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Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Of course, it helps keeping this crisis in perspective, if one knows that problems with sexual abuse are at least as bad among non-Catholic ministers, and much worse among teachers. Perhaps one should consider it as a compliment to priests that they are being held to a much higher standard than comparable professionals. Another interesting fact is that abuse by sexual priest was to about 90% homosexual ephebophilia (abuse of adolescent boys). It appears thus that the instruction by the Vatican to dissuade candidates for the priesthood that practice homosexuality or present deep-seated homosexual tendencies, so much beloved by "liberals", was timely and appropriate to avoid such problems in the future.

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There is really no excuse for this horseshit from an intelligent man. In an extremely short amount of time I was able to find this example study in a peer reviewed journal. There are many others.

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Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
Ingo, have a read of the Ryan report and the Dublin report, then see if you can still manage to assert what you have said with any credence.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
There is really no excuse for this horseshit from an intelligent man. In an extremely short amount of time I was able to find this example study in a peer reviewed journal. There are many others.

Your link is utterly irrelevant. I was talking about sexual abuse by Catholic priests, in particular as revealed in the US.

quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
Ingo, have a read of the Ryan report and the Dublin report, then see if you can still manage to assert what you have said with any credence.

I have indeed not read those, but was referring to data from the US crisis. But upon using my search bar...
quote:
First link from Google for "Ryan report" states:
The report found that molestation and rape were "endemic" in boys' facilities, chiefly run by the Christian Brothers order, and supervisors pursued policies that increased the danger. Girls supervised by orders of nuns, chiefly the Sisters of Mercy, suffered much less sexual abuse but instead endured frequent assaults and humiliation designed to make them feel worthless.


 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
The problem is single sex institutions not homosexuality you moron. You think the high incidence of male rape in prisons is due to masses of homosexual criminals ?
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
The problem is single sex institutions not homosexuality you moron.

This may be an explanation for the Irish scandal, but I was talking about the US one. US Catholic priests certainly had sufficient access to girls, in particular from the 60s on when most cases occurred. There may be some bias in the data since female altar servers were only allowed from 1983, perhaps meaning less exposure of girls earlier. But the John Jay report suggests that the most frequent context for abuse was a social event and many priests socialized with the families of victims, with grooming tactics used on intended victims. Sexual abuse from priests hence follows the usual pattern of social familiarity representing the greatest danger, rather than of opportunistic attacks within the church environment itself.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
You are less likely to get a boy pregnant. But perhaps more importantly, it is an error to try to extrapolate and adult's sexual orientation from an incident of child abuse, see here. It would make much more sense, for example, to persuade people who know they are sexually attracted to children - but at this time have no offending history - seeking ordination.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
Sorry, that should read, "to avoid seeking ordination".
 
Posted by Zach82 (# 3208) on :
 
Isn't there a logical fallacy somewhere in here? Most cases of molestation are homosexual, so all homosexuals are liable to molest boys?

Zach
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
You are less likely to get a boy pregnant.

Only 25% of the sexual abuse involved (the attempt of) penile penetration.

quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
But perhaps more importantly, it is an error to try to extrapolate and adult's sexual orientation from an incident of child abuse, see here.

Over 80% of the abuse in general, and over 90% in hardest-hit Boston, was male-male. Almost 80% of the victims were 11 to 17 years old, thus these cases were largely hebephilia / ephebophilia (in puberty or after), not pedophilia. It may or may not be true that child (pre-pubescent) molestation has little correlation with gender preference. Yet here (early) teens were targeted, and I consider it highly unlikely per se that attraction to teens has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Typing "teenage boys" into google image search with SafeSearch switched off should provide some circumstantial evidence... Further, while there are some factors that may bias abuse towards boys (as you say, the danger of pregnancy, or as I said, the greater contact of boys with priests in the past), I do not think that this can account for the very clear preference of boys visible in the data. If this abuse was due to perpetrators with no sexual preference, one would precisely expect a gender split close to 50:50. But the actual numbers are nowhere near that.

quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
It would make much more sense, for example, to persuade people who know they are sexually attracted to children - but at this time have no offending history - seeking ordination.

Dissuade, I assume. Certainly you won't be allowed to ordination with an admitted sexual attraction to children (anymore, at least...). The argument against practicing or "unlikely to remain abstinent" homosexuals as priest is of course also not based on the sexual abuse crisis, but on the general RC condemnation of homosexual acts. Yet, the US abuse scandal was largely due to priests interested sexually in (early) teenage boys, not girls. This the stats show.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
Most cases are not. Ingo is talking about a v specific subset.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
Cross-post obviously.
 
Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
quote:

...problems with sexual abuse are at least as bad among non-Catholic ministers, and much worse among teachers.

Do we actually know that? If so how?

NB IngoB's link points to a dead site put up by a domain farmer - is there a typo in the name?
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Zach82:
Most cases of molestation are homosexual, so all homosexuals are liable to molest boys?

That's a fallacy, certainly. It's however not something that I have claimed in any way or form. Yet if the US Church had somehow managed to keep homosexuals out of the priesthood, then she would have avoided the majority of abuses that in fact occurred. The only chance to deny this, in spite of the data, is to claim that the sexual abuse was committed by priests with no sexual orientation, which by external circumstances were forced to target almost exclusively boys in their (early) teens. No convincing argument for this has been made so far, in my opinion.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
His original link was to a catholic league paper with a rather dodgy research round up in it.

IngoB - do you believe homosexuals are more likely to abuse children / adolescents than heterosexuals ?
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Yet if the US Church had somehow managed to keep homosexuals out of the priesthood, then she would have avoided the majority of abuses that in fact occurred.

Really ?!? Do you think that they would not have abused children in any other context ? Or that they would have been more likely to get caught ?
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ken:
Do we actually know that? If so how?

NB IngoB's link points to a dead site put up by a domain farmer - is there a typo in the name?

I'm not sure which link you have problems with? Think² messed up my first link in the quote, it's OK in her original. It has the data references you are looking for, here it is again.
 
Posted by kankucho (# 14318) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
...I consider it highly unlikely per se that attraction to teens has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Typing "teenage boys" into google image search with SafeSearch switched off should provide some circumstantial evidence...

I've read that through several times now within its context, yet can't for the life of me see what pertinent point you're making with it. Still, whatever floats your boat...

[ 24. January 2010, 14:29: Message edited by: kankucho ]
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
IngoB - do you believe homosexuals are more likely to abuse children / adolescents than heterosexuals?

I have no idea, since I have not studied the question. I have however no a priori reason to assume so.

quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
Really?!? Do you think that they would not have abused children in any other context? Or that they would have been more likely to get caught?

I meant neither. Who can know that? Whatever these people would have done though, they would not have done it as US Catholic priests.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
IngoB - do you believe homosexuals are more likely to abuse children / adolescents than heterosexuals?

I have no idea, since I have not studied the question. I have however no a priori reason to assume so.
Then don't you think that obliges you to be particularly careful in implying this particular libel ?
 
Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
It has the data references you are looking for, here it is again.

Thanks.

Though neither that site nor the references from it have an estimate for the numbers of Protestant ministers accused of sexual abuse, nor for teachers. There is a reference to some papers about sexual "misconduct" by teachers - but it includes no real numbers and uses a much wider definition of "misconduct" so there is no comparison possible - its basically a rather stringy polemic against teachers unions supported by allegation and anecdote rather than data.

So there is no basis here for saying that priests are more or less likely to abuse children than those other groups.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
This makes an interesting read.
 
Posted by kankucho (# 14318) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ken:
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
It has the data references you are looking for, here it is again.

Thanks.

Though neither that site nor the references from it have an estimate for the numbers of Protestant ministers accused of sexual abuse, nor for teachers. There is a reference to some papers about sexual "misconduct" by teachers - but it includes no real numbers and uses a much wider definition of "misconduct" so there is no comparison possible - its basically a rather stringy polemic against teachers unions supported by allegation and anecdote rather than data.

So there is no basis here for saying that priests are more or less likely to abuse children than those other groups.

It's certainly well annotated, and dressed up to look suitably candid, but the Catholic League's selection of data can hardly be considered objective under the circumstances. I'm making no counter claim. Just sayin'.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
It may or may not be true that child (pre-pubescent) molestation has little correlation with gender preference. Yet here (early) teens were targeted, and I consider it highly unlikely per se that attraction to teens has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

I'm implying from this statement that you either have made an extensive academic study in psychosexual development, or you've got experience being attracted to teenagers.

Or you're talking out your ass. Hm. I am always fond of the Third Way in arguments such as these.

[ 24. January 2010, 15:33: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by kankucho:
I've read that through several times now within its context, yet can't for the life of me see what pertinent point you're making with it. Still, whatever floats your boat...

Not my most brilliantly articulated argument, admittedly - I meant to illustrate that the rather massive presence of "teen porn" (both pretend and not) suggests that sexual interest in teens is fairly common, and hence mostly found in people who do have a clear sexual preference.

quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
Then don't you think that obliges you to be particularly careful in implying this particular libel?

For whatever reason, homosexual priests appear more likely to abuse adolescents, according to the US data. If you generalize that to all homosexuals, how is that my fault?

quote:
Originally posted by ken:
There is a reference to some papers about sexual "misconduct" by teachers - but it includes no real numbers and uses a much wider definition of "misconduct" so there is no comparison possible - its basically a rather stringy polemic against teachers unions supported by allegation and anecdote rather than data.

Bullshit, ken. To quote in part:
quote:
One of the nation’s foremost authorities on the subject of the sexual abuse of minors in public schools is Hofstra University professor Charol Shakeshaft. In 1994, Shakeshaft and Audrey Cohan did a study of 225 cases of educator sexual abuse in New York City. Their findings are astounding.

All of the accused admitted sexual abuse of a student, but none of the abusers was reported to the authorities, and only 1 percent lost their license to teach. Only 35 percent suffered negative consequences of any kind, and 39 percent chose to leave their school district, most with positive recommendations. Some were even given an early retirement package.

Moving molesting teachers from school district to school district is a common phenomenon. And in only 1 percent of the cases do superintendents notify the new school district. According to Diana Jean Schemo, the term "passing the trash" is the preferred jargon among educators.

Shakeshaft has also determined that 15 percent of all students have experienced some kind of sexual misconduct by a teacher between kindergarten and 12th grade; the behaviors range from touching to forced penetration. She and Cohan also found that up to 5 percent of teachers sexually abuse children.

Data of the above come mostly from "Charol Shakeshaft and Audrey Cohan, In loco parentis: Sexual abuse of students in schools, (What administrators should know). Report to the U.S. Department of Education, Field Initiated Grants".

quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
This makes an interesting read.

Agreed. The apparently most comprehensive study by Goodstein (2003) supports male-male abuse at about 80%, though suggests a greater fraction of pedophiles at 43%. It also mentions a prevalence rate of 1.8% and a suggested rate of 3.6% (assuming twice as many offenders as caught), to be compared with the "up to 5%" for teacher above.

[ 24. January 2010, 15:53: Message edited by: IngoB ]
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Huh. I thought I was in Dead Horses there for a minute.
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
Don't you see, Spiffy? Isn't it clear? Sexual orientation is a nice, easy and simply-defined black-and-white absolute, isn't it? And there is never any sort of spectrum of proclivity that can shift during a lifetime, right? And that there's absolutely no possibility at all that the very setting of Catholic ministry is itself a driving factor in these seemingly systemic sexual predations, is there?

-koff-

Additionally, the Ship's galley is responding swiftly and decisively about the recent preponderance of ground beef in the stew. Unlike before, we're not going to pretend that it didn't happen. To prevent the abomination of ground beef, we're going to carefully screen our beef to make sure that only nice, normal cuts of un-perverted beef are selected to go into our grinder.
 
Posted by Zach82 (# 3208) on :
 
quote:
To prevent the abomination of ground beef, we're going to carefully screen our beef to make sure that only nice, normal cuts of un-perverted beef are selected to go into our grinder.
You mean, screen out the gay beef?

Zach
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
Don't you see, Spiffy? Isn't it clear? Sexual orientation is a nice, easy and simply-defined black-and-white absolute, isn't it?

Oh, yah, shure, you betcha. Sexual orientation most assuredly is black-and-white in my experience. As in, I'll have black and white, please, and are there any other colors in the back?

Although I think there's a legion of folks who will dispute the assertation I'm easy. References available upon request.
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
Here's a proposal:
Get rid of all Catholic clergy. No clergy, no clergy abuse. I have to admit that this is just a simple extrapolation of the logic already being used, but I feel it will have more comprehensive results.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
Or you refuse to let children into the church.
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
originally posted by IngoB:

quote:

if the US Church had somehow managed to keep homosexuals out of the priesthood, then she would have avoided the majority of abuses that in fact occurred.

It appears that your entire argument rests on the notion that sexual abuse of minors to a large extent (if not entirely) involves sexual attraction and sexual gratification. Even a cursory glance at research from around the 80's onwards will indicate to you that this is not the case.
 
Posted by Zach82 (# 3208) on :
 
We totally could have prevented 9/11 by keeping all Muslims out of our country.

Zach
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Well Think, that sort of shoots your argument in the foot. 44% of offenders were gay while only 4%ish of the general population is gay.

Here, let me save you. About 30% of priests self report as gay. That's still a long way from 44% but at least it doesn't make gay priests out to be uncontrolled boy-love machines.

It also raises some questions about why gay men are attracted to the priesthood. One obvious answer is that they see their sexual attraction as an indication of their vocations. A more ominous reading might be that they see the position of priest as a good one to launch sexual exploitations. Plus there are probably as many other explanations as their are priests.

So here's a question. If instead of a thirtyish priest and a fifteen year old boy, there were a thirtyish year old prostitute and a fifteen year old boy, would our sense of injustice be just as acute?

These boys had reached the age of moral consent in the RC. Many (nearly all?) were in a consensual relationship. Why is this such a big deal? Why destroy the boys life by making this into a notorious crime? It's just sex.

I don't mean to imply that I think this is acceptable behavior for priests or anyone else. Catch the priests and throw them in prison like anyone else. But I don't view this as particularly egregious either because they were priests or because of the homosexual relationship.

Whether it's a doctor, a priest, a teacher, mom's girlfriend or a guy in a van doesn't matter. Whether the child is a boy or a girl doesn't matter. There needs to be one law for everyone to follow.

[ 24. January 2010, 17:12: Message edited by: Dumpling Jeff ]
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
I am invoking Dumpling's law, which is that:

When creepy Jeff starts talking about sex, the thread is officially a trainwreck and should be abandoned.

[ 24. January 2010, 17:18: Message edited by: Think² ]
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
Agreed, I feel slighty sick and dirty even having to read that crap. Dumpling, you are one sick puppy
 
Posted by PhilA (# 8792) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Bullshit, ken. To quote in part:
quote:
One of the nation’s foremost authorities on the subject of the sexual abuse of minors in public schools is Hofstra University professor Charol Shakeshaft. In 1994, Shakeshaft and Audrey Cohan did a study of 225 cases of educator sexual abuse in New York City. Their findings are astounding.

All of the accused admitted sexual abuse of a student, but none of the abusers was reported to the authorities, and only 1 percent lost their license to teach. Only 35 percent suffered negative consequences of any kind, and 39 percent chose to leave their school district, most with positive recommendations. Some were even given an early retirement package.

Moving molesting teachers from school district to school district is a common phenomenon. And in only 1 percent of the cases do superintendents notify the new school district. According to Diana Jean Schemo, the term "passing the trash" is the preferred jargon among educators.

Shakeshaft has also determined that 15 percent of all students have experienced some kind of sexual misconduct by a teacher between kindergarten and 12th grade; the behaviors range from touching to forced penetration. She and Cohan also found that up to 5 percent of teachers sexually abuse children.


I call bullshit on those figures. I am not suggesting that IngoB made them up, but they are clearly bollocks.

15% of all students have been sexually abused by a teacher? Bullshit. If it was 15% of children are abused, I could accept it, but seeing as how (in the US) 75% of cases of child sex abuse is committed by family members (84% if you count all abuse) - these figures would have people believe that a massive proportion of kids were abused.

According to Wiki there are 76.6 million students in the US. That would be 1149000 children are being abused by teachers. Utter bollocks.

I do believe 225 cases of reported abuse - no problem, but there are so many kids that make shit up, if a quarter of them are true or based on anything more than a rumour, I would be shocked. Hell, there have been 2 rumours in the past three years at my school. All of them made up or spiralling rumours.
 
Posted by saysay (# 6645) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PhilA:
I call bullshit on those figures. I am not suggesting that IngoB made them up, but they are clearly bollocks.

I suspect they may be using the definition of abuse that includes 'someone looked at you and it made you uncomfortable.'
 
Posted by Birdseye (# 5280) on :
 
Dumpling Jeff said:
quote:
These boys had reached the age of moral consent in the RC. Many (nearly all?) were in a consensual relationship. Why is this such a big deal? Why destroy the boys life by making this into a notorious crime? It's just sex.

I don't mean to imply that I think this is acceptable behavior for priests or anyone else. Catch the priests and throw them in prison like anyone else. But I don't view this as particularly egregious either because they were priests or because of the homosexual relationship.

It is worse for priests because they hold a position of greater than average trust and power; it is also wrong because unlike a secular teacher (who also holds a position of trust and power) they are supposed to adhere to a code of conduct that aspires to be like Christ in its protection of the innocent, not leading others into morally difficult or ambiguous situations but helping them to learn how to steer a course OUT of them; it is also particularly wrong for RC Priests as they have promised to be celibate.

I fail to see how a priest abusing a(or even consorting with a precocious and willing) child/ teenager is in any way reflective of God's mission to the world. Instead it is deeply selfish, foolish and at worst destructive and evil.

For someone else, who has no relationship with God and no sense of moral guidance and who may themselves be a very disturbed and damaged individual (and thus in a totally unsuitable state to be a priest), I mean someone in a secular job or no job at all, it is wrong and evil -but in no way as shocking a betrayal as when a priest misuses their position in such a way.

[ 24. January 2010, 18:58: Message edited by: Birdseye ]
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
Don't you see, Spiffy? Isn't it clear? Sexual orientation is a nice, easy and simply-defined black-and-white absolute, isn't it? And there is never any sort of spectrum of proclivity that can shift during a lifetime, right? And that there's absolutely no possibility at all that the very setting of Catholic ministry is itself a driving factor in these seemingly systemic sexual predations, is there?

We are talking here about adult sexual orientation, right? If you are saying that this is unspecific in many adults, and fluid enough to be changed by circumstances and social environment, then clearly you agree that organizations like NARTH are on the right track, at least concerning their practical chances of success (never mind whether you like their goals)?

quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
Get rid of all Catholic clergy. No clergy, no clergy abuse.

Your extrapolation fails: Catholics need to have clergy for religious reasons, they do not however require them to be homosexual.

quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
It appears that your entire argument rests on the notion that sexual abuse of minors to a large extent (if not entirely) involves sexual attraction and sexual gratification.

My argument rests on the so far undisputed fact that 80-90% of all abuse was male-male. Further, that 60-80% of the victims were in their (early) teens, not children (different studies, different numbers: still, a majority). That the perpetrators were male follows from the rules of the Church for the priesthood. But that the victims were largely adolescent males then requires some explanation. Something strongly selected a gender - if not sexual preference, the most natural explanation, what else? Sexual abuse may be largely a power game, but that aspect alone precisely does not explain strong gender preference, as far as I can see.
 
Posted by jacobsen (# 14998) on :
 
Foot plays intellectual (sic) footsie.
 
Posted by Zach82 (# 3208) on :
 
"I'm not saying that all Arabs are terrorists, but surely you can see that most terrorists are Arabs."

Zach
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PhilA:
15% of all students have been sexually abused by a teacher? Bullshit. If it was 15% of children are abused, I could accept it, but seeing as how (in the US) 75% of cases of child sex abuse is committed by family members (84% if you count all abuse) - these figures would have people believe that a massive proportion of kids were abused.

Some further googling finds this interview, which has her say "10% from the time they started school through the 11th grade". I do not know whether the lacking 5% somehow get assigned to the missing kindergarten + 12th grade elsewhere. It also becomes clear that she operates on a very general definition: "Any behaviour that’s sexual in nature directed toward a student, no matter the age of the student. So, it might be anything from touching a student on the breast, from talking about sexual activities that are specifically personal activities, not the kind of thing you do in a class, showing pornographic pictures, telling pornographic jokes or telling jokes that are sexual in nature to intercourse, kissing, any other kind of sexual touching." Note that the Catholic League correctly identifies this as sexual misconduct, rather than sexual abuse. Here is her review of the literature, which (according to the foreword by the Deputy Secretary), is not always careful in maintaining the distinction.

quote:
Originally posted by PhilA:
I do believe 225 cases of reported abuse - no problem, but there are so many kids that make shit up, if a quarter of them are true or based on anything more than a rumour, I would be shocked.

The significance of those case studies is more that this was real sexual abuse, but got handled by the school authorities in much the same "hush it up, move the perp" way that some US bishops were guilty of.
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
Is it no longer widely believed that sexual abuse has to do with power and intimidation, and not sexual gratification per se? I've been out of the loop and new studies may have arisen since I was reading about rape in the mid 1980s.
 
Posted by lilBuddha (# 14333) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

Typing "teenage boys" into google image search with SafeSearch switched off should provide some circumstantial evidence...

quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

- I meant to illustrate that the rather massive presence of "teen porn" (both pretend and not) suggests that sexual interest in teens is fairly common, and hence mostly found in people who do have a clear sexual preference.

Couldn't be the massive amount of teenagers on-line, could it?
Couldn't be most any search will result in relevant hits, could it?
Couldn't be the 'net provides an easy, efficient and semi-anonymous method of distribution and collection, could it?
 
Posted by QLib (# 43) on :
 
I happen to know of a case in England of a priest who asked to be released from his vows because he wanted to marry - he was refused and a few years later was convicted as a paedophile. I think there is at least an argument that forcing people to sublimate 'natural' emotions (by which I mean a leaning towards consenting adult relationships) increases the risk that they will be eventually driven by forces they scarcely understand to achieve sexual gratification by other means.

Whereas I don't think that gay men who are 'out' are any more of a threat to children than straight men, I do think that people who are in denial about their sexuality (for whatever reason) are more likely to be dangerous - and, yes, I suspect that priesthood may seem like a good option for such confused and tormented souls, raised in an environment where homosexuality is still "the love that dares not speak its name".

I'm not suggesting that significant numbers go in for the priesthood with the intention of becoming abusers, but that the insistence on celibacy and the condemnation of homosexuality is, in effect, perverting. Instead of facing their desires openly, they are forced to think of them as 'filthy' secrets. Couple that with rigid ideas about hierarchy and judgement, and it's hardly surprising that they seek out an innocent party who they can manipulate into 'perversion' and then blame. In fact the sexual innocence of the child may be part of the attraction for an adult who cannot admit to having sexual feelings.
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
We are talking here about adult sexual orientation, right?

If only! We're talking about incredibly repressive circumstance inflicted upon (probably stunted) sexual orientation. Sexual orientation, as noted by Kinsey, is expressed as a spectrum. Not binary. And can appear to shift when people realize that the binary model doesn't suit them.

quote:
NARTH
Want to play the spurious ad-hominem game? Fine.

Your beloved Catholic church produces clergy with a proclivity for sexual offense that is only exceeded by one other kind of institution: prisons. It seems to me that there are probably a great many psychological parallels to be made about how this is accomplished.

quote:
Your extrapolation fails: Catholics need to have clergy for religious reasons, they do not however require them to be homosexual.
My reductio ad absurdum served its purpose - to question the assumption of the methodology. You'll keep defending the decisions of your spiritual leaders, for religious reasons. They do not, however, seem particularly well-conceived to anyone else not thus hobbled.
 
Posted by Jengie Jon (# 273) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
Is it no longer widely believed that sexual abuse has to do with power and intimidation, and not sexual gratification per se? I've been out of the loop and new studies may have arisen since I was reading about rape in the mid 1980s.

The studies I come across all still suggest it is about power. I'm not strictly in the loop but I do seem to get them in my reading fairly regularly. Its one of the outcomes of having to have a "feminist stance"* as part of my research, I have to read feminist papers if only to disagree with them and that includes papers on such things.

Jengie

*That is having to have a stance on what it means for me as a women to be doing the research I am doing. I think that I am a woman doing my phd is about the least interesting of several facts that are relevant to my PhD. They don't ask for the equivalent of men, I think that is sexist!
 
Posted by QLib (# 43) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Jengie Jon:
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
Is it no longer widely believed that sexual abuse has to do with power and intimidation, and not sexual gratification per se? I've been out of the loop and new studies may have arisen since I was reading about rape in the mid 1980s.

The studies I come across all still suggest it is about power.
Yes, but, when people make this kind of statement they seem to be suggesting that 'normal' sex (whatever that is) isn't about power. Tell that the the S&M brigade. Tell it to the Mills and Boon brigade for that matter. Sexy schoolgirls, policemen strippograms, naughty nurses - no, no, none of this is about power. Absolutely not.
 
Posted by Jengie Jon (# 273) on :
 
Actually you are wrong there. These papers sit next to papers about power in other sexual relationships. In fact there isn't an area in sociology which isn't concerned with power. It sits along with social class, gender and race as things you HAVE to look at.

However they are talking about power used against another's will and "getting off" on that. It is not that power is involved but that the high is related primarily to the exercise of power rather than to sexual attraction. In that it is more related to other forms of abuse than to other forms of sex.

Jengie
 
Posted by PhilA (# 8792) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by PhilA:
15% of all students have been sexually abused by a teacher? Bullshit. If it was 15% of children are abused, I could accept it, but seeing as how (in the US) 75% of cases of child sex abuse is committed by family members (84% if you count all abuse) - these figures would have people believe that a massive proportion of kids were abused.

Some further googling finds this interview, which has her say "10% from the time they started school through the 11th grade". I do not know whether the lacking 5% somehow get assigned to the missing kindergarten + 12th grade elsewhere. It also becomes clear that she operates on a very general definition: "Any behaviour that’s sexual in nature directed toward a student, no matter the age of the student. So, it might be anything from touching a student on the breast, from talking about sexual activities that are specifically personal activities, not the kind of thing you do in a class, showing pornographic pictures, telling pornographic jokes or telling jokes that are sexual in nature to intercourse, kissing, any other kind of sexual touching." Note that the Catholic League correctly identifies this as sexual misconduct, rather than sexual abuse. Here is her review of the literature, which (according to the foreword by the Deputy Secretary), is not always careful in maintaining the distinction.

Depending on how you ask kids the questions depends on the answers you will get - particularly younger kids. As I am sure I have mentioned before, my wife is a lecturer in criminology at Huddersfield University and spends a lot of time in Wakefield prison, which is a category A prison that primarily deals with very dangerous men, paedophiles and sex offenders. I showed her the link to this interview. Her instant reaction was 'bullshit'. There is no way those figures can be substantiated by peer review publication. I obviously can't link to a conversation I've just had with my wife, but as far as she is concerned, these figures cannot be substantiated, and it is a large part of her job to know about this sort of thing.

quote:
quote:
Originally posted by PhilA:
I do believe 225 cases of reported abuse - no problem, but there are so many kids that make shit up, if a quarter of them are true or based on anything more than a rumour, I would be shocked.

The significance of those case studies is more that this was real sexual abuse, but got handled by the school authorities in much the same "hush it up, move the perp" way that some US bishops were guilty of.
Of course, this will occasionally happen. I don't teach in the US I teach in the UK. I have experience of three members of staff (one at my school, one at my sisters school and one at a friends school) being accused of inappropriate conduct, which in all of these cases was an accusation of sexual conduct with a student. On ALL cases the teacher was IMMEDIATELY suspended and banned from the premises (once, half way through a lesson) until a full investigation was carried out. All three of these cases were false, one case was a drunken boast by one girl that she had 'had' Mr so and so made on bebo. It is a legal requirement in the UK that all accusations are taken seriously and the teacher in question is suspended following an investigation. I am surprised that this isn't the case in the US.

[those tricky UBB tags have the beating of yet another poster]

[ 25. January 2010, 08:54: Message edited by: Marvin the Martian ]
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
Is it no longer widely believed that sexual abuse has to do with power and intimidation, and not sexual gratification per se? I've been out of the loop and new studies may have arisen since I was reading about rape in the mid 1980s.

Nope, current research has strengthened the link between sexual violence (both when the victims are children and when the victims are adults) and power/intimidation. However, people like Ingo and Dumples rarely let silly little things like facts and reality get in the way of their prejudices.

[ 24. January 2010, 21:11: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by teddybear (# 7842) on :
 
As a survivor of sexual abuse by a religious brother, I think IngoB is full of crap. My abuser abused both boys and girls. Many of the abusers I've come across did both. In my opinion, it is just that the girls get less attention in the press. Whether it is because it doesn't make as good a story or because homosexuality is considered a worse crime, I don't know. I am also firmly in the camp that says this sort of behavior has less to do with sex, than it does abuse of power. My abuser did it to me (and others) because he could. He made it very clear that I couldn't do anything about it, because no one would believe me if I told. When I did go to the bishop about it, I was told to keep quiet so not to cause scandal for the church, that he'd take care of it. He didn't. The jerk was allowed to go on abusing for another 30 years or so! He was also allowed to move freely from diocese to diocese.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
Want to play the spurious ad-hominem game?

That was more a reductio ad absurdum of the ideologies competing for your headspace...

quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
Your beloved Catholic church produces clergy with a proclivity for sexual offense that is only exceeded by one other kind of institution: prisons.

At worst one can say that Catholic clergy is no better in this regard than comparable professionals. Why do you spread FUD?

quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
You'll keep defending the decisions of your spiritual leaders, for religious reasons. They do not, however, seem particularly well-conceived to anyone else not thus hobbled.

The decisions of the bishops covering up the scandal were in some sense worse than the actions of the sex offenders themselves. A wolf attacking lambs is more understandable than a shepherd moving a wolf from one herd to the next while hiding the bones best he can. Yet again, one sees the same patterns emerge among teachers and their superiors.

The idea that these abuse structures are somehow special to Catholic clergy is simply false. The only thing that is perhaps indeed special about all this, is the strong prevalence of male-male abuse. Concerning this, QLib has probably a point above.
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Birdseye, why do people continue to place priests on a pedestal? Priests are human. Even the ones who don't have problems with their sexuality (a minority I think) have other sins to deal with.

Setting priests up to fail always seemed to be an excuse to blame God for being to hard on us. After all if Father What a Waist can fail, maybe my failure isn't so bad after all.

As for betrayed authority being worse, I think it's better. Each case of abuse is individual and subjects of abuse have wildly varying experiences. But in general teens need to learn to question authority early and often.

I simply refuse to believe most of these teens didn't know what they were doing was wrong. Maybe they didn't have the experience to understand why, but both RC and cultural teachings condemn homosexuality and adult-child sex.

By seducing these children into having sex before they had worked out their own thoughts and feelings about these subjects the priests did these teens a grave disservice. But that's just as true for other molesters as well. Priests aren't special in this.
 
Posted by kankucho (# 14318) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
... in general teens need to learn to question authority early and often.

When authoritative institutions start teaching it, kids can start learning it. But my experience has been that the Catholic Church (for one) isn't too hot on the idea of its authority being questioned.

quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
... Priests aren't special in this.

Priests aren't special at all. But the problem is that people think they are - and certain priests (let's say they're just being human) are happy to let people do so. Priests are seen as intermediaries between believers and God. That puts them in a position of power with few parallels.
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Dumpling Jeff:
quote:
I simply refuse to believe most of these teens didn't know what they were doing was wrong. Maybe they didn't have the experience to understand why, but both RC and cultural teachings condemn homosexuality and adult-child sex.

By seducing these children into having sex before they had worked out their own thoughts and feelings about these subjects the priests did these teens a grave disservice. But that's just as true for other molesters as well. Priests aren't special in this.

So, the victims take part of the blame for the perpetrators doing them a "grave disservice".

Here's a second vote for DJ being "one sick puppy".
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Kankucho, the RCC teaches the supremacy of the individual conscience. This is a firm teaching of the Church through the centuries. It also contrasts with many (most?) other religions. Questioning authority is what we do.

Of course we also feel there's a right answer to those questions.

Priests are special in a liturgical sense. Pro basketball players are special in an athletic sense, so this quality is not unique. It should not give them authority beyond teaching faith and morals. It certainly doesn't extend to sexual misconduct.

Lyda*Rose, why do you seek to blame the victims? Can't you accept that as the injured party they, not society, should decide how to handle the consequences of their behavior.

If they decide that sex is fun, that's their business. If they decide to put their teenage indiscretions behind them, it's equally their business. I don't think society should judge or punish them.

The molester's fault lies in denying the teen the ability to decide for himself. The molester stole the child's will before it was formed. It's not because sex is evil.
 
Posted by kankucho (# 14318) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Kankucho, the RCC teaches the supremacy of the individual conscience. This is a firm teaching of the Church through the centuries. It also contrasts with many (most?) other religions. Questioning authority is what we do.

Of course we also feel there's a right answer to those questions.

And who is included in the 'We' that serves up those answers?

quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Priests are special in a liturgical sense. Pro basketball players are special in an athletic sense, so this quality is not unique. It should not give them authority beyond teaching faith and morals.

Damn right it shouldn't. But it does.
 
Posted by kankucho (# 14318) on :
 
...Jeff, I'm guessing you're an adult convert who didn't actually go through the Catholic schooling system. Am I right?

[ 25. January 2010, 00:58: Message edited by: kankucho ]
 
Posted by saysay (# 6645) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
I am invoking Dumpling's law, which is that:

When creepy Jeff starts talking about sex, the thread is officially a trainwreck and should be abandoned.

Seconded.
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
We are the one's who answered the questions in much the same way. We don't insist that others reach the same answers, but we do think they're the right answers.

I went to RC school until the second grade when my parents divorced. I left the RCC, then was born again and came back.

I did miss out on the nuns and rulers brigade. I hear it left a bitter taste in many former school children's lives.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by saysay:
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
I am invoking Dumpling's law, which is that:

When creepy Jeff starts talking about sex, the thread is officially a trainwreck and should be abandoned.

Seconded.
All those in favor, shudder in horrified disgust.
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
QLib has probably a point above.

Agreed. Simply screening for sexual orientation when sex of any orientation is supposed to be suppressed is completely missing the point of the problem.
 
Posted by Lamb Chopped (# 5528) on :
 
Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
...Typing "teenage boys" into google image search with SafeSearch switched off should provide some circumstantial evidence...

Okay, just out of curiosity I tried it. Most of the images that turned up were pictures of "cute haircuts," with a little of the other mixed in.

I suspect that by refusing to let its priests marry (a rule added relatively late in the game, so that the Church could hang onto property that would otherwise go to children), the Roman Catholic Church is guaranteeing that a high percentage of candidates will be men whose orientation is homosexual. That does not, of course, imply that most or even many of them will act on anything sexual, but it does increase the odds.
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Ex Rossweisser: I suspect that by refusing to let its priests marry (a rule added relatively late in the game, so that the Church could hang onto property that would otherwise go to children), the Roman Catholic Church is guaranteeing that a high percentage of candidates will be men whose orientation is homosexual.

Part one is true but your conclusion is nonsense unless you have figures to back it up. It's as ridiculous as assuming that sexual orientation has anything to do with a tendency to abuse.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
The decisions of the bishops covering up the scandal were in some sense worse than the actions of the sex offenders themselves. A wolf attacking lambs is more understandable than a shepherd moving a wolf from one herd to the next while hiding the bones best he can.

So why did The Vatican arrange for his Eminent Pimpness Bernard Cardinal Law to stay out of prison and is he still in several top-jobs in the Curia?
Apparently the divinely guaranteed leadership of our church rather rewards the wolfs than do the right thing.
 
Posted by Ricardus (# 8757) on :
 
Fuzzipeg -

I think Rossweisse is saying that heterosexuals might be dissuaded from seeking ordinations because they want to marry, whereas homosexuals mostly don't want to marry anyway so they don't have that particular dissuasion from entering the priesthood. Therefore there is likely to be a lower proportion of heterosexuals among Catholic clergy than in the population as a whole.

Which seems reasonable to me, though I don't know whether it's true.

[Cross-posted]

[ 25. January 2010, 10:08: Message edited by: Ricardus ]
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
For what it is worth, in my neck of the woods I suspect there are at least two other relevant factors.
With the provision that I might be wrong in giving too much credence to stereotypes:

1. Male gays may be more into caring professions than male straights.

2. The smells-and-bells part of being a RC priest may attract males who are into campiness.


(And yes, I'm aware that campiness isn't the exclusive domain of gays.)
 
Posted by kankucho (# 14318) on :
 
3. They're into wearing frocks

4. They like saying 'Aah! Men!'

[Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Kankucho, the RCC teaches the supremacy of the individual conscience. This is a firm teaching of the Church through the centuries.

Sure.
But in my experience, in the real world, as soon as a RC finds himself -in conscience- in disagreement with the RCC, in matters where there is no "prudent" or "pastoral" way to ignore the problem, suddenly other supremacies emerge that firmly overrule the supremacy of conscience.

[ 25. January 2010, 11:27: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Dumpling Jeff:
quote:
Lyda*Rose, why do you seek to blame the victims? Can't you accept that as the injured party they, not society, should decide how to handle the consequences of their behavior.
Is this your idea of "irony" or something? [brick wall] Geez Louise, you are not only a sick puppy but a dumbass puppy! Look again:
quote:
I simply refuse to believe most of these teens didn't know what they were doing was wrong.
You are the one who was saying that surely those young teenagers knew what they were doing was wrong, and you are the one who characterized the criminal assaults on them as being merely a "grave disservice". I summarized. Now, I can only assume that to you the priests are the victims.

I wouldn't allow a teenager near you, you twisted fart.
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
One of the scandals about the Irish clerical child-abuse reports was not just the fact of its happening. Or even of its happening in the institutions supposedly set up for the protection and nurture of the thousands who were abused.

What equally scandalized, and also rocked the faith in the Roman Catholic Church of many ordinary people, was the revelation that the Institution itself had sacrificed its Christian duty towards the vulnerable and defenceless, to its own interests. In other words, in a very significant way, the Church was working a mission, not to work out the gospel of Christ, but to protect itself. And, additionally, that it was using its right to unquestioned exercise of authority over the faithful to do so; a peculiar and well-recognized claim of the whole RCC institution.

Unbelievably, even now, the country still waits for some significant communication from the Pope to the people of Ireland on all this.

In saying that, it's certainly acknowledged that along with the bad there was the good, too. Much damage has been done to good work and fine ministries, unfortunately.

If one wishes to claim that 'the Church' is always 'the Church' in an infallible sense of its authority and mission, despite the fallibility of its actual members, then one would seriously have to consider that at some point 'the Church' in Ireland ceased to be 'the Church' as instituted by the authority in Rome.

In other words, that what passed for the institution of the Catholic Church in Ireland had somehow separated itself from the Mother. It's hard to see how else one could both witness the deep institutional corruption that has occurred in Ireland, and yet simultaneously claim that that instituion - 'the Church' - remains unassailable in its primary mission and authority.


'the Church', by the way is not scare-quoted to be sarky or anything! It's just to define that I mean specifically the Roman Catholic Church in Ireland, rather than a universal Church of all believers made up of the rest of us. That's all. I have a great deal of respect for my Catholic colleagues here and what they do, and it is a challenge for all of us to learn from what is happening through these dreadful scandals.
 
Posted by dj_ordinaire (# 4643) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
Is it no longer widely believed that sexual abuse has to do with power and intimidation, and not sexual gratification per se? I've been out of the loop and new studies may have arisen since I was reading about rape in the mid 1980s.

Exactly.

In other words, Ingo's argument collapses at the first hurdle because it assumes that committing same-sex abuse of adolescents or children indicates that the abuser is gay. This is simply not the case.
 
Posted by Sioni Sais (# 5713) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by dj_ordinaire:
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
Is it no longer widely believed that sexual abuse has to do with power and intimidation, and not sexual gratification per se? I've been out of the loop and new studies may have arisen since I was reading about rape in the mid 1980s.

Exactly.

In other words, Ingo's argument collapses at the first hurdle because it assumes that committing same-sex abuse of adolescents or children indicates that the abuser is gay. This is simply not the case.

No, no, no. You have misunderstood completely! I am confident that IngoB will be along soon claiming that was never his argument.
 
Posted by Adeodatus (# 4992) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
IngoB - do you believe homosexuals are more likely to abuse children / adolescents than heterosexuals?

I have no idea, since I have not studied the question. I have however no a priori reason to assume so.
On one level, IngoB is a very wise man. He studiously avoids studying questions to which he suspects he might not like the answer. The world would be a quieter place if there were more like him.

A worse place by far, to be sure. But quieter.
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Lyda*Rose, I differentiate between RC moral theology, criminal law, civil law, and popular culture.

From The perspective of RC moral theology, homosexuality is a sin. Like it or not, the vast majority of these kids were brought up with that system.

As adults most of us move past the black/white, right/wrong, sex is sinful beliefs we had as a child, but these kids were seduced into sex before they had a chance to make that movement.

So they would see what they did as wrong. But that doesn't mean they can't move on from there afterwards. We as a society should not place the added burden of our social disdain on them as well. And if you think having society tell them, "What the priest did to them ruined them for life." doesn't add to their burden, your an idiot.

As for "merely a grave disservice", grave is as bad as it gets in the RC sin structure. Grave sins become mortal through culpability. I came as close to condemning these priests to hell as my theology allows. There isn't really anything worse out there except God's judgment which I'm not privy to. It is certainly worse than any earthly, criminal punishment.

Siani Sais, I think Ingo's argument was that the ratio of offenders to non-offenders was far higher in the gay population. There does seem to be a slight increase here(50%ish), but I think Ingo was using the statistics for gays in the community at large rather than in the priesthood. Falsely using those statistics the ratio is about ten times (1000%ish) as high.

On it's own I don't think a 50% increase is enough to disallow gays in the priesthood. I do think allowing someone who flaunts the values he's supposed to be teaching is a bad idea though.

Of course there are those who think one abused child is enough condemn the innocent with the guilty, but clearly I'm not one of those.
 
Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by saysay:
quote:
Originally posted by PhilA:
I call bullshit on those figures. I am not suggesting that IngoB made them up, but they are clearly bollocks.

I suspect they may be using the definition of abuse that includes 'someone looked at you and it made you uncomfortable.'
They are. They have what they call three levels of sexual misconduct by a teacher. Only one of them would be illegal. The middle one might be things that would attract disciplinary action from the school.

They include things like looking at a girl's breasts, or hugging a boy who has just scored a goal, or using explicit sexual language in a biology lesson in a way that makes some children uncomfortable.

Now teachers ought not to do those things (well, maybe expect the biology lesson - I suspect that there is no way of teaching biology without using language that someone, somewhere objects to - the same probably goes for literature) But they aren't what most people mean by "abuse".

The idea that "up to 5%" (see, no real numbers) of teachers in New York City in 1995 were guilty of "misconduct" on that level is hardly "astounding".

Also basing national policy on a sample of 225 teachers from one city who had been accused of sexual misconduct but only 35% of them found guilty of anything is statistical crud.

If we were to believe those rather oddly-named writers we'd need some better data from the 15 years since they published.

There has been no real evidence mentioned on this thred to support the idea that Roman Catholic priests are either more or less likely to abuse children than other ministers of religion, though various posters have claimed both. (I have no idea whether they are or not, having no evidence for it).

And the papers IngoB referred to to support his assertion that teachers are more likely to be involved in sexual abuse show no such thing.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
I wouldn't allow a teenager near you, you twisted fart.

Jeff is beyond twisted. He's completely sprained.
 
Posted by amber. (# 11142) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ken:
...They have what they call three levels of sexual misconduct by a teacher. ...They include things like ...hugging a boy who has just scored a goal...

Hugging is totally forbidden for teachers? Genuine question.

Interestingly, it's allowed for clergy if done in a suitable and safe way (CofE guidelines on protecting vulnerable adults, example given re using physical contact such as a hug for people with a disability but in the context of them not being left out of this if it's being offered to others). It's also standard good practice to use appropriate physical contact for example for some children on the autism spectrum (with consent) as part of an open and safe therapeutic and 'settling' way of interacting and learning.

Why we as a society can't often manage to tell the difference between/outcomes of a hug of caring done in an open way in a classroom/church setting and some sinister sexual abuse or grooming is what worries me.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ken:

The idea that "up to 5%" (see, no real numbers) of teachers in New York City in 1995 were guilty of "misconduct" on that level is hardly "astounding".

Especially since New York has a very poor record of sticking up for its teachers.
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Amber wrote,
quote:
Why we as a society can't often manage to tell the difference between/outcomes of a hug of caring done in an open way in a classroom/church setting and some sinister sexual abuse or grooming is what worries me.
Because the difference is totally subjective?

I would add that anyone can tell the difference but no one can define it -- except pedophiles get away with the hug thing all the time, so apparently people can't tell the difference either.

Banning hugging is a terrible solution because children need physical contact to develop normally (they die without it).

Other than dropping the paranoia over child sexual abuse, I can't think of a solution.

But then I don't have any children (or contact with children) so it's not my problem. All you parents feel free to live in fear. (Apparently of me if I'm reading Lyda*Rose correctly.)
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Tell it, brother Marvin.

DJ:
quote:
From The perspective of RC moral theology, homosexuality is a sin. Like it or not, the vast majority of these kids were brought up with that system.

As adults most of us move past the black/white, right/wrong, sex is sinful beliefs we had as a child, but these kids were seduced into sex before they had a chance to make that movement.

So they would see what they did as wrong. But that doesn't mean they can't move on from there afterwards. We as a society should not place the added burden of our social disdain on them as well. And if you think having society tell them, "What the priest did to them ruined them for life." doesn't add to their burden, your an idiot.

What I've heard is the victims say that they were very damaged by their assaults, not that they were "ruined for life" by committing some sort of sin. If some feel this way, it's part and parcel of the recovery they work on resulting from the violation by their religious "superiors". And you are one of the few jerks I've heard assess moral responsibility or "social disdain" for them by assigning them blame for events they had very little power to control physically or psychologically. If anyone adds to their burdens, it's people like you. You are as good as saying the victims of clergy abuse were "asking for it" and need to recover morally. Excuse me while I hurl on your shoes.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
All you parents feel free to live in fear. (Apparently of me if I'm reading Lyda*Rose correctly.)

Women don't want you to touch them because you're scary, it's because you're creepy and quite a sad little sack of a human and give off the impression that whatever you touch you leave a greasy film on, much like a slug.

'Cept slugs are cuter.

[ 25. January 2010, 17:17: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
originally posted by opawim:

quote:

2. The smells-and-bells part of being a RC priest may attract males who are into campiness.


You might be able to argue this line of thought if this were in fact true of Roman Catholicism in Ireland - but it's not. You would be very, very hard pushed to find what some would classify as 'high' or a 'smells n bells' Roman Catholic Church anywhere in Ireland. They do exist, but are as rare as hens teeth. But maybe you still have a point though, cos in Ireland the abusive priests mainly came from evangelical style churches - normally classed a 'low'; so maybe gays are attracted to 'low' churches. Then again, this whole ridiculous line of thought may in fact be more about your own stupid and inane bias and a wonderful demonstration of your own ignorance.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
Nope, current research has strengthened the link between sexual violence (both when the victims are children and when the victims are adults) and power/intimidation.

If this sexual violence we are talking about was purely about power / intimidation, then it would not differentiate between boys and girls. But it does, massively so. No other explanation has been advanced for the fact that boys were in 80-90% of the cases the targets, and not girls. Sexual preference does explain the data easily, so for now it remains unrivaled as hypothesized cause for the selection.

It may be that the difference is due to the age of the victims (mostly adolescent for priestly abuse). The serious claims I've heard so far is that pedophilia often has no sexual preference. However, the data quoted in Wikipedia under Child Sexual Abuse do not seem to confirm this straightforwardly: Most perpetrators are men, most victims are girls. Most abuse of boys is by women. So I frankly do not know what the general situation is, even concerning pedophilia.

quote:
Originally posted by teddybear:
As a survivor of sexual abuse by a religious brother, I think IngoB is full of crap. My abuser abused both boys and girls.

Fair warning: If you insist on using your individual story of suffering as argument in Hell, I'll deal with it as an argument in Hell, not as your story of suffering. It's your choice.

quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
Agreed. Simply screening for sexual orientation when sex of any orientation is supposed to be suppressed is completely missing the point of the problem.

Of course, as far as "curing the problem" of sexual abuse of minors is concerned, it likely does nothing. However, as far as "keeping the problem out of the RCC" is concerned - that's a different question.

quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
I suspect that by refusing to let its priests marry ..., the Roman Catholic Church is guaranteeing that a high percentage of candidates will be men whose orientation is homosexual.

Well, it is apparently true in practice that a larger fraction of priests is homosexual than among men in general. Nevertheless, I think there are deeper issues here. Clearly, a priest is giving up sex anyway, so why would that be more attractive to gays? If the underlying scenario is that heterosexual priests in their own mind sacrifice something good, whereas homosexual priests think they combat something evil, then whether one agrees with the value judgment or not, a clear emotional difference would exist with possible consequences down the track.

quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
So why did The Vatican arrange for his Eminent Pimpness Bernard Cardinal Law to stay out of prison and is he still in several top-jobs in the Curia?

I do not know enough to comment, really, but I certainly do not assume that the Vatican comes up with one good decision after the next.

quote:
Originally posted by dj_ordinaire:
In other words, Ingo's argument collapses at the first hurdle because it assumes that committing same-sex abuse of adolescents or children indicates that the abuser is gay.

See above. It's not me who has considerable explaining to do. If the priests were not "gay" in some loose definition of the term, then why did they target almost exclusively boys?

quote:
Originally posted by Adeodatus:
On one level, IngoB is a very wise man. He studiously avoids studying questions to which he suspects he might not like the answer. The world would be a quieter place if there were more like him. A worse place by far, to be sure. But quieter.

Given that you ride in on such a high horse, perhaps you could demonstrate that you've spent the study time on actual research that would allow a better answer than mine? I'll gladly profit from your voluntary efforts.

quote:
Originally posted by ken:
And the papers IngoB referred to to support his assertion that teachers are more likely to be involved in sexual abuse show no such thing.

Well, one of the authors of these studies, Prof. Shakeshaft, seems to think otherwise. See here, which is a free copy of an article in Education Week. Now, it seems to me that there's almost certainly a problem here both of data gathering and of the definition what is then called "sexual abuse". One would also have to ask that about the numbers reported for priests. To make good a factor of over 100 though would take quite some doing...
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
Nope, current research has strengthened the link between sexual violence (both when the victims are children and when the victims are adults) and power/intimidation.

If this sexual violence we are talking about was purely about power / intimidation, then it would not differentiate between boys and girls. But it does, massively so. No other explanation has been advanced for the fact that boys were in 80-90% of the cases the targets, and not girls.
Oh, bullshit. Dozens of reasons were put forward, you just like the queerbait theory and you're going to hold on to it with every fiber of your homophobic body.

One in every six women have been sexually assaulted. Out of every 100 women who have been sexually assaulted, 6 will report the crime to the police/authorities. Taking the Census data, that means that out of the 149 millon women in the US, 24.8 million will be sexually assaulted in their lifetimes and only 1.48 million will ever report the crime, leaving 23,320,000 women who just live with it every day of their lives.

Sometimes those women shoulder that burden with great strength and dignity and sometimes they spend the rest of their days with that demon whispering in their ear that they are worthless, useless, good-for-nothing sluts.

Now, these statistics are general, not to do with the priest abuse cases, but they illustrate the culture you've never had to deal with, Ingo, being a male-- women are taught not to talk about this. Ever. Because when we report the crime, we're treated like the criminal. Like whores. Like sluts who wanted it, who deserved it, who *made* the man lust after our flesh and commit violence against us.

I wonder, Ingo, about that demon whispering in the minds of any women wandering through here reading your attempts to queerwash the sex abuse scandals. I wonder if that demon's speaking in their minds using your voice.
 
Posted by teddybear (# 7842) on :
 
An interesting video on this very issue with lots of good facts and statistics.
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ricardus:
I think Rossweisse is saying that heterosexuals might be dissuaded from seeking ordinations because they want to marry, whereas homosexuals mostly don't want to marry anyway so they don't have that particular dissuasion from entering the priesthood. Therefore there is likely to be a lower proportion of heterosexuals among Catholic clergy than in the population as a whole. ...

The element that is being missed is that the Roman Catholic Church teaches (as I understand it) that a homosexual orientation is inherently wrong and even evil, whereas a heterosexual same is good, as long as it's pursued for purposes of procreation.

That would, I think, make it less difficult for homosexuals to accept the celibacy requirement of today's RCC. If your sexuality itself is a sin, then renounce it, and allow the element of untouchability inherent in the collar help you to stay away from temptation.

I also do think,as opaWim suggests, that male gays may be more inclined to the caring professions. This is anecdotal, of course, but of the people I know who take responsibility for aged relatives, the vast majority are women. The rest are gay men.
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Jeff is beyond twisted. He's completely sprained.

Oh, bravo. Most excellently phrased.
 
Posted by dj_ordinaire (# 4643) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

quote:
Originally posted by dj_ordinaire:
In other words, Ingo's argument collapses at the first hurdle because it assumes that committing same-sex abuse of adolescents or children indicates that the abuser is gay.

See above. It's not me who has considerable explaining to do. If the priests were not "gay" in some loose definition of the term, then why did they target almost exclusively boys?


Really, I think you need to understand something - wanting to rape twelve year old boys is not part of being gay. Being homosexual means being attracted to members of your own sex: the desire to abuse adolescents is something entirely different, not part of being 'gay' in even a very loose term. This may be a delicate point to appreciate, especially if one insists on defining human sexuality in the rather crude mechanical terms that the Roman Curia seem to favour. Nevertheless, I assure you that it is so.

I simply do not find it creditable that most of the priestly abusers would have lived as gay men had they not been in the priesthood. If you want to know why the victims are in the majority of cases male, I would suggest that the obvious answer is that abuse tends to establish itself in cycles, so priests who were abused by older clergy when young, or at all-male seminaries, would be more likely to respond by themselves abusing younger men. I don't think has anything to do with what is normally thought of as 'sexual orientation', difficult to pin down though this concept might be.
 
Posted by The Blessed Pangolin (# 13623) on :
 
Prof. Shakeshaft

[Killing me]
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
Yes, is "Shakeshaft" a real name?
 
Posted by PataLeBon (# 5452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
I suspect that by refusing to let its priests marry ..., the Roman Catholic Church is guaranteeing that a high percentage of candidates will be men whose orientation is homosexual.

Well, it is apparently true in practice that a larger fraction of priests is homosexual than among men in general. Nevertheless, I think there are deeper issues here. Clearly, a priest is giving up sex anyway, so why would that be more attractive to gays?
Because a gay RC male who is dedicated to his faith will already be celibate and realize that will be his state for the rest of his life. A hetrosexual one will be thinking about the fact that they will be giving up a wife and possible children.

Simply put, a faithful gay man has less of his future to give up than a heterosexual man when all things are equal.


quote:
quote:
Originally posted by dj_ordinaire:
In other words, Ingo's argument collapses at the first hurdle because it assumes that committing same-sex abuse of adolescents or children indicates that the abuser is gay.

See above. It's not me who has considerable explaining to do. If the priests were not "gay" in some loose definition of the term, then why did they target almost exclusively boys?
Ease of access. Pure and simple. Think about it. In the USA most people didn't think twice about letting their 11+ son go with the priest. Why not let them see someone that they wanted them to be just like? Why not let them be with a father figure? Their younger son? Too young to be left alone. Their daughter? Maybe some, but mostly not. Sexual abuse is a crime of opportunity. If they see the opportunity, they take it. So if they have more access to boys than girls, then there will be more abused boys than girls. It's like asking why thieves steal more from people whose houses are unlocked. Same thing.
 
Posted by comet (# 10353) on :
 
Please take the reasonable discussion of homosexuality to Dead Horses. This thread is for verbally abusing Bingo, not sanely discussing real issues.

Comet
Hellhost

I can't believe I just wrote that.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Pretty surreal, isn't it, comet?
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by comet:
Please take the reasonable discussion of homosexuality to Dead Horses. This thread is for verbally abusing Bingo, not sanely discussing real issues.

Comet
Hellhost

I can't believe I just wrote that.

If there are Simmies for hosting posts this surely must be a candidate.

[ 26. January 2010, 00:59: Message edited by: mousethief ]
 
Posted by comet (# 10353) on :
 
it did make me want to check my meds for a second there.
 
Posted by ToujoursDan (# 10578) on :
 
I posted my response on the topic of gay men and paedophilia here. .

I couldn't care less what IgnoB or the RCC think about homosexual men. They can believe we are all molesters for all I care. This is just another attempt at scapegoating and gay men are an easy target. It won't make the problem go away of course, but it will make it look like the RCC is doing something when it really isn't. That's just par for the course for an institution that is incapable of introspection and reform.
 
Posted by saysay (# 6645) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:

Now, these statistics are general, not to do with the priest abuse cases, but they illustrate the culture you've never had to deal with, Ingo, being a male-- women are taught not to talk about this. Ever. Because when we report the crime, we're treated like the criminal. Like whores. Like sluts who wanted it, who deserved it, who *made* the man lust after our flesh and commit violence against us.

This is an odd thing to post in a thread that's all about Bingo trying to figure out why priests molest boys more often than girls. I can't quite figure what to make of it.

Except to say that it isn't true. It might have been, 20-30 years ago or longer, but it isn't anymore.

quote:
I wonder, Ingo, about that demon whispering in the minds of any women wandering through here reading your attempts to queerwash the sex abuse scandals. I wonder if that demon's speaking in their minds using your voice.
Watching Bingo try to figure out why the church he submits to made a certain decision that he doesn't understand is somewhat painful.

(pssst Bingo - not being in the US, you might not know that a lot of priests who admitted to being homosexuals were openly participating in gay pride events in defiance of the church's official teachings.)

But you're just being melodramatic.
 
Posted by QJ (# 14873) on :
 
sorry, i can't read all the posts but i wanted to relate some info from a public broadcasting show on child molestors. the program stated that pure homosexual men do not mess with kids. they said its pedofiles (sp?) and bisexual men. therefore gay men are not a treat to adopted children. they did show how men will marry a woman to get access to her kids which seemed horriffic. they interviewed men in prison who had that problem and did such things.
its all very sad and must have damaged the catholic church badly.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by comet:
This thread is for verbally abusing Bingo, not sanely discussing real issues. ... I can't believe I just wrote that.

Me neither.

I don't have the time this morning to do something about it, but the issue of prevalence of male-male sexual abuse by priests may be of interest enough to carry over into DH.

But concerning this hostly directive... you cannot seriously expect me to stick around for that. Enjoy, I guess.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Why not? You stuck around for three pages of it already. Dummyhead.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
originally posted by opawim:

quote:

2. The smells-and-bells part of being a RC priest may attract males who are into campiness.


You might be able to argue this line of thought if this were in fact true of Roman Catholicism in Ireland - but it's not. You would be very, very hard pushed to find what some would classify as 'high' or a 'smells n bells' Roman Catholic Church anywhere in Ireland. They do exist, but are as rare as hens teeth. But maybe you still have a point though, cos in Ireland the abusive priests mainly came from evangelical style churches - normally classed a 'low'; so maybe gays are attracted to 'low' churches. Then again, this whole ridiculous line of thought may in fact be more about your own stupid and inane bias and a wonderful demonstration of your own ignorance.
Apparently I gave the impression that I was referring to the situation in Ireland. Hopefully I do not disappoint you too much by explaining that my world is slightly larger. Besides Ireland I'm aware of countries like the U.S.A, Poland, Austria, Canada. I'm even aware of countries like The Philippines where widespread abuse by clergy can still be quite successfully covered up because apparently nobody can be bothered.
But, keeping it closer to (my) home, my whole ridiculous line of thought that you suggest may in fact be more about my own stupid and inane bias and a wonderful demonstration of my own ignorance, is in fact backed up by several clergy in my acquaintance who have "homosexual tendencies", are moderately "camp", and are very good pastors.
While we are at it, and before any more unwarranted assumptions are made about my inane bias and ignorance, I do not associate homosexual tendencies and "campiness" with child abuse and suspect that those who do are only covering their own asses.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
So why did The Vatican arrange for his Eminent Pimpness Bernard Cardinal Law to stay out of prison and is he still in several top-jobs in the Curia?

I do not know enough to comment, really, but I certainly do not assume that the Vatican comes up with one good decision after the next.
It is rather obvious that you are quite selective in what you elect to know enough about to (feel able to) comment.
 
Posted by comet (# 10353) on :
 
opaWim and QJ - despite the flippant attitude of my last hostly post, I'm quite serious about the warning - there will be no more discussion of homosexuality on this thread.

period.

Follow ToujoursDan's example and take it to Dead Horses.

comet
Hellhost
 
Posted by multipara (# 2918) on :
 
OpaWim; re young Bingo; the heat was too strong and he got out of the kitchen..

Once an idiot, always an idiot.

m
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by multipara:
OpaWim; re young Bingo; the heat was too strong and he got out of the kitchen..

Once an idiot, always an idiot.

m

I am not at all convinced IngoB merits the title "idiot", or a number of other redeeming titles he has been given, or which have been implied.

[ 26. January 2010, 11:26: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Spiffy wrote,
quote:
Wah! Mean men rape women and there's nothing we can do about it. Wah!
Although it differs on cop shows, in real life cops always take a close look at those who report crimes. This is because so often their the ones committing them. Two groups get singled out whenever a crime goes down. First is the reporter; second is the rent a cop.

And with rape they have double the cause. Nearly half (40%) of all rape reports turn out to be false.

So what Spiffy is whining about is that women are to afraid of being called a slut to see justice done. But they are apparently not to afraid of being called a slut to make up tales to get men they don't like thrown in prison. Hmm.

And who calls the sluts for being raped? No men I know would take a sympathetic view of actual rapists. Of course I was raise to be such a sick bastard that I think no means no.

IMO, the reason rape exists as a major crime is because women don't report it when it happens and when women do report rape it they often lie. Any guilt or shame felt seems to come from women directed at other women.

Of course it's not fair to blame one woman for what a man and other women women do. My heart does go out to actual rape victims. But it's hard to know who those are, isn't it.

Still a good course of action would be for every woman who's actually raped to file a report. It would also be good if women didn't decide they were raped after the fact or because they're angry at their boyfriend or whatever, though that's asking a lot. Then serial rapists would quickly be taken off the streets.

Until that happens, blame me. I don't care if a man is as rich as Donald Trump and as good looking as Brad Pit. No means no and I'll vote to convict the bastard who acts otherwise. But then I'm a twisted pervert because you say so.
 
Posted by QLib (# 43) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
No men I know would take a sympathetic view of actual rapists.

Oh no,of course, no man is sympathetic to an 'actual' rapist - but what is 'actual' rape? Does it mean:I'm not sure I believe the high percentage of reports that "turn out to be false" either. Proven false allegation is pretty rare - I suspect the figure you give is where the woman decides not to prosecute and there could be all sorts of reasons for that: no evidence, her word against his; fear of seeing her attacker in court; shame because she feels she did 'ask for it; pleas from female relative not to ruin the man's life, etc. And then there may be those other instances where the victim wants to prosecute but the authorities feel they don't have enough evidence or the victim won't make a competent witness due to learning difficulties, mental health issues, etc.
 
Posted by Eliab (# 9153) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by QLib:
I'm not sure I believe the high percentage of reports that "turn out to be false" either. Proven false allegation is pretty rare - I suspect the figure you give is where the woman decides not to prosecute

IIRC, Dumpling previously quoted exactly this statistic from a survey that took "false" to mean "complainant repudiated her statement".

Which means it includes all those women who withdrew accusations that they thought true but not (for whatever reason) worth pursuing, and excludes all those women who stuck to false complaints (whether charges were dropped, or resulted in conviction or acquittal after trial). Since we don't know how many women are in either category, it seems a useless statistic to me. All we can say is that some allegations of rape are true, and some are false, and it's often hard to tell them apart. Most people (though not Dumpling) could make that point without using the word "sluts".
 
Posted by urbanbumpkin (# 13505) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Spiffy wrote,
quote:
Wah! Mean men rape women and there's nothing we can do about it. Wah!
Although it differs on cop shows, in real life cops always take a close look at those who report crimes. This is because so often their the ones committing them. Two groups get singled out whenever a crime goes down. First is the reporter; second is the rent a cop.

And with rape they have double the cause. Nearly half (40%) of all rape reports turn out to be false.

So what Spiffy is whining about is that women are to afraid of being called a slut to see justice done. But they are apparently not to afraid of being called a slut to make up tales to get men they don't like thrown in prison. Hmm.

And who calls the sluts for being raped? No men I know would take a sympathetic view of actual rapists. Of course I was raise to be such a sick bastard that I think no means no.

IMO, the reason rape exists as a major crime is because women don't report it when it happens and when women do report rape it they often lie. Any guilt or shame felt seems to come from women directed at other women.

Of course it's not fair to blame one woman for what a man and other women women do. My heart does go out to actual rape victims. But it's hard to know who those are, isn't it.

Still a good course of action would be for every woman who's actually raped to file a report. It would also be good if women didn't decide they were raped after the fact or because they're angry at their boyfriend or whatever, though that's asking a lot. Then serial rapists would quickly be taken off the streets.

DJ, where are you getting your stats from? Because I call serious BS on the idea of 40% of women who report rape lying. Have you got any idea of what happens when you report a rape case? First, you have to go tell te whole lot to a policeman. If you have been raped, its mortifying, since it asks hugely detailed questions about every possible part of what happened. I defy quite a lot of women to be able to make up answers to that.

Then you have a physical exam, and a forensic exam of your clothes. If you were making it up, surely there are far better ways to get someone in trouble? They're also looking for any kind of evidence - and no, not only that you had sex, but whether it was forced, how it was done, etc. Normal sex, unless you really are into some interesting things, just isn't going to produce those kinds of results.

At some point, you'll also go through a court proceedure. The defense is LOOKING to discredit you, and they'll do that any way they can. I'm not saying that there aren't false cases of rape reports, but I suspect its very, very few women willing to do that.

What makes me more furious is that it's crap like this that dissuades rape victims from reporting in the first place. Idiot.
 
Posted by Justinian (# 5357) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
At worst one can say that Catholic clergy is no better in this regard than comparable professionals. Why do you spread FUD?

No. At best you can say that the evidence is thin that Catholic Priests are any better than anyone else. And that despite having vast resources devoted to covering up their paedophillia.

quote:
]The decisions of the bishops covering up the scandal were in some sense worse than the actions of the sex offenders themselves.
And they were entirely in line with the official pronouncements from the Vatican. In May 2001, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger sent a letter to every bishop confirming that they were to cover up any act of sexual misconduct by a priest and handle it internally under threat of excommunication. This meant that every bishop who followed the orders from the Vatican was a de facto member of a paedophile ring (even if they did not personally abuse any children). And every bishop who openly didn't would be excommunicated.

Since then the Roman Catholic Church has made this organiser of a paedophile ring into its head.

quote:
The idea that these abuse structures are somehow special to Catholic clergy is simply false.
Find me a paedophile ring that is as large and influential as every single member of the Roman Catholic Church of rank bishop or higher and you will have a point. The abuse structures are not special to the RCC in motivation, granted. But if there is a larger, more powerful, and more influential paedophile ring on the planet than the one encompassing every single bishop in the Roman Catholic Church, I am unaware of its existance.

And until the Roman Catholic Church takes on its guilt for that and starts defrocking bishops (starting with Ratzinger for organising this) the only reason its hands aren't drenched in blood from this is that the blood can't reach them through the other bodily fluids. Instead the Magisterium is just fine with being a de facto paedophile ring, as demonstrated by its elevation of Ratzinger himself to the papacy.

So yes, the RCC is different from other organisations. Any organisation with pretensions to morality or decency wouldn't make the known organiser of a paedophile ring its head. And especially not after the paedophile ring had been exposed.

I have a lot of respect (and pity) for most lay Roman Catholics. Good people trying to do their best despite being force-fed mountains of horseshit by the Magesterium. And am glad every time they ignore the Vatican. On the other hand, there are some Roman Catholics who appear to not only swallow the bullshit doled out by the Vatican, but to be trying to convince others that it's a gourmet meal. And InGob, you are one of those.
 
Posted by amber. (# 11142) on :
 
Most reliable stats I can find for rape prosecution are from the BBC website linking into the police/CPS statistics (2006 study).

Insufficient evidence for police 17%
Victim withdrawal before trial 14%
Victim declined to complete initial process 14%
Offender not identified 10%
False allegation 10%
Not enough evidence of assault 4%
Deemed no prospect of conviction 2%
Deemend not in public interest 1%
reason for not proceeding unknown 10%
dropped by CPS 6%
Taken to trial but not able to convict 6%
Convicted 8%
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Yeah, a study which reports "providing an alibi. Dr. Kanin's report describes a woman who got into a bar fight and, fearing that this might prevent her from regaining custody of her children, filed a rape complaint to account for her injuries." is obviously being biased by women who dropped the charges because the crime was too hard to prove.

Studies like this are also unfair because they hold women to a scientific standard.
quote:
Specifically, FBI officials report that out of roughly 10,000 sexual assault cases since 1989, about 2,000 tests have been inconclusive, about 2,000 tests have excluded the primary suspect, and about 6,000 have "matched" or included the primary suspect."
In other words the scientific evidence supported women accusing men of rape as having sex with that woman 60% of the time. That assumes none of the women had consensual sex, then claimed rape.

Is it possible that these women were raped, then claimed other men than their rapist were at fault? I suppose it is.

Knowing whether a rape report is true is nearly impossible. But if each rape is reported, serial rapists will quickly become known and prosecuted. When one woman holds back reporting because it's just her word against his, she's helping the rapist to rape other women by denying them the evidence they may need in future trials.

When one man has one woman accusing him of rape, I'll need compelling outside evidence as a juror. When one man has five or six women accusing him, not so much.

QLib, I've know women who "ask for it". They didn't get it from me. "No means no" works both ways. Frustrating for them isn't it?
 
Posted by Jengie Jon (# 273) on :
 
You do realise that 2000 are not clear, so you should have said 20%. Even that 20% is up for interpretation, what of the woman who blames rape on a casual acquaintance because the actual rapist is her father or brother. That woman is in that 20%. Was she raped, yes, just not by who she says she was raped by.

Jengie
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Jengie Jon wrote,
quote:
You do realise that 2000 are not clear, so you should have said 20%. Even that 20% is up for interpretation, what of the woman who blames rape on a casual acquaintance because the actual rapist is her father or brother. That woman is in that 20%. Was she raped, yes, just not by who she says she was raped by.
How can men be so mean? [Roll Eyes]
Words fail.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
But then I'm a twisted pervert.

They say the first step is admitting you have a problem.
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
I am not at all convinced IngoB merits the title "idiot", or a number of other redeeming titles he has been given, or which have been implied.

IgnoB is not an idiot, but he can be incredibly stupid.

Dumpling Jeff is just a total loss.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
Justinian,

quote:
And they were entirely in line with the official pronouncements from the Vatican. In May 2001, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger sent a letter to every bishop confirming that they were to cover up any act of sexual misconduct by a priest and handle it internally under threat of excommunication. This meant that every bishop who followed the orders from the Vatican was a de facto member of a paedophile ring (even if they did not personally abuse any children). And every bishop who openly didn't would be excommunicated.

Since then the Roman Catholic Church has made this organiser of a paedophile ring into its head.

Isn't it bad enough that the Vatican consistently judged (and I suspect still judges) the reputation of the RCC to be more important than the safety of children from sexual abuse by its personnel?

The facts you supply are correct as far as I know. I even add that the first time -that I'm aware of- JP2 publicly acknowledged that there was a widespread problem, in a Maundy Thursday letter to the priesthood, he commiserated with the priests who had fallen into error, but no word about the victims. Believe me, I still feel the pain and shame that caused in me.

But if you construct a case of deliberate intent to form a pedophile ring aren't you going over the top?

And of course it's a pity you supplied IngoB with knowledge I suspect he doesn't want to possess, by supplying the answer to the question why His Eminent Pimpness Bernard Cardinal Law was rewarded for his criminal behavior as archbishop of Boston: He acted on instructions from higher up. I would have preferred it if IngoB had been allowed the opportunity to show himself honest enough to come up with that answer himself.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
I am not at all convinced IngoB merits the title "idiot", or a number of other redeeming titles he has been given, or which have been implied.

IgnoB is not an idiot, but he can be incredibly stupid.
Even "incredibly stupid" implies a redeeming factor that he does not merit.

[ 26. January 2010, 19:17: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
I always assumed Cardinal Law was being "kicked upstairs". He was "promoted" from a position of power (which he was forced to resign) to a titular post with no congregation.

He was not charged with any crimes because he didn't commit any. Lacking ex-post-facto laws to prosecute him under, the public did the next best thing. The took the money "he" had. Sixty five of "his" churches were forced to close due to bankruptcy.

This is not the sort of promotion most people aspire to.
 
Posted by Lou Poulain (# 1587) on :
 
This is one of those topics where I feel some real trepidation about putting out a comment and then getting slated for it, but here goes.

I spent five years in an RC seminary (college thru 1st theologate), and I knew a lot of seminarians. Working as a layman at both the diocesan and parish level, I knew a lot of priests. So this is my subjective take on the topic, coming from a bit of personal experience.

Many seminarians, including myself when I entered, have had little social contact with girls in high school. There are elements of psychosocial development that just hadn't happened yet for a lot of these guys. The desire to socialize and date is suppressed and sublimated. During the time I was in the sem (66-71) we had the annual "women are dangerous" talk a week before summer break, with warnings to avoid social situations that could be tempting (specifically including, never allow a female to ride in the front seat of your car). Although we were on a university campus, we had rules in place to limit social contact.

I know that alot of these strictures have changed, but I think the products of that system have / had issues with sexuality. I've heard it referred to as a masturbation culture, and I think that is expressive of stunted sexual development and descriptive of some of the prevalent forms of abuse that have happened.

I agree with comments above that the institutional problem goes beyond homosexuality, and not all male/male abuse situations are perpetrated by homosexuals.

The root problem is the enforced discipline of celibacy and less-than-healthy formational institutions (at least during the era when I was in the seminary).

Last thought regarding the proportion of gay RC priests. Although there is a weighted distribution of homosexuals in clerical ministry (not just in the RC world) there is also the effect of some 20,000 resignations from active ministry in the past 30 years or so, the vast majority of which were men who later got married. Gay priests who desire a partnership lack the legally and ecclesially sanctioned alternative of marriage.

My two cents worth.

[ 26. January 2010, 21:26: Message edited by: Lou Poulain ]
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Jengie Jon:
what of the woman who blames rape on a casual acquaintance because the actual rapist is her father or brother. That woman is in that 20%. Was she raped, yes, just not by who she says she was raped by.

That is a really fucking shit argument, on the grounds that it's saying pretty much exactly the opposite of what you want it to say. A false allegation of rape is a false allegation of rape. Full Stop. It can cause untold damage to the man against whom it is made.

A woman who makes a false allegation of rape is quite simply WRONG, especially if she's actually been raped by someone else. After all, if it's a malicious allegation she's only hurting one person, but if it's to cover up who the true attacker is she's hurting the accused and herself, as well as letting the real perp get away with it.

Would you side with a beaten wife who claims a coworker attacked her? Or a girl being hit by her father telling the police it was her teacher instead?
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Dumples, your sig is driving me up the frickin' wall. Read, mark, and inwardly digest.

[ 26. January 2010, 22:38: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
I always assumed Cardinal Law was being "kicked upstairs". He was "promoted" from a position of power (which he was forced to resign) to a titular post with no congregation.

He was not charged with any crimes because he didn't commit any.

There were more than enough emails seized to prove that he knowingly transferred abusing priests to fresh hunting grounds after he had received complaints about them.
Enough evidence actually to put him behind bars under existing law.
As to why he was let off the hook, you can have your pick out of several practical reasons. The two most obvious being that having a cardinal in jail is a political and logistical nightmare for the authorities and the availability of a Vatican diplomatic passport to any cardinal.
 
Posted by Louise (# 30) on :
 
'Excluded by forensic DNA testing' does not equal 'woman made malicious accusation'. If someone is raped by someone they don't know, they are reliant on the police to identify the primary suspect. If the police then go after the wrong person, the dna test will exclude that person as it should. Those figures don't explain where the wrong identifications came from and so can't be used for this purpose. People get exonerated by dna testing as primary murder suspects too, presumably the geniuses among us think that's entirely because we've got a bunch of no-good slutty corpses making false accusations.

If you want to discuss false accusations, it might be a good idea not to use stats wrenched out of context to mislead by a disreputable outfit like Fox News.

However this is a new use of Hell. The idea of the board used to be that when other posters were behaving like tossers, they were called down here so people could tell them so in no uncertain terms, in the forlorn hope that they might mend their ways. Now the thread gets hijacked by DJ trying to prove that he is so much more of a tosser than the poster originally summoned, that their offence almost pales into insignificance.

Can we just agree that he has won the prize, and we shall have no other tossers before him? And that if he wants a vanity title of 'Ship's Creep', he can have it. If he gets his sad need for negative attention fully met and catered to, he might just stop acting out and try and get some attention in the normal way - you know by contributing positively to the boards, instead of posting inappropriately creepy stuff which makes people wonder what's wrong with him.

L.
 
Posted by Pearl B4 Swine (# 11451) on :
 
Au contraire, Spiff. This one little change makes it just right:

--------------------
Dumpling Jeff: I don't like the idea of someone hearing what I'm thinking.
Inara: No one likes the idea of hearing what you're thinking."
--Firefly
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
There's a certain group of people who have taken it upon themselves to call anyone to hell whose sexual morays are at odds with their own. These are apparently the same old ladies as Victorian England had but with a new twist of allowing any perversion they engage in.

Well I call bullshit. Sex doesn't need you to defend it. There are laws on the books that don't need scapegoating feminazis who think that it's ok to blame the wrong man for rape just because the rapist wasn't a popular sex partner.

Not all rapists are like Bill Clinton. They can't all have state police officers who kidnap women, force them into hotel rooms, then cover it up by launching a PR blitz making the woman out to be a liar. Often times they are losers like the date who drooled during dinner or the guy in the van offering candy.

You call Ingo and people like him names because he believes in sex between a caring, committed couple. Well he's right (in principle if not particular facts) and you're the sick ones.

Sex is supposed to be between people who deeply love one another. Just because you've settled for less doesn't give you the right to call those who like "normal" sex names with impunity.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Jeez. Why is always straight guys who can think about nothing but sex? Get a life, Dumples, and stop perving all over the Ship.
 
Posted by Nicolemrw (# 28) on :
 
Dumpling Jeff, you are one sick mofo, and that is not something I say lightly.
 
Posted by sanityman (# 11598) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
...sexual morays...

sexual morays?
 
Posted by multipara (# 2918) on :
 
Opawim and Rossweisse:

I stand by my comment that Bingo is an idiot. He is obviously not intellectually unintelligent ( i.e not "stupid" per se) but he has the emotional intelligence of an adolescent and it seems that he will stop at nothing to justify the matter of his conversion to the point of uttering idiocies on a public forum. Worse than that he is a monumental bore.

If he keeps on in his usual vein as Apologist Extraordinaire for the Scarlet Whore of Rome and all her appurtenances then he could almost wrest the title of "wisest fool in Christendom"from James VI of Scotland; not even a holy fool at that.

m
 
Posted by comet (# 10353) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
There are laws on the books that don't need scapegoating feminazis who think that it's ok to blame the wrong man for rape just because the rapist wasn't a popular sex partner.

ding ding ding! ladies and gentleman, we have a Rushophile!
 
Posted by Isaac David (# 4671) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by multipara:
Bingo is an idiot.

I wish to make it clear we are not related.
 
Posted by Louise (# 30) on :
 
Oh dear, that must be a really big need for negative attention!
 
Posted by Zach82 (# 3208) on :
 
quote:
...Apologist Extraordinaire for the Scarlet Whore of Rome...
So... Who is the Apologist Extraordinaire for the Functionally Drunk Whore of Canterbury?

Zach
 
Posted by Isaac David (# 4671) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Louise:
Oh dear, that must be a really big need for negative attention!

Painfully transparent, isn't it?
 
Posted by FCB (# 1495) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Justinian:
In May 2001, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger sent a letter to every bishop confirming that they were to cover up any act of sexual misconduct by a priest and handle it internally under threat of excommunication.

You really should work on your reading comprehension. If you want to give it another try, the document mentioned is
found here, unless you want to read it in the original Latin. The instruction had to do with the confidentiality of ecclesiastic proceedings against those accused of grave delicts (among which is the sexual abuse of minors). It has nothing to do with enjoining silence with regard to criminal prosecution. In fact, the guideline approved by the Vatican in 2002 specifically calls for the pursuit of criminal prosecution in such cases.

But don't feel bad. You still have the story of all the babies buried underneath the convent.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Justinian:
In May 2001, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger sent a letter to every bishop confirming that they were to cover up any act of sexual misconduct by a priest and handle it internally under threat of excommunication. This meant that every bishop who followed the orders from the Vatican was a de facto member of a paedophile ring (even if they did not personally abuse any children). And every bishop who openly didn't would be excommunicated.

Since then the Roman Catholic Church has made this organiser of a paedophile ring into its head.

Vicious bullshit, Justinian. This old lie has been debunked so many times since 2001 I’m astonished anyone of good will still trots it out.

The 2001 document clarified an earlier one (Crimen Sollicitationis, 1962) which wasn’t even about child abuse in the first place – it was about the horrible offense of priests abusing the secrecy of the confessional. One such abuse (therein explicitly condemned) would be to solicit sexual favours from the penintent, and the document makes it clear that the abused penitent was under an absolute obligation to report such attempted abuse immediately. If proved against the priest, such behaviour could lead to the immediate and permanent reduction of the priest to the lay state and says NOTHING about not reporting serious offences to the civil authorities.

Similarly, Ratzinger’s 2001 clarification and beefing-up of CS made it more, not less, strenous in its protection of abused persons and once again NEVER even implies that criminal offenses are not to be dealt with by the civil authorities.

Since you accuse the Pope so blithely of being part of a pedophile ring, I expect you’ll be along to tell us what precisely in that 2001 document (chapter and verse please) led you to such a conclusion. If not, an admission of error would do. A public calumny deserves a public apology, don’t you think?
 
Posted by Justinian (# 5357) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by FCB:
quote:
Originally posted by Justinian:
In May 2001, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger sent a letter to every bishop confirming that they were to cover up any act of sexual misconduct by a priest and handle it internally under threat of excommunication.

You really should work on your reading comprehension. If you want to give it another try, the document mentioned is
found here, unless you want to read it in the original Latin. The instruction had to do with the confidentiality of ecclesiastic proceedings against those accused of grave delicts (among which is the sexual abuse of minors). It has nothing to do with enjoining silence with regard to criminal prosecution.

Believe it or not, I've read it. And what the first document says is that the Roman Catholic Church considers itself above the law of the land, not bound by the law of the land, and that it should keep handling matters itself despite there being a known pattern of it not handling such matters. In short, it's a mandate of a cover-up.

quote:
In fact, the guideline approved by the Vatican in 2002 specifically calls for the pursuit of criminal prosecution in such cases.[/qb]
That would be the one on the 18th of October 2002 when the Vatican objected to the agreement reached with the American authorities and once again were trying to keep some vestige of canon law rather than let their priests be treated the way ordinary human beings were? And that was deliberately written to mandate Roman Catholic Exceptionalism when it came to the law?

quote:
But don't feel bad. You still have the story of all the babies buried underneath the convent.
Would those be the ones caused by Humanae Vitae and the Vatican's truly fucked up views on contraception?
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
It must take Dumpling Jeff a while to compose posts so completely cleansed of truth or merit. This seems quite beyond the foggy realms of mere perversion and idiocy, and likely forays from the lower trollosphere.
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Chesterbelloc wrote,
quote:
I’m astonished anyone of good will still trots it out.
I think you may have made a wrong assumption here.

Does that count as a "I thought this was a christian web site"?
 
Posted by Justinian (# 5357) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Vicious bullshit, Justinian. This old lie has been debunked so many times since 2001 I’m astonished anyone of good will still trots it out.

The 2001 document clarified an earlier one (Crimen Sollicitationis, 1962) which wasn’t even about child abuse in the first place – it was about the horrible offense of priests abusing the secrecy of the confessional. One such abuse (therein explicitly condemned) would be to solicit sexual favours from the penintent, and the document makes it clear that the abused penitent was under an absolute obligation to report such attempted abuse immediately.

And report it to the Roman Catholic authorities rather than the secular ones.

quote:
If proved against the priest, such behaviour could lead to the immediate and permanent reduction of the priest to the lay state and says NOTHING about not reporting serious offences to the civil authorities.
No. It says who the authorities to report it to are. And that they are reserved to the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Which makes it an internal matter for the Roman Catholic Church. And "Cases of this kind are subject to the pontifical secret." Which means that those within the church who could help the civil case the most are banned from doing so.

quote:
Similarly, Ratzinger’s 2001 clarification and beefing-up of CS made it more, not less, strenous in its protection of abused persons and once again NEVER even implies that criminal offenses are not to be dealt with by the civil authorities.
Again, it says the matters are reserved to the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Under the Pontifical Secret.

quote:
Since you accuse the Pope so blithely of being part of a pedophile ring, I expect you’ll be along to tell us what precisely in that 2001 document (chapter and verse please) led you to such a conclusion. If not, an admission of error would do. A public calumny deserves a public apology, don’t you think?
I believe I have said what led me to that conclusion above. It was an elegant move - have it reported internally, and bind anyone in the church hierarchy who could help with a civil investigation under the Pontifical Secret. The Roman Catholic Church's back was against the wall at the time.
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
...sexual morays...

Soles needing 'eeling, perhaps?

a) IngoB is certainly not an idiot, that's just calling someone names because you disagree with him. Generally his arguments are cogent and informed. The fact that we disagree on most things that he wades into is neither here nor there. I disagreed with Margaret Thatcher and Ronald Reagan on lots of things as well but it doesn't make them idiots.

b) Justinian, I think you should change your name as you do the real Justinian a bad service. Mindless invective stemming from blind prejudice is unseemly. How about changing to Ignorant Bigot, it would be much more appropriate?

[ 27. January 2010, 14:58: Message edited by: Fuzzipeg ]
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fuzzipeg:
IngoB is certainly not an idiot, that's just calling someone names because you disagree with him.

Uh, yeah, that's why this is the Hell board and not Dead Horses. We like to call people names. Stupidhead.
 
Posted by Gildas (# 525) on :
 
Justinian, AIUI, cases of this sort are subject to the Pontifical Secret but the events in question are not. So if a Catholic Priest offers you a good seeing to instead of the usual Three Hail Marys and two Our Fathers the resulting trial will be covered by the Pontifical Secret but there is nothing stopping you bringing the matter to the attention of Plod if you are a minor.

I'm not an unqualified admirer of the Catholic Church and I don't think that even the most Considerably More Magisterial Than Yow commentator would regard their handing of the child abuse scandal as their finest hour but, really, does anyone seriously think that in a middle of an ess-eaitch-one-tee storm of this nature the head of the CDF would forbid everyone from co-operating with the civil authority on pain of excommunication?

[ 27. January 2010, 15:02: Message edited by: Gildas ]
 
Posted by Justinian (# 5357) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gildas:
Justinian, AIUI, cases of this sort are subject to the Pontifical Secret but the events in question are not. So if a Catholic Priest offers you a good seeing to instead of the usual Three Hail Marys and two Our Fathers the resulting trial will be covered by the Pontifical Secret but there is nothing stopping you bringing the matter to the attention of Plod if you are a minor.

Meaning that it's the investigating authorities who are banned from helping the secular authorities due to the Papal Seal. There's nothing directly preventing the victim and the victim's family doing so. There would have been Catholic priests strung up from pullpits if they'd tried that.

As it is, there are two possible cases:
1: The victim's family doesn't trust the RCC and turns things straight over to the secular authorities. The RCC can't do much about that and any attempt to directly interfere would be politically impossible at the time.

2: Despite the problems, the victim's family trusts the RCC to do something. They take it through the RCC's own chanels. Which are set up to slow things down (meaning that any secular investigation is much harder due to the ground being cold), produce the most charitable result possible for the priest, and to otherwise protect the reputation of the Roman Catholic Church. In short to cover up and throw as much of a smokescreen as possible while appearing to be doing something.

Putting the whole thing under the auspices of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith and under the Papal Seal is a wonderful way of doing this latter alternative. While appearing to be doing something positive so fewer people depart for category 1 or leave the RCC entirely.

quote:
but, really, does anyone seriously think that in a middle of an ess-eaitch-one-tee storm of this nature the head of the CDF would forbid everyone from co-operating with the civil authority on pain of excommunication?
They'd do whatever they could to do so that wouldn't make it screamingly obvious that that was what they were doing. They couldn't gag the victim/victim's family. But effectively could anyone investigating from their side.
 
Posted by Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras (# 11274) on :
 
I'm going to suggest the likelihood that both the protestant ministry and the Catholic priesthood tend to attract a disproportionate number of men with problems in psychosexual integration, by which I DO NOT mean homosexuality, but rather an incapacity for relationships that combine emotional and sexual intimacy with age-appropriate object choice (IOW, not with juveniles). A requirement for celibacy merely magnifies the likelihood of psychosexual maladaptation. If the celibacy requirement is maintained and homosexually-oriented men are barred from the priesthood, the Roman Catholic Church is going to be left with very few candidates for the priesthood, at least in the West; even more so when you screen out all the aspirants who have various types of character pathology, irrespective of sexual orientation.

[ 27. January 2010, 16:39: Message edited by: Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras ]
 
Posted by ken (# 2460) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by ken:
And the papers IngoB referred to to support his assertion that teachers are more likely to be involved in sexual abuse show no such thing.

Well, one of the authors of these studies, Prof. Shakeshaft, seems to think otherwise. See here, which is a free copy of an article in Education Week.
I was going to reply with some such appropriate phrase as "well she would say the wouldn't she". But then I read the article you link to and it not only doesn't say anything about the relative numbers of child abusers between clergy and teachers, it doesn't make any assertions about the numbers of teachers involved AT ALL.

You obviously haven't read the article, just scanned it for a line that when quoted out of context could be used to mislead people into thinking you knew what you were talking about. Maybe you have learned how to debate from Myrrh.

The line is:

quote:

Those figures suggest that "the physical sexual abuse of students in schools is likely more than 100 times the abuse by priests,"contended Ms. Shakeshaft, who is a professor of educational administration at Hofstra, in Hempstead, N.Y.

What that doesn't say is that she is not talking about numbers of teachers but numbers of students. And she is not talking about proportions but about absolute numbers. She is (or maybe the reporter talking about her) is claiming she is being she thinks about 100 times as many people have been abused by teachers as by priests.


And she only says that her literature search (and it was a literature search, not original research) "suggests" that the problem is 100 times greater in education. Weasel words, but she must use them to stay ion the right side of her college's ethics committee because of course the studies she is talking about are not claiming like for like. She is comparing on the one hand people who report serious sexual abuse from priests, such as rape, and on the other hand people who report much wider categories of "sexual misconduct" from teachers.

But even if her claim is true, so what?

I think there are about 40,000 Roman Catholic priests in the USA.

The largest teacher's union, the National Education Association, has over three million members. There are millions teachers who are not members.

So there ARE OVER A HUNDRED TIMES AS MANY TEACHERS AS CATHOLIC PRIESTS IN AMERICA. So if teachers and priests were equally likely to abuse children YOU WOULD EXPECT A HUNDRED TIMES AS MANY REPORTS OF IT.

And, what's more, kids typically spend maybe 20-30 hours a week with their teachers. Very few spend more than an hour or so in the presence of a priest. So if the number of incidents abuse per abuser was the same (IYSWIM) you would have to infer that the rate of incidents was much greater from priests than from teachers. (Remember she is NOT just talking about stuff that goes on behind closed doors - or not with teachers anyway)

And, what's more, people pass through the hands of many teachers in their school career. I'd guess I was taught by about 40-50 teachers in the two schools I went to, anyone who moves home a lot will see far more. Few kids get to go to fifty churches during their childhood. So a comparitively small number of abusive teachers would deal with many, many kids in their career, far more than most priests would (and the few priests who did would probably be teachers themselves (hey, maybe those figures fro teachers are being skewed by a few bent priests?)

Anyway the reports quoted by Dr Shakeshaft (it still sounds like a weird made-up name) do NOT say anything about how many teachers are abusers, or even how many teachers are guilty of her more generalised "sexual misconduct". So they do NOT help us know if teachers are better or worse than priests. She doesn't even claim that they do - she is making a demand for more research money.

Look, I know you are an engineer of some sort and so maybe haven't had a decent education in statistics. (I know what its like - I'm a biologist - we are crap at all maths except statistics). And maybe you are used to scholarly papers being full of deterministic equations and actual data. Unlike this one.

So lets use an analogy without the emotional blinders of children, sex, violence, and religion (no wonder this topic has legs, it hits all the buttons)

Say you wanted to know if car drivers were more or less likely to be hurt in an accident than motorbike riders. And someone told you that in 2002 approximately 175,000 occupants of cars were seriously injured in Britain, but only 3,000 motorcyclists were killed - so that is evidence that driving is about 60 times more dangerous than riding. You wouldn't fall for that for a moment. But that is exactly what you have done with Ms Shakewhatever's papers.

Hey! I pass the Comet test! I verbally abuse BingoBee BY rationally discussing real issues. [Razz]

[ 27. January 2010, 17:52: Message edited by: ken ]
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
No worries, Ken, someone will be along shortly to mansplain to you why you're wrong. Since Ingo isn't reading this (in theory), it'll probably be Dumples.
 
Posted by Imaginary Friend (# 186) on :
 
Well, it seems that ken's completely ignorant of the whole subject because he's had to do research before he could post. Obviously, if his opinion had any validity he would just know the Truth™ without having to put in all that effort. Clearly the sign of an inferior mind.

[Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
KK, let me mansplain it to you.

No one is arguing the sex scandals in the RC church were the church's finest moment. I find what the priest's did and what the administrators did sick and wrong.

What Ms. Shakeshaft supposedly reported was that a random child in the U.S. is about a hundred times as likely to be the target of unwanted sexual attention by a teacher as that child is by an RC priest. (The entire study sounds like an April Fools prank to me. Shakenshaft, lol)

She further stated that this was a wild ass guess because no one tracks the teachers who are molesters.

This second point was the main point I think.

Where are the studies? If this is about the children, shouldn't someone at least get some real data? Society is willing to turn a blind eye to teacher perpetrated sex abuse while holding the entire RC church responsible for the actions of a few clerics.

Is an RC priest a bigger risk than a public school teacher? On a per hour basis, probably. But if you have a child which is more likely to molest her/him? If your child is in public school (nearly mandated in the U.S.) and your not an RC, the answer is clearly the teacher. Yet we can't be bothered to even track that problem.

Those outside the church look at it and see a classic pyramid power structure. But to the average RC, Rome is at best a dream vacation. It has nothing to do with our real lives. When we look at our hierarchy it's usually because it screwed up somewhere. Real Catholicism is based on the individual and family.

So there are plenty willing to bash the RCC but ignore the same problem in secular institutions. This was true when Christ was a corporal. It hasn't changed.

Now go ahead and tell me I'm being unfair to all those upstanding teachers who never molested anyone, how I'm comparing apples to oranges, and how I must be a sick puppy because I disagree with the leftist party line.

All those things are true. Deal with it.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Oooh, I'm PSYCHIC! I wonder if I can get a fabulous turban and an infomercial.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
I've three deadlines to deal with at the moment, so I will just post three short comments here:

quote:
Originally posted by ken:
Look, I know you are an engineer of some sort and so maybe haven't had a decent education in statistics. (I know what its like - I'm a biologist - we are crap at all maths except statistics). And maybe you are used to scholarly papers being full of deterministic equations and actual data. Unlike this one.

Thanks ken, but I'm not going to claim that excuse, though it's not wide off the mark concerning my original stats education. Yet there's nothing even remotely challenging in that article concerning stats. Rather it is as you first say, I just scanned there for a line to quote without bothering to understand it properly, Myrrh-style. The only excuse I am going to claim is that I posted this close to midnight, after trying for well over an hour to google anything resembling a hard number on the percentage of abusive priests vs. teacher. I guess my brain was on stand-by, after reading way too much crap, when I was typing that. Sorry about that, and I appreciate you catching this nonsense from me.

I'm also glad that FCB and Chesterbelloc already competently answered Justinian, whose claim about the RCC as giant pedophile ring I consider to be in quite the same league as "the Jews poisoned our wells". That opaWim then told Justinian "The facts you supply are correct as far as I know." speaks for itself. As for opaWim's request that I trounce Cardinal Law in order to gain street cred: the problem is that I've read thoughtful articles like this one in the past and do not generally trust the US MSM much. I hence don't feel competent to judge the man, rather than his actions (which clearly were often bad). And I'm frankly not interested enough to waste the little free time that I have on researching his life to the point where I could.

Finally, I think Catholics like opaWim and multipara are like a husband with a fairly normal wife trying to channel Hosea.
 
Posted by multipara (# 2918) on :
 
Bingo, would this be your take on the the Bride of Christ channeling the Scarlet Whore?
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Finally, I think Catholics like opaWim and multipara are like a husband with a fairly normal wife trying to channel Hosea.

Are you sure you want to travel this road?
Personally I'm wary of this kind of abuse of the Bible, but there are scores of unsavory characters there that you are a more than likely fit for.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Justinian, you really are a spineless, graceless, mendacious, squirmy little arsebiscuit. Yes, 5 adjectives: because you're worth it.
 
Posted by Justinian (# 5357) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Justinian, you really are a spineless, graceless, mendacious, squirmy little arsebiscuit. Yes, 5 adjectives: because you're worth it.

Chesterbelloc, you challenged me to say what in the document in question lead to my beliefs or if not I should apologise. I told you what parts of it did. Were you so stupid that you thought I would not take up your challenge? And apparently you have not only discovered you have a pathetic case, you are unable to attack the opposition with more than puerile and unsubstantiated insults. You're not even worth the bytes.
 
Posted by Gildas (# 525) on :
 
Originally posted by Justinian:

quote:
Meaning that it's the investigating authorities who are banned from helping the secular authorities due to the Papal Seal. There's nothing directly preventing the victim and the victim's family doing so. There would have been Catholic priests strung up from pullpits if they'd tried that.

As it is, there are two possible cases:
1: The victim's family doesn't trust the RCC and turns things straight over to the secular authorities. The RCC can't do much about that and any attempt to directly interfere would be politically impossible at the time.

2: Despite the problems, the victim's family trusts the RCC to do something. They take it through the RCC's own chanels. Which are set up to slow things down (meaning that any secular investigation is much harder due to the ground being cold), produce the most charitable result possible for the priest, and to otherwise protect the reputation of the Roman Catholic Church. In short to cover up and throw as much of a smokescreen as possible while appearing to be doing something.

Putting the whole thing under the auspices of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith and under the Papal Seal is a wonderful way of doing this latter alternative. While appearing to be doing something positive so fewer people depart for category 1 or leave the RCC entirely.

You're still getting the wrong end of the stick. A Roman Catholic Bishop who is involved in a tribunal of this nature is obliged to keep the proceedings of the tribunal secret. He is not obliged to refuse to help the civil authorities by sharing any information he has gained from other sources. So if Cardinal Fang pops round to the Presbytery and catches Father Mulcahy in flagrante with the St. Winifred's School Choir he is entitled and expected to inform the civil authority. If he is required to participate in a suitable tribunal under the auspices of the secret he cannot divulge the proceedings to anyone else but he can enter the witness box and explain to the jury what he witnessed at the Presbytery. An analogy would be with the confessional. A Catholic Priest is not entitled to divulge the secrets of the confessional but if he finds out the same information by other means and if there is a clear and public benefit served by his communicating the intelligence to the relevant parties.


quote:
quote:
but, really, does anyone seriously think that in a middle of an ess-eaitch-one-tee storm of this nature the head of the CDF would forbid everyone from co-operating with the civil authority on pain of excommunication?
They'd do whatever they could to do so that wouldn't make it screamingly obvious that that was what they were doing. They couldn't gag the victim/victim's family. But effectively could anyone investigating from their side.

Again, I think that you are misunderstanding what was happening. It wasn't as if Ratzinger was seeing the headlines and thinking: "Ooh, sexual abuse. Must cover that up". The cover up had already been perpetrated in spades. One thinks of those Bishops who had persuaded judges that Fr. Slime's predilictions had been an isolated lapse when they knew (and the court didn't) of several other cases where Fr. Slime had been up to what he shouldn't.

At this point the cover up was unravelling, badly. The point of the edict, AFAICS, is to ensure that handling of the case was handled according to due process with the CDF kept in the loop rather than the offending clergyman being told not to do it again and sent off to the inner city as a punishment (which gives the term: 'The Preferential Option For the Poor and Young' an entirely new meaning). A massive and horrible cover up did take place but not at the behest of the CDF.

Now I'm not wildly disposed to cut the Catholic hierarchy a great deal of slack at the best of times and it could well be argued that this was shutting the stable door well after the horse was long gone but the operating principle does seem to be a case of 'if you want something done you have to do it yourself' and not an attempt at imposing an ecclesiastical D-Notice on the entire Catholic hierarchy on the subject of child abuse.
 
Posted by Justinian (# 5357) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
I'm also glad that FCB and Chesterbelloc already competently answered Justinian, whose claim about the RCC as giant pedophile ring I consider to be in quite the same league as "the Jews poisoned our wells". That opaWim then told Justinian "The facts you supply are correct as far as I know." speaks for itself.

Except that really didn't go well for them.

FCB provided a link to the document in question. Chesterbelloc asked me which parts of it lead to my accusations. I answered both of them using the letter itself. Neither of them apparently is able to show how my reading of it is anything other than accurate.

And of course the RCC is more than a paedophile ring. But any organisation that systematically covers up kiddy-fucking (and do you deny that e.g. Cardinal Law did so?) and then rewards and protects those behind the coverup has all the essential characteristics of one.

Of course there is much more to the RCC, both good (their charity work, going where few others dare, etc.) and ill (trying to fuck up the world further by opposing contraception, promoting homophobia, etc.). And as far as I know, no one becomes a catholic priest with the deliberate intent of screwing kids. But that does not change the fact that the cover-up gave the RCC the essential features of a paedophile ring in addition to all else it does.
 
Posted by sanityman (# 11598) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Thanks ken, but I'm not going to claim that excuse...Sorry about that, and I appreciate you catching this nonsense from me.

A quick [Overused] for a gracious apology.

- Chris.
 
Posted by Justinian (# 5357) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gildas:
Thanks. An actually useful response. Rather than just declaring victory and going home.

quote:
You're still getting the wrong end of the stick. A Roman Catholic Bishop who is involved in a tribunal of this nature is obliged to keep the proceedings of the tribunal secret.
In short, he is required to keep secret the best information he is able to gather.

quote:
He is not obliged to refuse to help the civil authorities by sharing any information he has gained from other sources. So if Cardinal Fang pops round to the Presbytery and catches Father Mulcahy in flagrante with the St. Winifred's School Choir he is entitled and expected to inform the civil authority.
And if someone doing something illicit is that careless, it's effectively a Darwin Award. Although I suppose you are right in that there is at least non-trivial evidence to suppose that a significant number of bishops would still have covered that up.

quote:
Again, I think that you are misunderstanding what was happening. It wasn't as if Ratzinger was seeing the headlines and thinking: "Ooh, sexual abuse. Must cover that up". The cover up had already been perpetrated in spades.
No. I don't think that's Ratzinger's way. I may think that the man's a petty right wing authoritarian politician with a list of sexual hangups. But he acted here as I would expect him to act. To protect the name of the Roman Catholic Church, and damn the consequences.

On reflection, I suppose paedophile ring is a bit harsh. The intent was nothing more malevolent than the institutional Roman Catholic desire for secrecy caused by the Sacrament of Confession and lack of desire for propogation of the truth. And this is hardly the first time it has crippled the possibility of the RCC to act morally; they almost certainly knew more about the Holocaust than anyone else but couldn't act based on their knowledge there. Which must have been devastating for some of the poor priests.

So after reflecting, I'll withdraw the accusation of intent to conspiracy. But will note that I have problems working out a method that could be more precisely calculated for the continuation of the coverup that would not lead to priests hanging from lamp posts.

And it's interesting that you rather than one of the Roman Catholics on the thread have lead me to a more charitable view of the actions of the Vatican.
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
I had a word with the angels, who said that never mind fear of treading on this thread, they would be terrified of doing so. Nevertheless I am going to venture a comment or two.

There is a great deal for which the Catholic Church needs to hang its head in shame about this whole appalling business. There is already much to convict it. It always therefore saddens me when people use nonsense arguments in an attempt to kick harder and inflict more blows. Justinian, you are a prime example. You reveal your hand by the string of non-related accusations you hurl at the Pope and the Catholic Church. You have an axe to grind and by God you will use every apparent grindstone that comes your way. What it does is not to deliver some killer blow but to reveal your own antipathy. Just saying.

Two things in this regard. Cases referred to the CDF are about how the Catholic Church herself deals with clerics guilty of such crimes. It may seem a simple thing but due process is usually far from simple. By Canon Law clerics have not only obligations but also rights. If they are guilty of delicts then there are a range of disciplines which can be imposed - after due process: suspension from the ministry; withdrawl of some (or all) faculties; deprivation from the clerical state and so on. Such disciplines depend of course on the gravity of the delict. A criminal offence is of the gravest importance.

Clerics have rights, however. Canonical incardination entitles them to be maintained and supported at Church expense for their whole life. That is the contract, as it were, that exists between a cleric and the Church. So suspension or the withdrawl of faculties does not affect that right. However, to be deprived of the clerical state does. Such an action cannot be done lightly. Usually such a case would be referred to Rome, to the Congregation for the Clergy.

The 2001 letter from the CDF indicates that some matters of the gravest import touching the faith and morals of the Church are to be referred to the CDF rather than the Congregation for the Clergy, and makes clear which matters are to be thus regarded. The sexual abuse of minors is an obvious case of extreme gravity.

What is not mentioned in this particular letter, but which subsequent rulings have made clear, is that any priest found guilty of the sexual abuse of minors was not to be disciplined with the lesser penalties of suspension or withdrawl of faculties. Those who are guilty of such criminal action are now automatically deprived of the clerical state. There is no confusion about this matter - never again will it be tolerated for a bishop to handle such cases himself. He is now compelled to refer such matters to the CDF. And you may wish to know that the penalty imposed by the CDF is automatic dismissal from the clerical state. There is no chance of someone guilty of such a crime being able to minister again. He loses all the rights of a cleric.

Please note the use of the phrase criminal action. It is not for the Catholic Church to determine what is a criminal act. Clerics who are guilty of criminal activity need to be dealt with by the civil authorities, and they need to serve any penalties imposed upon them by the civil authorities. Church procedure against them would be a subsequent action. I know of priests who have been told, while serving their prison sentences, that they have been deprived of the clerical state by the Holy See.

How this can be described as a cover-up beats me.

And while we are at it, what exactly is meant by a cover-up? Because the way Justinian has used it so as to describe the Catholic Church as a paedophile ring (albeit belatedly withdrawn) it means deliberately witholding information so as to allow perpetrators to continue their activities. Is that seriously a suggestion?

I am also often bewildered by the idea that Cardinal Law was somehow rewarded and promoted by being given a largely ceremonial job in Rome. The last Archpriest of St Mary Major was a Welshman who was a complete nutter. Law was forced to resign from a pretty important job and in effect sent into exile. Now he is in an insignificant job. I mean really, can you name the Archpriests of any of the other Roman Basilicas? I certainly couldn't. I could name a handful of people in important jobs in Rome, but not the Archpriests of the Basilicas. I couldn't even tell you who the Archpriest of St Peter's Basilica is!

Let me tell you what the clerical sex abuse scandal feels like from the inside: it causes shame. There is anger, but mostly it is shame. And shame is a decidedly debilitating feeling. At a priest's meeting a week or so ago we were talking about the issue of priests from abroad coming to work in our parishes and all the new restrictions and bureaucratic minefields through which we have to navigate. In the past you simply made arrangements with the priest concerned and he turned up. No longer. Both the state and church authorities now expect extensive checks. As one of our number mused "We have to accept that we are a high risk category". A reflective silence descended on the meeting. I personally have met priests who were subsequently convicted of sexual abuse of a minor. The effect was devastating, especially since I had thought some of them were bloody good priests. I only got to know of their actions after they were arrested. I felt as betrayed as anyone else (though I could not possibly feel the same as their victims did).

I am exhausted now because this topic always hits me deep in the gut. It is painful enough without the mendacious rubbish spouted by the chattering classes and axe-grinders.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
[X-p'd with Triple Tiara, obviously.]

Justinian, sometimes the res ipse loquitur (as your namesake might have said)
so clearly that I've just got to doubt the good will of those who mistake them so badly. But lest I be thought of as fleeing from the mighty refutational force of your, er, arguments....
quote:
Originally posted by Justinian:
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
the document makes it clear that the abused penitent was under an absolute obligation to report such attempted abuse immediately.

And report it to the Roman Catholic authorities rather than the secular ones.
No it doesn't - nowhere and no-how. As FCB has already said, the further clarification issued a few months later encourages the victims of criminal offences to report them to the civil authorities.
quote:
"Cases of this kind are subject to the pontifical secret." Which means that those within the church who could help the civil case the most are banned from doing so.
No. It doesn't. Really, it doesn't.
quote:
I believe I have said what led me to that conclusion above.
I believe you didn't really know what the documents in question really said or meant - and when you had it pointed out to you, you hadn't got the balls to admit you'd put the worst possible spin on them and that they would not bear your "interpretation". There's a name for people who are so keen to believe the worst of another that they don't let facts get in the way - and you'll find it near the top of this very page.

[ 28. January 2010, 13:45: Message edited by: Chesterbelloc ]
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
I am also often bewildered by the idea that Cardinal Law was somehow rewarded and promoted by being given a largely ceremonial job in Rome. The last Archpriest of St Mary Major was a Welshman who was a complete nutter. Law was forced to resign from a pretty important job and in effect sent into exile. Now he is in an insignificant job.
(At the risk of being even more annoying than I've apparently already been:)

Well, not exactly "somehow rewarded", but also not particularly severely punished.
It's only Wikipedia, and the list may not be up-to-date (and it certainly can't be easily verified at www.vatican.va ) but reportedly card. Law still holds quite a few other jobs in the Vatican:
quote:
He is also a member of the Congregations for the Oriental Churches, the Clergy, Divine Worship and Discipline of the Sacraments, Evangelisation of Peoples, Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life, Catholic Education, Bishops as well as the Pontifical Council for the Family.
Being only an ordinary member of the laity, I'm quite impressed by that list, and more than a little puzzled by him (of all people) holding some of them. Or shouldn't I be because these are also largely ceremonial and/or insignificant jobs?

[ 28. January 2010, 14:53: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
Well let's unpack this a bit then.

Why are you impressed? What do you think being a member of those Congregations actually means?
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
I'm not Justinian, but I think the fact that the asshole has any title other than ASSHOLE is evidence enough that the RCC just doesn't get it.
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
Put another way, the RCC does not succumb to vigilante justice.
 
Posted by Shadowhund (# 9175) on :
 
In any rate, Cardinal Law's offenses, as they really are, have been grossly exaggerated. The MA attorney-general found that Cardinal Law did not commit any crimes under MA law. True, Cardinal Law did not report cases of child sexual abuse to the authorities, but he was not obliged to under the law, and I have always believed that mandatory reporter requirements are, for the most part a legal abomination to begin with. (One is not required to report crimes to the authorities for virtually any other offense, including rape and murder.)

The one thing that Cardinal Law really screwed up on was his decision to return John Geoghan to St. Julia, Weston, though even that decision was based upon (flawed) medical and professional advice that it was safe for him to return ministry. The correct approach, as it turned out, was to turn over Geoghan's (and all the other child sex offender cases) to the CDF for judgment as required by "Crimen Solicitationis." But as almost no one knew that document existed due to the hidden and flawed way the document was promulgated by Bl. John XXIII, he (and virtually all other American bishops during the 70s-90s), did not do so.

The reason why Cardinal Law's personal reputation was destroyed was because he served in Boston, a major media market with a newspaper with an axe to grind which proceeded to whip up the country in an atmosphere of witchhunt hysteria. The atmosphere was so poisonous that the gay Harvard chaplain Peter Gomes wanted to publicly defend Law at the outset, but was urged not to by his friends because the lynch mob mentality would have consumed him as well. There were bishops and religious superiors that were thoroughly mendacious in the way they handled sex abuse problems (unlike Law), but got away with it because they were located in less prominent media markets. The New York Times doesn't give a shit about Collegeville, MN, for example. Law, however, was the scapegoat.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Well let's unpack this a bit then.

Why are you impressed? What do you think being a member of those Congregations actually means?

Well, all those rules, regulations, nullifications, excommunications, beatifications, appointments, foreign policies, encyclicals, exhortations, etc., etc., have to originate somewhere.
I've always understood that most of it is done by these bodies that together form "The Curia".
I expect that if a cardinal holds membership in one of these institutions it's not so he can be in charge of the photocopier.
Is it very naive of me to assume that card. Law, by being in quite a few of them, is in fact still quite a powerful man in the RCC?
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Put another way, the RCC does not succumb to vigilante justice.

Wow, what a total dick answer. I expected the RCC to defrock the son of a bitch, not give him a mouthful of honorary titles. I don't care if they are meaningless.

[ 28. January 2010, 16:09: Message edited by: Erin ]
 
Posted by Shadowhund (# 9175) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Erin:
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Put another way, the RCC does not succumb to vigilante justice.

Wow, what a total dick answer. I expected the RCC to defrock the son of a bitch, not give him a mouthful of honorary titles. I don't care if they are meaningless.
Of course, this just proves TT's point.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Shadowhund:
In any rate, Cardinal Law's offenses, as they really are, have been grossly exaggerated

I think you're being too generous in the way you are playing down the offenses of card. Law.

How one can -for instance- "grossly exaggerate" the act of consciously providing a known pedophile with a fresh hunting-ground, is beyond my understanding.
Don't you realize that morally that was even worse than what that known pedophile did?

[ 28. January 2010, 16:21: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
Golly, somewhere along the line I missed some of all those things that you seem to imagine keep pouring out of Rome!

Each congregation has a staff, which does all the work. This would include the Cardinal Prefect, the Secretary and lower grade members. These are the ones that actually do the work. They are by no means a vast body of people - the entire Curia numbers around 6000. (Pope John XXIII famously responded, when asked how many people work in the Vatican, "about half of them"!)

Every Cardinal, by virtue of his office, is a consultor to a number of Congregations. This is not some badge of distinction, not some special award. It's part of the job of being a Cardinal. A consultor is exactly that: someone who is consulted. Every Roman Congregation has a board of consultors.

Law resigned from the pastoral responsibility for the Archdiocese of Boston. He then went into virtual exile and was given a ceremonial job in Rome. Personally, I think that appointment was a bit of an insult to him, but that's just me. He did not resign from being a Cardinal. His responsibilities as a Cardinal therefore continue.

What should have happened? Should he have simply been put out to retire somewhere and not do anything productive? I would find that far worse than what has in fact happened to him. His pastoral acumen was revealed to be severely wanting and he has had all pastoral responsibility taken from him. That does not mean he is totally evil and useless. He is now far away from the situation he mishandled so badly. He is not guilty of the same in the other responsibilities he had.

Those who want to continue to hound him - including Catholics - show themselves to be guilty of witch-hunting rather than justice. If he had been publicly flogged in Boston I am sure some would still be crying "Not enough!"
 
Posted by Shadowhund (# 9175) on :
 
Once again, the medical and psychological advice given to Law was that Goeghan was rehabilitated and was safe to return to active parish ministry. We conveniently forget that the medical professionals in the 70s and 80s who dealt with these issues were generally far too optimistic about the ability to rehabilitate sexual offenders than they should have been. This was in keeping with the so-called "enlightened" opinion of the time which tended to favor rehabiliation over retribution for sex offenses. The climate, however, has now gone the opposite extreme by saying (incorrectly) that no pedophile can ever be rehabilitated and that all sex offenders of whatever kind should either be locked up forever or forced to live under bridges.

Thus, Law did not behave "immorally" by returning Geoghan to ministry under the circumstances that he did. It was, nonetheless, a disastrous decision that caused people harm. Not every harmful or incompetent decision is sinful and this particular one, in my opinion was not.
 
Posted by Shadowhund (# 9175) on :
 
I imagine that being a member of a Curial Congregation is somewhat like a Congressman being a member of a Congressional committtee. They are entitled to a vote, which can be of *some* power, but the overwhelming amount of power resides in the committee chairman and staff.

Another factor in Law's demise was that, by the time the scandal hit, he had few allies among the Catholic laity. The liberals, of course, always hated him. But the self-styled "orthodox" had begun to hate him as well. The pro-life activists never forgave Law for his call to end the sit-ins at abortuaries as a result of the Salvi murders (for which Law was right to do under the circumstances). Law supported the initial bowdlerized translation of the new Catechism (which he was wrong to do, IMO). Law also did not bring ultra-liberal priests to heel in his diocese in a way that many conservatives wanted. Thus, there were no activists who rallied around Law when the crisis hit. Law had the support, incidentally, of racial minorities during the crisis including Filipinos and Haitians among others, but no one gave a rat's ass about what they thought in Beacon Hill or Cambridge.
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Law resigned from the pastoral responsibility for the Archdiocese of Boston. He then went into virtual exile and was given a ceremonial job in Rome. Personally, I think that appointment was a bit of an insult to him, but that's just me. He did not resign from being a Cardinal. His responsibilities as a Cardinal therefore continue.

What should have happened? Should he have simply been put out to retire somewhere and not do anything productive? I would find that far worse than what has in fact happened to him.

Why? I speak as someone who was has always been a Protestant (first Methodist, now Episcopalian), but was sent to Catholic schools from elementary through high school. It has been laid on my conscience for years to convert to Catholicism. But this, what you wrote right here, is a shining example why I will never answer the call. Ever. The man facilitated child molestation. Period, full stop. And was protected and not chucked out by an organization who oh-so-hypocritically pretends to care for the rights of innocents (re: fritofrancofucko's farkakted abortuary reference). I believe there are good RC men and women. I do not believe that any of them (well, men, anyway, since women are subhuman in the eyes of the Magisterium) are part of the RCC leadership. It is corrupt, power-hungry, and self-serving. It long ago gave up the claim to be the One True Church by virtue of its utter indifference to everything that Christ has taught. If I go to hell because I cannot stand up and agree to be obedient to its teachings, so be it. It's not a God I'm interested in worshiping anyway.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Erin:
I believe there are good RC men and women. I do not believe that any of them are part of the RCC leadership. It is corrupt, power-hungry, and self-serving. It long ago gave up the claim to be the One True Church by virtue of its utter indifference to everything that Christ has taught.

No good Catholic leaders at all. Wow. You do realise that, with that depth of self-confessed prejudice, any Catholic would have to be an idiot to take anything you say about anything to do with the Church (let alone Cardinal Law) seriously, right?
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
Erin, with greatest respect, you are doing exactly what Justinian did: you are conflating all the issues you have with the Catholic Church and using a convenient target on which to unleash them. Well, not exactly like Justinian because each of the issues you raise deserve a discussion in themselves whereas he is just venomous.

I grant that the Boston sex scandals may be symptomatic of some of the issues you raise, but I think you then overload the Bernard Law case. Sift through some of the Shadowhund stuff - in fact ignore his second post above - and actually he is telling it right:

quote:
the medical professionals in the 70s and 80s who dealt with these issues were generally far too optimistic about the ability to rehabilitate sexual offenders than they should have been. This was in keeping with the so-called "enlightened" opinion of the time which tended to favor rehabiliation over retribution for sex offenses. The climate, however, has now gone the opposite extreme by saying (incorrectly) that no pedophile can ever be rehabilitated and that all sex offenders of whatever kind should either be locked up forever or forced to live under bridges.

Thus, Law did not behave "immorally" by returning Geoghan to ministry under the circumstances that he did. It was, nonetheless, a disastrous decision that caused people harm. Not every harmful or incompetent decision is sinful...

That last paragraph gets it right. I don't think there is any doubt that Law badly mishandled the situation, and his actions had disastrous results. "The man facilitated child molestation" is an over the top emotive response. It really does not achieve anything.

Make the punishment fit the crime. Law was removed from office in Boston (well, forced to resign). That's quite a major thing. From being Archbishop of one of the primary dioceses in America to being Archpriest of a Vatican Basilica. I think that speaks volumes about how his aptitude was judged in Rome. That is a HUGE demotion.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
quote:
Originally posted by Erin:
I believe there are good RC men and women. I do not believe that any of them are part of the RCC leadership. It is corrupt, power-hungry, and self-serving. It long ago gave up the claim to be the One True Church by virtue of its utter indifference to everything that Christ has taught.

No good Catholic leaders at all. Wow. You do realise that, with that depth of self-confessed prejudice, any Catholic would have to be an idiot to take anything you say about anything to do with the Church (let alone Cardinal Law) seriously, right?
Anyone who makes decisions about anything based on a single posting on the Internet, especially when it's based on a single posting on the Internet in a board that's dedicated to containing flame wars, is a feckin' idjit.

Anyone who thinks there are people out there who will be swayed in their beliefs because of a single post on the Internet, on a posting board dedicated to containing flame wars is a feckin' idjit, too.

Yes, Chester, in case you're too dense to figure it out, I'm looking right at you.
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
Chesterbelloc, there's a reason I'm only responding to Triple Tiara. You and francofritofucko are a couple of raging tools. As far as I can remember, you've never posted a single word to this message board that wasn't sneering at others for not being Catholic. Now fuck off back to your cave, you stupid mouthbreather.

Triple Tiara, you say I conflate this with other issues. I see this particular... issue, case, whatever as being an encapsulation of just about everything I have a problem with in the RCC. I freely admit that child abuse of any sort is one of my hot buttons, but to not show the abusers the door from the start... the explanation of "they didn't know better" does not square with how I saw the nuns and priests treating children and being treated when I was growing up. They were never sexually abusive, or at least I never knew about it, but it's this mindset that they can do no wrong. If you ever dare challenge or question, it's because you're a possessed malcontent heathen who will burn in hell. I do not forget the lessons I learned at the feet of the RCC -- priests and nuns are your betters, so shut up and take whatever they feel like dishing out.
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
Yup, I understand that. I would stand alongside you, not them, on that issue.

There is indeed a mindset that needs to be broken: don't ask don't tell. I suppose my experience of the Catholic Church is apres le deluge, when the 60s era of liberation had already had its effect. I have never known the Church which was rigid, rule-bound, arid and punishing. But I heard plenty of stories from my first boss, who was ordained in 1950, and they made for very sad listening. He would frequently say "Thank God things have changed". I do, however, know priests and nuns who I think are pretty vicious. They deserve any scorn they get.

To place my cards on the table: I think it was right for Law to be removed from Boston; I think it was right that the Irish Church should be exposed for what it was; I think it right that several bishops in Ireland have resigned in disgrace. I think it is right that every priest who does anything whatsoever inappropriate with children should be dealt with as severely as possible.

And then I say but.....

Don't lose perspective; don't look for bogeymen under every Vatican nook and every Papal cranny; don't undermine the very solid case for justice by employing the method of deductio ad absurdum. That's all I am trying to contribute.
 
Posted by RuthW (# 13) on :
 
Triple Tiara: To this non-Catholic non-European, it sounds like Cardinal Law got a very cushy retirement in Rome -- nice work if you can get it! That may not be the reality, but that's how it plays here for most people. Child abuse survivors were ignored and shamed for decades, but Law gets to eat authentic Italian food every day and sit around and drink espresso in a picturesque setting. I'm not one of those who thinks he ought to have been flogged on Boston Commons, but it's hard to see that he's suffering.
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Erin, you bitch.

Cardinal Law wasn't promoted to cardinal in a vacuum. He risked his life to promote civil rights in the 1950s. He was a good man who followed bad advise.

Holding him morally culpable for child molesting because some of his decisions allowed molesters near kids would require thousands of people to be held so accountable.

I've seen evidence that the odds of a rehabilitated child molester reoffending are less than the odds of a combat veteran offending. Does that make the entire Veterans Administration scum in your eyes? They are currently doing the same thing Law did.

What about prison guards who feed prisoners who might reoffend? What about molesters' mothers and fathers? Their school teachers? The waitress who unknowingly server a molester lunch?

Where do you draw the line?

Cardinal Law was told, by the best advise he had, that these men were not dangerous. He should have been more cautious. But he was not deliberately trying to hurt children.

We live in a world that praises murderous scum all the time. Drug lords are elected to high office and murders sit on our economic councils. You want to condemn a man who risked his life to do what he thought was right?

Your not just a bitch, your a crazy bitch.

[ 28. January 2010, 19:41: Message edited by: Dumpling Jeff ]
 
Posted by FCB (# 1495) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Justinian:
FCB provided a link to the document in question. Chesterbelloc asked me which parts of it lead to my accusations. I answered both of them using the letter itself. Neither of them apparently is able to show how my reading of it is anything other than accurate.

Actually, I have a job and family and figured that it was not worth all that much of my limited time to try to get you to see how dumb what you wrote was. I think Fr. TT, Chesterbelloc and Gildas (God bless his fair-minded Anglican soul) have sufficiently shown that what you wrote is nonsense, which you have subsequently and oh-so-foolishly tried to defend. For, alas, anyone who is literate and not too lazy to use a dictionary can see that the documents in question do not say what you claim them to say.

As for Cardinal Law. . . well, if he gets run over by a bus I might chalk it up to divine justice. But until that happens I'll leave the final judgement to God.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:

Your not just a bitch, your a crazy bitch.

*sighs*

Didn't we already HAVE this discussion?
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
If Cardinal Law had in good faith gotten his predatory priests treatment, got a psychological okay, reassigned them, and then defrocked them and turned them into the authorities when they relapsed, I don't think most people would condemn him. But the evidence says otherwise. Priests were returned to the field and then molested again and again and the situation was covered up and ignored. This is what most people can't forgive. Molesters are sick, literally. They have a drive that doesn't look like it can be controlled. These men's superiors are presumably not sick, but allowed evil to happen coldly with their eyes wide open.
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Why are you impressed? What do you think being a member of those Congregations actually means?

I must say, Triple Tiara, that I actually am impressed with your ability to communicate your own emotion on the situation, hear someone else's emotion, be even-handed despite that and then still say something sensible.

The question "what do you think [it] means" is incredibly pertinent. Because it is what the world thinks it means that is so important. What I think it means to me is that the RCC regretted having to pull a decent chap out of his substantive post, and is demonstrating its overall approval of him by allowing him to keep an armful of titles and responsibilities. And it strikes an unfortunate likeness to Cardinal Law moving guys in a spot of bother on rather than demonstrating disapproval.

That last bit is unfair, because I know Law didn't abuse children himself. And the whole thing is unfair that you become the focus of free-floating anger. My view of what it means might not be what it actually means to someone who knows a thing or two about the RCC. But that's how it looks from outside, and it makes it seem like an organization failing to understand the enormity of what has happened. Sorry, because I see that you do.

[ 28. January 2010, 20:17: Message edited by: mdijon ]
 
Posted by QLib (# 43) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
I've seen evidence that the odds of a rehabilitated child molester reoffending are less than the odds of a combat veteran offending.

You've seen - by your own account - some of the oddest odds known to mankind - or, rather, not known to mankind, or womankind, or any other kind. And, funnily enough, these weird statistics always support whatever strange convoluted argument you seem to be following and always turn out to show that, whatever outrageous crap you've been spouting, your [sic] standing on the moral high ground.

Though, to the rest of us, it just looks like a dung heap.
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Likely he's using statistics as IngoB inadvertently had earlier and for which IngoB has politely admitted his mistake.

There are zillions of combat veterans who might commit criminal offenses of all kinds. There is a much more limited number of "rehabilitated" sex offenders who might re-offend. Therefore in flat numbers there would likely be more offenses by combat veterans. But from all evidence I've heard about, the percentages would be nowhere near as high as the recidivism of sexual predators.

[ 28. January 2010, 20:40: Message edited by: Lyda*Rose ]
 
Posted by RuthW (# 13) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Cardinal Law was told, by the best advise he had, that these men were not dangerous. He should have been more cautious. But he was not deliberately trying to hurt children.

I think he must have closed his eyes to children's pain. And I don't buy the notion that the best advice Law got was to transfer Geoghan to one parish after another, not in the 80s and 90s.
 
Posted by comet (# 10353) on :
 
Dumpling, you little freak - let's see those numbers. I call bullshit. I've seen the recidivism numbers for both groups and it's so far in the other direction I'm completely convinced you're making that shit up.
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Your not just a bitch, your a crazy bitch.

You're not just a moron, you're an illiterate moron. Didn't you also defend the crazy-ass child-molesting LDS cult out in Arizona or wherever the fuck it was?

Triple Tiara, I'm not sure whether or not I should laugh or cry at the thought of going to pre-Vatican II schools. I graduated high school in 1989. [Smile] That said, mdijon and RuthW have both articulated my opinion on the subject, which admittedly leaves me incoherent with rage. Unless he's cleaning Vatican toilets with his own toothbrush, it's not a punishment. Honestly? The way I see it, the only reason he's not still presiding over the Archdiocese is because the press got too bad even for the Magisterium. If they could have continued to keep it quiet, he'd still be there.

ETA: I want to make it clear that my seething hatred is reserved for the Vatican and all the people who issue the edicts and such. Well, and turds like Chesterbelloc, Dumpling Jeff and Shadowhund, whose "defend even the most heinous abuses by my ideological heroes" stance leaves an unpleasant taste in any compassionate human's mouth.

[ 28. January 2010, 21:24: Message edited by: Erin ]
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Lyda*Rose, your article dated Jan. 6, 2002 was thin on facts about the church decision process but long on speculation about a deliberate cover up. Fortunately they said:
quote:
But the appeal was denied last month. The records, including depositions of bishops and personnel files, are scheduled to become public on Jan. 26
Is that information public now? Did it show Cardinal Law was indeed deliberately hurting children?

If it did I never heard of it. It seems the writings went public and were so prosaic that they were ignored.

Of course what did happen was bad enough. You are right that Geoghan should have been removed and criminal charges filed.

Yet that solution isn't as simple as it sounds. Cardinal Law had every reason to believe the criminal justice system was unfair. Charging Geoghan would have been the equivalent of killing him.

It was a tough call and there were no clear cut guidelines.

For those who doubt the justice system was unfair, when Geoghan was ultimately arrested he was placed in special custody to "protect" him. If you search the internet you can find the video of the guards cheering while they killed him. Does that make Geoghan a martyr for dying for his faith? Will he be one of your siblings in heaven?

I have long been blathering about how we need to lower the emotional level in these decisions. If there were a good civil law solution, perhaps Cardinal Law would have come to the right administrative decision. As it was, the solution we have come up with is an effective death sentence (often without trial) for the priests.

That makes it an evil decision. The lesser of two evils perhaps, but still evil.

Erin, no I did not defend the LDS. Is your sanity that far gone. The LDS is a large church. The cult you're Alzheimer's induced fog is trying to pick out is the FLDS. Or you are just being unnecessarily snarky toward the Mormons. I think we all know which witch is which o hater of other religions.

And my defense ended up being on all fours. The appeals court overturned the local courts rulings on grounds nearly identical to my reasoning. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to shine my halo. (Now if I can only get my plasma cannon working.)
 
Posted by Dumpling Jeff (# 12766) on :
 
Sorry for the double post, but Erin, seriously. What do you think Law's job is? He's the caretaker for a huge church plant with no parish to help him. It's also a tourist trap.

It may not be the Vatican and he may not use a toothbrush, but otherwise what you describe is likely what he's doing. I'm sure when he was helping Martin Luther King, cleaning up tourist vomit was not his "I have a dream".
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
*steps up to the podium in a fabulous dress while wearing several million dollars in jewelery*

And the winner of the 2010 Award for Missing The Point By No Less Than A Million Miles goes to...

*opens envelope*

DumplingJeff! Congratulations! Now, remember to keep your acceptance speech to less than 30 seconds, or else the orchestra will start playing softly and they'll turn off the mike.
 
Posted by Josephine (# 3899) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Make the punishment fit the crime. Law was removed from office in Boston (well, forced to resign). That's quite a major thing. From being Archbishop of one of the primary dioceses in America to being Archpriest of a Vatican Basilica. I think that speaks volumes about how his aptitude was judged in Rome. That is a HUGE demotion.

You're right, TT, that is a huge demotion. But people compare the suffering of the children who were harmed by his inept management with the demotion he has suffered, and then ask themselves, "Does the punishment fit the crime?" And the answer is no. It looks like a slap on the wrist.

You can argue, as some have, that his actions were inept, not evil, and so not really worthy of punishment. And that may well be true. Maybe punishment is entirely the wrong paradigm anyway.

The church is a hospital for souls. He was an incompetent physician, accepting bad advice and inflicting serious harm on the souls that were entrusted to his care. He's been moved from direct patient care, and now has an administrative job where he can't do any more harm. That's important. And it's a big deal.

But what about the injured souls? I think people want him to assume responsibility for them. Punishing him doesn't make them whole. He made the mess. He needs to do something to fix it.

A couple of weeks ago, it was Zacchaeus Sunday. remember Zacchaeus? The one who said that, if he took anything based on a false accusation, he would restore it four-fold.

Zacchaeus chose to make things right, even if it wasn't his fault. If someone else lied, and as a result he took more than what was owed, he'd restore what was taken, times four.

Cardinal Law can't undo what happened. But it seems to me that there must have been things he could do to make things right. If nothing else, there are monasteries where he could live, praying for the healing of the souls that were damaged.
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
Okay, following RuthW's post I am getting the picture, which I had honestly not considered - that being called to Rome was somehow being sent to a lovely exotic location for a nice quiet life.

But I think we should not romanticise the reality of having to live and work in Rome. That's a very different thing from going there on holiday! I would call to mind other prelates who have had a similar summons, such as Archbishop Emmanuel Milingo. The message is very clear: get yourself here to Head Office, you are no longer going to have pastoral responsibility in the place where you screwed up.

But I can now see why it looks less like a punishment and more like a cushy number. Sorry I missed that.

Josephine, the usual expectation in the RC Church is that bishops clean up their own mess - unless that mess is so severe that the bishop has to be withdrawn lest more damage is done. But the clamour for Law to go was so great that his position was untenable. Imagine the outcry if he had been left in position and told to sort it out! I think what has happened, with the appointment to Boston of Cardinal O'Malley, a wise and holy man, who has been assiduous in dealing with both the victims and with future safeguarding, is a mark of the Church's real intentions in this regard.

I feel sullied whenever this subject is discussed because it deals with grotesque, evil behaviour on the part of those who are meant to be ministering holy things. That's the price those of us who continue as priests have to pay for the actions of some of our colleagues. We have the task of somehow trying to redeem and purify the Church. And ensure that nothing like it could ever happen again - primarily the sexual abuse of children, but also the crass and inappropriate manner in which the matter was handled.
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
Jesus H Tap Dancing CHRIST, Jeff, learn some fucking English grammar.

quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Of course what did happen was bad enough. You are right that Geoghan should have been removed and criminal charges filed.

Yet that solution isn't as simple as it sounds. Cardinal Law had every reason to believe the criminal justice system was unfair. Charging Geoghan would have been the equivalent of killing him.

It was a tough call and there were no clear cut guidelines.

For those who doubt the justice system was unfair, when Geoghan was ultimately arrested he was placed in special custody to "protect" him. If you search the internet you can find the video of the guards cheering while they killed him. Does that make Geoghan a martyr for dying for his faith? Will he be one of your siblings in heaven?

I have long been blathering about how we need to lower the emotional level in these decisions. If there were a good civil law solution, perhaps Cardinal Law would have come to the right administrative decision. As it was, the solution we have come up with is an effective death sentence (often without trial) for the priests.

Seriously? Are you fucking serious? The only way you can possibly equate a child fucker who is murdered in prison because he is a child fucker to being a martyr for the faith is if the faith necessarily requires one to be a child fucker. God DAMN you are dumb. Just shut up now.

By the way, I don't condone prison justice, but neither do I mourn monsters who reap what they sow.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Erin:
Chesterbelloc [...] whose "defend even the most heinous abuses by my ideological heroes" stance leaves an unpleasant taste in any compassionate human's mouth.

Where, precisely, did I defend any "heinous abuses"? Corrected some heinous misrepresentations possibly, but... The truth can be a great mouthwash, Erin.

[ 28. January 2010, 23:40: Message edited by: Chesterbelloc ]
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Josephine, the usual expectation in the RC Church is that bishops clean up their own mess - unless that mess is so severe that the bishop has to be withdrawn lest more damage is done. But the clamour for Law to go was so great that his position was untenable. Imagine the outcry if he had been left in position and told to sort it out! I think what has happened, with the appointment to Boston of Cardinal O'Malley, a wise and holy man, who has been assiduous in dealing with both the victims and with future safeguarding, is a mark of the Church's real intentions in this regard.


I don't know enough about the Cardinal Law situation to comment. But surely Bishops are not supposed, or qualified, to clean up the mess of alleged criminal sexual behaviour (which seems to have been the approach at least in Ireland)? Isn't that the function of law enforcement agencies, with the full cooperation of the Church?

I say this knowing that in the CofE we came very late to the proper establishment of diocesan procedures for enabling that this was explicitly the case, because - wrongly - it was seen as being a grey area.

For what it's worth I truly hope that the Catholic Church is able to emerge from this with a visible and renewed integrity, and its many good gifts to the world able to flourish. But it is hard to believe that this won't, to some degree, require some form of root and branch reformation of, or examination into, the exercise of the authority which somehow permitted these things to happen.

Do the Church authorities in Rome really feel no clearly out-worked accountability is required of them, for the decades-long corruption of the Catholic Church in some countries, with regard to this issue?
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
[x-p with Anselmina]

Oh, and just one more thing I forgot to mention earlier. Lest anyone should be taken in by the ruse over "pontifical secrecy" it was made quite clear that this only covered certain aspects of the tribunal itself not the crime in question itself. As the Archbishop of Galveston-Houston put it in a calrification in 2005:
quote:
These matters are confidential only to the procedures within the Church, but do not preclude in any way for these matters to be brought to civil authorities for proper legal adjudication. The Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People of June, 2002, approved by the Vatican, requires that credible allegations of sexual abuse of children be reported to legal authorities.
Not that even this will bring Justinian back to apologise, I suppose, but just for the record.

[ 29. January 2010, 00:13: Message edited by: Chesterbelloc ]
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Anselmina:
I don't know enough about the Cardinal Law situation to comment. But surely Bishops are not supposed, or qualified, to clean up the mess of alleged criminal sexual behaviour (which seems to have been the approach at least in Ireland)? Isn't that the function of law enforcement agencies, with the full cooperation of the Church?

I say this knowing that in the CofE we came very late to the proper establishment of diocesan procedures for enabling that this was explicitly the case, because - wrongly - it was seen as being a grey area.

I think you have answered your own question, or at least corrected what I think was a misunderstanding on your part of what I was saying. I meant precisely putting into place proper procedures, including co-operation with the civil authorities.

quote:
Do the Church authorities in Rome really feel no clearly out-worked accountability is required of them, for the decades-long corruption of the Catholic Church in some countries, with regard to this issue?
Local bishops' conferences have enormous amounts of responsibility, authority and autonomy. Which authorities in Rome do you mean? Rome does not micro-manage the local Church. It establishes norms and it responds to situations. How would they have been aware of things happening at the local level if they were not informed? Since this matter has burst onto the consciousness of us all, the response has been swift in terms of establishing norms and requiring the referral of all such cases to the CDF. With that now in place, you could argue that they cannot now dodge any trouble that arises. But it's not as if they have been dealing with something of this magnitude on a regular basis. Had that been the case the hierarchy, both local and in Roman, would not have been as wrong-footed as they have been, nor would they have acted with such ineptitude. Rome doesn't like untidiness!
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
Dumpling Jeff:
quote:
Lyda*Rose, your article dated Jan. 6, 2002 was thin on facts about the church decision process but long on speculation about a deliberate cover up.
Perhaps a peruse through these pages and these pages might fill in some blanks. Although somehow I'll bet you'll take Law's dodging and weaving and plausible deniability as conclusive that Law was just a harmless old bureaucrat kept in the dark by his underlings. And feel free to ignore the "spin" the plaintiffs' lawyers put on the evidence, but at least look clearly at what was actually stated under oath and documented in the diocese's own records.
 
Posted by jacobsen (# 14998) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:

Rome does not micro-manage the local Church. It establishes norms and it responds to situations. How would they have been aware of things happening at the local level if they were not informed? [/QB]

TT, There are such things as visits and inspections. Yes, Rome should have known. The buck stops with the boss, and ignorance is no excuse. Would you have accepted that argument from any other institution? "Nobody told us" - forsooth.
 
Posted by QLib (# 43) on :
 
Nothing like starting the day with a good laugh ....
quote:
Originally posted by Dumpling Jeff:
Lyda*Rose, your article dated Jan. 6, 2002 was thin on facts about the church decision process but long on speculation about a deliberate cover up.

[Killing me] [Killing me] I have to admire your fucking nerve - you make sweeping assertions about non-existent evidence and then call someone else for posting a link that is 'thin on facts'.

Well, I won't bother you with the link, but I have to tell you that I read somewhere that a reliable scientific analysis of internet posts showed that there is a much higher probability of the poster proving to be a fucking useless twat, if the letters F and U appear in their chosen name, and the odds are doubled if either of those appear more than once, apparently. Who would have guessed?
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by jacobsen:
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:

Rome does not micro-manage the local Church. It establishes norms and it responds to situations. How would they have been aware of things happening at the local level if they were not informed?

TT, There are such things as visits and inspections. Yes, Rome should have known. The buck stops with the boss, and ignorance is no excuse. Would you have accepted that argument from any other institution? "Nobody told us" - forsooth. [/QB]
Well your post puts us back in the realm of should and shouldn't rather than is and isn't. I wasn't asked to postulate what should be good practice.

By the way, what visits and inspections does Rome carry out? Who does them and why have I never heard of them?
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
By the way, what visits and inspections does Rome carry out? Who does them and why have I never heard of them?

Maybe you never heard of them because you're not important enough to be visited and/or inspected?

If only there was this web of information out there, maybe even a world-wide web.... OH WAIT.

Plugging into Google "Vatican Representative to Inspect" gets me this:

quote:
Officers of the Leadership Conference of Women Religious met April 22 with Cardinal William Levada, prefect of the Vatican’s Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, after having been informed weeks earlier that his congregation had begun a “doctrinal assessment” of the women’s organization.
And this:

quote:
As part of the blame-shifting process, the Vatican has appointed visitors to inspect and interrogate the faculty and students in nearly three hundred Catholic seminaries in the United States
And that's on the first page of search results. Google tells me there's about 60,600 more to wade through. But I'll let you choose to do the heavy lifting or just shift blame.
 
Posted by dj_ordinaire (# 4643) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:

But I can now see why it looks less like a punishment and more like a cushy number. Sorry I missed that.

Much as I respect you, Father TT, I don't think that saying 'you don't have your diocese anymore, but you can have this modest parish church in compensation' is EVER going to look good for a PR perspective, however different the view may be from 'within' the system.

And by a strange coincidence I'm going to be in Rome next weekend and as Santa Maria Maggiore is my Other Half's parish church I shall probably be going to [non-communicating] Mass there - i will look out for Father Law scrubbing the steps with with a Cardinalatial Tooth-brush, but you know what? I'm not holding my breath.
 
Posted by Carex (# 9643) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
But I can now see why it looks less like a punishment and more like a cushy number. Sorry I missed that.

It's not the position and titles that the general public may find offensive as much as the appearance that was called to Rome to put him out of reach of the US legal process, whether it be future criminal complaints, civil lawsuits from victims, or being called as a witness in such cases. It doesn't matter how humble his task or spartan his abode in Rome if it appears that his other option was Cedar Junction.

To those who are not familiar with all the details of the case and the inner workings of the RCC, that is how Cardinal Law's transfer is likely to be interpreted, in spite of all the protestations that it really was a punishment. That is one of the reasons for the persistent claims that the Church is continuing to shield its own and frustrate the course of Justice.

That may not have been the reason for the transfer, but it is a common perception that further tarnishes the image of the RCC in the minds of the general public.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
But I think we should not romanticise the reality of having to live and work in Rome. That's a very different thing from going there on holiday! I would call to mind other prelates who have had a similar summons, such as Archbishop Emmanuel Milingo. The message is very clear: get yourself here to Head Office, you are no longer going to have pastoral responsibility in the place where you screwed up.

Your likening Emmanuel Milingo to card. Law is extremely unfortunate.
For Milingo Rome has proven a hostile and poisonous environment. I'm convinced it isn't for card. Law.
Furthermore Emmanuel Milingo did not screw up as archbishop of Lusaka. His only sin was openly associating himself with the Catholic Charismatic Renewal, and if you're not careful that earns you few friends and lots of enemies.
His screw-ups (and terrible they are) came later, after a period of 18 or so years of being confined to Rome and having every ministry he engaged in sabotaged in every conceivable way, and being isolated from any serious work for the Church he dearly loved.
It was only a matter of time before he would collapse under the pressure, and he lasted much longer than most would have.

I am not going to defend his actions since 2001, those are inexcusable, but I certainly hope that God will have mercy on the people who with such success drove him into these actions. They have a lot to answer for.

[ 29. January 2010, 17:34: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
Poppycock. Archbishop Milingo was called to Rome specifically to get him away from Lusaka, not simply because of charismatic involvement but because of a range of questionable practices. While in Rome he built up something of a personality cult with his healing ministry. Those cruel authoritarian persecutors were trying to rein him in, not oppressing some innocent holy person.

Spiffy, thank you. You provide precisely the evidence for the point I made: Rome responds. I am fully aware of both the canonical visitations you refer to. They have been in response to serious questions having been raised about US women's religious orders and seminaries. They are, you will have noted, extraordinary events, not routine ones.

Really folks, Rome does not have a hit squad going round inspecting and unearthing things. Accountability is via the 5 yearly ad limina visit of the bishops to Rome (our English hierarchy is in Rome right now for theirs). Then there is the Nuncio in each country. Again, he does not go around inspecting. If a bishop "covered up" then he likely "covered up" quite comprehensively. Which is not to say (I don't know either way) that the matter was not raised in Rome. I was simply responding to Jakobsen's assertion about inspections and control from those people in Rome.

However, when the matter did come to light the US hierarchy was summoned to Rome to explain themselves.

There is general acceptance that the sexual abuse cases were handled appallingly. The various bishops' conferences where this has been an issue have been required to respond properly and put safeguards and procedures in place to deal with such matters. This is the outcome of that in England and Wales.
 
Posted by Jahlove (# 10290) on :
 
Bottom line is, yes, the Church fucked up, big style. We are addressing it (hopefuly, won't ever happen again). However, I do get pissed off by people like Justianian, who scream *Roman Catholic Priest= Paedophile* at every possible opportunity. A variant of Godwin's Law [Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
Thanks, TT, for your answers which I find very helpful. I can imagine it is complicated, given the structure of how authority must be devolved and delegated etc, throughout the worldwide Catholic Church. And I confess my own ignorance of the set-up.

I guess I just can't imagine that - given how wide the abuse was, how long it continued, how acknowledged among the national Church it was, albeit secretly for the most part, and how thorough was the cover up - there was no knowledge of this in the Vatican.

I suppose, too, I've got it into my head that the Catholic Church has a strong central exercise of authority over its member congregations across the world. Unlike we flakey old Anglicans who are always being accused of suiting ourselves - in doctrine and practice - country to country, regardless of our alleged areas of unity!

I guess a lot of folks are smarting here because no-one seems to be admitting where the culpability lies. A few bishops, who were in place in the involved dioceses, have reluctantly 'resigned'.

Maybe some people have been hoping for some institutional and concrete sign of remorse, if not repentance. But as I can't easily imagine how this would manifest itself in the most helpful and healing way, I'll leave that point there. I understand the Pope is preparing some statement or response to the reports, having been in discussion with some of the Irish Bishops, so maybe some healing may yet still be possible?

Thanks again, TT, for your posts.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Poppycock.

Sure.
quote:
Archbishop Milingo was called to Rome specifically to get him away from Lusaka, not simply because of charismatic involvement but because of a range of questionable practices. While in Rome he built up something of a personality cult with his healing ministry. Those cruel authoritarian persecutors were trying to rein him in, not oppressing some innocent holy person.
I am aware of the official interpretation of events.

I also consider myself extremely allergic to personality cults. I know one when I see one, and in doubt tend to firmly stay on the safe side.
My usual response after first contact is:
Once but, no thank you, never again.
(The only exception to this being Jesus of Nazareth who also "built up something of a personality cult with his healing ministry", amongst other even more impressive action.)

I have met Emmanuel Milingo a couple of times in the mid eighties at conferences and retreats.
A man like Milingo inevitably attracts people prone to personality-cultism. But I never got the impression that Milingo himself was building a personality cult, or encouraged others to do it for him.

Once again, a number of Milingo's actions from 2001 onwards are at times inexcusable, even ludicrous, and indeed a scandal.
But Milingo is also a horrible example of a self-fulfilling prophecy made by his aptly called "cruel authoritarian persecutors".

[ 30. January 2010, 08:52: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by rugasaw (# 7315) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
Poppycock.

[Killing me]
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:

Spiffy, thank you. You provide precisely the evidence for the point I made: Rome responds.

Ah, so your choice was to shift blame. If you're ok with a church hierarchy that's reactive instead of proactive, well, more power to you. I'll just be keeping away, thanks. Bureaucracy and the tendency to cover one own's ass instead of helping someone else makes me break out in hives.
 
Posted by Jahlove (# 10290) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:

Spiffy, thank you. You provide precisely the evidence for the point I made: Rome responds.

Ah, so your choice was to shift blame. If you're ok with a church hierarchy that's reactive instead of proactive, well, more power to you. I'll just be keeping away, thanks. Bureaucracy and the tendency to cover one own's ass instead of helping someone else makes me break out in hives.
if that's how you choose to see it - with ill-will - i imagine the Church will survive even without the doubtless immeasurable benefits your membership would bestow upon her.
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
This is one of those damned if you do, damned if you don't situations, innit?

One minute Rome is accused of being an over-centralised, control-freaking monster with tentacles reaching across the oceans to squeeze the life out of legitimate, local churches. You know, with all those inspections and things that were mentioned.

It is then pointed out they don't have any routine inspections, rather the local church is responsible for itself and keeps Rome informed on what's going on. And Rome intervenes if there's a problem.

So now it's a case of: see! They don't care! They don't inspect and control and do everything from Rome. The big indifferent meanies!
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
*breaks self-imposed thread taboo*

I think what people are basically saying, is why wasn't Cardinal Law just fired ? Rather than moved sideways, romewards or whatever else.

Are you only fired if you commit a criminal offence or heresy, or is there some level of incompetence, negliegence at which point they'd say - just stop. Either join a monastry or get a job on tills at your local supermarket - but you are not to work as a religious leader, whatever good your ministry may have done or purpose your ordination may have served is now passed.

If there is such a point, why is Cardinal Law not considered to have reached it ?
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Jahlove:
if that's how you choose to see it - with ill-will - i imagine the Church will survive even without the doubtless immeasurable benefits your membership would bestow upon her.

You assume I care what you or Rome think. I only care about two people's opinions: my God and my sainted Grandmother.

[ 31. January 2010, 03:02: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Think²:
I think what people are basically saying, is why wasn't Cardinal Law just fired ? Rather than moved sideways, romewards or whatever else.

I agree. Even if moved downwards that doesn't seem enough. Of course, if he had been fired I know what would be said next. He was retirement age anyway. How come he still gets a pension? Call that punishment?

It's a bit like the inspections vs controlling thing - they can't win whatever they do - but they could have tried a bit harder. The goal of "winning" after this scandal is probably setting the bar a bit high.

By the way, Spiffy, just out of interest, why do you think Jahlove assumes that?
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
This is one of those damned if you do, damned if you don't situations, innit?

It is not, unless they are careless.

Because they act as either the one or the other, as expedient.
And they are free to present it -whether before during or after the fact- as the same or the opposite, again as expedient.
Mix it with just enough "end sanctifies the means" and it is everything but one of those situations.

In cases like Milingo's they act as "an over-centralised, control-freaking monster with tentacles reaching across the oceans to squeeze the life out of legitimate, local churches." and don't even bother to dress it up as something else.
In the case of card. Law it was "the local church is responsible for itself and keeps Rome informed on what's going on. And Rome intervenes if there's a problem.".

But maybe you are right after all.
Every now and again, being frustrated with their supposed utter lack of real power, they choose a vulnerable victim who is then slowly but relentlessly destroyed.
Milingo was an ideal victim, bishop in an African country, homegrown, as black as they come, a number of colleagues jealous of his popularity, and involved in "questionable practices". In fact holding healing services and performing exorcisms. Where in heaven's name did the man get the idea that a priest -an archbishop at that- could ever be called to do that? It's bad enough when this thing happens closer to home, but in Africa it is obviously evil witchcraft for sure, innit?
 
Posted by Triple Tiara (# 9556) on :
 
OMG! Isn't your axe sharp enough yet? Why do you just have to keep grinding away? I got the message a long time ago. You think Archbishop Milingo is a saintly and honest man. And even if you knew that everyone in Rome walked on the water of the Tiber every day you would say that's because they don't know how to swim.
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
And even if you knew that everyone in Rome walked on the water of the Tiber every day you would say that's because they don't know how to swim.

OK, that was funny.

But, you're right. At this point, Rome can't "win" this issue, no matter what it does. Unfortunately, I think that the fuel that keeps this issue burning so brightly is that the RCC has a poignant difficulty with the simple explanation "we're only human" by which most any other organization or institution could have made more peace with this issue.
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Ex Anselmina..... I suppose, too, I've got it into my head that the Catholic Church has a strong central exercise of authority over its member congregations across the world. Unlike we flakey old Anglicans who are always being accused of suiting ourselves - in doctrine and practice - country to country, regardless of our alleged areas of unity!

I think that Rome would wish that but the RCC is too big, too unwieldy and has too many people trying to assert themselves or their authority for it to be possible. All the religious orders resent any attempt, even by their local bishop let alone the Pope, to tell them what to do.

The most absolute episcopal authority I have ever seen is within the Orthodox Church. I'm sure many Roman and Anglican bishops wish they had that degree of deference and control!
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
OMG! Isn't your axe sharp enough yet? Why do you just have to keep grinding away? I got the message a long time ago. You think Archbishop Milingo is a saintly and honest man.

If I'm grinding an axe you obviously haven't got a clue about the nature of that axe.
quote:
And even if you knew that everyone in Rome walked on the water of the Tiber every day you would say that's because they don't know how to swim.
Why would I say that?
I'm sure a considerable number of Romans are at least adequate swimmers.
(I would suspect "questionable practices" though.)

You started this by likening the treatment of archbishop Milingo to the one cardinal Law got.
These couldn't be more different.

Law was called to Rome to rescue him after he got caught not really putting a stop to and covering up the sexual abuse by his personnel, and as a consequence nearly succeeded in causing the bankruptcy of his diocese.

Milingo was called to Rome because he had been fabricated into a controversial figure.
The suspicion of "questionable practices" was subsequently never substantiated into genuine errors. Milingo resisted being ground down by the bastards (you may argue that as a RC bishop he was wrong/foolish to do so) and lasted a surprisingly long time before finally loosing his marbles and falling into the trap of accepting help from the Unification Church. From that point onwards the situation deteriorated to the point where his enemies could triumphantly claim "You see, we were right all along!".

In short:
Law went wrong before being called to Rome.
Milingo went wrong long after he was called to Rome.

It may all be the same benevolent Vatican wisdom to you, it is not to me. And if that is an axe, I consider it worth keeping sharp.
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
Milingo was called to Rome because he had been fabricated into a controversial figure...and lasted a surprisingly long time before finally loosing his marbles and falling into the trap of accepting help from the Unification Church.

I heard the cardinals paid off Sun Myung Moon to lure Milingo in. And played subliminal unification church sermon tapes through Milingo's air-conditioning at night.
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Triple Tiara:
...And even if you knew that everyone in Rome walked on the water of the Tiber every day you would say that's because they don't know how to swim.

...or because the city authorities really need to clean up the pollutants.

But [Overused] anyway.

I think that, from the perspective of one who's an RCC insider, Law probably really is being punished. From the perspective of almost anyone else, however, especially those of us who've read a lot about what went on in Boston and the cover-up, he's got a too-soft gig.

I would have been more impressed if they'd sent him to minister to lepers, or to AIDS patients in Uganda, or something similar in a place where good restaurants and decent vintages are few and far between.

If they had to call him to Rome but had done something really purgatorial like making him drive all day every day in Roman traffic, I would be a little more trusting that justice had been done.
 
Posted by PeteC (# 10422) on :
 
Ministering to lepers is considered a reward. Certainly Cardinal Leger did that in his retirement.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:

I would have been more impressed if they'd sent him to minister to lepers, or to AIDS patients in Uganda, or something similar in a place where good restaurants and decent vintages are few and far between.

Around here, we call that the 'suburbs'.
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
ex Oupa Wim...... Milingo was called to Rome because he had been fabricated into a controversial figure.

Nonsense! Milingo's dabblings in Zambia are quite common amongst the priesthood. The SA Bishops' Conference last year issued a directive forbidding priests from acting as traditional healers (and naturally making money out of it!).

There was some resentment as the Chairman of the Conference is Archbishop Buti Tlhagale of Johannesburg and somebody said to me "It's was all right for him when he was a priest but now as a bishop he forbids it." Whether that is true or not I don't know but the response shows the existence of a Milingo problem. Milingo took it one step further by practising it and condoning it at Diocesan level hence his recall to Rome.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
Let's see if I am sufficiently enlightened now.
Because there are problems with traditional healers in Africa, a bishop engaging in healing services and performing exorcisms is a legitimate target for defamation and persecution?
And it's obvious that there can be no significant difference between the practices of the village witch and those of a RC priest?

Referring to the NT, I have a few problems with that. At the least I am not so sure as you seem to be.
But since any discussion of the possible authenticity and purpose of miracles, healing, etc. can inevitably end up nowhere but in DH, and I strayed into offtopicness too many times already in this thread, I call it quits.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
But since any discussion of the possible authenticity and purpose of miracles, healing, etc. can inevitably end up nowhere but in DH

Rubbish.

You're right about straying into off-topicness though. What was this thread about again?
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
You're right about straying into off-topicness though. What was this thread about again?

About a prime example of:

"With converts like that, my church doesn't need enemies."

[ 01. February 2010, 10:59: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
What is that supposed to mean? And who is Oupa talking about? Maybe he's going senile!
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fuzzipeg:
Maybe he's going senile!

That's what the RCC does to you if you oppose it.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
You'd better believe it. So, like, watch it, right?
 
Posted by multipara (# 2918) on :
 
Fuzzipeg; go back to the OP and all will be revealed. The thread was well and truly derailed several pages ago.

Unfortunately for himself (and the rest of us) Bingo has set himself up as the apologist for all things (Roman) Catholic; he'd do best to stick to his own navel-gazing private board because an effective evangeliser he ain't.

Bingo is one of that subspecies of tiresome blowhards who know everything and since his (fairly recent ) reception into the RCC he has set himself up as the local pundit on who is "out" and who is "in". Bad enough when the professionals get started but he's a rank amateur and a singularly ineffective one.

It would be salutary for the rest of you to consider that the church belongs to all of us not just to the self-styled "elect". I guess we got on to the unspeakable Law (no doubt living the life of Riley as Archpriest of Santa Maria Maggiore) and the deluded Zambian suggests to me that we all got bored with Bingo.

m
 
Posted by jacobsen (# 14998) on :
 
I call him Foot. Because it's rude to tinker with the guy's chosen name. [Big Grin]

[ 02. February 2010, 13:21: Message edited by: jacobsen ]
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
I subscribe to the official version of Catholicism, on all points, consciously and to the best of my abilities. opaWim and multipara don't. The heat they so desperately wish to generate here is hence really rather pointless. Choices have been made, and that's all there is to that.

As for me being an "apologist" here, well, maybe. Personally, I think I am more a "pugilist". Whereby it should be instantly clear that I'm not here to convert anyone, other than accidentally (which by the way is sort of forbidden anyway). I can't count the number of times people have told me what turn-off I am to them concerning the Catholic faith. Apparently, people believe I am either deaf or stupid, as they keep repeating that sort of thing. I am not. I really just don't give a rat's arse about that. Here, on these boards (Purg & Hell, particularly). Because if you come here to find faith, and expect other people to bring it to you, then you are enough of a moron to deserve the disappointment you'll have 99 times out of a 100.
 
Posted by Amazing Grace (# 95) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
I subscribe to the official version of Catholicism, on all points, consciously and to the best of my abilities. opaWim and multipara don't.

Not if you think you are in any way qualified to think and say who is "in" ('real Catholic' or whatever) and who is not.

Charlotte
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
I subscribe to the official version of Catholicism.

You make it sound like a magazine. Weekly World News or US Weekly?

OH! I know! It's Cosmo!
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Ex IngoB...... I subscribe to the official version of Catholicism.

Mmmm, That really does sound like recent convert stuff....it depends how you define "official". Clement of Alexandria official or Augustine of Hippo official for example?

Come off it IngoB, you are far too intelligent to reduce Catholicism to the level of a motor car manual. I just don't believe you can think it is that simple....maybe I'm wrong!
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Amazing Grace:
Not if you think you are in any way qualified to think and say who is "in" ('real Catholic' or whatever) and who is not.

I cannot (ultimately) judge whether someone is going to hell or not. But I sure can judge - to the limits of my own knowledge and intelligence - whether someone is following the doctrines and disciplines of "official" Catholicism. And frankly, in 95% of cases this is not rocket science.

quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
OH! I know! It's Cosmo!

I'm by far not witty enough to be Cosmo.

quote:
Originally posted by Fuzzipeg:
Come off it IngoB, you are far too intelligent to reduce Catholicism to the level of a motor car manual. I just don't believe you can think it is that simple....maybe I'm wrong!

Nice analogy, actually. And yes, you are wrong. For I think that "official Catholicism" is precisely that - a motor car manual. It tells how to deal with a car: how to use it properly, how to service it so that it runs well, and how to fix it when it is broken. A motor car manual however neither tells you where to drive your car, nor for what purpose. That's up to you. And in religious terms, that's your individual call from God.

Many people however think that freedom consists in ignoring the motor car manual, or better still, in shredding it to pieces ceremoniously.
 
Posted by QLib (# 43) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Many people however think that freedom consists in ignoring the motor car manual, or better still, in shredding it to pieces ceremoniously.

That's quite an offensive comment, so let me reply with a metaphor of equal offensiveness:

I think that rather many of us think that if the car looks like a Mini Minor, is the size of a Mini Minor and has 'Mini Minor' in chrome lettering on the side, then it's a bad idea to drive around with your eyes shut, going; "It's a Rolls. It's a Rolls; I have to believe it's a Rolls. I really, really believe it's a Rolls.

We want the freedom to drive around with our eyes open - there's a lot to be said for it as a habit - and to find what we think is a more appropriate guidebook than the Haynes manual for a Rolls.
 
Posted by Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras (# 11274) on :
 
Ingo, I find it disturbing that I've heard some British Muslims describe the Koran in exactly those terms, as being like a motor car manual. Given the Islamic approach to religious text, I find your ready agreement that the Magisterium and official Catholic doctrine are like a car manual quite dismaying.
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
It's as if he thinks that all there is to Catholicism, indeed to Christianity, is what's in the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Not that the Catechism sums it up. That that's exactly -- no more, no less -- what there is.
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
I subscribe to the official version of Catholicism, on all points, consciously and to the best of my abilities. opaWim and multipara don't. The heat they so desperately wish to generate here is hence really rather pointless. Choices have been made, and that's all there is to that.

As for me being an "apologist" here, well, maybe. Personally, I think I am more a "pugilist". Whereby it should be instantly clear that I'm not here to convert anyone, other than accidentally (which by the way is sort of forbidden anyway). I can't count the number of times people have told me what turn-off I am to them concerning the Catholic faith. Apparently, people believe I am either deaf or stupid, as they keep repeating that sort of thing. I am not. I really just don't give a rat's arse about that. Here, on these boards (Purg & Hell, particularly). Because if you come here to find faith, and expect other people to bring it to you, then you are enough of a moron to deserve the disappointment you'll have 99 times out of a 100.

Wow. This post encapsulates every single thing that is wrong with you. From the "yep, I turned my brain off and basically became a Vatican puppet, and all those cradle Catholics are just pretenders to my throne" to "I couldn't care less if I ever bear Christian witness to anyone", you've just summarized why you're such a tedious blowhard.

I know I'm a piss-poor Christian witness, but at least I have the guts to admit and don't parade myself as the True Shining Example of the One True Church. Jackass.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
OH! I know! It's Cosmo!

I'm by far not witty enough to be Cosmo.

Sweetie, if you consider yourself less witty than a magazine whose cover currently touts "Hairstyles Men Love Most!" and "How to deal with a Jealous Bitch... when that Jealous Bitch is YOU!" then you're really nothing less than a stick in the mud.
 
Posted by dj_ordinaire (# 4643) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
OH! I know! It's Cosmo!

I'm by far not witty enough to be Cosmo.

Sweetie, if you consider yourself less witty than a magazine whose cover currently touts "Hairstyles Men Love Most!" and "How to deal with a Jealous Bitch... when that Jealous Bitch is YOU!" then you're really nothing less than a stick in the mud.
I suspect he's referring to the, ahem, EX-shipmate of that moniker.

But to continue to flog a dead metaphor, YES the Catechism of the Catholic Church is like a motor manual. The problems creep in when you start trying to use it as a road atlas and navigate your way through Albuquerque using a paragraph about how to find your fog-lights, if that makes any sense at all.

Or better still - yes, it's a motor manual... but as any long-term driver (viz. cradle Catholic) will tell you, any individual car has it's own quirks and you can't just do whatever the manual says, however much various conservative Germans tell you you should.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by dj_ordinaire:
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
OH! I know! It's Cosmo!

I'm by far not witty enough to be Cosmo.

Sweetie, if you consider yourself less witty than a magazine whose cover currently touts "Hairstyles Men Love Most!" and "How to deal with a Jealous Bitch... when that Jealous Bitch is YOU!" then you're really nothing less than a stick in the mud.
I suspect he's referring to the, ahem, EX-shipmate of that moniker.
Puhlease. He either needs to learn to read for comprehension or reach around behind hisself, get a firm grip, and yank that stick out of his butt.

Actually, scratch the 'or', he should do both. The world would be a much better place.

[ 02. February 2010, 20:42: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by saysay (# 6645) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
Puhlease. He either needs to learn to read for comprehension

Hell, even I thought you were talking about the shipmate, as I never remember the magazine Cosmo exists in this world until some woman complains about how horrible it is.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Then you get an F in Reading Comprehension, also.

No grade negotiations accepted.

(P.S. who the fuck was shipmate Cosmo? Or do I care?)

[ 02. February 2010, 22:27: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
I think this might tweak your memory. Cosmo's planking was full of drama and hard feelings, if you care about that sort of thing. The mighty fell hard, and we lost a number of interesting shipmates who disagreed strongly with the outcome. [Frown] (Scroll up to the beginning of the Oblivion/Styx thread.)

[ 02. February 2010, 22:46: Message edited by: Lyda*Rose ]
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by QLib:
That's quite an offensive comment

Oh dear, oh dear, and in Hell, too - what ever shall we do?

quote:
Originally posted by Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras:
I find it disturbing that I've heard some British Muslims describe the Koran in exactly those terms, as being like a motor car manual.

Right approach, wrong manual.

quote:
Originally posted by Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras:
Given the Islamic approach to religious text, I find your ready agreement that the Magisterium and official Catholic doctrine are like a car manual quite dismaying.

Presumably I'm supposed to feel bad here merely by being associated with Muslims? Well, Muslims are generally fine people, whose approach to religion is however ultimately flawed both in method and content - in my opinion. Yet their approach to religion sure makes a lot more sense than plenty of the stuff on display here. Give me an average faithful Muslim over the garden variety PoMoProt any day...

quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
It's as if he thinks that all there is to Catholicism, indeed to Christianity, is what's in the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Not that the Catechism sums it up. That that's exactly -- no more, no less -- what there is.

Dude, did you even bother reading what I wrote? "A motor car manual however neither tells you where to drive your car, nor for what purpose. That's up to you. And in religious terms, that's your individual call from God."

quote:
Originally posted by Erin:
This post encapsulates every single thing that is wrong with you.

Whew, thanks, ... I knew it. All those people claiming that there are other things wrong with me are just plain wrong themselves! What a relief.

quote:
Originally posted by Erin:
I know I'm a piss-poor Christian witness, but at least I have the guts to admit and don't parade myself as the True Shining Example of the One True Church. Jackass.

That was a bit hard to follow. How exactly did we get from me saying that I'm here mostly for mental fisticuffs and don't give a damn if that is supposed to turn people away from Catholicism to me parading myself as love child of St. Francis and St Leo the Great?
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
Hey, St. Francis was really heavy into aguing the case for Christ and the Catholic Church. The difference between Ingo and Saint Francis was that Francis knew when to give up, pack up his things, and go on home. You should read more about St. Francis, he wasn't the fluffy bunny the environmentalists make him out to be.

quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
I think this might tweak your memory. Cosmo's planking was full of drama and hard feelings, if you care about that sort of thing.

Mmm, nah, I've decided I don't care.

[ 03. February 2010, 00:37: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by saysay (# 6645) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
Then you get an F in Reading Comprehension, also.

No grade negotiations accepted.

(P.S. who the fuck was shipmate Cosmo? Or do I care?)

Aww, that's cute. Thinking that I'd be upset over getting an F... that's an approach you'll have to try on people who didn't get suspended (and threatened with expulsion) for calling out misogyny.

quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:

quote:
Originally posted by Lyda*Rose:
I think this might tweak your memory. Cosmo's planking was full of drama and hard feelings, if you care about that sort of thing.

Mmm, nah, I've decided I don't care.
The thing is, I'm not actually a fan of Bingo's. But you're displaying the same willingness to ride roughshed over any emotions and the fact that people will be people that he does.

Which is your right. Just don't imagine it'll get you any respect.
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
saysay is now the Gatekeeper of Respect.
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
I subscribe to the official version of Catholicism, on all points, consciously and to the best of my abilities. opaWim and multipara don't. The heat they so desperately wish to generate here is hence really rather pointless. Choices have been made, and that's all there is to that. ...

Oh, Bingo, you're such a hate-filled prig. There actually are disagreements on what should be the "official" version of Roman Catholicism, at the very highest levels. Things are subject to interpretation, and there are gray areas, even in the Vatican.

The RCs here who might win a few souls for Christ and your denomination are those who have compassion, understanding, and a sense of humor. Unfortunately, those are three hugely important attributes which you appear to lack entirely.

What a pity.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
The heat they so desperately wish to generate here is hence really rather pointless. Choices have been made, and that's all there is to that.

Oh, Bingo, you're such a hate-filled prig.
So, just what part of what I said is hate-filled and priggish?

quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
There actually are disagreements on what should be the "official" version of Roman Catholicism, at the very highest levels. Things are subject to interpretation, and there are gray areas, even in the Vatican.

Roma locuta, causa finita. (Rome has spoken, the case is closed.) Where Rome is uncertain, it hence must not speak. When Rome has however spoken, then by virtue of having spoken, it is not uncertain anymore. Of course, 9 times out of 10 when someone speaks in the Vatican, Rome has not so much spoken as cleared its throat...

quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
The RCs here who might win a few souls for Christ and your denomination are those who have compassion, understanding, and a sense of humor. Unfortunately, those are three hugely important attributes which you appear to lack entirely.

Rat's arse.
 
Posted by Think² (# 1984) on :
 
Gerbil testicle ?
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Roma locuta, causa finita. (Rome has spoken, the case is closed.)

Whatever. Some of us prefer to actually think for ourselves, rather than tying strings to our mental limbs and becoming someone else's intellectual and theological puppet.
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
I think I can help IngoB out a bit as I am busily compiling a Service Manual to go with the Motor Car Manual.

Sins will be listed on one page and Indulgences on the opposite page. Through a simple calculation, already done for you, you will be able to see whether you are in debit or credit for days, years,or light years in Purgatory.

There will be a helpful guide on how to get back to nought if you are in debit eg 25 Hail Mary's 3 times a day for 5 days or walk the Camino etc.

If you are in credit then you will be able to choose the particular sins you can indulge in without future punishment.

[ 03. February 2010, 09:56: Message edited by: Fuzzipeg ]
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Some of us prefer to actually think for ourselves, rather than tying strings to our mental limbs and becoming someone else's intellectual and theological puppet.

We all have our own set of conceptual "sine qua non"s. That many of mine can be read up in the official writings of an institution does not per se make them better or worse than those stored in your brain, ever since you acquired them from God knows where.

To style oneself a "independent thinker" is already a crucial intellectual failure. The questions is not whether one is free of all influences, because nobody ever is. The question is merely what those influences are and what one is doing about them. We can never be truly "free of", we can only be "free in" some framework that is partly given and partly chosen. The concrete question is here whether the Church is a human institution, or a Divine institution that is merely employing humans. Depending on what one answers to this question, a rational and faithful response simply looks fundamentally different.

As I've said above: Choices have been made, and that's all there really is to it. It is of course possible that you've made the wrong choice because you are stupid, or evil, or whatever. But it is at least as possible that you are none of these things. As far as I am concerned, the problem - your problem - is in the first place simply your wrong choice, not you.

Now, around here I like to smack you over the head with your wrong choice till you start to talk funny. Perhaps I did not blow up enough frogs as a kid, or something. But in the real world, I frankly tend to be occupied with my own problems and failures way too much to either bother or help others particularly...
 
Posted by multipara (# 2918) on :
 
Fortunately, Bingo, the Almighty is the final arbiter as to the rightness of all our choices.

It has just occurred to me that you might just be another troll...in which case it would be best not to feed you.

m
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
We all have our own set of conceptual "sine qua non"s. That many of mine can be read up in the official writings of an institution does not per se make them better or worse than those stored in your brain, ever since you acquired them from God knows where.

That's about the closest I think I've ever seen you come to adknowledging that someone else may have ideas that are just as valid as yours. It's a step in the right direction [Smile]

quote:
The concrete question is here whether the Church is a human institution, or a Divine institution that is merely employing humans. Depending on what one answers to this question, a rational and faithful response simply looks fundamentally different.
Not quite. Even if one sees the church as a divine institution, one still has to decide what (and where) the church is.

quote:
As I've said above: Choices have been made, and that's all there really is to it. It is of course possible that you've made the wrong choice because you are stupid, or evil, or whatever. But it is at least as possible that you are none of these things. As far as I am concerned, the problem - your problem - is in the first place simply your wrong choice, not you.
And the possibility that it is you who has made the wrong choice never crosses your mind. That's what makes you so damnably unlikeable.
 
Posted by Jengie Jon (# 273) on :
 
Bingo

You are taking a Conservative Calvinists approach to Roman Catholicism. You may technically be correct about what is said, but you are in the wrong denomination with your ethos-spirit-mood.

May I suggest that you approach some of the extremely conservative Scottish Presbyterian's and see if you don't feel more comfortable amongst them. You never know you might convert a few to your style Catholicism. You will certainly find they will engage with you for several hours discussing things intellectually about what is right theologically, down to the smallest jot and tittle. There ability to create coherent theological systems which fit together is quite superb. They then apply them absolutely. In doing this they put the Pharisees to shame and they don't even believe that they are bringing the kingdom through their actions. Their righteousness is greater than the Pharisees on the Pharisees own scale. Its just a great shame that their righteousness is used as a method to escape dealing with the messiness of others lives with humility.

Jengie
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
At last I now understand the meaning of those "My other God is an Audi" bumper-stickers.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
It seems to humble wee me that there are several distict reasons that IngoB gets so badly on some people's nerves - as evidence this thread - and that most of them really have very little to do with IngoB himself. The fact is, there is a truth about the Church and its teachings, and some people plain don't like being reminded of that - and wouldn't, no matter how eirenically they were reminded of it.

First, there are those who are inherently anti-Catholic in their bones - whether from a bad experience of (in) the Church or from having picked it up from the anti-Catholic atmosphere. Those people obviously don't like IngoB, because not only does he say what the Church teaches in a take-no-prisoners manner, but he triumphs in it. If he is right about the Church and what it teaches, he has every reason to triumph, of course - but this will go down badly with many. Anti-Catholics don't tend to like unashamedly Catholic posters? - no big surprise; Anti-Catholics don't like bullish, rigorous, in-yer-face Catholic posters like IngoB? - well, DUH.

Others are merely neutral-ish about Catholicism per se, but can only really respect faith positions that rank themselves indiscriminately alongside all the other "paths to God", making no claims to being the One True Faith. Well, they're gonna hate IngoB. But IngoB is nonetheless right that the Catholic Church can't and doesn't see itself in through those syncretitist lenses.

There are also those who whilst being doctrinally orthodox and orthoprax, straight-down-the-line Roman Catholics object to IngoB's uncompromising posting style about the faith. I can understand that. But I'd much rather have IngoB doing his thing with his obvious intellectual rigour and abrasiveness alongside other more conciliatory Catholic voices than have any amount of well-meaning, warm, charitable but intellectualy weak or timid posters watering down the rich peaty liquor of the faith - even in a "good" cause. That's just me, though.

Finally, but by no means least, there are those who whilst self-identifying as Catholics have recreated the Church in their own minds and in the image of their own opinions and consciously diverge from official teachings left, right and centre. Principally left. Those Catholics really hate IngoB for presenting the Church as a visible, authoritative, hierarchical organism with specific and unchangeably definitive teachings on a whole range of issues and topics - and for openly questioning the Catholic credentials of those who dissent from such teachings. These people hate him for reminding them that this is (in part) what the Church really is - and for scotching the myth that they put about that the Church is actually fallible and changeable on all those tricky questions. Thus, they hate IngoB (a "convert") for being (pushily) right.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
the Catholic Church can't and doesn't see itself in through those syncretitist lenses.

Of course it can. It just doesn't.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by saysay:
Just don't imagine it'll get you any respect.

I need your respect just about as much as I need underpants knitted from barbed wire.

Matter of fact, I think I even enumerated on an earlier post on this thread the two people whose opinions and respect I desire. You get another F for reading comprehension.

[ 03. February 2010, 14:44: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
the Catholic Church can't and doesn't see itself in through those syncretitist lenses.

Of course it can. It just doesn't.
Only on pain of not being the Catholic Church. So, essentially, it can't.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Erm, and I meant "see itself through those syncretist lenses".
 
Posted by RuthW (# 13) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
It seems to humble wee me that there are several distict reasons that IngoB gets so badly on some people's nerves - as evidence this thread - and that most of them really have very little to do with IngoB himself.

I can't speak for anyone else, but my main reason for disliking him has everything to with IngoB himself: he exhibits exactly zero care for others on these boards.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Of course it can. It just doesn't.

Only on pain of not being the Catholic Church.
It'd still be the Catholic Church. It just wouldn't be exclusivist any more.

I'd settle for seven small words from the magisterium: "but we could be wrong about that". Would that really cause the whole of creation to come tumbling down?
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Fr enough, Ruth - mileage varies.

Marvin, imagine you're talking to an Orthodoxen. [Biased]

The Cathoolic Church identifies itself as the Church founded by Christ and the Apostles, not a church or a branch of the Church. Therefore, if she is wrong about this and lots of other non-Cathoolic communities have as good a claim to being the Church or to being on an equal ecclesialogical footing, then she isn't the Church she said she was - she's not the Church as she defines it at all.

Catholic dogma is that there is a clear and visible Church of Christ which is infallible (in certain doctrines, including this one about who she is) and against whom the gates of Hell will not prevail, etc. - and that she is it. Heck, it must seem like a big camel to swallow from the outside, but it's what she has always taught. If she abandons that, it turns out that there was no such Church (as the RCCC defines it) at all. ER, unless the Orthodox... Nah! [Razz]
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Aw shit - preview post is my friend, and I don't even return his calls or nuthin'. My bad.
 
Posted by saysay (# 6645) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
Matter of fact, I think I even enumerated on an earlier post on this thread the two people whose opinions and respect I desire. You get another F for reading comprehension.

Damn. You're not mocking Bingo, you're serious.

And completely missing the point. Yes, you mentioned that you don't give a shit what anyone on these boards thinks about you.

Which means that you're acting just like Bingo, who tends to give the impression that he doesn't care what anyone on these boards thinks of him. Which just leads to him acting like an ass sometimes.
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
What a defence of our friend IngoB! I gather that was the Bellocian side of your personality!

You may be a softer personality but you are more judgmental than he is and when challenged revert to playing the tape "The Church says...The magisterium says....as if you are the sole interpretor. It must make life very simple to be a non-thinking automaton safe in the arms of Mother Church.

You actually have the gall to judge your fellow Catholics and categorise them. Who do you think you are? God or something? I always understood that there were those in communion with the See of Rome and those who were not and that is the only distinction between a Catholic and a non-Catholic in RCC terms. To attempt to create categories of Catholic from Super Catholic to Barely Catholic is not only insulting to those you are attempting to pigeonhole, it is morally wrong.

Quite apart from anything else to say that people hate IngoB is an inference I cannot share. There maybe some people who are intensely annoyed by him..... and I wouldn't include myself in that group, incidentally......but "hate" has much stronger implications.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by saysay:
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
Matter of fact, I think I even enumerated on an earlier post on this thread the two people whose opinions and respect I desire. You get another F for reading comprehension.

Damn. You're not mocking Bingo, you're serious.

And completely missing the point.

I'm sorry, you have a point?

Wait, am I supposed to care about your point?

Wait, am I supposed to care about you?
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Not quite. Even if one sees the church as a divine institution, one still has to decide what (and where) the church is.

Sure, but I doubt that we are on the same page concerning what a Divine institution must be like. Because if we were, then you would have to agree that the number of defensible choices concerning the where is two...

quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
And the possibility that it is you who has made the wrong choice never crosses your mind. That's what makes you so damnably unlikeable.

Nonsense. Naturally I can have made the wrong choice. That just does not have the consequences that you expect it should have. Because faith is not an opinion, but you are treating it as if it was one.

To give an analogy: You get dropped without water in the Death Valley. You are handed several hand-held GPS devices. One of them is programmed to lead you to a safe place, but that place is so far that you can just barely reach it. The other ones are programmed to lead you cleverly astray, so that your hopes will be kept alive till you croak. After looking at the pre-programmed paths you decide that one of the GPS devices is considerably more likely to provide good guidance. What do you do?
  1. Follow the likely "good" GPS device.
  2. Follow one of the likely "bad" GPS devices.
  3. Follow one GPS device, then try another one for a bit, then perhaps a third, or the first again...
Clearly, only option 1 is not idiotic, even though you do not know that that particular GPS is really "good". But only by treating it as if it were "good" can you muster the speed and strength to make it. Hence you consider the alternatives, choose, and then by an act of your will follow through your choice without further hesitation. That is the only rational response here.

Now say you are meeting someone else, who has been put in exactly the same situation. Except he is going into a different direction currently. What is the rational thing to do? I say it is rational to chat with the fellow for a short time. If he has convincing arguments that his GPS is better and - importantly - if you see a reasonable chance that you could still complete the path he is on, then you should by an act of your will follow him without further hesitation. If not, and if he is not convinced to follow you, then you should wish him good luck, and continue without a further thought about all this along your original track.

Perhaps once saved you say "I was of the firm opinion that this looked like the better path, and luckily that proved right in the end." But you cannot actually run the Death Valley on an opinion, psychologically. It is rational to firmly set aside doubt in order to push to the limit.

Now, clearly there's something lacking in this analogy: the mercy of God. The problem is that people tend to think that the God's mercy will turn Death Valley into a shopping mall. So that one can drink a nice latte with other people and their GPS systems, while having a relaxed chat where ever that damned exit might be. Well, I don't think so, this still looks like Death Valley to me.

Rather I think God's mercy consists first in having a region of safety, rather than just one point. So it's also a range of paths that can get you home, though some are shorter and easier, and others are longer and harder. Second, it's actually not that difficult per se to discern what a good path might be. It's just that bad paths can appear, and for that matter often are, easier to walk. But sometimes one can even find a sign pointing the way. Third, by some kind of Hollywood magic, everyone can be saved in the nick of time, if they just end up walking down in the right direction before they die.

But it remains Death Valley. And all the above may make it easier to survive, but does not really fundamentally change what is the rational thing to do in such a situation.

(And yes, the analogy stinks in many ways. It's Pelagian for one. But I'm merely trying to explain here some seeming paradoxes of faith: how one can act with certainty fully conscious of possible doubt, without being insane, and how one can act with certainty first one way then potentially another, without being fickle.)
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
Surely hating somebody would imply that you take him seriously?

[ 03. February 2010, 20:09: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Q.E.D., opaWim!

Fuzzipeg, try a paper bag and a short lie down.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Q.E.D., opaWim!

And what would that "Q." be?
 
Posted by Jahlove (# 10290) on :
 
Not that anyone gives a toss -but a lot of IngoB's posts (even prior to his reception) helped influence my journey into the bosom of the Whore of Babylon
 
Posted by jacobsen (# 14998) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Jahlove:
Not that anyone gives a toss -but a lot of IngoB's posts (even prior to his reception) helped influence my journey into the bosom of the Whore of Babylon

Which of the many would that be?
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Surely hating somebody would imply that you take him seriously? [ 03. February 2010, 20:09: Message edited by: opaWim ] Logged Chesterbelloc Tremendous trifler Q.E.D., opaWim! Fuzzipeg, try a paper bag and a short lie down.

Having had a long lie down and popped the paper bag I haven't changed my opinion.

I don't see how hating someone means that you take them seriously. All those Americans who hate Obama don't take him seriously at all. Hate is an emotion not an empirical measure...or maybe you didn't define hate adequately.

QEND
 
Posted by Gildas (# 525) on :
 
The Pope recently told the Catholic Bishops of England and Wales that religious intolerance was contrary to the natural law. It therefore follows that the teaching of the Catholic Church on the subject, for most of its history, was contrary to the natural law.

Personally, if my GPS had fucked up quite as extensively as that I would probably hesitate before announcing that it was infallible and that all other GPS's were going to lead the user into the Valley of the Shadow.

Just saying.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
To give an analogy: You get dropped without water in the Death Valley. You are handed several hand-held GPS devices.

Imperfect analogy or not, if you're viewing faith in those terms then there's no hope. Faith isn't about picking the best way to escape this world, it's about coming to a greater understanding of God and the wonders of life.

To use an (equally imperfect!) analogy from my point of view, closing your mind to other possibilities is like having a box of Quality Street but only ever eating the green triangle. OK, you might really like that one, but there are so many other tasty treats in there that you might like as well!
 
Posted by PeteC (# 10422) on :
 
I would just like to explain to those who find this thread a perfect place to dump on the Catholic Church that you are dumping on the Catholic Church in Ingo's universe.

It's not anything I recognise in my universe. My church is made up of imperfect people.
 
Posted by dj_ordinaire (# 4643) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

To give an analogy: You get dropped without water in the Death Valley...

Strangely enough, this happened to father due to a rather strange set of circumstances. He didn't have any GPS systems either, let alone a selection of them, so he settled for just wandering in the direction he thought was right. Eventually he couldn't go on any further, so tried to hide from the sun beneath a big rock. Where he found a young woman eating a picnic.

She gave him directions, and some food and drink and back he came.

I've no idea what this means. But on this thread I don't think that marks me out as particularly unusual.
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PeteC:
I would just like to explain to those who find this thread a perfect place to dump on the Catholic Church that you are dumping on the Catholic Church in Ingo's universe.

It's not anything I recognise in my universe. My church is made up of imperfect people.

I've made that mistake before. [Hot and Hormonal]
 
Posted by lilBuddha (# 14333) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by dj_ordinaire:

I've no idea what this means. But on this thread I don't think that marks me out as particularly unusual.

[Killing me] [Killing me] [Killing me]
I am a hairsbreadth from making this my sig.
Is there a quote contest running? I would like to nominate this one.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by lilBuddha:
quote:
Originally posted by dj_ordinaire:

I've no idea what this means. But on this thread I don't think that marks me out as particularly unusual.

[Killing me] [Killing me] [Killing me]
I am a hairsbreadth from making this my sig.
Is there a quote contest running? I would like to nominate this one.

That would be the Quotes File down in the Circus.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Q.E.D., opaWim!

And what would that "Q." be?
Q = some of you guys hate IngoB. [Which is precisely what Fuzzipeg - Hi, Fuzzipeg - seems to have mistaken].

Claiming not even to hate him cos you don't even take his stuff seriously is, like, kinda, in itself a school-yard way of saying that you're, erm, not well disposed to him.

But, of course, I use the word "hate" pretty loosely - cos it's a bulletin-board, no one involved has any actual first-hand personal acquaintance here (I'm guessing), and this is, um, Hell. Geez, that way some of you are going on, it's as if I'd accused you of actually burning the actual man behind IngoB's posts in effigy and seeking to eradicate his progeny, yea unto the fourth and fifth generation. Perspective, people.

[ 04. February 2010, 16:34: Message edited by: Chesterbelloc ]
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Geez, that way some of you are going on, it's as if I'd accused you of actually burning the actual man behind IngoB's posts in effigy

That's scheduled for Saturday night. Covered dish supper to follow.

[ 04. February 2010, 16:52: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by lilBuddha (# 14333) on :
 
Thanks. Looked and missed it. This time looked with eyes a little wider open.
 
Posted by lilBuddha (# 14333) on :
 
Thanks Spiffy. Looked and missed it. This time looked with eyes a little wider open.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Geez, that way some of you are going on, it's as if I'd accused you of actually burning the actual man behind IngoB's posts in effigy

That's scheduled for Saturday night. Covered dish supper to follow.
Dang. I always cut you people too much slack. Save me a curried egg, though.
 
Posted by Gwai (# 11076) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Q.E.D., opaWim!

And what would that "Q." be?
Quod. It means which.

(Yes, yes, thank you. You all are too kind.)
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Imperfect analogy or not, if you're viewing faith in those terms then there's no hope.

There clearly must be the hope to make it out alive. Otherwise you would just sit down and die.

quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Faith isn't about picking the best way to escape this world, it's about coming to a greater understanding of God and the wonders of life.

Are you sure that you are not confusing faith with some educational TV program? Anyway, this is precisely the "shopping mall" approach I was talking about.

quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
To use an (equally imperfect!) analogy from my point of view, closing your mind to other possibilities is like having a box of Quality Street but only ever eating the green triangle. OK, you might really like that one, but there are so many other tasty treats in there that you might like as well!

Again, the same problem: you believe that there is, fundamentally, no problem. What happens to your analogy though if some chocolates are systematically filled with rat poison?

quote:
Originally posted by PeteC:
I would just like to explain to those who find this thread a perfect place to dump on the Catholic Church that you are dumping on the Catholic Church in Ingo's universe. It's not anything I recognise in my universe. My church is made up of imperfect people.

I'm sure you can find some post somewhere where I have said or implied that the RCC is made up of perfect people? Because, you know, I don't remember having said or implied that, ever. Find some other way of distancing yourself from me, please. I'm sure that you can find one not based on a lie, it's not that hard.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
There clearly must be the hope to make it out alive. Otherwise you would just sit down and die.

Nobody makes it out alive, but dying doesn't bother me too much. My hope is for humanity, not my microscopically tiny share in it.

quote:
Again, the same problem: you believe that there is, fundamentally, no problem. What happens to your analogy though if some chocolates are systematically filled with rat poison?
Interesting question, especially since I have a nut allergy so some of the chocolates are filled with poison as far as I'm concerned. I just avoid those ones.

You can't mean that some of the chocolates are poisoned at random, because that would mean all varieties are just as likely to kill you and thus there is no "one safe chocolate" to consume.

Now, you may be the spiritual equivalent of someone who is allergic to every single chocolate apart from the green triangle. But from where I sit it looks more like you're the sort of person who has decided that they only like the green triangle and refuses to even consider trying any of the others.

Go on, try a strawberry cream. You might like it!
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
I don't know about anyone else, but my mum always warned me about accepting sweeties from strangers. And they don't come no stranger than Martians, young Marvin.

Actually, of course, most of we convert-types have had a fair sampling of the other faith-fancies before settling for the Roman Ripple.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
I don't know about anyone else, but my mum always warned me about accepting sweeties from strangers. And they don't come no stranger than Martians, young Marvin.

Clearly you've never been to Singapore.

quote:
Actually, of course, most of we convert-types have had a fair sampling of the other faith-fancies before settling for the Roman Ripple.
For sure. I guess I just can't understand someone consciously deciding to restrict themselves to only one variety.
 
Posted by Major Disaster (# 13229) on :
 
Of course there is no point in quarreling about tastes. However, strawberry creams
[Disappointed]

While I am here, I would add that the title surprises me. Although I am unable to discuss anything with IngoB because I find his style beyond my personal patience, I don't think him either ignorant or a bigot. He is very clear in his thinking, und uncompromising clear in his expression of his thoughts.
The fact that he takes no account of his disputants' weakness or sensibilities does not make him a bigot. He is like a knight who gives no quarter in battle, or perhaps samurai may be a better simile. He makes no effort to attract allies or friends, and perhaps his strengths excite more than a little envy.
But I have no role in this fight with him. I just dislike the waste represented by nasty chocolate. Thorntons Continental will do me very well.
 
Posted by multipara (# 2918) on :
 
Re Bingo and his world view, you picked an unfortunate analogy, Major Disaster.

The knightly class of feudal Europe and the samurai class of feudal Japan were both the epitome of ignorant bigotry.

m
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
I don't know about anyone else, but my mum always warned me about accepting sweeties from strangers.

Well, there you have it!
That is precisely why many of us cradle-catholics are wary of the sweets that converts of the IngoB type force upon us.
quote:
Actually, of course, most of we convert-types have had a fair sampling of the other faith-fancies before settling for the Roman Ripple.
I for one consider the RCC to be a lot more than a faith-fancy, but I suppose we should regard it as a compliment that you preferred the RCC over the other ones.
Of course the reasons/causes why people convert vary widely. Some of those reasons/causes are obviously questionable, while others have undesirable effects. When they result in arrogant exclusivist behavior (not only towards christians outside the RCC -which IMHO is bad enough- but also) towards large proportions of fellow-RC's, then you clearly have an undesirable effect.
I fear that those convinced by IngoB's apologetics (or "pugilism" as he describes it himself, although "professional wrestling entertainment" would be a better fit) to convert to the RCC or to remain in the RCC, will be greatly outnumbered by those who are convinced by him to stay away from or leave the RCC.
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
those who are convinced by him to stay away from or leave the RCC.

It would be odd to pick on a single lay individual as a reason to stay away from or leave the RCC. Particularly when there are so many other examples, arguably higher up in the heirachy than Ingo and therefore more reason to be a stumbling block. Indeed, if one is choosing a stumbling block to faith in the RCC, to continue the chocolate analogy, Ingo seems to be the last half-chewed coffee cream in a full and bursting hand-made belgian chocolate box.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Nobody makes it out alive, but dying doesn't bother me too much.

I was talking about the analogy there, not life. Introducing Christian resurrection into the analogy would have overloaded it.

I always wonder when people make statements about how they will deal with death. Personally, I have absolutely no idea how I will react to imminent death. I hope that I will retain a measure of dignity, and indeed faith, but I'm certainly not confident of that. I think one of the "blessings" of old age is that it debilitates us enough so that we go out with a harmless whimper...

quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
My hope is for humanity, not my microscopically tiny share in it.

I think this dichotomy is false on many levels. For one, based on nature alone there is no hope for humanity either. Just the time scale of deterioration and death is longer.

quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Now, you may be the spiritual equivalent of someone who is allergic to every single chocolate apart from the green triangle. But from where I sit it looks more like you're the sort of person who has decided that they only like the green triangle and refuses to even consider trying any of the others.

Well, we are back to square one. What I'm trying to get across is a sense of urgency. Your analogy, whether with "bad" chocolates or not, lacks any urgency. You are munching chocolates, enjoying yourself - a bit more carefully if you have nut allergy, but that's it. If that is the case, then it seems silly to not try out different things. But I don't think that that is the case.

Anyway, I used to be a run-of-the-mill apathetic / agnostic / functional atheist, then I was seriously into Zen Buddhism for a while, now Catholic. That hardly covers all religious options, but it's not like I've ever only known one thing.
 
Posted by Marvin the Martian (# 4360) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Nobody makes it out alive, but dying doesn't bother me too much.

I was talking about the analogy there, not life. Introducing Christian resurrection into the analogy would have overloaded it.
Ah, right. Sorry, I hadn't realised you were still talking about your analogy.

quote:
I always wonder when people make statements about how they will deal with death. Personally, I have absolutely no idea how I will react to imminent death.
Oh, no doubt I'll go kicking and screaming against the inevitability of my demise. But from the perspective of the relatively fit and healthy 31-year-old that I am, I refuse to make my decisions based on that inevitability. I'll die one day, but I've got a life to live first [Smile]

quote:
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
My hope is for humanity, not my microscopically tiny share in it.

I think this dichotomy is false on many levels. For one, based on nature alone there is no hope for humanity either. Just the time scale of deterioration and death is longer.
Why does hope have to extend to infinity? sure, the heat death of the universe will get us eventually, but there's a heckuva long time for humanity to better itself before then.

quote:
What I'm trying to get across is a sense of urgency. Your analogy, whether with "bad" chocolates or not, lacks any urgency. You are munching chocolates, enjoying yourself - a bit more carefully if you have nut allergy, but that's it. If that is the case, then it seems silly to not try out different things. But I don't think that that is the case.
Where does that urgency come from though? Where's the rush?
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Ex IngoB..... Anyway, I used to be a run-of-the-mill apathetic / agnostic / functional atheist, then I was seriously into Zen Buddhism for a while, now Catholic.

Congratulations, IngoB. To me that's a very natural path to Rome despite never having trodden it myself. It makes a great deal of sense in terms of seeking after a spiritual home and trying to make sense of the Big Question, "What is the meaning of Life?" Others, of course, find different homes but their search is no less valid or blessed. I think it was Sr Wendy who said that God is delighted by the effort of all Churches to worship him.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:

I always wonder when people make statements about how they will deal with death. Personally, I have absolutely no idea how I will react to imminent death.

Maybe because some of us have, you know, come close to dying? Like, "ow, those chest defib paddles leave one heckofa a mark" close.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Why does hope have to extend to infinity? sure, the heat death of the universe will get us eventually, but there's a heckuva long time for humanity to better itself before then.

The heat death? [Eek!] You are being incredibly optimistic, even on purely physical grounds. After all, we must then have somehow survived the sun turning red giant, and jumped from energy source to energy source across the universe till they all started running out... I myself would be seriously impressed if we ever managed to have a permanent presence anywhere other than on earth. And I would be gob-smacked if we stuck around as long as the saber-toothed cat. And how and why precisely should humanity try to better itself in your scheme?

quote:
Originally posted by Marvin the Martian:
Where does that urgency come from though? Where's the rush?

Well, I refuse to make my decisions ignoring the inevitability of death and the brittle preciousness of human life. A word of Dogen Zenji will stay with me for the rest of my life: "Be as eager to do zazen as you would be to extinguish a fire upon your head." (Replace "zazen" with "religious practice" for application outside of Zen.) I don't think that I've ever felt more than a lick of that flame, but that was quite enough. The world becomes a weird place when the deus absconditus is not entirely hidden anymore. As if that solid, white wall turned out to be a giant sheet of paper when you touch it, and then you hear something large shuffling around on the other side...
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
I don't know about anyone else, but my mum always warned me about accepting sweeties from strangers.

Well, there you have it!
That is precisely why many of us cradle-catholics are wary of the sweets that converts of the IngoB type force upon us.

But, opaWim, those are sweeties that your mother (the Church) has already popped in your lunchbox.
quote:
I for one consider the RCC to be a lot more than a faith-fancy.
Well, as I should have thought was glaringly manifest, so do I. It wasn't my analogy, it was Marvin's - I was just playing along with it.

[ 05. February 2010, 16:22: Message edited by: Chesterbelloc ]
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
But, opaWim, those are sweeties that your mother (the Church) has already popped in your lunchbox.

[Ultra confused]
You're serious, aren't you? [Disappointed]
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Sure. What bit(s) are you taking issue with?
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
The fact that said sweeties are equal to half a squished Oreo that fell on the ground on the School Cafeteria Black Market.
 
Posted by GoodCatholicLad (# 9231) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RuthW:
Triple Tiara: To this non-Catholic non-European, it sounds like Cardinal Law got a very cushy retirement in Rome -- nice work if you can get it! That may not be the reality, but that's how it plays here for most people. Child abuse survivors were ignored and shamed for decades, but Law gets to eat authentic Italian food every day and sit around and drink espresso in a picturesque setting. I'm not one of those who thinks he ought to have been flogged on Boston Commons, but it's hard to see that he's suffering.

I have to agree with Ruth, it really does sound like a comfy life living in one of the most beautiful cities in the world, eating wonderful food with all his bills paid for. How about being a parish priest in some high crime area like Newark or Elizabeth New Jersey not knowing if the electrical bill for next month will be paid?
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
The fact that said sweeties are equal to half a squished Oreo that fell on the ground on the School Cafeteria Black Market.

*Snork*

Maybe, Spiffy - but we ("converts") are only picking it up off the floor and proffering it, not baking and squishing it up first. And to us, it looks pretty wholesome.

Oreo pro nobis, innit.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GoodCatholicLad:
How about being a parish priest in some high crime area like Newark or Elizabeth New Jersey not knowing if the electrical bill for next month will be paid?

Did you miss the bit about removing him from direct pastoral control?
 
Posted by GoodCatholicLad (# 9231) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
quote:
Originally posted by GoodCatholicLad:
How about being a parish priest in some high crime area like Newark or Elizabeth New Jersey not knowing if the electrical bill for next month will be paid?

Did you miss the bit about removing him from direct pastoral control?
You are right, I was looking at this more from the point of sleeping on 800 thread count sheets, eating pasta carbonara and turrone and having time to visit museums instead of worrying about how to pay the bills/rent like the rest of us.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
In know, GCL - I sometimes wonder myself how badly I'd have to louse up in my job to get a gig with those perks. But we don't know what exactly went in the Law case, and good Catholic lad that I am too, I ain't doin' no judgin'.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
The fact that said sweeties are equal to half a squished Oreo that fell on the ground on the School Cafeteria Black Market.

*Snork*

Maybe, Spiffy - but we ("converts") are only picking it up off the floor and proffering it, not baking and squishing it up first. And to us, it looks pretty wholesome.

Oreo pro nobis, innit.

And you wonder why others give you the side eye when there's other perfectly good treats available but you insist on eating food off the floor.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
Sure. What bit(s) are you taking issue with?

You really enjoy this, don't you?

1. If this were true
quote:
But, opaWim, those are sweeties that your mother (the Church) has already popped in your lunchbox.
don't you wonder how IngoB came into possession? I didn't give them to him.

2. IngoB's sweeties may look genuine to you, even to himself. That doesn't necessarily mean they aren't counterfeit or interfered with.

3. I presume you don't accept sweets from strangers, why should I?

4. Seen from where I am, you are insulting my mother.

Just curious, why are people like IngoB and you so indifferent to the bad reputation you earn converts, and the RCC?
Is it some kind of prophet-delusion?
Or is it the usual nagging insecurity about the validity of your current Absolute-BetterThanAnyOther-Truth?
Why is it so blindingly obvious irritatingly unacceptable to you that cradle-RC's can be quite secure in their relationship with God without necessarily subscribing to all the sweets (be they genuine, relevant, etc., or not) that convinced you to convert?
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Spiffy, this is great game, and I could riff for hours - but every analogy has its limits. I guess I don't expect the cookie I found to be all that appealing prima facie to everyone else. That, and I'm used to people looking at me as if I'm a bug-eater.
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
1. If this were true
quote:
But, opaWim, those are sweeties that your mother (the Church) has already popped in your lunchbox.
don't you wonder how IngoB came into possession? I didn't give them to him.
Erm, I didn't think this one was too controversial - check the lunchbox list Old Ma Kirk gives us and see if it's there. In other words, if IngoB is telling you stuff the Church ain't teaching, tell us what.

quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
2. IngoB's sweeties may look genuine to you, even to himself. That doesn't necessarily mean they aren't counterfeit or interfered with.

I refer the honourable poster to the reply I made some moments ago.

quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
3. I presume you don't accept sweets from strangers, why should I?

I didn't get them from strangers - I got them from the candy jar at home (Tradition, specific teachings of the Magisterium, etc.). Every last one. Doesn't hurt to examine them carefully first, but.

quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
4. Seen from where I am, you are insulting my mother.

Then re-position your deckchair, mate - your view's all squinty.

quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
Just curious, why are people like IngoB and you so indifferent to the bad reputation you earn converts, and the RCC?

Who says I'm indifferent? I can be cack-handed and counter-productive without meaning to be or without not caring about it. Honestly, two posters on a bulletin board in the whole history of converts and of the Church is pretty small beer.

quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
Is it some kind of prophet-delusion?
Or is it the usual nagging insecurity about the validity of your current Absolute-BetterThanAnyOther-Truth?

Where are you getting this stuff from (other than the bile-duct)? Not everyone is so afraid of embracing and allowing oneself to be constrained by certainty of belief about some things that they need to pretend that constant doubt is more comforting. There's plenty uncertainty around in life and faith as it is without scuttling the boat and splashing around all the time.

quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
Why is it so blindingly obvious irritatingly unacceptable to you that cradle-RC's can be quite secure in their relationship with God without necessarily subscribing to all the sweets (be they genuine, relevant, etc., or not) that convinced you to convert?

I say nothing about people's own personal interaction with the faith - that's their business - but I don't think their difficulties with embracing the fullness of what is taught in their own Church give them a right to misrepresent the nature of those teachings altogether.

If a lawyer were speaking to non-lawyers about her difficulties with some of the constitutional statutes of the land, misrepresented some of them and tried to tell those folks that they shouldn't worry about them - they could be just as good lawyers by rejecting them, that wouldn't make her a very trustworthy advisor on the law. Just as another lawyer might very well come in to correct the comments of the first, so if some Catholics see the faith being misrepresented we sometimes chime in. Where's the problem with that? We are usually doing inresponse to being "corrected" by others in our exposition of soem aspect of the faith anyway.

[ 06. February 2010, 10:00: Message edited by: Chesterbelloc ]
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
O, come of it!
You've just wasted away any benefit of the doubt remaining.
You're just another bully.
And when, in time, you and IngoB convert to yet another church, you'll most likely be bullies still.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Yeah, and I want your lunch-money, sis. [Roll Eyes]

[ 06. February 2010, 10:57: Message edited by: Chesterbelloc ]
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Rat's arse.

Why, yes, Ingo, you are.

Recognizing that you have the problem is the first step toward solving it. Congratulations on achieving that much.
quote:
Originally posted by Chesterbelloc:
The Cathoolic Church identifies itself as the Church founded by Christ and the Apostles, not a church or a branch of the Church. Therefore, if she is wrong about this and lots of other non-Cathoolic communities have as good a claim to being the Church or to being on an equal ecclesialogical footing, then she isn't the Church she said she was - she's not the Church as she defines it at all.

Of course she's not. Even a smattering of Church history should demonstrate that to all but the most partisan.

If any "ecclesial community" can make a claim of being "the Church founded by Christ and the Apostles," it's Orthodoxy, not Rome. The Orthodox Churches have problems of their own, but if we're going to play the One True Church game, I'd say their claim is superior, in terms of both history and tradition.

When you come down to it, the Roman Catholic Church is really, like all the others, just another Christian denomination. The Church on Earth, however we choose to define it (and I'd include any and all that subscribe to the Nicene Creed) is by definition made up of human beings - and human beings are, by definition, fallible.

I think we'd do better to focus on the message of Jesus Christ and drop the Pharisaic routines about just who is the Official Protector of God's Unvarnished Truth, With Full Smiting Privileges, but then I don't have a power base to protect.
 
Posted by Chesterbelloc (# 3128) on :
 
Ross, I'm so glad this is Hell and not Purgatory so that I can just call that last post for the leaky sack of arsefruit it is, instead of having to pick through it bit by bit.

Anyone coming this late and lame to the party had better have brought a shed-load of booze with them, is what I say.
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
Chesterbelloc, I would be shocked if you were to agree with me. You couldn't. You've got too much invested.

But anyone who can look dispassionately at the frequently unfortunate history of the supposedly infallible Church of Rome and come to any other conclusion than that human nature has generally had the upper hand over the Holy Spirit must surely despair of God.

I do not despair of God. (And I am the first to say that my own branch of the Church Catholic has its own historical and present uglinesses, just as yours does, just as all other denominations and religions do.) Most of the time, I don't even despair of human beings - but I do despair of the ability of powerful human institutions to rule themselves effectively. YMMV, etc.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
Just curious, why are people like IngoB and you so indifferent to the bad reputation you earn converts, and the RCC?

These are the boards of Ship of Fools, the Magazine of Christian Unrest. And foolish Christian unrest isn't limited to liberal whingebags. This place is cutting dredge, why be amazed that it drags in some Coelacanths?

quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
Recognizing that you have the problem is the first step toward solving it. Congratulations on achieving that much.

I have few illusions about my failings. Chief among them is acedia, meaning that any first step is likely going to be the last. However, why am I talking to you? Since you've chosen to turn your life into an argumentum ad hominem, I should just ignore your existence as fallacious.
 
Posted by Erroneous Monk (# 10858) on :
 
IngoB: isn't the problem with the Death Valley analogy (and with living out one's faith by it) that it posits a God who (a) allows his apparently loved creation only a 1 in however-many chance of arriving at the truth about him and (b) condemns to eternal death those who accidentally, and in all good faith, believe some of the wrong things about him?

As you know, I'm RC, and there is a lot about your witness that I admire and find consoling. However I find it hard to accept that our God, who is Love, will punish people who have been genuinely mistaken about him - not malicious, not faithless, just not 100% right about his nature and what he requires of us.

That god - the one who expects us to score 100% on knowing him, though we cannot see him clearly, and will condemn us if we do not, is a monster. And if I believed in that god, I wouldn't worship him.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Erroneous Monk:
However I find it hard to accept that our God, who is Love, will punish people who have been genuinely mistaken about him - not malicious, not faithless, just not 100% right about his nature and what he requires of us.

First, this is simply not a good reading of my analogy. See the part about God's mercy, which basically already answers your concerns.

However, I think there's a deeper issue here. Some insist that children are to be praised for "trying their best", more or less irrespective of their recognition of the task at hand and their successful execution of it. What counts then is essentially only motivation and intent, not action and outcome. I think many people who talk about God forgiving our "honest" errors mean essentially the same thing, just translated to religion.

I do not believe however that that is God's way. I think God has our measure, with Divine precision, and assigns responsibilities to us accordingly. And He will call our failure a failure, and our success a success. It's just that every single time we fail, He's willing to offer us another perfectly fair go. However, God is no infinite sucker and the responsibility we are given is ultimately all to real. Hence, all this does come to an end with death.

So yes, I think there are honest errors, and God is not going to punish those. But I also believe that our errors do not become honest merely because we honestly can't be bothered about them. The people who I feel this excuse most applies to are the ones that least use it.
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
Ingo I'd be careful what you put in writing here, it could come back to bite you in the ass come judgement day: with the measure you judge you shall be judged and all that.
 
Posted by Divine Outlaw Dwarf (# 2252) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:

Why is it so blindingly obvious irritatingly unacceptable to you that cradle-RC's can be quite secure in their relationship with God without necessarily subscribing to all the sweets (be they genuine, relevant, etc., or not) that convinced you to convert?

Can we loose the tedious 'convert' vs. 'cradle Catholic' stuff? I was received into full communion with the RCC as an adult. I frequently find myself holding less conservative positions than ChesterBelloc and IngoB.
There are no 'cradle Catholics' - nobody is born Catholic. There are just Catholics. And, to be fair, I don't see either CB or IngoB claiming otherwise. You are the one reading the 'getting at cradle Catholics' stuff into what they are saying.

[ 07. February 2010, 15:00: Message edited by: Divine Outlaw Dwarf ]
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
[Overused] well said
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
I would have thought it significant that all the commandments of christianity are essentially earthly in nature. There are no commandments to "know god".

Likewise it is significant that IngoB treats some virtual discussion space as unimportant in terms of how he conducts himself. Because, clearly, his religion is about scoring numbers. What he does to the least of us is unimportant, according to his faith.

He's a dogma quick-draw, and a self-taught faith-maze solving rodent. He's found a handy-dandy rosary-cranked Answer For Everything (it says so right on the box!), so he hardly needs to waste his valuable time considering the value of those Answers. He just gives it another crank, and out comes Reassurances. See how straightforward it is? Aren't we foolish to not partake?

Being a miserable excuse for a human being hardly impinges on his sensibilities at all.

[Crossposted. He Who Must Be Changed needed a changing.]

[ 07. February 2010, 15:34: Message edited by: RooK ]
 
Posted by El Greco (# 9313) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
I would have thought it significant that all the commandments of christianity are essentially earthly in nature. There are no commandments to "know god".

Ah, but there are. It's just that most people don't pay attention to them!

As for IngoB, I feel sad that he scapegoats homosexuality for the horrible abuses that have been going on for a long time. I don't think the abuses are a modern phenomenon either (neither do I think that priests or monks doing sexual stuff against their vows was a modern trend). I think IngoB feels the need to protect his religion from fierce but justified criticism, and in my view, it's sad that religion has this effect on otherwise nice and smart people.

Of course it's not just IngoB. All sorts of people tried to defend their religion in various ways over time. But I don't think this works. I think this approach causes more problems than it tries to solve and I think the sensible thing to do is to condemn injustice and abuse without adding "but...".
 
Posted by wilson (# 37) on :
 
Nice to see you El Greco - how goes it?
 
Posted by El Greco (# 9313) on :
 
Being busy but fine! Was touched earlier by an exchange I read in Hell and stayed so now I'm writing a few posts here and there.

Um, did you have a different nickname in the past?
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Divine Outlaw Dwarf:
Can we loose the tedious 'convert' vs. 'cradle Catholic' stuff?

It wasn't I who introduced the convert-stuff into this thread. And when I joined in, I did it with the phrase "With converts like that, my church doesn't need enemies.".
If you look more carefully you will also see that this is not "'convert' vs. 'cradle catholic'" stuff but "'converts like IngoB' vs. 'RC's who don't agree with converts like IngoB'"-stuff.
quote:
I was received into full communion with the RCC as an adult. I frequently find myself holding less conservative positions than ChesterBelloc and IngoB.
I'm convinced that's the case for the vast majority of converts.

In real life I don't run into specific problems with converts. The interesting thing is that I have yet to encounter a convert behaving like IngoB or Chesterbelloc in the real world. Which means that either they are extremely rare or that they only exist in Virtual Reality.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Divine Outlaw Dwarf:
There are no 'cradle Catholics' - nobody is born Catholic.

There is no logical connection between those two statements, due to their different modifiers of "Catholic". The first statement is manifestly false, the second one is true(*). However, while I think some average differences are likely, I see no particular reason why the role of cradle and convert Catholics could not be complementary rather than adversarial.

(*) Though if those that die unbaptized before the age of reason join the communion of saints in heaven, then some further distinctions are clearly called for.
 
Posted by wilson (# 37) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by El Greco:
Um, did you have a different nickname in the past?

Yes - I was Paul M

(we met at the Globe - London shipmeet)
 
Posted by El Greco (# 9313) on :
 
Ah, nice to see you [Smile]
 
Posted by Divine Outlaw Dwarf (# 2252) on :
 
A love-in in Hell. It's like the South Park movie.
 
Posted by wilson (# 37) on :
 
Fuck you dickhead
 
Posted by Divine Outlaw Dwarf (# 2252) on :
 
That's better.
 
Posted by Rossweisse. (# 2349) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
...I should just ignore your existence as fallacious.

That's right, Ingo. If you can't face points and people which make you uncomfortable, just pretend they don't exist. Whatever you do, don't consider the possibility that you might be mistaken about something.
quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
...He's a dogma quick-draw, and a self-taught faith-maze solving rodent. He's found a handy-dandy rosary-cranked Answer For Everything (it says so right on the box!), so he hardly needs to waste his valuable time considering the value of those Answers. He just gives it another crank, and out comes Reassurances. See how straightforward it is? Aren't we foolish to not partake?

It's actually a terribly Pharasaic approach: If you do A, B, and C, and abjure D, E, and F, then, bingo! (as it were): you'll do easy time in Purgatory and be wafted up to Heaven ahead of the crowd.

Reason doesn't enter into it. I'm not sure faith necessarily does, either, as long as your ticket is punched in all the right places.
quote:
Being a miserable excuse for a human being hardly impinges on his sensibilities at all.
Well, he needn't consider others, because he's Right and we are Wrong, Wrong, Wrong. (But I'll bet we're more fun to be around.)
 
Posted by JonahMan (# 12126) on :
 
IngoB on the Catholic Church is always entertaining: the unintelligible in defence of the unspeakable.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Rossweisse.:
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
...I should just ignore your existence as fallacious.

That's right, Ingo. If you can't face points and people which make you uncomfortable, just pretend they don't exist. Whatever you do, don't consider the possibility that you might be mistaken about something.
Now, in his defense, Ingo is just acting in the way that his mother church approves of. The Roman Curia has ignored reality for centuries. What they think ain't broke they won't be fixin'.
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
Curious that a thread entitled "Ignorant Bigot" should contain a fair amount of generalized catholic-bashing.
 
Posted by QLib (# 43) on :
 
If by "generalized catholic-bashing" you mean, "expression of any opinion at variance with the teachings of the Roman Catholic Church", then it's not all that curious, really. Given that, you know, this is a site for people of all faiths and none, and we are in a space specifically set aside for people who are getting narked to verbally bash each other.

What I've observed in general is people (including other Catholics) bashing Ingo for the way he holds his beliefs, rather than for his holding of them. And, early on, there was quite a serious discussion about whether the combination of traditional Christian teaching on sexuality and a celibate priesthood was particularly explosive, which might be seen as "anti-Catholic" - except that it's an issue on which many Catholics hold divergent opinions.

Finally, the thread spun off from and then back to a discussion about how the RCC has handled the issue of paedophile priests. Maybe you think the church's response is beyond criticism, but it is surely obvious that someone holding an opposing view is not necessarily an anti-Catholic bigot - because, once again, it would appear that quite a few Catholics are distressed by the response of the hierarchy.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
Likewise it is significant that IngoB treats some virtual discussion space as unimportant in terms of how he conducts himself.

I do not attempt to conduct myself such as would be (supposedly...) optimal for pursuing RC agendas and winning RC converts in this virtual discussion space. I think it was you who quoted SoF's commandment eight at me just recently?

quote:
Originally posted by RooK:
He's a dogma quick-draw, and a self-taught faith-maze solving rodent.

And? Where and when did I sign up for anything more than slinging dogma and solving faith-mazes? What's with this urgent need to turn me into a TLC-dispensing freethinker? Get a grip on your missionary fervor, please.

quote:
Originally posted by El Greco:
As for IngoB, I feel sad that he scapegoats homosexuality for the horrible abuses that have been going on for a long time.

This and this post clarified early on what I was thinking. We are not supposed to discuss homosexuality on this thread anymore.
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by QLib:
If by "generalized catholic-bashing" you mean, "expression of any opinion at variance with the teachings of the Roman Catholic Church"

No, I didn't mean that. I meant things like

quote:
the unintelligible in defence of the unspeakable
and

quote:
The Roman Curia has ignored reality for centuries.
Not paragons of open-minded, nuanced opinion. Accepted, that isn't usually required for posting in hell, but still seems a little ironic on a thread for lampooning ignorant bigotry.

I say it's curious, I don't really mean curious in the sense "difficult to explain" - more in the "isn't that interesting/dispiriting" sense.
 
Posted by comet (# 10353) on :
 
If you lot insist on continuing this tired and insufferably dull little spat I will be forced to torture an innocent and cute puppy just to feel better.

Let it be on your heads.
 
Posted by Major Disaster (# 13229) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by multipara:
Re Bingo and his world view, you picked an unfortunate analogy, Major Disaster.

The knightly class of feudal Europe and the samurai class of feudal Japan were both the epitome of ignorant bigotry.

m

Dear Multipara,

Perhaps you're right in your assessment of my analogy as unfortunate. It made me think, though, what bigot means to me. I feel it comes under the general heading of those irregular verbs .
Certainly neither class of warriors was likely to produce lecturers in Liberal Arts, or campaigners for Gay Rights, but then, you choose horses for courses.
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
What's with this urgent need to turn me into a TLC-dispensing freethinker? Get a grip on your missionary fervor, please.

You misunderstand me. I described you snarkily (because that's how I have fun), but I don't really want you to change even slightly. You have more value as a difficult opponent than as some touchy-feely douche.
 
Posted by Erin (# 2) on :
 
He may not be touchy-feely, but I'm reasonably sure he's still a douche.
 
Posted by RooK (# 1852) on :
 
Quite. But turning touchy-feely wouldn't be any sort of improvement.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
Charming. Now, let's save a puppy.
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by IngoB:
Charming.

Ironic.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by comet:
If you lot insist on continuing this tired and insufferably dull little spat I will be forced to torture an innocent and cute puppy just to feel better.

Let it be on your heads.

Alternatively you could promote IngoB upwards to Dead Horse (Rtd).
That would be a win-win-win situation.

[ 08. February 2010, 07:22: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by fletcher christian (# 13919) on :
 
posted by major disaster:

quote:


Certainly neither class of warriors was likely to produce lecturers in Liberal Arts, or campaigners for Gay Rights, but then, you choose horses for courses.


I think that if you get beyond Western impressions of the Samurai and read some of their own texts and stories that they did do the things you mention above (at least before the Emperor became the puppet of the Shogonate)
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Mdijon..... Curious that a thread entitled "Ignorant Bigot" should contain a fair amount of generalized catholic-bashing.

Unfortunately true but inevitable. The most interesting thing is that the thread has been sustained for so long despite wandering all over the place and always returns to the OP and IngoB.

This proves the importance of IngoB to the Ship and if he didn't exist we'd have to invent him.

All the other major irritants in other churches don't have the consistency or intelligence of IngoB. Also they tend to disappear or walk the plank after a while. Where as IngoB, likethe poor, is always with us. I raise a glass to him...
 
Posted by Major Disaster (# 13229) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by fletcher christian:
posted by major disaster:

quote:


Certainly neither class of warriors was likely to produce lecturers in Liberal Arts, or campaigners for Gay Rights, but then, you choose horses for courses.


I think that if you get beyond Western impressions of the Samurai and read some of their own texts and stories that they did do the things you mention above (at least before the Emperor became the puppet of the Shogonate)
If so, then in what sense were they the epitome of bigots? That's what Multipara called them to put me right. But I suppose Hell does generate very little light, only fumes and heat.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fuzzipeg:
All the other major irritants in other churches don't have the consistency or intelligence of IngoB. Also they tend to disappear or walk the plank after a while. Where as IngoB, likethe poor, is always with us. I raise a glass to him...

You do realize that you can afford to be so generous because of the existence of the unique release-valves Hell and Dead Horses, and because SOF is not owned in any way by the RCC?

Over the years I have seen at least three RC discussion boards being ruined by the likes of IngoB and their helpmates.

One simply stopped because the moderators preferred closing the board to surrendering to the bigots.

The second still exists -but only because it is hardly moderated- as an arena where IngoB-clones (well mostly wannabees) vigilantly harass the unwary, and trolls have endless fun baiting both sides.

The third has degenerated into pious pointless and pompous lethargy as a result of replacing the moderators with the local IngoB-clone and two of his acolytes who rigorously and soundlessly censor anything they don't like and slap a lifelong ban on any participant showing signs of lasting dissent.
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
You do realize that you can afford to be so generous because of the existence of the unique release-valves Hell and Dead Horses, and because SOF is not owned in any way by the RCC?

That is also why we can be generous about the evanglicals, the high church anglicans, the orthodox, the orthodox apostates, the atheists and the cradle RCs who would also have ruined the place given a free run.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mdijon:
[QUOTE]That is also why we can be generous about the evanglicals, the high church anglicans, the orthodox, the orthodox apostates, the atheists and the cradle RCs who would also have ruined the place given a free run.

Are we to understand that the evangelicals, the high church anglicans, the orthodox, the orthodox apostates, the atheists and the cradle RCs are all cut from the same bigotrocious cloth as IngoB?

[ 08. February 2010, 11:17: Message edited by: opaWim ]
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
"We" could understand that. Personally I'd have thought that was fairly obvious.
 
Posted by Eliab (# 9153) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by opaWim:
Over the years I have seen at least three RC discussion boards being ruined by the likes of IngoB and their helpmates.

Are you really criticising IngoB for what other (unidentified) posters have done on other (unidentified) boards, solely on the grounds that they are (in your view) the same sort of person?

Would you not agree that attacking someone because of what "the likes of" them do, as if they belonged to a class whose sins are interchangeable is:

a) ignorant; and
b) bigoted?

And if you didn't mean that, what the fuck relevance is it to this thread that there are some obnoxious RCs somewhere on the internet?

For what it's worth (and not expecting him to give a rat's ares for my approval or not) I find IngoB a consistently smart, thoughtful and honest poster. He's as tactless as all Hell sometimes (but he's not alone in that, and Ship of Fools culture is not exactly intolerant of a thick-skinned/sharp-tongued discussion), but rarely, if ever, malicious; opinionated but not bigoted; and about as far from ignorance as you're likely to find.

I like the Roman Catholicism which IngoB portrays. It's a form of the faith which challenges those inside and outside the Church, it provides solid reasons for what it believes, and it is possible to engage with its dogmas and learn from the process of engagement, whether one is ultimately persuaded of their truth or not. I'm not especially likely to convert to Catholicism, but IngoB's witness is more likely to influence me thataways than most.
 
Posted by Eliab (# 9153) on :
 
On the ‘Death Valley/GPS' metaphor (because I liked it):

It works only if you accept that there is one correct denomination (GPS) which will lead you to safety, and othersthat are more or less misleading.

In my worldview, we don't have several distinct GPS units - we have a mass of sketches, maps, journals, notes and musing by other travellers, all of them incomplete, written while still in the valley by authors whom we do not know made it to safety. Catholicism is one of the most complete and clear of the maps in our collection, and it's verified against many landmarks, and useful for navigating past many obstacles, but there's not much sense in throwing all the other useful information in the file - that could be useful for finding our way home, too.

And, of course, the RC map, while generally reliable on the basic landscape, has quite a few flaws when checked against the evidence of our senses (reason and conscience). It requires, for example, a big detour around Mount Contraception, when it is plainly obvious that that particular feature was levelled years ago, and almost everyone who looks up from the map has managed to walk unhindered right across the valley floor where it once stood. Also the notes on the Catholic map say that one must first climb the double-peaked hillocks of Marian Dogma to mark out and follow the path of True Faith, whereas one can, in fact, see that path with equal clarity from the Sola Scriptura plateau on the other side of the valley. And, as Gildas points out, the map has recently been revised so that the difficult descent into, and perilous climb out of, the Chasm of Intolerance is no longer mandated at the outset of the journey, and travellers are wisely advised to go around it entirely. I'm going to stop now, before I get all Pilgrim's Progress.

The basic principle that faith is practical, and that having made a judgement on which doctrines are true, the point is to follow them diligently unless a compelling reason to re-think appears, is a good one, but it does not follow that one's best judgement on which path to take must be of a single tradition, ignoring the rest. If the guidance is of a sketch-map-plus-notes nature, where more details can complement and confirm the chosen route, rather than of a GPS nature, where different advice can only contradict, then accepting some RC guidance but not all is not irrational, but might well be the only sane thing to do.
 
Posted by Fuzzipeg (# 10107) on :
 
Oupa.... Over the years I have seen at least three RC discussion boards being ruined by the likes of IngoB and their helpmates

What does that mean? I didn't think IngoB need helpmates? I never managed to get into one of those Catholic/Orthodox boards probably for reasons of lethargy more than anything else.

In any case what do you say to each other that you wouldn't say on the open boards? Perhaps it was more domestic such as what has your Parish contributed to Peter's Pence this year? Or, "Psst! Do you know where I can get an annulment quickly?" I don't know.

Thanx Eliab for your two enjoyable posts!
 
Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
Eliab, [Overused]
 
Posted by FCB (# 1495) on :
 
I've got to say that I do find the generalized charge of bigotry against Ingo somewhat odd. There are a few things I might fault him for -- I tend to think you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar (but then again he's pretty clear on the fact that his purpose on the Ship is not to catch flies) -- but generalized bigotry is not one of them.

Maybe I'm just overawed by the fact that he can usually think circles around me (though I still think he's wrong on the question of whether extra-terrestrial rational animals would, for theological purposes, count as "human").
 
Posted by Matt Black (# 2210) on :
 
"Dogmatic", perhaps, which I suppose can be construed as "bigotted" by someone who dislikes the dogma concerned.
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
One can be dogmatic without being rude. One can be dogmatic without being judgmental. One can be dogmatic without being an ass about it. So the whole "you just think he's bigoted because you don't like the teachings of the RCC" is a red herring.
 
Posted by Spiffy (# 5267) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by FCB:
I've got to say that I do find the generalized charge of bigotry against Ingo somewhat odd.

Oh, it's not general. If you follow his postings out and about and around the Ship, he's a very specific bigot-- he hates anyone who's not himself and treats anyone who's not himself dismissively and rudely.

Or, to put it short, he's a two hundred pound jackass trying to fit into a one hundred pound RCC sack.

[ 08. February 2010, 16:09: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
So the whole "you just think he's bigoted because you don't like the teachings of the RCC" is a red herring.

I suppose it's odds-on that someone has said that on this thread, but I can't get it out of any of the recent posts.
 
Posted by mousethief (# 953) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mdijon:
quote:
Originally posted by mousethief:
So the whole "you just think he's bigoted because you don't like the teachings of the RCC" is a red herring.

I suppose it's odds-on that someone has said that on this thread, but I can't get it out of any of the recent posts.
quote:
"Dogmatic", perhaps, which I suppose can be construed as "bigotted" by someone who dislikes the dogma concerned.

 
Posted by mdijon (# 8520) on :
 
OK, I admit it, fair call.
 
Posted by FCB (# 1495) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
he's a very specific bigot-- he hates anyone who's not himself and treats anyone who's not himself dismissively and rudely.

Maybe I'm just quibbling, but while I will certainly grant that Ingo can be dismissive and rude, I don't see that as indicative of bigotry and certainly not of hatred. He has dismissed things I've said (well, not so much dismissed as argued forcefully against) and I'm his co-religionist. I suppose one might say he's bigoted against those whom he thinks do not have good arguments, but this would seem to me an odd use of the term "bigoted."

I can see that Ingo's take-no-prisoners approach to intellectual combat (and I mean that literally: he's not trying to capture you for his side) might put some people off. It sometimes puts me off when I'm trying to get others to be sympathetic to some RC position and he comes stomping in to kick asses and take names. But I don't detect bigotry in any of it.
 
Posted by Lyda*Rose (# 4544) on :
 
I'm not sure that I would call him a bigot, just arrogant, self-satisfied, and damned unpleasant. But I'm sort of glad he's out there. While most of us who are well disposed to the RCC like to focus on how it upholds the sacraments, its work in education, health, and among the poor, and all its members who are supportive of other Christians, he does express one real facet of the Roman Catholic Church, and it would be a white-wash to pretend otherwise.
 
Posted by opaWim (# 11137) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fuzzipeg:
Oupa.... Over the years I have seen at least three RC discussion boards being ruined by the likes of IngoB and their helpmates

What does that mean? I didn't think IngoB need helpmates?

Bullies are never really effective if they are on their own.
quote:
I never managed to get into one of those Catholic/Orthodox boards probably for reasons of lethargy more than anything else.
Apparently lethargy can be a blessing [Smile]
quote:
In any case what do you say to each other that you wouldn't say on the open boards?

They are open boards, at least in the sense that in principle anybody can join in. Of course, if your not sufficiently RC-friendly in your writings (read: you don't always agree unconditionally with the bullies) you're chucked out in less time then it took you to register.
quote:
Perhaps it was more domestic such as what has your Parish contributed to Peter's Pence this year? Or, "Psst! Do you know where I can get an annulment quickly?" I don't know.
Funny you should say that. "How to get an annulment, the failsafe ways" has indeed been covered there, by a very orthodox RC-priest. That was one of the more thoroughly disgusting occurrences there.
 
Posted by IngoB (# 8700) on :
 
Too bad about that puppy... Well, thanks for the support, some of you.

quote:
Originally posted by Spiffy:
If you follow his postings out and about and around the Ship, he's a very specific bigot-- he hates anyone who's not himself and treats anyone who's not himself dismissively and rudely.

How I treat people here is a matter of record. However, I simply do not hate anyone on SoF, nor have I ever.
 
Posted by comet (# 10353) on :
 
my reading of the puppy entrails says:

All that can be said has been said, further discussion of Roman Catholic Dogma belongs in Purgatory. Lucky Numbers: 3 45 76 1

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