size of the presbyterate and what you call apostles / deacons etc.
 
Posted by Wood (# 7) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by CSL1:

And as has been pointed out by another here, that's part of the insidiousness, the external respectability. Draws a lot of christians, particularly young ones without much perspective or wisdom, and they make "good close" friends quickly, as typically happens in cultic groups, and then they get hooked and the prospect of leaving is too painful. NFI, Sovereign Grace, Acts 29, and word faith/prosperity outfits exploit this.

Part of the problem is the quick, microwave friendship attitude that prevails amongst younger people, they don't want to take time to get to know people through good and bad, which takes years. You simply cannot, apart from a direct revelation from the Almighty, judge whether someone is wolf or sheep quickly or easily. So they're invited by a nice, new acquaintance to a church that showers them with "love" from the outset, they see the great energy and passion, and they give themselves fully to it, thinking it all led by the Hand of God, but utterly ignoring that God's warnings in 2 Cor 11. And they get hooked and either in time become an abused or an abuser. Other than the transient types, who either leave when they see what's really happening or are shucked out when the leaders find they cannot force them to their knees in worship of their authority, those are the only two categories of people in such a church.

I don't think these phenomena are necessarily the fault of young people and their microwave friendships at all.

See. What you're talking about includes a fairly clear description of what Rev. Sun Myung Moon called "lovebombing", which practise Moon both codified and encouraged, but which any controlling ideology with an emphasis on small-c charismatic leadership, churches in particular, can be prone to very easily.

Moon recognised that if you made people super-welcome, and showered them with generosity and understanding and got them to talk about their problems, then they would come to rely on you. You would become their support network.

Then, the moment they ask questions... all the love and generosity and understanding is withdrawn at a stroke until such time as they come right back in the fold, cowed and humiliated and malleable.

It's a means of control, frankly. And you see churches - particularly these churches with their ersatz "apostles" - that do it all the time without once realising that they are doing anything wrong... or even that they are doing it.

This is not to downgrade the experience of Eutychus, CSL1 or anyone else; rather it confirms these experiences and the trauma they cause, which is often dismissed by people who have never seen these groups in action. People know about this stuff. They write about it. It's real. It messes lives up.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Wood:

I don't think these phenomena are necessarily the fault of young people and their microwave friendships at all.

See. What you're talking about includes a fairly clear description of what Rev. Sun Myung Moon called "lovebombing", which practise Moon both codified and encouraged, but which any controlling ideology with an emphasis on small-c charismatic leadership, churches in particular, can be prone to very easily.

Moon recognised that if you made people super-welcome, and showered them with generosity and understanding and got them to talk about their problems, then they would come to rely on you. You would become their support network.

Then, the moment they ask questions... all the love and generosity and understanding is withdrawn at a stroke until such time as they come right back in the fold, cowed and humiliated and malleable.

It's a means of control, frankly. And you see churches - particularly these churches with their ersatz "apostles" - that do it all the time without once realising that they are doing anything wrong... or even that they are doing it.

This is not to downgrade the experience of Eutychus, CSL1 or anyone else; rather it confirms these experiences and the trauma they cause, which is often dismissed by people who have never seen these groups in action. People know about this stuff. They write about it. It's real. It messes lives up.
[/QUOTE]

Fair point, well received.

It's deceptive, frog-in-the-pot stuff, and it may be unfair for me to expect young people, 20-something couples, teens and the like, due to inexperience or youthful pride not yet veritably capable of slapping their own buttocks with both hands in the dark, to see through the love bombing and subtle manipulations.

Perhaps cultic groups intuitively understand human psychology better than healthy groups, the former are sure good at exploiting it!

A typical christian--or anyone, for that matter--will tend to think a person's OK until proven otherwise, especially if that person's a church leader with an easy bonhomie; you'll overlook a lot of warning signs along the way ("You know, pastor/elder has his quirks and odd beliefs, but I'm sure he's not malicious.") Problem is abusers seem to know and exploit this, and after you've become attached to people in the fellowship, it can be extremely difficult to break free, like yanking a tooth sans novocaine. It hurts to lose friendships and/or be shunned. Even in my middle age (40-something) I fell for it for a time and overlooked a lot of warning signals, I wanted to think the best of pastor. When some of the young people approached me and told me how brutal and unreasoning this leader was behind closed doors, I disbelieved them, thought they were the problem, took some harshly to task for it. I was supporting the abuse! Once I saw it directed towards myself, saw the leaders for what they truly were when there was no more reason to be nice, no hostile witness present to confirm what I saw, I was nonplussed. So I fell for it also, for a time.
 
Posted by Wood (# 7) on :
 
I am reminded of one of the most tragic people I have ever met, a conservative evangelical Welsh non-conformist who for thirty years lived wholly within the confines of his denomination and never once worried about why people left or were kicked out, and did a fair amount of that himself... but secretly all the time struggled with gender dysphoria.

Late in life, he became a she. And the church which he had pastored for decades - including her now-adult children - turned on her like something half-tamed and starved and vicious. Only her (now ex-)wife stayed by her.

The saddest thing was seeing her, basically the same person, only beginning to realise that she herself had done these things.

But the fact is, you don't realise until you're at the receiving end. It's like you said. You think the best, think the church must have had a reason. And when they turn on you... then you understand.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Wood:
...you don't realise until you're at the receiving end....And when they turn on you... then you understand.

Yep, exactly.

I'm a bit slow, perhaps. I'm an academic. Smart--not in truth, really, but so-called--in my narrow field, but dumb in more practical, logical matters with which most others always have seem to have greater insight. I think the average nondegreed tradesman would've spent two weeks in my New Frontiers church and said "Pastor's a horse's a---, I'm outta here."
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I think you've touched on an interesting point there ... although the restorationist group I was part of had a pretty broad social mix at one point and certainly wasn't entirely monocultural or mono-class ...

I think I read somewhere once about how academics and professionals, counter-intuitively perhaps, are actually more prone than other people to engagement in sects and cults ... but I can't cite chapter and verse on that one. Sociologically, I think there's something in it, though.

There are grades of it, of course. I suspect groups like NFI run the full gamut from the benign to the semi-cultic with lots of gradations in between ... although I would say that the modus-operandi does lend itself to a controlling mindset.

@Edward Green, yes, I can see the similarities. What checks and balances, though, do you see in the more Catholic traditions that prevent them from acting in a domineering or 'cultic' way? If in fact they do ... it strikes me that some of them do act in a very similar fashion ...
 
Posted by Edward Green (# 46) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:

@Edward Green, yes, I can see the similarities. What checks and balances, though, do you see in the more Catholic traditions that prevent them from acting in a domineering or 'cultic' way? If in fact they do ... it strikes me that some of them do act in a very similar fashion ...

In Anglicanism the Parish system and the PCC tame it, but it does exist. Love Bombing is natural human behaviour.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Wood:
The saddest thing was seeing her, basically the same person, only beginning to realise that she herself had done these things.

Yup. One of the first phonecalls I had to make after I left, after a moment of similar realisation, was to someone in a church I had been "overseeing" somewhat to ask them whether, when I'd "dealt with" them, they had felt as if I was throwing them out of leadership (which really wasn't how I had seen it at the time!).

"Well yes actually" came the reply.

The most humbling part of that experience was that very shortly thereafter, at a time when I was still emotionally in ruins, the same guy invited me to preach at his church weekend, at a time when I wasn't really sure I could ever preach again. It was a major step on the road to recovery for me, and a lasting example of true forgiveness.

I agree with the posters who say that those stuck in the system are frequently both victims and perpetrators, and it takes extreme circumstances to break free.

[ 25. June 2012, 19:20: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by genuinelyconcerned (# 17180) on :
 
Hello all,

This is my first 'Ship of Fools' post. I've been reading the thread with interest for the last few weeks and recognising a lot about my 4 years with my local NF church.

I've recognised the good. We have a genuinely humble 'lead elder' and some excellent biblical ministry and fellowship. They have generally been a great help and they have been very Jesus focussed.

But, having worked for the church for a year, and seeing a new elder about to come on board, I've now recognised some of the bad.

One of the new elders (and in NF this means, of course, an 'elder' in his early 30s) is a control freak who has bullied me on several occasions. I've been heavy shepherded before and have walked through that particular journey so I know the signs. He's not a total monster, of course, and he loves God, and I like him and wish him the best, but if you looked very deeply into his eyes you would see the words: 'New Frontiers'.

I don't think the NF ecclesiology helps at all. It's definitely 'lead, follow, or get out of the way' and the ordination process (for that is what it is) of this young man becoming an elder is extraordinary. It really isn't just a normal meeting with a prayer that the elder would be a wise servant. It's being hyped up, visiting 'apostles', special meetings, ceremonial laying on of hands, etc) This makes it a very exalted position in everyone's eyes.

I'm going to have a meeting with this dude soon as I want the best for him and the church he is now leading. I'm going to bring up some of the issues I perceive. I'll try and post my experience on here if it's helpful.

I don't want NF to go the way of Sovereign Grace Ministries:

1) a movement that emphasises young, inexperienced leaders and over-emphasises the role of the leaders in the church community. This makes a very obvious 'leaders = us; rest of congregation = them' mentality. This particular leader thinks we are 'his people' who 'follow him'

2) Like SGM, there's only their own 'in-house' theological training.

3) Leaders have the vision from God. They hear God better on this. Ironically, very little mention of the five-fold ministries. It's all 'leaders, leaders, leaders'. You're either a NF leader or you are not.

4) Neer a word about the fact that the elders are accountable to the congregation. Because, in NF, they're not.

I suppose with all the change that they're going through there's bound to be a bit of a focus on themselves at the moment. But, I have to say, I'm getting rather tired of hearing their visions and values preached once again.

Well, thanks for the insight on this thread. Particularly those who are fellowshipping in a NF church. They really do have a lot going for them but as they hit the mainstream (as SGM did) I hope these young men don't become enamoured with their 'spiritual authority' and office.

Genuinely Concerned.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
Welcome on board!

All the best in your meeting, but be aware of the risks to your own position if you are still employed by the church - and don't expect to be properly understood even if you get a hearing. It's very hard to hear all that when you are a leader on the inside.

I think the fundamental question, which I've raised many times before here and which you also touch on, is who the leader feels accountable to. If (as I suspect) it's still "those above him" and only those above him, I don't think anything has fundamentally changed.

I also think the greater focus on leaders goes back at least to the end of Stoneleigh in 2001, so it predates the current transition by quite some way.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
To genuinelyconcerned:
Please keep in mind that many of the postings here are from ex-NF/Restorationist members who may have a chip on their shoulders. I myself personally don't have an axe to grind, I just have to wonder where these leaders get their authority from.

It seems to me that (as you observe) there are good and bad sides to all this. You can't have a church where the beliefs are a "free for all" where one man's pronouncements have as much authority as anyone elses, including the leaders, can you? On the other hand, the "top-down" authoritarian style counts for nothing if such people have no such authority in the first place.

I am coming to the conclusion that the whole "Restorationist" movement is based on the Montanism of the 2nd C. which was denounced as a heresy by the Church (eventually). So the burning question which everything else hangs on, including elders' authority, is, were the Montanists right or was the Church right?

Please consider what Paul said about "testing the spirits, to see if they be of God" before you try to answer this.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I can remember times in the restorationist network I was involved with - not New Frontiers - when the focus seemed to be all on the structures and the vision and the leaders and who was doing what and going where ... yadda yadda ...

To a certain extent I think this is par for the course in any religious movement as it goes through a time of transition. Dare I say it, but I once attended part of a Deanery conference for a particular historic Church which has members posting on these Boards - let the reader understand - and I detected something of a similar dynamic there ... although not in quite the same way.

As a movement like NFI passes on the baton to a new generation it's bound to become a bit anal about its own distinctives and modus operandi etc ...

I'd really like to see them chill out a bit, and as I posted on one of their discussion blogs recently, I really am serious when I suggest that they could learn a heck of a lot from the Baptists if they can't bring themselves to contemplate how the older, historic Churches operate.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
I myself personally don't have an axe to grind, I just have to wonder where these leaders get their authority from.

Well lucky you. Instead of passing judgement on everyone else's experience perhaps you'd like to supply some contribution in the form of a theory about where the leaders get their authority from.

Gamaliel, in my experience NF is perpetually re-examining the role of leaders and more specifically, the role of individual leaders. Whether intentional or otherwise, it results in everyone being kept in a semi-permanent state of insecurity, and thus submissiveness.

This would be implausible were it not a recognised (bad) management technique in the corporate world, which seems to be where NF actually gets a lot of its ideas from in practice.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
Well lucky you. Instead of passing judgement on everyone else's experience perhaps you'd like to supply some contribution in the form of a theory about where the leaders get their authority from.

I'm not passing judgement on anyone. As I have no part in any Restorationist movement, the question of their leaders' authority isn't a question for me to answer - it is for them to answer, and their members to question.
 
Posted by Wood (# 7) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
Please keep in mind that many of the postings here are from ex-NF/Restorationist members who may have a chip on their shoulders.

Ouch!

Seriously, that's a bit of a harsh call. Or at least, if you think it, one best not said in one's out-loud voice. It's just not cool. This is not me being a junior host, here. I'm just saying.

FWIW I've never gone to one of those churches either. I hope you other folks forgive me if I chip in with things I hope are pertinent.

quote:
I am coming to the conclusion that the whole "Restorationist" movement is based on the Montanism of the 2nd C. which was denounced as a heresy by the Church (eventually). So the burning question which everything else hangs on, including elders' authority, is, were the Montanists right or was the Church right?
The thing about Restorationists and Montanism.

I don't think it worked like that. I think what actually happened was that the Restorationist movement happened, and all that stuff about prophecy and apostles and stuff happened (which is super-problematic, for about a thousand different reasons and probably worth a different thread which, wow, yeah, I think I shall go and start in a bit, because that sounds a bit interesting).

And then, afterwards, some of the brighter sparks went and started reading around Church history and discovered these groups what got anathematised, and realised that they'd achieved something like Montanism anyway and found it really attractive because Tertullian, who had a bit of respectability (Tertullian is like the Velvet Underground - everyone rates the first couple of albums, but no one even admits the last stuff they did even happened) ended up Montanist.

And since they knew they were right, they obviously felt that the Montanists were unjustly treated, which is why you get folks like this chap I just found with the help of Google who freely claim the Montanists as where the Church should have gone, and hence as natural ancestors to the Restoration movement.

tl;dr: Restorationists aren't Montanists by design, but decided they wanted to be when they discovered that Montanism had existed and was sort of like where they'd ended up.
 
Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
I am coming to the conclusion that the whole "Restorationist" movement is based on the Montanism of the 2nd C. which was denounced as a heresy by the Church (eventually). So the burning question which everything else hangs on, including elders' authority, is, were the Montanists right or was the Church right?


I'm not sure that that's correct at all. Rather than viewing Restorationism as some form of neo-Montanism, I think it deserves to be viewed as a specific pneumatological movement with its own ecclesiology that sprung from the loins of the much wider charismatic renewal movements of the 1960s, which in turn owed a fair chunk of their pneumatology to the Pentecostals (indeed, charismatics were frequently referred to in the 60s and 70s by more 'mainstream' theologians as 'neo-Pentecostals'), who it turn arose from the Wesleyan Holiness movement of the late 19th century which of course came from Methodism etc...

So, as far as the charismatic/ pneumatological side of things goes, Restorationism should be seen as much more of a development from what had gone before rather than a strict restoration (ironically). In terms of other aspects of its theology, particularly its ecclesiology, yes, it sought and seeks to restore what it perceives to be the 'purity' of The New Testament Church™ but it is scarcely unique there: all Churches like to think of themselves as being The New Testament Church™ and those arising from the Reformation, particularly the Radical Reformation traditions, have always seen themselves as restoring what they have believed to be the NT model eg: Baptists, Brethren, etc.

Where I think Montanism is relevant is that it has generated an historic fear in the Church of charismata being manifest (a sort of spiritual and theological 'race memory' almost) and Christians consequently 'going off the rails'. For Reformation tradition Churches, you also have the spectre of Munster, 17th century Quakers, 18th century fears about 'Enthusiasm' and the more apocalyptic sects of the early 19th century, cropping up from time to time.
 
Posted by The Great Gumby (# 10989) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Edward Green:
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:

@Edward Green, yes, I can see the similarities. What checks and balances, though, do you see in the more Catholic traditions that prevent them from acting in a domineering or 'cultic' way? If in fact they do ... it strikes me that some of them do act in a very similar fashion ...

In Anglicanism the Parish system and the PCC tame it, but it does exist. Love Bombing is natural human behaviour.
It certainly is, and it's all the more effective when a group has a particular intensity or sense of purpose. Maybe that's why it's a weak force in Anglicanism. [Biased]

Seriously, the other thing that makes love bombing effective is a ready-made social structure which can be set down to virtually fill a person's life. It doesn't have to be church-related, it just has to crowd out any outside interests, so that there's no external support to fall back on when the "love bombee" starts to wonder what they've got themselves into.

It's natural, and IME it's rarely deliberate, but it does happen a lot, particularly in certain church movements. The problem, as I see it, is how to deal with behaviour that can be dangerous and damaging in large groups when everyone does it, but is basically normal and even good in individual cases.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I agree with what Wood, Matt Black and The Great Gumby have said here. All spot on.

It's a funny thing, though, when I finally got round to reading some of the early Church sources I found that they pointed in a different direction - a more 'catholic' one dare I say ... (tell it not in Gath) ...

I looked largely to find confirmation about the existence of 'apostles and prophets' - 'apostles' translated as 'missioners' in the Penguin edition I had which contained the Didache) but also to quell the nagging sense of cognitive dissonance that I felt the whole time I was a restorationist.

I don't think I ever, in all that time, used the term 'apostle' when referring to any of the leaders in conversation with Christians from outside the restorationist ambit or to non-Christians. Instead, I used fairly neutral terms like 'leaders' and so on. Why? Was I embarrassed at our own claims? Yes, in retrospect, I probably was ...
 
Posted by Wood (# 7) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
It's a funny thing, though, when I finally got round to reading some of the early Church sources I found that they pointed in a different direction - a more 'catholic' one dare I say ... (tell it not in Gath) ...

Yes. This has already been said, but the idea that the institutions of the Church happened after Constantine is a fiction pretty much exploded by any reasonably attentive reading of the earliest available Christian writers. The Church was Catholicising (er, is that even a word?) itself by about a generation after the (actual) Apostles were gone.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Edward Green:

So for Matt to say that the early church got it wrong after the death of the Apostles is pretty big stuff.

He only really talks about the leadership structure as something they got wrong - though I imagine he'd probably quibble about some other aspects also.

To a certain extent all of 'us' believe this whether we are Orthodox, RCC, Protestant or whatever.

As a Protestant I would obviously disagree with some of what the Early Fathers wrote (and they are by means consistent on every issue anyway), however I do think that a lot of the things you brought up could be accommodated within a wider Evangelical and Reformed tradition.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by genuinelyconcerned:
One of the new elders (and in NF this means, of course, an 'elder' in his early 30s) is a control freak who has bullied me on several occasions. I've been heavy shepherded before and have walked through that particular journey so I know the signs. He's not a total monster, of course, and he loves God, and I like him and wish him the best, but if you looked very deeply into his eyes you would see the words: 'New Frontiers'.

...I'm going to have a meeting with this dude soon as I want the best for him and the church he is now leading. I'm going to bring up some of the issues I perceive.

I'd be very careful and count the cost before I did any confronting. Word gets around in such groups. You'll soon learn just how humble your head elder really is, and how committed he is to Jesus--as opposed to New Frontiers.

If you confront the bully, I'd consider your position dead, and would be extremely surprised if your church membership--except in a degraded state, as a cautionary tale of what happens to one with a "Jezebel Spirit"--survived the meeting long term. There's a reason why a person's a bully, and there's a reason why nominally religious systems, such as NFI and SGI, are set up in a manner that gives cover for them, and it has nothing to do with righteousness.

I'd bet you my pile of gold to your pile of horse manure that the organization, behind a facade of meaning to "do the best" for you, their "dear brother" and all the flock with whom you associate, will soon thereafter destroy you if you go forward with this. And it will all be done on the surface with white gloves and nice phrases (though this will not likely be the case behind closed doors, where they might just show their true faces) so that you'll have no means of defending yourself save for getting angry and "proving" the "Jezebelic nature". You've been warned.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I'm not sure NFI, Sovereign Grace and similar independent charismatic/evangelical outfits could be described as 'nominally religious' - rather they represent a rather over-realised form of Protestant pietism in which the somewhat authoritarian structure is in danger of squeezing the grace out to a certain extent ...

Unless necessary checks and balances are adopted to prevent that happening. However, I suspect that the weaknesses are systemic.

Whatever the case, I tend to avoid the term 'nominally religious' these days, as it was one that I used to level at aspects of the historic Churches - Anglicans, RCs, Orthodox - back in my more Puritanical days.

The term smacks of Puritanism. Which in itself is a tendency that NFI, Sovereign Grace etc exhibit in spades.

Don't get me wrong, I've got a lot of time for aspects of Puritan spirituality - in the 17th century sense and as exemplified by moderates like Richard Baxter. They did emphasise 'experimental and practical divinity' and some of their daily devotional practices weren't a million miles for anything you'd find in some of the more Catholic traditions - 'lectio divina' and so on - although obviously with a much more Protestant flavour.

The sad thing is, as has been observed elsewhere, the apparent 'reformed' credentials of groups like NF and Sovereign Grace means that they get cut a lot more slack by the mainstream evangelical press - such as Christianity Today in the US - than other outfits who don't pay such conscious reference to the Reformed or Puritan heritage.

And before Jengie Jon calls me on it, I do recognise that the Reformed tradition was/is much wider than the English Puritan one ...

Something that's struck me about a lot of ex-restorationists is that they can still tend towards a kind of Puritanical perfectionism ...

For a small number the attraction of Orthodoxy and Roman Catholicism (I know of former restorationists who have ended up in both) appears to lie in their claims of being The One True Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church - a simulacra/chimera of which they'd previously believed themselves to be restoring.

Others seem to go into more extreme health/wealth type groups. Some seem to find the Baptists as a congenial re-entry point to the mainstream. as it were ... and a number have found conducive spiritual homes among the Anglicans.

For the most part, though, I've found that a lot of former restorationists end up in parallel or 'ghost' fellowships or associations which are loosely based around one personality or other and where they spend their time slagging off their former affiliation and mourning about what might have been ...
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
@Genuinelyconcerned. You need to follow your conscience on this one. If you believe it's right before God to challenge this guy, go ahead. The warnings you've had as to the consequences may well be right. When I challenged an NF church leader about his behaviour I knew that the only direction I was going in was out of his church.

Of course, your church leader may think you're doing the right thing and that your young pal has some issues to face up to. If there's someone in another NF church you trust you might want to have a word with them to make sure you've got your perspective OK on all this.

I'll be praying for you - it's actually in everyone's interests that this goes well and there's some open and genuine listening.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I'm not sure NFI, Sovereign Grace and similar independent charismatic/evangelical outfits could be described as 'nominally religious' - rather they represent a rather over-realised form of Protestant pietism in which the somewhat authoritarian structure is in danger of squeezing the grace out to a certain extent ...

Unless necessary checks and balances are adopted to prevent that happening. However, I suspect that the weaknesses are systemic.

Whatever the case, I tend to avoid the term 'nominally religious' these days, as it was one that I used to level at aspects of the historic Churches - Anglicans, RCs, Orthodox - back in my more Puritanical days.

The term smacks of Puritanism. Which in itself is a tendency that NFI, Sovereign Grace etc exhibit in spades.

Don't get me wrong, I've got a lot of time for aspects of Puritan spirituality - in the 17th century sense and as exemplified by moderates like Richard Baxter. They did emphasise 'experimental and practical divinity' and some of their daily devotional practices weren't a million miles for anything you'd find in some of the more Catholic traditions - 'lectio divina' and so on - although obviously with a much more Protestant flavour.

The sad thing is, as has been observed elsewhere, the apparent 'reformed' credentials of groups like NF and Sovereign Grace means that they get cut a lot more slack by the mainstream evangelical press - such as Christianity Today in the US - than other outfits who don't pay such conscious reference to the Reformed or Puritan heritage.

And before Jengie Jon calls me on it, I do recognise that the Reformed tradition was/is much wider than the English Puritan one ...

Something that's struck me about a lot of ex-restorationists is that they can still tend towards a kind of Puritanical perfectionism ...

For a small number the attraction of Orthodoxy and Roman Catholicism (I know of former restorationists who have ended up in both) appears to lie in their claims of being The One True Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church - a simulacra/chimera of which they'd previously believed themselves to be restoring.

Others seem to go into more extreme health/wealth type groups. Some seem to find the Baptists as a congenial re-entry point to the mainstream. as it were ... and a number have found conducive spiritual homes among the Anglicans.

For the most part, though, I've found that a lot of former restorationists end up in parallel or 'ghost' fellowships or associations which are loosely based around one personality or other and where they spend their time slagging off their former affiliation and mourning about what might have been ...

Trust me, no puritanical ex-restorationist here! [Razz] And I loathe single leader cults of personality, prosperity gospel churches, etc. I base my "nominally religious" claim on the following: I believe that many of the members of such organizations, such as NFI, SGI, Acts 29, are genuine and sincere people who are merely misled but in any event do the true work of the church, e.g., evangelism, fellowship, worship, sharing of gifts,spiritual and corporeal. I believe most of them individually represent the True Church. But I believe the systems hamper that work and do not represent the Lord. It's the system I'm knocking, not the people in general, I believe NFI is christian in name only, and in fact is a destructive force that turns christians into abused or abuser. That's my position.

But I'm no puritan and I never really was much of a restorationist, I don't think God necessarily wants us to try and reproduce exactly what a group of people in a different culture and millenium happened to devise in response to pressures and forces that existed in their society.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
I recognise myself in much of what Gamaliel had to say. The nearest I came to Restorationism is when I spent around 2 years in the Free Presbyterian Church of Ulster (in England) who pride themselves in being fundamentalists.

I can honestly say that I have never been the same since, which is why I could never permanently settle in a more "nominally christian" church such as the C of E. I don't know if I ever used this term, but certainly this was my attitude.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
@Genuinelyconcerned. You need to follow your conscience on this one.

That's a very fair point, I didn't mean my post to be taken to tell genuinelyconcerned not to take his concerns to the abusive elder, there may be an epiphany. I did it myself, took my concerns straight to the top repeatedly, from the first elder's meeting of which I was a part to the last, I took it to the head elder in private a few times, we had short meetings, long meetings, email, blog discussions, etc. For some reason I kept at it (I guess because I'm dense) and felt that no matter how vicious he could be in private and manipulative in public, that if I just prayed enough and was nice and persuasive and longsuffering enough, he'd come around and make nice with the young people he was bullying. It all ended in acrimony anyway, because we were were operating from such different paradigms. I was a fool and wasting my time, and frankly, I don't think your time will be well spent, but I could be dead wrong, not everyone's situation is the same as mine was, and sometimes, God puts us up to lost causes, for reasons known only to Him (see Jeremiah, for example).
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
CSLI - I'm not suggesting that you ARE a fully-fledged Puritan, but, rather like Mark Betts has acknowledged, I am suggesting that ALL of us who have spent time in fellowships of that ilk - whether charismatic or at the more fundamentalist end of the evangelical spectrum - are going to have imbibed something of that attitude whether we like it or not.

I know plenty of people from that sort of background who aren't formally involved with church in any way any more yet who wouldn't dream of going to the CofE, say, or the Methodists or similar because they think of it as 'nominal'.

I'm interested in Mark Betts's use of the term though, because most evangelicals would consider the Orthodox Church to be largely 'nominal' too. Probably to a less extent here in the UK or over in the US where people have deliberately chosen to convert to Orthodoxy or else to consciously maintain it as a faith due to their ethnicity etc.

But I've heard lots of people accuse the Orthodox of nominalism in Greece, Russia and the Balkans - even the Orthodox themselves ...
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I'm interested in Mark Betts's use of the term though, because most evangelicals would consider the Orthodox Church to be largely 'nominal' too. Probably to a less extent here in the UK or over in the US where people have deliberately chosen to convert to Orthodoxy or else to consciously maintain it as a faith due to their ethnicity etc.

During my fundamentalist evangelical days, Orthodox churches were largely ethnic and few and far between. We were so busy bashing Catholics and liberals that we never even had time to consider what they taught.

Some later knowledge of Church History and doctrine was enough for me to finally decide where I should be - but no-one ever said Orthodoxy is completely perfect and in unity throughout the world.
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Sure, but I'm surprised at you asserting that the CofE is a 'nominal' Church whilst not apparently accepting that the Orthodox Church could be so described in various parts of the world - unless your last comment is evidence of that.

I don't see the Orthodox Church as any more or less 'nominal' than any other Christian church (or Church) to be honest ... no more than the Anglicans or RCs ... and I certainly wouldn't agree with CSL1 that New Frontiers and Sovereign Grace and similar outfits are 'nominal' either ...

The problem there is an equal and opposite one to that found in the historic Churches and denominations.

The whole problem with New Frontiers and other churches with a very strictly 'gathered church' mentality is that there is no room for anyone to be 'nominal' - and not to be 'nominal' in cases like that is almost invariably means signing up for absolutely everything on the menu.

At least Baptists, Methodists and URCs and other non-conformist churches tend to have something of a periphery ...

There's very little periphery in churches like NFI. You can't really be an occasional attendee or sympathetic fellow traveller ... you have to be all in or nothing.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
CSLI - I'm not suggesting that you ARE a fully-fledged Puritan, but, rather like Mark Betts has acknowledged, I am suggesting that ALL of us who have spent time in fellowships of that ilk - whether charismatic or at the more fundamentalist end of the evangelical spectrum - are going to have imbibed something of that attitude whether we like it or not.

I know plenty of people from that sort of background who aren't formally involved with church in any way any more yet who wouldn't dream of going to the CofE, say, or the Methodists or similar because they think of it as 'nominal'.

OK, I know what use of the word you're suggesting now: the mainline protestant, liberal, Bible's all just a pious metaphor" crowd. Honestly, when I say "nominal" with regard to NF, I mean it in a totally different way. The Methodist/Lutheran/Presbyterian crowd (which not only would I "dream of going to", but I've been regular attender of the first, full-fledged member of the second, and paid ministry staffer of third) in my opinion have their issues, but in each of them, I was either actively encouraged in my faith (which is quite conservative as you've correctly ascertained) or at least let alone to practice it with like-minded conservative believers in the congregation, (who most certainly do attend such churches). The hierarchy were generally encouraging and open-minded, fairly humble, didn't obsess over status, the authority of man, domination.

They weren't malicious like New Frontiers or Sovereign Grace, which are both quite conservative and zealous in their stated beliefs, but in my opinion only "nominally religious" because as institutions, I believe they exist primarily to set up spiritual serfs and lords, and they selectively quote or outright distort the Bible to support this domination scheme. They are not, at bottom, when all the nice phrases and forced piety are peeled away, about Jesus; in my experience, Jesus is merely a method by which energetic young people can be lured into a system of abuse. That is why I call NFI, SGI and Acts 29 "nominally religious".
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I know you've had a bad experience, CSL1 and I don't wish to minimise that in any way - but I still think you're being a bit harsh. I know a lot of people here in NFI and some who're involved with Sovereign Grace's UK outpost and whilst I wouldn't want to be involved with either myself, I don't doubt their sincerity.

They certainly started out with good intentions. Sure, I think that both 'systems' are flawed but I don't think they were deliberately cooked up in advance in some kind of cynical marketing exercise or ploy.

These things develop on the hoof, particularly where there aren't the checks and balances found among the older churches and denominations.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I know you've had a bad experience, CSL1 and I don't wish to minimise that in any way - but I still think you're being a bit harsh. I know a lot of people here in NFI and some who're involved with Sovereign Grace's UK outpost and whilst I wouldn't want to be involved with either myself, I don't doubt their sincerity.

They certainly started out with good intentions. Sure, I think that both 'systems' are flawed but I don't think they were deliberately cooked up in advance in some kind of cynical marketing exercise or ploy.

These things develop on the hoof, particularly where there aren't the checks and balances found among the older churches and denominations.

Can't disagree with a word you say. Very few plan destruction and mayhem from the outset, and that includes, in my opinion, Virgo, Driscoll, Mahaney, MacArthur. Hitler was a notable exception, and even then Daladier, Chamberlain, et. al. couldn't quite bring themselves to believe he really meant what he said in Mein Kampf!

Things just happen, "on the hoof" as you rightly put it, as people make decisions for pragmatic purposes, which are standing alone fairly good things, but begin failing to follow the guidance of The Creator.

We must pay the lease
So that dynamic young pastor's brutish tendencies are ignored because he can fill the building.

We must become more prominent to spread the Gospel more broadly
So the Primary Mission of the church becomes growth of the institution and the clever marketing and branding thereof rather than growth of individual lives built up in Christ.

We need strong leaders to deal with these rough-round-the-edges new believers coming through the doors
So, given the inevitabilities of human nature, what starts as Godly shepherding, in humility, lead by example, spins out of control and becomes subjugation for the purposes of domination.

I think that NFI, SGI, Acts 29 exist now primarily to persecute the church, but I don't believe this is the result of any conscious devilish scheme on the part of leaders or members. Human-made disasters seldom have One Big Reason, they're almost always the result of many choices, each of them having a logic of their own from a given, though faulty, paradigm, all adding up to one big catastrophe that few could have foreseen.

The institutions take on lives of their own, and people come to serve them, even the exalted leaders thereof become slaves of their own creations. Jim Bakker describes the phenomenon well: "My dream became bigger and bigger. And the box got bigger than the message, than the Gospel." "The box got bigger, the outside, the buildings. And all that we were doing. I had to raise about $1 million every two days just to stay alive."
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
Yes, I reckon that's pretty much on the money and a fair summary of how these things develop.

What I would caution against though (and I'm not saying you're doing this), is an overly dualistic approach that fails to recognise that churches are BOTH divine and human institutions at one and the same time - if I can put it that way. They can be conduits of grace, but also conduits of un-grace.

In Revelation terms they can be both 'synagogues of God' and 'synagogues of Satan' - sometimes, I believe, at one and the same time.

We used to distinguish between the wheat and tares in the 'field of the world' and insisted that there were no tares inside the church ... or if there were, they'd soon be weeded out ... [Roll Eyes]

There are weeds and tares in our own hearts, of course.

We all operate in some kind of context. I've just been reprimanded on Facebook by (to my mind) and overly pietistic friend (with problems of his own) for discussing ethnic/regional differences, issues of dialect and language etc on my blog.

'We are all one in Christ Jesus,' he trumpets ... missing the point of my post entirely.

I've not had that much contact with NF people or Sovereign Grace people for a while now, but those I know in those set-ups seem to be doing alright - although admittedly they've not been caught up in any organisational tussles and shenanigans. All churches have these from time to time.

I've heard Orthodox people talk about jurisdictional spats in a way that reminds me of some of the dafter things that went on in my restorationist days. None of us are immune from these things. Unless we are a 'church of one' and keep ourselves away from anyone else then we're always going to have problems ...

Saying that, I do think that certain forms of church government do lend themselves to greater abuse than others ...
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
fails to recognise that churches are BOTH divine and human institutions at one and the same time

But this is precisely what NF fails to do. They confuse their local expression of the church with the Church Triumphant and massively over-emphasise the "divine" nature of the Church, this completely failing to see the aspects still prone to human nature.

To my mind, this failing goes a long way to explaining the absence of checks and balances.

Matters' aren't helped by their functional perfectionism, ie the conviction that any remaining sin in the life of the believer is confined solely to their flesh, understanding this as referring solely to their "mortal body". This puts things such as spiritual pride and spiritual abuse right off the radar.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
But this is precisely what NF fails to do. They confuse their local expression of the church with the Church Triumphant and massively over-emphasise the "divine" nature of the Church, this completely failing to see the aspects still prone to human nature.

To my mind, this failing goes a long way to explaining the absence of checks and balances.

Matters' aren't helped by their functional perfectionism, ie the conviction that any remaining sin in the life of the believer is confined solely to their flesh, understanding this as referring solely to their "mortal body". This puts things such as spiritual pride and spiritual abuse right off the radar.

Well, I'd rather say that the last matter directly leads to the first couple of things. A view of functional perfectionism directly leads to an ecclesiology where the apostles word always goes (or as you quoted someone saying "When Terry says jump, you are supposed to ask 'How high?'").

The problem is that the one reformed doctrine they don't take on board is that of simul justus et peccator. Partly this is due to their roots, and part of this is due to the way in which they integrate aspects of the charismatic movement into their denomination. As a result - Gamaliel's favourite phrase 'over-egging' is never far away.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:
The problem is that the one reformed doctrine they don't take on board is that of simul justus et peccator.

Yes indeed, and to echo the "what made you change your mind" thread, this has become one of my most treasured ones following my departure - with thanks in part to a very supportive local Eglise Réformée pastor at that time but also our very own LutheranChik and Lamb Chopped.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
fails to recognise that churches are BOTH divine and human institutions at one and the same time

Matters' aren't helped by their functional perfectionism, ie the conviction that any remaining sin in the life of the believer is confined solely to their flesh, understanding this as referring solely to their "mortal body". This puts things such as spiritual pride and spiritual abuse right off the radar.
Ah, the heresy John was contending with. I had no idea they were into gnosticism! I guess it explains a lot of odd behavior I saw. It wasn't just the abuse that I noticed in NFI, it was some strange and inexplicable things they said from time to time, some theological points-of-view that had never occurred to me and that I thought would never occur to anyone sane. Never put it all together, though, had no idea I was amongst gnostics.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by CSL1:
Ah, the heresy John was contending with. I had no idea they were into gnosticism!

It's very subtle. Here's the short thread we had some years ago on this topic as it relates to Terry Virgo's teaching, originally in Kerygmania and now in Oblivion.
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:

The problem is that the one reformed doctrine they don't take on board is that of simul justus et peccator. [/QB][/QUOTE]

Pack 'em all off to learn some Latin.......
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
quote:
Originally posted by CSL1:
Ah, the heresy John was contending with. I had no idea they were into gnosticism!

It's very subtle. Here's the short thread we had some years ago on this topic as it relates to Terry Virgo's teaching, originally in Kerygmania and now in Oblivion.
In my experiences with NFI, 18 months as a regular attender, 6 as an elder, it was clear they were open to the charismatic gifts. I also have some experience with charismatic churches, and know a minority are full blown gnostics. I know little about Virgo's background and have no idea how he became a charismatic, but wonder if the gnosticism results from his adaptation of some teaching he got in such circles.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by CSL1:
...I know little about Virgo's background and have no idea how he became a charismatic, but wonder if the gnosticism results from his adaptation of some teaching he got in such circles.

I'd never imagined charismatics to be associated with gnosticism, but now you come to mention it... I'll make no hasty judgements, but it's worth a thought.
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
quote:
Originally posted by chris stiles:

The problem is that the one reformed doctrine they don't take on board is that of simul justus et peccator.
Pack 'em all off to learn some Latin....... [/QB][/QUOTE]

Well, they like to bring up their seminary credentials quite often - so maybe they should just use them.
 
Posted by Niteowl2 (# 15841) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by CSL1:
...I know little about Virgo's background and have no idea how he became a charismatic, but wonder if the gnosticism results from his adaptation of some teaching he got in such circles.

I'd never imagined charismatics to be associated with gnosticism, but now you come to mention it... I'll make no hasty judgements, but it's worth a thought.
You might want to make that some charismatics have adapted gnosticism into their theology. Happens more often in churches where the founder isn't accountable to anyone else and/or is free to incorporate any strains of theological thought they please.
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Niteowl2:
You might want to make that some charismatics have adapted gnosticism into their theology. Happens more often in churches where the founder isn't accountable to anyone else and/or is free to incorporate any strains of theological thought they please.

OK, I'll buy that.
 
Posted by Barnabas62 (# 9110) on :
 
What gnosticism actually "is" is a pretty closed book for most folks in the renewal movement.

This is quite a useful initial summary.

I think it's reasonable to say that the NF views on the flesh are gnostic-ish when it comes to their understanding of human nature. However, NF are decidedly "ungnonstic" when it comes to cosmology or deity.

This quote from the gnosis website makes that clear.

quote:
Human nature mirrors the duality found in the world: in part it was made by the false creator God and in part it consists of the light of the True God. Humankind contains a perishable physical and psychic component, as well as a spiritual component which is a fragment of the divine essence. This latter part is often symbolically referred to as the “divine spark”.
In short, Terry Virgo and all of NF would certainly disavow the first sentence but, in accordance with that useful Oblivion thread, go some way down the line of the last two.

At least that seems a fair summary to me of Virgo's words quoted in the Oblivion thread.
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
@Barnabas - not sure there's a problem with believing in a 'perishable physical and psychic compenent.' Isn't that just a complicated way of saying we're mortal? No one in NF would say we possess a 'divine spark'.

If someone wants to attribute 'gnostic' ideas to anyone in NF they really to quote a gnostic writer and say how that maps onto NF teaching.

I'm open to persuasion on this (it's been a long time since I studied Gnosticism) but given that gnosticism is a term that covers a wide and complex variety of thought the charge needs some more substance.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
I'm not really sure I'd call it gnosticism, to be honest.

My lay understanding of gnosticism is that it includes the idea that matter is evil. I don't think that's present at all in NF.

The idea is not that the flesh is evil but that unlike the "new man", it is unredeemed. Consequently (and this is the important but perhaps unstated outworking in terms of thinking) sin can reside only in the flesh - with the (perhaps unintended) result that there are no sins of the intellect.

[ 03. July 2012, 20:37: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by Gamaliel (# 812) on :
 
I'm not sure it is Gnostic either, but ... sorry Eutychus ... I do think that, like much of NFI teaching (and by extension, evangelical charismatic teaching in general) it is over-realised or over-egged.

In my experience, most charismatic evangelical outfits - be they Anglican, Baptist, Vineyard or 'restorationist' - are overly dualistic to a greater or lesser extent. And I'd suggest that there are elements that CAN incline towards the Gnostic ... but probably fall a tad short of it in most instances.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
They do tend to see sin as of the flesh only.

This when put with other potentially abusive structures and doctrines isn't good. As said before there is no way this can be debated within NF. When Terry gets it wrong, they all get it wrong.

How about the sins of the wider society, politics, the money system, and corporate church structures ? Didn't hear too many sermons on those subjects ! Have a lustful thought though, better get accountable to an elder who can keep you on the right path. Very inward looking, accountability only upwards, and not very balanced when you compare it with what Jesus tended to talk about.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
Very inward looking, accountability only upwards, and not very balanced when you compare it with what Jesus tended to talk about.

Or practiced. The remarkable thing about NF is they assume a level of authority and power over followers that even the Lord God Himself in human form didn't exercise over the disciples!
And add that to their utter disregard in practice of Jesus' mandate in Matt 20: "You know how the rulers of the gentiles lord it over them, hold them in subjection, tyrannize them. Not so with you! Whoever wants to be great among you must be a servant, whoever wants to be first must be a slave."

In my opinion, such organizations might just as well be spitting directly into the face of Jesus, couldn't be any worse than what they do to his word and his bride.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
CSL1 I couldn't agree more ! But if you point this out to them all you get is 'we shouldn't lord it over others but....' there is always more double speak to justify lording it over the flock.

Their theology series sums it up. If you disagree you can't email them because they are too busy to answer you ! Typical arrogance IMO. They never engaged in proper debate on theology in my time at NF. That's not healthy. Its mind control. As you pointed out Jesus often liked people to come to their own conclusions and wanted them to think. I never got the impression NF wanted anything other than unquestioning, unthinking obedience.

From an NFI publication Please note:
Because of the very busy schedules of the contributors to these theological papers it is not possible to enter into correspondence related to the themes covered".

[Fixed your code as I was passing. And all that followed quoting you! - T]

[ 05. July 2012, 16:00: Message edited by: Tubbs ]
 
Posted by chris stiles (# 12641) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gamaliel:
I'm not sure it is Gnostic either, but ... sorry Eutychus ... I do think that, like much of NFI teaching (and by extension, evangelical charismatic teaching in general) it is over-realised or over-egged.

Yeah, it's not so much gnostic as over-realized, less not yet and more already.
 
Posted by Ramarius (# 16551) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
CSL1 I couldn't agree more ! But if you point this out to them all you get is 'we shouldn't lord it over others but....' there is always more double speak to justify lording it over the flock.

Their theology series sums it up. If you disagree you can't email them because they are too busy to answer you ! Typical arrogance IMO. They never engaged in proper debate on theology in my time at NF. That's not healthy. Its mind control. As you pointed out Jesus often liked people to come to their own conclusions and wanted them to think. I never got the impression NF wanted anything other than unquestioning, unthinking obedience.

From an NFI publication. Please note:
Because of the very busy schedules of the contributors to these theological papers it is not possible to enter into correspondence related to the themes covered".

Can't think they're busier than people like Greg Boyd who will enter into discussion. Shame they can't even engage with creative ideas like web chats or time limited forums on papers. This stuff is discussed among selected groups of leaders.

[ 05. July 2012, 15:58: Message edited by: Tubbs ]
 
Posted by A.Pilgrim (# 15044) on :
 
An interesting input to the discussion of the mind/body dichotomy comes from neuropsychology. To summarise rather simplistically, what we call the mind is generated by the biochemical functioning of neurological processing in the biological, physical entity we call the brain. The mind is therefore just as much a biological entity as any other part of the body. So if the ‘flesh’ refers to the physical body, then it must also refer to the mind as well, since it is just as much part of the physical body.

From this POV it is nonsense to suggest that one part of the physical body – the mind – is perfect, while the rest is imperfect and unredeemed. IMO the mind/body dualism isn’t validly derived from the Bible either, so it is a pleasure to see evidence from study of God’s works in creation confirming evidence from His word. (And this also endorses the resurrection of the body – we need a physical body in which to generate mental processing with which to develop the consciousness with which to be aware of our resurrected existence.)

The authoritarian imposition within NF of the dualistic doctrine referred to in posts above (as well as other doctrines) is one of the reasons that I could probably never be a member of an NF church.

[Favour to ask of Hosts: The excessive length of the URL in the link to the NF article in the posts immediately above forces the display of this page wider than my computer screen, requiring constant left and right scrolling to read every post. As this may affect many other shipmates as well, could it possibly be edited so that the URL itself is hidden in the code, and a shorter substitute displayed? Pretty please?]

[Edit for clarity]

[ 04. July 2012, 22:36: Message edited by: A.Pilgrim ]
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
From an NFI publication. [/URL]

Please note:
"Because of the very busy schedules of the contributors to these theological papers it is not possible to enter into correspondence related to the themes covered".

Actually, some of these links look quite interesting. I may read a few when I have time. We don't "do" theological debate at my church, but I imagine if the catechesis was a discussion group it would go round and round in circles with us not growing in Christ at all.

[ 05. July 2012, 15:58: Message edited by: Tubbs ]
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by A.Pilgrim:
[Favour to ask of Hosts: The excessive length of the URL in the link to the NF article in the posts immediately above forces the display of this page wider than my computer screen, requiring constant left and right scrolling to read every post. As this may affect many other shipmates as well, could it possibly be edited so that the URL itself is hidden in the code, and a shorter substitute displayed? Pretty please?]

Far be it from me to presume to take on a hostly role, but I recreated the link in my response above - try it and see if it's any better.
 
Posted by Niteowl2 (# 15841) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
...From an NFI publication. Please note:


Please note:
"Because of the very busy schedules of the contributors to these theological papers it is not possible to enter into correspondence related to the themes covered".

Actually, some of these links look quite interesting. I may read a few when I have time. We don't "do" theological debate at my church, but I imagine if the catechesis was a discussion group it would go round and round in circles with us not growing in Christ at all.
You might be surprised. I've found discussion and debate actually encourages growth in Christ. ETA: This is because I'm forced to know what I believe and why - and it's not based on what someone else knows.

[ 05. July 2012, 15:59: Message edited by: Tubbs ]
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Niteowl2:
You might be surprised. I've found discussion and debate actually encourages growth in Christ. ETA: This is because I'm forced to know what I believe and why - and it's not based on what someone else knows.

Discussion yes. The problem in this case was that someone came along to catechesis with no intention of becoming Orthodox - he just wanted a debate about the merits of baptist theology verses the merits of Orthodoxy.

As we often say, there's a time and a place for everything and we can debate different theologies (politely) on SofF as much as we like.
 
Posted by Niteowl2 (# 15841) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by Niteowl2:
You might be surprised. I've found discussion and debate actually encourages growth in Christ. ETA: This is because I'm forced to know what I believe and why - and it's not based on what someone else knows.

Discussion yes. The problem in this case was that someone came along to catechesis with no intention of becoming Orthodox - he just wanted a debate about the merits of baptist theology verses the merits of Orthodoxy.

As we often say, there's a time and a place for everything and we can debate different theologies (politely) on SofF as much as we like.

I'd never dream of attending a catechesis class (or catechism as it's known in some circles) and trying to debate. That's for another time and place. I've got a varied background in differing churches due to my missions time but I've yet to find one I've agree with everything on - well, perhaps when I was a child - but there is a place for discussion and debate with everyone from priests/pastors to friends and strangers. We did have discussions in the catechism classes of my youth, but it was generally aimed at convincing everyone "we're right and everyone else is wrong" - which imho is also not the time or place for that.

[ 05. July 2012, 10:24: Message edited by: Niteowl2 ]
 
Posted by A.Pilgrim (# 15044) on :
 
[Note of thanks to Tubbs for code-editing as requested - much appreciated. [Smile] ]
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ramarius:
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
CSL1 I couldn't agree more ! But if you point this out to them all you get is 'we shouldn't lord it over others but....' there is always more double speak to justify lording it over the flock.

Their theology series sums it up. If you disagree you can't email them because they are too busy to answer you ! Typical arrogance IMO. They never engaged in proper debate on theology in my time at NF. That's not healthy. Its mind control. As you pointed out Jesus often liked people to come to their own conclusions and wanted them to think. I never got the impression NF wanted anything other than unquestioning, unthinking obedience.

From an NFI publication. Please note:
Because of the very busy schedules of the contributors to these theological papers it is not possible to enter into correspondence related to the themes covered".

Can't think they're busier than people like Greg Boyd who will enter into discussion. Shame they can't even engage with creative ideas like web chats or time limited forums on papers. This stuff is discussed among selected groups of leaders.
I lived in St. Paul when Boyd was a prof at Bethel Sem, prolific author and scholar, plus the preaching pastor of a mega church. Throughout that time, he was legendary around campus for his open door policy, according to every student I knew who'd had contact with him, he was always available and would hear you out. Rather the polar opposite of these cultish cliques.
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mark Betts:
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
From an NFI publication. [/URL]

Please note:
"Because of the very busy schedules of the contributors to these theological papers it is not possible to enter into correspondence related to the themes covered".

Actually, some of these links look quite interesting. I may read a few when I have time. We don't "do" theological debate at my church, but I imagine if the catechesis was a discussion group it would go round and round in circles with us not growing in Christ at all.
Do let us know if you find anything that might be of particular interest to discuss here.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
As yet I have not heard back from New Frontiers on how much Terry Virgo is paid. (Nor Mark Driscoll from contacting Mars Hill either).

So I'm supposed to turn up at their churches, empty ten percent of my wages into their coffers and not have a clue how much goes into their wages, because they are so anointed that to even dare to ask the question is a sign of rebelliousness?

I can think of no other walk of life where this level of trust is demanded. Personally I think Christians should stop being naive. Transparent accounts or no donations. I do not believe God told them to make their salary top secret.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
The problem in this case was that someone came along to catechesis with no intention of becoming Orthodox - he just wanted a debate about the merits of baptist theology verses the merits of Orthodoxy.[/QB]
That's just bad form. Sounds like the type I've occasionally run across: On a Mission, itching for confrontation, oft full of themselves, martyr complex, etc. Usually get over themselves by middle age.
 
Posted by CSL1 (# 17168) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Arminian:
As yet I have not heard back from New Frontiers on how much Terry Virgo is paid. (Nor Mark Driscoll from contacting Mars Hill either).

So I'm supposed to turn up at their churches, empty ten percent of my wages into their coffers and not have a clue how much goes into their wages, because they are so anointed that to even dare to ask the question is a sign of rebelliousness?

I can think of no other walk of life where this level of trust is demanded. Personally I think Christians should stop being naive. Transparent accounts or no donations. I do not believe God told them to make their salary top secret.

I'm an attorney by trade, now teach law at a university, have also taught accounting. In principle, these churches are asking their member-"shareholders" to invest assets without making disclosures essential to the investment decision. While not technically illegal, in my opinion it's unethical--and, of course, they have fools for shareholders!

At the New Frontiers church I attended, at first we had checks and balances. A young man working through an MBA and a middle aged fellow who was a CPA (same as Brit Chartered Accountant) and CFO of a non-profit for his day job were in charge of finances.

But then the Head Elder jettisoned them and took over. This was never announced to the church, it wasn't even revealed in the elder's meetings. He also discontinued support of the church's missionary-seminarian, whom he had promised from the pulpit in an elaborate Sending Out Ceremony the church would support throughout his academic career--again, never announced, never discussed even in elder's meetings. As an elder, I only found out when the very young "Yes Man" elder let it slip in a private conversation.

There were evidently only three people who knew of this changing of the guard and withdrawal of support prior to the Yes Man's slip of the tongue: Head Elder, his right hand man on the elder's team (whom I called The Enforcer because of his fierce loyalty to head elder and his huge muscles), and young Yes Man. The rest of the elder team, all half dozen of us, were kept completely in the dark (perhaps we were only there for show to "prove" the checks and balances).

At this church, if you revealed something they wanted kept secret, Head Elder would sometimes tell you you'd be "Serving Satan" by so doing, so I can only imagine he did everything he could to hush the outsted financial team and the defunded seminarian. I know it took some time for them to finally confess in private what had happened. When I confronted Head Elder and The Enforcer with what I'd discovered, they were furious: "WHO told you that?"

What bothered me was not so much that they would go back on a public promise of financial support and oust the original financial team, but that they'd do it, then do everything possible to conceal it while continuing to solicit donations each week. If they'd only revealed everything, people could have made informed decisions.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Just got this back from New Frontiers. Asked for Terry Virgo's salary. Got this ! (No reply from Mars Hill yet).


Thanks for your email to Newfrontiers. I'm afraid I do not have the information you request. Leaders in Newfrontiers churches are employed by their churches and as such we don't hold salary information. Due to our data protection policy I'm not sure I would be able to divulge such information even if I had it.

Many thanks,
xxxxxx xxxxxxxxx
 
Posted by The Undiscovered Country (# 4811) on :
 
Just come rather late to this thread. Sorry, haven't been here for a long time! A number of NewFrontiers churches tie leaders' salaries to teachers' salaries within schools.

I'll have a read through the rest of this thread later today!
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
Welcome back! It's been a long time!

quote:
Originally posted by The Undiscovered Country:
A number of NewFrontiers churches tie leaders' salaries to teachers' salaries within schools.

This information is in fact already here, buried back on about page 4, here. Enjoy your read [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Drewthealexander (# 16660) on :
 
I see that the admirable David Devenish has launched his 'new' apostolic sphere with a branded identity and a conference in 2013.

A conspiracy theorist may attach some significance to this conference being held on the Stoneleigh show ground, home for many years of the premier Newfrontiers annual corporate event. I'm personally more inclined to see this as a practical proposition for what is hoped to be an event for 4000 delegates.

Perhaps some clarity around other regional spheres will begin to emerge on the back of this move.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Not another conference. Boy to these people love conferences. Do the leaders actually do much other than fly around the world attending conferences ?

Seems a nice jolly to me. Big salary, little or no accountability to the congregation, and frequent trips abroad to listen to the party line.

Of course they all have to have the official charismatic smiley face picture. Give me a grumpy but genuine git any day !
 
Posted by Snags (# 15351) on :
 
If there's any chance of a decent salary to go with that grumpy but genuine git position, where do I send my CV?
 
Posted by Snags (# 15351) on :
 
Apologies for double-post, just followed the link. "Continue to press into all that God has promised ...". Fox ache, what an overblown euphemism for "Plod on with life doing the same old same old".

I'n not sure I could cope with a life that was constantly so full of joyous excitement I had a permanent shit-eating grin welded to my face.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
quote:
I'n not sure I could cope with a life that was constantly so full of joyous excitement I had a permanent shit-eating grin welded to my face.
[Killing me]

Absolutely. I joked with my wife that the endless church banners showing glowing ecstatic people were very discriminatory towards grumpy middle aged men, and lacked diversity.

Far better to drop the mask and be honest. Much less stressful than the pressure outfits like NF can put on people. I'm glad I left. Oh bugger - they just made me smile !
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
In my NF days I once noticed (I can't for the life of me remember how) that the head of an ecstatic blonde had been photoshopped onto the body of some other worshipper in quite a prominent ad for Stoneleigh. I asked somebody about it but the reason was not forthcoming.
 
Posted by Stejjie (# 13941) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Snags:

I'n not sure I could cope with a life that was constantly so full of joyous excitement I had a permanent shit-eating grin welded to my face.

Has gone in the Quotes File...
 
Posted by Snags (# 15351) on :
 
Ooo. My ego is appropriately stroked.
 
Posted by Eutychus (# 3081) on :
 
Looks like those in the ranks are not sure whether this is a "breakup" or "the family growing up and leaving home". But apparently there is no longer any event attended by all these leaders. Read more here: The Emperor's New Frontiers.

[ 12. September 2012, 11:38: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
 
Posted by Honest Ron Bacardi (# 38) on :
 
So; New Apostolic Sphere = Patriarchate
 
Posted by Haydee (# 14734) on :
 
Interesting that none of the life group would know who the 'sphere leaders' are. So much for accountability...
 
Posted by Mark Betts (# 17074) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Honest Ron Bacardi:
So; New Apostolic Sphere = Patriarchate

Where did that come from? I briefly skimmed through the (very boring) article, but I couldn't see anything like that.
 
Posted by Honest Ron Bacardi (# 38) on :
 
It's a joke, Mark.
 
Posted by Truman White (# 17290) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Eutychus:
Looks like those in the ranks are not sure whether this is a "breakup" or "the family growing up and leaving home". But apparently there is no longer any event attended by all these leaders. Read more here: The Emperor's New Frontiers.

Interesting that leaders will develop their own "doctrinal distinctives." Virgo's an interesting character. Depending who you talk to he's either Papa Terry head of the NF Mafia or the Blessed Virgo full of grace. Have to see how his sons and grandsons turn out.
 
Posted by Arminian (# 16607) on :
 
Does this new structure lead to more accountability or less ?

It looks confused to me. Maybe its supposed to be. I just wish they'd go away. I'm still in recovery from their crappy and abusive theology.

Our local NF minister is continually traveling to NF overseas thousands of miles away to see his 'apostle'. Must be costing a fortune. Of course the congregation didn't get a say in it or the appointment of the 'apostle'. They're just supposed to 'submit to the vision' and shut up.
 
Posted by The Undiscovered Country (# 4811) on :
 
An explanation of what the new apostolic spheres mean in practice can be found at; http://www.christcentralchurches.org/ in the item labelled 'Jeremy Simpkins-Christ Central'.

(Incidentally the 2nd David Devenish preach-God's plan to change the world part 2' also has a really interesting exposition on how Christians should inter-act with arts and culture .)
 


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