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Posted by SeraphimSarov (# 4335) on :
 
It seems to be that the bad review was only to do with the bee in the bonnet over the Missouri Synod "closed communion" policy
I guess that was the reason for the "cold and dour" label. I can't see anything else that would justify that description Although most mw reports are very subjective, this seemed more so

link to report

[ 23. May 2012, 04:35: Message edited by: Mamacita ]
 
Posted by Yerevan (# 10383) on :
 
I was confused too. One minute the church is friendly and the welcome "warm and sincere". The next minute its "cold and dour".

[Confused]
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
The welcome was warm and sincere. The worship experience was cold and dour in my opinion. Sorry, but it was.
 
Posted by Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras (# 11274) on :
 
I didn't suppose the perceived coldness of the worship was to do with the closed communion policy of the LC-MS, which is well known. It reminds me of a friend's description many years ago of the early mass at a TEC parish where he said the priest entered grimly in from the sacristy, projecting the attitude that, "OK, we're here to do Mass, dammit."
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
The closed communion policy had something to do with it, I admit. But contributing to my opinion were the absence of an exchange of peace (which I forgot to mention in the report), the weak organ support for congregational singing, the difficult-to-sing nature of the service music, and the segue immediately into Sunday school without an intervening intermission for refreshments.

There can be no question that the pastor knew I was a visitor. Instead of (or in addition to) exchanging pleasantries, could he not have taken me aside and had a conversation with me something like:

P. Did you want to take communion with us this morning?

A. Yes, I had hoped to be able to.

P. Are you a baptized Christian?

A. Yes, I am.

P. You know, we as Lutherans believe that Christ is really and truly present in the eucharistic bread and wine. Is that your belief too?

A. Yes, it is.

P. And we believe that Christ gave up his body and shed his blood for all of us. Do you believe that?

A. Yes, I do.

P. And we also believe that in order to receive the eucharist worthily, you should be at peace with God and with your fellow man. Do you feel that you are?

A. Yes, pastor. I am a sinner, but I am sorry for my sins and I trust in God's mercy to forgive me.

P. Welcome, then, to our table, dear Miss Amanda.

The above would have taken all of 60 seconds and would have been far more appropriate than "I'll bet you're glad to exchange the heat of Arizona for the coolness of Colorado, aren't you?"
 
Posted by uffda (# 14310) on :
 
As a Lutheran from the other side of the aisle (ELCA), the one thing I found really surprising about the report, was the weakness in singing the liturgy. Miss Amanda's feelings about Lutheran Liturgical Music notwithstanding, Divine Service 1 in the Lutheran Service Book is,
IIRC, the Hillert setting, which has been the principal setting in the Lutheran Book of Worship
(green book) since 1978, and one of the principal settings in Lutheran Worship (the immediate predecessor of the LSB) since 1982.
I can well understand that the setting might be formidible to someone not used to Lutheran Liturgy, but, unless THIS congregation was unused to it, I can't imagine it being poorly sung.

The "one, holy, Christian, and apostolic church"
is a paricular idiosyncratic wording for Lutherans, dating back to Luther himself, who
translated it that way. This usage was not finally abandoned in the ELCA until the 1978 book
where the word "catholic" appeared in the text of the creed, while the word "Christian" appeared in a footnote. One of the reasons for the Green Book's failure to win Missouri Synod backing was their reluctance to go against the word "Christian" in the creed.

There is ongoing debate within the Missouri Synod about its Communion policy and whether it should be best described as "closed" or "close."
Often the decision is up to the pastor, and since Miss Amanda noted the pastor was a "vacancy" pastor, perhaps a "don't rock the boat during the interim" policy was in effect.

But overall the worship described in Miss Amanda's report seems to ring true with some of the comments on "High Church Lutheranism," a recent thread here in Ecclesiantics.
 
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by uffda:


There is ongoing debate within the Missouri Synod about its Communion policy and whether it should be best described as "closed" or "close."

(Former LCMS) That distinction always irritated me; it seems like doublespeak. If you are telling certain people they can't participate fully, it's closed.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by uffda:
There is ongoing debate within the Missouri Synod about its Communion policy and whether it should be best described as "closed" or "close."
Often the decision is up to the pastor, and since Miss Amanda noted the pastor was a "vacancy" pastor, perhaps a "don't rock the boat during the interim" policy was in effect.

Well, you see, the thing is, the service handout (which I didn't save, so I'm not quoting verbatim) had a paragraph that basically read: "We don't want to discourage anyone from receiving the eucharist [that is an exact quote as I remember it], but our beliefs regarding the eucharist are in keeping with those set forth in the Small Catechism, which we encourage you to read. Visitors to our church are encouraged to speak with the pastor regarding the reception of communion. We appreciate your understanding of our policy in this regard."

Now, admittedly, I didn't speak with the pastor, but I don't think I'm being unusually peevish (although that particular vice is not absent from my personal catalog of vices) in expecting the pastor to have taken the initiative to approach me on the subject, as I mentioned in my earlier post.

So far as the service music goes, I don't dispute its heritage, and I am grateful to uffda for setting it out. But I've been to many Lutheran services, including Evangelical, Missouri Synod and Wisconsin Synod, and I've always felt that the music presented unnecessary difficulties for a congregation unschooled in the art of singing. And Miss Amanda is not exactly unschooled in these areas. Plus, at this particular service, the fact that the organist kept the volume too low didn't help things along at all. The gentleman sitting behind me (who had patted me on the shoulder) was having a particularly tough time of it, as were the few other voices that I heard. I simply gave up after a while, as did most others within my range of hearing.

[ 23. May 2012, 19:27: Message edited by: Amanda B. Reckondwythe ]
 
Posted by Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras (# 11274) on :
 
I would like to pose a somewhat tangential question about difficult-to-sing Lutheran service music and hymnody. This may be a regional peculiarity of Lutheranism in Texas, but at both what are now ELCA congregations and at LC-MS ones, I have experienced hymns being sung at sonic speed as a matter of course, and sometimes the service music being very speedy as well. I wonder if this might have been another aspect of the worship that Miss Amanda didn't make explicit, and irrespective of that, whether others with wider geographical experiences of Lutheran worship than I would be able to comment on their experiences, if any, of lightening speed Lutheran singing.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Lietuvos Sv. Kazimieras:
I have experienced hymns being sung at sonic speed as a matter of course, and sometimes the service music being very speedy as well.

That wasn't my impression, but let's see what others have to say.
 
Posted by PD (# 12436) on :
 
The odd times I have worshipped with LCMS congregations the musical pace has tended to be "seam-up military medium" - to use a cricketing analogy. If anything they have erred on the side of being just a tiny bit too slow. However, all my experience of LCMS has been on the Left Coast - CA and OR. On the while though I prefer a wee bit too slow to too fast - especially if I am trying to navigate something only half familiar like the isorhythmic version of 'A mighty fortress.'

PD
 
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PD:
I am trying to navigate something only half familiar like the isorhythmic version of 'A mighty fortress.'

PD

You mean the proper version? [Biased]
 
Posted by Martin L (# 11804) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PD:
If anything they have erred on the side of being just a tiny bit too slow. However, all my experience of LCMS has been on the Left Coast - CA and OR.

In the Middle, I haven't found any consistency to it. It all depends on the organist and the congregation.

Here (large PDF warning) is a sampler of the Lutheran Service Book, which does include the Divine Service Setting 1 that is in question.

It is (perhaps unfortunately for us) one of the more singable settings, and is a setting that is held in common with the ELCA. The Gloria is a bit tricky, but I'd be surprised if it weren't replaced with This is the Feast in Eastertide.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Martin L:
The Gloria is a bit tricky, but I'd be surprised if it weren't replaced with This is the Feast in Eastertide.

Yes, it was.
 
Posted by Martin L (# 11804) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe:
quote:
Originally posted by Martin L:
The Gloria is a bit tricky, but I'd be surprised if it weren't replaced with This is the Feast in Eastertide.

Yes, it was.
That setting of This is the Feast is probably our only one that has managed to escape the confines of Lutheranism and make its way into an array of other hymnals, including H82 and a couple of Catholic ones.

Was it more the Kyrie, Alleluia, and Offertory that were challenging? (Sorry for trying to pick your brain, but I am in a position to pick the liturgical setting, and this information would be very beneficial to me if you are willing to share.)
 
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe:
quote:
Originally posted by Martin L:
The Gloria is a bit tricky, but I'd be surprised if it weren't replaced with This is the Feast in Eastertide.

Yes, it was.
That is a beautiful arrangement.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Martin L:
That setting of This is the Feast is probably our only one that has managed to escape the confines of Lutheranism. . . .

Was it more the Kyrie, Alleluia, and Offertory that were challenging? (Sorry for trying to pick your brain, but I am in a position to pick the liturgical setting, and this information would be very beneficial to me if you are willing to share.)

Yes, I've sung This is the Feast in Episcopal churches and didn't like it there either.

I would not presume to suggest which settings you should choose for your own congregation, especially since I am not Lutheran. If Lutherans have been brought up singing comfortably what I, as an outsider, consider unsingable, then let them go on doing so.
 
Posted by Ecclesiastical Flip-flop (# 10745) on :
 
Are you sure that communion was that closed? I would have made enquiries afterwards if the directions were too complicated there and then. Otherwise, don't ask: don't tell and go forward and present yourself.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Ecclesiastical Flip-flop:
Are you sure that communion was that closed?

My read of the service leaflet was that pastoral approval was required.
 
Posted by venbede (# 16669) on :
 
I saw there were no servers. Were lay people used to read the lessons or the biddings for the intercessions?
 
Posted by uffda (# 14310) on :
 
It often takes people by surprise when they encounter this issue of closed communion in a Protestant Church. But the LCMS very much see intercommunion as the goal of dogmatic unity, not a means to attain it. The difficulty with this approach is in determining when there is ENOUGH unity to make intercommunion possible.

This approach is very similar to the Roman Catholic approach, but the typical Catholic parish is so large that you wouldn't necessarily see it played out at the communion rail. The typical Lutheran parish is much smaller, where visitors are more easily evident. This could lead to unfortunate confrontations at the communion rail should a visitor present him or herself without first speaking with the pastor.
So I think Miss Amanda did the right thing by not going up for communion.

However, given what Miss Amanda remembers about the words in the bulletin, I might have advised her to make the approach in talking to the pastor, and not to wait for the pastor to make the first move.

Since the ELCA is on the other side of this issue, I usually go out of my way to make sure people know that they are welcome to commune, if we are having a service with a lot of visitors.
(Baptism, Confirmation, funeral, etc.)But I know that I wouldn't have time to seek out individual visitors before the service to tell them personally that they are welcome.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by venbede:
I saw there were no servers. Were lay people used to read the lessons or the biddings for the intercessions?

No. The vicar did it all.
 
Posted by venbede (# 16669) on :
 
Ah. I have no regular and informed experience of Lutheran worship, so it's not for me to comment. I was wondering whether your concern was with the denomination (or its variety) rather than the specific congregation.

I wouldn't expect obvious individual lay participation at an Orthodox service, nor to receive communion, and it wouldn't bother me.

But no lay voices except for the (possibly feeble) hymn singing and no peace does sound a bit unnecessarily chilly in a liturgical church.
 
Posted by New Yorker (# 9898) on :
 
What is a "vicar" in the Lutheran world? How is a vicar different from a pastor?
 
Posted by uffda (# 14310) on :
 
A vicar is a seminary student doing a year of pastoral work prior to ordination. Kind of like a Roman Catholic transitional deacon.

[ 25. May 2012, 21:03: Message edited by: uffda ]
 
Posted by PRESBY DUDE (# 16035) on :
 
May a humble, unworthy Presby weigh in on this discussion? I think some posters will tongue-lash one of my comments, but I'll take it without a temper tantrum or a nervous breakdown.

First off, I've always truly enjoyed the Mystery Worshipper posts, and Amanda B Reckondwythe's additions are especially fine. While I don't know the fine personage, Miss Amanda sounds like an interesting person to have coffee and pastry with---or, more gramatically, a person with whom to have coffee and pastry. Either way---as long as there's pastry!

Without meaning to offend Missouri Synod folk (and I have several good friends who are members of that good-sized, active denomination), I firmly object to their notion of closed communion. After all, SAYS WHO? Did the Lord Jesus suggest at the Last Supper that we check denomination affiliation and belief systems? Nope. He commanded that we "Do this in remembrance of me".

The Christian should certainly take the reception of Holy Communion seriously (so Paul informs us in his epistles), but it's his/her own decision about whether to participate. At the risk of being verbally abused by other posters, on trips to London I have many times approached for Communion reception at Westminster Cathedral (Roman Catholic) without ecclesiastical permission. I consider it a personal decision. I don't much care what Pope Benedict XVI says about the matter either. I spend a scant amount of time worrying about his pronouncements. I do approach for Communion in a spirit of reverence. After all, Catholics and Missouri Synod Lutherans would be cordially welcomed to receive Communion in my Presbyterian congregation, if they desired. We have our Presby faults, but we don't slam down the Communion trays and say, "No, approach ye not our table. If thou approachest it, thou shalt be damned!" After all, folks, this is 2012.
(Oh, I will hear about this post, won't I?)

Furthermore, the omniscient Miss Amanda - noted for her astute comments - is quite right: There is indeed a dour element in the worship and the music of the LCMS. I remember my local town's LCMS church in the Sixties, which I thought took the Christian faith in a very intense, serious manner. There wasn't much joy in their worship.

I've visited six or eight LCMS churches in more recent times (with LCMS friends who won't set foot elsewhere), and there's still a legalism and heaviness there. Much of their music is barely singable, and I studied voice (though I wasn't a music major) in college. That's not to say that certain congregations haven't "lightened up" or that a majority of LCMS members aren't fine, friendly people. But it wouldn't be my first or even tenth choice for a denominational affiliation. I think that Miss Amanda - God bless her soul - probably put the shoe on the correct foot, so to speak.

So......even though I may be harshly criticized (or criticised in Britain), I shall thoughtfully make my own decisions about Communion reception, and I shall remain in a denomination that's a tad or two "lighter" than the LCMS. After all, we do have a serious duty to worship, but we should consider it a joy and a privilege as well. The Lord's hospitality should be extended to every sincere believer who approaches his table, regardless of his/her church membership. Amen.
 
Posted by SeraphimSarov (# 4335) on :
 
How much did you get paid by Miss Amanda for that hymn of praise?? [Yipee] [Big Grin] [Razz]
 
Posted by Martin L (# 11804) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PRESBY DUDE:
I've visited six or eight LCMS churches in more recent times (with LCMS friends who won't set foot elsewhere), and there's still a legalism and heaviness there. Much of their music is barely singable, and I studied voice (though I wasn't a music major) in college. That's not to say that certain congregations haven't "lightened up" or that a majority of LCMS members aren't fine, friendly people. But it wouldn't be my first or even tenth choice for a denominational affiliation.

"Dour" is perhaps a word thrown around with the LCMS more than with other denoms, and you certainly won't get an argument from me in favor of the long, drawn-out German heritage hymns of yesteryear that they still tend to love, but I must admit that the LCMS has come a long way in the past twenty years.

Although the German influence is still very heavy, I am starting to see other Lutherans actually turning to the LCMS as a doctrinal refuge of sorts. Some of them are from low church Lutheran denoms that have strayed too far from Lutheranism toward a more fundamentalist non-denom feeling. Other refugees are ELCA Lutherans who feel the ELCA has strayed too far into liberal mainlineism.

Twenty years ago, none of those people would have even considered joining an LCMS church. Back then, it was far more insulated, and far more...hereditary, for lack of a better word.

Being refused or even strongly discouraged from receiving Holy Communion does hurt. That being said, the bulk of the LCMS churches around here are quite flexible in that regard, especially if the receiver is a Lutheran. I hope that this attitude doesn't sour toward ELCA Lutherans, but I have a feeling that more and more LCMS churches are probably headed that way.

[ETA: And, for what it's worth, I always enjoy Amanda B. Reckondwythe's MW reports, too.]

[ 26. May 2012, 01:13: Message edited by: Martin L ]
 
Posted by Lamb Chopped (# 5528) on :
 
You're an apprentice.

I won't eat you.
 
Posted by Fr Weber (# 13472) on :
 
PRESBY DUDE, it's fine for you to believe that the altar shouldn't be fenced. But you're showing a lack of respect for other Christians when you receive communion at a church which practices closed (or even close) communion.

Read St Paul in ch. 14 of the epistle to the Romans. You are risking scandalizing your brethren. It's not okay to do that just because you're "right".
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
I've been to other LCMS churches where the instructions for communion were to the effect that "Any baptized Christian who believes that the body and blood of Christ are truly present in the consecrated elements, and who is a member in good standing of his home church, and who is at peace with God and his neighbor, is welcome at Christ's holy table." At those churches I did not hesitate to go forward.

Our Savior, Pagosa Springs, was the first time I had encountered the strict LCMS policy I complained of.

I have to admit that I am less likely now to visit another LCMS church. I think my forays into Lutheranism will be limited henceforth to ELCA.

On my next trip to Pagosa Springs, which will be in late July or early August, I'll drop in on a different church. There's a RC church and a Methodist church right smack downtown, and a pentecostal type mega-church just down the road from Our Savior. I've already "done" the local Episcopal church.

Speaking of closed communion, I've located a Plymouth Brethern church here in Phoenix and plan to "do" them this Sunday. [Ultra confused]
 
Posted by Mamacita (# 3659) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PRESBY DUDE:
Without meaning to offend Missouri Synod folk (and I have several good friends who are members of that good-sized, active denomination), I firmly object to their notion of closed communion. [. . . ] (Oh, I will hear about this post, won't I?)

What you will hear is this: that debate about closed communion is a Dead Horse on these boards.

Discussion of the presence or absence of the practice, particularly as regards a Mystery Worshipper Report, is fine. However, debating the merits of the policy is something we keep contained in Dead Horses, so if you want to continue your critique of LCMS policy, please take it to DH. Thanks for your cooperation.

Mamacita, Eccles Host

[ 26. May 2012, 02:19: Message edited by: Mamacita ]
 
Posted by dalej42 (# 10729) on :
 
Miss Amanda's post of worshiping at the local Episcopal church leads to the Lutheran church MW. Can the link be corrected?
 
Posted by dalej42 (# 10729) on :
 
Oops, I think it may be my own browser that was misdirecting the link, please ignore above.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
I double-checked. The link should bring up St. Patrick's, Pagosa Springs.
 
Posted by PD (# 12436) on :
 
Of course, it is a relief to some of us when there is no Peace. Apart from that I got the impression that their organist could do with a little re-education.

Then again - one chap's 'chilly and dour' is another's 'reverent and correct.' There are a lot of issues with MW reports that are in the YMMV category. All the same I probably would have hammered their organist pretty hard.

PD
 
Posted by CorgiGreta (# 443) on :
 
Of course the organist may have been subjected to folks who angrily complain that the organ is "TOO LOUD".

They often seem to be set off when any stop besides a single soft 4' is drawn since they want to be able to clearly hear themselves mumble or whisper or quietly hum their way through the hymns.

[ 27. May 2012, 23:12: Message edited by: CorgiGreta ]
 
Posted by Gramps49 (# 16378) on :
 
Am wondering if Our Savior Lutheran ever got a copy of this report. While I do not think they will do anything about their communion practice, maybe they can take some of the other criticisms to heart. For instance, there are several summer music programs offered by colleges and seminaries for organists. Often, many congregational organists are not trained well and often unpaid or underpaid musicians. Many times it even harder for the organist to have a Sunday off than the pastor. But it would be an excellent form of gratitude for the congregation to give the organist a chance to attend one of these sessions.

Most denominations expect their pastors to continue their education after ordination now. They should also expect their musicians to continue their training.

[ 28. May 2012, 16:45: Message edited by: Gramps49 ]
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
I generally send the church an e-mail once the report has been published, but in this case I didn't.
 
Posted by Gramps49 (# 16378) on :
 
I suggest you send them a copy and address it to the board of elders, with a copy to the pastor, of course.
 
Posted by Bartolomeo (# 8352) on :
 
I have been to a number of LCMS and WELS services and for a while lurked on a Lutheran discussion board frequented by LCMS pastors.

In general, my experience and understanding is that LCMS observes closed communion, both in policy and in practice. Many if not most LCMS pastors would not serve a visitor unknown to them. Most LCMS pastors would not serve a visitor they have met before the service unless the visitor is a member in good standing of an LCMS or WELS church, or (in some cases and after establishing the individual's personal views on the significance of communion) a more conservative ELCA congregation.

It is not my experience that pastors at any church practicing closed communion seek out visitors to determine whether they meet the requirements to receive communion. Members of churches that practice closed communion already know that they are expected to introduce themselves if they should wish to receive.
 
Posted by Bartolomeo (# 8352) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe:


There can be no question that the pastor knew I was a visitor. Instead of (or in addition to) exchanging pleasantries, could he not have taken me aside and had a conversation with me something like:

P. Did you want to take communion with us this morning?

A. Yes, I had hoped to be able to.

P. Are you a baptized Christian?

A. Yes, I am.

P. You know, we as Lutherans believe that Christ is really and truly present in the eucharistic bread and wine. Is that your belief too?

...

The practice at LCMS churches is that communion is shared only with members of other Lutheran churches. Members of non-Lutheran churches could receive communion only if an exception were made for reasons of pastoral care or after formally accepting LCMS doctrine and becoming a member of an LCMS church.

FWIW, I myself am not and never have been an LCMS member, and do not endorse their doctrine.

[ 30. May 2012, 20:09: Message edited by: Bartolomeo ]
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
I've certainly learned things about the LCMS from this thread that I had not previously known. I doubt that I will worship again at a LCMS church.
 
Posted by LutheranChik (# 9826) on :
 
Having grown up in the LCMS church and knowing something of its history as a denomination -- I think the dourness experienced by visitors is perhaps a function both of being a church body grounded in reaction (the LCMS was started by 19th century German Pietists who were very upset with the German state church -- who felt that it was corrupt and complacent, divorced from the goals of the Reformation and unconcerned with the care of souls, and in error in embracing Higher Criticism as a methodology for studying the Bible), AND a function of the collective immigrant experience of its adherents -- homesickness mixed with the feeling of being "called out" to preserve what they believed was true Christian doctrine; an alienation both from the church back home and from American culture, religious and otherwise, in their adopted homeland. In some cases some members , like part of my family, came to the US from German Russia in the years leading up to the Revolution when their communities became a target of anti-minority sentiment, and the czar rescinded Catherine the Great's draft exemption for German settlers. So I think there's a sort of historical/cultural "darkness," if you will, that is part of the LCMS culture, that isn't I think connected directly to its theology per se.

On the other hand -- it's not so bad all the time. LCMS wedding receptions deserve the name "Hochzeit," because a high time is generally had by all, fueled by prodigious amounts of food, drink and dancing. LCMS Lutherans can party with the best apostate sinners.;-)
 
Posted by Kelly Alves (# 2522) on :
 
And Lutherans usually have a great sense of humor about themselves, and are the first to laugh at their own tendancy to dourness. IME.
 
Posted by Lamb Chopped (# 5528) on :
 
Just a word on the music thingy--every LCMS congregation I know of is either short on musicians or grateful to have those they have--and fearfully pondering what will happen if/when those musicians move on. It's not so easy to get an organist nowadays, even in the holy land of organism (er whatever), and requiring continuing education, let alone funding it, is a pipe dream for virtually all.

Feh. I'm doing worse than I thought if my writing is this bad.
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe:
Instead of (or in addition to) exchanging pleasantries, could he not have taken me aside and had a conversation with me something like:

P. Did you want to take communion with us this morning?

A. Yes, I had hoped to be able to.

P. Are you a baptized Christian?

A. Yes, I am.

P. You know, we as Lutherans believe that Christ is really and truly present in the eucharistic bread and wine. Is that your belief too?

A. Yes, it is.

P. And we believe that Christ gave up his body and shed his blood for all of us. Do you believe that?

A. Yes, I do.

P. And we also believe that in order to receive the eucharist worthily, you should be at peace with God and with your fellow man. Do you feel that you are?

A. Yes, pastor. I am a sinner, but I am sorry for my sins and I trust in God's mercy to forgive me.

P. Welcome, then, to our table, dear Miss Amanda.

The above would have taken all of 60 seconds and would have been far more appropriate than "I'll bet you're glad to exchange the heat of Arizona for the coolness of Colorado, aren't you?"

This made me smile a little, just recalling the regular repeat threads we get on the boards about how people hate, abhor and loathe being:

- talked to at church;
- interrogated as a visitor;
- not left alone to lurk anonymously, without speech, gesture or notice or attention.

Just imagining how all those sensitive little flowers would respond to an inquisition of this proportion just because they happened to walk through the door in the hope of singing a hymn or two! I think my own inner dialogue would be something like: should I send in my CV and a couple of references as well? [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Anselmina:
imagining how all those sensitive little flowers would respond to an inquisition of this proportion

Had it taken place, and had been in the style of an inquisition (to quote a line from one of my favorite movies, Ken Russell's The Devils: "My dear sister in Christ, I must question you."), I would probably have bristled too. But had it been done casually, and aside, I don't think I would have objected, especially if it resulted in my being welcomed at the communion rail.
 
Posted by Anselmina (# 3032) on :
 
Indeed, Miss Amanda, I know how you would've reacted to it as you've shared that with us. And I've said how I would've felt about it! I was just having fun speculating on other people's reactions - especially those who don't like to be 'welcomed', let alone put through a preliminary examination, no matter how polite, friendly and appropriate!
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
Yes, I know. It's fun to speculate. I wonder what would have happened had we organized a Shipmeet in Pagosa Springs and selected Our Savior as our worship venue for the day?
 
Posted by PD (# 12436) on :
 
I would prefer our camping out on the LCMS's door step to some of the other options mentioned.

When I visit a church of a different tradition I generally expect not to be invited to Communion. There are some altars/communion Tables where I prefer not communicate even though the practice open Communion because of their doctrine of the Eucharist. In our denomination the commonest comment about who may/may not communicate is:

If you are a baptized Christian, believe in Christ's Real Presence in the Eucharist, and are a communicant in your home church, you are welcome to receive Holy Communion in this parish."

For this reason LCMS's closed Communion policy does not bother me. Mind you, I am not adverse to the idea of attending the Eucharist in my own denomination and not receiving Communion simply because I am not 'rightly disposed.'

PD

[ 31. May 2012, 23:17: Message edited by: PD ]
 
Posted by LutheranChik (# 9826) on :
 
When I was small it was quite common for communicant members of our church to "sit out" Communion (which was only available every other week, mind you). The whole idea of "eating and drinking to your damnation" was so impressed upon the minds of people that they would frequently recuse themselves lest they somehow be offending God because they were having an "off" day or entertaining a religious doubt, etc. My parents also told me that, on an across-the-back-fence level, church gossips were inclined to assume that persons who communicated at every single opportunity 1)must have been very, very, VERY sinful to be wanting so much divine forgiveness and grace; or 2)were engaging in Pharisaical parading of their piety "before men." (Not real astute theologians, those folks.) Needless to say, persons wishing to escape this sort of busybody analysis of their spiritual lives were inclined to space out their communicating.
 
Posted by PD (# 12436) on :
 
My usual reasons for sitting it out were:

(a) I had already received at the 8.00am, ot two or three times that week.

(b) I was having a hard job being in love and charity with all men mainly because I wanted to strangle the assinine preacher.

These days it is usually because I am celebrating the High Mass later in the day, but put myself down to preach at the early turn.

PD

[ 01. June 2012, 01:51: Message edited by: PD ]
 
Posted by Amazing Grace (# 95) on :
 
Miss Amanda, was it you or another Mystery Worshipper who was quizzed at the altar rail when visiting a church? ISTR it was on Lawn Guyland somewhere (could have been Outer Brooklyn or Queens) and the MW was not best pleased at the interrogation.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
It was me. Wow, you have a good memory!
 
Posted by LeRoc (# 3216) on :
 
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From the MW report: I took that as my queue to get up and leave
I'm guessing that spelling is important since these reports stay on the site for a long time? I think that 'queue' should be 'cue'.
 
Posted by Amanda B. Reckondwythe (# 5521) on :
 
Good catch. Thank you. I had missed that.
 
Posted by Lamb Chopped (# 5528) on :
 
Hopefully I would have been with you. We tend to rely on LCMS people to clue in visitors, so they aren't left with nothing but a printed communion statement and a verbal announcement as well to rely on. (and then we hope they have tact, but that's a different hope)

Seriously, the usual LCMS pastor is too busy/confused/name-and-face-impaired/harrassed and helpless just before service time to be trusted to seek out visitors individually and probe into their desires and faith. The last five minutes before service is traditionally when the savvy pastor escapes from public for prayer in the sacristy, and the less savvy typer get ambushed by people wanting to know a) why didn't you visit Mother in the hospital despite us not telling you? b) where's the toilet paper? c) would you please make five deeply boring announcements I've forgotten to turn in ahead of time and d) by the way, I've decided to join the Hare Krishnas, pastor, and brought them along this morning!

Unless you are at a VERY small congregation, the preservice catechism you envision simply won't happen.
 


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