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Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
As a follow on from Dyfrig's thread about women priests I want to raise the issue about male and female. I know I am going to get a lot of Jungian animus / anima stuff but I am not that impressed. Nor am I impressed by the argument that the only thing that separates men and women is the shape of their genitals or perhaps what mummy, daddy or my peers role modelled / taught me into.

I submit that there are real embedded differences between men and women deeper than the physical although conditioned by the physical.

I think this is going to be a long thread. (I hope so anyway).

PLEASE KEEP OF WOMEN'S ORDINATION! Save that for Dyfrig's thread.

[ 10. March 2003, 02:12: Message edited by: Erin ]
 
Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Sorry! That should be: "Please keep OFF women's ordination." Please allow us to edit!!!
 
Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
I submit that there are real embedded differences between men and women deeper than the physical although conditioned by the physical.

Such as......?
 


Posted by Reason (# 648) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fr. Gregory:

I submit that there are real embedded differences between men and women deeper than the physical although conditioned by the physical.

I agree with you on this Fr. Gregory. In addition, I think there are real embedded differences between one man and another. And between women. Between races. Between cultures. I'm not like any woman I've ever met, but I'm unlike any man I've met either.

Men tend to be different from women in some specific ways, but those are only tendencies. I know women who are very athletic and competitive and men who are passive and artistic. So, we notice different tendencies between the sexes, but we can make no absolutes.

In the final analysis, all we can say is we've got just one thing in common: We're all human. Other than that, we're all unique.
 


Posted by Astro (# 84) on :
 
There are hormonal differences too, but otherwise to say that women are like this and men are like that is a gross over generalization. Just because some women have particular characteristics and some men have other caharcteristics does not mean that all women and all men have such characteristics.

I think that it is a tyranny to impose on all members of a particular sex charaiteristics that are only true of some of them - even if it is a large majority of them.
 


Posted by nicolemrw (# 28) on :
 
yes, i agree with what astro and reason said. for example, women tend to be nurturing... but there are some women i wouldn't trust with a pet, much less a child. men tend to be agressive... unless they conform to that other stereotype and are completely henpecked.
 
Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
Ooooh Father G, I feel so torn...

I have several hunches here, and they disagree with each other. So I'll hold fire till I get a sense of where this thread is going. But I must say, my first reaction is that I can't think of any Scriptural back-up for your theory. Do you have any?

Apart from us being doomed to ritual uncleanness, of course, cos we can't hide periods, although men can deny having wet dreams!

 


Posted by Pyx_e (# 57) on :
 
i deny having wet dreams

P
 


Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
AND using an electric floor polisher, no doubt! Hypocrite!
 
Posted by willyburger (# 658) on :
 
quote:
Gill:
.... although men can deny having wet dreams

That depends on who does the laundry!

And that floor polisher thing is just plain scary.

Before getting into differences, are we talking about differences of population norms or individual differences?

When men vs. women are compared as populations, differences are real. But the averages of these two populations for almost any variable are not that far apart, so they have a high degree of overlap. That means that it is easy for us to confuse the issue of population vs. individual because any of us can think of some person that is so far from the group average on some variable that he or she looks to fit the average of the other population.

Willy
 


Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
(Thinks: Just shows why that ol' woodchuck thang never caught on in Rome...)
 
Posted by Beenster (# 242) on :
 
Is it safe to say anything without rampant generalising?


 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Thought so! Just wondered.
 
Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
Okay FG, what are these differences, please? Give me something to agree or disagree with, please do!!
 
Posted by Nancy Winningham (# 91) on :
 
Of course there are differences between people: anatomical, cultural, financial, blah, blah, blah.

Here is the crux of the matter:
Does different mean that it is OK for one of the types to be "normative" and "right," and all other manifestations of humanness to be "inferior"?

Traditionally, male has been considered normal and right, and female has been considered inferior and wrong.

Is difference itself a good thing to be celebrated and embraced, or a bad thing to be ridiculed, exiled, and silenced?
 


Posted by Beenster (# 242) on :
 
Nancy - I thought it was male who considered themselves right and female who knew they weren't but let the males go along with it?!
 
Posted by ptarmigan (# 138) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Nancy Winningham:

Here is the crux of the matter:
Does different mean that it is OK for one of the types to be "normative" and "right," and all other manifestations of humanness to be "inferior"?



That's one crux. But another important one (straying dangerously close to an area which Fr G asked us to avoid) is unwarranted discrimination in important areas such as employment, on the basis not of suitability for the job but of sex alone.

There is a moral imperative (and in some countries a legal one) on employers to select on the basis of suitability of the individual candidates for the job. It is not fair to discriminate on the basis of membership of some group about whom you have a prejudice; i.e. a group who you have pre-judged en masse.

We have women firefighters in Britain now, not because the average woman is as physically strong as the average man, but because the women accepted exceed the Fire Service's minimum requirements for physical strength.

If there were an opportunity for paid employment as a sperm donor (!!!) or a role as a guinea pig in genetic research which required specifically male chromosomes, it would be quite reasonable and acceptable to discriminate against women.

I believe that as an employer the church should be exemplary in this matter. If we wish to employ sperm donors we should not waste money and time interviewing women. If we seek firefighters we should judge applicants on their merits. If we need someone to say the mass ... oops, not allowed to discuss that.

Human rights are based on the christian principles of decency, fairness and justice; they are not a 20th century heresy.

Pt
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
I think we need to be a little more definite about what these "differences" are before this discussion can go any further. Clearly there are biological differences, but are these differences in our human-ness? I don't think, Gregory, that you can ultimately divorce this from the question of women in the priesthodd, given that is the one fundamentally exclusive male preserve within the Church.

So - what are the differences between male and female (not just between individual men and women or groups of them)? And if there is an "ontological" difference between men and women, how can someone taking on the form of one of them save the other without the suggestion that "male" is the top and "female" is a slightly less perfect male? (Is it Lossky or Schmemann (not sure) hwho argues that women are actually saved by Mary and that it is she who introduces the feminien into the Godhead?)
 


Posted by Steve (# 64) on :
 
What we need here is some disagreement. So I don't think that there are basic and fundamental differences between men and women, distinct from their physical make up.

I think, rather, that we have tended through the centuries to identify characteristics as "male" or "female", and so draw artificial distinctions between the genders. This is then reinforced throught further generations, by parental and peer pressure.

We also, as has been mentioned, tend to express character traits differently. Women are "submissive", but men are "Henpecked". Men are "natural leaders", but women are "bossy".
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
Today I am tired and broke and need help ... Please would someone post something I can either agree or disagree with I have ideas but can't quite get them together enough to post something coherent

Tubbs the Tired
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Ok, Tubbs, some controversy - biology and theology prove that men and women are different.

(a) biology - men are physically stronger, and are aggressive, which are necessities in God's createdly violent world;

(b) theology - men have withihn them the image of God, which is Fatherhood. The Father-Son relationship is the primary one at the heart of the universe, therefore the only truly human representation of God is a man.

(c) whereas men as perfect in themselves, the only part of them that requires saving being their moral decisions, women must be saved by becoming less like women. They must be docile, submissive and should not assume any right over a man.
 


Posted by IanB (# 38) on :
 
Well, naturally, Dyfrig, you've hit the nail on the head there. Except for the last one -

quote:
(c) whereas men as perfect in themselves, the only part of them that requires saving being their moral decisions, women must be saved by becoming less like women. They must be docile, submissive and should not assume any right over a man.

I think you have this the wrong way round. It's women who are perfect - after all it was the sin of Adam, remember. Eve's fault was that she was duped, and much of that was down to Adam anyway. So we should all be conformed to Eve's image. Like mainstream protestantism...

Ian
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
Dryfig,

That's pants and can be disproved by the Bible, In Christ there is no Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male and female and "male and female he created them [in the image of God]"

You'll have to do better than that

Tubbs
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
Actually, said she warming to her theme in the orginal language of the OT, the word used to describe Eve was helper which implies that Eve is equal to Adam and has compliamentary gifts and talents to his.

Tubbs
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
My God, Tubbs! Are you suggesting -...no, you can't be! Are you saying that women are equally the image of God as well??? Or, God forbid, that the God's image is seen in men and women together? You're gonna BUURRRNNNN If women are also in the image of God, what possible ontological difference can there be between them? Away with such heresy.
 
Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
I have found my Biblical proof text and I am gonna use use it.

God is our Father and our Mother. The Hebrew word for God is gender neutral. But it gets translated as "He" as it would be disrespectful to describe the "Lord of Lords" as "It". Using the word "She" would be far to radical for most Biblical translators.

Tubbs
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
But Tubbs, don't you see what you're doing? By saying that it's ultimately inappropriate to apply any "gender" to God you're having to force us to rethink whether the words "Father and Son" as 'biological' terms are appropriate to the ontological relationship (as opposed to say, a quasi-legal paradigm of authority and inheritance). And that would make you a member of the congregation of naughty men, as clearly it implies that maleness per se was not essential to Jesus' representation/iconisation of God, and thus we are forced into the totally unacceptable conclusion that the "Christ-representative" at the eucharist has to human, but nothing more specific.

You bad, bad person.

As for you Stowaway, how dare you suggest that those who canonised women preachers and teachers were going against the apostolic tradition?

Bottom line - God likes men, and puts up with women because he has to. Women are inferior. Women cannot be priests. Women are inherently evil. Women are the gateway of the devil! Women? HAH! What are they good for? Absolutely [I]nothing[/]! Believe me, all the problems in the world are either caused by a woman or by someone who knows a woman.
 


Posted by ylm (# 873) on :
 
quote:
Bottom line - God likes men, and puts up with women because he has to

Thanks Dyfrig. I'm wondering where the Blessed Virgin Mary fits in to this?

And from Virgins, to er, not being Virgins. As a broad sweeping generalisation Men are pretty obsessed by sex and Women realise this and use it to hold power over men. By being able to control the distribution of this "thing" that men want and women are able to give, women can make men do what ever they want to. It is, basically, attitudes towards the "sexual act" (as the Anglicans call it) that differentiate men and women in this day and age.

Perhaps.

ylm
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
Dryfig,

You'll never make it to Swansea at this rate

Is it you who's getting married soon?! Does your wife to be know about these views ....

quote:
But Tubbs, don't you see what you're doing? By saying that it's ultimately inappropriate to apply any "gender" to God you're having to force us to rethink whether the words "Father and Son" as 'biological' terms are appropriate to the ontological relationship (as opposed to say, a quasi-legal paradigm of authority and inheritance). And that would make you a member of the congregation of naughty men, as clearly it implies that maleness per se was not essential to Jesus' representation/iconisation of God, and thus we are forced into the totally unacceptable conclusion that the "Christ-representative" at the eucharist has to human, but nothing more specific.

You may have to explain the word ontological as it sounds medical to me!

But what I'm basically saying this that

So how toasted am I?!

Tubbs
 


Posted by BarbaraG (# 399) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ylm:
As a broad sweeping generalisation Men are pretty obsessed by sex and Women realise this and use it to hold power over men. By being able to control the distribution of this "thing" that men want and women are able to give, women can make men do what ever they want to. It is, basically, attitudes towards the "sexual act" (as the Anglicans call it) that differentiate men and women in this day and age.

Errmmm..... most women want sex too...

I see this as the extreme example of using the general differences between men and women as a prescription of what a man or a woman should be.

In general, it is thought, men have a higher sex drive than women. But take any specific woman, and you may find that she has a higher sex drive than the average man. Or than her partner.

So what do we do to her? We call her a nyphomaniac, because we consider her behaviour inappropriate for a woman. We make her feel like an unwoman. We do this also to women who don't want to be mothers, or who are career-orientated, or who aren't classically beautiful and willowy slim, and IT'S NOT FAIR!!!

And we do it to men who are physically slight, quiet, arty and empathetic. And that's not fair either.

There are lots of difference, on average, between men and women. But we are all individuals, and should be accepted as such, irrespective of how closely we conform to the stereotype of our gender

BarbaraG
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
I've never heard such wickedness. The pair of you should be ashamed of yourselves.

ylm - isn't that the Dutch national airline? No matter - as is taught clearly in the gospel*, Mary is accepted as an Apostle by being made an honorary man.

*of Thomas.

Tubbs - you are a fool.. Clearly I am superior to 'frin. That's why she's Host and I'm ....er.....not one.

....yee--eesss. Hmmmm....


(Humour Alert: some of the contents of this thread may be ironic.)
 


Posted by ylm (# 873) on :
 
quote:
So what do we do to her? We call her a nyphomaniac, because we consider her behaviour inappropriate for a woman. We make her feel like an unwoman. We do this also to women who don't want to be mothers, or who are career-orientated, or who aren't classically beautiful and willowy slim, and IT'S NOT FAIR!!!

And we do it to men who are physically slight, quiet, arty and empathetic. And that's not fair either.


I'm one of the two above, BarbaraG - I agree with you entirely. I just figured that Dyfrig needed some help being controversial.

IMHO, a lot of the time it is only a combination of 'plumbing' (Horrible choice of word, I imagine a man in a boiler suit looking at me and saying "By 'eck, who put *that* in for you!") and social response.

Men - every been caught buying skincare products?
Women - ever ordered a pint and a bag of dry-rosted?

There is no reason for men and women not to do these (and similar) things. But the looks are there; the sly comments and raised eybrows... and it does stink and I do hate it.

But anyway - sexuality - explain

Female masturbation: media presents this as sexy, wicked and glamourous.

Male masturbation: media presents this as pathetic, lonely and sad.

Why?

ylm
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
And still no one explains what the word ontological means *sigh*

Tubbs

PS Dryfig - you made me snarf my water
 


Posted by Ferg (# 33) on :
 
Female vs male masturbation...

Could it be that women are constructed as objects of sexuality and the only objects. So a woman by herself has a toy to play with whereas a man by himself does not?

Ferg
 


Posted by Karl (# 76) on :
 
Oh, he does, trust me.


 


Posted by Astro (# 84) on :
 
Since women between certain ages shed blood regularly this should make them more suitable than men to be priets in a religion based on the shedding of blood by its god.
 
Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
"Ontological" refers the very "is-ness" of something (its "inscape" as G. M. Hopkins) would say; its very essence; what amounts to its "being". I'm not clear how we determine something's ontological nature - I go for ontology derived from seeing what a thing does in action (e.g. we know what sort of God our God is because we believe Jesus is fully representative of God - a loving and saving and sacrificial God.)

Now the way I see it - and this is where my views on this and the priests thread must come together, so please take this as read on the other thread too, and apologies for repetition, but I'm taking the opportunity to clarify my thinking - is this....

if the Catholic (I use this in the broad sense of the agreed, pre-East/West split) Church teaches that - the Second Person of the Trinity became fully human, then just as their is the "ontological" basic Godness about Jesus Christ, then there must be a basic "ontological" basic "human"-ness about him too. The early church, from the Johannine Epistles and Hebrews all the way to the 4th and 5th centuries made the point that he was fully human - because if wasn't fully human, he could save human beings. "What he did not assume he did not save" (Greg Nazianzen? Nyssa? I forget.)

So far so splendid. By this reasoning there is a basic human-ness which Jesus shares with us all - men, women, children, black, white, purple, green, abled and disabled, sexually active or not - which I shall designate for reference only as "H". If this were not so he could only save those (unspecified) limited sub-sets of humanity who shared his nature.

"H" is that thing which is common to all. Although qualified in actual life by various biological and sociological effects, there is an "H"-ness about all of us.

Now, Gregory (Hallam, that is, Gregory Nazianzen being dead and unable to participate in this thread) asked the question whether there are any real differences between men and women.

Now, we can think of examples between a particular man and a particular woman - e.g. 'frin is much brighter than me and much more tolerant.

We can think of social differences - women do communicate more freely and deeply than men, it seems, though whether this is ontological or cultural I do not know. Consider for a moment the depth of friendship between David and Jonathan, "Greater than the love of women", suggesting that it was very different from the usual male inter-relationship.

And we can physically see differences - different bumps, different ways of peeing. (Tho' I'm well aware that early in pregnancy there is one piece of anatomy that then become either a penis or a clitoris).

But are these differences, whether we acknowledge them or not, ontolgocial? Do they effect our basic "H"-ness?

If they do, then orthodoxy (with a little and a bit O) has a problem: what he did not assume he did not save. If there is an element of "H"-ness which is different between male and female, then could Incarnation as one of these sub-sets be truly fully human? You create two types of "H" - HM and HW.

If there are parts of "H" which Jesus Christ did not have - e.g. he didn't have an ontological HW-ness - then surely he did not, could have saved HW-ness. Making male/female differences leads to the unacceptable conclusion that those who did not have the HM of Jesus Christ had (rahter than just H) were not saved.

Equally, if one were to argue that a priest is Christ's representative, then anyone with H can represent him - and I mean, anyone. Anyone having "H". But to say that a woman cannot be the icon of Christ is again to run up against "what he did not assume he cannot save", because if there is such an ontological difference between the H of a man and the H of a woman that a woman cannot represent someone who is purportedly fully H, then the person being represented is, ipso facto, not fully H. He is only HM - and that is not fully human.

So - yes, there probably are differences BUT they are not so fundamental to the universe as to require the creation of institutional differences.
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Spotted a fairly fundamental typo; one clause should read:

"- then surely he did not, could not have saved HW-ness."
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
Thank you.

Thbbs
 


Posted by ylm (# 873) on :
 
Dyfrig,

So what you're saying - using, for some reason, algebra and sut theory - is that men and women are both human, but are different kinds of human. And it is the taking on of humanity, not of a particular gender, was Christ's important act. The M and W attributes are simply that - attributes of a object rather than an object.

Thank you for clearing that up. Are you an Anglican, by any chance?

ylm (never say in 50 words what you can say in 700)
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Yes - and I'm also a lawyer.


 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Dyfrig

Quote:-

? (Is it Lossky or Schmemann (not sure) who argues that women are actually saved by Mary and that it is she who introduces the feminine into the Godhead?)

GH: This is not Orthodox doctrine and is not taught by either theologian, (and I have read a lot of their works not unsurprisingly).

As to the question ... I'll ask another one ...

Why do transgendered individuals frequently justify their desires to "be" the opposite sex in terms such as "I have always been a woman. I want to be a woman, Help me be a woman, (& vice versa).
 


Posted by ptarmigan (# 138) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fr. Gregory:

Why do transgendered individuals frequently justify their desires to "be" the opposite sex in terms such as "I have always been a woman. I want to be a woman, Help me be a woman, (& vice versa).

I don't know any personally, but I get the impression they want to change gender, not sex.

(Gender being the cultural milieu associated by a particular socioety with a particular sex).

Surgery to the sex organs doesn't alter chromosomes. It will affect hormonal balance but it won't change from a typical male mix of hormones to a typical female one, (a eunuch's voice is quite different to a woman's) and it certainly won't introduce monthly cycles.

I think they want to feel feminine, and be perceived as a woman.

But - as always - I may be wrong.
 


Posted by Martin PC not (# 368) on :
 
The plumbing goes deep ...

Castrate a man and he becomes virtually harmless. Literally soft. It's the greatest cure for baldness and aggressive sexuality.

Testosterone is as powerful in it's own way, more so perhaps, than oestrogen and progesterone - the latter being the cause of PMS/T and much, much, more besides ... all sorts of funny behaviour.

The amount of skin a woman exposes is directly correlated with her implantability, the call of the wild ovum is awesome.

Testosterone's power is such that it shrivels the corpus collosum between the cerebral hemispheres and men are incapable, absolutely incapable, of multitasking as the result of it.

The best man isn't as good as the worst woman, intellect being equal.

The focus that testosterone brings is complemented by men's narrower visual field and allows the risk taking that benefits otherwise intellectually equal men and women in exam situations, which is why more men get firsts than women. And more thirds.

Multitasking in a primary child carer has survival benefits.

It is a myth that boys are more immature than girls. Boys mature psychologically just as fast but their bodies don't catch up so that they will not have to be physically put down in competition with older males, who therefore tolerate their otherwise competitive personalities. In girls the opposite is true, they become superficially 'little women' that their minds can expand in to the role of woman by being treated like one - hopefully at a crucial distance.

All of this is genetic.

We are biologically imperative - haunted - machines.
 


Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
Dryfig? DRYFIG???

Freudian or wot?!?!
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
The plumbing does indeed go deep and whether it's gender or sex the sense of being a woman or feminine or a man or masculine is not an inconsequential matter. They are not interchangeable in the sense of being congruent. The incongruence of the sexes exists notwithstanding their absolute human equality.
 
Posted by Moo (# 107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dyfrig:
And we can physically see differences - different bumps, different ways of peeing. (Tho' I'm well aware that early in pregnancy there is one piece of anatomy that then become either a penis or a clitoris).

Many remarkable things happen to a woman's body during pregnancy, but nothing that weird.

You mean that early in gestation there is one piece....

Moo
 


Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAaaaaaa

Father Gregory, has anyone ever reported you to the Plain English Society? I mean, give me a sporting chance of disagreeing! I can't understand a word of that last one! LOL
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Gill

I assume that this is the phrase (particularly) that you can't understanD-

"They (sic, the sexes) are not interchangeable in the sense of being congruent."

"Congruent" is a term from mathematics. It refers to the absolute identicality of 2 shapes such that one superimposed over the other will not lead to overlap.

I am saying that male / maleness and female / femaleness are equal in dignity and status but not congruent in their respective human profiles .... and I don't mean just the "plumbing" (Dyfrig)!

I started the other thread on "plumbing" i order to expose this to debate, (where he it would just get lost in equal opportunities).

This raises another interesting issue. (It may start as another thread if I think it useful).

I submit that there are two types of Christian feminists (or feminist Christians). The Elaine Storkey variety (Protestant) where gender is incidental to be human human and where equal opportunities largely conditions the ordination debate, and the Rosemary Radford Ruether variety (Catholic) where gender / sexuality imparts vital differences which lead to new conceptions of God.

Although the Storkey version is less radical, I actually prefer the Ruether approach, NOT because I agree with her theology (goddess etc ... I am closer to Storkey on that one) but because at least the Ruether heresies are sacramental. She isn't blind to gender. She argues womens' case from their distinctive aspects. These then get fed into ministry, worship and how we speak of and relate to God.
 


Posted by splodge (# 156) on :
 
Okay, so if gender differences are all down to cultural traits, this begs the question -
why did such a gender-culture develop in the first place?
Answer - because in human prehistory when ecological and biological realities were paramount and made all the difference to society, then the biological diffences between males and females necessarily resulted in different and very clearly demarcated social roles for each gender
Okay, heres my theory of men and women:
The "averge" men are has been primarily been shaped oven aeon by the needs of mammoth hunting and tribal warfare.
Traits of physical strengh, aggression and
emotional rigidity and the ability to pee standing up were all important and naturally selected and promoted by evolution for their role in the mammoth hunt etc. By their very nature these traits tend to lead to domination of the whole human group: later of course the domination became institutionalised; but domination need not be bad for the dominated pe se, but it allows a lot of bad things to happen.
What were the women doing when men were chasing mammoths and fighting other tribes? Everything else, like today when their men go out playing sport (the modern equivalent of chasing mammoths etc)Women managed the family make most of the groups goods, and probably located most of it food needs (shopping is the modern equivalent of gathering berries in the forest) and they also crucially transmitted culture and language. The latter happened as they sat around in the cave in collective huddles constantly discussing their personal and relationship problems without those nasty men being present (as they still do today)
Come on girls, even if you won't admit it, it is what you really want isn't it? Instinctively you want men who still have the traits of hunky, strong, confident, slightly sweaty, mammoth hunters and warriors.
(hands up you heterosexual ladies who didn't half fancy Russel Crowe in the film Gladiator?)
You just ask that your warrior male is also (slightly paradoxically) very caring and loving too.
.The modern world needs different traits and arguably has had enough of hunters and warriors, so that is why feminism is absolutely right now, but would have been damn silly in ancient times.
 
Posted by Amos (# 44) on :
 
The plumbing does indeed go deep; the differences between the sexes are not simply a matter of cultural conditioning (although evolutionary psychology, as it is generally called is generally pants). However, it does not go as deep as our humanity. Men and women are more alike than they are different--male and female created He them. To say that is not to say that the differences between the sexes are are either artificial or superficial.
I believe the theological notion referred to above--that Jesus saves the guys and Mary the gals-- is to be found in the work of Hans Urs von Balthasar, by the way. Amos
 
Posted by ptarmigan (# 138) on :
 
I like much of what you say Splodge.

Historically muscle was crucial, and men are - on average - more muscular. This is primitive society in which only the fit survive. It made sense for men to hunt (and to get the lion's share of the food to build them up) while women did domestic things. They probably tried to inseminate as many women as possible as often as possible too. Also with high perinatal mortality and poor contraception, women spent more of their lives pregnant or suckling.

In later farming economies, women could take a more active part.

Since the industrial revolution, most of the muscle is provided by machines, and humans have to do intelligence jobs - pretty well equal between the sexes.

In recent years Western economies have been looking for something more subtle from the workforce - relational skills, not just pure brainpower.

The feminist movement created a wonderful slogan containing a lot of truth:

*** Biology is not destiny ***

People will adapt.

So historically sex and gender ran deeply; now they are less deep (e.g. the "new man", the working woman, people wanting to change sex), and in the future they may become less and less important.

There are some deeply unsavoury movements in some parts of right wing evangelicalism which want to turn the clocks back; some even want to deny women a vote. I have a recording somewhere of a US pastor explaining with pride how he had to use physical violence on his wife to remind her of her place. There is also a deeply disturbing book based on interviews with wives of evangelical ministers entitled "Battered into Submission". It seems that those who want to perpetuate "traditional" roles are getting desparate.

Pt
 


Posted by Wulfstan (# 558) on :
 
So-called "traditional" roles are questionable. Medieval women did an awful lot of physical labour (I was told by an archaelogy lecturer "Man's oldest beast of burden is woman!"). Hypotheses based on biological differences shaping social roles have long been established amongst feminist writers, but are by no means conclusive. Anne Oakley (I think it was) put together a study suggesting that the "woman's place is in the home" concept was developed in the Victorian era by middle-class M.P.s legislating about factory conditions and becoming horrified by what women were doing. Legislation then followed limiting their hours and preventing them from working in mines (for example) and forcing them to conform to the fashionable middle class norm (though in reality just forcing them into poorer paid work!).
Modern studies of gender are tending to see it as flexible in expression. Much of the stuff about boys underachievement in schools relates to the way they express their masculinity. In actual fact only certain types of boys are underachieveing which can relate to the way their masculinity is expressed (i.e. macho, aggressive). Other boys however express their gender identity in ways more conducive to academic success (although there may well be a class element in this, depending on your point of view). Masculinity/femininity can therefore IMHO be expressed in a variety of ways that, as has been previously stated can overlap and bear only a superficial relation to so-called biological determinism. Any suggestion that there is some kind of masculine or feminine "norm" I would regard with deep suspicion, even if dressed up in "spiritual" justifications.
 
Posted by Elizabeth (# 207) on :
 
Dear Splodge:

If women were sitting around in caves complaining about the men while they were out, it was because the women had spent 90% of their waking hours scrounging food for the group.

In hunter-gatherer societies, the burden of feeding the group is traditionally upon the women. Hunting, while certainly taking up a majority of the men's time, provided only incidental protein to their subsistence.

Even in tribal societies dependent upon agriculture, the cultivation tasks are handled by women. Back-breaking work, I might add, especially if you've also got an infant strapped on somewhere or you're heavily pregnant. No matter, the men are always around to sit and chat by the fire about "Remember when we saw that really big antelope over on the hill but we missed?"

Sorry, can't remember who did the quote in this thread about woman being man's oldest beast of burden. Amen to that.

So, Splodge, I don't buy into your average woman yearning for her sweaty hunter to return from the veldt, even if Russell Crowe did look terrific in a toga!
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fr. Gregory:
GH: This is not Orthodox doctrine and is not taught by either theologian, (and I have read a lot of their works not unsurprisingly).

Spot on, Mr H - it was a half-remembered article by Sergius Bulgakov.

As to the question ... I'll ask another one ...

Your new question is very interesting and germaine to our discussion - however, I have asked you twice and Gill (I believe) has also asked you to provide your own examples for your original assertion. Therefore, before we go any further can you please provide examples of these fundamental differences? I think it would help us if you actually clarified what these differences were so that we could consider where your case is valid or not (sorry, Mr Picky Lawyer wanting you to justify your position again!
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Dyfrig

You are right that I have played hard to get. Try this one. Meditate. Try to imagine you are the opposite sex (but try to keep everything else the same). Was it difficult? easy? Did you get it right? How would you know?
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Try to imagine you are the opposite sex (but try to keep everything else the same). Was it difficult? easy? Did you get it right? How would you know?

The answers depend not on the nature of thing being imagined but on how well-developed one’s imagination happens to be.

The same question could be asked of you in these terms, "Try to imagine you are partially sighted", or of me, "Try to imagine you are fully sighted". Now, partial sight has affected the development of the entity that is "Dyfrig", but it does not make me essentially different from you at our basic level of shared humanity.

Level of difficulty? Well, if you’re not used to imagining things, probably quite hard. I remember, at 16, having to do an exercise at English A-level in a similar vain, and find it terribly hard.

However, if say you were a novelist or poet or other such creative writer of any real ability then imagining is part of your job, there it would be a lot easier. Personally I find it quite hard to imagine myself speaking as "another" in my poetry, tho’ I have written one or two poems with a female voice, but most of my work is limited to "my" point of view, because I have not yet developed the ability to write effectively in another voice.

But so much goes into the imagining process - one’s experience through encounter with the thing imagined, reading, listening, attempting to empathise. Imagining the "other" - any "other" - is a task that different people will find hard or easy to varying degrees. Clearly as a priest you have certain recognisable pastoral skills that enable you to empathise and be alongside those who might require spiritual counsel. Conversely, I find it hard to imagine what it is really like to be an Orthodox priest, because my knowledge of Orthodoxy is that of an outsider, my partial sight makes much of the Liturgy and other services hard to comprehend because of their visual nature, and so forth. I'd have a better job, tho', imagining what it was to be R.S.Thomas, both of us being Welsh, brought up in Holyhead, cantakerous and Anglican.

Did you get it right? That would have to be assessed by those whose experience I was trying to imagine. For example, I know of a woman who thinks that Roddy Doyle did a really bad job of describing the main female character in his "The Woman Who Walked Into Doors". However, Ann Michaels does quite a good job of writing about her two main characters in "Fugitive Pieces", both of whom are male, and tho’ one of them is morally reprehensible and deserves a good kicking, I could not fault Michaels on her portrayal.

Equally there are parts of Bjork’s portrayal of Selma in "Dancer in the Dark" which as a partially sighted person I could say, "Spot on!" and applaud the sensitivity and imaginative understanding that she has brought to the part. One prime example is when she lacks the perceptive depth to see how she is from the top of a flight of steps. I wish I could get the people I know around to watch it and say, "Right, that’s sometimes how it’s like for me - do you understand?" The same is true of Terry Pratchett’s blind character in "Small Gods". I can say that they have "understood" to a very high degree an experience which I have but they don’t - which is a testimony to their abilities as artists. A piece of poetry I wrote from a woman’s point of view has met with an amount of admiration from ‘frin, who is deeply conscious of literature’s failure to sometimes misinterpret the female experience, so I suppose I have "succeeded" in a very minor fashion. So the question of success again depends entirely on one’s imaginative abilities - otherwise any form of writing or acting would be impossible.

How would you know? You would ask, seek guidance, seek correction, listen, attempt to empathise. But that is not just an issue for trying to imagine beyond a person of the opposite sex - it is an issue for trying to imagine being anyone other than yourself. How would I know if I’d "properly" imagined the life of an Orthodox priest? I’d observe, read, ponder, exchange ideas with him, talk to his parishioners, submit my suggested understanding and ask for his feedback. How else do you really know anything about another person? And again it comes down to empathic ability. I had a counsellor, a woman, who was absolutely brilliant at understanding where I was coming from and putting words around my ramblings. A rare ability, granted, but not an impossibility. Presumably you don’t know exactly what it’s like to live the lives of your parishioners, but say you had someone needing guidance trying to cope with depression - you’d either try and understand as much as you could about that person, their condition and general approaches to depression or, if you recognised your limits, point them in the direction of someone who you felt could do a better job of it than you.
 


Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
Is there a reason you haven't answered our question yet, Father G?

What are these fundamental differences?

(I'm not partially sighted in the pure sense of the phrase, Dyfrig, but I am so myopic that if my glasses got broken I'd have to hold someone's hand to get across a road. However surely the main difference between you andme doesn't lie in the function or otherwise of our eyes, but in the fact that you are Dyfrig and I'm Gill?)

Go on then Father - otherwise I might start a thread on why you might want to know!
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Gill:
I'm not partially sighted in the pure sense of the phrase, Dyfrig, but I am so myopic that if my glasses got broken I'd have to hold someone's hand to get across a road. However surely the main difference between you andme doesn't lie in the function or otherwise of our eyes, but in the fact that you are Dyfrig and I'm Gill?)

Which is my point - that the differences between women and men, if they can be identified, amount to the same thing as a difference between and you as Dyfrig and Gill, or you and Gregory as Gill and Gregory. Gregory seems to be positing that men and women are somehow different "species" or are at there heart not the same.
 


Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
Yes, that's what I thought you meant.

I really am beginning to be interested in why he wants to know, now!
 


Posted by ChastMastr (# 716) on :
 
A side note about men, emotion, vulnerability, etc.: It is only in the last 300 years or so (in some places much less time than that) that a man's NOT showing emotion was considered to be "more masculine." Men weep and embrace and even kiss openly in both Pagan and Christian periods all the way down at least till the 1700s, if not later, and are not considered to be less masculine (often are depicted/reported as cutting off people's heads in battle and the like in the same texts, whether literature or biography/history). The "John Wayne" archetype -- even the "loner" archetype -- is of much more recent vintage. I wonder if women as weepy/frail/helpless is also of similar vintage? How much of those images of male/female date from the Victorian period in particular? I mean, I don't think anyone thought of Elizabeth I as weepy and frail...
 
Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
Soyou're disagreeing with father G then? Though it's a little hard to disagree until he makes a statement... Too busy at church I expect. (Now why aren't I??)
 
Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Now, let's be fair to Gregory here, Ms Ashton - he has offered some explanation of his position (see his post of 21st July, 22.47). Whatever its merits, at least give him the respect of responding to it. Then he can respond further to any critique and the discussion can evolve.
 
Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
I didn't really think that was an explanation, Dyfrig! He says himself he's playing hard to get!

Actually, tillhe gets here, we could go on playing, but instead of 'men' and 'women' we could use the words, 'Clergy ' and 'laity' or even 'Priests' and 'deacons'. I suspect some of the answers will come out the same!

There was a very interesting article a few months ago by someone undergoing a sex-change (female to male) who documented the day-to-day changes s/he underwent as the testosterone kicked in.

But there aghain, are we comparing men with women, full stop, or men with women the week before their period, in which case both are probably equally as contentious and prone to violence.

(I had considered putting up a thread warning male Shipmates of where we all were in our cycles, but heck, it's more fun this way! Be Afraid! Be Very Afraid! Heh heh heh...)
 


Posted by IanB (# 38) on :
 
Dyfrig

I'm having trouble with your earlier megapost - the one in which you humanity, malenes and femaleness in terms of H, HW and HM. I guess it sums up pretty well not just where you are coming from, but quite a few objections some of us might have. Let me try to explain...

"Humanity" is a generic noun. I can't be human without first meeting a (potentially) infinite variety of criteria - I am either a man or a woman - (or perhaps some obscure genetic accident in certain cases), have straight or curly hair (or a sad absence thereof) etc. etc. - in other words, nobody ever born has the property of H'ness without being either W or M in your parlance. Plus a lot of other things. That as individuals is what we are. H is a group descriptor. To ask

quote:
But are these differences, whether we acknowledge them or not, ontological? Do they effect our basic "H"-ness?

is a category mistake (the second bit, that is, not asking if there are differences). The question is meaningless. You can't be H without first being W or M. H is a defined term. If you want a set-theory type description, it would not be that H is the superset of M and W, but that W and M map onto H in some way. This suggests that H may be greater (in some way) than M + F. Higher-maths types correct my rusty remembrance of these things if I'm wrong please.

One other wee problemette - is there not something a shade satirical in basing our argument on 19/20th mathematical thought patterns, and Aristotelian logic, when you had just accused the early church fathers of importing Greek secular ideas in another thread?

Now, where's that flak jacket...?

Ian
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Ah, touche, Mr Black!! (I had no idea that's what they were, of course - they were merely handy words to try and express what I'm trying to say. They shouldn't be taken to infer the whole of algebra, set theory and logic into what I'm trying to say. Yes, alright, I get your point about the Fathers now - BASTARD )

I take your point on the H/W+M issue. Let me make sure I've got your objection right, before I go any further:

In order to be "H", a person has to be either "M" or "W"

(i.e., there being no "H" existing separately from these two things),

in the same way that, for example, being "H" must involve having a hair colour in one of the categories "blond", "brown", "red", "black", "grey", "white".

How's that?
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Dyfrig

QUOTE:-

"In order to be "H", a person has to be either "M" or "W"

(i.e., there being no "H" existing separately from these two things),

in the same way that, for example, being "H" must involve having a hair colour in one of the categories "blond", "brown", "red", "black", "grey", "white".

How's that?"

GH: Ah Dyfrig ... there's the rub! This is the category dissonance between us. You seem to think that gender / sexuality differentiation is of the same order as hair colour, sightedness, being a particular kind of priest etc. etc. I used to get the same kind of response when women's non-ordination was compared to slavery, apartheid etc. You then go on to mispresent my position totally as suggesting that male and female are two different species!

Ian has made it quite clear that there are two distinct modes of being human ... male and female. You seem in your posts when cornered on this one to revert to seeing gender simply as a matter of psychology (and not sex specific anyway) for which one needs merely empathic imagination for "cross over." In setting the task I was interested to see whether your empathy extended to sexuality. It did not, (a bit cheeky and unfair of me I know ... particularly on this public medium!) Anyway this sort of suggests to me that sexual organs / hormones really are just "plumbing" / chemicals in your thought have merely a physical aspect (and this is the important point) somewhat disconnected from the psychological aspects. Maybe Cartesian dualism has created a semi-gnostic intellectualism in the west where the body and the mind inhabit diferent universes. This philosophical "solvent" has augmented the drive toward the curious notion that sexuality-in/as-gender is detachable and interchangeable. I am sure that trans-sexuals are satisfied neither with adopting the right kind of genitals nor with merely "feeling" a man / woman, (no pun intended). Being a man / woman is a whole integrated package ... body, mind and soul.

Dear Gill

I have resisted being drawn on the differences because I have usually found such arguments unhelpful. I start by saying (for example) that men judge distance better than women and women have superior linguistic ability than men and immediately we get a ding-dong between those who think that this is learned behaviour and those who think that it is an evolution thing tied up in our genes. I start off by saying that men's sexuality is different from womens and immediately we get a ding dong between those who see this as ingrained and those who think of it merely as a matter of practice and technique.

So, I wanted to flush out our feelings and beliefs on this one by asking a prior question. What is it really to be "man" ... to be "woman" ? I notice that this human ontology discomfits some contributors as much as much as ontology in another sphere ... christology ... for which there has been ample evidence on another thread.
 


Posted by IanB (# 38) on :
 
Dyfrig - Yes, I think so. The problem may be mine in misunderstanding some part of your argument of course.

(You may wish to cut the above statement out and frame it. It being Monday and me in a good mood.)

Ian
 


Posted by IanB (# 38) on :
 
Fr. Gregory wrote
quote:
Maybe Cartesian dualism has created a semi-gnostic intellectualism in the west where the body and the mind inhabit diferent universes.

Interesting you should say that - you must have posted that whilst I was preparing my reply to Dyfrig. I was originally going to add a similar thing with respect to body and soul but decided to chop it out.

Ian
 


Posted by ChastMastr (# 716) on :
 
Actually, I don't think I'm necessarily in disagreement with Fr. G at all... just saying that some of our ideas of "old-fashioned" notions of masculine/feminine are of quite recent vintage, and that I think the real issues lie deeper than John Wayne and the Victorians...
 
Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Dear Gregory,

You seem to think that gender / sexuality differentiation is of the same order as hair colour, sightedness, being a particular kind of priest etc. etc.

But as hair colour and some elements of sight loss are genetic, it would seem reasonable that gender has some similarity. There all part of your genetic make up. (Granted, the analogy with our societal roles is a different argument). If you want to convince me that there is something fundamental, ontologically different, then start providing some evidence. Otherwise, I will make a presumption in accordance with the Criminal Justice Act and take your silence as evidence that you are in not able to justify your own case.


I used to get the same kind of response when women's non-ordination was compared to slavery, apartheid etc.

But the Ontological argument has been used to justify both. There were serious scientific texts in the 18th and 19th centuries dividing the human race up – with white men at the top of the list, distinguished from African (and that therefore, being less than human, they can be used as slaves), Native American, Asian, the Irish (this was a book written by the English). Parts of Christianity have always tried to argue from ontology to justify a state of affairs, even when that state of affairs was clearly unjust. Again, it is up to you to prove that your submission that there are ontological differences between men and women and that as a consequence a woman cannot be a priest. You have not so much “played hard to get” as evaded the point entirely. And given the purposes to which this variation on the ontological argument have been put to tin the past then people are quite justified in being suspicious of your reasons for putting it forward. It is an argument that you’re going to have to be very, very careful with, Gregory.

You then go on to mispresent my position totally as suggesting that male and female are two different species!

I am sorry if I misrepresented your case. Please explain to me how men and women are so different that a woman cannot be a priest.

You seem in your posts when cornered ? on this one to revert to seeing gender simply as a matter of psychology (and not sex specific anyway) for which one needs merely empathic imagination for "cross over."

Firstly, you will note that I have acknowledged physical difference. I'm getting married in 2 months time - if I haven't sussed that the differences between me and 'frin aren't just psychological by now, I'm in a bit of schtuck!

Secondly, you are now misrepresenting me. You put forward this “test” to see if men and women are different. I responded by pointing out that the success of such a test was entirely dependent on your imaginative abilities, and also that the same could be said of trying to imagine being anything else. I can only respond to things you put forward, Gregory. Give me examples (like I asked you) and perhaps we can go somewhere.

In setting the task I was interested to see whether your empathy extended to sexuality. It did not, ….

So you’ve conclusively proved that Dyfrig Lewis is not very good at imagining what it’s like to be a woman. Give that man an A Level (although, as I said so myself anyway, it doesn't take a genius to have worked it out.) Thankfully, Dyfrig Lewis is not the measure of all humanity.

Anyway this sort of suggests to me that sexual organs / hormones really are just "plumbing" / chemicals in your thought have merely a physical aspect (and this is the important point) somewhat disconnected from the psychological aspects.

No, Gregory. If you bothered reading my bit on my own partial sight, you’d know that I recognised that the physical bits of us effect who “we” are. So not only does your test not help your point, you’ve also managed to draw the exact opposite of what the data I submitted in response actually said. (What is it you teach, by the way?)

You will notice that I cited an example of a successful imagining by a woman author of what it was like to be a man. This illustrates that, at an imaginative level, it is possible to understand the psychological effects of a particular physical circumstance. So I’d say that what you have is Dyfrig Lewis who cannot carry out your test very well, and Ann Michaels who can. Did this not occur to you in drawing your conclusions? What about, say, Simon Brett who wrote quite a well-presented study of the relationships between three generations of women in the radio series “After Henry”?

I have congenital cataracts, Gregory – that is, at a basic genetic level I am different from you and this manifests itself in physical difference (a growth over the ye leading to sight loss). Does that make us different ontologically?

We only know that there physical and psychological differences between men and women because they are observable – shape, bits, role in procreation, certain behaviours (we’re back to how you actually know something’s ontological nature again!) – following you reasoning about women, that upon encountering a person with a disability you will consider them to be ontologically different from you, as clearly they have physical and psychological manifestations of their disability?

I am sure that trans-sexuals are satisfied neither with adopting the right kind of genitals nor with merely "feeling" a man / woman, (no pun intended). Being a man / woman is a whole integrated package.

I am assuming this conclusion comes from first hand contact and dialogue with trans-gendered people?

The ball really is in your court, Gregory, to show (a) that there are ontological differences between men and women – I want a full list, with citations and justifications, mind! – and (b) to demonstrate why this means a woman cannot be a priest.
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Back to Ian....

So, "human beings" are expressed either as male or female.

So, does it follow from this that either one of them, by itself, is inadequate to represent the whole?
 


Posted by ptarmigan (# 138) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Father Gregory:
...
Maybe Cartesian dualism has created a semi-gnostic intellectualism in the west where the body and the mind inhabit diferent universes.
...

To me, the saying "Biology is not destiny" acknowledges that we are fundamentally biological, and thus have base instincts, but our destiny is more glorious. We can sublimate or rise above our biological urges.
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Dyfrig

I could counter that you never address my point about transexuals either.

My point is simple. Being man or woman is ontologically the necessary subsistence of being human. They are not interchangeable identities ... therefore they have their own distinctive properties (not at all simply to do with "biological urges").

I am not going further than this here into the ordination of women since this is not primarily what this thread is about.
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Ok, we'll leave the Ordination issue to one side for now (tho' as it's the main reason the Church argues about the ontology of men and women, I can't see how we can avoid coming back to it. Such strict delimitation between topics seems Western and passe, don't you think?)

My point is simple. Being man or woman is ontologically the necessary subsistence of being human. They are not interchangeable identities ... therefore they have their own distinctive properties ).

Errrr.......o-kay..... I think I heard that somewhere before. Now where was it? Oh yes....

I submit that there are real embedded differences between men and women deeper than the physical

You see, Gregory, we've done that bit. We've done the "this is what I think" part - now we're into something else. As the Guidelines say "Expect to be disagreed with".

I have attempted to exchange ideas here, with you and others. Others have offered things back, and when they (cf. IanB's post and my response) I have recognised their critique and attempted further dialogue. You seem to be of the view that repeating the same thing amounts to debate.

I have asked you four times now, and Gill has asked you also, to give some justificaiton for this point of view. I don't have a problem with you expressing it, Gregory, because I know it's a very important issue and can't be dismissed out of hand. But once someone asks you to explain the why of your opinion, at least give them the due respect they deserve in this forum. Otherwise, we can only conclude that you don't have any reasons for backing it up, which makes you look rather stupid.

Remember the Councils thread? I started from a position that there was no organic link between the NT and the Councils. After you stopped being silly and actually engaged with me you persuaded me that (tho' I might disagree with you on details) your views had valid bases and had a legitimate claim to be heard.

I am giving you that same opportunity here. Persuade me Gregory - persuade me that you have legitumate and articulatable arguments for your position.
 


Posted by nicolemrw (# 28) on :
 
um, father greg? i have no difficulty imagaining myself male at all. in fact, on occasion i've had some fairly detailed dreams about being male, complete with the relevent physical equipment. on one occasion i even dreamed about using it to have sex with a female. were those dreams accurate? i don't know. do you know that they weren't?

(btw, not that its anyones business, but in waking life i'm quite happy female, straight, and have never had other than straight sex, 'k? just so no one tries to pass this off as some sort of psychological abnormality or frustrated lesbianism. personally it makes me wonder about past lives, but i don't insist on it.)
 


Posted by splodge (# 156) on :
 
Of course "Biology is not Destiny" is only a valid slogan if there is a transcendental element to human nature, something that does not tie us to biological determinism. I think such determinism is its logical outcome,then I don't believe evolutionary theory is a total explanation of human nature since I am religious;
Now, what I posted about mammoth hunters was not a justification for cave man roles being perpetuated. Though I would take issue with the view that getting victorian women out of the mines to become good housewives was bad for women- today the world of work is a generally necessary for full social interaction, full economic freedom; in victorian times in the west (and Third World cities today?) work was different. The "satanic mills", sweatshops, long hours, poor wages, very hard, even brutal work with few rights. The rights and freedoms of housewives and workers in victorian times were probably overall pretty equal. The women were keen to have the greater status and social value attached to being at home.
Feminists' victorian great grandmothers were not stupid or brain washed.
Re: Fr G's ontology. While I disagree with the conclusion re women in the priesthood, I can see what he is getting at.
As an "average" the physical and psychological differences between men and women are real; beteen any two individual men and women respectively they may be, psychologically at least negligible. This does not diminish the point however.
If we are looking for a metaphysical ontology as Fr. Greg seems to be groping for (Physically and psychologically I would have thought women should make far better priests than men e.g verbal superiority) then one would have to postulate a fundamental dualism in "super" nature, mystical deep reality or the "isness" of things, where the duality splits down the sexes. Now the greek fathers and gnostics came close to this with the suggestion of the dualism of body and spirit, that woman was closer to the "earth and physical" than the man, and consequently less good or even evil. Certainly many ancient cultures associated spirit/body with the male/female principles respectively in this way, though in our society the idea seems absurd. However in certain Far Eastern thought the dyad did not represent principles where one was thought good and its opposite bad, but simply the two poles of existence, the tension between the two being the force which drove creation. For instance in Taoism the "Yin" & "Yang" principle which (roughly) corresponded to the female and male and also to body/spirit, were not in real opposition, but necessarily complementary and intertwined forces and (the dualism was considered, paradoxically compatible with an ultimate ultimate reality, which was a kind of dynamic monism)How such a view would translate into christian religion I don't know; though since the "yin" and "yang" both have spiritual aspects then both male and female would presumably have different but EQUALLY important spiritual roles. Incidentally a revived christian perspective valuing creation, and the body as much as heaven and the soul is intimately connected with the rediscovery of the feminine in the divine (e.g Matthew Fox's creation spirituality)
Fr. Greg - a dose of creation spirituality might give you your ontology of male-femaleness, but not the kind you want! It certainly favours there being women priests.
 
Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Go grief splodge it is you westerners that need creation spirituality not us Orthodox!

Do you know of Orthodoxy's critique of western rapacious and our veneration of matter as a vehicle of the divine?

Do you know of our witness for the ecological revolution?

Do you know that our salvation doctrine is cosmic and anthropocentric only in so far as we are inextricably tied to and within the whole Universe?

Dualism? Female more deadly than the male? You must be joking!

Where is the feminine in spirituality?

Where is she whom even the cherubim and seraphim cannot match? (Mary of course ... no domestic woman in Orthodoxy).

Where is the conception of the Church and soul as feminine?

Where is there an attempt at sophiology that doesn't usurp christology?

Whose fathers referred to the Spirit in feminine terms, (Syriac)?

The east of course.

It is the patriarchy dominated west (more especially in Mary-marginalising Protestantism) that denied the feminine, not us.

If you don't mind me saying, us Orthodox are used to other Christians casting all sorts of heresies our way ... heresies that truly belong at their point of origin.

Look carefully your own religious traditions. When you start honouring Mary (the New Eve ... St. Irenaeus) as deeply as we do then perhaps we shall have something to share.

If you do venerate the Mother of God, then I apologise.
 


Posted by RuthW (# 13) on :
 
Fr G: Still no answer to Dyfrig's and Gill's question, eh?

About this idea that one must be either female or male in order to be human ... what about those people born with chromosomal abnormalities that make their sex ambiguous? Are they not human?
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Ruth

This is what I said to Gill ...

"I have resisted being drawn on the differences because I have usually found such arguments unhelpful. I start by saying (for example) that men judge distance better than women and women have superior linguistic ability than men and immediately we get a ding-dong between those who think that this is learned behaviour and those who think that it is an evolution thing tied up in our genes. I start off by saying that men's sexuality is different from womens and immediately we get a ding dong between those who see this as ingrained and those who think of it merely as a matter of practice and technique.

So, I wanted to flush out our feelings and beliefs on this one by asking a prior question. What is it really to be "man" ... to be "woman" ? I notice that this human ontology discomfits some contributors as much as much as ontology in another sphere ... christology ... for which there has been ample evidence on another thread."
END QUOTE

I will now go a little further ...

In what follows, I draw on this thread and the other on "priestly genitalia."

The priest at the altar must "image" Jesus since He (Christ) is the celebrating High Priest. In Catholic/Orthodox Eucharistic theology the celebrating priest is not merely a "worship leader" or a representative of Christ in the sense that an ambassador represents the Head of State. In these last two examples the gender of the representative is incidental to He/She who is represented. In the Church Christ acts through the priest who in ESSENTIAL matters (ie not Jewish or circumcised) must configure to Christ Himself.

I have tried to show that gender is an essential and not incidental aspect of our common humanity. I then went on to consider whether or not Christ could have been female. I think I showed that maleness was not incidental or accidental to the Incarnation. I then claimed that the burden of proof ... that God didn't know what He was doing or that 1st century Judaism was a defective culture for the Incarnation (by excluding women from certain functions sacred functions) or that Christ would have knowingly held back from the truth for pragmatic reasons ... this burden of proof falls on those who would ordain women to the priesthood, (and I don't mean Methodist ministers here, I mean priests).

Now, on the matter of WHY 1st century Judaism and Christ Himself did not admit women to certain sacred functions one has first to recognise that women did exercise certain ministerial functions that were to do with the Word, (analagous to Protestant conceptions of ministry ... not priesthood). So, there were women prophets (Anna), women preachers (Mary Magadalene), women religious / political leaders (Esther). In those sacred functions that have a sacramental and sacrificial quality about them though (eg. the Levitical priesthood) women were never admitted.

Now this is not just about menstruation or else post menopausal women might have been priests. It is about how in a sacramental-sacrificial system (which Protestants generally do not have) the priest images the divine action in and through him. The Jews were not blind to the fact that only God can deal with sin and the maleness of the priest that imaged this had everything to do with the fact that Israel had to be distinguished from her pagan neighbours who also had sacramental-sacrificial systems. In these, of course, fertility and not redemption was a primary theme. Not unsurprisingly this gave rise to a debased religiosity where divinity was naturalised and human sexuality divinised. Interestingly, in those sacramental-sacrificial Christian systems where the earth-feminine-mother has reasserted itself (see Rosemary Radford Ruether's "Women Church") the priesting of women (why do Christians resist the term "priestess"?) is part and parcel of a religious reconstruction in which the Universe is born out of the God/wom or Cosmic Egg.

This radical feminist agenda literally creates a new religion where "God" is stripped of transcendence and Fox-like we equate spirituality with getting better acquainted with our sensuality (sex 'n dirt school).

Protestant Christians avoid this altogether by sticking to their non-sacramental non-sacrificial practice of ministry ... but this is not the same as priesthood where the Image and the Presence are controllong factors.

The key isue then is whether there is any virtue in the sacramental-sacrificial system. There is because look what happens when you dump it. You get a cultus completely indifferent to gender which then conditions people to thinking of their own gender and sexuality as merely "plumbing" or an inconsequential aspect of their humanity. In arguing their case our Protestant brethren are arguing backwards from their own conclusions. The difference with us Orthodox and Catholics is that SEX / GENDER MATTERS.

... which brings me finally to the key issue ...

in what sense(s) does sex / gender matter?

because:-

(1) As Ian has shown the only way to be human is to be man or woman
.... as to your own example of chromosomal abnormalities .... exceptions make bad law.

(2) Mens' and womens' sexuality is different. It's not just a question of intercourse, it's to do with how we relate to each other.

(3) In religious symbolism the fertility component must be feminine and on the human side. To divinise it leads to idolatry and pagnism. That is why the role of Mary .... on the human side .... is so important in orthodox Christianity.

So Ruth, your gentle goading about "tell us the disabling differences ... anything you can do we can do ... misses the mark by a long way. There is nothing that a man could DOin priesthood or anything else that a woman couldn't DO as well if not better. Let's be clear about that . Arguments concerning female ordination from the Orthodox/Catholic side have nothing to do with function and everything to do with being man or woman, sexuality and imaging God as transcendent to the material realm.

I am sure that there will be a lot more to be said about this.

I am going to post this on the genitalia thread because I have now brought these two threads together. They may or may not diverg again. I just didn't want the male / female issues to get lost (as they usually do) in equal opportunities.
 


Posted by Alan Cresswell (# 31) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Fr. Gregory:
The priest at the altar must "image" Jesus since He (Christ) is the celebrating High Priest....In the Church Christ acts through the priest who in ESSENTIAL matters (ie not Jewish or circumcised) must configure to Christ Himself.

Hmmm, why is sexuality an essential matter whereas ancestry isn't? WHo decided that it was the fact that Christ was male that was important, not that he was Jewish, when deciding who could or couldn't image him?

Alan
 


Posted by gandalf35 (# 934) on :
 
Sheeees, doesn't anyone watch the discovery channel here. there are distinctive
neurological, and biological diffrerences. But as far as intellignce I thin we are, on an average, equal. If this has been said I apologize, I didn't read all of the postings.
 
Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Thank you, Gregory.

The priest at the altar must "image" Jesus since He (Christ) is the celebrating High Priest.

It is about how … the priest images the divine action in and through him … the maleness of the priest that imaged [God’s forgiveness of sin] had everything to do with the fact that Israel had to be distinguished from her pagan neighbours who also had sacramental-sacrificial systems … [The fertility aspects of neighbouring other religions] unsurprisingly this gave rise to a debased religiosity where divinity was naturalised and human sexuality divinised.

I have a problem here. Firstly, Holy Tradition teaches us (in the book of Genesis) that God created man in his own image as male and female, therefore it doesn’t seem to make sense to speak of only the male being able to “image” God in this. (And before we get into the false division between “image” and “likeness”, that is the result of a literalist thought form imposed on Hebrew poetic parallelism). I’m also concerned with the emotive language being used here – “debased” and insinuating that to be in favour of women priests you're some kind of Fox-like pagan – as you seem to be equating the priesting of women with some bizarre fertility cults.

However, let’s consider matters of more substance. Undoubtedly – as Holy Tradition teaches (in the letter to the Hebrews) Jesus is our great high priest.

But your view of both yours and Christ’s priesthood is dangerously limited and is at the very edge of the Chalcedonian definition of the God-Man. It also suggests that you have missed a fundamentl point of much of the OT priesthood.

As stated in the piece I linked to at the Assyrian Church’s website, “priesthood” is a dual role, and your focus seems to be on only one. The article refers only briefly to the priest’s representation of Christ – but deals at length with the priest being the representative of the people, acting on their behalf in the drama of the liturgy (because it would get a bit crowded if everybody was up there), expressing in his words the prayers of the whole church. It is as much about imaging the people before God as the other way around. And this is drawn straight from the OT – the priest is there to act for and on behalf of the people, bringing their sacrifices to the holy place. This is the sense in which the writer to the Hebrews describes Jesus Chrftist as our great high priest – he, fully human, is our representative before God (“we have an advocate who plead with the Father on our behalf” as St John would say in another part of Tradition). Your view of Jesus is incredibly lopsided, Gregory, in that it totally underestimates the “fully human” part. Jesus Christ, fully divine, is also the fully human response of obedience to God, the full meaning of being “Israel”, “he who struggles with God”.

For the moment let’s consider your view that a priest must be congruent with the thing that the priest is “imaging”. Fair enough. So, if God is “male”, the priest must be male. ….

So….the other half of a priest’s work, of imaging the people to God – how does this work then? The priest is not congruent with at least 50% of those he is purporting to represent, because they are fundamentally ontologically different. Oh dear. If I were ever to become a priest I couldn’t even represent the person I am marrying because we are so fundamentally different.

And it gets worse! The God-Man, being male, is not congruent with half the human population! Therefore he cannot be their priest! And as he is not congruent, what he did not assume he cannot save.


[R]adical feminist agenda literally creates a new religion where "God" is stripped of transcendence and Fox-like we equate spirituality with getting better acquainted with our sensuality (sex 'n dirt school).

Not a fan of Fox (an idiot of the highest order, as far as I’m concerned), but the first half of this sentence assumes that “male” and “transcendent” are interchangeable; the second half forgets (shame on you – was Chalcedon in vain?) that Jesus shat and pissed like the rest of us.


The difference with us Orthodox and Catholics is that SEX / GENDER MATTERS.

Of course gender matters – that’s why there are some issues that are germaine to women (e.g. cervical cancer) that are not to men. It matters at the basic level of human reproduction. But does that “matter” when we consider trying to image “God”? I remain unconvinced by your argument. Let’s see…

(1) the only way to be human is to be man or woman

Yee-ees – in the likeness of God he created them, male and female. That doesn’t help your case. What it suggests that the “male” on its own is an inadequate expression for imaging of “God”.

chromosomal abnormalities .... exceptions make bad law.

Yes, Gregory, but am I fully human?

(2) Mens' and womens' sexuality is different. It's not just a question of intercourse, it's to do with how we relate to each other.

That’s just stating the bleedin’ obvious, innit? Of course the experience differs because the external mechanisms are different. But we’re still no nearer establishing your case – as I’ve said before, my physical body, with its various imperfections, gives me a different experience from someone without those imperfections. But that’s because I’m me.

(3) In religious symbolism the fertility component must be feminine and on the human side.

Now this is interesting. Where do you get this from, sir? From Holy Tradition – oops, no because the Bible teaches us female and fertile images of God as well, and the Syrian fathers taught that the Holy Spirit was feminine (but I bet you’re not allowed to call the Spirit ”She” during a service.) So – justify this. All the other bits of your argument (the ones that don’t justify your position) you’ve explained. Now we’ve come to the actual crux, you make an unsustained statement. I repeat – in the image of God he created them, male and female. What does that tell us?

To divinise [the feminine] leads to idolatry and pagnism. So here we have it – Christianity = maleness, Paganism = femaleness. Or as they would have said at Animal Farm – one willy good, no willy bad.

That is why the role of Mary .... on the human side .... is so important in orthodox Christianity.

So are women saved because Christ or by Mary?

Arguments concerning female ordination from the Orthodox/Catholic side have nothing to do with function and everything to do with being man or woman, sexuality and imaging God as transcendent to the material realm.

Again, there is this false “transcendent=male” / “female=material” split. Other than the cultural expressions of peoples who treated women as objects rather than fully human, what is the basis for such a view?

I’m sorry Gregory, but this is theologising after the event to justify a social state of affairs, rather a true encounter with the living God.
 


Posted by ChastMastr (# 716) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dyfrig:

But the Ontological argument has been used to justify both. There were serious scientific texts in the 18th and 19th centuries


Yes; very recent by ecclesiastical and doctrinal standards, and in opposition to traditional Christian theology as well. In some ways I consider this period to be the real Dark Ages. St. Paul would have never put up with the nonsense of Africans and others being "less human."

I just wanted to jump in here and I hope I am not being rude to you; but from my readings (of historical periods, etc.) this is the honest impression I have got of such matters.
 


Posted by ChastMastr (# 716) on :
 
My own views of this I've posted elsewhere, by the way, and they have some (but not all) of Fr. G's statements. For me, it is not a specifically developed theology/ecclesiology that says a woman cannot be a priest; I start from 2,000 years of Christian tradition and believe that the onus to prove that (all of a sudden, in apparent opposition to the holiest and wisest teachers and saints we revere, including the earliest ones) women can be ordained to the priesthood. I remain unconvinced thus far; and it has nothing to do with holiness, abilities or skills, and everything to do, as far as I can tell, with mystical symbolism.

But for me it is not a ministerial issue; it is a sacramental one.
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
it has nothing to do with holiness, abilities or skills, and everything to do, as far as I can tell, with mystical symbolism.

Ok, David, what does a man symbolise about God that a woman doesn't, bearing in mind their mutual God-createdness?
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
I'm totally lost as you're all waaaaay to scholarly for me. But after reading [that's reading rather than understanding!] all the posts I can't help thinking of that old Enoch Powell joke when he asks St Peter at the heavenly gates what God is like and gets told, "Well, she's black ..."

quote:
I repeat – in the image of God he created them, male and female. What does that tell us?

That we all all have the divine spark within us and reflect a small part of the image of God. That men and women are equally valued and loved by the Lord and that we are designed to work together. Not better not worse but equal. And that That the roles that the Church expects women and men to furfill have more to do with tradition than Biblical revelation?! [I may respect your tradition but I reserve the right to disagree with it].

Sorry for the weird emphasise but if we were in the pub I'd be banging the table now.

Tubbs
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Just one more thought - Alistair McGrath (no liberal he!) makes a very pertienent point when he's discussing the use of "Mother" for God (ss his "Christian Theology: An Introduction".) He notes that to overstate the maleness of God is as much a heresy as to overstate a femaleness.

To do so is simply to fall into the direct opposite heresy of the "pagan" feminisation that the "male"-ites so despise.
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Dyfrig

We are going round and round and getting dizzy! You make a number of distorting responses to my post .... especially the funny Animal Farm jibe .... at no point am I indicating inferiority to the female ... but I do actually think there are problems attached to the use of the feminine pronoun. Anyway to one or two other points ...

The priest represents us to God in the context of Christ's High Priesthood? Most surely. But there again (as you infer) Christ's High Priesthood is not debilitated by his maleness ... so why should ours be?

Concerning imaging God ... you stetch my point too far. I am ONLY talking about the coherence of a male priest and Jesus in their connectedness ... I am not making a point about creation at all. A woman is fully qualified to be a bearer of the divine ... for goodness sake, the Theotokos was and you know I believe that!

So, the mystical symbolism has to do with God-language. It's NOT that God is male, it's that male language is better suited to the description of creation in montheistic theology (ie., Judaism, Christianity, Islam). Once again you try to rubbish my argument by claiming that I think that women are not worthy enough etc. etc. Nothing of the kind! The male's role is the maturation of a new individual is limited (physically) to conception. That's why, I believe, montheistic / transcendent theism prefers male language ... because you don't get the Universe as God's "body" ... whereas in those pagan religions where the feminine aspect is to the fore, you do.

There is all the difference in the world between the language and the reality. God is Himself (no apology) completely beyond agenda. You know us Orthodox types are hot on apophatic theology. So what gives?!

PS ... the sex ;n dirt thing is closet docetism ... I'm talking about the feminist spirituality of the erotic ... rolling in the dirt (literally) ... all sorts of other highly exciting things as getting through to the femine divine (and getting males out of their head). You may not have come across this. Bodily functions are fine but we don't have to make them into sacraments!
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
There are so many (crucial) typos in the last 2 paras I am repeating them corrected. Sorry! (corections in UPPERCASE).

There is all the difference in the world between the language and the reality. God is Himself (no apology) completely beyond GENDER. You know us Orthodox types are hot on apophatic theology. So what gives?!

PS ... the sex 'n dirt thing is NOT closet docetism ... I'm talking about the feminist spirituality of the erotic ... rolling in the dirt (literally) ... all sorts of other highly exciting things as getting through to the feminine divine (and getting males out of their heads). You may not have come across this. Bodily functions are fine but we don't have to make them into sacraments!
 


Posted by ChastMastr (# 716) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dyfrig:
it has nothing to do with holiness, abilities or skills, and everything to do, as far as I can tell, with mystical symbolism.

Ok, David, what does a man symbolise about God that a woman doesn't, bearing in mind their mutual God-createdness?



Here's my post from "priestly genitalia":
....
Well, one argument some say has weight is this:
(1) God is masculine in relationship to His creation and to the Church; He is the Bridegroom and we are the Bride; He impregnates us, not we Him. Masculinity and femininity, as part of the order of the universe (and not merely in human culture, certainly not merely human constructions), exist to represent/symbolise/more? these two mystical poles of reality.

(2) The tradition of male-only priests (as well as other things) partly conveys this cosmic order on a sacramental level.

This does not prove that women should not be priests; there may be counter-arguments -- but this may be one aspect of this issue.
....
(I re-emphasise here, as I have in other places, that my lack of being convinced of the validity of the ordination of women to the priesthood is rooted primarily in Christian tradition; I simply have seen no arguments thus far which seem strong enough to overturn the last two thousand years.)
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Dear Gregory,

I am grateful that you have now responded, and what you have said has given me a far greater appreciation of the Catholic & Orthodox arguments (as was my intention when I started the other thread - there seems little point in continuing both).

However, I still remain thoroughly unconvinced of its solidity, and some of your arguments have actually helped reinforce me in my original view. You may be going around in circles, but I am virtually where I was on the 19th of July.

I believe that you are honest when you say that you don’t intend to devalue women - however, I believe you’re also being naïve in thinking that using language as you are, assigning male and female in a "God vs. Not God" manner, can have any other effect than to promote a "Man = Male = Good" vs "Woman = Female = Not So Good", with all its consequences for male-female relations. But that is far too big an issue to get into and is probably the subject of another thread.

I shall return to something you said earlier today:

In the Church Christ acts through the priest who in ESSENTIAL matters (ie not Jewish or circumcised) must configure to Christ Himself.

(Of course, you still have to answer Alan’s query as to why certain genetic elements are considered essential whilst others aren’t).

Assuming for the moment that this is right, and assuming that we are agreed that the "God" bit of Jesus Christ, by definition, is beyond gender language and beyond "imaging" (neither a man nor a woman could do such a thing), what you are essentially saying is that this part of the priest’s role in the Church is to image the Incarnate, Jesus Christ.

Your argument is that only a man can do this, because there are certain ontological elements in maleness that require a congruence between the imagor and the imaged.

So, only a man can image the God-Man Jesus, not because a man is God-like (that would be the height - or is it the depth? - of hubris) but because he shares with Jesus an essential maleness.

I shan’t repeat my argument that the priest’s role is dual, but in response to it you said, (as you infer) Christ's High Priesthood is not debilitated by his maleness ... so why should ours be? … I am ONLY talking about the coherence of a male priest and Jesus in their connectedness ...

This is where the whole thing breaks down.

You have argued, in order to justify a male-only priesthood, that the priest must be male to represent Jesus, because of a requirement of "coherence … in their connectedness"...

However, you argue at the same time that Jesus’ and your maleness is not debilitated by … maleness", so you can represent the human female (with whom you have no ontolgocial congruence).

This becomes meaningles - because your whole premise is that women and men do not have this "coherence of connectedness" at the ontological level, therefore as a woman cannot represent the man Jesus, equally neither can you as a man represent any woman in any act. You, or I, or my vicar, simply do no have that ontological "sameness" with women about us.

So we have the curious position of you requiring congruence in maleness for one part of your role, while arguing that lack of congruence does affect the other part of your role.

I am not a logician. Neither am a scientist. And I only paddle in the shallow end of theology. But I am a lawyer - it is my ousia, if you will - and it is my job to see if words fit together, to see if they have some coherence, that they hang together in some rational order. And yours don’t. Consider a contract on the following terms:

"Clause 1: I promise to pay you £300, which is the price of two motors cars.

Clause 2: The price of two motors is £600, which is the price I will pay you."

These two clauses are contradictory. Both cannot co-exist together. A court would have to consider, bearing in mind all the facts and the intentions of the parties, which one should have effect, and which one should be struck out completely.

If you are dizzy it’s because you are spinning on the spot, trying to use one argument of neccessary congruence to justify one position, whilst using its opposite, of their being no need of congruence, to justify another.

Unless words have lost all meaning, you cannot have both positions, Gregory. Either you have congruence of maleness on both planes of your priesthood - representing Jesus to the people, and representing the people to God, which of course bars you (and Jesus) from representing women at all - or you have congruence of humanity, which means you have no argument against the preisting of women, There is no third way here.
 


Posted by Gill (# 102) on :
 
quote:
Arguments concerning female ordination from the Orthodox/Catholic side have nothing to do with function and everything to do with being man or woman

Doh! I'm tired. VERY tired. And I have trawled through this thread in the hope of understanding some of it - and laughed outloud at the Orwell misquote, thanks, Dyfrig! - and have not really understood anything except that...
...I DO believe you don't mean to insult, FG, but you should try out your empathy skills here. You would discover that what you say does make me feel devalued, not to say leaving me with no hope of representation of God or TO God.

Speaking of function, how come in your church married men can be priests but not Bishops?

Is this a matter of function, modelling or yet more dubious theology?

How do married guys feel about it?

Oh, and one more thing...

quote:
So, the mystical symbolism has to do with God-language. It's NOT that God is male, it's that male language is better suited to the description of creation in montheistic theology (ie., Judaism, Christianity, Islam).

Oh for GOODNESS' sake! What utter crap! What the HELL is 'male language'???


 


Posted by Timothy (# 292) on :
 
As for male imagery being more suitable to monotheistic God-language... There is a passage in one of the prophetic books of the OT (I don't have an adequate concordance handy, so won't try to look it up--maybe somebody else can)that speaks of Israel suckling at God's breast. Which seems as powerful and apt a metaphor as ritual cannibalism.

As for the rest, I'm a Quaker and don't believe in ordination, or in priesthood in the sense most of you mean it. So carry on...

Timothy
 


Posted by Ferg (# 33) on :
 
Hang on here... are you saying that an arguement MUST be articulatebale to be valid? Maybe you just mean here in Puragtory?

I have enjoyed reading this thread but I don't have much to add except that the tome seems to be headed towards Hell. Hmmmm... maybe I am oversensitive....

Ferg
 


Posted by Ferg (# 33) on :
 
Whoops
Have made BASIC error of missing the fouth page! Please disregard my last post...

Ferg
 


Posted by Ferg (# 33) on :
 
OK... Third post in a row... Sorry.

It's an interesting idea that a male god metaphor reminds us that creation is not God's body. That god impregnates creation rather than creation impreganting God.

It is a good resister to the "everything is god, I am god" idea I suppose.

I do wonder if our dcotrine of creation is influenced by gender ideas though. Perhaps christian doctrine says creation is not God's body because we don't really think women are very nice? Doing all their bodily pregnancy stuff.

People who write theology have always been the people who like having their noses in books and their hands clean... Combine this with the idea that we only honour ideas we can argue with logic and of these ideas we can give them more power by writing them down...

I wonder if menstruation and baby bearing has stopped women divorcing themselves from their bodies as thoroughly as we men have in our clean ivory towers...(WE don't have any nasty sticky stuff coming out of our bodies!). Just noticed how Freudian this last paragraph was... delightful!

So I guess I am in the sex and dirt camp...

Ferg
 


Posted by RuthW (# 13) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ferg:
(WE don't have any nasty sticky stuff coming out of our bodies!)

Oh, really? Never? (Sorry, couldn't resist that one!)

Fr. G: I'm with Gill on how your language makes me feel. You may not mean to devalue women, but you've certainly done so in my eyes. And the prodding was to elicit the full explanation which you have now given.

I'm bowing out of this one now -- it hurts too much.
 


Posted by Ferg (# 33) on :
 
The policy of this administration is to neither deny or confirm the existence of white sticky stuff!

Ferg
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Oh bother, a missing "not".

Insert the following clause at the relevant point in my last post:

"while arguing that lack of congruence does NOT affect the other part of your role."
 


Posted by Tubbs (# 440) on :
 
I have also trawled through this and the other thread and I still can't see why in the 21st Century that people seriously argue that I can't do such and such because I'm a girl.

No one has yet managed to refute the arguement that male and female He created them. Both with the divine spark. Both with the image of God within them. Both reflecting the glory of God. Not better than but equal to.

I think this is the other great circular argument.

Tubbs
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Another thing has struck me - in Tradition, the Holy Apostle Peter declared the whole church (presumably all of it, women and men) to be a royal priesthood.

Now, bearing in mind IanB's quite helpful piece on the different word used here (hier..something or other as opposed to presbyteros), let us consider the requirement of "congruence" in this context.

Presumably there is congruence of the whole church with Jesus Christ in order to be able to image him to the world, and equally congurence with the rest of humanity (and creation itself - humanity being priest of creation too according to Orthodox thought...and, of course, creation is female! ) as well. Otherwise, by Gregory's reasoning of required ontological congruence, it could not "priest" Jesus. With what, in Jesus, is the corporate Church congruent? Is it his maleness?

And if the whole cannot be a priesthood due to lack of congruence in maleness, why would the Holy Apostle use such a word?

This juxtaposing of male and female language as appropriate/inappropriate for describing "God" is a red herring. There is no must about its use. As has already been pointed out, that part of Holy Tradition written in the Old Testament contains descriptions of God in feminine terms (and sometimes non-human terms - rocks, lions, chickens) so to read back into these Classical categories (from that oh-so woman friendly society) is both anachronistice and does violence to the testimony of the people of God.

[UBB fixed]

[ 25 July 2001: Message edited by: Karl ]
 


Posted by Dyfrig (# 15) on :
 
Karl, you're an angel and I want to have your babies.

Dyfrig, King of the Crap Code
 


Posted by Moo (# 107) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dyfrig:
Karl, you're an angel and I want to have your babies.

I will refrain from asking about the mechanics of this.

Moo
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
........ which is one of my points. Of course, if it's just plumbing! ...
 
Posted by Karl (# 76) on :
 
He'd have to join the queue....

One's things for certain. It'd been in vitro.....
 


Posted by Fr. Gregory (# 310) on :
 
Dear Gill

Speaking of function, how come in your church married men can be priests but not Bishops?

Is this a matter of function, modelling or yet more dubious theology?

GH: Because bishops have too much on their plate and need to take a step back from the world. Celibacy and marriage are BOTH gifts to ministry.

How do married guys feel about it?

GH: Just fine thank you. Speaking as an ex-Anglican I was always suspicious of people who wanted to become bishops.

Oh, and one more thing...


quote:
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So, the mystical symbolism has to do with God-language. It's NOT that God is male, it's that male language is better suited to the description of creation in montheistic theology (ie., Judaism, Christianity, Islam).
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Oh for GOODNESS' sake! What utter crap! What the HELL is 'male language'???

GH: Our Father who art in heaven .....

I think we just have to agree to disagree. Some of us here feel that gender is incidental to being human ... some feel that it is essential to being human. For those who posit difference having male and female priests is essential because otherwise God and humans are not being properly represented, imaged or talked about / acted upon. Others feel that such differences do not compromise equality if certain functions or modes of being are reserved to either sex. Often we ALL (me included) use symbolic language to bolster an a priori position which has either sociological or personal references, or both. I don't see this one being solved through discourse. Let Gamaliel have the last word. I'm off this (and the other) thread now. Thanks.


 


Posted by RuthW (# 13) on :
 
As this discussion has converged with the discussion going on another thread, I am closing it. To continue, please see "priestly genitalia."
 


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