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Erin
Meaner than Godzilla
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My name is Jason Etheredge. My sister is Erin Etheredege. I am writing this to inform her friends that she passed away last Thursday on December 30. She talked a lot about this website and mentioned that she had friends here. I have accessed her account to provide everyone who knew her of her passing. If anyone has questions about her death or services you can email at [email address deleted]. Services will be helled this Friday @ 11:00am in Jacksonville Fl. Please don't hesitate to email me with any questions.
Sincerely,
Jason Etheredge
[Admin note added] We've decided to remove the email address Jason gave, as he's been receiving more emails than he can handle at the moment. The expressions of sympathy from Shipmates are a wonderful statement of the love and respect we all had for Erin. Please continue to post on the threads on the Erin board, we're sure Jason will read the tributes there as he has time. If there's something more personal you wish to say to her family, please pass it onto one of the admins here and we'll forward them to Jason in more manageable quantities.
Alan [ 11. May 2011, 16:18: Message edited by: Spike ]
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mousethief
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May her memory be eternal, and may her soul repose with the blessed.
This is such a shock! Thank you for telling us. [ 04. January 2011, 01:39: Message edited by: mousethief ]
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Kelly Alves
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Dear God.
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Loquacious beachcomber
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Oh my God. Prayers for her family; not possible to even begin to say how much she is respected here. She gave so much, honesty foremost always.
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Zach82
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May she rest in peace, and rise to glory.
Zach
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Rossweisse
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Dear Lord. This is a horrible shock.
Jason, can you tell us any more?
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Pigwidgeon
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Oh no! I don't believe this.
Prayers for all of Erin's family and loved ones. ![[Votive]](graemlins/votive.gif)
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Mili
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My sympathy and prayers to you and your family, Jason. Erin, her role and contribution here will forever be remembered. She was one of a kind and no-one will ever be albe to fill her shoes. Prayers to fellow members who were close to Erin too.
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Vulpior
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Prayers for all Erin's family and friends in their time of grief. Prayers too for Erin, and thanks to God for her life and in particular her contribution to this online community.
A great shock. [ 04. January 2011, 02:25: Message edited by: Vulpior ]
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Latchkey Kid
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Prayers for Erin and all who loved her. ![[Votive]](graemlins/votive.gif)
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guinness girl
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I'm in total shock and deeply saddened. Praying for Erin's family and loved ones. She will be very much missed here ![[Frown]](frown.gif)
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jedijudy
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Oh, no. This is so hard to take in.
Jason, thank you so much for contacting us. Erin was beyond amazing.
Prayers for Erin's family.
For Erin in Heaven ![[Votive]](graemlins/votive.gif)
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Amazing Grace
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My deepest sympathies to the family and her other friends. She was a force of nature and will be very much missed.
Charlotte (in shock)
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Welease Woderwick
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Like everyone else, I am deeply shocked and mourn her passing.
Jason, a prayer for you and your family and many thanks for passing on the news. You must see from what people have posted above that Erin was deeply loved and respected here - she will be hugely missed.
In my faith tradition we talk of giving thanks for the grace of God in the life of someone who has died - and that grace of God was so evident in Erin.
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Rowen
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My prayers too.
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Autenrieth Road
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Jason, I am so sorry. My deepest sympathies to you and all Erin's family.
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Nicolemr
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
This is such a shock.
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Kelly Alves
 Bunny with an axe
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quote: Originally posted by Amazing Grace: My deepest sympathies to the family and her other friends. She was a force of nature and will be very much missed.
Charlotte (in shock)
Yes, indeed.
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Niteowl
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My prayers go out to Erin's family and friends.
This site will not the same without her. ![[Votive]](graemlins/votive.gif)
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Mamacita
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This is shocking news. I am so, so sorry. May flights of angels see her to her rest.
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Campbellite
 Ut unum sint
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I am simply left without adequate words. There has been a disturbance in the Force.
May her memory be eternal, and may light perpetual shine upon her. In Your mercy, Lord, grant her your peace.
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Flounder
Shipmate
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Oh my God. I am so terribly sorry!
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AdamPater
Sacristan of the LavaLamp
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Thanks to God for Erin's life and the impacts she made. May she rest in peace and rise in glory. Grace and peace to her and her family. ![[Votive]](graemlins/votive.gif)
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comet
 Snowball in Hell
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Oh Erin.
Holy shit.
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Campbellite
 Ut unum sint
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quote: Originally posted by comet: Oh Erin.
Holy shit.
Amen!
That is such an Erin-like prayer, Comet. Thank you.
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comet
 Snowball in Hell
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Yeah, well, my current blubbering like a sissy isnt very Erin-like but I suspect she'd forgive me.
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Ye Olde Motherboarde
Ship's Mother and Singing Quilter
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I sit here with tears in my eyes because I will not hear her wonderful voice again.
Those of us who have know her since almost the beginning of things (over 10 years for me) I can tell you Erin was and will always make me laugh. She was a true original and we got along in so many ways. Not the least was that we found out her grandfather was a member of my parish church! I never got to meet her physically - well, (actually, no one did,) but I did threaten to show up at her work many a time, but sadly my threats are not to be.
I know one day we will meet in heaven and have lots of things to reminisce about.
So tonight, as you read this, hug a loved one, tell someone how much they have meant to you, because tomorrow might be too late. Thank heaven Erin knew I loved her.
a very sad Motherboard
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The Silent Acolyte
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Fuck.
I'm going to miss Erin's sensitive wielding of her Rusty Farm Implement.
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Welease Woderwick
 Sister Incubus Nightmare
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I have a feeling she's looking down at us all running around like headless chickens and giggling like mad!
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Laura
General nuisance
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Dear God. Awful. May she rest in peace and rise in glory.
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tomb
Shipmate
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I am shocked and deeply saddened. Erin annoyed the hell out of me on many occasions, but she was the rudder of the Ship.
What happened??
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marmot
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Oh, Lord. She, of all people, was supposed to live forever. And certainly not pass before me.
There are not many who came before her on this vessel.
My world has just turned upside down.
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lilBuddha
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for Erin for her family for her shipmates
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Leaf
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Jesus. This is a very sad shock.
What will she do in heaven? There's no bullshit to cut through there.
Prayers and condolences to her family.
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tomb
Shipmate
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Why didn't she tell us she was sick, so we could pray?
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comet
 Snowball in Hell
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Some of us knew a little, tomb. But I certainly didnt quite realize it was as serious as this. She was very understated. Didnt want to make a fuss, I suspect. I can appreciate that. [ 04. January 2011, 04:45: Message edited by: comet ]
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Laura
General nuisance
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Comet: I knew that there was a bit of trouble, bit nothing like this. So sad.
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Wesley J
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May she rest in peace and rise in glory.
I'm sure Heaven will be ridder of trolls than ever before. Well done, Erin. Good to know you. Thank you for your inspiration.
Thank you, Jason. Blessings to you and yours, and us. ![[Votive]](graemlins/votive.gif)
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Lothlorien
Ship's Grandma
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Such sad news for you to have to tell us. Our prayers for her and all who loved her.
She will be very much missed here.
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Leetle Masha
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May the soul of our friend Erin, Thy handmaid, rest among the saints in heaven, and may she dwell with the blessed ones, where there is neither sickness, nor sighing, nor pain, but life eternal. Amen.
With love to everyone who knew her and who knew what a good job she did of making the Ship of Fools a place where we could all be together--may we merrily meet in heaven!
Mary
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Spiffy
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May light perpetual shine on her. May all who mourn be comforted. [ 04. January 2011, 04:56: Message edited by: Spiffy ]
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Gill H
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Stunned. Erin gave me a lot to think about and a lot of laughs over the years. She contributed so much to this place.
I'm now picturing Miss Molly and Gambit putting out an extra chair and breaking out the Green & Blacks Maya Gold to welcome a newbie.
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Cottontail
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She always had my utmost respect, mingled with real liking and a healthy fear!
I am deeply saddened. My prayers for all who knew and loved her.
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Wesley J
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quote: Originally posted by Erin: [...] Services will be helled [...] (italics mine)
"It's what she would have wanted." ![[Tear]](graemlins/tear.gif) [ 04. January 2011, 05:04: Message edited by: Wesley J ]
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marmot
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Thankful in any case for her presence in this place and in my life.
God grant me her courage and strength of conviction.
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Eutychus
From the edge
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I swapped PMs many years ago with Erin after she mentioned she was worried about some test results she was waiting for (which ended up being all clear as far as I recall). It was about then that I came to appreciate there was a real and very human person beneath the persona. She will leave a big hole.
And on a wry note, I'm sure this typo quote: Services will be helled this Friday
would meet with her full approval!
[x-p with Wesley] [ 04. January 2011, 05:09: Message edited by: Eutychus ]
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Gill H
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One of her last posts was in response to my mock-apology for bringing record low temperatures to Florida recently. Lovely to think that we corresponded on the most British of topics, the weather and decent chocolate.
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