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Zach82
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In the US Church, it is common to have an early evening Christmas Eve carol service oriented towards families, and then "Midnight Mass with Carols" for a more grown-up experience. So we've already got that division going on.
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We have four different Christmas services -Christingle, Carols by Candlelight, midnight Watchnight, Christmas Day. Plus a "gift service" at the start of December for donations of toys etc for social services, but that service doesn't attract any extra people. Christmas Day, too, tends to be mostly the regular congregation.
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Orienting a service towards families over here usually guarantees the congregation will be thirty old ladies and four grandchildren.
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My fiancee had to put out a little girl's hair during a Sunday school that involved kiddies holding lit candles once. It does happen.
I had to jump up and smack a Cardinal once - not to tell him he was an eejit or because I objected to the homily, but because he had leant into a candle unawares and the chasuble was starting to burn!
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Zach82
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Christmas tends to be a private, family holiday in the United States. Christmas Eve services are often packed to the rafters, but Christmas morning is usually sparsely attended.
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Karl, quote:
Orienting a service towards families over here usually guarantees the congregation will be thirty old ladies and four grandchildren.
You're describing our dreaded "no Sunday School today, it's an All Age Service" avoided by every sensible parent, and full of elderly people struggling to do the "fun" action songs.
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Originally posted by North East Quine:
Karl, quote:
Orienting a service towards families over here usually guarantees the congregation will be thirty old ladies and four grandchildren.
You're describing our dreaded "no Sunday School today, it's an All Age Service" avoided by every sensible parent, and full of elderly people struggling to do the "fun" action songs.
Oh don't - nothing more toe-curlingly awful than watching a bunch of uninterested kids reading books or playing on DSes while their parents/keepers enthusiastically do "one potato, two potato" actions to I will build my Church
If I've led a wicked life, or some more enthusiastic supporters of the Hell doctrine are right, that that's what'll happen to me for all eternity - devils with guitars hanging on rainbow straps forcing me to run on the spot as I sing "the name of the Lord is a strong tower"
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This is drifting away from the risks of toddlers / naked flames / sticky-out pointy cocktail sticks, but why can we fill the church to bursting point, standing room only, for Christingle; to the extent we have to risk assess for conflagrations in a tightly packed church, but on a normal Sunday we are two-thirds empty, with a median age of over 50?
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My neice's hair was once ignited by a christingle. Swift application of a service sheet to beat out the flames dealt with it without her even noticing.
I think the reason it happened that time was that the church was full, and the kids were doing some sort of procession with the christingles lit. So there were a lot of kids, and the one behind R was shorter than her, and close behind. Ideal hair-ignition conditions, I'd have said.
I think if the kids stay still when the candles are lit, and sit in their circle or whatever, and the candles are blown out before anybody goes anywhere else, that would go a long way to minimising the risk.
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Karl: Liberal Backslider
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Originally posted by North East Quine:
This is drifting away from the risks of toddlers / naked flames / sticky-out pointy cocktail sticks, but why can we fill the church to bursting point, standing room only, for Christingle; to the extent we have to risk assess for conflagrations in a tightly packed church, but on a normal Sunday we are two-thirds empty, with a median age of over 50?
Sweets? It's only once a year? Habit?
Our gaff'd consider it a miracle if the median age was only over 50. Over 80 seems more usual.
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Two churches, two very different Cristingle services. In one they had the Scouts in so around forty kids, who were given Cristingles as part of the service. In the other the children were a subset of the Junior Church plus a family who happened already to be visiting Grandparents for Christmas. They made their own Cristingle. The thing was that at least for the smaller kids they both used glo sticks instead of candles.
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£18.89 for 25. I reckon we'd need 5 packs - almost £100.
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Yes but that is just an illustration, here are two hundred for less than £100 and I suspect that if you raided local discount stalls you might well find them going for less.
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Do you have a fire fighter in the congregation, or perhaps would you be willing to hire one for the night? You have to be careful about this, as it takes a very patient fire fighter to be around children with candles. If you have a trusted fire fighter friend or acquaintance, s/he could probably provide invaluable advice about evacuation plans and safety devices needed. In my town, even if we as a church randomly called the fire department and explained the predicament, I'm sure we could get a consultant to attend who would most likely refuse payment. The key, though, would be to get a level-headed person you know and trust.
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I go with one of the posters above. Our Christingle tends to be packed, rivalling our midnight service. We expect around 200 people upwards. The Children's Society, which sponsors Christingle services on this side of the border offers this sensible safety poster.
When the time comes to distribute the Christingles the safety points are outlined by the service leader; the children come out and collect their oranges and spread round the church forming a large circle facing inwards round the edges (parents are encouraged to accompany children who 'need help'); when children reach a standing still point, one of the four helpers who is lighting lights their candle, children have been told to stand still, hold the candle straight up in front of them with two hands, and not to bend over it, long hair should be tied back. Once all the candles are lit we sing (us. 'Away in a manger' because children can usually sing the first verse at least without a hymn sheet). Children are then told to blow their candle out, being careful of hot wax, and to return quietly to their seats. The noise level usually rises at this point as the lights go up again, but after a few minutes things calm down again.
Our risk assessment is that the big safety hazards are moving with lighted candles (we don't do it) bending over candles or having hair in candles (we give appropriate warnings), and children who are too young to cope (we require parents/carers to exercise their discretion). So far so good (over the last ten years or so).
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Many thanks everyone, for the sensible advice. We seem to have lots of options other than not lighting the Christingles.
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I'm afraid I don't know what Christingle is, although it sounds a little like carols by candlelight. It is possible to purchase lights that do not involve flame. Once you activate them they give off light for a couple of hours. They were preferred at last year's carols by candlelight and of course posed no risks to young children.
Since Google is your friend, you can always find out about Christingle there. But it's interesting to note that some variant or another of Christingle is observed all across the UK, so everyone there knows what it is.
What am a Christingle?
In the USA no one knows what Christingle is because the custom of such services was never widely introduced here. That said, the now ubiquitous Christingle service in England was introduced by there by Anglicans only in 1968. The Christingle service itself seems to have been originally devised by the German Moravians, and it can be dated with them as far back as the year 1747.
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It ws kind of forced on me in my parish in NZ. I hate it, but at least insofar as it attracts lots of people to church it seems inexplicably to "work". It seems to me like a gimmick looking for a liturgy, but so alas do a lot of things. So when someone in this parish eventually suggests it I guess I'll have to supress my cynicism and let it happen.
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I am as conservative as they come with worship, but for some reason I kind of like this idea. Though, given my druthers, I would probably just make it an understated part of the usual carols service by handing them to the kiddies instead of plain old candles. Kinda like the Advent wreath- just have it there. It doesn't need to be a frakkin' cutsey production!
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I still think glo sticks are a safer alternative to candles around young children and in my experience they find them lots of fun. If cost is an issue, how about they buy one at the door -people were happy to do that at our carols by Candlelight Service. Surely safety is the main issue here as burns can maim a child for life.
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One alternative to the cocktail sticks for those seeking to minimise risk:
When I've made Christingles I've tended to use wooden toothpicks that are only pointed at one end. I'm a bit squeamish even thinking about eyes and possible injury.
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When I was deputy headteacher we used to have a Christingle service every year - it became a tradition, all 300 children made one. We covered the stage in tin foil and placed all the christingles on there. TAs lit them and the children sat at a safe distance. We had teachers with buckets of sand etc under their chairs just in case. Our Chair of governors was a firefighter and was perfectly happy with the set up.
They were lovely services, enhanced by images on the big screen.
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Originally posted by Mr. Rob:
In the USA no one knows what Christingle is because the custom of such services was never widely introduced here.
Indeed, when I saw my first photo of a Christingle, my impression was that it's absolutely bizarre and utterly unlike any Christmas tradition I'd ever heard of. This is partly because I wouldn't associate oranges with Christmas. But my horizons have fortunately been widened since that first shock encounter.
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Doesn't help that most descriptions of Christingle services seem to amount to "Children are given this weird orange-based thing, then there is or is not a fire-related incident, and then Silent Night is sung." That's it?
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I am pretty sure American Moravians know about Cristingle service, as it comes from that tradition.
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Originally posted by Oblatus:
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Originally posted by Mr. Rob:
In the USA no one knows what Christingle is because the custom of such services was never widely introduced here.
Indeed, when I saw my first photo of a Christingle, my impression was that it's absolutely bizarre and utterly unlike any Christmas tradition I'd ever heard of. This is partly because I wouldn't associate oranges with Christmas. But my horizons have fortunately been widened since that first shock encounter.
Doesn't help that most descriptions of Christingle services seem to amount to "Children are given this weird orange-based thing, then there is or is not a fire-related incident, and then Silent Night is sung." That's it?
And then the congregation goes home, leaving the church building smelling of caramelised orange.
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I am pretty sure American Moravians know about Cristingle service, as it comes from that tradition.
Jengie
When I was a wee Lutheran (I'm talking 1980s here), I was duly given an orange at every one of my Christmas Programs. This was the big evening spectacle wherein all good Lutheran sang songs, recited special things they had to memorize, and performed skits. At the end, we passed out presents that parents and families had put under the church's tree earlier when we were practicing. Every child got an orange. I think it goes back to the olden days when oranges were a luxury in the Midwest during winter. It didn't make much sense to me, but then I read an explanation somewhere. (I think it was in a Laura Ingalls Wilder book, Olaf is manly enough to admit.) We didn't do anything with candles, though.
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I am pretty sure American Moravians know about Cristingle service, as it comes from that tradition.
Jengie
I'm not so sure. I have lived all my life in one of the areas of the US where Moravians have historically been concentrated and where there is a noticeable Moravian influence (Moravian stars are a ubiquitous Christmas decoration in these parts) and have never seen or heard mention of Christingles here. (And a search of the word "Christingle" at the website of the Moravian Church in North America turns up 0 results.)
Say "Moravian" and "candle" around here and this is what people will assume is meant. Interestingly, both this link and the one you provided relate back to the same story. But the link you gave suggests that the oranges and candy are a British Moravian development. I think the word "Christingle" may be chiefly British as well.
There certainly is a common source and a common use of the candle with red ribbon/crepe paper, but I'm thinking Christingles as you on the other side of the pond know them are unfamiliar here.
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The link you give is to the same thing and is recognisable as a Cristingle. The orange may be British as the elaborate symbolism but the origin is Moravian.
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The link you give is to the same thing and is recognisable as a Cristingle. The orange may be British as the elaborate symbolism but the origin is Moravian.
Right, there is definitely a common source. But I think that if you mentioned "Christingles" to American Moravians, most wouldn't know what you're talking about. And if you then described them, complete with oranges and sweets, they'd see the similarity/common source, but still see the "Christingle" as somewhat unfamiliar. That was my point.
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We have a small building and a popular Christingle service. We do self assembly arrangements, with actual candles which can be lit at home at adults' guidance/own risk etc but for the lights out bit we use glowsticks.
As they are not trying to pretend to be the same size etc as the candles we can use the packets of skinny ones from the pound shop.
This year the service will be at the end of the weekend of the tree festival, so giving less space than previous years!
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We use glo-sticks too, they can be obtained for only pennies each on ebay, market stalls, etc etc. We use cocktail sticks still, but put a biggish sweet on the end so that there is no sharp point. We have so many children and adults that we have to run 2 separate Christingle services, both of which are packed full.
Churches are full of fire hazards. Life is full of potential dangers. But the magic of candlight combined with sweets actually sanctioned and encouraged by grown-ups, is a big draw. We always have extra sidespeople and are diligent in keeping the aisles clear. We have buckets of sand in multiple locations. We give a clear indication of our awareness of risk at the beginning of the service and we encourage parents to help their children.
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Originally posted by Olaf:
I think it goes back to the olden days when oranges were a luxury in the Midwest during winter.
Not that olden! Oranges were expensive and associated with Christmas in my own childhood here in England. Particularly tangerines for some reason.
The Moravian origin does seem odd to me. Did they really have oranges in 18th-century Bohemia?
But then I always assumed Christingle was American because, well it just seems so American. I was surprised to find it wasn't. I never really liked the idea myself. Too blibsy. But some people obviously do.
As for candles, just use candles. Its all part of the fun. And sort of real. No point in messing around with plastic glow-sticks. There's too much fakery around in the world anyway. Why add to it?
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blibsy blibsy blibsy <google is my friend ..... >
Googles ... blibsy blibsy blibsy ...
Nope.
No translation there.
What is 'blibsy' ken?
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We have our Christingle at 6pm on Christmas Eve. The church is usually full to packed, we make about 300 Christingles to be distributed. Being a city church all kids come with an adult, although for many families the kid:parent ratio is pretty high.
At the time for the Christingle procession, the children come forward and are given a lighted Christingle, they process around the church then back to their seats. We have the clergy and servers leading the procession, and they keep things moving. Before the procession, we announce what is going to happen and suggest that older children can process on their own, but younger ones should be accompanied. All of our clergy/servers/vergers etc are briefed on being vigilant about kids and naked flames, and about the location os buckets of sand and water around and fire extinguishers. In the seven years that I've been doing it, there has never been anything even slightly worrying happen.
Just after I took over the organising of the service, the lady that used to run it wrote to our parish council about the dangers of naked flames and children and suggested that we use battery operated candles instead. The idea was condemned by all, on the grounds that too much of children's lives is being sanitised into oblivion. Real candles are worth the effort.
BTW - we used lollipops in place of lolly toothpicks as we don't fancy making up 1200 toothpicks!
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The original Moravian tradition (started 1747 in Marienborn, Germany) was for a candle with a red ribbon around it. The use of an orange began in Britain towards the end of the nineteenth century, which would explain why American Moravians might be unaware of it.
<sarky tangent>Perhaps the 'orange as a world, with bits stuck into it' appealed to late-nineteenth century Britons because it reminded them of those nice globes painted with lots of pink bits.</sarky tangent>
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I seem to remember reading a church court decision many years ago, refusing a faculty for an electric candle, on the grounds that God should not be worshipped with a fake. He may be worshipped with a flickering candle or with an electric bulb that is honestly a bulb, but not with an electric bulb pretending to be a candle.
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I seem to remember reading a church court decision many years ago, refusing a faculty for an electric candle, on the grounds that God should not be worshipped with a fake. He may be worshipped with a flickering candle or with an electric bulb that is honestly a bulb, but not with an electric bulb pretending to be a candle.
Well, many of us feel like fakes when we are not in the mood for worship but turn up anyway, 'pretending' to be prayerful.
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Originally posted by Olaf:
I think it goes back to the olden days when oranges were a luxury in the Midwest during winter.
Not that olden! Oranges were expensive and associated with Christmas in my own childhood here in England. Particularly tangerines for some reason.
The Moravian origin does seem odd to me. Did they really have oranges in 18th-century Bohemia?
Same here. Tangerines (and dates) were associated with Christmas - but not oranges. I have a vague memory they came from South Africa - so it may have been something to do with post-war colonial southern hemisphere summers.
I wonder if the Christingle orange has its Moravian origins in the pomander - the bag or ball of aromatics carried to conceal nasty smells.
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Thank you everybody. We lit the Christingles, sang one verse of one hymn, then all the children shouted out "Happy Birthday, Jesus!" and blew their candles out. Result - the candles were lit for a minimum time, and blowing them out was part of the fun.
No children were burned, maimed, blinded by cocktail sticks, trampled underfoot etc, etc. It was all good.
(Should I be worried that I found skewering 96 cute little jelly teddy bears on sharp cocktail sticks deeply satisfying?)
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Ours was led under difficult circumstances - the person who would have led it was struck down by a nasty norovirus, and the soloist was ill too.
Despite this we had a great service, with an excellent two part message explaining that the meaning of Christmas was presents/presence.
Christingles were made during the service, although plans for them to be lit while the building was dark were scuppered by the pianist discovering he couldn't see the music for the hastily-arranged replacement soloist... (who did a wonderful 'O holy night' - probably the first time her newborn daughter had heard mummy's amazing voice).
It was all rather wonderful in a strange, unplanned sort of way. Bit like the first Christmas really.
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Our Christingle Service was also slightly (!) chaotic and informal, and so was our Crib Service & Nativity Play yesterday.......
....and yet, there was still a sense of awe and wonder at the mystery of the Incarnation - and both these services were very well-attended. My Anglican sense of a need for constant order and formality is beginning to wear thin......
By contrast, our formal and traditional Carols & Lessons and Midnight Mass both had rather sparse congregations this year (for various reasons, including heavy rain last night which doubtless discouraged potential visitors). Still, maybe the Holy Spirit is trying to tell us summink....
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This year we had our first ever Christingle service on Christmas Eve. There were about 25 children present, with a total of about 60 people altogether.
We began in the hall, with the children sitting on the floor in a circle. I demonstrated how to make a Christingle, then the children went with an adult to tables which had been set up with the necessary materials. They made their Christingles and brought them back to the circle, where we revised what each part of the Christingle meant.
We then walked with (unlit) Christingles into the church building, singing Silent Night. We then had fairly brief and simple nativity play. Once the nativity 'scene' was complete, the children were invited to come forward to be the stars around the manger. The children stood in a large circle in the chancel, and their candles were lit from the Christ Candle in the Advent Wreath. The lighting was covered by the singing of a carol by the adults.
We then had a set of brief prayers with a simple response, while the children generally stared at their light and enjoyed being near fire (every child's dream). We then 'changed' the light. This is an idea from Godly Play - changing the light means extinguishing the candle, but it is explained as changing the light, so that instead of being in one place, it spreads and fills the whole room, and the whole world. Children watch the smoke from the candle rise up, and are invited to imagine the light around them all the time.
A final carol, a blessing and everyone was home in under an hour. The fire risk was managed by the children being in a circle, with an adult nearby for the smaller ones, and the candles only burning for about two minutes. We have fire extinguishers and whatnot on standby at all times, so that wasn't an issue.
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Carys
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We have a risk assessment specific to Christingle and a standard fire plan which we even did a drill for in the summer. A couple of adeodatus's points could improve it though. BUt Christingle (with about 200 lit christingles went off fine.
Carys
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Clemency
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Cannot resist putting this in, I wrote a few years ago.... (to be sung by innocent childlike voices)
See the advent candles, standing in a ring
What a pretty sight; they show us Christmas is coming
Lucky Lucy gets to strike a match upon the box,
All at once its head cones off and sets fire to her socks
See the flames lead upwards! Lucy goes berserk
We bring a fire extinguished, oh dear! it does not work
Everyone is shouting, rushing to and fro
Pretty soon the church becomes a total inferno
See the bishop blazing! listen to the choir
They can sing much louder now, that they are on fire
The fire brigade are coming now, down the street they dash
What a pity nothing's left except for lots of ash
But what a jolly time we had, watching smoke and flame
It was so much fun that we must come to church again.
Apologies....
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Smudgie
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The candle display on the centre table this morning suddenly decided to flame a little more brightly at one end than the other. Only four of us noticed. The Smudgelet was ready to leap into action, but one of the stewards calmly walked rather swiftly forward. He must have quite impressive lung capacity as he managed to blow the fire out! A little readjustment of the greenery around the candles and the rest were left to burn without further incident. I'll swear half the congregation didn't even notice!
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Carys
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Other thing we do is have first aiders from St John Ambulance present at our big Christmas services. Not directly related to candles, but sensible for large crowds.
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sebby
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Originally posted by North East Quine:
Last night's risk-assessment included a worst case scenario of a 5 year old girl with long hair, wearing an inflamable nylony jacket going up in flames; panicking parents attempting to scoop up and run with flailing toddlers, someone tripping and being trampled underfoot, with more people then tripping over them, eyes being poked out with cocktail sticks in the ensuing melee, and bodies piling up in the vestibule.
![[Killing me]](graemlins/killingme.gif)
I kid you not. ![[brick wall]](graemlins/brick_wall.gif)
And that was still better than the mince-pie / e-coli risk assessment, where the worst-case scenario involved carts rumbling through our village, and cries of "Bring Out Your Dead."
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Bishops Finger
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Given the multitudes of candles that were lit in churches in the UK (and most of Christendom) before the Reformation, and the passing of the various Health and Safety at Work Acts, is there any documentary evidence of how many people were consumed by fire in churches.......?
......I thought not..... ![[Roll Eyes]](rolleyes.gif)
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