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Yangtze
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I'm totally with you on not wearing black to a wedding, and am still surprised and a bit shocked when people do. (At 'conventional' British weddings at least.) Personally I think it's fine to express that on the invite, though it may be worth adding an explanation, as you did in the OP.
This thread is fascinating.
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Zacchaeus
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When I married in the 1980's I was looking at green material for the bridesmaids and was told in the shop that green was unlucky for weddings. So it is an enduring superstition in some circles.
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Pomona
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Originally posted by Zacchaeus:
When I married in the 1980's I was looking at green material for the bridesmaids and was told in the shop that green was unlucky for weddings. So it is an enduring superstition in some circles.
I don't think it's the case for modern bridesmaid dresses looking at popular bridesmaid dress colours (very few wedding party dresses being homemade nowadays). Bear in mind that the 80s were 30 years ago now!
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Pomona
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Originally posted by Yangtze:
I'm totally with you on not wearing black to a wedding, and am still surprised and a bit shocked when people do. (At 'conventional' British weddings at least.) Personally I think it's fine to express that on the invite, though it may be worth adding an explanation, as you did in the OP.
This thread is fascinating.
Speaking personally, as someone who doesn't go to formal events very often, the smartest type of clothing I own is office workwear - and black is the default colour for this. A black shift dress is smarter than a blue sun dress, because it's made from smarter fabric - at least that's how I'd look at it.
For the most recent wedding I went to, I wore a black dress just because it was the smartest dress I own - I didn't have much choice!
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Albertus
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Actually, come to think of it Mrs A used to wear a couple of black dresses she'd made herself to (perfectly trad UK middle class) weddings, and was always complimented on them.
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Doublethink.
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At the most recent wedding I am close enough to get invited to the hen do, she cut the cake with an axe - I think you could have got away with wearing black to the wedding.
What I find slightly odd is people finding they are repeatedly asked to such dos, without having a suit or non-black or whatever - and I tend to think, well if you'd bought one the first time - you'd be sorted.
Also, for women, non- black is really not hard to get by borrowing, oxfam or primark.
You can get some of these for £12
Personally, I'd go with cobalt.
Actually I'd probably wear smartish trousers and a coloured shirt.
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Pomona
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Originally posted by Doublethink:
At the most recent wedding I am close enough to get invited to the hen do, she cut the cake with an axe - I think you could have got away with wearing black to the wedding.
What I find slightly odd is people finding they are repeatedly asked to such dos, without having a suit or non-black or whatever - and I tend to think, well if you'd bought one the first time - you'd be sorted.
Also, for women, non- black is really not hard to get by borrowing, oxfam or primark.
You can get some of these for £12
Personally, I'd go with cobalt.
Actually I'd probably wear smartish trousers and a coloured shirt.
Primark does not do my size, tricky to find my size in charity shops. I'm not sure any of those Boohoo clothes are smart enough for a wedding? I wore a skater dress to the last wedding I attended but felt too informal.
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Doublethink.
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I'd have the maxi jersey dress would be fine.
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North East Quine
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Originally posted by Doublethink:
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Also, for women, non- black is really not hard to get by borrowing, oxfam or primark.
At the last-wedding-but-one I attended, my dress cost £15 from a charity shop, though I bought a hat from Marks and Spencers for £20 or £25 as well.
Originally posted by Jade Constable:
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Bear in mind that the 80s were 30 years ago now!
If you see my 1980s wedding photos, with the bridesmaids in green shiny satin, it's hard to forget that it was another sartorial age then. Although the men, in kilts, could wear exactly the same outfits today and would look smart and undated.
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Jane R
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NEQ: quote:
If you see my 1980s wedding photos, with the bridesmaids in green shiny satin, it's hard to forget that it was another sartorial age then. Although the men, in kilts, could wear exactly the same outfits today and would look smart and undated.
My wedding photos don't look too bad. The sleeves on the dresses are a bit OTT to modern eyes (those great big puffy elbow-length sleeves were in then) but apart from that the main differences are hairstyles and glasses. Huge insectoid glasses that covered half your face were fashionable.
My bridesmaids were in green too. Green is my favourite colour and so far, Queen Mab has not made her displeasure known ![[Two face]](graemlins/scot_twoface.gif) I even had a green car a few years ago.
The true purpose of wedding photos is to give your grandchildren a good laugh at the outdated fashions.
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If your best dress is black, you could always add a bright-colored scarf.
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Fineline
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Originally posted by Ariel:
No - I'd say it applies in summer as well. Judging by what I've seen over this weekend, beige can be added to the summerwear palette, but otherwise, it's still blues, greys, whites, reds and blacks. I don't know who does buy the other colours (other than me, I like my colours) but there certainly aren't many of them to be seen on the street.
Ariel, I looked at what people were wearing when I went shopping in Asda today - a lot of purples, yellows, and peach colour. Much more of those colours than red or blue. I think your observation doesn't apply throughout the whole of the UK.
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Zacchaeus
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
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Originally posted by Zacchaeus:
When I married in the 1980's I was looking at green material for the bridesmaids and was told in the shop that green was unlucky for weddings. So it is an enduring superstition in some circles.
I don't think it's the case for modern bridesmaid dresses looking at popular bridesmaid dress colours (very few wedding party dresses being homemade nowadays). Bear in mind that the 80s were 30 years ago now!
I have heard the superstition recently too, and in any age there are people who don't go with superstition but for many it comes out at times like weddings.
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Ariel, I looked at what people were wearing when I went shopping in Asda today - a lot of purples, yellows, and peach colour. Much more of those colours than red or blue. I think your observation doesn't apply throughout the whole of the UK.
I wondered how you'd get on - interesting result. There could be various underlying factors to explain the difference. Football shirts and saris apart, of course.
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Karl: Liberal Backslider
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You know, people bang on about charity shops, but I've yet to find any item of clothing in one that I wanted to buy, formal or otherwise. I understand that they take all the stuff to central warehouses and then distribute it back to the shops where they think it'll sell; clearly Watford, Sheffield, Chesterfield and Nottingham (where I've lived for the last 25 years) are considered too crap to send anything decent to.
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Doublethink.
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Not even jeans ?
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
You know, people bang on about charity shops, but I've yet to find any item of clothing in one that I wanted to buy, formal or otherwise. I understand that they take all the stuff to central warehouses and then distribute it back to the shops where they think it'll sell; clearly Watford, Sheffield, Chesterfield and Nottingham (where I've lived for the last 25 years) are considered too crap to send anything decent to.
Try the Shelter in Broomhill, that used to be good.
I think the problem with men's clothes is that we tend to have fewer clothes and wear them out before turning them into dusters, so they're well and truly past it by the time we get rid of them.
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North East Quine
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Most of my clothes come from charity shops, and my daughter buys from them, too. But when I've been charity shop shopping with my son, the men's bit has always been very poor, with much less choice. Perhaps women tend to have a clear out and donate more often than men?
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Augustine the Aleut
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Originally posted by Dinghy Sailor:
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
You know, people bang on about charity shops, but I've yet to find any item of clothing in one that I wanted to buy, formal or otherwise. I understand that they take all the stuff to central warehouses and then distribute it back to the shops where they think it'll sell; clearly Watford, Sheffield, Chesterfield and Nottingham (where I've lived for the last 25 years) are considered too crap to send anything decent to.
Try the Shelter in Broomhill, that used to be good.
I think the problem with men's clothes is that we tend to have fewer clothes and wear them out before turning them into dusters, so they're well and truly past it by the time we get rid of them.
There is a chain of second-hand clothing stores in the Atlantic provinces called Frenchy's, and in 1998 I picked up two Brook's Brothers suits there for $150 each. Clothing jobbers cheerfully clear out warehouses of clothing from manufacturers and estate sales; one of the distinct advantages of men's formal clothing is that it does not date easily, and can often be altered to be more current without much cost and trouble.
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Albertus
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Oxfam online have some good stuff. Easily found through their main website.
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Fineline
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Originally posted by Fineline:
Ariel, I looked at what people were wearing when I went shopping in Asda today - a lot of purples, yellows, and peach colour. Much more of those colours than red or blue. I think your observation doesn't apply throughout the whole of the UK.
I wondered how you'd get on - interesting result. There could be various underlying factors to explain the difference. Football shirts and saris apart, of course.
No saris - not much ethnic diversity where I live. I'm sure some people were wearing football shirts, but those weren't the purples, yellows or peach colours I observed. Those were just normal shirts or tee-shirts or vest tops. Most were pastel-y, especially the purples. I think a lot of people wear pastels in summer where I live, now I think about it.
Maybe it depends on whether people are working - people may wear darker colours to work, to look smarter. There's lots of unemployment and people on benefits where I live.
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Originally posted by North East Quine:
Most of my clothes come from charity shops, and my daughter buys from them, too. But when I've been charity shop shopping with my son, the men's bit has always been very poor, with much less choice. Perhaps women tend to have a clear out and donate more often than men?
I think it takes a keen eye to sort thru the chaff and identify the wheat. When I walk into a charity shop (we call them "thrift stores" in the US) I never see anything worth even pulling off the rack. My daughter, though, has the uncanny ability to walk in and look through a rack filled with misshapen tired old 80s has-beens and pull out the one or two wonderful things that will look incredible on her. It's a gift-- but not one everyone has, so no use saying "just go to a charity shop".
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Augustine the Aleut
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I do not know all shipmates are in areas where they have consignment shops or second-hand clothing shops which specialize in estate sales. During my working years, when I needed ties and dress shirts, I often found what I needed in Kensington Market in Toronto. Courage My Love was my favourite for years, and women friends often bought the handsewn shirts of dead plutocrats for they were very good quality and, with a bit of tailoring, could make them the best-dressed woman in the room.
Formal dress clothes are often very well-made and last for decades and should you find a good set, will keep you the rest of your life. When I was a student in Ireland in the 1970s, many impoverished students happily wore dinner jackets from the 1920s, courtesy of recently-deceased uncles. Indeed, I knew several students, too skint for meals, who would simply put on dinner jackets and crash corporate, professional, or embassy dinners. Having established themselves as amusing young table companions, they soon found themselves welcomed by organizers, rather than put into the hands of the Gardai. I well recall the enjoyment we had when faced with a photograph on the front page of the Irish Times, with a cheerful medical student dinner crasher meeting the then President of Italy.
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Originally posted by Karl: Liberal Backslider:
You know, people bang on about charity shops, but I've yet to find any item of clothing in one that I wanted to buy, formal or otherwise.
IME, the best ones are in posh areas. Mind you, they tend to be good or the sort of clothes that I expect you wouldn't want. For example, most of my ties (which I need for my line of work) are 100% silk, from charity shops, and cost me about 2-3 pounds each. I also bought a Crombie winter overcoat, new, for 10 pounds. I bought all those things in shops in flash areas. Where I live isn't flash, and all I find in the local charity shops is a miasmic, musty smell.
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One of my pet peeves - the colours of winter outerwear. Sludge, drizzle, dun, sleech, dreich and navy. You have the same palette for acres of menswear, for women's trousers, for shoes.
I totally agree, which is why the raincoat I had made for me recently is purple. It actually cost about the same price as some of the jackets I've seen in the outdoor wear shops, but has the advantage of fitting me perfectly. Wearing it lifts my spirits on a dull day and it coped very well in a recent hail storm.
I am seriously considering a jacket made by the same woman, which I might have made in green. She does a bright pink too, but that's too much like the high vis fluro that has sprouted up everywhere here since the quakes.
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Karl: Liberal Backslider
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Not even jeans ?
Only the elasticated waist ones you're allowed to wear after the age of 75.
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Zacchaeus
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Cod I have always sworn that there is a special air freshener called 'eau de charity shop' they all smell the same.
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Lots of bright coats round here last winter, it prompted me to buy a new one, a lovely orange toned red. Mind you, my spring coat is a clear mustard with a small self coloured acorn brocade and my favourite colour to wear is green (which my bridesmaid also wore) so I'm probably not the most representative of people. I like to express my mania through my clothes...
Re: the wedding, it's your gig so you get to choose, IMO. A relative of mine had a themed black and red wedding with ball gowns and masques ![[Smile]](smile.gif)
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Pomona
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When I worked in a charity shop, anything above a particular size (which was smaller than my size) was just not stocked as it was seen as taking up space that better-selling stock could use. This was a charity shop for a large national charity and got a lot of new/end-of-line stock from places like M&S, with less room for donated goods. If you're an awkward shape or size, charity shops are largely useless for clothes.
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When I worked in a charity shop, anything above a particular size (which was smaller than my size) was just not stocked as it was seen as taking up space that better-selling stock could use
Well that explains a lot!!!
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My best charity shop experience was when I had to rush over the width of England when my mother went into hospital, and I hadn't taken much with me as the hospital had said "come now". I am at the higher end of the size range. The shop had a whole set of things that were my size and my style and very good condition - two blouses, one of which I have on now (after 1997), a very good green woollen jacket with the pockets uncut, and there must have been a skirt as well. They looked as though they had all come in from the same person, and I think they had come in that day. Very occasionally I do get the feeling that things have been arranged for me, and am appropriately thankful.
I think that Oxfam has a local distribution system before sending things to their central place, as I have seen my donations in my local shop at times.
On the green front - it is one of my colours. Years ago, in the seventies, I think, I made myself a crochet top in a fine green mohair yarn. It wasn't particularly seethrough, but it did not need white underwear under it, so I sent to the local clothes shop (the old fashioned sort with drawers behind a glass display counter) and asked about green bras. The quite young lady assistant was visibly shocked. "We don't stock those, that would be unlucky!" That was in the Kentish Weald, from whence I thought, as in Kipling, all the phariseeses had flitted.
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Originally posted by Doc Tor:
"Dear friends and family, we are getting married by the Archdruid of Britain on the top of Glastonbury Tor at sunrise on June 21st 2015. Dress: skyclad."
You realise this actually happens, right?
Well, okay, it wouldn't be sunrise on the Solstice because there wouldn't be room; there are too many other rituals and parties going on there then. I was at them this year myself. And skyclad would be unusual, and it would probably be an ordinary Druid priest rather than actual Rollo Maughfling. But the kind of thing you're sending up absolutely happens. I have some friends who frequently preside over handfastings like these.
Anyway. I love weddings and I'd want to make my friends happy so frankly I'd wear whatever the hell I was asked to, but "no black" would make me grumpy and unhappy and like I was personally being got at on account of being The Only Goth At The Wedding or something and I'd feel both anxious and contrary about it. I wouldn't *do* anything; I'd get on with it and follow orders. But I'd dislike it.
I shall be maid of honour to a dear friend in a few weeks time, and at her behest am wearing black with red accents to compliment her, as she'll be in red with black accents :-)
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I can't speak for Doc Tor, but I am aware that pagan handfasting ceremonies take place; I was merely suggesting that requiring all the guests to come skyclad would be foolhardy in this climate...
I'd have thought Beltane would be a more appropriate date for a handfasting, anyway.
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Suppose you do specify "No black clothing, please"? How far will you go to enforce this? Will the ushers turn away those who are dressed in black? I assume this is going to be a "church wedding". You could have black-wearers placed in the back row, like it or not.
I'd rather see a black dress than a tasteless cocktail dress, strapless, backless, and slit up to you-know-where.
L*R mentioned no-white. This was the only regulation I've known. It was the bride's privilege to wear white, with no competition.
"Next Sunday is Pentecost. Wear RED!"
"St. Patrick's Day- Wear GREEN!" Being told this in the church announcements is annoying to me, and just doesn't seem to fit into the reason why people turn up at church. I don't have red, except for something I'd wear to a picnic, or to bed. Ladies don't wear gloves and hats any more. Let 'em wear black. And don't mention attire on your invitation.
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Exactly because of this reason, Dutch weddings usually have a 'master of ceremony'. In the modern day this is normally a sister of the bride (when available). She has the task of communicating wishes like this to the guests.
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Pearl B4 Swine
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Thanks to whoever it was asked What IS a lounge suit, anyway?
I assumed it was one of these: Lounge/Leisure suit
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Iirc, a lounge suit is a 'normal' suit, as opposed to a morning suit or tails. It also doesn't have to be worn with a tie. So the kind of suit most men wear to smart occasions now are lounge suits.
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Iirc, a lounge suit is a 'normal' suit, as opposed to a morning suit or tails. It also doesn't have to be worn with a tie. So the kind of suit most men wear to smart occasions now are lounge suits.
I agree with Jade.
A lounge suit is an ordinary one, two or three piece.
I'd call one like the ones in the link picture described as a 'leisure suit' a 'safari suit'.
There's also the term 'tropical suit' for a lounge suit made of lightweight cloth, usually, but not essentially, pale in colour. Again, it can be two or three piece.
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Iirc, a lounge suit is a 'normal' suit, as opposed to a morning suit or tails.
Yes. It's informal clothing for lounging around in, rather than formal day or evening wear.
"Informal" by the lights of the upper classes a century ago, natch.
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It also doesn't have to be worn with a tie.
Wearing an open-necked shirt is several degrees more casual than wearing a tie. If the invitation specifies "lounge suit" then a tie is expected (unless you're wearing a Nehru suit or something).
You can, certainly, wear a suit without a tie, and given the right suit, shirt and build of wearer, it can look good. But it's a dressy casual look.
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Pigwidgeon
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Here you go - Lounge suits.
Not to be confused with lounge suites.
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cliffdweller
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
Iirc, a lounge suit is a 'normal' suit, as opposed to a morning suit or tails.
Yes. It's informal clothing for lounging around in, rather than formal day or evening wear.
"Informal" by the lights of the upper classes a century ago, natch.
Whereas here in California what you're picturing would be VERY formal for ANY economic class.
A leisure suit, otoh, is neither formal nor informal-- it's just tacky.
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My dad had several leisure suits in the 70s, and I thought he was in the height of fashion. All I can plead is that he was my dad and I was in junior high.
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Erroneous Monk
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And this one is only $29.95, if anyone is still looking for something to wear for LVER's wedding...
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Pigwidgeon
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Originally posted by Erroneous Monk:
And this one is only $29.95, if anyone is still looking for something to wear for LVER's wedding...
Perfect! It certainly isn't black. (However, she also specified "elegant.")
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Karl: Liberal Backslider
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Originally posted by Leorning Cniht:
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Originally posted by Jade Constable:
Iirc, a lounge suit is a 'normal' suit, as opposed to a morning suit or tails.
Yes. It's informal clothing for lounging around in, rather than formal day or evening wear.
"Informal" by the lights of the upper classes a century ago, natch.
I was going to say; in my frame of reference an informal suit is an oxymoron.
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And this one is only $29.95, if anyone is still looking for something to wear for LVER's wedding...
Does the reference to STD in the description mean that's why the vendor is selling? Or is it that wearing it will protect you from getting one? One would imagine wearing such a garment would ensure that a person would fail to 'pull'.
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